Judge is just being honest, that's the kind of girls American society is dishing out to its male populace that is so sad and sick.... I am confused as to what kind of role model she will be... You can see every laughing at the stupidity and upholding it
@Robert Nance , You are on Point Sir! She gets on National TV and says she is religious and loves Jesus, but she is having sex with a man she is not married to, playing house, and walking in her flesh. Then she wonders why the guy doesn't want her version of Christianity. Either live it or leave it but Lukewarm Christians need to sit down somewhere.
Going to church does not make one a Christian. It takes more than church going to be a Christian. Alot of people are in church saying they are Christians but are not in any way near being one.
@Bestill Findrest she's a woman so she naturally has more advice for women, there just isn't a lot of advice in media for men in regards to dating. We are just supposed to know, and if we end up getting with someone who doesn't provide what you need in the relationship you're an asshole for leaving. There's just clearly a double standard in media for this topic. Even men in media market advice to women
Aqeel Morgan, I watch this show Every day. Judge Tolar will get on that @ss whether you are man or woman. If she needs to get the point over, she will do it AND she don't hold back. That's what I love about her. She hit em with that 'old school' in a minute.
“You’re a catch.” BUT My brother don’t even like you. Let alone to marry you.. my boy stay 💪🏽 strong.. She is too narcissistic, self absorbed and high minded 🙄.. MI TIAD RASTA
Enrico Hall She has a point. Our human/societal ideas of a “successful” marriage, doesn’t always match what God deems success. Without him in the marriage, the relationship is already unsuccessful.
Enrico Hall Christianity for me is not a religion, but a relationship. If the relationship that each individual has with God is shaky, the marriage will be also. Not saying there’s not unsuccessful Christian relationships, but when both parties have the same morals and have the same outlook on life, because of God’s teaching and the foundation he has laid out for us, the marriage will be successful. The man is the head, so that fact that he doesn’t believe should be a red flag and she needs to leave because God isn’t someone that a Christian should be compromise. Sorry to say but you don’t have a point in what I’m trying to state. A relationship without God is already unsuccessful. They can be together for 60+ years, but the man failed his family by not having God in their relationship and she failed by allowing them to not assist him to get on the right path.
I’ve been married 15 years and me an my wife have different faiths. She is Christan and I’m not and it has not affected our relationship.. I will go to church with her sometimes because it does help, but it’s not my faith..
LOLA G. Absolutely. I think Judge Lynn was over her long before this episode was over. I was over her by the time she was done speaking in the beginning of the episode.
Simmer down HOT sauce!!. You're not a boss. Because real bosses have quiet confidence, and dont feel the need to announce it over and over again. I guess you dont dance now, you make money moves😒.
Gurl u are indeed cute but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you are a good catch ok...but let’s continue...yea she needs to chill on being “extra” and try a lil more of being “humble” along with that cute face of hers...😒
Mz Dee I totally agree with you... I’m very confident in my skin and do sometimes say I’m beautiful but she’s too arrogant and needs to simmer down a little bit
Her mannerisms and attitude about herself were so unnecessary, there's one thing to be confident, there's another thing to be stuntin' like you're the greatest ever.
She is too full of herself and she don't look as "cute" as she think she does. She look old in the face, looking like her mother's sister and twin. I also don't believe they are compatible and she also places alot of labels on him, put alot of words in this mans mouth. This man said he believes in marriage and God. She still insist on calling him an atheist and sayin he doesn't believe in marriage. He doesn't trust her cause she started off with him as a very "friendly" sneaky chick.
@@kg7032 her mom seems to be doing fine. 😂 Sounds like if a man wasn't doing what he needed to do, he got put out and she found a replacement. Love that for her. 👍🏾
I like her and admire her for having standards, and for listening to the Judge. She’s beautiful and smart. Oh, and ain’t nothing wrong with being without a man. Go for what you know and your man will catch up to you!
He doesn't love her like that, they have too much history, he's seen her in too many lights and she was lusting after hum while she was in a relationship. she's too cocky, too bossy, too full of herself and PUSHY
Why is she thinking so hard to speak !? I can't continue to listen to her talk. It sounds like she's trying hard to sound very smart and it is backfiring majorly.
@@Papa2Tone I agree and if she was speaking any other way like I do most of the time. Just being relaxed; they would be on here talking about how ghetto she is. You are telling the truth. We have to do better for each other
She is a serial monogamist, who does not feel whole unless they are coupled. My ex-husband was a serial monogamist. He couldn’t function and experienced anxiety if he wasn’t married. This brother should run.
It sounds good but is horrible advice. It's basically saying withhold or hold parts of yourself hostage from your partner till he/she gives you what you want. It's in the same arena of advice that tells women to withhold sex to get what they want & we all know that always never works and backfires. It's manipulation and has nothing to do with love. It makes people sacrifice a good relationship (love) for a ring (symbol of love)... It's foolish to pursue a symbol (marriage/ring) by sacrificing what it symbolises (love). Be yourself completely in relationship because as Iyanla said once, "if you don't show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you are not."
@@MylezNevison yes i agree with you also. Then again if you give what he or she wants they get too comfortable and not want to move onto the next stage. ..
Lol 18 months?? Seriously lol. Jeez that's pretty quick. Don't believe the hype that you know overnight. Sometimes it takes years to get to that point. She really not marriage material tbh
@@Nurse_Things we not talking about 10 years tho. That's understandable. We talking about 16 months lol. Personally as long as yall good and in love it shouldn't really be a rush. Marriage is nice icing on the cake, but definitely shouldn't be any pressure.
Jackie Its best a man retain his place regardless of how long a relationship last Just in case Its needed especially when dealing with bw. In all my relationships I have always kept my place while renting with a partner. It allows people the choice to fully note If a relationship is worth it or not without fear of lossing your dignity and home
I didnt even think of that.... But that's definitely true. All the dialogue seemed to consist of, from her end, was advertisement of why he should want to marry her and he's basically not tryina give in
@@HisGraceIsSufficient555 cuz if we don’t women be losing they mind point is how am I suppose to see what I’m getting if you don’t show me same with women
I think to have the « I want to get married » mindset... is setting oneself for failure! Mariage is boring and not easy... it takes 2 wiling participants
Cuisine 228 I wouldn’t say boring, but most people make it boring because they are so controlling, but I do think it’s a problem that people think marriage is the utmost form of declaring your love for someone.
absolutely setting up failure......because it's an "I" need----it's the me, me, me syndrome and this gal has it BIG time.....the dude should run far and fast because her personality is such that if they were to marry, she would rule the nest in every way possible-----she would emasculate him the day after the wedding. She'll top her mother in marriage notches.
She is not a "Boss", she is Bossy. No Man wants to feel forced into loving you. If he does marry you feeling forced he will divorce you over little or nothing. Then you are a divorcee 3 times and viewed as damaged goods. Let the man take the lead no matter where that leads you. Together or Apart.
I mean I'm a female and its hard to even LIKE her....shes very arrogant and also delusional because you keep saying how much of a catch you are, but you have 2 failed marriages under your belt. She seems to think shes above people. I wouldnt want to marry into that and I'm sure her attitude is a focus on why they dont work
It sounds good but is horrible advice. It's basically saying withhold or hold parts of yourself hostage from your partner till he/she gives you what you want. It's in the same arena of advice that tells women to withhold sex to get what they want & we all know that always never works and backfires. It's manipulation and has nothing to do with love. It makes people sacrifice a good relationship (love) for a ring (symbol of love)... It's foolish to pursue a symbol (marriage/ring) by sacrificing what it symbolises (love). Be yourself completely in relationship because as Iyanla said once, "if you don't show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you are not."
He's too old to have those braids. I hate the way she speaks... she's trying too hard to put on a show. Comes off extra and not genuine. Also, she's spiritual... why is she entertaining time and a future with a non-believer. The Bible speaks against that.
@@candys0sw33t Well, things happen and I don't know those situations but I do know she needs to humble herself. She's not as spectacular as she thinks she is if she has to force a man to marry her.
Me personally, I never wanted to marry a divorcée. I wanted my own wife. Took me until I was 32 and she was 33. Educated, black (it’s sad, but you have to say that nowadays), successful, and no kids... The only kids we have are our own. Not knocking anyone. Your experiences and life is your own. Do you, but I had to do me too...
I totally agree. You have to speak/claim what you want. I have always said I wanted my child(ren) to be the only children my husband has and that the father of my child(ren) would be my husband and its just like I spoke.
She's very boastful but reality is ppl buy their homes and land when it's the perfect time for them and not a minute sooner. These are lifelong investments.
Ya know, it’s would’ve made me feel different if she said “I love him, I want to share my life with him, and share is last name” or whatever. But everything was about getting married not really about being with him and being apart of one another’s life. I don’t even think it had to be him. Lol she’s just needs someone to marry doesn’t even have to be him in particular. It also seems like a lot of “I’m a boss so I know I can make your life better”. I think she should talk to God about what it really is that she’s searching for and what is it that she truly needs. Seems a bit vain.
Girl y'all only been together 18 months, chill the hell out. She's too extra for me. And she's trying to use the fact that they've always had strong chemistry as the reason they should go ahead and get married.
I like him when he said that she and him was in relationships with other person and she told him she wanted to be with him, and he said no .I RESPECT him because she was trying to get with him while he's in a relationship with other woman, and She THOUGHT she was that cute to let him leave the woman... She Deceitful to be Doing that!! # Decent MAN not Gutter britches
I am confused.How can she be having sex if she is a Christian and not marriage unless its just Lukewarm Christianity.?.And the bible also makes it clear that we should not be unequally yoked.We are living because the bible also says in God we live move,breath and have our being and it is God who directs our paths and make our crooked path straight so i don't see any reason why we should not be thankful to Jesus.And some so called Christians may say stop judging.. but the true definition of "STOP JUDGING" IS "LET US SIN IN PEACE" Galatians 6:7-9 Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Now I haven’t had sex and I am a Christian so I’m not defending myself but the Bible also speaks on judging others and you just did, her sin is having sex before marriage And you condemn her for it yet your sin is no greater than hers just because you THINK yours is smaller doesn’t mean anything. You’ve lied a few times this week are you not a Christian anymore because the Bible says not to lie right? So let ya without sin cast the first stone correct? I hate people who expect you to be perfect and one thing you do you’re not a Christian that’s pathetic, we all fall short of the glory and we all sin everyday we just need to repent with our hearts and mouth so with that being said shut up and go to church
Dee Manfre that’s not true you can’t read at all, you non Christians love to throw that we not a Christian in our face as soon as we do something wrong as if we’re suppose to be perfect when we can’t be it’s impossible, you lie everyday and don’t even know you’re doing it you sin everyday on accident it’s not called being a fake Christian it’s being in your flesh but as long as you’re trying to change and repent with your heart to GOD not you you’re no one only person she owes anything is GOD that’s it.
Me either. At all.......how you a boss, a good catch with no likeable qualities? Cant even appreciate how pretty she is because her attitude fucking sucks
Righhhhttttt!!!! There are “bosses” and property owners at 21. I am trying to figure out what she is doing that makes her a “boss”. She has been married twice, and working on her Bachelor degree (i thought that is what she said), what else is she doing?
She's uppity. Cute but kinda snobby or somethin. And what's the rush? THEY BOTH operate out of FEAR. MISS Afraid to NOT Get Married meets MR. Afraid to GET Married.
I'm just going to put this out there: if you love the Lord you don't need to rush anything because he will supply all your needs. No matter what they are as long as it's good for you God's got ya!!!!!
So it's not just me? Her vibe is very ugly, shes very arrogant but If I'm guessing shes the only one who thinks shes so great...."I cant help it I'm a good catch" but you trying to force your (3rd though) marriage on him. I just dont care for her she turned me off on UA-cam just watching her lol
I truly believe what you just said, that's was not analysis I don't believe he wants her not for a wife and not for life, that's why he haven't moved in with her 🤷😂
Some people can work around it. My husband is religious (his granddad was a deacon), but I didn't go to church at all growing up. He is Pentecostal and I consider myself agnostic (I'm not saying there isn't a god, but i don't know for sure there is either). I compromised with him and go to church when he goes (he works a lot so he can't go every Sunday) even though i don't necessarily share his beliefs. We love each other and have a very happy relationship.
Women think their looks, sex and success is what keeps men around...WRONG...its your personality...you can be a beautiful woman with great sex but if we can't stand to be around YOU more than 10 minutes it won't last...she thinks she isnt part of the problem..lol
She's allowed to have a time frame for marriage just like he's allowed to have reservations about getting married. The only thing wrong to me is they don't have the same idea about when it should be. Two years in a relationship with someone that you've already known for ten years is very reasonable. If he doesn't want to marry her after two years she's right to move on.
It is not because she do too much, the fact that her mom been married 4xs, now the daughter been married 2xs, it's a spirit that is breaking their marriages! Only those who are spiritually inclined will understand. Even the spirit in both women makes them feels like they have to be obnoxious! They are the head because financially they are stable! Etc! This spirit only goes out by deliverance or it will run down generations to come!!
why won't you people leave satan be jezz. Only bw can create havoc even in hell fire and debate God out of heaven. Her desire for dicks and prestige has nothing to do with generational stuffs rather her greed and desire to be in control at all time: AKA strong independent bw is the reason marriage will.never be satisfactory for her. Apple doesn't fall far from its tree and here we have she and the mother as example. Unfortunately, this lady and mom are not unique within the black community rather they are the norm amongst the educated black female grouping which makes it a sad place for black people to be at.
Probably an unpopular opinion but this is in no way anything to do with spiritual nothing. It’s common sense. If as a child you see your mother getting remarried regularly at such an impressionable age, you’re more likely to repeat the same mistakes even if you don’t intend to. It’s monkey see monkey do the family edition and it’s absolutely no surprise the daughter is in the same boat as the mother, she’s a literal carbon copy. People be reading too much into something so simple. Generational curses??? Get outta here 😂😂
When she wants the wedding and not the marriage......she will pressure men to marry her. This little weasel has hit The Wall already. Don't marry that Qween with the 100% Relationship failure rate. He will be the 3rd guy that she's told him that "we belong together"
Amen... Judge Lynn got it wrong when she said don't listen to statistics...statistics point in the direction that give you the best probability... 71% of women are the initiators for divorce here in America...She has already divorced 2 Men and her mother 3... but she wants to talk Christianity???... I think they just gave this man a glimpse into the future and five good reasons why he should absolutely take his time...
She would be cute if her head wasn’t so Big...meaning she too stuck on herself gotta be Beautiful more so on the inside then the outside that inside beauty is what really counts
I think the fact that when she was in other relationships and still flirting with him is part of his anxiety.. No guy likes a loose ass woman and vice a versa
She is wassayyyy too much 🥶 So arrogant and self-absorbed 🤦🏾♀️ She should marry herself 💍 Her mother looks younger than her! 😳 ❌ wife duties on girlfriend prices 💵 - love it! 💞
William Floyd from a mans perspective do you believe a man knows that he wants to be with a woman? Like if a man is just fuddy duding around do you think it’s more of him trying to figure if he wants to be with that woman, trying to gain trust or just unsure all together thanks for your response
William Floyd thank you. I always like getting a mans thoughts on these things. I believe some times asking women (not all the time) doesnt give us the best answers.
"I never cooked my husband a meal until we got married. Then he found out I couldn't cook." Judge is the G.O.A.T for that.
Haight the Great 😂😂🤣🤣😅😅🤩🤩
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When was this
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Judge is just being honest, that's the kind of girls American society is dishing out to its male populace that is so sad and sick.... I am confused as to what kind of role model she will be... You can see every laughing at the stupidity and upholding it
She is too pushy. Bosses don’t need to announce they are a boss.
Word
This woman already has 2 fail marrage she look bossy and pussy
Like she want to rule this man 100% and its like the man has no say . I'm just saying
Lol
For someone who's so religious that humility and humbleness missed her
True that,
He doesn't want to marry her. All that bragging just says something about her character. Girl stay alone and toot your own horn.
Lmao
Hes a slimy user
@@angelacarlisle1708 right
Thats what I'm saying! She's obnoxious with her conceit.
@@jleezy612 right
“ I can’t help it that am a good catch” 😂girl get over yourself ...a good catch needs to stay caught.....
And the face she made 🤮🤢 she literally makes this face like a rich snooty woman and it's not cute
Ha! Best comment!
This cute dude needs to run from this stupid face
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He should run. Run fast, run hard, and don't look back. She is gonna be nothing but trouble.
She is already trouble. Between her and her mother, they have been married 6 times.
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Exactly
true!!!!
What makes me sad is that so many so-called Christians have no idea of what a marriage really means.
She's not a Christian.
Amen Tuh That
@Robert Nance , You are on Point Sir! She gets on National TV and says she is religious and loves Jesus, but she is having sex with a man she is not married to, playing house, and walking in her flesh. Then she wonders why the guy doesn't want her version of Christianity. Either live it or leave it but Lukewarm Christians need to sit down somewhere.
Going to church does not make one a Christian. It takes more than church going to be a Christian. Alot of people are in church saying they are Christians but are not in any way near being one.
@@janetmaduka5614, Well said. I totally agree! Live it or Leave it!
She is just wayyyyyy too much!!! Total turn off!
Love Always Straight up ring hungry
Her confidence is too high
Probably why she has two ex husbands
@@alwaysawinner44 haha yeah
"Never do wife duties at girlfriend prices."
And men, never invest money at wife rates if you only see a girlfriend interest rate.
Preach...Judge Toler never has advice for men
@Bestill Findrest she's a woman so she naturally has more advice for women, there just isn't a lot of advice in media for men in regards to dating. We are just supposed to know, and if we end up getting with someone who doesn't provide what you need in the relationship you're an asshole for leaving. There's just clearly a double standard in media for this topic. Even men in media market advice to women
Well said well said she biased so many times
Aqeel Morgan, I watch this show Every day. Judge Tolar will get on that @ss whether you are man or woman. If she needs to get the point over, she will do it AND she don't hold back. That's what I love about her. She hit em with that 'old school' in a minute.
she literally gave the guy advice on here
she so cocky and can’t even respect his beliefs i most def wouldn’t marry her.
A very qualified wife with 2 divorces! LMBO
lol. Stop 😁😁😁
I was gonna say that! Lol
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Lol u forgot the two children this lady is full of it shes only cute cause she has her figure .. the face nah
ROBERT G i can’t 😂😂😂😂
Finally good to see a man with a backbone, and intelligence.
I wish I could like this until the battery on my phone die. 👍👍👍👍👏
Refreshing 😊
Finally
😂😂😂backbone of a jelltfish...hes a user
She said,”Look at me I’m cute. I’m a Boss & Queen”. Those are 3 strikes. She’s OUT
Confidence
Jack Pea Most women who Describe themselves in this way are Too Much. Very extra
She should just exude all that she is claiming to be not scream it from the mountain tops
@@jackpea7102 Overconfident. She sounded really ugly saying those things.
I nearly died when she said I'm cute😁 old, hard ,manfaced fake ass...
“You’re a catch.” BUT My brother don’t even like you. Let alone to marry you.. my boy stay 💪🏽 strong..
She is too narcissistic, self absorbed and high minded 🙄.. MI TIAD RASTA
Judel Dutch 😂🤣😂💯
That Part!
Facts!!
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If she's a catch why where both of marriages unsuccessful lmao?
She shouldn’t want to marry him if his faith isn’t the same as hers , she’ll be “unequally yoked “ .
Enrico Hall She has a point. Our human/societal ideas of a “successful” marriage, doesn’t always match what God deems success. Without him in the marriage, the relationship is already unsuccessful.
Enrico Hall Christianity for me is not a religion, but a relationship. If the relationship that each individual has with God is shaky, the marriage will be also. Not saying there’s not unsuccessful Christian relationships, but when both parties have the same morals and have the same outlook on life, because of God’s teaching and the foundation he has laid out for us, the marriage will be successful. The man is the head, so that fact that he doesn’t believe should be a red flag and she needs to leave because God isn’t someone that a Christian should be compromise. Sorry to say but you don’t have a point in what I’m trying to state. A relationship without God is already unsuccessful. They can be together for 60+ years, but the man failed his family by not having God in their relationship and she failed by allowing them to not assist him to get on the right path.
I’ve been married 15 years and me an my wife have different faiths. She is Christan and I’m not and it has not affected our relationship.. I will go to church with her sometimes because it does help, but it’s not my faith..
AMEN! AMEN!
Bad decisions still
She is obnoxious and conceited. Never try to make anyone marry you.
LOLA G. Absolutely. I think Judge Lynn was over her long before this episode was over. I was over her by the time she was done speaking in the beginning of the episode.
Well said
So true
LOLA G., AMEN
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Simmer down HOT sauce!!. You're not a boss. Because real bosses have quiet confidence, and dont feel the need to announce it over and over again. I guess you dont dance now, you make money moves😒.
Girrrl I fell the fuck out at that last sentence....you right though 👏
Dead asssss correct! I'm cackling 😂😂😂😂😂
Mrs. Levy 👀😌😊☺️😀😅👀
Damn, y'all hating so hard, that's black women for u
Mrs. Levy
Yup. You are so right. She had to keep announcing her greatness. Truly confident folks don't have that need.
So annoying.
3rd marriage.. she's the problem.. i don't blame him for being cautious.
She needs to do like Bobby V. & - Sloweth Down!
u kno wasn’t he married the same amount of times as her?
u kno She’s too bossy and overpowering
nadine He said he’s never been married
2 #MARRIAGES on one hand ....... a whole Child and BM on the other 🤷♀️
Sounds like she's in love with getting married
Love this !
You all are so cute on your profile picture!! Lol I'm sorry but it's simply beautiful!!
She's fellowing in her mother foot step .green light zoom zoom😂😅😅😂😀😀😅😅
Like JLo
Hell and needs to marry herself to be honest because shes madly in love with herself
He won’t marry her . Period! He’s still searching and as soon as he finds that thing he’s gone .
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I wouldn’t marry her either. She’s full of herself
Good
Exactly… he is on the hunt
Hes looking for a white chick or someone other then black
A vixen probably
She sounds like she’s in a constant job interview.
Because she's a catch
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Gurl u are indeed cute but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you are a good catch ok...but let’s continue...yea she needs to chill on being “extra” and try a lil more of being “humble” along with that cute face of hers...😒
Completely agree
I agree. I love confidence but geesh....turn it down a little.
@je'suis Elle absolutely!!! It's a turn off for any man.
Mz Dee I totally agree with you... I’m very confident in my skin and do sometimes say I’m beautiful but she’s too arrogant and needs to simmer down a little bit
she ok, but she to darn xtra for real, i couldn’t she would drive me up a wall
Her mannerisms and attitude about herself were so unnecessary, there's one thing to be confident, there's another thing to be stuntin' like you're the greatest ever.
Reminds me of Tamar Braxton’s mannerisms
Exactly!! She is super insecure. Sad.
Deviancy Behavir she’s stuck up!!
Snob!
She's used to lust & thinks she's marriage material.
She is too full of herself and she don't look as "cute" as she think she does. She look old in the face, looking like her mother's sister and twin. I also don't believe they are compatible and she also places alot of labels on him, put alot of words in this mans mouth. This man said he believes in marriage and God. She still insist on calling him an atheist and sayin he doesn't believe in marriage. He doesn't trust her cause she started off with him as a very "friendly" sneaky chick.
You hit it hunny
Smh she need to slow down
She is cute. I am cute and I know it.
Sis you hit the nail on the head.
Jack Pea - I can tell by your profile pic that you’re totally hot!!
She’s my family that just rude,and listen you don’t even look cute yourself
Wow, she's REALLY full of herself, dramatic and acts just like her mother. She has all these credentials, but can't keep a man. Yikes.
I'm laughing...
We know that but she does not understand that at all...that's sad bc she may end up lonely or like her mom, on marriage #4.
@@kg7032 her mom seems to be doing fine. 😂 Sounds like if a man wasn't doing what he needed to do, he got put out and she found a replacement. Love that for her. 👍🏾
I like her and admire her for having standards, and for listening to the Judge. She’s beautiful and smart. Oh, and ain’t nothing wrong with being without a man. Go for what you know and your man will catch up to you!
@@Aquaria2291 Exactly. The mom seems more level-headed though. I don’t know about the daughter though 😅
He doesn't love her like that, they have too much history, he's seen her in too many lights and she was lusting after hum while she was in a relationship. she's too cocky, too bossy, too full of herself and PUSHY
Agreed
And she seems like a cheater too!!
Huh..I loved her!!! ..But you destroyed it with ..eh the truth 🙄
Facts
Exactly he's just not into her like that
Why is she thinking so hard to speak !? I can't continue to listen to her talk. It sounds like she's trying hard to sound very smart and it is backfiring majorly.
Why y'all black women hate so much? Your life must not be together
Yeah, she sounds like English is her second language. Choosing her worlds carefully like she's on trial.
Teionna Simmons
I think she’s thinking before she speaks which most of US women DO NOT DO!!
@@Papa2Tone I agree and if she was speaking any other way like I do most of the time. Just being relaxed; they would be on here talking about how ghetto she is. You are telling the truth. We have to do better for each other
Girl you tryin too hard for me 😂 be with yourself
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U better say that! This bitch thinks she's Beyonce and he's Jay Z. hence; power couple!
Agreed
A P. So true she’s just dam too much
Her biological clock ticking he already has a 14 year old.
she is just the type that cant be alone & always has to have someone.
Tammatha Billings thats most women
Yeppp i got that right of the bat
Everybody can’t be alone.
Yes
Virgo
She is a serial monogamist, who does not feel whole unless they are coupled. My ex-husband was a serial monogamist. He couldn’t function and experienced anxiety if he wasn’t married. This brother should run.
She was beautiful until she opened her mouth 🤦🏾♀️
That's alot of women out here...shes a boss but not his
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Exactly
I didn't think she was cute when she was quiet.
True
Never do wife duties at girlfriend prices..! Yes judge you tell em🙌
It sounds good but is horrible advice. It's basically saying withhold or hold parts of yourself hostage from your partner till he/she gives you what you want. It's in the same arena of advice that tells women to withhold sex to get what they want & we all know that always never works and backfires. It's manipulation and has nothing to do with love.
It makes people sacrifice a good relationship (love) for a ring (symbol of love)... It's foolish to pursue a symbol (marriage/ring) by sacrificing what it symbolises (love). Be yourself completely in relationship because as Iyanla said once, "if you don't show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you are not."
@@MylezNevison yes i agree with you also. Then again if you give what he or she wants they get too comfortable and not want to move onto the next stage. ..
@mylez I totally agree, once two people get committed it's either the guy is doing husband duties or lady is doing wifey duties or both.
@@MylezNevison
Exactly, that was a very silly thing for the judge to say. Absolute nonsense
A man can tolerate it from an educated woman. My grandmother taught me how to cook early age.
She is so damn full of herself. Homeboy better run.
暗黒騎士 Ankokukishi can't stand arrogance 😣😣
@@chadfreshkidd5728 Nah Boo, she’s WAAAAAAAY past arrogant!
I think she’s in love with the idea of being married lol
She's the bone collector
If he wanted to marry her he would’ve been married her...PERIOD!
18 months in. Really
Say that
Lol 18 months?? Seriously lol. Jeez that's pretty quick. Don't believe the hype that you know overnight. Sometimes it takes years to get to that point. She really not marriage material tbh
Brother James To each his own. It’s some of us that don’t want to be ten year girlfriends🙄
@@Nurse_Things we not talking about 10 years tho. That's understandable. We talking about 16 months lol. Personally as long as yall good and in love it shouldn't really be a rush. Marriage is nice icing on the cake, but definitely shouldn't be any pressure.
He'll marry who he wants in the timeline that he wants
As it should be
Doing his laundry, cooking and cleaning for him only 18 months in and he still has his own place, does not make you a Boss. Sorry my dear.
Jackie Glasgow more like a maid 😂😂
More like confused😂😂😂
Jackie Its best a man retain his place regardless of how long a relationship last Just in case Its needed especially when dealing with bw. In all my relationships I have always kept my place while renting with a partner. It allows people the choice to fully note If a relationship is worth it or not without fear of lossing your dignity and home
How can you be a good CATCH IF YOU WERE THROWN BACK TWICE.
Ladies let the guy get to that level first. There is nothing wrong with this man
being a good catch.. don't make you a good KEEP 😉
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You said a lot in one sentence. Spot on!!!!
Who the eff says she was thrown back twice 🤔🤔she could have been doing the throwing....dooh
She's rushing to the alter after 18 months! She's obsess with the idea of love smh
I think 18 months is plenty of time. My question is concerning her being trustworthy.
@@williamfloyd4669 good point.
She's not obsesses with LOVE she wants the ring and the TITLE
THEY HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR OVER 10 YRS.
If I hear," I'm a boss" one more time.......Lawd
Boss need to marry her damn self...
It's getting played.
Right 😂
I agree,they lonely
I wouldn't invite them to my house,they might steal your man,momma included, Lol
Strange that the entire session does not have any glimpse of "I love him/her" but more of "I want to get married"
I didnt even think of that.... But that's definitely true. All the dialogue seemed to consist of, from her end, was advertisement of why he should want to marry her and he's basically not tryina give in
I have never taken a guy's side so quickly.
@Duvalle Lindsey I'm willing to bet that you wouldn't say that to anyone's face.
Me neither!! He needs to move on because she will be nothing but trouble.
5 mins in and I’m already annoyed with her somehow. Even her reason for wanting to get married makes no sense.
So funny how he looks over at her in disgust when she speaks 😂😂
Monica lol I wonder why??? Just curious..are you married???☺
I thought the exact same thing.
She sounds like a disillusioned child. I would look at her like that as well.
"never do wife duties at girlfriend prices" - Judge Lynn Toler so true!!!!!!
Spor on
Then why do men have to be husbands when we’re still boyfriend
@@ericdove39 you don’t.
@@HisGraceIsSufficient555 I do
@@HisGraceIsSufficient555 cuz if we don’t women be losing they mind point is how am I suppose to see what I’m getting if you don’t show me same with women
She's annoying. He needs to run away from her as fast as he can.
Don’t even stop to put on your sneakers. Just RUN
Is bloody annoying as well...big print on his forhead USER
She is goofy
I think to have the « I want to get married » mindset... is setting oneself for failure!
Mariage is boring and not easy... it takes 2 wiling participants
Cuisine 228 I wouldn’t say boring, but most people make it boring because they are so controlling, but I do think it’s a problem that people think marriage is the utmost form of declaring your love for someone.
Ikr... As a couple ye' both will go on a few life adventures whether thou like to or not. lol
je'suis Elle , I will try to post more vegetarian food
Def not boring if yal sharing & building yal lives together but definitely marriage is a job that both people hav to participate in 100%
absolutely setting up failure......because it's an "I" need----it's the me, me, me syndrome and this gal has it BIG time.....the dude should run far and fast because her personality is such that if they were to marry, she would rule the nest in every way possible-----she would emasculate him the day after the wedding. She'll top her mother in marriage notches.
She is not a "Boss", she is Bossy. No Man wants to feel forced into loving you. If he does marry you feeling forced he will divorce you over little or nothing. Then you are a divorcee 3 times and viewed as damaged goods. Let the man take the lead no matter where that leads you. Together or Apart.
Yes. 👍 Well sated.
I mean I'm a female and its hard to even LIKE her....shes very arrogant and also delusional because you keep saying how much of a catch you are, but you have 2 failed marriages under your belt. She seems to think shes above people. I wouldnt want to marry into that and I'm sure her attitude is a focus on why they dont work
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Right!
I love judge Lynn. She treats everyone like a true mother would!
He looks as if he want out of this relationship but don't know how to tell her.
The mother and daughter is really annoying 😡
He's not READY
Hes ready, hes just not stupid 😂🤣 he sees what we see in her because her whole vibe is very offputting.....even her body language is a turn off
Judge is saying, never do wife duties at girlfriend prices, yet 80% of people on the show are shacking up.
Because a woman want a Husband not a boyfriend...
Judge Lyn Toler Said It Best Don’t Do Wifey Duties For Girlfriend Prices . My Motto 🙄🤣
😂I think that was horrible advice by Judge Lynn...you should let a person experience who you truly are from the beginning...LoL
I always do whatever to please my man...
Remember that having sex is included in that statement. I would say that it's the greatest part of that statement
It sounds good but is horrible advice. It's basically saying withhold or hold parts of yourself hostage from your partner till he/she gives you what you want. It's in the same arena of advice that tells women to withhold sex to get what they want & we all know that always never works and backfires. It's manipulation and has nothing to do with love.
It makes people sacrifice a good relationship (love) for a ring (symbol of love)... It's foolish to pursue a symbol (marriage/ring) by sacrificing what it symbolises (love). Be yourself completely in relationship because as Iyanla said once, "if you don't show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you are not."
@@zulu3274 Exactly, why would I get with a woman who provides nothing to my life?
He's too old to have those braids.
I hate the way she speaks... she's trying too hard to put on a show.
Comes off extra and not genuine.
Also, she's spiritual... why is she entertaining time and a future with a non-believer.
The Bible speaks against that.
Halo Jackson she not to spiritual she been divorced twice
@@candys0sw33t
Well, things happen and I don't know those situations but I do know she needs to humble herself.
She's not as spectacular as she thinks she is if she has to force a man to marry her.
She in flesh
Omg u totally misunderstood the Bible then 🤦🏽♀️
Wow that rude! That’s my family you know!
Me personally, I never wanted to marry a divorcée. I wanted my own wife. Took me until I was 32 and she was 33. Educated, black (it’s sad, but you have to say that nowadays), successful, and no kids... The only kids we have are our own. Not knocking anyone. Your experiences and life is your own. Do you, but I had to do me too...
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I totally agree. You have to speak/claim what you want. I have always said I wanted my child(ren) to be the only children my husband has and that the father of my child(ren) would be my husband and its just like I spoke.
Agree. That’s how I wanted it also and how it happened
Same here !! U did right 👌
26 and trying to do the same, congratulations to you
“I can’t help it that I’m a good catch”
“Queens don’t marry peasants, they marry kings”
“As you can see, I’m cute”
Get over yourself 😭
Cringe as hell
I love this dude .. I hope he finds someone as mature and wise as him
I like this guy also he has common sense...take your time dude ....Don’t think I like her for him
@@maryclark8621 I don’t like her PERIOD! She brags too much for me! She’s doing the most trying to get her 15 minutes of fame.
Hes a userv
Man run she is a problem woman
Please run man
Mom and daughter are beautiful and cut from the same cloth.
Very Skin Beauty Especially the mommy
Mom is beautiful. Daughter ain't. But cut from the same cloth I totally agree😊
I love how she break and explain everything so perfect!!! I enjoy watching her shows !
Not sure why she made such a big deal with owning land at 31 I owned land before the age of 26
Me neither...I know several home and land owners that are young.
She's very boastful but reality is ppl buy their homes and land when it's the perfect time for them and not a minute sooner. These are lifelong investments.
Ya know, it’s would’ve made me feel different if she said “I love him, I want to share my life with him, and share is last name” or whatever. But everything was about getting married not really about being with him and being apart of one another’s life. I don’t even think it had to be him. Lol she’s just needs someone to marry doesn’t even have to be him in particular. It also seems like a lot of “I’m a boss so I know I can make your life better”. I think she should talk to God about what it really is that she’s searching for and what is it that she truly needs. Seems a bit vain.
She 💍 hungry judge said 🤔
Girl y'all only been together 18 months, chill the hell out. She's too extra for me. And she's trying to use the fact that they've always had strong chemistry as the reason they should go ahead and get married.
They have know each other for 10 years.
I like him when he said that she and him was in relationships with other person and she told him she wanted to be with him, and he said no .I RESPECT him because she was trying to get with him while he's in a relationship with other woman, and She THOUGHT she was that cute to let him leave the woman... She Deceitful to be Doing that!! # Decent MAN not Gutter britches
48 laws of power: Law #3 Conceal your intentions.
I really need to get this book..... thanks for reminding me
Toydoll 😂🤣😂🤣
Yes ma'am
Law #49 suck me off bitch
Justin Mgtow you know you don't have anything to suck.
I am confused.How can she be having sex if she is a Christian and not marriage unless its just Lukewarm Christianity.?.And the bible also makes it clear that we should not be unequally yoked.We are living because the bible also says in God we live move,breath and have our being and it is God who directs our paths and make our crooked path straight so i don't see any reason why we should not be thankful to Jesus.And some so called Christians may say stop judging.. but the true definition of "STOP JUDGING" IS "LET US SIN IN PEACE" Galatians 6:7-9
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Christian by convenience
Now I haven’t had sex and I am a Christian so I’m not defending myself but the Bible also speaks on judging others and you just did, her sin is having sex before marriage And you condemn her for it yet your sin is no greater than hers just because you THINK yours is smaller doesn’t mean anything. You’ve lied a few times this week are you not a Christian anymore because the Bible says not to lie right? So let ya without sin cast the first stone correct? I hate people who expect you to be perfect and one thing you do you’re not a Christian that’s pathetic, we all fall short of the glory and we all sin everyday we just need to repent with our hearts and mouth so with that being said shut up and go to church
Exactly a Christian when she feels like it. So many fake ones out there
Dee Manfre that’s not true you can’t read at all, you non Christians love to throw that we not a Christian in our face as soon as we do something wrong as if we’re suppose to be perfect when we can’t be it’s impossible, you lie everyday and don’t even know you’re doing it you sin everyday on accident it’s not called being a fake Christian it’s being in your flesh but as long as you’re trying to change and repent with your heart to GOD not you you’re no one only person she owes anything is GOD that’s it.
That's the reason y she wants and gets married quickly. Sex to lure men in and marriage to lock them down
No, you're not a Boss, because Bosses don't over emphasis on it on every sentence 🙄
I don't like her 🤷🏾♀️
Me either. At all.......how you a boss, a good catch with no likeable qualities? Cant even appreciate how pretty she is because her attitude fucking sucks
At all!
Me either and I don't even know her.
“I never made a meal for my husband until we wed... then he found out I couldn’t cook.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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haha, so mean, I could have asked McDonalds to rent me a room ahahaha
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she's spoiled
Owning land at 31 I know plenty of people including myself that owned property at 21 and a couple at 18. I can't I really can't.
Thank you Deneice, I own my own home and I'm still not 31 yet, I don't know what she thinking saying that foolishness👍👍
Righhhhttttt!!!! There are “bosses” and property owners at 21. I am trying to figure out what she is doing that makes her a “boss”. She has been married twice, and working on her Bachelor degree (i thought that is what she said), what else is she doing?
i own land.. this ain't "lil house on the prairie" LOL
She's uppity. Cute but kinda snobby or somethin. And what's the rush? THEY BOTH operate out of FEAR.
MISS Afraid to NOT Get Married meets MR. Afraid to GET Married.
I'm just going to put this out there: if you love the Lord you don't need to rush anything because he will supply all your needs. No matter what they are as long as it's good for you God's got ya!!!!!
I know both of them and she is so extra. Nobody want her. James don’t want her
So it's not just me? Her vibe is very ugly, shes very arrogant but If I'm guessing shes the only one who thinks shes so great...."I cant help it I'm a good catch" but you trying to force your (3rd though) marriage on him. I just dont care for her she turned me off on UA-cam just watching her lol
Have you ever said this to her?
VOILIN KEYZ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I truly believe what you just said, that's was not analysis I don't believe he wants her not for a wife and not for life, that's why he haven't moved in with her 🤷😂
🤣🤣🤣 we can tell
If she was really religious she wouldn’t want to marry an unbeliever I can relate..
Exactly!!!!! I know, I wouldn't!!!!
I agree!!
Antwon Amos from the Christian perspective you are an unbeliever if you dont believe in Jesus Christ
if she had the strong capable mind she could change his views
Some people can work around it. My husband is religious (his granddad was a deacon), but I didn't go to church at all growing up. He is Pentecostal and I consider myself agnostic (I'm not saying there isn't a god, but i don't know for sure there is either). I compromised with him and go to church when he goes (he works a lot so he can't go every Sunday) even though i don't necessarily share his beliefs. We love each other and have a very happy relationship.
Women think their looks, sex and success is what keeps men around...WRONG...its your personality...you can be a beautiful woman with great sex but if we can't stand to be around YOU more than 10 minutes it won't last...she thinks she isnt part of the problem..lol
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Girl...leave him alone🎶🎵🎼🎵... a house divided will not stand...you two have opposing core values and you will end in divorce again!
Truth
Amen
Facts
She's allowed to have a time frame for marriage just like he's allowed to have reservations about getting married. The only thing wrong to me is they don't have the same idea about when it should be. Two years in a relationship with someone that you've already known for ten years is very reasonable. If he doesn't want to marry her after two years she's right to move on.
But why is she talking like that with those gestures
The facial expressions too
It is not because she do too much, the fact that her mom been married 4xs, now the daughter been married 2xs, it's a spirit that is breaking their marriages! Only those who are spiritually inclined will understand. Even the spirit in both women makes them feels like they have to be obnoxious! They are the head because financially they are stable! Etc! This spirit only goes out by deliverance or it will run down generations to come!!
Andrea-Imani Weah . Well said this sis, it’s sad and understand it.
Andrea-Imani Weah it's a generational curse. They'll keep losing marriages if they don't get delivered
why won't you people leave satan be jezz. Only bw can create havoc even in hell fire and debate God out of heaven. Her desire for dicks and prestige has nothing to do with generational stuffs rather her greed and desire to be in control at all time: AKA strong independent bw is the reason marriage will.never be satisfactory for her. Apple doesn't fall far from its tree and here we have she and the mother as example. Unfortunately, this lady and mom are not unique within the black community rather they are the norm amongst the educated black female grouping which makes it a sad place for black people to be at.
Probably an unpopular opinion but this is in no way anything to do with spiritual nothing. It’s common sense. If as a child you see your mother getting remarried regularly at such an impressionable age, you’re more likely to repeat the same mistakes even if you don’t intend to. It’s monkey see monkey do the family edition and it’s absolutely no surprise the daughter is in the same boat as the mother, she’s a literal carbon copy. People be reading too much into something so simple. Generational curses??? Get outta here 😂😂
This woman needs to chill...
Fax Machineth! =),
Two marriages already at 31. Waaoh. I dont think she can keep this one even when eventually married to him.
Omg this showed up on my timeline! I miss judge Lynn. I love how she provides her input. Entertaining and insightful!
I'm 3 mins in. There's no way in hell I'd marry, or even date this 'queen?'
About 30 seconds and I felt she is ridiculous
Whos to say shed want to date you
A few moments in and she's already grating my nerves!
Deven Montgomery lol yep...are you married? 😗
Girl why we here for b4 the vows when he told you he doesn't want to marry you? 😞
When she wants the wedding and not the marriage......she will pressure men to marry her.
This little weasel has hit The Wall already.
Don't marry that Qween with the 100% Relationship failure rate. He will be the 3rd guy that she's told him that "we belong together"
You're an idiot.
@@brishaberries0101 I am not your husband.
Go and find him.....
Amen... Judge Lynn got it wrong when she said don't listen to statistics...statistics point in the direction that give you the best probability... 71% of women are the initiators for divorce here in America...She has already divorced 2 Men and her mother 3... but she wants to talk Christianity???... I think they just gave this man a glimpse into the future and five good reasons why he should absolutely take his time...
Girlfriend you are not all that the glass you looked in is lying to you.
She would be cute if her head wasn’t so Big...meaning she too stuck on herself gotta be Beautiful more so on the inside then the outside that inside beauty is what really counts
I think the fact that when she was in other relationships and still flirting with him is part of his anxiety.. No guy likes a loose ass woman and vice a versa
Right that didn’t work out, and now she older and going back to the nice guy she passed over in college.
6th comment! Happy thanksgiving everyone and especially Judge Toler 💜
Happy Thanksgiving Paige!
Thank you. Have a great day. Save me some pie😊
Happy thanksgiving to you as well
Paige Pierson 👀💕💕💕Happy Thanksgiving 💕
Paige Pierson You too!! God bless.
She reminds me of Phaedra, from Atlanta house wives.
She is wassayyyy too much 🥶 So arrogant and self-absorbed 🤦🏾♀️ She should marry herself 💍 Her mother looks younger than her! 😳
❌ wife duties on girlfriend prices 💵 - love it! 💞
I enjoyed being on the show and reviewing the remarks .
💯💯💯 She so obnoxious and bragging over basic things. Her mother's an accountant she act like she never had anything before.
😂😂
James' face when her mother starts talking is priceless.
Can I object..?
Nah you cannot
THIS JUDGE IS A MOOD
I am on his side. Marry when you are ready. She is a nut case
AGREED
I actually like the way she carries herself ! But I agree with Judge Lynn's advice as well! I hope it worked out for them!
She’s masculine and that pushes him away probably. What man wants a “bulldog”?
Janette Desilier nowhere near masculine
Jazzadaa Greatestt you should actually look into what’s considered masculine traits in a woman before you try to correct me. Thank you
Janette Desilier No you should stop living by Society labels that say because a woman is strong she’s masculine that shit is whack
@@PiscesPrincess87 she's being bossy that does not make her strong
I agree. It's not her look that's masculine, it's her aura and behavior.
Mom and daughter look so much alike
That guy needs to run. She drags men to the altar.
Ouch sounds true
Women don't understand. It's not about easy. It's about consistent. It's about trustworthiness. It's about character.
William Floyd from a mans perspective do you believe a man knows that he wants to be with a woman? Like if a man is just fuddy duding around do you think it’s more of him trying to figure if he wants to be with that woman, trying to gain trust or just unsure all together thanks for your response
@@cnb1243 yes, he does. Even early on. The problems arise with those men who aren't honest with women or with themselves.
William Floyd thank you. I always like getting a mans thoughts on these things. I believe some times asking women (not all the time) doesnt give us the best answers.
She's just kind of annoying! 🙄
Very annoying...Unsatisfied Females...Self love first...
😂 She a Joke!! ✋🏾⏸🤣🤣🤣 If I was him I'd Run and stay gone 🏃🏾💨
I like this dude he ain’t no simp
There are not many real men that come on here it's nice
I dig him too
All I can say is hell no! I'm a woman and I'm running!!