If she’s willing to give up her goals for a man, she’s wasn’t a strong woman to being with. Another person cannot pull you down unless you let them. He didn’t pull her down, she pulled herself down for him.
My husband and I come from Latino backgrounds so I get where the husband is coming from HOWEVER, once you decide to marry and start a family, your wife trumps your mother. If you don't believe that, then don't get married.
Everybody repeat after me, as much as needed: "You can't go from ALTAR to ALTER." It never turns out well. Your husband or wife might change, but they'll resent you for it.
true. but I also think that this is the kind of man who can be loyal to his woman. I see a lot of cheating going on in Divorce Court and this man has not cheated on his woman since they got married.
@@desiremakungu3372 women don't want lazy and dependent men. There are men that are loyal that provide and protect their households. It's not a tradeoff. We have options.
twistedblktrekie how are blackwomen any more forced to get an education than any other race or color of woman!?! & im a blackman with a Masters degree, all my 4 brothers but 1 all went to college. less than 25% of americans hav degrees. white people hav more wealth because of slavery and civil rights
*_And vice versa!! Indeed?_* *_And I had been told this same situation had happen but it was the [black man] that gave up his: Job and $$$$Money...$75,000 a year!!!_*
Your money and education? Is this why so many college educated women are not married and or have no man lmao her first mistake was to marry a non black man let her die in her misery being a swirler with her education and money she and him don't have.
Boom. Men know men. His mom probably gave him all the coddling and comfort, he wanted that from his wife. But never REALLY paid attention to what his Dad was doing to ensure his wife could be a mom to him.
The Bible says you can eat anything you want. All things in moderation. That was old Testament law about the shellfish and many other things that Jesus fulfilled.
i disagree, because parents should always be 1st, spouses can be replaced, your parents will not live forever and will never be replaced. not only that but they also cared for you when u were young and couldn't take care of yourself and now that they are old its your turn to return that favor back and start caring for them. its called filial piety
Ladies please understand that admiring potential is one thing but don't get stuck there, also pay attention to the realities and red flags that come with him.
Awe! They shouldn't divorce. They are both very funny and still seem like they love each other a lot. Plus, his voice can make any person destress. Soothing.
This is what happens when lust takes over and you don’t consider how your lives are going to combine together. He was raised one way and she was raised another. Idk how you can get over that. Also, never marry a mama’s boy. They don’t think they are doing anything wrong and even if they do, it’s a hard habit to break. You gotta either accept it and accept being number 2, or step.
the moment he said a woman gotta.... I'd be all CHECK please!! He ain't even working, how dare he demand "woman's job is to cook, clean, whatever." Run back to your momma!
*_On another show... a woman / wife; refuse to give up her ways... SO WHAT SHE HAS A FAMILY; KIDS, BILLS... She still wants to: Spend, Spend and Spend!?!_* *_And her defense: You know how I (was) when you met me... || HOW FREAKIN' DARE HER!! ---Right?_*
I am going to save this episode and I'm going to show my daughter this is what you don't do when it comes to a man Never Lose Yourself in a man never give up all your goals and dreams for someone who don't have the same ideas you have I believe in getting what you qualify for if you want to be a Rhodes scholar you'll get a Rhodes Scholar if your if your bum your get a bomb
twistedblktrekie wrong, we have two kids! And we both work. I never needed him or his parents for money, as I clearly stated. But yes I’m not leaving. Thank you.
She has a case of motormouth, but they seem like a decent couple. She should let the man speak. That America comment was rude AF too. And he shouldn't expect her to be mommy's replica. 💭
I wouldve said your ancestors werent originally from here and I don't like fried chicken. Sometimes your shit aint good and too salty. A eye for an eye on that one!!!!
Alexandria Dinkins he a good man BUT cant keep a job? And a mommas boy? 🤔 ummm a good man holds a job and provides for their family on his own. You dont know what a good man is miss.
@Karyll Said WHAT?!?! Yes he's a good person overall...they have minor issues, all he needs to do is keep a job & communicate more wit his wife instead of running to his mom wit everything...HENCE: *The growing up part* 😒
@@takingover7805 A person can be a good person wit bad habits & sometimes those things stem from the way they were raised...So yes, overall he's a good man, they have minor issues: he jus needs to keep a job, & stop running to his mom for everything, HENCE: *The grow up part* 😒
You can tell who's single in the comment section 🙄. Every couple has problems. They have problems that can be fixed. He ain't out there cheating. Just needs to work more and keep his mother out the way. Many of ya'll men/women probably cheated on you because you expect them to be perfect. Some of ya'll don't even care if the person is trying to change or not.
Yes every couple has problems but a man being a providers should never be one of them. If something was to happen to her 2day he cant even provide for the kids he helped to create. If having kids didnt motivate this man to get a job and keep one hes never going to change.
@@sharondawalker2951 EXACTLY!!!! I don't know why cheating is introduced! It's not a tradeoff! I can have a loyal man that provides for his household... especially one that has traditionally values! He felt she should play the traditional role in the household as a woman, but he's not willing to provide for his household, which is the traditional role of a man? Nah, fam.
She sounds like an independent strong woman who gave up her passion to be better for him. In the end he brought her down and I believe she not so much resents it but is pissed at herself and feels that, like she said he didn't get to really know the strong person was wanting to become. I've been in that relationship before. Give up everything for the man, a mommas boy and kicked his ass to the curb. These younger people seem to want to get married quick and have a family before they really know even who THEY are as themselves let alone together. I'm a firm believer in living together before getting married. I made that mistake and never again. My husband now is the greatest man ever. Had a rough patch getting going in life but had come from a hardworking ethics at an early age. Just had a bump in the road. I stood by him thru his worst and now I'm disabled and he takes care of me and my son who he has raised and considers his son. He loves him more than life itself. Hopefully these two can grow up together and with her drive of independence and his family values they can make it work.
Yup...he sounds like a good dude just lazy. Takes awhile to Mold a man unfortunately. If ur lucky, you won't have to mold him but the good ones are sometimes worth it in the end!
This can totally be worked out with some honest, level voiced face time, a little compromise and a commitment from both of them to make each other better, their marriage will flourish
Hello 4Evet how was your day the fuckery is strong in this situation Hello no ! He have to bring more to the table my beautiful black queen should just move on
yes, cute couple with no serious issues that can't be worked out, plus children are involved so they should invest some energy into counseling and working around their cultural issues and his dependence on his mother.
Every soul of human is deserve to be happy , the only way to be happy in life is to married with the right person, to be together for the all of your life . Just imagine even the animals care to be mingle.
Appolonia Santiago You’re a smart woman. Happiness does NOT come from a man or from marriage. Please do not believe anyone who tells you different. Be happy and complete, within yourself. This way, no one’s entry will MAKE you and no one’s departure will BREAK you.
If he wasn't sht when she met him what made her think he'll be sht after they got married. The lack of motivation is certainly in the air at their house. just saying.
I can't believe in this day and age, young men talking about women expected to cook and clean. Seriously? Where? America? I am almost 50 and will not allow my husband to see me as a domestic help. We BOTH cook and clean when we want to! Equal rights around here!
@MindYa B oh I'm sorry that you blame women, who want to work, for the fact that grown as MEN don't get off their asses to WORK. Don't blame people for having the talents they do for your own lacking. that just makes you pathetic.
🤦🏻♀️I’ve heard it all....he faked complete paralysis ♿️ to get out of work Why would she volunteer for this headache...you’re a go-getter but you choose to be in a relationship with a lazy high school dropout?
So she says that she doesn't resent him for "giving up her dreams," yet and still, that was the VERY FIRST thing that she mentioned at the beginning. You KNEW from the beginning that he wasn't working, (did you question "why not????"), he SHOWED you that his mother came first, and yet-you married him anyway. As far as throwing the food out, their house, their rules/religion. But my question is this: "where do you draw the line between choosing "biological family" and "married into" family? Doesn't the Word say that once you get married, you're supposed to "cleave to EACH OTHER?" (Genesis 2:24) Mom/family is SUPPOSED to become secondary and WIFE/children become primary. I think she should have tried to observe his family life a whole lot more before they got married so she could have seen what she would have been getting into. At least they're trying to work it out, but bruh-I'm going to need him to hold it down in the household financially. How are you going to sit up there and mandate the wife to be "traditional" when the man is supposed to be the "head of household" but you're not doing "head of household things?" Just a thought....
Men...if you want all the benefit that comes with a "traditional wife" who cooks and cleans ...takes care of the kids... sees you as the head of the household - then it is REQUIRED that she does NOT go out to work, that you are the breadwinner of the house and that you make enough money so that your family is living a comfortable lifestyle and your wife is not stressed. And to the ladies...STOP trying to fix your man and stop this stupid struggle love!! He will resent you for it down the road when you keep nagging at him to do more...he won't feel like a man around you and eventually cheat on you and/or leave you for another woman. Raise your standards ladies!
Word of advice.. Just watch and don’t bother going through comments simply you got people that has nothing good to say even when the couples are really good and good example are these couples here
woohoo new episode 😊 omg i love judge Lynn so much, i finished her book " my mother's rules" and i'm so grateful for her wisdom, for what i've learned from the book and for the way i'm changing in a better version of myself. I couldn't done it without judge Lynn and her book ❤️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I tried marrying a mama's boy. While my mother in law was sweet as pie (RIP), it was my ex husband who put her before me. I got tired of being compared to her. I could never measure up to her in his eyes.
I hate it when people talk over you like she was doing at the beginning . The guy probably doesnt even have a voice in his home . She is probably in control of the home . When a woman is the primary bread winner she is basically the man of the house .
He wants his wife to be like his mom and treats his mom like he’s suppose to treat his wife. Then wants to be he man of the house and wants his wife to work and play a stay at home wife. He doesn’t understand that once he moves out he creates his own family and that comes first. He is putting his blood family over his household.
They both have flaws because nobody is perfect. In my opinion, they're both in love and nobody is cheating or resorting violence...count your blessings and go from there.
People say I'm a Mama boy just because I got a good relationship with her. I mean, I take my own decisions and don't run to her when I got problems. I only tell her about my problems when I've solved them long ago. Anyways, I wish them both the best - they look great together!
A little advice. If you want to be with someone of a different culture learn everything you can about their culture first. If there is anything you disagree with or cannot see yourself living the same way, make sure it is not a strong belief in their culture.
I've been married 27 years and to hear Judge Toler say "the less you talk, the more they hear", that was excellent advice! I appreciate her sharing that precious pearl of wisdom.
I don’t like how the judge told her to talk less that was very close minded, you can’t just say talk less because every man want you to talk less than the same mentality that has silenced women and girls for generations.
🤬Manny how do you expect her to cook & clean like a traditional woman if you're not going to work like a traditional man?????
preach!!!
Hello?!?!?
EXACTLY! Have some nerve talking bout 'traditional'
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#facts
I hate that this woman basically gave up her goals for a man who isn’t pulling his own weight.
So instead of pulling him up, you let him pull you down. Sad.
We Learneth, & We Groweth ...Hopefullyeth! lol
@@pennidud4932 It's no one's responsibility to pull anyone up. Once you elect to be with a bum you've let yourself.down.
He is not cutting enough grass.
If she’s willing to give up her goals for a man, she’s wasn’t a strong woman to being with. Another person cannot pull you down unless you let them. He didn’t pull her down, she pulled herself down for him.
My husband and I come from Latino backgrounds so I get where the husband is coming from HOWEVER, once you decide to marry and start a family, your wife trumps your mother. If you don't believe that, then don't get married.
Valerie H right, one flesh.
Mother takes a backseat once you marry
The husband's responsibility is to cleave to his wife....not his mother. If he does so, they will become as one.. an unbreakable bond.
Amen
Agreed.
When a woman says constantly "He has Potential" that's code for "I'm gonna change him!" 🤣
Damn right! Run! Lol
Or inspire
Everybody repeat after me, as much as needed: "You can't go from ALTAR to ALTER." It never turns out well. Your husband or wife might change, but they'll resent you for it.
Lol
Man wow I’ve being here I woke up thou
He seems sweet but he appears to be lazy and dependent
true. but I also think that this is the kind of man who can be loyal to his woman. I see a lot of cheating going on in Divorce Court and this man has not cheated on his woman since they got married.
MsAKALady and he is the kind of man a lot of women will pass by because they like the bad boy type
Agree with that one..
@@desiremakungu3372 women don't want lazy and dependent men. There are men that are loyal that provide and protect their households. It's not a tradeoff. We have options.
MsAKALady because he a mommas boy and spoiled
Oh 😮 !!! You should never stop school for man!!! Get that education and coins first
I love my mother in law but I love her from far... 😍
twistedblktrekie how are blackwomen any more forced to get an education than any other race or color of woman!?! & im a blackman with a Masters degree, all my 4 brothers but 1 all went to college. less than 25% of americans hav degrees. white people hav more wealth because of slavery and civil rights
twistedblktrekie I’m laughing at the ignorance you have 😂😂😂😂😂
Cuisine 228 I’m with this
He’s a mamas boy like my son but I like him and the girl talk too much even thou she seems to be intelligent
No wonder women are so stressed out pill poppin lesbians.
she lowered her standards from the beginning
Never give up everything for a man, especially your money and your education.
preach
That sound personal
*_And vice versa!! Indeed?_*
*_And I had been told this same situation had happen but it was the [black man] that gave up his: Job and $$$$Money...$75,000 a year!!!_*
Your money and education? Is this why so many college educated women are not married and or have no man lmao her first mistake was to marry a non black man let her die in her misery being a swirler with her education and money she and him don't have.
I would just change your "everything " into "anything" and fully agree with it😁
he wants her to do everything in the household, care for the children and bring in all the money? He should stick with his mama
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Wife shudnt agree to it🤷🏾♀️
Narcissists
Right!
Correct!!
His Dad is hard to work with because his Dad is a hardworking man who probably thinks his son is lazy.
My thoughts too
HaHaha yeah faking sickness so he dosen't have to work SPOILED.
Boom. Men know men. His mom probably gave him all the coddling and comfort, he wanted that from his wife. But never REALLY paid attention to what his Dad was doing to ensure his wife could be a mom to him.
I appreciate this comment and the comments above. I couldn’t agree more 💯
I appreciate this comment and the comments above. I couldn’t agree more 💯
He's so cute you can tell he really loves her 😍 He just needs to be more of a husband and less of a mama's boy 😂
Phankitty you’re not thank god
u insane
BP.
He’s a clown
Cute 🤔🤔🤔🙄no just lazy and a pathetic mummys boy
It's funny how they threw away her shrimp but doesn't the bible say a man that doesn't work shall not eat??? I dont see him sticking to that.
Would you use that scripture on a no arm no leg human...or would you feed them
The Bible says you can eat anything you want. All things in moderation. That was old Testament law about the shellfish and many other things that Jesus fulfilled.
No one said he didn't work. He just doesn't make all the money in the house.
@@drjackhumperdinck4208 old testament still applies😉
@@timnefi2097 Yes it does.
I like both of them I don't honestly see any big problems he just need to work and she need to listen.
Exactly people on here bashing and its not something that cant be fixed
Yes indeed
@@oompaloompa3188 i see and take things out of context
Rodneshia G yess!!!
Communication and jobs are big issues. Plus the whole mom thing
When you have a wife and children that your family. Everyone else is extended family.
True true
Facts
Tahir DaCosta preachhhhhhhhh
i disagree, because parents should always be 1st, spouses can be replaced, your parents will not live forever and will never be replaced. not only that but they also cared for you when u were young and couldn't take care of yourself and now that they are old its your turn to return that favor back and start caring for them. its called filial piety
Exactly
Ladies please understand that admiring potential is one thing but don't get stuck there, also pay attention to the realities and red flags that come with him.
I wounder if he had a job when they got married ? If not why marry him he can't take care of you Young lady go back to school get your education.
Yesssss
If she won’t let the judge talk I know she probably never shuts up at home.
preach..this bitch like to argue someone needs to send her ass to law school
Her talking excessively doesn’t give him a chance to speak therefore she comes off nagging and breaks the chain of PROPER communication
I don’t
T. Sunshine that could very well be but the way it came across said otherwise. I wish you guys many more yrs of marriage
Melissa Khaye I bet she is the one running the house
SHE.............IS...........BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hang Tyme thank you !
They’re a beautiful couple
She's beautiful, intelligent, she speaks well, and she's not "ghetto" or loud as people usually describe us black women. She just talks a lot.
She "speaks well", I hate that phrase and it is so condescending. @@Tammy-vt1vb
@@LC-uz6em She DOES speak well though. Not like a hood-booger (says the Black woman who also speaks well). 😉
Somehow the whole family missed the part where a man must leave his family for his wife. Wife first after marriage- now you are the man of the house.
They always miss that part.
Thank you!
Awe! They shouldn't divorce. They are both very funny and still seem like they love each other a lot. Plus, his voice can make any person destress. Soothing.
And that is his value...she should work he should work on her
This is what happens when lust takes over and you don’t consider how your lives are going to combine together. He was raised one way and she was raised another. Idk how you can get over that. Also, never marry a mama’s boy. They don’t think they are doing anything wrong and even if they do, it’s a hard habit to break. You gotta either accept it and accept being number 2, or step.
They are a good looking couple, they seem nice and they love each other. All the best in your relationship guys.
Can't work cause I'm madly in love haha
Alisha Bryan I had to laugh at that one
Alisha Bryan 😂 he childish.
@@TheEjordan01 lol me too
Alisha Bryan I thought that was funny too.
Sounds like sonething one of my latino relatives would say but he is a 10000% romantic hahaha
the moment he said a woman gotta.... I'd be all CHECK please!! He ain't even working, how dare he demand "woman's job is to cook, clean, whatever." Run back to your momma!
They always do
EXACTLY! clash of cultures. Ur culture has a big impact on your relationship and should be contemplated before marriage.
*_On another show... a woman / wife; refuse to give up her ways... SO WHAT SHE HAS A FAMILY; KIDS, BILLS... She still wants to: Spend, Spend and Spend!?!_*
*_And her defense: You know how I (was) when you met me... || HOW FREAKIN' DARE HER!! ---Right?_*
I am going to save this episode and I'm going to show my daughter this is what you don't do when it comes to a man Never Lose Yourself in a man never give up all your goals and dreams for someone who don't have the same ideas you have I believe in getting what you qualify for if you want to be a Rhodes scholar you'll get a Rhodes Scholar if your if your bum your get a bomb
I hope your daughter listens
Sir have her read Jonah Gourd vine by Zora Neale Hurston.
He's likable..I could understand why she's still with him.
He’s a POS!
This is a good looking couple
They're very good looking but he is sluggish and not good for her so she can do better.
twistedblktrekie wrong, we have two kids! And we both work. I never needed him or his parents for money, as I clearly stated. But yes I’m not leaving. Thank you.
"good looking...." does not happy make......kinda seems like----he still needs/wants a hip to be carried around on ya know?.....
debi sybesma that’s how it looked then but not now.
M S gtfo with that disrespectful shit on my wife!! She’s a beautiful black queen 👸🏾 you and anyone else would be smart to treat her as such!
Oh my. "The potential to cook and clean." This is an insult on so many levels, lol.
She has a case of motormouth, but they seem like a decent couple. She should let the man speak. That America comment was rude AF too. And he shouldn't expect her to be mommy's replica. 💭
I thought the same about that comment, she doesn't think before she speaks.
A man compliments a women and vice versa. She wouldn't have much to say if he didn't give her a reason to.
I wouldve said your ancestors werent originally from here and I don't like fried chicken. Sometimes your shit aint good and too salty. A eye for an eye on that one!!!!
@@traciemathews166 She wasn't trying to be intentionally racist or prejudice, your comment is ridiculous.
@@halloween482 lol it wasnt about the person that wrote the first comment. I'm talking about what was said on the show. But ok thanks
They're good for each other 😍 he's a good man...jus need to grow up, keep a job & stop bein a mama's boy...
Alexandria Dinkins he a good man BUT cant keep a job? And a mommas boy? 🤔 ummm a good man holds a job and provides for their family on his own. You dont know what a good man is miss.
So he basically needs to be a completely different person?
@Karyll Said WHAT?!?! Yes he's a good person overall...they have minor issues, all he needs to do is keep a job & communicate more wit his wife instead of running to his mom wit everything...HENCE: *The growing up part* 😒
@@takingover7805 A person can be a good person wit bad habits & sometimes those things stem from the way they were raised...So yes, overall he's a good man, they have minor issues: he jus needs to keep a job, & stop running to his mom for everything, HENCE: *The grow up part* 😒
@@TTHeavensent People evolve & grow thru out life...So no not change who he is, but step up & be a man & stop running to his mom for everything...
You can tell who's single in the comment section 🙄. Every couple has problems. They have problems that can be fixed. He ain't out there cheating. Just needs to work more and keep his mother out the way. Many of ya'll men/women probably cheated on you because you expect them to be perfect. Some of ya'll don't even care if the person is trying to change or not.
Kels Blair I TOTALLY AGREE with you. 🙌🏼🗣
I second that! NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT!
Yes every couple has problems but a man being a providers should never be one of them. If something was to happen to her 2day he cant even provide for the kids he helped to create. If having kids didnt motivate this man to get a job and keep one hes never going to change.
@@sharondawalker2951 EXACTLY!!!! I don't know why cheating is introduced! It's not a tradeoff! I can have a loyal man that provides for his household... especially one that has traditionally values! He felt she should play the traditional role in the household as a woman, but he's not willing to provide for his household, which is the traditional role of a man? Nah, fam.
Amen Kels.
She was not having that over talking and interrupting again today! Listen she’s been on it the past few days. It’s not happening like that!
Not even a little bit
Aliya Naomi lol... ikr
Somebody said, "oooh!" 3:07 Lol
She sounds like an independent strong woman who gave up her passion to be better for him. In the end he brought her down and I believe she not so much resents it but is pissed at herself and feels that, like she said he didn't get to really know the strong person was wanting to become. I've been in that relationship before. Give up everything for the man, a mommas boy and kicked his ass to the curb. These younger people seem to want to get married quick and have a family before they really know even who THEY are as themselves let alone together. I'm a firm believer in living together before getting married. I made that mistake and never again. My husband now is the greatest man ever. Had a rough patch getting going in life but had come from a hardworking ethics at an early age. Just had a bump in the road. I stood by him thru his worst and now I'm disabled and he takes care of me and my son who he has raised and considers his son. He loves him more than life itself.
Hopefully these two can grow up together and with her drive of independence and his family values they can make it work.
Yup...he sounds like a good dude just lazy. Takes awhile to Mold a man unfortunately. If ur lucky, you won't have to mold him but the good ones are sometimes worth it in the end!
That woman annoyed me. Dude never lied about who is was, she chose him.
Facts she is just shallow
I couldn’t do that. She gave up way to much and he seems like he wants everything handed to him.
The shrimp incident: respect the ppl dem house
SoulSista6579 100%
Fuck them
She was PREGNANT and hungry. They didn't have to throw it away. They could have talked to her about it like adults.
The Walking Megan I'm late but , isn't it a sin to throw food away ?
You can’t force your personal religious views on a grown ass adult. They act like she forced them to fucking eat it.
I think 20 minutes isn't enough no more
Riiight! Lol
@Ghg Yfdd lol when it gets interesting them BAM issover!
Ok he wants a mother and not a wife.
Mama's boys smh 😒🙄 🙄
This can totally be worked out with some honest, level voiced face time, a little compromise and a commitment from both of them to make each other better, their marriage will flourish
Hello 4Evet how was your day the fuckery is strong in this situation Hello no ! He have to bring more to the table my beautiful black queen should just move on
I agree I like them and they are young! They have to mature! But they will be fine if they do what you said!!!!
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Super like!!!
yes, cute couple with no serious issues that can't be worked out, plus children are involved so they should invest some energy into counseling and working around their cultural issues and his dependence on his mother.
I like this couple lol. Fixable problems for sure.
I cant stand a man that wanna half work. That is a deal breaker for me!! Get up and get it....if u want my respect.
I'm so happy to be single now..I would rather be single for the rest of my life ..then to settle for any peice of man...
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Period!
What does the way she chooses to wear her hair have to do with anything?
Every soul of human is deserve to be happy , the only way to be happy in life is to married with the right person, to be together for the all of your life . Just imagine even the animals care to be mingle.
Appolonia Santiago You’re a smart woman. Happiness does NOT come from a man or from marriage. Please do not believe anyone who tells you different. Be happy and complete, within yourself. This way, no one’s entry will MAKE you and no one’s departure will BREAK you.
Such a cute couple, I wish the best for them!
She's a very beautiful woman but those brows and that hair need to exit the building.
Naima lus the bad wig I agree, but what’s wrong with her brows?
@@amala.x They Need to frame that pretty face of her's. That shape isn't doing it well
Naima lus agreed
O shut up! Damn always someone bitching.
Naima lus the brows, the eyeshadow and the hair. Otherwise she is beautiful. Less is more
If he wasn't sht when she met him what made her think he'll be sht after they got married. The lack of motivation is certainly in the air at their house. just saying.
I love at the end of the episodes where Judge Lynn gives that tad bit of wisdom that goes so far.. she helps me out ..
I love the fact that his collar is over his chain
Tammon 😂this was some how funny
OCD
Latinos
Potential to cook and clean 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can't believe in this day and age, young men talking about women expected to cook and clean. Seriously? Where? America? I am almost 50 and will not allow my husband to see me as a domestic help. We BOTH cook and clean when we want to! Equal rights around here!
i love the way he said..... " sooo im a moma boy?" @ 10:25
Dude, you're a full grown man and you're running to your mom like a 5 year old
She shouldn't stop going to school
U can't build some body's life and destroy u own same time
She's so beautiful.
What's up with these men that don't want or like to work, I don't get it,Its so sad 😢😢😢😢😢
It *is* sad. Do they never think about who will take care of them if they don't care for themselves.
@MindYa B oh I'm sorry that you blame women, who want to work, for the fact that grown as MEN don't get off their asses to WORK. Don't blame people for having the talents they do for your own lacking. that just makes you pathetic.
Losers. Real time punks, and half these women talking about how cute he is if he was black... Bruh
L W ...He was not raised in a culture that has any type of feminist values...
🤦🏻♀️I’ve heard it all....he faked complete paralysis ♿️ to get out of work
Why would she volunteer for this headache...you’re a go-getter but you choose to be in a relationship with a lazy high school dropout?
😂😂😂😂😂
So she says that she doesn't resent him for "giving up her dreams," yet and still, that was the VERY FIRST thing that she mentioned at the beginning. You KNEW from the beginning that he wasn't working, (did you question "why not????"), he SHOWED you that his mother came first, and yet-you married him anyway. As far as throwing the food out, their house, their rules/religion. But my question is this: "where do you draw the line between choosing "biological family" and "married into" family?
Doesn't the Word say that once you get married, you're supposed to "cleave to EACH OTHER?" (Genesis 2:24) Mom/family is SUPPOSED to become secondary and WIFE/children become primary. I think she should have tried to observe his family life a whole lot more before they got married so she could have seen what she would have been getting into. At least they're trying to work it out, but bruh-I'm going to need him to hold it down in the household financially. How are you going to sit up there and mandate the wife to be "traditional" when the man is supposed to be the "head of household" but you're not doing "head of household things?" Just a thought....
He using to the culture in the wrong way, he said his dad worked very hard to provide but he doesn't wanna work, boy bye he is lazy
Notification gang! I’ve been needing this episode and some wine today. 😩
I herd that! =),
Hannah Lambert that sound a french last name
Men...if you want all the benefit that comes with a "traditional wife" who cooks and cleans ...takes care of the kids... sees you as the head of the household - then it is REQUIRED that she does NOT go out to work, that you are the breadwinner of the house and that you make enough money so that your family is living a comfortable lifestyle and your wife is not stressed. And to the ladies...STOP trying to fix your man and stop this stupid struggle love!! He will resent you for it down the road when you keep nagging at him to do more...he won't feel like a man around you and eventually cheat on you and/or leave you for another woman. Raise your standards ladies!
This is one of the best divorce courts I have ever seen. Like this couple.
Word of advice..
Just watch and don’t bother going through comments simply you got people that has nothing good to say even when the couples are really good and good example are these couples here
woohoo new episode 😊 omg i love judge Lynn so much, i finished her book " my mother's rules" and i'm so grateful for her wisdom, for what i've learned from the book and for the way i'm changing in a better version of myself. I couldn't done it without judge Lynn and her book ❤️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Is it available on Amazon or did you have to go thru DC?
@@erind2261 I got mine on Amazon. I agree, it's a pretty good book!
I love that he’s soft spoken. He is too laid back too. Funny couple though.
H town in the house!!!!!!!! She is fine, but she has a MOUTH on her.....
"In that in your cult-- I'm talkin'!" 💀
They actually seem like a really good couple. They just need to tweak some things. Better communication, understanding, and compromising.
Yeah, like he needs to get his ass to work!
Favourite couple😍😫when he said he was Madly in love😫and she is so beautiful!!!
Omg it’s so cute how much he loves her he just seems a little young for his age and she’s more independent then him but their relationship is cute😩😂💯💓
I tried marrying a mama's boy. While my mother in law was sweet as pie (RIP), it was my ex husband who put her before me. I got tired of being compared to her. I could never measure up to her in his eyes.
Latin Jon B. Where ya uncle Im tryna see something😂
That dude in the audience “oooooh!!” 🤣🤣🤣
The problem with putting people first is that you're teaching them that you come last
THIS
Beautiful couple. Praying for they make it!
lol! that “ouuuu” after “i’m talking”😂😂😂😂
And the "I'm talkin' " itself
They're both sweet.
is it bad that I fell in love with his personality? 😂🥰
Hahaha “potential to cook and clean” 😂😂😂😂😂
I hate it when people talk over you like she was doing at the beginning . The guy probably doesnt even have a voice in his home . She is probably in control of the home . When a woman is the primary bread winner she is basically the man of the house .
He wants his wife to be like his mom and treats his mom like he’s suppose to treat his wife. Then wants to be he man of the house and wants his wife to work and play a stay at home wife. He doesn’t understand that once he moves out he creates his own family and that comes first. He is putting his blood family over his household.
I love the lady when she talk. The couple is blessed
Their video update was so cute!☺
Idk why I watch these videos, but I'm beginning to think it's for the comments Haha. You guys are hilarious.
They both have flaws because nobody is perfect. In my opinion, they're both in love and nobody is cheating or resorting violence...count your blessings and go from there.
Such a delightful Couple.
I can feel the love just needs a few adjustments.
People say I'm a Mama boy just because I got a good relationship with her. I mean, I take my own decisions and don't run to her when I got problems. I only tell her about my problems when I've solved them long ago. Anyways, I wish them both the best - they look great together!
What a sweet couple!
A little advice. If you want to be with someone of a different culture learn everything you can about their culture first. If there is anything you disagree with or cannot see yourself living the same way, make sure it is not a strong belief in their culture.
Jobless, Lazy & Mama's Boy,wants to be treated like a Man and King ☹️🙄
Judge Lynn is so beautiful...❤
Yes🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
This dude is like a Milton Bradley board game: Sorry
I've been married 27 years and to hear Judge Toler say "the less you talk, the more they hear", that was excellent advice! I appreciate her sharing that precious pearl of wisdom.
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I like this dude.....we don't see many stand up cats on Divorce Court like Manny..
They were a beautiful couple, I enjoyed them and of course judge Toler does it again , with the magic of great advice 👍👍👍
Manny is awesome! Both of them are amazing 🖤
Judge drops BARZ every episode. "The more you say, it becomes white noise"
Ayeee I am in for it!! Hey DC squad!!
Hello beautiful lady how was your day today
Joseph Hughes great my love
What up?!!😎
Lenedra Lawrence
Heeey Girl!
Heyyyy
When you reply: "We are in America here" to the person you are sharing your life with.... Something is already wrong!
I don’t like how the judge told her to talk less that was very close minded, you can’t just say talk less because every man want you to talk less than the same mentality that has silenced women and girls for generations.
immaculate peter right that made me mad u don’t tell a woman that I thought that was kinda evil
No she means talk less n learn more. Talkers don't learn much but when your quiet u learn a lot n see much more. This comment is misunderstood by many
Hey y'all!! I'm so happy to be early for once! I love Judge Lynn!
Welcome back Kid! =),
They're cute; hope they make it.
They love each other. It will work out.
They actually ended up splitting.