So he thinks he's a DJ 😏 Tell him to go to college for engineering before he starts claiming he's an audio engineer 😉 Which is what us real djs had to do
Right & nobody’s even giving him a curfew! I’m sure they couldn’t care less if he’s out til whenever. It’s about their family getting appropriate rest & sleep so they are able to function the next day because unlike him, they are actually working.
Good lord. I don’t understand these people AT ALL. I’ve worked my butt off since I was 16. My parents would never have allowed this. In fact, we just bought my father-in-laws house and he now lives with us because of his medical issues. Our parents raised us to be self sufficient. And now it’s time to return the favor.
Please always capitalize Lord out of Respect for Him May The All Powerful Holy Lord God Jesus Christ Bless you Richly in Every Way Possible Always... Thanks Peace ✝️🙏😇👋
I’ve also worked since I was 13, so hard my husband. Our parents would NEVER allow us to act this way. As adults now, with savings to give us a break, we can turn up or down how hard we want to work. But that wasn’t an option until we were adults, that’s the key here.
When that guy said that the grandfather wakes up every morning at 6 o’clock & he decides to do dishes while we’re sleeping in the living room. I mean, you could get up & wash dishes and then he wouldn’t have to wash them at six in the morning while you’re trying to sleep THEIR living room. 🤷🏼♀️
This isn’t about a bad economy or about multigenerational living (which I personally think is awesome!). This is about faith, morals, values, entitlement, laziness, work ethic, respect, honor, kindness, decency, purpose, world views, etc.
I also think multigenerational living is a wonderful arrangement, if all parties want it, and they all are contributing to the household in various ways. How awesome it could be for Grandma to live with her adult son or daughter, and maybe babysit the grandkid.
Multigenerational living is the tradition in South Asian families. It can be great or can go horribly wrong. Nowadays, many of us prefer living separately in the initial years and later living with parents when there are kids. BUT! The young ones (us) take care of the parents and they assist, the dynamics are completely different.
I say that all the time. I know it doesn't help, but I say it anyway. And I'll continue to say it. If you don't want children or can't support them DON'T GET PREGNANT!
I never expected to not work. There's no choice about it. You work. You take any job you can find, even if it might not be the one you want. You get your foot in the door, build up experience, have a good work record and build on it. It's being an adult in your life. My mom always said she would be there for her children and I knew I would have a home if needed. It was nice to know, but I never thought of it as an option.
My father left school during the depression and couldn't find a job so lied about his age and joined the army. Because he respected his brother he joined his regiment and of course his brother told the commander my dad's real age and he was expelled . He worked all his life and died before he was old enough to retire.
My 17 yo stopped going to school. Slept all day, partied at night. OK, you are out. I don't go to work and take care of a dead beat. He went to live with his brother 200 miles away. My husband was a long-haul truck driver & was gone for weeks. When he was home 3 weeks later at midnight, we get a drunk call from him begging to come home. My husband took him back in and stopped driving, opened our own business and that boy worked his butt off. Found a girl & have made a great life.
My husband is currently in between jobs, but he is still paying more than half the bills while I’m going to school full time and working. We live on our own STILL and he takes care of anything and everything around the house. We have no children and he’s patient and understanding. He cooks, he cleans, he looks after our pets, does the yard work, everything I could ask for to help me. There’s nothing wrong with being in between jobs, but you still have ‘work’ and be on your own. Be an adult and independent no matter what happens in your life.
Sell the couch, TV and video games. Run out of food. Keep nothing in the fridge to snack on. Drink tap water, no sodas ever. Let the dishes pile up. And STILL kick 'em out on Day 30!
@choochoo9506 you can't. It's an illegal eviction. The cops can let him right back on. Even without a lease or rent. AND the kid could sue for illegal eviction. Better to do it the legal way
I’m 27 and still live with my parents, but I still help around the house, work/finding a job, and clean up after myself. When I turned 18, my parents told me that I can stay as long as I need, all I needed to do was go to university or find a job. I went to University, and worked. It’s hard to find a job now and being Neurodivergent (I’m Autistic/ADHD) makes job finding much harder and they understand, but I still keep searching and applying, I even do Vocational Rehab.
I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I'm 30 and live with my mom and stepdad. I did go to college and get a bachelor's degree in animal science. I was planning on going onto vet school, but I had to quit because of my health. I have a very rare case of extremely severe asthma. Animals themselves don't bother it, but anything strenuous can, along with dust, cigarette smoke, strong smells like chemical cleaners and perfumes, air pollution, high humidity, extreme weather and temperature changes, etc. I've seen 3 specialists, and they've all said they've never seen a case as bad and severe as mine. I'm on 2 different injections. I recently switched pharmacies, and the pharmacist actually asked me if I'm taking both injections for the same condition or separate conditions. I said I'm taking both for severe asthma. Amd she said she's never seen another patient that needed more than one injection to control their symptoms...but then there's me 😂 I also take 3 inhalers and a pill every day. My injections are Dupixent every 2 weeks and Tezspire every 3 weeks. I was on both separately and they helped, but not enough. Together, it's been great. Anyways, I technically qualify for disability because of my asthma, but I chose to still work. My options are just limited. I'm currently a van/bus driver for a transportation company, and I take kids to and from school. It's something I can still do. So I do have a job, and I pay for the majority of my own food and necessities. I do all the dishes and help out around the house. I sometimes will go pick up my moms groceries along with my own. If my mom asks me to pick something up for her, i will never ask her to pay me back. I pay for any car repairs or maintenance my car needs. I give my mom money to cover my portion of utilities. My mom has never actually asked me to pay for anything, but I choose to do it out of respect for my parents and them allowing me to live in their home. To me, it's the right thing to do. My parents don't go places often, but when they do, I'm there to take care of their dogs. My mom has never once said that she doesn't want me there. I would be living in my car otherwise. Although I do work, there's no way I can afford to live anywhere by myself. I honestly don't know how anybody can right now. But it just amazes me that people think they can mooch off their parents just because it's their parents. As Dr phil said, even if you can't pay for anything, the least you could do is help out around the house with chores and stuff. I also don't have any children. I can barely afford myself. It would be irresponsible of me to bring a child into this world.
@@CrystalMalo You're all acting like kids ! Geeze !!! I left home at 17 and had a child . But never even thought that , moving back in with my parents . Made it !
Don’t worry about that! Lots of people in their 20s are still living at home these days with house prices & studying being so expensive and becoming independent is even more challenging when you’re not neurotypical. I’ve got 2 neurodiverse kids and I expect they’ll need help and support for longer than most kids and that’s no problem at all 😊
I was living at home til my parents passed away. I was 43 when they passed. I took care of my parents and they helped me raise my son. I'm also on the Autism spectrum. It's called Aspergers Syndrome. I helped around the house and the property even when they didn't ask me to. Living with the parents is better than being on the streets
As a woman, I believe it is both parents 100% responsibility to take care of their family. It feels like everyone is expecting the father to carry more than the mother. The baby mother herself is lazy in this case. Both need to go out and live on the street if that is what they afford. The whole family sound weird and messed up.
I am glad Dr Phil finally pointed out Mom also needed to get a paying job. If one paycheck isn't enough everyone has to pitch in. Mom has to accept she chose a man who is either unable or unwilling to provide the white picket fence, stay at home Mommy lifestyle she expected and participate in making a home for her child. .
@@Ann-sj4pt Yes I watched the video. I just appreciated that Dr. Phil pointed out that it is an obligation not a "Oh gee to be extra nice I will get a job but it isn't really my responsibility" situation. She needs to get and stick with a job, having three jobs with the longest being three months is not going to sustain her child. I truly understand the disappointment of being a new mother and wanting to stay home with the little one. Unfortunately, our circumstances don't always allow for that. Without that observation Amanda might be looking at this situation as only a short term solution not her, mostly likely long term, reality. Yes, she is starting another job but based on her attitude and the multiple job history it appears she has not accepted that this is not a temporary situation but most likely her life unless her husband finds a way to overcome his victimhood ideation. Even if he does it will take some time, many months or years most likely for him to make traction. It is really sad that this couple did not have these type of discussions prior to having a child. It sounds as if the husband is personable but definitely has some big issues he needs to deal with to be the best he can be. I do hope these two were able to overcome their situation, I don't think they are bad people just immature.
She needs to find a job and daycare. She picked a man that was an underachiever or she needs to divorce! She’s not doing her job at home either if mom is taking care of the baby! The fact that the mom say she loves him like one of her sons after they said he’s hit her! On top of being lazy! Wtf!
I lived with my parents 'til they passed away. I took care of them, too. They also helped me raise my son. If you can't afford to live on your own, living with your parents is the best thing than living on the streets.
As a 23 yr Old who lives at home it's hard to afford a place on your own. I pay rent ect. Work 45 + hrs. There's a difference between being a mooch and the economy being terrible.
Agreed. I am 35 and my daughter and I moved back into my mother’s home due to the cost of living. I was working a minimum of 40 hours a week (many weeks I was working 8-16 hours of overtime also) and was barely making enough to survive when my daughter and I had our own apartment. Plus, I felt like I was missing out on time with my daughter since many of my shifts would be scheduled for the evening after she was home from school. I am grateful that we were able to move in with family and make sure my mom knows that by contributing both financially and by doing what needs to be done around the house. I pay rent, contribute $550 towards groceries monthly, and have daily cleaning/laundry responsibilities that I am responsible for on top of my responsibilities as a mother. The fact that they are acting like this is disgusting.
My daughter moved out with someone else at the age of 27, worked full time but there's no way she could of afforded even a 1 bedroom, utilities, insurance, car, car insurance, food etc. It's a differnt world
@@prettylillette1352Good for you, young one, I'm sure mom is glad you are with her, too. I lived with my mom and was able to pay her back by taking care of her for 15 years when she was ill. She was my best friend and I miss her so much. Savor every moment with your loved ones for you never know when the last day will be 😢 🙏🏼
I'm my own provider and provide for my husband. I always see W in comment section praise their husband for the bare minimum: but you'll never see it from M even though plenty of W provide & slave away for them.
Or it’s taking advantage of kindness,and they keep pushing the boundaries.This has happened to me a lot.When you try to set boundaries you always get backlash 😩
My mother treated me as an unpaid laundry service, cleaning service, yard service, cook, and bottle washer. I'm had to cook meals to be served at 6pm even if I had to be at work st 5pm. And there were four people in the house besides me. I could not wait to get out. And when I went back to visit my folks, my mother figured that if she delivered orders, I would carry them out. She learned how far that would get her the hard way.
I kept thinking what if this guy uno reversed her and said “I want to stay home with the baby and you work”?? Her head would spin. They both need to get a job if they only have 30 days. How does she think single mothers survive?! You chose a lazy man to have a baby with, get up and do something for your baby if he’s not going to!
Oh my God Greg is my ex-husband. I kept waiting for them to call his name, Joel!!! Because he is my ex-husband up one side and down the other, he had probably 70 jobs in the first couple years that we were married. He would get one job and keep it for a couple days and quit. Every time I got a job he would come around and get me fired!! by just hanging around my job. It was so embarrassing!!
Congrats on him being your ex at least!! I’m sure it still stings knowing you were at one point in love with a mess…but you made the right move to free yourself! So I truly mean congratulations! It’s scary when we can see our (current or past) family members on this show😅 I send too many episodes to my sister so we can take a deep breath knowing we aren’t alone😂
This mother deserves what she gets! She has an attitude with Dr Phil! Talk about sarcastic and pouting! Just kick the son in law out and she’ll wake up!
I'm 32,youngest of 3, and live with my mom but I literally work from 9am to 8pm with my mom and helping pay the rent AND am looking for a 2nd job to do on the side in hopes to be able to give my mom more peace of mind. how do these people just sit there and do nothing 🤦♀️🤦♀️
My husband has adhd, he got a job as an auto reconditioned. He’s been doing that job for over 30 years, we own our own home because of him working hard. When a person has adhd, they are super hyper. That kid is liar.
27:05 Man, me too, bro!!! I despise working and would much rather be at home watching vids with my doggos. I HATE mornings!!! Especially Monday mornings but guess what?! I STILL HAVE TO WORK, AND I WORK 12-14 HOURS EVERY DAY EXCEPT FOR SATURDAY... Stay in school, kids, because if i made 25 an hour, i could simply work a 40 hour week but unfortunately I make a measly 13 an hour, so therefore I HAVE to have 2 full time jobs in order to have the things we need and want.
I got fired from a job I worked at for a long time.. my husband COULD support the both of us but I don’t ever want that… I didn’t even go home after I got fired I went and got another job the same day…
I’m a felon and have no issues getting jobs having a home and car a good life, you start at the bottom flipping burgers to support your family then apply other places get some certifications and move up in life
My son and daughter in law are both 28 yrs old and have three children and have been living in their own home since they were 21 yrs old and maintain their own family
Exactly! That's what my house hold does. That way, we never needed a sitter or daycare. Sometimes, we need to give a little bit in order to get a lot. These two are pathetic. And the parents aren't much better.
I'm a truck driver and I got off the rust for a while. I didn't just sit around doing nothing. I got my butt a job at Pizza Hut and I am a manager there. I dint Mahe what I did as a driver, but I work. Dude needs to just get a job where he can. He messed up and got arrested. Now he is realizing the consequences of his actions.
He works days, she works evenings. One is there to care for baby and do housework. My husband and I always did this, our kids were home except a sitter a few hrs a day when I left for 3 to 11 shift and he got home by 5 30. Some employers get incentive from the government to hire excons.
Or - she can get a job and let him take care of their new place to live and his child. Either way - they both need to step up. I feel bad for the child.
Plenty of cultures have adults living with parents. My partner is Indian. His parents live 1/2 the year with us. He lived at home for years but isn’t a loser. He is an engineer. It’s cultural
Back in '98 I moved to the FL keys from Oregon, and had to assure multiple people we did not all have 4WD to get around. That, in fact, I had never ridden a horse.
Oh no , I'm 63 and this just gives me anxiety , put him out of your house , he can live with his own momma without working and get a home for his wife and son and bring them there after getting everything ready for them , sounds like her momma is afraid that he will injure her daughter if they live by themselves
@@Classyslimes I know a lot of people who smoke weed. They all have jobs requiring a high level of responsibility. Not a single one would or has ever considered committing a Felony crime. As a CO, I have no use for any CO who crosses that line.
Science used to believe that the number one contribution to weight was basically this calorie counter. Those who eat too much junk food and don't exercise are overweight and those who eat right and exercise regularly are thin and look healthy. Science still believes that what we eat and how much we exercise is definitely a FACTOR in our weight, but actually the number one contributor to our weight is CORTISOL LEVELS. This becomes an extra problem because high cortisol levels can lead someone to shut down and crave junk food and also not want to exercise, so basically cortisol levels can contribute to the other two factors as well. Why do I bring this up? Because the idea that someone who is overweight is "clearly not missing a meal or getting much exercise" is not true. It COULD be true, but it isn't guaranteed. In this case, we know the whole story, so it is likely true that they aren't missing any meals BECAUSE WE KNOW MOM IS PROVIDING THOSE MEALS. But there are plenty of people who are overweight who actually are missing meals. The few meals they can afford are extremely unhealthy because THEY CAN'T AFFORD HEALTHY FOOD. They also can't afford a gym membership or gym clothes, and if they are working two jobs to try to survive and are also say a singe mother trying to care for kids when not at work who is struggling to find childcare during work certainly is not going to be able to find childcare to exercise. Some would immediately respond to this with, "Well, she shouldn't have gotten pregnant outside of marriage." But what if she is a widow? What if, like one of my close friends, she is not only a widow, but both of her parents died over a decade ago, she has no siblings, and her in-laws didn't approve of the marriage and are now trying to take all of her possessions in court because they claim she brainwashed their son and they deserve all of his estate , and they are also trying to include all of the possessions SHE brought to the marriage in HIS estate? Or what if she married a guy she thought was a good guy, partly because she was under huge pressure from her religious parents to get married, and after she had a kid she finally understood that she was in a horribly abusive relationship and she ran from the relationship to save her own life and the life or her child? Although this particular criticism MIGHT have some merit with this particular couple, I am sick and tired of judgmental people first of all perpetuating the myth that comes from old science that has actually been somewhat debunked as if it is still legitimate. Science found a correlation between exercise and eating and weight and assumed a causal relationship, but once again cortisol is actually the biggest cause, and technically science may even have the causal relationship on that reversed. In other words, fat people are more likely to eat junk food and not exercise because of the fat, which starts out by being caused by stress, rather than people who eat junk food and don't exercise are more likely to be fat because of what they eat and the lack of exercise. Once again, there still is somewhat of a causal relationship both ways. And it's also true that it's a vicious cycle, because eating right and exercising can sometimes decrease cortisol levels, and not exercising and eating junk food can sometimes increase cortisol levels. And dopamine definitely plays a role in all of this as well. But the number of times I have seen a "skinny" or "healthy" person judging a "fat" or "unhealthy" person for their weight who have actually sat down and tracked what they eat only to find out that the "healthy" person was actually eating more than the "unhealthy" person has blown my mind. The number of times I have heard stories such as, "My sister is overweight. She sprained her ankle while RUNNING A MARATHON, and when she went to the doctor the doctor refused to treat her ankle and instead made her talk to a specialist about her weight who gave her a pamphlet about WALKING EVERY DAY," also blows my mind. I know several people who are overweight who regularly engage in extreme sports, but because many doctors still believe old myths about weight they never believe that the person eats right and exercises even when they are often in the doctor's office specifically because of injuries from their exercise. Don't get me wrong, there's even more than just cortisol that contributes to weight. Genetics and metabolism play a HUGE part. And I have definitely known people who have weight problems because of a damaged thyroid or other health problems. If after controlling for genetics and metabolism and cortisol levels and health problems such as thyroid problems and brain damage and problems producing or retaining or processing neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin a person is still overweight, it is possible that they are just choosing to be lazy and are not eating right and are not exercising. But those are a TON of factors to consider first, and even in the case of these two I don't believe these other possible contributing factors have been properly considered.
@@hollybigelow5337 Cortisol levels are triggered by... food choices. And a sedentary way of life makes it even worse. The highest metabolism is found in very muscular people and morbidly obese ones (they burn huge amounts of calories just by doing very little because of their huge weight and they eat so much that it becomes a vicious cycle) and the lowest belongs to anorexic people because the body shuts down in survival mode. Genetics ? You must be joking ! Look at the moocher's sister : she's just fine, no weight issues at all. But she belongs to the same family, so she should be fat, but no. You know why ? She's not lazy, she has a job, she cooks, she takes care of herself and of her family. By the way, you should study the correlation between moochers and thyroid damages, it would be just awesome🤣
One of the big reasons I allow my 1 niece & her family to move in my house there was a 2 1/2-year-old involved & I was not going to have that little girl living on the streets
my husband and i got 16 acres for one day our son can build his own home without having to get a loan; however, he would have to have his own well drilled and have everything for his own home. yeah we started a business for our son but it's so that he doesnt have to get a student loan instead he could go to a trade school and get training and be on his own without occurring debt. I'd rather our son learn about being self sufficient and understanding there is no easy way out. set your child to excel without handing them the easy way out. you gotta be a parent first be a friend later in life
For Pete's sake, parents, don't enable bad behavior in your children! If you enable them when they're young, they end up with one of these deadbeat personalities who wants to blame everyone else for their problems. One of Jordan Petersons 12 Rules for Life: Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them." In other words, start holding them to a standard of behavior when they're young so that one day they can stand on their own as productive adults.
JP spent most of his life on drugs and sleeping. Athletes get tested in competition for drugs, so should University students. JPs wife is verbally abusive to them. His daughter stayed in an abusive relationship because of his standards. He laughed at people making money online for him and doesn't acknowledge them, he is all about money. Shooting animals and leaving them screaming in pain until death, whilst young daughter in car crying due to the animals screaming in pain.
I keep meaning to get that book. It is so true! Don't let your kids put you in a place where you don't even like them or don't even want to deal with them.
The stepdad wasn't on stage and the look on his face was one of feeling responsibility for family and knowing his wife will never hold them accountable or allow HIM to hold them accountable. He is so ready to be done with it all.
The mother in law, got real sensitive with Dr. Phil😮 She makes excuses for her children. This young man is not a honorable person. Selling drugs in prison. Will not go out a get a job. Belittle his wife. Praying they all got it together.😊🙏
The entitlement is unbelievable. They are both lazy. If you can’t afford to have a baby, wait until you can. They are not married because then they wouldn’t qualify for government benefits. They both need to get jobs!
Its a lot easier for phil and others his age &up to say once you're 18 you move out..... but 2024 life is alot different.... unless you got lucky in life, no one can get a place Alone
As long as adult "kids" contribute to the household and are respectful, I could understand parents letting them stay. But if they aren't contributing financially, or helping care for the home, and aren't being respectful... then they need to get out. Also, if people can't afford to live on their own and be adults, then they shouldn't be getting married because they can't afford it.
Wow, the difference between the two sisters is quite staggering when you look at them! I would never let my daughter with a useless husband who wasn’t providing move into my home. If I wasn’t working, I might take the baby and make them move out and get their sh*t together…. and if they didn’t, and I could no longer look after the child, I would be calling child protective services. But I would never allow myself to be blackmailed into having 2 entitled useless people ruin my life at an age where I should be done with all of this stuff. My son always had to pay his way even when he was renting my apartment. Now he’s a very strong, self-sufficient Christian man with a Masters in Mathematics & teaching at a private school.
I live with someone. I'd be homeless without them. They have a lot of ways that might grind on me because I'm so used to something different, but damn if I don't reel myself in and remind myself without their help I wouldn't be able to get towards my own. I don't dare disrespect them, that's just wrong. They ask me to do something, change something I hadn't noticed was so troublesome, what ever, I do it. I'm thankful for them. I'd never disrespect them.
@@pmc8119Yes, but her huisband can take care of the child and her mother does in fact take care of het grandschild. It wolf be easier for her to get a job since die doesn't have a criminal record.
I’d give her some grace IF she actually took care of her baby while she’s on mat leave. If she she insists that her mom raises the baby, she should be working as well.
The husband acts mentally....delayed.... Also, I just love these people who can't seem to muster the energy to move their lips and speak clearly. Just makes him all the more mentally....delayed. Oooooo....! A whole 3 months! Wow lady, you're really takin off!
When my husband was invetween jobs , hes a highly skilled audio engineer, he got a night job cleaning supermarkets. Proud wife right here!!!❤
That’s a man!
So he thinks he's a DJ 😏
Tell him to go to college for engineering before he starts claiming he's an audio engineer 😉
Which is what us real djs had to do
“ I’m an adult. I don’t need a curfew.” well then do what other adults do and move out so you don’t have to follow someone else’s rules.
Change the locks. Now, ok?
He is not an adult!!! If he lives in their home...he needs to follow their rules. He is dense!!
@@tinastegemann7303zzz
Well said!
Right & nobody’s even giving him a curfew! I’m sure they couldn’t care less if he’s out til whenever. It’s about their family getting appropriate rest & sleep so they are able to function the next day because unlike him, they are actually working.
Good lord. I don’t understand these people AT ALL. I’ve worked my butt off since I was 16. My parents would never have allowed this. In fact, we just bought my father-in-laws house and he now lives with us because of his medical issues. Our parents raised us to be self sufficient. And now it’s time to return the favor.
So agree
Please always capitalize Lord out of Respect for Him May The All Powerful Holy Lord God Jesus Christ Bless you Richly in Every Way Possible Always... Thanks Peace ✝️🙏😇👋
I’ve also worked since I was 13, so hard my husband. Our parents would NEVER allow us to act this way. As adults now, with savings to give us a break, we can turn up or down how hard we want to work. But that wasn’t an option until we were adults, that’s the key here.
@@monicadhaliwal1791 google the word " tetragrammaton " out of respect for the only true God. Creator of the Universe. Sovereign God of the Universe.
Two losers make a baby. What can go wrong? 🤷♀️🙄
Bringing up a third loser.
@@marlenegreyling8620lmao 😂😂😂
Exactly my thoughts. Just two pudges laying around.
This
Story of Americans' lives🙄🙄🙄
When that guy said that the grandfather wakes up every morning at 6 o’clock & he decides to do dishes while we’re sleeping in the living room. I mean, you could get up & wash dishes and then he wouldn’t have to wash them at six in the morning while you’re trying to sleep THEIR living room. 🤷🏼♀️
....🤔 wash 'em before you go to bed 😮....
I'd make sure I was vacuuming at 6 a.m.
😂😂😂@@mcadoovicky6465
Such entitlement get your own house pay your own bills. Grow up. Why is he smiling.
The parents have the bed on the livingroom floor.
This isn’t about a bad economy or about multigenerational living (which I personally think is awesome!). This is about faith, morals, values, entitlement, laziness, work ethic, respect, honor, kindness, decency, purpose, world views, etc.
I also think multigenerational living is a wonderful arrangement, if all parties want it, and they all are contributing to the household in various ways. How awesome it could be for Grandma to live with her adult son or daughter, and maybe babysit the grandkid.
Multigenerational living is the tradition in South Asian families. It can be great or can go horribly wrong. Nowadays, many of us prefer living separately in the initial years and later living with parents when there are kids. BUT! The young ones (us) take care of the parents and they assist, the dynamics are completely different.
Do what you want people… but don’t have children if you can’t even support yourself!
I say that all the time. I know it doesn't help, but I say it anyway. And I'll continue to say it.
If you don't want children or can't support them DON'T GET PREGNANT!
I never expected to not work. There's no choice about it. You work. You take any job you can find, even if it might not be the one you want. You get your foot in the door, build up experience, have a good work record and build on it. It's being an adult in your life. My mom always said she would be there for her children and I knew I would have a home if needed. It was nice to know, but I never thought of it as an option.
My father left school during the depression and couldn't find a job so lied about his age and joined the army. Because he respected his brother he joined his regiment and of course his brother told the commander my dad's real age and he was expelled . He worked all his life and died before he was old enough to retire.
Especially when u have kids!! U are no longer just responsible for u .. u have to take care of your kids! They always come first!
If you don't like being awakened at 6am by someone washing dishes then make sure the dishes are washed and put up before you go to bed.
My 17 yo stopped going to school. Slept all day, partied at night. OK, you are out. I don't go to work and take care of a dead beat. He went to live with his brother 200 miles away. My husband was a long-haul truck driver & was gone for weeks. When he was home 3 weeks later at midnight, we get a drunk call from him begging to come home. My husband took him back in and stopped driving, opened our own business and that boy worked his butt off. Found a girl & have made a great life.
My husband is currently in between jobs, but he is still paying more than half the bills while I’m going to school full time and working.
We live on our own STILL and he takes care of anything and everything around the house.
We have no children and he’s patient and understanding.
He cooks, he cleans, he looks after our pets, does the yard work, everything I could ask for to help me.
There’s nothing wrong with being in between jobs, but you still have ‘work’ and be on your own.
Be an adult and independent no matter what happens in your life.
Sell the couch, TV and video games. Run out of food. Keep nothing in the fridge to snack on. Drink tap water, no sodas ever. Let the dishes pile up. And STILL kick 'em out on Day 30!
Or just change the locks.
@choochoo9506 you can't. It's an illegal eviction. The cops can let him right back on. Even without a lease or rent. AND the kid could sue for illegal eviction. Better to do it the legal way
That means that the parents would suffer along with them .
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@@MariValdivia-z5ryes, they would suffer for ONE month instead of for the rest of their lives.
I’m 27 and still live with my parents, but I still help around the house, work/finding a job, and clean up after myself. When I turned 18, my parents told me that I can stay as long as I need, all I needed to do was go to university or find a job. I went to University, and worked. It’s hard to find a job now and being Neurodivergent (I’m Autistic/ADHD) makes job finding much harder and they understand, but I still keep searching and applying, I even do Vocational Rehab.
I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I'm 30 and live with my mom and stepdad. I did go to college and get a bachelor's degree in animal science. I was planning on going onto vet school, but I had to quit because of my health. I have a very rare case of extremely severe asthma. Animals themselves don't bother it, but anything strenuous can, along with dust, cigarette smoke, strong smells like chemical cleaners and perfumes, air pollution, high humidity, extreme weather and temperature changes, etc. I've seen 3 specialists, and they've all said they've never seen a case as bad and severe as mine. I'm on 2 different injections. I recently switched pharmacies, and the pharmacist actually asked me if I'm taking both injections for the same condition or separate conditions. I said I'm taking both for severe asthma. Amd she said she's never seen another patient that needed more than one injection to control their symptoms...but then there's me 😂 I also take 3 inhalers and a pill every day. My injections are Dupixent every 2 weeks and Tezspire every 3 weeks. I was on both separately and they helped, but not enough. Together, it's been great. Anyways, I technically qualify for disability because of my asthma, but I chose to still work. My options are just limited. I'm currently a van/bus driver for a transportation company, and I take kids to and from school. It's something I can still do. So I do have a job, and I pay for the majority of my own food and necessities. I do all the dishes and help out around the house. I sometimes will go pick up my moms groceries along with my own. If my mom asks me to pick something up for her, i will never ask her to pay me back. I pay for any car repairs or maintenance my car needs. I give my mom money to cover my portion of utilities. My mom has never actually asked me to pay for anything, but I choose to do it out of respect for my parents and them allowing me to live in their home. To me, it's the right thing to do. My parents don't go places often, but when they do, I'm there to take care of their dogs. My mom has never once said that she doesn't want me there. I would be living in my car otherwise. Although I do work, there's no way I can afford to live anywhere by myself. I honestly don't know how anybody can right now. But it just amazes me that people think they can mooch off their parents just because it's their parents. As Dr phil said, even if you can't pay for anything, the least you could do is help out around the house with chores and stuff. I also don't have any children. I can barely afford myself. It would be irresponsible of me to bring a child into this world.
Get out ! You're both acting like you're victims ! He's a LOOSER AND WILL ALWAYS BE ! GET REAL LADY !!!!!
@@CrystalMalo You're all acting like kids ! Geeze !!! I left home at 17 and had a child . But never even thought that , moving back in with my parents . Made it !
Don’t worry about that! Lots of people in their 20s are still living at home these days with house prices & studying being so expensive and becoming independent is even more challenging when you’re not neurotypical. I’ve got 2 neurodiverse kids and I expect they’ll need help and support for longer than most kids and that’s no problem at all 😊
I was living at home til my parents passed away. I was 43 when they passed. I took care of my parents and they helped me raise my son. I'm also on the Autism spectrum. It's called Aspergers Syndrome. I helped around the house and the property even when they didn't ask me to. Living with the parents is better than being on the streets
As a woman, I believe it is both parents 100% responsibility to take care of their family. It feels like everyone is expecting the father to carry more than the mother. The baby mother herself is lazy in this case. Both need to go out and live on the street if that is what they afford. The whole family sound weird and messed up.
I am glad Dr Phil finally pointed out Mom also needed to get a paying job. If one paycheck isn't enough everyone has to pitch in. Mom has to accept she chose a man who is either unable or unwilling to provide the white picket fence, stay at home Mommy lifestyle she expected and participate in making a home for her child.
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@@rustynails8756did you watch the video? She’s starting a job.
@@Ann-sj4pt Yes I watched the video. I just appreciated that Dr. Phil pointed out that it is an obligation not a "Oh gee to be extra nice I will get a job but it isn't really my responsibility" situation. She needs to get and stick with a job, having three jobs with the longest being three months is not going to sustain her child. I truly understand the disappointment of being a new mother and wanting to stay home with the little one. Unfortunately, our circumstances don't always allow for that. Without that observation Amanda might be looking at this situation as only a short term solution not her, mostly likely long term, reality. Yes, she is starting another job but based on her attitude and the multiple job history it appears she has not accepted that this is not a temporary situation but most likely her life unless her husband finds a way to overcome his victimhood ideation. Even if he does it will take some time, many months or years most likely for him to make traction. It is really sad that this couple did not have these type of discussions prior to having a child. It sounds as if the husband is personable but definitely has some big issues he needs to deal with to be the best he can be. I do hope these two were able to overcome their situation, I don't think they are bad people just immature.
@ thank you for your post,i appreciate what you have said,and it shows a great depth of understanding.
The advice Dr. Phil gave in this episode was PEAK actually.
She needs to find a job and daycare. She picked a man that was an underachiever or she needs to divorce! She’s not doing her job at home either if mom is taking care of the baby!
The fact that the mom say she loves him like one of her sons after they said he’s hit her! On top of being lazy! Wtf!
Parentel delinquentcy! Shame.
Spoil brats. Want everything easy. So why worry. It comes to them all they require. But survive on nothing...
Oh son in law? I got to rewatch
I lived with my parents 'til they passed away. I took care of them, too. They also helped me raise my son. If you can't afford to live on your own, living with your parents is the best thing than living on the streets.
same. i was working the night my mom suddenly died. i cant just around
As a 23 yr Old who lives at home it's hard to afford a place on your own. I pay rent ect. Work 45 + hrs. There's a difference between being a mooch and the economy being terrible.
Yeah I get that but this dude's a mooch
Well in many cultures kids stay at home even after 18
Agreed. I am 35 and my daughter and I moved back into my mother’s home due to the cost of living. I was working a minimum of 40 hours a week (many weeks I was working 8-16 hours of overtime also) and was barely making enough to survive when my daughter and I had our own apartment. Plus, I felt like I was missing out on time with my daughter since many of my shifts would be scheduled for the evening after she was home from school. I am grateful that we were able to move in with family and make sure my mom knows that by contributing both financially and by doing what needs to be done around the house. I pay rent, contribute $550 towards groceries monthly, and have daily cleaning/laundry responsibilities that I am responsible for on top of my responsibilities as a mother. The fact that they are acting like this is disgusting.
My daughter moved out with someone else at the age of 27, worked full time but there's no way she could of afforded even a 1 bedroom, utilities, insurance, car, car insurance, food etc. It's a differnt world
@@prettylillette1352Good for you, young one, I'm sure mom is glad you are with her, too. I lived with my mom and was able to pay her back by taking care of her for 15 years when she was ill. She was my best friend and I miss her so much. Savor every moment with your loved ones for you never know when the last day will be 😢 🙏🏼
I’m so blessed to have my husband. He is the best provider and I couldn’t ask for anyone better ❤
I'm my own provider and provide for my husband. I always see W in comment section praise their husband for the bare minimum: but you'll never see it from M even though plenty of W provide & slave away for them.
@@FocusedFighter777You sound angry about it
The mom has to be able to say NO. Her son in law. Is a spoiled brat
Her daughter is aswell
This is what taking advantage of people pleasers looks like. Set clear boundaries and enforce them.
Or it’s taking advantage of kindness,and they keep pushing the boundaries.This has happened to me a lot.When you try to set boundaries you always get backlash 😩
My mother treated me as an unpaid laundry service, cleaning service, yard service, cook, and bottle washer. I'm had to cook meals to be served at 6pm even if I had to be at work st 5pm. And there were four people in the house besides me. I could not wait to get out. And when I went back to visit my folks, my mother figured that if she delivered orders, I would carry them out. She learned how far that would get her the hard way.
So in other words she did a great job in making you appreciate to live by yourself.
Wonder what that hard way was.Glad you escaped ❤
I'm trying to find that one brain cell floating around in his head it must be hiding 😂😂😂
Bet you didn't find it 😊
I feel bad for him. Wish Dr. Phil could have addressed his adhd…
Yes, in all the fog in his brain.
@@vanessagarcia4559Always an excuse! 🤔🤷♀️
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Why is the baby in daycare if he's home all day? What a waste of money.
Because he's a lazy tool
Exactly, wtf
He is too lazy to watch his own baby that why 😭
@@Dark-cat420 his azz would be out the door!
The mother said she doesn’t trust him!!
I wouldn’t either 😢
Omg the son in law is so entitled and ungrateful
His attitude is like a 13-yr-old boy....
"It's our roof too!" NO... no, it is not.
How did this guy motivate himself to have a child😂
I'm sure he just laid there and let her do all the work like he always does 😂
She was on top of
@@aquarius_bb6658 Haha!!
She says he should get a job so she can look after the baby and home, but she's not doing that now!
I kept thinking what if this guy uno reversed her and said “I want to stay home with the baby and you work”?? Her head would spin. They both need to get a job if they only have 30 days. How does she think single mothers survive?! You chose a lazy man to have a baby with, get up and do something for your baby if he’s not going to!
Oh my God Greg is my ex-husband. I kept waiting for them to call his name, Joel!!! Because he is my ex-husband up one side and down the other, he had probably 70 jobs in the first couple years that we were married. He would get one job and keep it for a couple days and quit. Every time I got a job he would come around and get me fired!! by just hanging around my job. It was so embarrassing!!
You had a lucky escape! ❤
Congrats on him being your ex at least!! I’m sure it still stings knowing you were at one point in love with a mess…but you made the right move to free yourself! So I truly mean congratulations!
It’s scary when we can see our (current or past) family members on this show😅
I send too many episodes to my sister so we can take a deep breath knowing we aren’t alone😂
Yeah. He is a younger version of my ex.... I don't know....makes me cringe.
When McDonald's is hiring in Ohio for $15 an hour there's no excuse!!!
This is a very old episode, but still!
@@julieandrews1193 I see.
Daughter could work in daycare and bring her son.
@@katconlin2855 then she couldn’t use her child as an excuse.
. . . $15 an hour. You think $15 is enough for 2 adults and a baby to live? Are you eating meth for breakfast perhaps?
I’m a retired flight paramedic/vet who is not above flipping burgers to keep a roof over my family’s head.
ANY adult living OFF their parents, should be embarrassed…🤦🏽♀️
Oh that guy is something else. The pair of them are absolute ick
Grandma is weird too....
The problem isn't so much they are living with the parents. Its that they are entitled, lazy and treat the parents like garbage and disrespect
This mother deserves what she gets! She has an attitude with Dr Phil! Talk about sarcastic and pouting! Just kick the son in law out and she’ll wake up!
There is nothing wrong with living with family, but it has to be equitable. Financially, emotionally, physically.
I'm 32,youngest of 3, and live with my mom but I literally work from 9am to 8pm with my mom and helping pay the rent AND am looking for a 2nd job to do on the side in hopes to be able to give my mom more peace of mind. how do these people just sit there and do nothing 🤦♀️🤦♀️
The mom needs to work also. The grandma already takes care of the kids. She's just faking taking care of the house.
My husband has adhd, he got a job as an auto reconditioned. He’s been doing that job for over 30 years, we own our own home because of him working hard. When a person has adhd, they are super hyper. That kid is liar.
Not necessarily my son has adhd and he is the opposite
Add and adhd are two different things, fyi.
27:05 Man, me too, bro!!! I despise working and would much rather be at home watching vids with my doggos. I HATE mornings!!! Especially Monday mornings but guess what?! I STILL HAVE TO WORK, AND I WORK 12-14 HOURS EVERY DAY EXCEPT FOR SATURDAY... Stay in school, kids, because if i made 25 an hour, i could simply work a 40 hour week but unfortunately I make a measly 13 an hour, so therefore I HAVE to have 2 full time jobs in order to have the things we need and want.
I've worked 2 full time jobs at one point. Without transportation, I was on the city bus.
"You need to get a job" that kind of sums it up.
Geez! Do these people live near an Amazon, Target, or WalMart? Most start at $15/hr, and have really good benefits.
If he’s not a morning person he needs to work nights. So many places like hospitals hire and pay well
I got fired from a job I worked at for a long time.. my husband COULD support the both of us but I don’t ever want that… I didn’t even go home after I got fired I went and got another job the same day…
Mike isn't an adult. His a little child in a man's body
He sure look like a baby too 😮
And entitled.
@@hekate1971 very much so
Scary this baby of man was a corrections officer.
and smuggled drugs into the prison, got a felony conviction. what a winner he is.
@@nikiryan8648 Ironically, to make more $. And ended up losing his job, which I am sure was more than $8/hr.
And criminal
@@nikiryan8648I recon the inmates thought he was a good worker!😂 for them!!
How long did he last in that job? One day?
I’m a felon and have no issues getting jobs having a home and car a good life, you start at the bottom flipping burgers to support your family then apply other places get some certifications and move up in life
My son and daughter in law are both 28 yrs old and have three children and have been living in their own home since they were 21 yrs old and maintain their own family
They both need a job. One at swing and one at day. Im a woman married over 50yrs.
Exactly! That's what my house hold does. That way, we never needed a sitter or daycare. Sometimes, we need to give a little bit in order to get a lot. These two are pathetic. And the parents aren't much better.
I'm a truck driver and I got off the rust for a while. I didn't just sit around doing nothing. I got my butt a job at Pizza Hut and I am a manager there. I dint Mahe what I did as a driver, but I work. Dude needs to just get a job where he can. He messed up and got arrested. Now he is realizing the consequences of his actions.
He works days, she works evenings. One is there to care for baby and do housework. My husband and I always did this, our kids were home except a sitter a few hrs a day when I left for 3 to 11 shift and he got home by 5 30. Some employers get incentive from the government to hire excons.
My husband and I did the exact same thing when our kids were little! It worked really well except we rarely got to see each other!
That's how my parents did it. Just sounds like they're both making excuses to not work.
i’m 21 and i work 10hr days 5am-3pm 4-5 days a week. these people just don’t want to work. this is where my taxes are going??
Lol
Yep!
Yeah, I don't get this $8/hour talk....
Good call Dr P this guy is sullen, lazy and ridiculous. Lives off his in-laws but has no gratitude
She’s using the baby as an excuse to not work! Gross!
The baby she neglects and ignores while Gramma takes care of him, cleans and cooks. 😊
They are irresponsible, irrational and ignorant!!! They need to GROW UP!!
The wife needs to get out of this. He is an abusive lover with no ambition. Show him the door!
How did one sister end up intelligent and the other sister the complete opposite of that?
Or - she can get a job and let him take care of their new place to live and his child. Either way - they both need to step up. I feel bad for the child.
Plenty of cultures have adults living with parents. My partner is Indian. His parents live 1/2 the year with us. He lived at home for years but isn’t a loser. He is an engineer. It’s cultural
Hey I just wanna say thanks for saying Anchorage right...and I assure you we have cars in Alaska 😂
Back in '98 I moved to the FL keys from Oregon, and had to assure multiple people we did not all have 4WD to get around. That, in fact, I had never ridden a horse.
I think she more meant whatever they have for transportation because they won't work and likely won't have a car lol
Oh no , I'm 63 and this just gives me anxiety , put him out of your house , he can live with his own momma without working and get a home for his wife and son and bring them there after getting everything ready for them , sounds like her momma is afraid that he will injure her daughter if they live by themselves
THE BABY SLEEPS IN THE GRANDPARENTS ROOM and she STILL says "I take care of my son!" SHE'S MAKING ME SO MAD
Omfg lol someone please hold me! He doesn’t like mornings, he doesn’t like working…. 🤯😂 what a poor little baby bird… 😂😂😂
Doctor Phil is so awesome and more then fair .
Dr phil's face at 22:06 looks like he's completely disgusted
The husband is not all there.......but can work
The husband is a criminal. He took contraband (drugs) into a Correctional Facility. That's a Felony. He would be out of my house immediately.
I think he just smoked his brain away.
@@Classyslimes I know a lot of people who smoke weed. They all have jobs requiring a high level of responsibility. Not a single one would or has ever considered committing a Felony crime.
As a CO, I have no use for any CO who crosses that line.
Sounds like my kids. Both 40+. Problem solved....I moved 3,000 miles away. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Buuhhhhaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol, good for you !
Look how heavy these two are! They aren’t missing meal or getting much exercise. This is so sad.
Science used to believe that the number one contribution to weight was basically this calorie counter. Those who eat too much junk food and don't exercise are overweight and those who eat right and exercise regularly are thin and look healthy. Science still believes that what we eat and how much we exercise is definitely a FACTOR in our weight, but actually the number one contributor to our weight is CORTISOL LEVELS. This becomes an extra problem because high cortisol levels can lead someone to shut down and crave junk food and also not want to exercise, so basically cortisol levels can contribute to the other two factors as well.
Why do I bring this up? Because the idea that someone who is overweight is "clearly not missing a meal or getting much exercise" is not true. It COULD be true, but it isn't guaranteed. In this case, we know the whole story, so it is likely true that they aren't missing any meals BECAUSE WE KNOW MOM IS PROVIDING THOSE MEALS. But there are plenty of people who are overweight who actually are missing meals. The few meals they can afford are extremely unhealthy because THEY CAN'T AFFORD HEALTHY FOOD. They also can't afford a gym membership or gym clothes, and if they are working two jobs to try to survive and are also say a singe mother trying to care for kids when not at work who is struggling to find childcare during work certainly is not going to be able to find childcare to exercise. Some would immediately respond to this with, "Well, she shouldn't have gotten pregnant outside of marriage." But what if she is a widow? What if, like one of my close friends, she is not only a widow, but both of her parents died over a decade ago, she has no siblings, and her in-laws didn't approve of the marriage and are now trying to take all of her possessions in court because they claim she brainwashed their son and they deserve all of his estate , and they are also trying to include all of the possessions SHE brought to the marriage in HIS estate? Or what if she married a guy she thought was a good guy, partly because she was under huge pressure from her religious parents to get married, and after she had a kid she finally understood that she was in a horribly abusive relationship and she ran from the relationship to save her own life and the life or her child?
Although this particular criticism MIGHT have some merit with this particular couple, I am sick and tired of judgmental people first of all perpetuating the myth that comes from old science that has actually been somewhat debunked as if it is still legitimate. Science found a correlation between exercise and eating and weight and assumed a causal relationship, but once again cortisol is actually the biggest cause, and technically science may even have the causal relationship on that reversed. In other words, fat people are more likely to eat junk food and not exercise because of the fat, which starts out by being caused by stress, rather than people who eat junk food and don't exercise are more likely to be fat because of what they eat and the lack of exercise.
Once again, there still is somewhat of a causal relationship both ways. And it's also true that it's a vicious cycle, because eating right and exercising can sometimes decrease cortisol levels, and not exercising and eating junk food can sometimes increase cortisol levels. And dopamine definitely plays a role in all of this as well. But the number of times I have seen a "skinny" or "healthy" person judging a "fat" or "unhealthy" person for their weight who have actually sat down and tracked what they eat only to find out that the "healthy" person was actually eating more than the "unhealthy" person has blown my mind. The number of times I have heard stories such as, "My sister is overweight. She sprained her ankle while RUNNING A MARATHON, and when she went to the doctor the doctor refused to treat her ankle and instead made her talk to a specialist about her weight who gave her a pamphlet about WALKING EVERY DAY," also blows my mind. I know several people who are overweight who regularly engage in extreme sports, but because many doctors still believe old myths about weight they never believe that the person eats right and exercises even when they are often in the doctor's office specifically because of injuries from their exercise.
Don't get me wrong, there's even more than just cortisol that contributes to weight. Genetics and metabolism play a HUGE part. And I have definitely known people who have weight problems because of a damaged thyroid or other health problems. If after controlling for genetics and metabolism and cortisol levels and health problems such as thyroid problems and brain damage and problems producing or retaining or processing neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin a person is still overweight, it is possible that they are just choosing to be lazy and are not eating right and are not exercising. But those are a TON of factors to consider first, and even in the case of these two I don't believe these other possible contributing factors have been properly considered.
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@@hollybigelow5337 This is the comments section, not the place for a rough draft of a novel….🤦♀️
@@hollybigelow5337 Cortisol levels are triggered by... food choices. And a sedentary way of life makes it even worse. The highest metabolism is found in very muscular people and morbidly obese ones (they burn huge amounts of calories just by doing very little because of their huge weight and they eat so much that it becomes a vicious cycle) and the lowest belongs to anorexic people because the body shuts down in survival mode. Genetics ? You must be joking ! Look at the moocher's sister : she's just fine, no weight issues at all. But she belongs to the same family, so she should be fat, but no. You know why ? She's not lazy, she has a job, she cooks, she takes care of herself and of her family.
By the way, you should study the correlation between moochers and thyroid damages, it would be just awesome🤣
First time he hit my daughter, he’d find himself back in jail.
One of the big reasons I allow my 1 niece & her family to move in my house there was a 2 1/2-year-old involved & I was not going to have that little girl living on the streets
It’s US culture. Multigenerational homes are more the norm globally. It’s more economic. But yes all adults should work or contribute.
Better alone than to have lazy partner
my husband and i got 16 acres for one day our son can build his own home without having to get a loan; however, he would have to have his own well drilled and have everything for his own home. yeah we started a business for our son but it's so that he doesnt have to get a student loan instead he could go to a trade school and get training and be on his own without occurring debt. I'd rather our son learn about being self sufficient and understanding there is no easy way out. set your child to excel without handing them the easy way out. you gotta be a parent first be a friend later in life
It’s called repect and they need to help around the apartment grandparents shouldn’t be raising the grandchildren
For Pete's sake, parents, don't enable bad behavior in your children! If you enable them when they're young, they end up with one of these deadbeat personalities who wants to blame everyone else for their problems. One of Jordan Petersons 12 Rules for Life: Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them." In other words, start holding them to a standard of behavior when they're young so that one day they can stand on their own as productive adults.
JP spent most of his life on drugs and sleeping. Athletes get tested in competition for drugs, so should University students. JPs wife is verbally abusive to them. His daughter stayed in an abusive relationship because of his standards. He laughed at people making money online for him and doesn't acknowledge them, he is all about money. Shooting animals and leaving them screaming in pain until death, whilst young daughter in car crying due to the animals screaming in pain.
I keep meaning to get that book. It is so true! Don't let your kids put you in a place where you don't even like them or don't even want to deal with them.
"I have morning problems." 🤣
I’d give him problems
They need to move into *his* parents house. Let him disrespect his own mother.
His mother wouldn’t put up with it!
THE MOTHER IS JUST AS BAD !!!!!
THAT FINE STEP FATHER NEEDS TO LEAVE ALLLLLLLL OF THEM AND FIND A REAL WOMAN !!!!!!!!
Doesn't need a woman for a while. Needs a rest. 🤔😆
The stepdad wasn't on stage and the look on his face was one of feeling responsibility for family and knowing his wife will never hold them accountable or allow HIM to hold them accountable. He is so ready to be done with it all.
@@donnarocker3979 It's gotta hurt even more when he is not taking care of a bio "kid," but a step-kid.
Don't get married if you're just going to live with your parents.
''I can't take it anymoar!''
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''I'm an adult'', no you,re not.
The mother in law, got real sensitive with Dr. Phil😮 She makes excuses for her children. This young man is not a honorable person. Selling drugs in prison. Will not go out a get a job. Belittle his wife. Praying they all got it together.😊🙏
The entitlement is unbelievable. They are both lazy. If you can’t afford to have a baby, wait until you can. They are not married because then they wouldn’t qualify for government benefits. They both need to get jobs!
Its a lot easier for phil and others his age &up to say once you're 18 you move out..... but 2024 life is alot different.... unless you got lucky in life, no one can get a place Alone
As long as adult "kids" contribute to the household and are respectful, I could understand parents letting them stay. But if they aren't contributing financially, or helping care for the home, and aren't being respectful... then they need to get out. Also, if people can't afford to live on their own and be adults, then they shouldn't be getting married because they can't afford it.
This episode is from 2002.
I would love a follow up about these excellent losers!
Wow, the difference between the two sisters is quite staggering when you look at them! I would never let my daughter with a useless husband who wasn’t providing move into my home. If I wasn’t working, I might take the baby and make them move out and get their sh*t together…. and if they didn’t, and I could no longer look after the child, I would be calling child protective services. But I would never allow myself to be blackmailed into having 2 entitled useless people ruin my life at an age where I should be done with all of this stuff. My son always had to pay his way even when he was renting my apartment. Now he’s a very strong, self-sufficient Christian man with a Masters in Mathematics & teaching at a private school.
The soul of a lazy man desires, and has nothing; but the soul of the diligent shall be made rich.” -
And a rich man will have an easier time trying to thread a camel through the eye of a needle than getting to Heaven
No job.Dont have children
Lol...if ONLY stupid people would actually think that way. Seems like the dumber and poorer the person is, the more kids they have 🙄
I live with someone. I'd be homeless without them. They have a lot of ways that might grind on me because I'm so used to something different, but damn if I don't reel myself in and remind myself without their help I wouldn't be able to get towards my own. I don't dare disrespect them, that's just wrong. They ask me to do something, change something I hadn't noticed was so troublesome, what ever, I do it. I'm thankful for them. I'd never disrespect them.
Hey buddy, who's house is it? It's not a hotel. Parents need to ask them to leave.
It killed me when he said "it's our roof, too!" No, Buddy. Don't confuse living under it with owning it!!
Oh No no no! Absolutely No freakin way!
Oh my goodness. Both should be working!
Why putting all the blame on the husband and not motivate mother to work?
She has a child to care for and she actually has a job
@@pmc8119she hasn't started working yet. There was no excuse for her laziness the whole time. Pathetic moochers.
@@pmc8119Yes, but her huisband can take care of the child and her mother does in fact take care of het grandschild. It wolf be easier for her to get a job since die doesn't have a criminal record.
I’d give her some grace IF she actually took care of her baby while she’s on mat leave. If she she insists that her mom raises the baby, she should be working as well.
Greg’s got morning problems,aww.
Don't we all
Multigenerational living because works for my family because we respect boundaries, all contribute to bills, groceries, chores.
I think it's great if everybody wants it. What's not good is when the kids are forcing themselves on parents, as with the first couple and baby.
Why would you allow someone who is abusive to your daughter live in your house?? Wtf??
Ooooh damn! this is gonna be a good episode 😂
The husband acts mentally....delayed....
Also, I just love these people who can't seem to muster the energy to move their lips and speak clearly. Just makes him all the more mentally....delayed.
Oooooo....! A whole 3 months! Wow lady, you're really takin off!
It's 2024 and It's now a two income household, they are free loaders 😢
Jelous? Of him???? Oh my Lord!!!
I am a woman who has had nothing but bad men. I have decided that I am much happier without one, and I am. I can be your friend, but that's it.