What Makes Soft Boys Attractive ? - (Blackpill Analysis)
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Hey guys in today's video we will be going over what makes the soft boy and e-boy type so attractive , we will analyze the biology behind this attraction and we will also go over the cultural reasons as well hope you guys enjoy the video.
Timestamps :
- Part 1 : 1:10
- Part 2 : 3:20
I wanna make something clear , the goal of this video is just to explain what makes soft boys attractive , I'm not encouraging anyone to follow a certain style.
Dude how old were you in the 90s?
Pretty boys don't suffer from jealousy. All women do and they know it's a severe character flaw of theirs. So, what's it mean when they see such a flaw in a man? If the woman really suffers from jealousy, she likes the man that has similar issues and that isn't the pretty boy in her mind.
Pretty boys also complain much less about all aspects of life in general and most people are not attracted to complainers. However, some women struggle with this character flaw and also choose the man that has similar issues. Once again, any woman that complains a lot, will not identify with the pretty boy.
As for behavior, acting colder and harder because of jealousy is a woman trait. Pretty boys rarely have this problem. So, maybe, women like pretty boys better because they don't have the character flaws they deeply struggle with - with confidence being the most challenging...
I dont like to say this cuz im more on the pretty boy side myself but: we usually land in the friendzone. And we are often used as badge of honor like: "look how attractiv this guy is and I still put him in the friendzone. (I'm so impressiv)"
Women might actually be attracted to us (visually) but they dont feel "save" enough. Sure if you have fame you get away with it anyway and in some countries (like china/japan) you have it easier than in others but generally speaking: those very few non famous (soft-)pretty boys who are slaying are doing it DESPITE looking feminin not because of it (meaning they look really really good)
@@pingu6028 This is how you get to reality reliably.
From 1st hand accounts.
lol you and your immature subscribers who never talked to a girl before.
I don't care if they like pretty boys. I'm not going to change just for some female attention. I'm masculine and I like being masculine.
That's good brother play to your strong points
That's fine, luckily it's not all of them who are into that, yet the number of wimin who do is increasing.
You dropped this 👑
Yes but pretty boys masculine we don't care.... jaw, eyes, heigth, frame is very important...
Ofcourse brah do what is healthy
Soft boys are attractive because they look like male teenagers which is why teenage girls love these guys. They do look masculine for a 15 year old.
Meanwhile women are still going crazy for Di Caprio. Cope.
@@piccolo5346 di caprio isn't a pretty boy anymore. He is average now compared to back then
Tiktok pedo social engineering agenda
@@piccolo5346 Soft boys are average at best. Masculine is a different league so let the men talk kiddo
@@mcale8384 xD another coper
I am a heterosexual man who likes women but there is something special about Timothee chalamet and Harry styles, I just find them attractive in a different way, anyone else agrees with me?
Most of the pretty boys ARE still masculine, just in different ways. Usually are deep voiced, have strong jawlines, strong proportions and cheekbones. They just have aesthetics that match what these girls like. They wouldn’t be known playboys if they weren’t some form of masculine imo.
very true , they will make fun of fuckbois but will def fuck them secretly i know this cause my 6'2 danish chad friend who worked at amazon fucked a married hot doctor in her 40s. this also affected his opinion on commitment cause hes says its too easy to cheat hes seen it too much
tbf a lot of girls like femboys
@@Nick-ij5nt Yes but will these femboys get pussy? I dont think so
@@Nick-ij5nt their just closeted lesbians
@@RayFog1 Does this imply that men who like tomboys are closeted gays?
Rule 1: Be good looking
Rule 2: Don't be ugly
100th like 👍
BecoZ you're 100% right
I failed the 2nd one
you guys should not forget that the "pretty boy" look was always loved by humanity. if you look at the ancient greeks or the middle-age arabs, even the man fell in love with those boys, because they thought they were very beautiful. we humans love beauty. a hypermasculine man is not seen as "Beautiful", which is not bad, because "Beauty" is more of a feminine thing.
Interesting facts and perspective
Leonardo Di Caprio was always hot in womens eyes and he also had a soft face at a young age and now still attractive but more masculine ofcourse
@Charles Bronson I ment he had a softer face maybe a better example is Justin Bieber girls even liked him when he was 12yo
Ahhhhhh.....that means that gays love other.....gay men. That's what I'd expect and that's what I see from these pretty guys. As for myself, I would have prefer a battle scarred warrior. I know he can function.
@Muslimcel No.....I never dated girls, lol. It's one thing to look at someone, it's another thing to actually look for a romantic partner. Pretty doesn't do it in a guy. There's no "there" there.
Lots of men just don't understand that what men find 'attractive' in other men isn't the same as what women find attractive in men. Modern media caters to female audiences more than media in the past, which is why we're noticing a rise in the number of pretty boys being displayed. It's the same way that women don't always judge what men will find attractive in women accurately. Lots of these comments are about how being masculine is still better because it attracts more respect from other men, but that just further proves the point that being extremely masculine is the male standard of attractiveness. Of course, there are going to be deviations from this rule in the same way that not all men are going to like the exact same women, but it would be lying to say that actors like Timothee Chalamet aren't objectively attractive to many women.
BETA detection, its a shame masculinity appears wrong to you and your beliefs contribute to it being discomforting as masculinity appeals in strength and comfort its why we are born with it so as to represent strength and comfort for a loved one.
masculine appearance will not only get more respect from men but attention from the right females the higher quality ones that don't give in to the corrupt ideal of feminism that destroys both genders. and the family, but gives more short term power to the governments. So it is more worth it since it will keep modern bimbos away from us potentially you based on your words?
@@para_hybridgaming5083 But strength isn't just demonstrated through physical strength and muscles. Increasingly in a modern world physical strength is getting less and less important to survival, so it's not surprising that traditional masculinity has lost some of its appeal. Attractiveness is largely based on what we see as important for survival, and that's not the same now as it was in the past.
@@para_hybridgaming5083 hey u cannot use that shaming tactics.... Heard that somewhere before...??
JK🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
Male gaze vs female gaze. We view the world slightly differently
If masculinity is toxic, I wanna be toxic.
Yeah dont lose your fucking gender to impress someone else king
Based, me too
Too based for the modern western world
Me 3
Same
Insane coping in the comments. 😂
As a woman, I think in this video you made a good point. It was well analyzed in my opinion. For the guys reading this, this is still a matter of preference, so don’t change just to fit in this. Be as feminine and as masculine as you want, do what makes you feel confident.
Exactly
Just cause some of us look like timothee doesn't mean we're fuckin soft or feminine
@@PeterParker-zo4hj Maybe personality wise you’re not “feminine” or “soft”. But physical wise, if you possess the same facial characteristics like Timothee Chalamet, then you have feminine/soft features. There are some comments that talk about how personality doesn’t exactly correlate to looks.
That’s retarded, masculinity is what makes a man confident.
I am happy that I am a good balance of Masculine and Feminine lol, I get tons of attention from women everywhere I go,I dress good,smell good,I have dark curly hair,hazel eyes that everyone likes,almond hunter type shaped eyes,some facial hair,deep manly voice,earrings.Women giggle and laugh when they see me and whisper(the shy ones) while the others give me direct compliments.
I think a feminine man can still appeal to conservative women if they had a strong physique. And its possible personality also plays a factor , because masculine men who act feminine definitely do not appeal to most Conservative women , however a feminine man acting masculine might still appeal to both.
What I understand is women who like feminine men are usually only thinking of him as "boyfriend material" or something to brag about while those who prefer masculine looks are looking for safety , security, and a man who can provide , or basically a life partner.
There's some truth to that , thank you for your input
I would add that the masculine one is for casual sex and hookup
@@dimidzam9794 you could argue either way tbf
It's the opposite, masculine are for ONS. Feminine men are perceived as better fathers/carers. Husband material are the feminine dudes while hookup material are masculine ones
@@colinmignot6309 yeah that could be the case since everyone has different preferences, but generally speaking and even scientifically speaking , women look for Chads because of said biological attractions. I think women who find feminine men as husbands are probably just outliers and are the more masculine type of women to find them attractive.
I’m naturally a pretty boy and got made fun of for it for awhile but had my fair share of girls who liked me when I was younger. I have a skinny frame, soft features, thick and and wavy hair and have trouble growing facial or body hair. Not going to lie it feels good that this is trending but at the end of the day it’s always going to be a preference and nothing more. Some girls like it and always have and always will. Some girls will never like it and always prefer masculine and burly looking men. That’s great. Variety is good for everyone and no one should change themselves to fit a temporary trend. I’m grateful that all types of men have their niche of women that prefer their type.
Play to your strong points
I'm the same bruh
nah, no girl like short or ugly men, the only type of men there is is Chad and all of them want them just like men know when they want a girl. You don't need to attract every girl tho, just go with what makes you feel better and what is available for you to exploit from your looks c:
@@NimrodTheMaidenless lol
@@NimrodTheMaidenless okay so men who are below 6 feet should just not exist anymore cuz im only 5'10 🤣
Good analysis! In my opinion, men are meant to be masculine. Those who look feminine also look quite young which explains why young girls would go crazy for them. These "feminine" men would eventually grow older and look more masculine over time. At the end of the day, all women have their own taste of what they find attractive in a man (and vice versa). The most important thing is to not change yourself to look like something else because of someone else.
Exactly brother
Good to see someone with rational thinking has made a comment here. This is the problem with red pill, black pill, mgtow, etc. They have generalized women for everything. Some women simp for Harry styles who are feminine. While some simp for timothee who "isn't" feminine. He looks and behave like a man. Just shy and introverted. He is lean and doesn't keep facial hair. But that doesn't mean he is feminine or less masculine. Masculine isn't just muscles and sht. And then some women simp for masculine guys and woo over their physique.
So it's literally like you said. The important thing is you don't have to change yourself for anyone. Cause there will be someone who will find your feats attractive. And if you don't find one but want one then you have to make some changes. Instead of whining "nobody wants me"
well said 💯
Agreed. I look more on the feminine side but I also age at a very slow rate so I know that’s the reasoning behind it.
This was a well known phenomena with the boy bands in the late 90s/00s. They were basically all eboys who had a hard time transitioning when they got older. As women move into their 20s they tend to become more responsive to typically masculine features particularly muscle.
I am a guy that have feminine feature but currently go to the gym. I think pretty face and masculine body is what I prefer. It's where the masculinity and feminity nicely settled. I admired Greek male statues, I see them as male beauty standard in human history since long time ago.
Good mixture of both
Greek and Roman statues, aw
I think if you change your hairstyle and grow facial hair + getting fit. You will look more masculine.
@@leocorn5559 I don't know why but I like feminine feature of a face. It's just look pretty and good looking. What I don't like is act of feminine, although I kinda tolerate if someone has it. For masculinity I want to build my body and watch how the way I spoke.
@@leocorn5559 i don't think it's called feminine face it's actually the underdeveloped "boyish face"
Being a guy that looks like Tim chalamet ( same eyes, defined chin, defined jawline, wavy/curly hair and no facial hair yet ) I noticed that guys start treating me poorly like I'm feminine even though I have masculine features like ( 6.2ft high, deep/loud voice and my social circle is just male-based ), but in the same time I noticed that teenage girls start being very impressed by my look, and I know that I'm a crush to many girls I know, which leaves me cringy, these girls have pictured me as perfect just from my appearance, they don't know anything about my values or charisma. I'm still loving my facial features in general even though it's feminine because I just liked them, but at the same time, my main focus is on making more money, being a high-status male and improving my physical appearance. That's what I want from everybody: embrace the feminine features that you have on your face while focusing on being the best, most masculine, attractive, badass version of yourself.
Exactly, that's what exactly I feel. Thank you for existing.
A real man has both feminine and masculine. Ignore other guys they are probably jealous. Hating on you over that shows more about them. Looking feminine but acting very masculine will look like you have depth to your character
Other guys are definetly jealous of you bro 😂. The fact that you have some purpose when you are getting money and chasing the high-status will make you attractive yoo! Stay on the grind
@Ally Herrera lmao
I suspect you're Muslim, and Muslim men in their 20s are usually attractive, and stay that way as long as they have good nutrition.
I think it's pretty logical for wimin to aim for that kind of men, since society is focusing mostly on aesthetic now (and wimin particularly on the face) if they have children with men who are right in between masculine and femenine looks then the kids will probably and hopefully not be inkwels. It's choosing attractiveness over strength (and sometimes they can get both like jacob elordi or someone similar). This one has to be the hardest pill to swallow for coping redpillers obsessed with masculinity xD
At this point there's so much possibilities
What does inkwell mean?
And the MeToo movement. Sadly a lot of the idea why women subconsciously prefer softer men was due to fear of the creepers who hide behind average men. Those that are still mostly male as they still claim there are more male perpetrators than females and a lot of my female friends in the day feared bigger and older men automatically if they weren't a sexy actor but even then after MeToo that changed. And all i hear is girls and woman despise men around me and call them dumb and annoying and ofc i should be included but I'm not cos I'm feminine and for some stupid reason i get a green card for that? Cos i don't oppose a threat? ...
Maybe, but I like masculinity
@@strikerron2252 incel
First off you look good, and the pretty boy aesthetic really appeals to the female gaze which is emotional
Thank you , men and women perceive beauty differently
@@neroangelo2028 No problem
Also the modern day movements like fat acceptance and even modern day feminnism tries to embrace weakness, they advice men to be weak, it's not out of love, it's basically to feed their ego,. They basically want strong people to be weak,men to be weak like them, act like them, put makeup like them, be fat and obese like some of them because they suffer from inferiority complex, they want strong to be weak, since they can't be the strong ones, they try to drag you to their level, people like that are just insecure of themselves or them being females or obese, they loves it when guys or stronger people copy their way. I'm not talking about all women or every physically non agile people in general, just the insecured ones who trying to make masculinity as something toxic. I'm not talking about teenage girls here as well coz they into feminine guys(guys who look like them),at those ages. Just talking about the grown up feminists trying to cancel masculinity as something toxic, lol.
At the end of the day, men will be men, women will be women, we were never the same in first place, accept it, respect it and move on is the simple answer, as simple as that.
This is actually extremely interesting, ever since I started cutting my hair shorter and growing facial hair I've actually been having less success with women. Maybe the soft boy meta is what I should be employing.
Same here
@@snackler6102 some pretty boys have really thick eyebrows
I’d do it, This is why I’m growing my hair out long and cut my facial hair almost daily, when I had facial hair I looked too manly and even a few years older, but when I cut it the girls came back and I looked 5 years younger, this then made me realize it’s a FACT women dont like too much of a masculine look on men anymore.
@@xonlytyrek3601 that’s cap brotha, that only works for white dudes, I feel us black folks gotta have some type of beard, and waves type cut if you see what I’m saying.
@@snackler6102 dude why u insulting my poohole 😭
Guys, just shoot for the style and look that makes you happy, who gives a shit what anyone thinks. If you want a more masculine powerful look do it and do it the best you can. That’s all you can do and I promise you it’ll make your life feel so much more fulfilled and make you far happier
A lot of girls are into k-pop and k-drama (korean men) and like the old generation grow up with old Hollywood, these days masculinity can be shown as diffrently which means soft faces can also be attractive for some men not all. However I am not sure I can agree on that those girls still dont like masculine guys though. At the end of the day attractive is attractive these media telling lies about how you should behave can be right about some part but I dont believe that if we are talking about one night stand and sexual attraction that will even matter its just looks.
Stay masculine guys.
Do whatever the fuck you want and never, for the love of god, never listen to the people in UA-cam comment section. Including the one I'm writing now.
The style of guy may change but the underlying commonality they have is they're still both Chad's.
Soft chad if that makes any sense
@@neroangelo2028 True
Compared to previous decades, teenagers and younger adults today have a huge say in pop culture and trends.
Yes
Guys you don't need to be like pretty boy if you're not, be a man hit the gym, eat nutritious foods, avoid unhealthy junk food, drink loads of water and get good sleep prioritise your life to your purpose compounding effect will get you to places this is to all young men's who have lost hope in their life.
I can back that up , the gym changed my life
@@neroangelo2028 it teaches you the most important lesson of life that's discipline if you don't have the some qualities a man must have you honeslty don't deserve girls that's to all young men's and i stand by it
Masculinity is blessing
from my all life experience (i'm 25), i think that these types of guys attract teenager girls. But women feel more attracted to guys that you have described at the beginning of the video.
This is what propaganda, social engineering, marketing, advertising and public relations does to you. It’s all about shaping your worldview, shape your perception what is attractive and what is not. People are so gullible, naive and easily influenced and brainwashed my the media.
They did a good job in convincing women that soft boys are attractive.
They are attractive by how we measure attractiveness. By using sexual dimorphism, proportions, averageness, and symmetry. They're not people who look like Danny Devito and being considered attractive
@@TricksterLawlet yes
@@TricksterLawlet brutal ovER for Danny devito
That's kinda coping, is not that they weren't attractive before, men back then needed to be more than just attractive, to the point that attractiveness was a secondary standard unlike today, hence why there are so many incels today
@@NimrodTheMaidenless VVomen don’t need men for any more than fun now. When they don’t need to rely on you and such plenty of options hypergamy only wants the best, because it can be finally satisfied now.
I think one of the main reasons women (most) prefer soft alphas or boys in general because the typical masculine men are stereotyped as an "unfaithful" and "toxic", "playboy", "rude" and "won't treat you right".. Etc meanwhile the soft boys are seen much more calm and not just the features but also the characteristics traits are close to the femininity, like being understanding, honest, fashion sense, being loyal (not always like we got harry styles has dated over 17 women) and go on, besides: it's not a gen z thing, i mean brad pitt, leonardo dicaprio, river phoenix, keanu reeves and Johnny deep.. etc in the late 90s were seen as soft boys; their features were so feminine and delicate but as they age they became more masculine and rough, also humanity always admired beauty, ancient Greek, The first arab ignorance and beyond, all of these Civilizations attached soft boys whether it was from women or even men. Problem is on every teen-y fandom base: little girls/boys are grow on hating masculinity and considering it toxic which is so worng, alot of masculine men are respectful, gentlemen, veracious, whole-hearted, and original. I think also the "daddy issues" trends on the past 5 years also normalised the hating on masculine men in my opinion 🤷🏻
That was a very insightful and educated comment thank you for your input on the matter
soft alpha lol
I am not sure about this. Because I have heard from women that they don't like feminine behavior even if they like feminine appearance of a guy. So they don't like masculine men not because they are rude or something like that
Tough times create strong men,
Strong men create easy life.
Easy life creates weak men,
Weak men creates hard times
weak men create feminism
@@リンゴ酢-b8g true.. male strength isn't needed anymore due to laws and money. Remove laws and money and the demand for strong man will be back cause of protection needs.
@@リンゴ酢-b8g true, These modern day feminnist Bitchhess embrace weakness days just to make themselves feel better I guess. They basically want men to be weak like them, act like them, put makeup like them because they suffer from inferiority complex, or maybe insecure of them being females and loves it when the stronger ones copy their way. I'm not talking about all women in general, just the insecured feministt bitchess who trying to make masculinity as something toxic,
At the end of the day, men will be men, women will be women, we were never the same in first place, accept it, respect it and move on, as simple as that.
@@jizzyt1502 Lol so true
@@jizzyt1502 if the law remains. Then good people who are getting used and burnt by selfish people, will walk away and system collapse.
The best is like 60% masculine 40% pretty boy. The best is Alain Delon.
Probably the most beautiful man ever
It's k pop influence. They made life hard for normal boys. Who doesn't have money for plastic surgery also don't do makeup.
Here you are kinda wrong. Country like china,Japan,south Korea has different beauty standard. They take care of there body a lot and skin a lot.
And not everyone do Plastic surgery. USA rank number 1 when it comes to surgery.
Thats why you guys hate them so much and calls them gay
I agree, here in Asia we like men who has masculine yet with feminine features. I think some women perceived men with hyper masculine look very intimidating.
Yes it seems like culture plays a big role
Asians aren't really meant to be hyper masculine. But the ones who were the most masculine(The Mongolians) spread their genes all across Asia and were more successful than the others
@@dimidzam9794 that’s due to forcefully doing it on resisting women 😭
@@dimidzam9794 so the more masculine ones had more reproductive success because they were r*ping women, not because they were more desirable. It should make sense to you now why women in that region would not find masculinity attractive.
@@dimidzam9794
Asians are meant to be super masculine.
I think a vast majority of men can fit this type of look just by dropping body fat % to around 8-13%. Because to get the hyper masculine takes lots and lots of effort and genetics which most people don’t have unless you take steroids.
It really depends on their facial features and the way they carry themselves
As you age in your early 20s or up, then you can develop masculine traits or have a mature looking face unless you take care of your body. So my point, is aging is key to have mature looking face.
The people you listed as pretty boys are just as masculine as the masculine guys. They just arent as muscular and they wear different clothes. They both have strong jaws, somewhat thick necks, thick eyebrows, good hair, strong cheekbones, etc.
reject modernity embrace masculinity
5:14 it changes over the regions too. in some countries you would probably be perceived to be gay if you looked like timothee chalamet while in some countries like america the look is highly desired.
The soft boys have always been there at least the soft boys you talk about guys like Rudolph Valentino, Elvis Presley, and The Prince to name a few had always railed up the crowd. The basic premise I think is quite different it's not that soft boys have come in style but rather men are being okay being a bit effeminate. Again you didn't mention the underlying fact that even being a bit feminine in looks they have a very masculine personality where need be.
Soft boys and pretty boys are two different things. All pretty boys CAN be Soft boys (if they want) but not all soft boys can be pretty boys.
Soft boy /soft girl are aesthetics. Pretty boy/pretty girl is your genetic makeup.
2:40 is more eboy aesthetic than soft boy imo
Yeah i feel like you can be masculine rugged AND soft at the same time
What makes girls attractive
Less fat...... 💀
Good video mate!! I think these soft boys guys are atractive simply because they fall in the "little prince" arquetype which is attractive to women (there are other arquetypes, as there are also several femenine arquetypes attractive to men), and can get away with their "softness" because of their *extremely* good looks and social proof, without this overcompensating factors they would be nothing, the difference between soft boys and soy boys is being attractive hahaha, best regards!
Thank you for your input on the subject
most pretty, soft boys still have strong masculine features that's why girls love them.
Yes
Yes like height (6ft), strong jawlines and athletic builds with low body fat
even if the eboy look is preferred by women i would much rather look hyper masculine than an eboy lol
I would like to be somewhere in the middle
@@neroangelo2028 agreed but eboy look is 🤮
Same here, I think these guys look gay af despite their high smv lol. If I had the choice I'd pick to be a masculine Chad.
@@javajuice1582 are u either tho?
@@neroangelo2028 same man I fall in the middle section, its lot better as I would not want to stand out for my masculine or feminine features.
Great analysis, you've explained a bunch of concepts in a simple way, my greetings from Oujda.
Thanks , greeting from Casablanca
NOTHING. As a woman, I'm not interested in pretty boys who are probably gay (most actors are gay). Actors haven't been sexy probably since 1970, lol.
How old are you if you don't mind me asking ?
You aren't wrong. They all have to sleep with male executives to even get into the industry. Unless they go independent which is very difficult.
Nothing what? The video already stated "teenage girls" are the one who like feminine boys. I think you are old enough to mentioned memory of 70s actors, and it's already mentioned at the video also that conservative aka old fashioned women like masculine guys.
@@Eza_yuta "Nothing" meaning that feminine boys/actors are not attractive to mature women. Maybe to teenage girls because....they're not threatening. These effeminate pretty men are rather silly.
@@hanzoY248 I've read people within the industry say that most (if not all, lol) of the male actors are gay or bi-sexual & you're right about the casting couch. I think this became a particularly big thing from the 70s onward as the gay movement became more public & powerful.
A few years of Hollywood won’t change millions of years of evolution
🙏
@@matus8862 wow Slovák
@@x-derange4596 yessir
@@matus8862 What would you rate Michaelaverage?
@@x-derange4596 Boring
The amount of times I've seen women on instagram loving beards... and tattoos with muscles, or overall masculine men.
Tbh teen girls go nuts more for the feminine boys... but we shouldn't care about attracting teens lol.
The most important thing though is how your face looks, if you're attractive regardless of masculine or feminine, you're good to go.
Great video
Thanks
Honestly, I'm female but very androgynous, some may say I have kind of a "pretty boy" look as far as face structure goes. I'm in my late twenties and feel like I never really notice grown women looking at me like that but notice teen girls doing double takes, which feels kinda awkward lol
The amount of times I've seen women on Instagram and Pinterest drool over guys who look like girls
'loving beards... and tattoos with muscles' Wtf did I just read
@@madmax5841 Think a little longer and you'll eventually get what was meant
I would love to look like the boy at 4:51 that would be my goal
I feel like the rabbit hole runs a bit deeper than this. The absurd divorce rate in modern society has mostly led to mothers raising children on their own, which lead to these children never really having a true father figure/ role model, which is so critically important. This upbringing in an overall feminine environment, Gen Z has indeed been led astray, when it was supposed to be the fathers who would protect and provide, instead of the mothers. I think this feeling of abandonment by the one and only who was supposed to be a role model to their children, is indeed the root cause of "Toxic Masculinity". True masculinity is very rare in modern society, and us men must not let TikTok trends and social media shape the courses of our lives. No matter what women say about these soft boys being the most attractive beings on this planet, at the end of the day they cannot deny thousands of years of evolution- being attracted to true masculinity.
And Jesus is the true role model for our society if only people were like him we could live in a good society
@@cyberspek8996 I don’t believe in him being the son of god n all,but surely he was a great man. The overall intelligence,personality,humane qualities is what ideal.
@@cyberspek8996 💯💯 Jesus Christ IS the pinnacle of MASCULINITY, Jesus IS the Messiah
Cope, the simple answer is usually the most accurate, pretty boys are just attractive to wimin and that's it.
@@alexs7028 Jesus was a wonderful prophet but Muhammad is the greatest, second only to Allah.
What the fack brah
Yeah... No ive got WAY more female attention when i started to act masculine and strong, grew a beard and lost fat and my jawline showed, shortened my hair, started working out and boom, i got attention from EVERYONE
Agreed, maybe that's the reason why bts boys are so famous ( soft boy look)
Studys have shown women perfer soft men for life partners but when they are most fertile they like a masculine men. I'm not very masculine looking but I'm very masculine in personality. I was dating a 20 year old at 35 and she was the same hight and a little bit small built than me. She constantly tried to lead me and would fight me on everything, it go so tiring. I think It definitely is a generation thing now with the young women trying play the roll of the traditional male perhaps that's why they want soft men for partners and only flings with masculine men.
Yeah I've red that study once
I think the take away from that is to gear ones look and strategie for the woman we like. Weather we are more feminine or masculine we have to be attractive and well groomed.
@@PHTraining simple as that
Yes, this is the study I read as well
@@rolon9 simple as that mate, people just don't want to put the work in. I'm 5,5 and have acne scars, I know I have to work harder than the hot guy but I will do the work
The haters often tries to bring down asian celebs/kpop calling them gay totally forgetting the fact that if that dont have male dimorphism then millions of straight women wont find them attractive...its the Charmin sexy balance that they portray to us
ok but having a square jaw, hunters eyes, and no baldness, being tall and muscular doesn't change from time to time. And then if chalamet had hunters eyes he would attract more women like brad pitt for example. Chalamet and like cilian murphy he is not unanimous among women because of these prey eyes
I really don't think Chalamet attracts women at all. I think it's the gays that find him attractive and keep putting him in movies. Maybe he's a good actor, I don't know but he's no woman's dream.
@@mehitablestorm8877 That's a huge cope, he has LOTS of female simps.
@@mehitablestorm8877 Sorry but as a woman I can say that this is absolutely untrue, I and many other women that I know find him extremely attractive
@@annabelrhodes3035 yes but me I know women who are not attracted to him, I mean it's not unanimous... but yes he's attractive for some women but not all... and I think if he had a positive canthal tilt or more taller more women would be attracted to him

@@annabelrhodes3035 Well, that's your taste, but I prefer a man whom I think could actually have sex with me and I really doubt if a "Timothee" could get it up for a woman. Sorry to be crude, but it comes down to that level. I really doubt most of these pretty boys would be attracted to women or would be able to function with them. I suspect most of them, including "Timothee" (stupid spelling, btw) are gay. That's okay but it doesn't do a woman any good.
Pretty boys were a thing in the 90s lol. *NSYNC. Backstreet Boys. Etc.
I don't really agree with the cultural reason. In east Asia, they don't care about toxic masculinity, but there still is the k-pop ideal
Kpop is very big over there , girls look up to the kpop stars
Well I'm from morocco too and even in our country soft boys became more popular these days, Girls like this type of guys.
I'm not very masculine in behavior but i grew up among both guys and girls of all trades and I just became hypersensitive and I always was emotionless since childhood. I'm gen Z but born in the late 90's. I did grow up with double standards too and many women calling men creeps and dumb etc. I just never knew what i have to be and rn all I can do is be me and if that's femme, accidentally, then i guess it is... But if i had more confidence and tools to work with, i had more reigns too.
the point is the looks, with or without them you should be just however you feel comfortable, yet the looks makes people treat you better.
This isn't new. Look at the glam rockers or Bowie from the 70's. Boy bands have been a thing forever, they are always soft boys. Elvis and James Dean both had a kind of soft boy look.
I think that attitude plays an huge role not only looks
You don't look mascuine at all. With a beard or not. You are a softboy.😂😂😂😂
I remember that I struggled during my adolescence with this concept.
Thanks to disney and twitter I thought that every man had to look like this kind of handsome man-boy
And even though I have finer features if I could decide again I would definitely go for the way I look now. How men are supposed to look! Exploiting my genetics and masculine traits with exercise, a good diet and clothes that highlight my torso
When I got this look, even some lesbian girls at parties approached me with this kind of piquant curiosity.
Young men, I tell you this from the heart. Seek to look like men, and not like Band-boys members. Only 15-year-old girls like this type of guy, and that doesn't last long either.
Feminine man still can be attractive..why do you think asian male celebs are gold standard of attraction in current time? Just like how in previous generation the tough looking Hollywood hearthrobs were? Its because most of them even having feminine look still tick many masculine traits...oval face shape with v line sharp jawline, prominent adam apple, veiny hands, biceps, tall (most are 6ft) , thick eyebrows, manly hairline, perm sleek haircut (which was trend in Hollywood back then but now in asia) and overall aesthetic of the "prince charming" aesthetic of well groomed neat looking man..i never see any other countries celebs who look that well groomed and gentlemen like asian celebs...now many insecure rascist comments comes for their men calling them gay..we straight women dont find ultra feminine men attractive just like how we dont find dwayne johnson type of look attractive..i dont find jimin of bts attractive because he is ultra feminine and also short but i would be head over heal for actors like zhan zhiao, lee minho, kim mingyu, cha eunwoo, lee dong wook... women are attracted to good looking men in general who looks neat and clean and these asian stars tick all those criteria thats why they are current generation hearthrob..just like how back then celebs like Johnny depp, brad pitt, used to be hearthrobs..
You think masculine men will be back in style in the future or nah?
They are bro. There are different types of chads
Hello Elon musk , I think they will back it will be very slow but I think they'll definitely be back
@@Ho-mb2wb Exactly
Eventually. There will be a collapse soon and masculine men will have to make a return. All these soy boy, soft, female looking men will end up dying off.
Who said they left lol?
Don't fall for any of it my Bois keep grinding
- zyzz legacy will continue
Fuck this bruh . Keep mirin bruh
Wtf. I don't understand shit. Tf you are trying to say.
It could be that chasing a "look" (tough guy, soy boy, etc) is not what makes a man attractive to women. It could be that guys like Harry Styles and Timothee Chalemet are open minded, positive and friendly, seem to be respectful to everyone and have a passion for what they do, and are very talented. Just like Prince, David Bowie and so on, who would have been called similar derogatory things in their time. Maybe focusing on what you're passionate about and where your talents can lead you is more attractive to women than dissecting other guys minute characteristics and physical details.
I'm a teen but I prefer the Chads over the soft or Eboys. Or men that are not too masculine but not femenine either
5:03 That guy is my type
This is the best advice I can give any male no matter when generation were born in, speaking from experience of knowing and having relationships with many females of different ages. It is 100% to the preference of what that female likes. So best advice find out who you are, if you feel your best and most attractive when you are masculine then that what you work on and attract females who love that masculine look and energy. Same if you feel best when you are Soft Male "feminine energy" then be the best version of that to attract females who enjoy that. The key to discover who you really are and then work that.
Embrace Masculinity
In my opinion idc I try my hardest to look good for myself it makes me feel good ,My posture is shit ( my neck and head it looks like I’m mad /hate you even when I’m not ) but I still try my hardest to look good I take cold showers and practice Semen Retention I exfoliate my skin , use anti aging lotion with spf and use cremo bodywash and I put Vaseline on my eyebrows and cologne from Versace , I tend to scare females without even trying and ik it’s my body posture because they think im trying to hurt them I’ve been trying to fix it but no luck yet but I’m very masculine i workout my forearms daily so I look decently big, at this point I look good for myself
Well this is an interesting situation we got here
You can fix your posture in a few weeks by doing the correct exercises and learning body language. Smile more feel happy energy and that will leak through body language. When talking to women you like feel sexual energy and that will leak through your body language and girls will feel it and think of you as a flirt
Bro start doing pull ups and other back excercises that will fix your posture.
@@PHTraining what do I do to have positive body language
@@mariobuljevic8568 I do I foam roll daily and do seated rows daily with resistance bands but no luck yet you got any tips?
Reason why we failed as a society
Another chad blackpiller😎
Thanks
Don't mind me, just waiting for a magical explosion of Masculine movies in the coming 20 years so the preferences in attraction changes to Masculine in men.
I'm waiting aswell
You're not alone
I knew that you're Moroccan from the beginning due to the way you pronounce the letter "T" like "tch" or something lol.
Much love to Moroccan people ❤️
Also Eid Mubarak if you're Muslim ♥️
Thanks Eid Mubarak to you aswell ❤️
What makes soft guys attractive to me, is fact that they are less likely to attack me and hurt/kill me.
These standards will change within the next 10 years when they start having more responsibilities and they realize that being a “soft boy” really gets you nowhere in your social,professional, and interpersonal life. Just my 2 cents 🙋🏻♂️
Well they gotta get over the eboy period at some point
@FuckOuttaHere i feel like realistically its more like 4 years tops since most of them are around 16 years old and realistically most people dont start feeling real responsibility until about 19-20 so i just said 10 because ive seen a lot of man children in my time 😁
I don’t understand what that has to do with anything? A man can still be strong and protect you but still be pretty and has a soft appearance. We women like men with soft faces the pretty ones omg
Cope more
pretty boys can make pretty girls lol. nothing wrong with pretty boys or masculine men. Just do you
Female be like : Date pretty boys in daylight and then cheat on them with masculine chads in nightlight.
I watched your first 20 videos so far, I'm surprised you have female friends before in your life. Because me I'm 28 years old virgin in my life I never had any female friends, never hold hands, no hug, no first kiss.
Wow bro, u killing it 🔥Well in my case until 20 y.o. I'll have this soft boy vibe, then up to 25's the bad guy's gonna appear. Great job, new sub!
You go for it king 👑
the thing is even if they are soft, they still have insane masculine features such as great jawlines. and noses and cheekbones.
Hm maybe you're on to something I'm attracted to both masculine and pretty boys used to fangirl over Harry styles so much but it kinda turned me off when he started dressing all feminine. I didnt know why I guess it's because I like men that act more masculine if I wanted someone who acted feminine I'd date a woman. But I'm bisexual so I love feminine features just as much as masculine ones especially people who have mixture of both. Like eboys, nonbinary females, butch/studs women, etc. But then on one hand I'm attracted to the Henry Cavill Michele Morrone (365 days male lead) types. I'm all over the place really.
I understand the struggle haha
More to choose from ig haha
Get a beard, get shredded, get money, be in peace with urself fellas and find ur purpose. Don’t believe what the woman say, believe in what they do.
I just wanna look like gigachad
I have a feeling that hyper masculine will come back not too long from now. I’m gonna try to be as masculine as possible no matter what tho. Maybe society’s will favor me at some point. Masculine guys will do just fine either way.
Yes I have that feeling too
I beg to differ, for example, look at River Phoenix of the late 80s, he was the main crush of most women in the movies he was in.
Funny 2 years ago they were called soft boys
As a 17 year old indian boy i must say that having ultramasculine physical features but a bit of feminine attitude,friendly and humorous nature and taste rather than being dang serious is the thing I prefer ☺😊
Prefer me then 😁
This video seems to be for incels. Guys take this with a grain of salt.
Girls have different tastes and each of them will like a different type of guy ,it’s not like all women like one specific type of dude
Yes and I've just explained to why I think women like that certain type of men
Chads >>> Soft Boys
I can appreciate soft boys as cute eye candy but I’m always gonna date masculine men because of how feminine they make me feel. I could never picture myself dating a soft boy
To each their own , date the people that make you safe and happy ❤️
May I know how old are you ?
@@janderrage190 age is secondary here because by her words I could say she's mature enough to make sense in this current senseless world.
Lol so what if they're actually a matured man who's like 32 but still looks like a soft boy?
@@brandonheat9785 i don’t think young women are attracted to men in their 30s
Men should be masculine
When we are in our teens and early 20s we love pretty cute boys too but as we grew up we realize nothing can beat masculinity...a real man is not about body building and beard and low bass voice...it all about mental strenght and how good you treat your women.
if only that realization wasn't always too late 👀
non sense even older women like pretty boys there’s many 29yo kpop stans
Stop generalizing tho, I will forever like pretty boys. Too masculine guys is 0 appealing to me
lmao no
@@kalita115 lmao yes for me. I hate beards and stuff and masculine men are a big no for me. Learn that people have different tastes be mature lol
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Yes you have a problem with that ?
they don't know how important masculinity is until they need it
Since ur from Morocco are u muslim?
Yes
@@neroangelo2028 nice Ramadan mubarak
@@neroangelo2028 nice to see Muslim black pilled also u married
@@IMZLEGEND1 no I'm still too young for marriage haha
@@neroangelo2028 u got a girl?
Social standard can't defeat nature.
Same reason why back in 08 girls went crazy for emo guys with the swooped haircuts. These e boys are the new emo/scene at least stylistically. Just like back then in High School those guys had an appeal these dudes do as well. In fact the best guy I've ever seen with women was a surfer but he had soft facial features but a solid body from surfing. This has always been a thing but Tik Tok is finally revealing it.
I was soft boy 3 year ago since then I converted myself into strong boy and reaction was so unnatural, my gf don't like me, my old female friends don't like me and I am now shock
Wow, same here, may I ask what you mean by converted into a strong boy? did you cut your hair shorter, did you grow a beard? what else? Thank you