Halie Cline I thought, better her than me! I would have been upset at someone, even if it meant mum! I would not have handled that as well as this very well behaved young lady did! My heart hurts for her tho! Coz I really really wanted this guy to be her dad ((He is clearly angry @her mom (and rightfully so) but other than that he seems like a stand up guy!)) That's why evil mum even wanted and hoped deeep down that HE WAS the father! Mum doesn't really know who dad is... SMDH!
The daughter was very well mannered, understanding and yet clearly hurting. The end made me sad for her. I pray she can close this chapter with the truth one day.
As long as her mom keeps her in this loop of curiosity that her daughter has been in for 20+ years....she'll never know until her mom finally tells the truth.
Yeah, when she said that to her "it didn't matter" and "she moved on" I was like "what about your CHILD". Knowing the father is not for you, it's for your child. Selfish, selfish, selfish.
And I believe the mother knew it was this man’s child never complying with him to get a DNA test and running off. She really dragged his name through the dirt. Her daughter though is very respectful, and I LOVED how Honorable Judge Lakes kept reminding the daughter to basically acknowledge the hurt this has brought her.
she’s not selfish sometimes some things should left alone ppls what should take precedence over who is this child biological father if she wasn’t sure who he was the mother shouldn’t call anyone name bcz she was promiscuous to say that much protection protection if you just want to have fun 🤷🏽♀️
@@augreybaker9800 Secrets never stay hidden. She should have at least knew the child's real biological father instead of blaming this man. Her daughter is very sweet and humble. Her mother has put her through this not knowing her biological father and that is being selfish! Facts
Yep. She knew she'd slept with multiple people, but wanted him to simply take her word that he's the dad. He was smart for requesting a DNA test from the jump. Some folks just hop on the pseudoscience bandwagon with old pictures and weird explanations for why they think they are or aren't the dad. This man wanted official, scientific proof from the minute he knew he was a possibility.
@@tincredible wow, that's a great way to look at this..jumping on the pseudoscience bandwagon. But science has the answers in these cases. Sometimes I am actually quite surprised by the answers, too.
@Shanika TheLonerStoner hay... I hated my dad too. I was beaten, humiliated etc. but as I grew up, reading books told me he did all that because of his frustration having to work day in day out. I contemplated on suicide or run way... you know what? When he died of cancer, for eight months or so it was I who looked after him. Unfortunately for him it was too late for him to apologise to me but had told a relation of mine that he regretted ill treating me. Lesson is, we learn from the mistakes and not repeat it.
yeah. mom could have fixed the problem long time ago with a simple dna test but decided to it was better to lie 20 yrs and her daughter not have her father. issues the daughter has are mother's fault. But i like how the judge said it is ok to hurt.
diamond perry because he couldn't find her and the mom didn't want her kid to know who her dad was she was more concerned about what worked out best for herself
These old trifling women who claim there are no other possibilities and drag these kids into it giving them a front row seat in the drama GET ON MY NERVES😡
Exactly, how many men are you sleeping with in a 2 week period? I think every child born should have a DNA if one of the parents have doubt. These women be lying, sleeping around with so many men that they do not know who the father is. SMH
@@evelynsmith8443or pretend to not know to hide the truth from their daughters. Shes protecting pride when its hurting her daughter. She will NEVER realize its about her daughter. Not her pride.
Right...and lady your man was up and down the street with her.. always blaming the woman, your nasty man was just as bad ! No wonder she left them behind and raised her daughter !
I love how he and his wife have been trying to get to the bottom of everything while building a relationship with his potential daughter. The wife is really supportive and backing their relationship. 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾.
Ususally when the potential father brings his wife or girlfriend along, she's usually an obnoxious, irritating person. The wife in this one wasn't. Even though she argued a bit with the mother, it was more like she was standing up for herself and her husband only when seemingly necessary and she was quiet otherwise. She seems like a mature, genuine person.
Thank you!!!! As I read these comments I'm like if only people knew what we really went through but at the end of the day I wasn't there to entertain the mom. It was all about this young lady getting the answer she needed.
@@iamergoproxy3476 Thank you for that Mr. Long. I had to let you know that you and my only son share the same name except for he's the "en" version of it! (Quentin) ❤️
@@demetriusjohnson405 Well thank you for the recognition. I hope my brother from another mother gets all the blessings in life...oh, and tacos for dinner tonight
L B she should be ashamed of the misleading dishonesty and for accusing his wife when she knew there was a serious question obout if he really was the child's dad. And she should have not brought the daughter into the middle of it. I'm sure the daughter came to support her mom feeling she was being judged wrongly. The mimshoyld have just said to the dad and his wife in private, hey you are right there could be a chance, let's do the test to find out the truth in private. Then she could have told the daughter the story herself instead of subjecting her to the public humiliation if seeing her mother outed as a liar on national television and UA-cam channels.
Mrs Richard I don't think he was married when he got her pregnant. The marriage came later. The wife was just there in sopport of her husband. I don't feel she should have been allowed to stand up there. The man needs to handle this own business.
She knew the entire pregnancy and life of her daughter that this man wasn’t the father... she just named a name to pretend as if she actually knew.... so selfish
When she brought up how he slept with her cousins and all it showed how much she wanted to be with him..smh And yet she has more than 2 possible men to test for paternity. 🙄
Katelyn Rodgers yeah after watching the whole video I saw where she didn’t want to take accountability for what she did. I just feel bad for her daughter because she really just wants to know who her dad is.
Angela Madison He looks and sounds like a nice man.Sorry he wasn't the dad.Poor kid she is hurting inside.Big of the guy to come over and hug her so tightly.I feel so sad for her.
When the man spoke with honesty and careful thought and compassion towards the girl and the mother replied, WHATEVER, just goes to show this woman has no regards for her daughter's feelings about wanting to know who her real father is.
She's a well behaved lady. Despite her mama's flaws, can we all agree her mama did a great job raising her? And her step dad must be good, must have treated her like his for her not to have known till 14. Standing O to them👏👏👏
Yeah her Mom did a great job raising him. SMH......God is not mocked Homosexuals, Liars, Murderers, Thieves, Haters of God shall not enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
This man is a stand up guy and I truly respect him for wanting to step up. Ms. Allen is NOT even sure who fathered her daughter. Ms. Allen needs to come clean and tell her daughter the truth about who her father is.
Andrea T yes, I want the mom to work harder to find her child's father to give her daughter closer. She deserves to know who her father's side if the family. It's so important to know your origin.
How can this mom be so nonchalant about something that is clearly (and rightfully so) important to her daughter. I was really wishing this man was her father so she could have gained the closure she needed. I hope she is able to get that closure soon.
I knew from the way Ms. Allen was speaking in court, her disrespect of the wife, her body language and the fact that she never pursued a DNA test 20 years ago told me that this man was not the father of her daughter.
WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY..WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.. IT'S NOT OKAY TO NOT KNOW WHO FATHERED YOUR CHILD.. SMFH... THAT'S EMOTIONAL ABUSE.. THAT'S JUST GRIMY AF TO NOT KNOW WHO YOUR CHILD'S FATHER IS.. EVERY NEW BORN BABY SHOULD HAVE A DNA TEST, AS PROTOCOL BEFORE THEY LEAVE THE HOSPITAL..
I haven't finished....but that man made my heart swell when he said "did I ever deny you? If a child's looking for a father and I have a chance to be there for them I'm going to do it!" How often these people being dragged in here are ANGRY and unwilling to step up he was more than willing to step up.❤
@@MakeWarNotLove6 wHeN yOu ARe 40 yOu'lL ReALizE hE loOkS ExACTly hIs AGe ...absolutely zero hate hahahahah .... just facts - KIDDOS LIKE YOURSELF see someone that's 40 and think they should look 100. GIRL BYE.
@ Renee & Alan: His wife is very understanding. I hope he learns from this and keep his zipper locked. He spoke and presented himself well. Kudos to him!
I really feel it for this young lady and the potential father. I hope she finds her dad. Him consoling her just shows how much of a great dad he is. He handled it with class. This woman is something else.
I raised my daughter myself after my cheating abusive ex ran away with a easy girl..then married her 🤷 so when my daughter made contact with him when she was 18 she built a bond with him and cut me out of her life I was mummy and daddy for years and her actions has stunned my entire family..😧 so it's not all Rose's if they make contact with these men because if they get into the head of a child that wants so much to know them then you can lose out as a mother...🤷
@@josem.figueroajr.4532 If a guy has Ms Allen around him , sure He's going to go sour . But thankfully Mr Childs has a better woman as a wife instead .
Karrisa Davis What if at one point you hear your dad is not yours kinda like she did one day?She still felt loved growing up by her "parents," so, sometimes... You just never know.. Especially if you are the oldest child, an only child or born to a single mom... Those are the most common scenarios for these paternity issues!
I love Mr Childs' reaction after hearing Ms Allen's allegations. His reaction was so genuine. He is definitely a good ethical man and definitely a good catch.
He is a good brotha. A real stand up guy. I have so much respect for him. The mere fact that he even thanked his wife for sticking with him through this says ALOT.
Her mom knew that the chance was slim that’s why she disappeared. I hope she find her dad but her mom needs to help. She was the one bussin’ it wide open.
It kills me to see women on here not knowing who their child's father is. Like girl, how you putting this guy through the ringer and playing with your child's emotions and not knowing the get down? It makes all the stuff he's saying about you look like it's true.
This brother reaching out and hugging this young woman during such an emotional time brought me to tears . i hope she finds her dad, there's much sadness in her eyes,
She still also angry about who he was seeing same time as her and not how her daughter is feeling so she is still selfish and inmature. Sometimes you grow old, but you don't grow up. she is an example. Got a 20 year old daughter who does not know who her father is and she talking about he was also seeing her cousins! Honey bye!!!
How many men in her town, county, state, nation. I fail to understand how you bed multiple partners around the same time, do not use contraception, produce a child and just spin the bottle and choose a man to be on the hook and then when it no longer SUITS you, you question whether the man fathered your child. Just grimmy for the child and for the man who was on the hook and on the birth certificate as the father. Just so unfair.
Her mother was absolutely disgusting!! How dare she!!! talking about “we’ll move on from this.” when she clearly don’t see how much pain and suffering she put her daughter through!! She doesn’t deserve that.
The child is the one that suffers. My heart is with her. I can feel her pain. She is such a calm, intellect women. I hope she finds out who her father is and therefore finds peace.
Awww he was broken that he wasn’t the father. He would have made an amazing example for her! This poor girl! I hope her father is just as amazing as this man! Mr child ur a real man! We all see it and ur wife is freaking awesome god bless u
So basically the mother just wanted a default guy like for example if someone would ask her whos the father she could say him, that's why she never agreed to the dna test before. This case gave me goose pumps hope they are all leaving well
Her vindictiveness an personal feelings affected her daughter's life an her attitude hasn't changed,she definitely was at fault,she could have had a DNA test done 15-20 years ago.
"How can she remember me chasing her up and down the street, but she can't remember who fathered her child?" 😳😳🔥🔥They should have taken a recess after that burn.... man down😂😂😂
I just wanted to hug the daughter and tell her she could be my sister and my family will be there 100%, my family took in and cared for dang near everyone in my school coming up, anyone that needed it, this young lady deserves all the answers, what a well mannered young lady
Egotistical narcissist. Poor daughter...I know how she feels because I have the same kind of mom. Thank goodness I have my loyal father and I'm grateful that I was conceive in legal marriage... I hope this girl continue grows her best, strong and mature, intelligent and educated...
I followed your jezebel uploads for a while to get over a narcissistic friendship in 2017. Good stuff. But when I saw you post this I laughed so hard 😂😂 to see you on paternity court. I thought narcissists usually do not apologize on their own. She apologized though.
Dude sounds exactly like Sweet Daddy Williams from Good Times. Close your eyes and listen to his voice. I feel so bad for this young lady. This matter should have been handled a long time ago.
Judge Lake is the bomb judge. Very professional, knowledgeable, considerate, compassionate, and knows what words to say to get her point across in a respectful and tactful way. She listens to both sides,, but takes control of her courtroom when needed.. She let's people argue among themselves to try and get a sense of what the real problem is and when she hears key words, she stops and addresses what tge real issues are. Her listening skills are on point. All judges should look at her as an example of how a judge should be. Much props to Judge Lake. And she's beautiful.
The sadness in her eyes hurts me to the core. It’s so many kids out here who don’t know who their dad is.
I see it every day at work...SMH
Angela Madison yep because of their mothers not caring. Every child needs to know who their family are
Yeah thanks to loose women and feminism.
I know! She has good values, I can't say her mom raised her with them, but with a selfish scandalous mom like this, she turned out great.😢
Facts
The daughter is so polite. That’s how you should act in these situations
Halie Cline
I thought, better her than me! I would have been upset at someone, even if it meant mum! I would not have handled that as well as this very well behaved young lady did! My heart hurts for her tho! Coz I really really wanted this guy to be her dad ((He is clearly angry @her mom (and rightfully so) but other than that he seems like a stand up guy!)) That's why evil mum even wanted and hoped deeep down that HE WAS the father! Mum doesn't really know who dad is... SMDH!
She's hurt, closed off and emotionally numb actually.
@@ELl_e..3 Right. And that not exactly healthy. I don't know why we view a person's silence while in pain as "proper" behavior.
Halie Cline, you aren't the person in that courtroom standing in her shoes, so who are you to tell her how she should react to HER situation?
Halie Cline sad she had to witness all that
You can tell he’s a good daddy!!! He didn’t even hesitate to comfort her!!
So true...she really needed that.
Yep and that was a true daddy hug!
Cause of that.... OkaYyyyy 🤨
Yes, he is a good man
That was nice, I didn't see it coming but it made me happy
Y’all his face the whole case he not playing, he is sick of all this mess. I can understand she humiliated him for years.
*His face still look good for his age, poker faced or not..*
That woman is like a needle. The good thing is that the young lady is so polite and remained humble through it all.
The daughter was very well mannered, understanding and yet clearly hurting. The end made me sad for her. I pray she can close this chapter with the truth one day.
I pray she finds her dad..
As long as her mom keeps her in this loop of curiosity that her daughter has been in for 20+ years....she'll never know until her mom finally tells the truth.
Amen...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Some women are allergic to accountability. And their children pay for it. Disgusting.
So true
Yeah, when she said that to her "it didn't matter" and "she moved on" I was like "what about your CHILD". Knowing the father is not for you, it's for your child. Selfish, selfish, selfish.
And I believe the mother knew it was this man’s child never complying with him to get a DNA test and running off. She really dragged his name through the dirt. Her daughter though is very respectful, and I LOVED how Honorable Judge Lakes kept reminding the daughter to basically acknowledge the hurt this has brought her.
Very true! ALLERGIC tho... killed me 🤣
Center Yourself I agree!
I am proud of him for having sympathy for and hugging her in her pain!
Tyeda Jones yes. I feel he was also somewhat disappointed too. But the truth needed to be known.
Tyeda Jones I think that was a good thing he did, at that time she needed that. I hope the mother will figure out who the real Dad is.
He's a good man
I'm glad they hugged too, her mother put them both through trauma.
I agree, he's a good man. God bless them all.
this is the first man on this show that I believe really honestly tried to do what's right, from the beginning
He's matured. ☺️
You don't watch this show much then.
facts
He's not the first. Watch more episodes.
@culturefreedom89, juggling the "d" is too funny! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂... I cannot stop laughing! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The only reason the mom told her “the whole story” is because the stepdad told her the truth first. That lady is so selfish!
My thoughts, too. Imagine if the stepdad hadn't spoken of the truth... The secret might probably still be buried till this day.
🙆🙆🙆VERY SELFISH, THE CHILD NEED TO KNOW AND HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER FATHER
she’s not selfish sometimes some things should left alone ppls what should take precedence over who is this child biological father if she wasn’t sure who he was the mother shouldn’t call anyone name bcz she was promiscuous to say that much protection protection if you just want to have fun 🤷🏽♀️
@@augreybaker9800 Secrets never stay hidden. She should have at least knew the child's real biological father instead of blaming this man. Her daughter is very sweet and humble. Her mother has put her through this not knowing her biological father and that is being selfish! Facts
@@sharonrogers8422her comment was all over the place.
I have mad respect for this man. He’s an excellent man.
She was dodging a test all those years... she knew he wasn’t the father ! Smh 🤦🏽♀️
yeah
iluvdat yep
Yep
Yep. She knew she'd slept with multiple people, but wanted him to simply take her word that he's the dad. He was smart for requesting a DNA test from the jump. Some folks just hop on the pseudoscience bandwagon with old pictures and weird explanations for why they think they are or aren't the dad. This man wanted official, scientific proof from the minute he knew he was a possibility.
@@tincredible wow, that's a great way to look at this..jumping on the pseudoscience bandwagon. But science has the answers in these cases. Sometimes I am actually quite surprised by the answers, too.
These women not knowing they baby daddy's...it's frustrating. How many people are you sleeping with at the same time?
It really is frustrating especially in cases such as this, she acts as if it doesn't matter smh she is a despicable being
J Brown in her case to many considering she already had a paternity done before this one. Sad case.
J Brown I was thinking the same thing
This has always gone on, since the beginning of time. I think with the emergence of DNA these matters can be bought to the light
J Brown A woman not knowing who her childs father is pathetic. It's says a lot about about who they are. Or maybe, who they are not which is not much.
I feel so bad for the daughter. I wanted to give her a hug so bad. Everyone deserves their father in their life.
Rolphine Vales yes, that is the one who really gets hurt.
No it don't she didn't need a daddy
@Shanika TheLonerStoner hay... I hated my dad too. I was beaten, humiliated etc. but as I grew up, reading books told me he did all that because of his frustration having to work day in day out. I contemplated on suicide or run way... you know what? When he died of cancer, for eight months or so it was I who looked after him. Unfortunately for him it was too late for him to apologise to me but had told a relation of mine that he regretted ill treating me. Lesson is, we learn from the mistakes and not repeat it.
indi Nanayakkara I didn’t have mines but I made it
Momma is 100% at fault
Why am i living in her head rent free but she cant remember who fathered her child 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kayla B omg that comment had me dying laughing lol
🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Baby read for filth
She must of wrote that down 🤣
She should of been on house wives of Atlanta with that one!☝️🤭😆👏💯
The way he hugged her when he saw how upset she was... that made me want him to be her father more even though we already knew the results :'(
Facts
I didn't know, i don't know them.
Thats why the mother kept putting off the DNA test.
Right!!! She knew all along he wasnt the father!!
That an she didn't want her daughter too know how many guys she was getting scratched by🤨🤨
@@rohall5060 scratched by!!!!😂
The mother was trying to blame the man and his wife but needs to take a hard look at herself for lying to her child
yeah. mom could have fixed the problem long time ago with a simple dna test but decided to it was better to lie 20 yrs and her daughter not have her father. issues the daughter has are mother's fault. But i like how the judge said it is ok to hurt.
stitchfan08 agreed
stitchfan08 my bio mother did the same thing. But once the cat was out of the bag she refuses to say who he is.
stitchfan08 if he was so adamant about knowing, why didn't he petition the court to get his own DNA done.
diamond perry because he couldn't find her and the mom didn't want her kid to know who her dad was she was more concerned about what worked out best for herself
"I know he's the father because he's the first one I messed with"
Not how that works at all lady
See how silly that woman is? Lord guide and protect her!
He may have been the first but it does not mean that he was the last.
Not Always, Not Always!
Sometimes women would be better get a Paternity Test.
He might be the first but that doesn't mean he's the only
I cannot imagine the hurt of not knowing who your father is... my heart breaks for her.
Same here
It really do hurt i'm one of them
@@sheila800 I’m so sorry Love, I pray you find closure one way or another.
@@AdeAmani thank you so much...
I'm one of them...
These old trifling women who claim there are no other possibilities and drag these kids into it giving them a front row seat in the drama GET ON MY NERVES😡
OMG I would be sooooo embarrassed 😞
Yessss 😩😔
Exactly, how many men are you sleeping with in a 2 week period? I think every child born should have a DNA if one of the parents have doubt. These women be lying, sleeping around with so many men that they do not know who the father is. SMH
@@evelynsmith8443or pretend to not know to hide the truth from their daughters. Shes protecting pride when its hurting her daughter. She will NEVER realize its about her daughter. Not her pride.
“How can she remember me, chasing her up and down the street, but, she can’t remember who fathered her child?” That comment sent me, into Orbit. ☠️😂🚀🚀
MrAveryBrown that comment was SHADY! I LOVED IT
And it was facts
that shade was for world cup 😀😀😀
That was a good one..lol
Right...and lady your man was up and down the street with her.. always blaming the woman, your nasty man was just as bad ! No wonder she left them behind and raised her daughter !
4:09 "How can she remember me chasing her up and down the street but she can't remember who fathered her child?" That laughter brought me to tears.
Alex Zander the SHADE!!!
Very true
You know that tea was spilled and shade was thrown there.
How could you not know who your baby daddy is? For Shynesha it would have been nice to have him as a father. He seems like a good man.
NYAZWoman but he married though
She's in denial🌸
@@crystalvouse7015 the wife seems mature and caring. Would be very nice to have another support in her life if only that was her dad.
harkirat chahal Right but thats just weird to find out your husband has a kid good he wasnt the dad
I love how he and his wife have been trying to get to the bottom of everything while building a relationship with his potential daughter. The wife is really supportive and backing their relationship. 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾.
The child is standing right there
Consider her feelings
Ususally when the potential father brings his wife or girlfriend along, she's usually an obnoxious, irritating person. The wife in this one wasn't. Even though she argued a bit with the mother, it was more like she was standing up for herself and her husband only when seemingly necessary and she was quiet otherwise. She seems like a mature, genuine person.
Thank you!!!! As I read these comments I'm like if only people knew what we really went through but at the end of the day I wasn't there to entertain the mom. It was all about this young lady getting the answer she needed.
You right about that. If the Heffa on the left was a third of the woman she is then she probably wouldn't be in this mess
@@iamergoproxy3476 Thank you for that Mr. Long. I had to let you know that you and my only son share the same name except for he's the "en" version of it! (Quentin) ❤️
@@demetriusjohnson405 Well thank you for the recognition. I hope my brother from another mother gets all the blessings in life...oh, and tacos for dinner tonight
Demetrius really handled herself well. Respect from Quebec City, Canada.
That mother should be ashamed of herself. She isn't.
L B: EXACTLY
L B at all and that’s the sad part because no matter how old that baby is she still was hurt.
L B she should be ashamed of the misleading dishonesty and for accusing his wife when she knew there was a serious question obout if he really was the child's dad. And she should have not brought the daughter into the middle of it. I'm sure the daughter came to support her mom feeling she was being judged wrongly. The mimshoyld have just said to the dad and his wife in private, hey you are right there could be a chance, let's do the test to find out the truth in private. Then she could have told the daughter the story herself instead of subjecting her to the public humiliation if seeing her mother outed as a liar on national television and UA-cam channels.
A lot of them aren't ashamed. You have to take some accountability for that to happen
Mrs Richard I don't think he was married when he got her pregnant. The marriage came later. The wife was just there in sopport of her husband. I don't feel she should have been allowed to stand up there. The man needs to handle this own business.
That’s a MAN!! He tried for yrs for the truth. He hugged her in her time of pain, and thanked his wife!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When judge read the results and the daughter tried to hold back them tears...I cried for her.
She knew the entire pregnancy and life of her daughter that this man wasn’t the father... she just named a name to pretend as if she actually knew.... so selfish
When she brought up how he slept with her cousins and all it showed how much she wanted to be with him..smh And yet she has more than 2 possible men to test for paternity. 🙄
Yep
And how easy it was for her to just say, “I’ll guess we will move on”
That was nice of him to hug her!!!
Thats so true my dad didnt hug me once I started to cry
And I never cry about anything that has to do with him but I felt that very deep down
Some guys are MEN and some are BOYS!
Awe man that just hurt me. I really wanted him to be her dad. She’s hurt.
Angela Madison : one day she will learn to stop blaming other for her.mistakes
Katelyn Rodgers yeah after watching the whole video I saw where she didn’t want to take accountability for what she did. I just feel bad for her daughter because she really just wants to know who her dad is.
Tears
Angela Madison He looks and sounds like a nice man.Sorry he wasn't the dad.Poor kid she is hurting inside.Big of the guy to come over and hug her so tightly.I feel so sad for her.
Me too I was hoping he'll be the father
Why am I obsessed with this show...
Me too!😣
I'm about 9 hours in...dont judge me 😒
Two years later...me too! 🥴
@@stellamary204 Lol me too
This show is really addictive I don't know why....any ideas why?????😞
That's a good solid dude!!! He speaks with confidence and intellect
Classy couple. The wife wasn't degrading or jealous of the baby mom, and the guy wasn't mean or hateful and had sympathy for her in her pain
This guy looks really good for his age.
Lakisha Edwards that’s what I’m saying
He really does
Seeexy! Can I test him for my future children?! 😀
Yes he's fine , he look younger than the wife and the other woman
@@ginagrey5287ikr!!!
When the man spoke with honesty and careful thought and compassion towards the girl and the mother replied, WHATEVER, just goes to show this woman has no regards for her daughter's feelings about wanting to know who her real father is.
Kohan St Raven z
Of course she didnt, she was dodging paternity test....a WOMAN was dodging paternity test
She's an egotistical narcissist if you ask me. Cold. Poor girl has to deal with her for years. She's such a strong and beautiful girl...
I totally agree
She's a well behaved lady. Despite her mama's flaws, can we all agree her mama did a great job raising her? And her step dad must be good, must have treated her like his for her not to have known till 14. Standing O to them👏👏👏
Gorgeous T-Girl The child had amazing character. She will go far in life.
👏👏👏👏 YES YES
Yes!!!
Yeah her Mom did a great job raising him. SMH......God is not mocked Homosexuals, Liars, Murderers, Thieves, Haters of God shall not enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
GSXR 600 so, what sin have YOU committed?! Please don't lie & say none because WE ALL SIN!
This man is a stand up guy and I truly respect him for wanting to step up. Ms. Allen is NOT even sure who fathered her daughter. Ms. Allen needs to come clean and tell her daughter the truth about who her father is.
It breaks my heart that they are speaking over the daughter as if she isnt there
I need an after show! I need follow up!
Andrea T yes!!! He's nothing like the way she tried to portray him... Sad day!!! 😒😞😢
Andrea T yes, I want the mom to work harder to find her child's father to give her daughter closer. She deserves to know who her father's side if the family. It's so important to know your origin.
Andrea T yessss
This show literally got me in tears after this episode, it puts be great to see how they are fairing n doing
Facebook for the follow up 🤣🤣🤣 I always look up their names and see if there's been an update
this man really never denied this child and its like he try not to hurt this girl by the way his talking, what a good man
How can this mom be so nonchalant about something that is clearly (and rightfully so) important to her daughter. I was really wishing this man was her father so she could have gained the closure she needed. I hope she is able to get that closure soon.
Rmi b
I knew from the way Ms. Allen was speaking in court, her disrespect of the wife, her body language and the fact that she never pursued a DNA test 20 years ago told me that this man was not the father of her daughter.
The daughter is beautiful. Incredible complexion.
WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY..WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY..
IT'S NOT OKAY TO NOT KNOW WHO FATHERED YOUR CHILD.. SMFH...
THAT'S EMOTIONAL ABUSE..
THAT'S JUST GRIMY AF TO NOT KNOW WHO YOUR CHILD'S FATHER IS..
EVERY NEW BORN BABY SHOULD HAVE A DNA TEST, AS PROTOCOL BEFORE THEY LEAVE THE HOSPITAL..
AMARls Bella, you are so right, DNA before leaving the hospital, so years later the child won't have to endure this type of mental abuse.
Absolutely
It will come to be the case soon. routine test in the hospital for everyone
i did it the old fashion way I got married being Catholic so i know who the father to all of my kids
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!
I haven't finished....but that man made my heart swell when he said "did I ever deny you? If a child's looking for a father and I have a chance to be there for them I'm going to do it!" How often these people being dragged in here are ANGRY and unwilling to step up he was more than willing to step up.❤
Sarah Thriving good man there,real man!!!
He looks good for 42, love it!
He look older than 42
when you're 40+ you'll see he looks exactly 42. its when people are 42 and look 60 that you're comparing him to.
You looking borderline 50 and can't stand someone else getting a compliment for their age and looks. I smell hater.
@@MakeWarNotLove6 wHeN yOu ARe 40 yOu'lL ReALizE hE loOkS ExACTly hIs AGe ...absolutely zero hate hahahahah .... just facts - KIDDOS LIKE YOURSELF see someone that's 40 and think they should look 100. GIRL BYE.
@@dishish darling I am 40. Lol
One moment of pleasure can cause a lifetime of pain. Hopefully someday soon this young lady will have the truth of who her daddy is. God bless
I feel so bad for that girl. God Bless her. She is so kind and has a sweet disposition. Hugs to her❤️
& then he hugged her....he’s a REAL man. Dang I hope his wife knows how lucky she is. I think she does.
@ Renee & Alan: His wife is very understanding. I hope he learns from this and keep his zipper locked. He spoke and presented himself well. Kudos to him!
I teared up when he hugged her. It cost zero to care and most people dont know that so good on him for doing that. I hope shes ok.
That's one very fine decent man - and one terribly selfish misguided mother.
B.S. MBA keep trying to find if the child is his without calling the mom a hoe that she is that’s a decent person
Loved that quote: "Why I am living in your head rent free!" That sent me in a laughing fit😵😵😂😂😭
I really feel it for this young lady and the potential father. I hope she finds her dad. Him consoling her just shows how much of a great dad he is. He handled it with class. This woman is something else.
I feel her pain, I'm 39 and I have never met my dad.
Plant Perfect just a perspective. My father was a monster. I could have been better without him.
I'm so sorry that you have never met your father. I hope you find the peace and solace you deserve.
Jerico Thompson the point was to make this person feel a little better. Wow
I raised my daughter myself after my cheating abusive ex ran away with a easy girl..then married her 🤷 so when my daughter made contact with him when she was 18 she built a bond with him and cut me out of her life I was mummy and daddy for years and her actions has stunned my entire family..😧 so it's not all Rose's if they make contact with these men because if they get into the head of a child that wants so much to know them then you can lose out as a mother...🤷
50. Same.
he's a real stand up guy
Even a stand up guy will eventually go bad and harbor mistrust in his heart after reaching his breaking point.
I agree
@@josem.figueroajr.4532 If a guy has Ms Allen around him , sure He's going to go sour . But thankfully Mr Childs has a better woman as a wife instead .
My heart goes out to Shynesha. God bless her with your grace and mercy. Help her find peace.
Loddy Dotty is that you on the show
Peace will come when the list of guys are done tested🤔
Next...
AMEN
AMEN
He brought up a good point... If she was struggling so bad why didn't she put him on child support and get a DNA test back then. Why wait 20 years?
She prob just expected him to give her money for her own benefit not for the daughter which was why she didn’t want the test done
That was an awesome “almost” father. That hug he gave her...💔
I feel so sorry for her. At least that man can enjoy his family. Won't comment on the mother
Boy I’m so grateful for my parents, I can even imagine going through something like this. That’s heart breaking
Karrisa Davis
What if at one point you hear your dad is not yours kinda like she did one day?She still felt loved growing up by her "parents," so, sometimes... You just never know.. Especially if you are the oldest child, an only child or born to a single mom... Those are the most common scenarios for these paternity issues!
I love Mr Childs' reaction after hearing Ms Allen's allegations. His reaction was so genuine.
He is definitely a good ethical man and definitely a good catch.
My heart is breaking for this young lady. I hope she found her father and he is in her life now.
Agreed
What a stand up man. 💗
Much success to that young lady on her journey.
That’s just pitiful. He would have loved to be her father and she would have loved him to be her father. Just sad.
...and that's the second man to be tested. Terrible.
The mother tried to blame the Father, but it's clear that she's the problem!
Females like her always blame the man for their messy behavior
and this ratchet judge sees this behavior every show and never calls it out.
Adira Yasharahla these mothers on these paternity shows smh...lol wow
Yep
The real problem is that the other lady name is demetrius
He's a really good man. I know she was sad that he's not her father because she can tell that he would be a good dad.
He is a good brotha. A real stand up guy. I have so much respect for him. The mere fact that he even thanked his wife for sticking with him through this says ALOT.
"Why am I living in her head rent free?" LOL
Her mom knew that the chance was slim that’s why she disappeared. I hope she find her dad but her mom needs to help. She was the one bussin’ it wide open.
lol
air mel Yelp!
air mel she probably won't find her dad, the mom, sounds like she was out there, he's probably the only one she remembers sleeping with
😄😄😏
@@erickanew true hence why the other man remembered sleeping with her and asked to be tested but she dismissed it.
mother be like.......... "I told her the whole story", no woman!!! a man is missing in your story
*MEN
At least one lol
It kills me to see women on here not knowing who their child's father is. Like girl, how you putting this guy through the ringer and playing with your child's emotions and not knowing the get down? It makes all the stuff he's saying about you look like it's true.
Because it is 😂
So right
Kentucky explains alot
I love how his wife backed him up the whole time… when he said I take care of my kids…the wife was in the background saying he sure does…😂😂😂😂
Wow, this is the first one that made me emotional. Very respectful young lady to her mother in all.
The daughter was soooooooo respectable 👏🏽 and strong
She didn’t know for sure if he was the father and didn’t want to face the facts. That’s why she didn’t get a DNA test previously
Three guesses as to the name of the river in Egypt.
3times were mentioned
Or she knew all along he was not the father & that’s why she avoided a DNA test.
This show truly exposes hoedom.
😂😂😂
I swear I ain't realized how much hoes existed on this earth until this show
Like exactly. At it’s finest..
at its finest
😂😂😂😂😂
The judge was so calm. The mama knew. Her response was all over
This brother reaching out and hugging this young woman during such an emotional time brought me to tears . i hope she finds her dad, there's much sadness in her eyes,
the mother was selfish and immature for that imo
Erica Horne very
RIGHT, STILL IS IMMATURE.. WOW
She still also angry about who he was seeing same time as her and not how her daughter is feeling so she is still selfish and inmature. Sometimes you grow old, but you don't grow up. she is an example. Got a 20 year old daughter who does not know who her father is and she talking about he was also seeing her cousins! Honey bye!!!
She test 1 guy already, now this guy wasn't the father. Dang..... How many more men are there to test. SMDH
Demetria Pipkin it's a Maury situation sis😧😂😂😂
She didn't test anyone else, another man thought he was the father...so he got a test, and was not.
Demetria Pipkin You know da hood was all up in it. Ray Ray, Pookie, Dequan, Lemarkus, all them gotta get tested.
How many men in her town, county, state, nation. I fail to understand how you bed multiple partners around the same time, do not use contraception, produce a child and just spin the bottle and choose a man to be on the hook and then when it no longer SUITS you, you question whether the man fathered your child. Just grimmy for the child and for the man who was on the hook and on the birth certificate as the father. Just so unfair.
I think maybe 3 more. The baseball team, football team and the basketball team
This actually brought tears to my eyes! I can really tell he’s a good man
A very sweet humble respectful child
Her mother was absolutely disgusting!! How dare she!!! talking about “we’ll move on from this.” when she clearly don’t see how much pain and suffering she put her daughter through!! She doesn’t deserve that.
How dear that trash attack the wife. I felt her daughter pain😢
this is off topic... but the daughters makeup looks good especially those brows 😍
It really does her face is so clear too 😍
They also shaped the brows like his and fooled me I thought he was the daddy. They better test his cousins 😅
Yes, it does.
And beautiful eyes too…
She's beautiful, smart and personable
Boy she pretty, her mama was a bit bitter, and that pain is from her. The wife smiling; and ole boy is a good person. Wow this was hard to watch.
The child is the one that suffers. My heart is with her. I can feel her pain. She is such a calm, intellect women. I hope she finds out who her father is and therefore finds peace.
Awww he was broken that he wasn’t the father. He would have made an amazing example for her! This poor girl! I hope her father is just as amazing as this man! Mr child ur a real man! We all see it and ur wife is freaking awesome god bless u
How can u build a child's hopes up about 1 man when u know you were living the wild life 🤦♀️
Good so we'll get the the stuff right away and be happy
So basically the mother just wanted a default guy like for example if someone would ask her whos the father she could say him, that's why she never agreed to the dna test before. This case gave me goose pumps hope they are all leaving well
Her vindictiveness an personal feelings affected her daughter's life an her attitude hasn't changed,she definitely was at fault,she could have had a DNA test done 15-20 years ago.
Concerned about him dating her cousin
"How can she remember me chasing her up and down the street, but she can't remember who fathered her child?" 😳😳🔥🔥They should have taken a recess after that burn.... man down😂😂😂
I just wanted to hug the daughter and tell her she could be my sister and my family will be there 100%, my family took in and cared for dang near everyone in my school coming up, anyone that needed it, this young lady deserves all the answers, what a well mannered young lady
That mother was cold blooded, unfeeling, unempathetic and a classic narcissist/jezebel.
Yes she is
Hi where is your ministry
Trollop
Egotistical narcissist. Poor daughter...I know how she feels because I have the same kind of mom. Thank goodness I have my loyal father and I'm grateful that I was conceive in legal marriage... I hope this girl continue grows her best, strong and mature, intelligent and educated...
I followed your jezebel uploads for a while to get over a narcissistic friendship in 2017. Good stuff. But when I saw you post this I laughed so hard 😂😂 to see you on paternity court.
I thought narcissists usually do not apologize on their own. She apologized though.
Selfish adults ,why won't you think about the consequences of your actions
X226 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Amen
Dude sounds exactly like Sweet Daddy Williams from Good Times. Close your eyes and listen to his voice. I feel so bad for this young lady. This matter should have been handled a long time ago.
soulstrenth crusader 😂😂he does
soulstrenth crusader oh yes he is one sweet guy
@soulstrenth crusader, Lawwwwwd you ain't right😂😂😂😂😂
Yup
soulstrenth crusader I kept wondering why his voice sounded familiar! Lol
Judge Lake is the bomb judge. Very professional, knowledgeable, considerate, compassionate, and knows what words to say to get her point across in a respectful and tactful way.
She listens to both sides,, but takes control of her courtroom when needed.. She let's people argue among themselves to try and get a sense of what the real problem is and when she hears key words, she stops and addresses what tge real issues are.
Her listening skills are on point. All judges should look at her as an example of how a judge should be. Much props to Judge Lake.
And she's beautiful.
He seems to be a caring and kind man