A Gold Digger Has Drained Over $800,000 of My Father-in-Law's Money
Вставка
- Опубліковано 27 вер 2021
- A Gold Digger Has Drained Over $800,000 of My Father-in-Law's Money
Nix the guesswork and scrolling. We’ll connect you with investment pros we trust: bit.ly/3hc6Pgt
Visit the Dave Ramsey store today for resources to help you take control of your money! goo.gl/gEv6Tj
Did you miss the latest Ramsey Show episode? Don’t worry-we’ve got you covered! Get all the highlights you missed plus some of the best moments from the show. Watch debt-free screams, Dave Rants, guest interviews, and more!
Want to watch FULL episodes of The Ramsey Show? Make sure to go to The Ramsey Show (Full Episodes) at: ua-cam.com/users/TheRamseySh...
Check out the show at 4pm EST Monday-Friday or anytime on demand. Dave Ramsey and his co-hosts talking about money, careers, relationships, and how they impact your life. Tune in to The Ramsey Show and experience one of the most popular talk radio shows in the country!
Ramsey Network (Subscribe Now!)
• The Ramsey Show (Highlights):
ua-cam.com/users/TheRamseySh...
• The Ramsey Show (Full Episodes): ua-cam.com/users/TheRamseySh...
• The Dr. John Delony Show: ua-cam.com/users/JohnDelony?...
• The Rachel Cruze Show: ua-cam.com/users/RachelCr...
• The Ken Coleman Show: ua-cam.com/users/TheKenColem...
• The Christy Wright Show: ua-cam.com/users/ChristyWrig...
• EntreLeadership: ua-cam.com/users/entreleader...
Nix the guesswork and scrolling. We’ll connect you with investment pros we trust: bit.ly/3hc6Pgt
If he is in THEIR home, first thing I would do is tell him he can move out, move in with her, but understand that when the money runs out, he will not be coming back.
Yes, exactly. Well said.
lol like that will sit well with his son ill kick the woman out no problem and will join my dad on the corner
very good
Dave Ramsey quote “ we are aware his birthday suit needs ironing “ 🤣
That was epic, and I'm stealing that phrase.
🤣
Tell him you won't support him if he runs out of money. But if he wants to spend his money, so be it.
Agreed. Just tell him he has to pay his own way. If she still has a problem with it, then she’s just upset that the inheritance isn’t going to be as big as she wanted.
Boomers out there pissing away their money rather than handing it down to their children to build legacies. I guess Thai lady boys are more important than family. Boomers absolutely ruined this country.
@@jeremyjames7009 maybe millennials did with the attitude that their parents owe them when they die
@@jeremyjames7009 earn your own money
He knows he can’t take money with him, he is paying for her company.
Which is fine but don't expect my house to be your safe space because you were stupid. Even if you pay for play it shouldn't cost you that much.
Right, she's just looking out for her Inheritance.
Which is fine, but he needs a pum Pum budget, this math ain't mathing
Company shouldn’t cost that much. Half of that would suffice. Plenty of sugar babies would do more for less. He’s being foolish for no reason.
To play devils advocate what is the point being the richest man in the graveyard? but at 85 he's clearly over valued his lady friends worth.
The same thing happened to a friend of mine's father, age 85. He continued to give his money to a fifty-year-old woman until he finally had to go into a nursing home, then she was cut off by the family. During that time period, the family reported this to the police, but they said there was nothing they could do because their father can give away all of his money if he wanted to.
wow
i wish someone would give me 800000
Absolutely correct. I was fortunate that my mother recognized the need to secure her nest egg and gave me and my brother full control. She now lives in a home and burning through $4K per month. When she runs out of money we are going to have to move her somewhere, we simply cannot afford that much. It is sad that this is how it is but life costs money.
He CAN give his money away if he want to, no crime here.
What did the 50 year old look like?
If the girlfriend can burn through grandpas money, then she can take care of him. He can move in with her.
You think she's going to do that after he goes broke? In your dreams.
Problem with that idea is once the money is gone, she will be too.
When you're broke you're on your own.
This.
He may be having age related mental problems that are causing him to make these bad decisions. In that case, would it really be his fault?
“The cheapest woman tends to be the one that you pay for .” Jack Reacher
I agree 100% with John when he said “it’s hard to see someone of this age in your home with this kind of money because you start to spend it in your head”
Yeah, she's upset there likely won't be any inheritance because he gave it to someone else. its frustrating but he's also not obligated to give his kids any of his $2million.
@@Sizukun1 my thoughts exactly
@@Sizukun1 and they’re under no obligation to provide for him, especially with that entitled attitude. That’s just wrongheaded thinking on his part.
That is messed up thinking that someone else's money belongs to you.
@@alinatamashevich3354 agreed
Is the daughter in law really worried about him or the inheritance that is dwindling?
Maybe she loves her husband's family and doesn't like seeing old folks get taken advantage of?
@@sizzlinbacon21able i hope so
The inheritance! Any smart person can see through that user named Regina.
@@sizzlinbacon21able Don't be naive. Regina wants all the money for herself.
I wouldn't let my father in law live in my house after he was being stupid with his money. Even if I didn't get a dime after the fact. I'm not his atm and scape goat for him making stupid decisions.
You can turn the case over to adult protective services and let them investigate. They won't likely do anything but it may scare her or wake him up when he is talked to by someone outside of the family.
like this idea.
Excellent idea
If he had 1.2 mill, he can have his own place….
Absolutely...But then the daughter in law loses control of her inheritence 🤣
@@JustinCase780 She doesn’t have control of it now..
@@Flipper86 Bingo! Sad that people "think" they are entitled to others wealth.
Or afford a really nice retirement home.
@@alinatamashevich3354 that’s why no one needs to know how much you have or make…
A good friend of mine is in a similar situation. Her dad lives with her for free and is outspending his means on women he thinks need a savior.
Captain Save-a-Ho. 🤣
Yeah if he wants to blow through his earnings/retirement that's his prerogative however with the remaining $1.2 million he can afford an assisted living facility and I'd help her pack his bags.
and id kick you out of my home, father stays! thats final
Kick father-in-law out. Let him know he is walking his tightrope of love without a safety net from here on out.
Put me out and you're out of the will. Let me guess you want to stop him from spending the money so you can spend when he dies.🤔
Wow. Selfish and witchy.
@@lovyng yes! Regina is thinking of herself.
kick the woman out shes replaceable, father is not
I would tell dad when you are broke you can live on social security.
If the father-in-law gentleman would call into the show and talk with Papa Dave... Now that would be a classic!
Dave is simp loser he would say the guy should hand over more money
A sit down with Gramps is in order: Gramps said that when he runs out of money, he will live with son and daughter-in-law, which implicitly means that he knows the girlfriend will dump him when he runs out of money.
Son and daughter-in-law need to make clear that they don't want his money AND that they will not support him after he has spent it all. Case closed.
I hope the husband, the 86-year-old's son, will be on board with this. That message should come from the son, not the daughter-in-law.
He did it all wrong. He should have spent the money with a much younger woman.
:)))))
Or just give it to his kids
.... A young nurse to get a dual service for the same price 🙂
@@rodrigofernandez9055 😂😂
😂😂😂
She should be taken to court for elder abuse.
The woman is obviously a scammer and the old man can't handle his personal & financial affairs. They should petition the Court for an Elderly guardianship or conservatorship to oversee and budget this man's finances. Asap.
Yep, this greedy family wants to divorce their father in law but surely they don’t want to divorce from his money. Hd worked all his life to do WHATEVER HE WANTS WITH HIS OWN MONEY, and if somebody is making him feel loved and cared again and give them all of his money so BE IT!
Loved and cared til the money is spent, then is dumped.
This is just speculation, and hypotheticals, a worst case scenario, but its also likely an educated guess.
He needs a competency hearing. Sounds like he's not capable of making his own decisions.
Then the court system can bleed him dry with therapy, doctors visits and welfare checks.
Father In Law's money needs to be in a trust with a responsible legal guardian. Then he gets a monthly allowance from the trust for expenses and spending money. In my own family my cousin who is a lawyer managed money for several older relatives and made sure that all the bills were paid and they were taken care of when they could no longer manage their own affairs. Worked out fine.
If he earned the money, he has the right to spend it.
If he is still legally in his right mind, this family has no right to take away his money and put it in a trust just because they want it.
Worked out fine but thats not according to the victims
To me, this case is no different than a person who gambles away a fortune, then turns to relatives for support when he is destitute. In both cases it is addictive behavior.
He's on his own, that's life.
why is the step-father living with them at all?
I wonder if the father-in-law has additional symptoms consistent with dementia/Alzheimer’s?
Does the father-in-law have the "I'm spending my children's inheritance" bumper sticker on the back of his RV, Harley saddlebag, or BMW convertible?
Why does he have to give them an inheritance?
Unless he's incompetent, there's nothing you can do.
Yes there is, kick him out. If he’s capable of handling himself in that manner and acting as if they’re obligated to provide for him after he’s wasted it all, then he’s man enough to move out, live on his own, and provide for himself when it’s all gone.
@@Smallvillefreak I realize that, and that's what they should do. What I'm saying is that there's nothing they can do to stop him from spending his money. It's sad, but it's his money.
Yes there is, make him move out and get his own place.
They should tell the dad to go live with that 54-year-old girlfriend. She how that would work. Or advise him to live at an assisted living facility. If he would put the rest of his money into a safe place, be frugal, and withdraw only what he needs to live monthly, he'd be alright.
@Ryaan George quit scamming on this channel
@Ryaan George quit scamming on this channel
your life sounds like it sucks
Could have got a hot 30 year old for that type of money
Actually he could get multiple 20 years old. Old guy has poor taste but it’s his money.
If she really cared for him she would share this advice but all she cares about is the inheritance
@@56redjets they are not thier fir meaningful conversation. That’s what the cigar lounge is for.
A thirty year old after money won’t be as aggressive as a 54 year old after money. The 30 year old knows she has her whole life ahead of her with his money after he dies the 54 year old is literally just spiteful
@Taqeem Hilton The entire concept of any men's magazine!
His birthday suit needs ironing 🤣🤣🤣😭😭💀
Let him spend his money, but when he runs out out of money it's his problem. I would tell him when he runs of money, you will not support him.
She a diamond digger
A former friend of mine said she was going to find some rich old man and spend his money. I said I'd go for the jugular if anyone tried to steal my inheritance like that. She said if she's putting up with him she deserves to take his money.
The best advise is to tell the GF that he gave all of his money to charity or put it into a trust, then watch how fast she gets THO and drop him like a hot rock
6:11 Great analogy Dave. I am going to remember that one.
Thank You!
I was afraid that my 86 year old father was going to fall for his caregiver. Thank God it didn't happen. Old men (and women probably) still want to be loved and if you mix that with someone who is caregiving in a loving way, and with possibly some senility or just misguided affection it can be very scary. Fortunately besides me, my father had a fiduciary that was managing his affairs and his care. She kept a close eye and would step in any time there was potentially inappropriate behavior going on. I would advise families to stay close to your elders and don't say "Oh thank you for taking care of my father/mother" and walk away. You must be involved and keep your eyes and ears open. There are plenty of people in the world who make a career out of bilking the elderly. Keep your loved ones safe.
@Ryaan George You are barking up the wrong tree, dude.
@YT Flava We were thankful, but she took large amounts of money several times and she also drove up her brother's monster truck and filled up his tank with my Dad's gas card. She was lucky we didn't fire her.
Ouch🤕 that's a lot of money
Bless his heart ❤️
My guess is she wishes she married her father in law and not his son 🤣
Lol harsh
Number one question is whether or not he is completely competent if so it super simple...you need to move out and when the money is gone you can move into whatever assisted living center you SS check and other retirement income can afford.
Someone needs to file Guardianship over him.
Lol.. " Boiling in back room".. Thanks.. The truth hurts...
Kick him out of the house. It sounds like he has enough to take care of himself or ask that girlfriend to take him in. This is ridiculous
She didn't want to lose the inheritance!!
Why does he even live with his adult kids? It sounds like he is spending his own money by giving it to her. Free will. Not good, but he may do as he wishes.
All I know is, not only can younger single folks take advantage of older people but caregivers are in the same boat. My grandfather feels like he needs to leave a part of his estate to his caregiver. It's really weird because she works full-time, her husband works full-time, and yet she complains that they are super broke
People develop bond with caregivers and nurses. My grandma thought my cousins didn’t have money for groceries, and had my aunt sending them each $150 per month. Grandma could no longer see to write the checks. These grandsons were a Stanford and USC-educated doctor in residence, and. Boalt Hall-educated tax lawyer married to another lawyer. They never stopped her. For shame. 😢
People get attached to caregivers and nurses. My grandma thought my cousins didn’t have money for groceries, and had my aunt send them each $150 per month. Grandma could no longer see to write the checks. These grandsons were a Stanford and USC-educated doctor in residence, and a University of San Francisco-educated tax lawyer married to another lawyer. They never stopped her. For shame. 😢
I think if this man said he was leaving all of his money to The Unwed Cats and Dogs Home in his will this woman would kick him out quicker than you could say kittens and puppies, she is concerned he is spending what she thinks of as 'HER" inheritance, man still has $1.2 MILLION and she's panicking? What he doesn't realize is that his staying there is contingent upon him leaving them money in the will, he should move out, not like he has to be there right now, financially or otherwise. Greedy.
A love-sick old man. 😂😂😂
So true though.
The truth shall set you free
Finally a good segment with Dave at the helm. He’s the only one who is knowledgeable, experienced, and has an authoritative way of speaking. Everyone else is weak. I’d like to watch the whole show. Where is it?
She only cares about the inheritance she will be missing out when her father in law passes.
But, he also lives with her with no compensation
@@melanieb2132 Nowhere was it stated in the letter that the fil was not paying rent and other expenses. Perhaps that is why they took him in-----for the extra income.....and (presumed) preservation of their expected inheritance by not maintaining his own household whether it be assisted living or not.
@@Swedetwin are you defending the old man?
$800k on a 54 yo? For that kind of money get a 21yo.
54! Dude you need to upgrade for that kind of money. Get a couple of 25 year olds!
18. Freshly legal.
@@Lexethan2011 With good shopping he can get a low mileage 19 y.o. on the cheap.
Surprise Dave didn’t tell him to make the money back. God forbid a woman is in the wrong.
I would bring him to the crappiest nursing home I could find, bring him to it, and promise him that is his future
They should charge him room and board and require that he put a million in an escrow account for private duty care if he gets sick and lives another 10 years with them. Whatever he has left after those obligations to family he can spend as he pleases.
I sometimes wonder… are people really worried about their parents or their inheritance? If the man is happy.. leave him be. 🤔
Inheritance
In the 90s I’ve listened to many of my coworker baby boomers and millennials talk about the inheritance they were getting but never happened.
They can’t afford to retire.
Also don’t understand being that old and such a simp.
Know too many women that age holding their own financially and some you really don’t need to spend a dime on.
Depends honestly. I'm concerned about my in-laws since they own a business(own their job I mean) and have been talking about exiting it for years now that theyre in their 60s. I love them, theyre awesome---but I don't want to deal with the mess of selling that business if something happens to them(mainly my father in law since his health isnt amazing and the business almost 95% depends on him working).
I could care less about inheritance. I just don't want my parents or in laws living with me and want for them to manage their own retirement well.
Father is living with the kid. You think that $2.0 million dollars goes a long way if father has to pay for housing and living costs? Good luck with that.
I wouldn’t doubt it if he’s also helping them financially. That’s why he’s living with them.
Dave said the birthday suite needs ironing at 86😂😂😂
Her anger is completely justified. What's his son doing? Why not go to Elder Services to legally protect this man?
Only thing you can do is make a case in court to declare him mentally inept, but good luck with that and the damage that may cause to a lifelong relationship.
If I were you, I'd divorce your father in law.
Oh that's ok let him enjoy his years 🤣🤣
Dave is a G 😂
was he always like this? I am concerned about his mental state. Has he seen his Doc lately?
🎶 She keeps my money when I'm in needed...🎵
Well--- at least he's met his RMD's!!!
😁
She sounds like she’s the one that wants that money instead of the gf lol 😂
She sounds like someone who wants to protect her own retirement money.
@@nosuchthingasanonymity2498 THANK YOU… why are so many people mad at the lady calling in…. Thats their retirement and provision for them and to bury the old man being blown….
Why is it that everyone all of a sudden doesn’t think the older generation should leave something to make next generation better both financially, emotionally and such?
Like we all deserve to be at ground zero with nothing to rely on…. Just blow all you worked hard for instead of make sure your grandkids can go to college or have a downpayment for a house and your kids aren’t poor when they retire.
People are angry as if she isnt related she is the DAUGHTER IN LAW…. She has the next generation of babies with her FIL’s son!!!! His son… why are people acting like she has no right to protect her future inheritance?!
Father in law should tattoo “Mutt” on his forehead.
We had the exact same thing happen with my grand mother luckily he only got 100000$ out of her before we caught it and had a judge grand us power over her finances good god he could have and would have gotten millions
He probably doesn't care that she is attracted to him. It is ok if he wants to spend his money this way - but he needs to move out.
Where do i find me an old man with money, Nicole was able to do it
Yikes 😬
I would ask to borrow money from him while he has it, I would then set it aside to pay for his needs when he's broke.
I’m surprised the father would live with his daughter if he’s worth over a million.
He's 86 and needs to be cared for
@Ryaan George ok
I shocked. Is that number right?
SO SAD........
Help father in law find a nice condo where he can hang out with his friend. Maybe put him in FPU. He's proablly missing his wife. He might benifit from counseling.
My in-laws inherited millions from my mother in laws step Dad. She went and bought a timeshare! I told my husband…. Isn’t it nice watching your mom basically throw your inheritance down the drain? Like we would ever say a word…. But she would NEVER live with us! Hope mine save some for a nursing home! Can’t stay here!
Making him move out will give the girlfriend complete access to him and his money. It may be gone even faster. Then she will be done with him and you will be left with his care. I say welcome her. Invite her for dinner and family gatherings. Get to know her so you can see how she really is and if she really cares about him. If she becomes part of the family, she will have a relationship with the family and be less likely to try to swindle, if that is what she is doing. The other thing is to ask him to set aside a couple hundred thousand that will care for him when the rest is gone. It's his money. He can spend it how he wishes. It's hard to watch someone be stupid but if he is happy, that's important.
Grandpa will not listen them . He is enjoying that attention the 54 year old is giving him .
Id guess that at his age he would not run out of money. This is not likely to carry on for 15 or 30 years.
some girls have all the luck 😆😂
Let the old man be happy he doesn’t have long to live
BS. He could live another 14 years. There is no excuse for being an idiot. At any age.
@@janelleg597 he can do whatever he wants and it's HIS money. who writes a letter like that about their father-in-law? .. a parasite that wants HIS money and he's having fun with HIS money
@@JustinCase780 they're taking care of him. It's not a one way road. They are sacrificing privacy and more intimacy by having the father in law live with them. He has a right to spend his money, and they have a right to respond accordingly. It is equally as parasitic to have wasted a million dollars for fun and expect others to take care of you until you die, all while someone else is taking care of you at the moment.
@@chicanoazteca8614 I only hear the woman complaining if the man says the Father stays
All sorts of boundaries being crossed. An in law doesn’t have the right to say anything.
She does if the father in law expects her and the son to take care of him when he's even older and has no more money
Ouch
Kick him out of your house. No reason to support him or get control of his money and help him if he had dementia or mentally declined
No doubt that 50 something year old is taking advantage of that man.
LET HIM DO WHATEVER HE WANTS! Lol
Just warn him, he’ won’t be taken care of if the money runs out
Pay a PI to investage her and show her with other men.
30 second in, this is easy. Tell him you won't be taking care of him if he runs out of money. Other than that, if he is of sound mind, it's his money to do with as he pleases
Dave is as smooth as an gravy sandwich.
$800k on what? Also if he's 86 years old his thinking is impaired so he isn't equipped to make large decisions without consultation. 🤔
Not necessarily. Just because someone is 86 doesn’t mean he’s senile.
On her Lexus most likely.
Is Anthony still with Ramsey Solutions?
No. He hasn't been for a few months. He does his own thing on UA-cam.
If the old boy wanted to give that money to a church, I'd bet the opinion would be different...
O dear
Elder abuse report her