Girl used by Older Man shares her past - VRChat Stories
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- Today in VRChat a girl shares her past of how she was manipulated by an older man in VRChat. I hope her VRChat Story helps you in some way!
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Hey, this really hit home for me. I was being goomed by a 27 year old man when I was 11. I knew what a pedophile was but I always gave him the benefit of the doubt or just didnt see the obvious signs. I never sent pictures but he talked about very lewd things. I felt very uncomfortable and that I should do something but I didnt. Thankfully he stopped texting me.. but even after he just went after another girl my age. This year I was asked about that man with an admin from an old server I used to be in and if he asked certain things, I told them the truth. I was more scared to tell people because there was lots of drama already, but please if you can always tell someone. I still am mad at him, he continues to roam the internet with a pretty decent following doing as he pleases and promising to be better. But he never apologized to me or tried to talk to me about it so he wasnt truly sorry. He just apologized to his following. I stopped holding on to the justice card because I know he wont be punished but I still have a shred of hope.
Im here for anyone going through this
I know how you feel. When i was 14 i got groomed by a 20 year old guy. I was so in love with him and i couldn't see the red flags. It was okay at first but then he became more pushy. The longer we were together, the more toxic he became. He always threatened to kill himself. And eventually he ended it himself. I was angry abd hurt, but after all worried about him. I felt that way for like 2 months before i came over it. Now i hate his guts, but i am scared about opening up.
i ghosted mine and blocked him...
@@artemis754 Hey! Ive gone through the same thing before with multiple predators. I still, dont open up to people about what happened. Its scary, I regret what I did. I dont want to be seen different or you know. I hope you get enough courage to speak up. I myself, am trying to open up. You are so so strong.
@@giornogiovana2374 bruh
Poor u i want to help so much :c
Bro, I hope she is okay in the future. Be safe out there everyone!
You too!!♡♡
This is so sad!! This girl was taken advantage by a horrible man!! Who would do this? Like WHAT WAS THE REASON. WHAT WAS THE REASON.
sadly it happens a lot but I am glad he makes these videos, because it helps others to who go though it and have been though. Just knowing someone else has been though it and ur not alone it a nice feeling but under the circumstances its terrible...
Its an obsession i think.
Could also be a fetish
Just depravity and lust and horrible people want to control no matter how it ruins lives it's really sick and makes me hate the world ice had my fair share of awful things that have happened to me
Well she could‘ve just block him. I think she needed that lesson tbh.
I wish I had be chat because I really need people to listen 😔
Discord is a good substitute for vr chat, if you need someone to listen...lots of trolls tho so make sure you can trust them
-ThatOneGuy#4104
Same😢
looks for me
Wolfy_288 I try to be on every day
Same.....😞
I had a friend on discord that had severe depression and a eating disorder.
SoulfulPine#5269
30 minutes till the story
Edit: I am glad she got her story off her chest and got a good person to listen an help here
I love how he actually cares about the speaker and not just for the money that he gets from doing this that just warms my heart!He is actually one of the best people you could have to like listen to you and shared personal stuff that you want to share!I also Liked,subscribed,and turned the bell.Have a wonderful day or night everyone ❤
Hey man, met you in VRchat today! Just wanted to say I think what you're doing is very important and more people need to see your stuff. Its clear from listening to these stories that a lot of people feel alone and that they can't get help, but other people seeing these videos gives them a sense of hope that they aren't the only ones out there. You're doing a really good thing, my dude.
I appreciate that! and it was nice meeting you!
1 hours of waiting. Ik its gonna be worth it.
Yes
Old man tells the girl in VR chat “king wants a Unibrow, king wants a Badonka-butt” 😂
About the part of a guy sending inappropriate pictures. I've had a 27-year-old girl do that to me. I played along just to get more and more evidence for discord support to ban the person but like, I don't understand why people like to do that. It's just... Dumb
The girl was sending nude photors to u and u were 'gathering evidence'? Why wiuld u ban her...?
The girl was sending nude photors to u and u were 'gathering evidence'? Why wiuld u ban her...?
Kin87 not nudes. But acting inappropriate.
Are you not of age or something lol
@@sneakymilkman4203
I would imagine he was yes.
Or just didnt like the insppropraute behavior.
You're out here doing gods work and listen to people
4:36 aye dont worry sis im the whale that can help you. 🌉🌌🌌
It's sad because often it's the nicest people are most vulnerable. Know that you don't have to please everyone you meet, especially to the point where you start doubting your own thoughts. Part of maturing is learning to make proper judgement for yourself. I'm sorry that you had to go through that traumatic experience.
reminds me of my first experiences with AOL chat rooms when I was like 11 years old, I'm 29 now, spent most my time online so far...the internet is a wild place
I learn something every time I watch your videos. And sometimes ( all the time ) I cry for the people and what has happened to them. I love your videos, you’re SUCH a great person for listening to people and trying to make their lives better. I REALLY wish you could be a irl therapist, as well as a virtual one.
2 hours to go..... it’s 1am....
Definitely going to be worth it! TwT
A like (from someone idk who, but someone) *and* a heart from *iListen* ,my life is complete!!☺️
Crystal Roses TwT that reply is cringe
I hope she's feeling alright. Thank you for letting us hear her experience. God bless!
I really want VR chat but I don’t have enough money for a headset, I am saving up money for a chinchilla :/
You can play it in Desktop mode.
VRChat is a free game on Steam.
It also doesn’t require as much computer power when your computer isn’t processing you in VR.
U can play on computer! I might but idkkk if I wanna meet people on vr yet.
No headset needed unless you want a better experience
chinchillas are more worth it
Appreciate hearing someone younger's perspective on this.
I do rate VRChat for the occasional bants and exploration, but there has *always* been _that_ side to it, and its not very subtle nor hidden.
Far too many predators and stupid people that come in all shapes and sizes.
Good on this person for pulling themselves out.
Common sense goes a long way.
I really think your username really fits your content, channel, etc. Your like a traveling friend who is there to listen, hear your story. It's very nice of you. I hope this channel takes off. ^^
Its 2pm and this is worth it espescially when im having some tea rn :>
I can't wait btw I love ur videos it helps me when I'm going throw stuff
Man vr chat really is like a giant therapy session. I joined a lobby and people were talking about their biggest regrets in life, most of them had stories that brought them and others to tears. Vr chat is a wonderful place but also a place for you to be yourself and that is why I love it.
That 1 dislike is that guy
This hit home for me. I wish I saw this when I was in the toxic online relationship.
this hits really hard , i went through the same thing not too long ago. i really trusted him.
I'm so sorry for the struggle you had to go through.
i really like how he takes the time to heart almost all of the comments, btw nice vid ❤❤🙂🙂
Nice vid,keep up the good work😃😃👍
idk if anyone will ever see this but the videos about these topics help me out a lot, just because i have been in that situation 4 times already and i always hated it, i wish i was as brave as her to block those people out of my life
Such a good channel
This is what i watch instead of studying and honestly the stories make me cry + school
omg i didnt see this video before but i just watched it. this is so relatable! i was in a very toxic relationship with a guy older than me for 4 months recently. he was very possessive and took advantage of me. thanks so much for sharing :oo
this really helps with this type of thing and I always realise something after i watch one of these vrchat vids they are like therapy
She's young but she's right. Games are for gaming. Dating websites are for dating. Adult websites are for adult entertainment. Kids and teens in particular should keep this message to heart. Don't let someone pressure you into doing something. When you experience love and intimacy it should be with someone your own age who gives you butterflies.
It shouldn't be with someone who has vastly more experience in life ocmpared to you. People who have much more experience in life than you and don't feel protective of and act careful not to hurt your innocence are selfish and IMO even predatory. Do not give these kinds of people what they want. If they were decent people they wouldn't even do those things if you were the one who showed interest in them first.
I like this channel it makes me feel like that what I’m going through in games aren’t as bad bc my friends just do t pay attention to how a feel but it isn’t that bad cuz ppl have it wordt
I watch these videos so I can get intel on what to expect from people, but yeah, not every guy or girl on vrchat or even real life is like that, but I'm always cautious and I don't trust people right away, sure they may be a person to vibe with, but if I, later on, get a bad vibe? I'll want to stay away from them. This story helped me even more with watching out for red flags and making sure I'm in my head and not letting someone manipulate me. (which has never happened, but I'm always watching out for when it does.) I always think about when my parents say, "if there was something wrong, would you come to me for it?" and I'm always relieved to hear that for, one day when I will need their help, I can most likely 99% go to them about it.
I hope she feels better and has a great future up ahead for her. (sorry to make this all about me lol, it's about all of us) stay safe out there everyone, have a good day. :)
@iListen As someone who went through a similar experience on a different platform I want to say thank you. Thank you for using your platform to share something like this. It breaks my heart that this happened to someone else. I don't think this is something that is talked about enough. People think that it can't or won't happen to them and that they would see the signs but you don't. These people, they find your vulnerabilities and they attack it, twist it, use it against you to get what they want. They will isolate you, turn you against some of your closet people, so that you become dependent on them. Again, you would think that you would know but this takes time. This isn't something that happens overnight. There is so much I could say about the topic but for now if there is anyway you can still reach out to her, to let her know she isn't alone and that she is so strong for sharing her story, especially considering how it was only 2 years ago (which sounds like a long time but really isn't for something like this) I would appreciate that.
Just saying, I really like your VR!chat OC XD!
Man I want to give that girl a hug oh man. I feel u hun *Far away air hugs*
that occasional nod is so reassuring :)
Bro, I completely understand this girl. Like she said, she was naive at the time, so I don't blame ya for not doing anything about it. I myself have learned from other people about this type of stuff. And it actually makes me scared to be in a relationship, because im afraid their like abusive or they'll try to take advantage of me... so to those who happen to come across this type of stuff... don't be afraid to say no, it won't hurt as bad. :3
I want VR chat so I can listen to stories like this but since I don’t have it, I’ll just watch these videos and I love it so much
I have big story too and I'm really happy people share their story they are very brave that make me happy😂
I love her skin btw-
I can relate to so much ;-; this brings back memories :( they will get though it!
I think this video was important for me to hear
I subbed for you mate 😊
She sounds like the persons that knows when you need a hug
o_0 Woah! That is HIDEOUS!!!
Wait hideous is a world describing the look... EH WORKS ANYWAYS!
Looking at this makes me wannabe cry 😔 i know it gonna be worth it to watch. 😔 I hope I don't cry :(
if only someone had told me those words many many months ago, maybe i wouldn’t feel so disgusting for what i was manipulated into doing what i had done as it would’ve never happened and i wouldn’t have so much pain, trauma and responsibility on my back
❤️ iListen and his videos
i will use this to help me in vrchat cuz i get a lot of men doing this too me and i dont like it so thx u for this video
Awhhh... i feel really bad for her
..
It's like everybody thinks that it's okay to just... like.. use people for many things... this is so sad... i regret doing the thing i did though... i can't tell, but... it was horrible. I'm also still kinda young...💗💗💗
Cant wait for the *cough* next video
I came late but didnt talk.
I cant wait to watch...also iListen can u please heart this?
THANK YOU!!!!
@@MetaMikeGaming lol u should be iRead :))
wow this is deep- im a teenager and i 100% agree with this!!! PLEASE BE CARFUL ONLINE!!
This made me very upset. Much respect for talking about it. I know it's not easy.
I subscribed
I started watching this last week and made an account just to sub
I liked and sun with the bell on
I only go on VR chat because i need to like listen to people as I calm down from like anxiety or depression.
That's really sad😞
Im sorry last comment I know I comment a lot but do the people u talk to u meet in discord, comments or just vrchat?
Ilisten it's me if you read this comment I'm the guy you just met I subscribed last year around Christmas
If I have a friend on vrchat that ends up being too annoying, I just hit em with the quick and easy block.
That big whale in the background tho 😂😂😂😂😂😂
(4:40)
I’m scared of what my recommended is gonna look like now
Okay, but can we talk about her hands. :') rip broken wrists
I’m actually getting a vr set this Christmas because I feel like all of my friends are fake and I just want to talk to someone about my past
I subbed :)
Kanna from thumbnail is on my phone wallpaper
This has happened to me a lot. Being taken advantage of me for my kindness and secretly manipulated me and of course I didn't know. So I try to stay away once I see the red flag. I just leave.
I like how vr chat become a place for therapy....
It really sucks that girls everywhere have to deal with this kind of crap
This is one scary moment that happened to me, so im little and my parents gave me a phone so im like "okay cool thanks" anyway I couple months like two, so I have only my parent's, sister, brother, and friends number and I have some spam account's. So I see one and it just says "hey.". And so I replied "who the heck is this?" and mabye two minutes later he replies with "I'm 'jay' and I work with the court thingy, is this iris?" . I mean I know people sometimes get mistaken so I think it's fine. "No wrong number" usually it ends there, but it didn't ;-;. "Oh sorry I thought you were iris I just work alot". And I'm like ;-;. So I responded with "oh." So then I start to get suspicious and kinda scared •~•. So he responded with "yeah" "do you have a meetme account" I started to get nervous and scared so I text him "you know I'm only ** years old right!!!" "Also I'm telling my dad!". So I show my dad and he got mad ;-; he texted 'jay' bad words and whatever and he just responded with "sorry. Wrong number." My worst phobia came true but over text ;-; (what a pedo :/)
You did the right thing with immediately telling your dad when you saw the red flags
@@alastorbutwithagun I was scared and didn't know what else to do. (Also thanks)
If it were me or still tries to annoy me I would probably ignore it or swear and be agressive at him
@Kylar Cortez telling ur age wont do anything. Its not like they can find where u live just by ur age.
Great job for telling your dad. It breaks my heart that kids nowadays have to be aware of this kinda thing so young but it's better to know and deal with it appropriately than get into a wrong situation.
When you putted kanna chan to represent her young self made me pissed off to the older guy
This world is a scary place
jeez haven't seen this side of vrc
I honestly need vrchat in my life. Yes it has its dangers but I feel like it could at least help me mentally (I'm not exactly, uh, "stable", per se). Unfortunately all I have is a phone and a tablet so that's unfortunately a no go
They should make a phone version of vrchat
@@count-countess8464 for real
You listen to a lot of people’s stories. But what about your stories? I wanna see someone doing your same thing but to you, just to know you better
I have a couple Q&A streams from awhile back!
@@MetaMikeGaming
iListen: Well it all started when...wait who's going to ask ME questions? :/
i wish i could talk to someone like listen on chat but alass even tough i have chat it will never happen
I don't understand how older guys take interest in young innocent girls??
I'm 23 myself and i can never imagine myself talking to a 3-5 years old younger than me inappropriately that's messed up
i understand her cuz i was in the same way as she was it was very scary
Btw I was the Herbert the pervert avatar
It's sad that people would do this thing to anyone especially minors
Daddy has posted a new video 🥵🥵🥵
Damn... I experienced the same shit just in real life ...
I was in a toxic relationship as well. He would always be like “do you even love me” when I would say no to certain things. He asked me in a call to moan for him.. He was the same age as well so I didn’t need to worry about predations.. he would always be so clingy, forced me to do things I didn’t want to do, be overprotective and I’m glad I broke up with him. I have a better life now. I’m free now.
you know, that advice she gave..I also felt stupid cause I'm letting this guy who's 6 years older than me practically let him keep doing what he's doing.
And its coming to a point where he might actually like me, and do I just block him!? I'm very hesitant when I know its wrong..
If he is getting angry when you don't respond/respond fast to him, then that's a big red flag. That shows he doesn't want anyone else having your attention/time, which is very toxic. If you already relate to the situation in the video, then it's probably a very good time to block him right now....
Is that a cherry blossom in the back ground 🤔
i feel so bad for her 😖
#We Listen
Ahhhh not again I keep being late
she do be saying facts tho
this girl's situation is totally relatable, and I'm still in it, but mine's a bit different coz my friend doesn't talk to me so often like he used to, and he just rages at me whenever I mess up, its real hard for me and I'm glad I'm not alone. But I can tell you its hard coz he was my bro( btw he's an online friend), most of the time on discord he just leaves me muted, and it hurts, the only time he'd ever talk to me is when I fuck up big time, at that moment he'd rage at me, then he'd tell me to fuck off. its kinda hard and I wish I was a s brave as this girl to stand up to him and tell him how I feel about the way he's treating me
Cut him out.
It may not seem so easy, but it is in fact as simple as that.
An online acquaintance that treats you like a verbal punching bag *isn't your friend.*
Friends do not actively go out of their way to make you feel worthless and hurt.
Never get too wrapped up in Discord like its the pinnacle of your day to day life. You can always block; you can always move on; and you can always turn off the computer.
Never allow yourself to be trapped in such mentally draining scenarios that can be solved with the simple use of a "remove friend" function.
Respect yourself. Do take care. Know that it doesn't have to be the way it is by taking a deep breath, and taking control.
It'll likely do you both alot of good.
You are your own main character. Write the bad plot out and keep your story positive.
Just block him lmao
Some one once told be a minecraft pick up line
Illegal hacker thing >.>
As I get older, and become the "older man" I worry that I might be talking to younger kids who might not share the same mature age group as me and since it's not separated into clear grades like in school the difference in age can be...scarily unsettling to say the least.
You have a normal conversation with someone that looks younger or maybe a stranger online and then BAM they're like (usually with the former) only 16 or like 12 (online)
Shit is scary dude. I can imagine the reverse for girls is scary for them especially. ;-;
Dont know how these v tubers do it sometimes when everyone could sound real young and you dont know who tf you're joking with. O-O
Similar things have happened to many girls online, including me. Stay safe out there guys!
i wish people would listen to me but they never do😔😔