How Does Your Sexual Identity Affect Your Relationships? | Tell My Story
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- Опубліковано 7 чер 2024
- It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
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He seems like the type of person to reply with one word answers or just "k".
lmao i can see that
yeah she talked a lot more than he did. I actually found her kind of annoying
spot on
Miss_IGotBTS
Her: "I am super grateful for my family...and they live so far away"
Him: "wow that's amazing"
Her: *blank stare* *rapid blinking*
"Yeahhh :D..."
Armyy
Gluten free Toast with almond butter is the most la thing you could say lol
Dilara Okay! Lol!!!!🤛🏽
Dilara no it's not
moonuve kid what is it then
The obvious answer is "Avocado Toast"
K. S. oh ok you got me 😂
"I would not date you"
he: "k"
Dwarka is the name of ancient city of lord krishna in hindu mythology. It's believed that this city was distroyed in an epic calamity somewhere under the sea. It means gated city or city with grand or glorified gates.
they had chemistry, but it seemed like the kind of chemistry you'd see between best friends.
had the same feeling
That's why they failed the physics exam
Yea, I've noticed that this happens a lot of with bisexual women. They often roll differently than straight ones!
more like acquaintances
more like a quick hookup
Half of the people on this show say they would date the other person just because they feel awkward saying no.
sad
Dwarka is one of the most beautiful men I have ever laid my eyes on, and he seems like such a huge catch. I would date him in a heartbeat!
yep this comment section needs water
Tf, why is he so handsome
Kate Cherry Because he ia soooo Handsome. 😋😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
y'all are weird
Because he is Indian
@Akmal Ahmad just assume that that person is Indian. There are roughly 1.33 billion of us. So they're most likely to he one of us😂😂
He looks dirty
but...they didnt discuss their sexual identity?
Celine Ak that's what I thought. I don't get the title
I think the site is clickbait. disappointed.
yes, I thought that too? like they talked about it seperated at the beginning but not to each other
Lotus // i actually caught on to the show because of the controversial titles and how it really wasnt clickbait and that interested me so much in it. Now im kinda meh.
i would never go out with a person that is poly bc I'm mono and i would be pissed if they didn't tell me. (1 month later oh hey this is my other boyfriends!!)
Dwarka is really handsome. Elizabeth does look hispanic or maybe even filipino.
But the chemistry isn't there. I think he just said yes to be polite. He seems like the type of person who doesn't like to hurt people's feelings.
Y v same thought 🙌
I totally agree
Y v or he doesn't find a need to contradict...you gotta choose your battles
Y v I agree...
See, I thought she was Native American/Japanese, she's so pretty!
Did anybody else not only find him super attractive, but also his voice?! So calm
No doubt
Can we talk about how handsome he is?!
keturahlove4500 well we are only doing thay i guess
Can we get an episode about how everyone is doing right now? Are they friends or maybe dating? We wanna know!😋
{EDIT: Woah, so many likes?? Thanks guys!}
I agree
Anne-Sophie Henquin YESS
yep agree
SOUL PANCAKE i know you're seeing this. pls bring them back!!!
Anne-Sophie Henquin yes
THUMBS UP IF YOU WANT THEM TO ASK A BONUS QUESTION TO EACH OTHER AT THE END!!!(that they've made up themselves)
Ooo! Interesting idea!
SoulPancake Thank me later 😎
And a DATE
violetvodka x yaaaa
“Your penis is 10 inches?”
That guy is so hot wtf😍
liev megaslag yup
his hair is ratty
That's an Indian for you😎😎
Lakshay King lol 😂😂😂
No. He's like average Indian standards.....
he is so handsome wtf
I would love to see a video of how mental illness affects relationships.
Yeah this could be very enlightening. If we're able to find two people who would be willing to talk about that in a video, we'll definitely try to make it happen.
how old do you have to be to participate because i'd be down lol
SoulPancake That would be awesome, thank you! It would be nice too, if you would add in questions that pertained to the subject. It's interesting to see their opinions in the interviews beforehand, but it would be really cool to see how their (race, sexuality, illness, etc.) affects the way the interact with each other. 😊
SoulPancake how do you apply for this show I wouldn't mind talking :)
Yeah. Homosexuality affects it pretty harshly I assume
the titles they put are always so misleading. they didn't even talk about their sexuality
Mica
Thought the same!!
I'm SAYINNN
Mica they kinda did in the beginning
Mica sex
Queer is a sexuality..🤔
Who else crushing on him while watching this video?
Hold up. So she's half caucasion, half italian and half japanese. I'm no mathematicial but this aint adding up
Caucasian is an umbrella term for white basically haha. So when she said half Caucasian, she was referring to being half Italian.
Ohh, okay cool. Thanks for letting me know
Yup :)
She also said I am very east coast but used like every other word and spoke like she was from the west coast. 😒
Angela Strawberry Caucasian isn't umbrella term of white. Color and race are not the same thing. Indian, Arabs, Persians, Afghans are Brown Caucasian. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caucasian_race?wprov=sfla1
I don't think they had chemistry, their interactions were a little cringy...
Come on, Soul Pancake, I know you could do better than creating intriguing title that has nothing to do with what's the video is about :(((
Anida also known as the legendary term Clickbait
worst case of clickbait i have seen from a serious channel. disgusting.
Well she did say she was bisexual in the title.. and he said he was polyamorous.. both having to do with people's sexual identity
Steph Inki yeah they said it at first but they didn't discuss it at all, so it seems like no one knows what each other has in store lol.
but they didn't talked it out with each other. which was the whole point of the video i was expecting. :/
I feel like he is a lot nicer and kinder than she is and she is very domineering and bossy.
so im not the only one here who thinks he's super hot
Lauukik Mhatre not at all 😊🙏👌
He kinda looks like my ex lol.
@@dev-ok1li abey chup
She reminds me of Janice from Friends.
rorschachova Ikr, even the loud tone, but kind of on a soft patch
rorschachova hahaha😂
rorschachova ooohh myyy gooooddd you are right
Omg yes!
Ooh myyy Gawd🤣🤣🤣
He has a beautiful smile.
He make a lot of eye contact ! Hot af
Her exit was the most awkward thing I had ever seen
Alexia Carolina Oh my god trueeeee
I think I'm in love with this guy
still waiting for the day they will get a name right...
king bisho they once did
@@Lana-hz7tl Which episode???
WHEN HE LAUGHS, IT BRIGHTENED ME.
Who else click on this because the man fine?
I wish that their sexualities would have been topic :(
+
IncrediBelleJessi he is so gay 😍 my type
JUSTin 😂😂
You can tell that girl was definitely a party girl when she was younger
damon kain and she's from New Jersey
Aka Gray betch I'm from New Jersey and I don't party
damon kain why can you tell?
Léon Espinosa Moreno Armyyy
damon kain hahaha
she doesnt look hispanic, she looks filipino
Sofia F Oh, but Filipinos are the Latinos of Asia so...
Sofia F Hispanic isn't a race... Hispanic people don't have a certain look. You can be any race and be Hispanic. Please educate yourself
@misseeydj123
1: of or relating to the people, speech, or culture of Spain or of Spain and Portugal
2: of, relating to, or being a person of Latin American descent living in the U.S.; especially : one of Cuban, Mexican, or Puerto Rican origin
So, I don't think any race can be Hispanic
Ben Ar What you "think" is not correct. It's really not that hard to educate yourself on what "Hispanic" really is. It focuses on Spanish speaking origin and culture. There are black, white and Asian hispanics..so what do you mean you don't think they can be any race?? You literally copied and pasted a definition of "Hispanic" and you still couldn't figure out that it has nothing to do with race...
R Gonzales filipinos are not latinx hence LATIN AMERICA
I'd totally date him 😍
@@Pankaj-ti8rv ??? not about skin color or looks, much better to date someone who shares similar interests, a great personality and can make you laugh?
@@Pankaj-ti8rv WTF?!
x2
@@ryana-6762 wtf?
@@ryana-6762 racist
Um this guy is super hot!! Idk how she remained calm LMAO
NN HAAHAHAHAAHAA
Ohhh yes!😍 too hard to resist that guy!
Didnt see any connection what so ever. It was very fake in my opinion especially from her side
Mxalx completely completely agree! Even the end when she said "I totally go on a couple of dates with you"--- she basically verbalized that she sees nothing long term with him.
I think it was that she would try but she doesn't necessarily want see it working
Oh really! i thought his side was a bit cold , she was trying hard in my opinion but he was not into at all
Sara Alwadany you can tell near the end how fake she was being 😂 Body language was sending so many signals
i mean all the time he was saying oh yeah ,okay ,wow. he didnt participate in any of her conversations or gave his opinion. i feel like he waited for the time when it is over and she got the same vibes i got that is why she was surprised when he marked ( i would date u ) cause none of his postures said that :(! and for me, she looks like an honest person.
after all people see different things and that is what I saw .
my whole life i couldnt understand what it means when someone calls a girl basic. now i do.
PetraPe hahaha
What is that mean?
lol, too true
He is so handsome and has a wonderful personality! 💗
Okay that man should play Aladin for the film like I swear he has that same cute charming smile as the animation and there is even a similarity in the eyes ! Am I crazy for thinking that ?
Fratila Lucie I can totally see that!!!
Aladdin was a teenager. He looks like a grown (handsome) man. Plus Aladdin is supposed to be arab. So I don't agree. Lol
Y v same
Fratila Lucie i see it too!
Fratila Lucie hi
There is a genuine air of sadness as well as something else...like the two are missing something and haven't found it yet in this episode
Amna Javed i agree it definitely seems sort of empty
She seems confused and unsure about generally everything. Its almost as if he can read how unauthentic she is.
HE IS SO HANDSOME HOT DAMN
i liked the guy a lot, but i got this weird vibe from the girl that she just wasn't genuine. just me?
Kylar Duncan me too :(
More like nervous energy
Spot on Sir, ive actually known a manipulative narcissist woman who had the Exact same personality as the girl in the video.
I was the other way round tbh
Her voice was really annoying too
her eyes...amazing.
8:56 damn. And then "Like, yeah, I'd go out with you a couple times to see if we can ...." holy cow...
Elizabeth...
I'm not sure how to take her. I get anxiety vibes...
He's more chill and self aware to me.
Thank you. From her my thought was: hiiiiigh maintenance. I feel like she would be super picky and hard to please. Just an impression
His voice or general the vibe i'm getting from him is sooo calming
You like him
Neither was into the other. Their responses were to make the other not feel awkward. She would do better with an aggressive dominant man and he needs a more "chill" woman. Keep the episodes coming.
Bill Adams So... You are looking at Indian men's penises huh???
rajesh raj The sad thing is you actually believe in the alpha/beta nonsense.
Jennifer Wright true
Jennifer Wright yes, definitely.
Jennifer Wright couldn’t agree more
No questions on sex with the title being about sexual identity
Her voice its what nightmares are made of
AKAE DE DEVAL I swear her voice is so annoying
I wouldn't date her because it seems like she talks too much, her voice is annoying and she seems like a bit of a drama queen. But the voice....just NO!
You are ridiculous.
darker shade John Snow.. am i the only one seeing it?
seconded
You can be vegan and eat pizza...or am I missing something? 😂
snjezana simic cheese is dairy, so pizza typically isn't vegan
unless its nondairy cheese, you cant eat pizza while vegan
she means authentic pizza made with real cheese which is what most people refer to
In Italy they actually eat some pizzas without cheese.
Catherinne Bustamante vegan pizza exists lmao
He is very attractive!!!
that boi is FINE
Let's start a conversation! How does your sexual identity affect your relationships?
Didn't see much of a connection going on here
Dena Rozario she was too dominant like "let's do cartwheels" and then "no don't do it I was just kidding" like dude felt really awkward because he seemed very introverted.
Dena Rozario i
"half caucasian, half Italian, half Japanese" lmao
Spazlan YT lol
Spazlan YT I think she meant it as "I'm half Caucasian: half Italian, half Japanese"
Well Italian can technically be caucasian, so 50% Italian, 50% Japanse :P
Loooool
nxthing.wrxng it is Caucasian wdym can be
Lol most Indian people who grow up in America don’t have an accent. It’s an assumption I hate because people always assume that I was born in China and therefore should have a Chinese accent. 🤦🏻♀️
Really? He must be from a pretty ignorant part of the US for people to assume he's got an accent. Given Indian-Americans are the highest income earners per capita in America. Probably from an area that has more Indian immigrants than Indian Americans (born there).
He's so hot, he could be an Assassin's Creed protagonist.
I'll admit as I was watching the lady, I think she was fronting the entire time. I know I'll get hate for it but I didn't get the feeling that she was being authentic. I say this because I've acted like her when put on the spot.
Yeah, something about her rubbed me the wrong way. Also, I think he only would date her because she was conventionally attractive. But as for he personality, something was off.
Phew, okay I'm glad I wasn't the only who felt it. Though I want to avoid bashing a complete stranger online, I am open to this thread becoming a healthy discussion that can evolve into wider conversations about first impressions, how one decides to share themselves with the world, others' perceptions of those decisions, etc. Anyway, thank you for the reply!
Mark I agree
She appears uncomfortable and nervous.
I disagree. she's just very upfront, honest, genuine, quirky and she's staying true to herself. that can come off as "fake" to some people. it is all about PERCEPTION. she is SO comfortable with herself and with her life, that unfortunately some people do not know how to be around some one that IS so comfortable with themselves. she is naturally also very bubbly and fairly optimistic. but most importantly, GENUINELY HAPPY. others will feel "threatened" by a person like her. I know cuz I can relate. she's very free spirited and hey we can't like everyone we meet. But we can at least respect their opinions and lifestyle.
omg anyone who finds his insta, tell me. i wanna stalk it
rajesh raj does it matter? 😂
let people like who they like, damn.
@dwarkapaz you're welcome
Dwarkapaz. You're welcome. (I can't believe that my first comment on UA-cam is the result of my ridiculous stalking abilities)
rajesh raj I'm greek, so like white af, but I find him very attractive.
he's beautiful uGH
He’s so handsome 😍
Damn I like him
He's hot xD
Ren Kunn he is and I loveee guys like him with chill personalities
+Iqra Ahmed What's your ethnicity ?
Ren Kunn once you go brown the other colors let you down. Hahahaha
bettahthanyou Somali babe, you?
wtf Racist much +Bill Adams
I lived in India for 2 years and trust me there are men there that are way hotter .
Why were u there for 2 years?
@@Toxic-th4si bob vegene
The last time I took shower was
No Bob Singh
Pakistani men are hottEr😍
😒so uncalled for
He is soooooo hot
I saw more of a friendship spark between them. They both seem really sweet though
Not really into her attitude
Agree, he can do better..lol
His laugh is so adorable
You like him what's your ethnicity
His smile got me😍
She is just perfect. They were so comfortable with each other. That was great
He's so handsome
Half Japanese, half Caucasian, half Italian.
half caucasian from one part, and then half japanese and half italian from the other part.
@@200mariahcarey I’m still confused
@@welikelethabo Caucasian is an umbrella term for white basically haha. So when she said half Caucasian, she was referring to being half Italian. So she kinda said she's half Caucasian-Italian and half Japanese.
@@arturoortega8564 ahhh. This makes sense.
@@arturoortega8564 .....but you didn't have to completely copy someone else's comment/response 🙄🤦♀️ smh
In Sanskrit Dwarka means "Gateway to Heaven" .... His name suits him well.
You are westerner ,how do you know that
@@90amankumar81 I did Internet search
Clickbait? Anyone?
Ferdi how
:) I love this show it's amazing:)
He would have to be one of the most attractive men I have ever seen 🌺
Nooo chance she's Armenian lmao but I'm happy Dwarka knows we exist 😍
Armenian people are beautiful. Very sad what Turkey did to Armenian people. We have small Armenian community somewhere in North india. She doesn't look Armenian but then a mixed race Armenian might look like her. It's a good guess.
We know you ,
Thanks to youtube historian , we too have same story like you .
@@mongolianbornaparte7217 we don't and please stop this, North Indians are as old Indians as south indians.
@@suzigevorgyan9337 why are you happy do you like him
Damn, he's fine
vegans eat pizza (a vegan one!)
True lol
Shy Buba cardboard?
No just with no meat and no cheese. We eat Gary (vegan cheese don't worry it's not a person)
Kawaii Pizza hmm...very suspicious...
Shortie and Gabe
I have a friend who is vegan and I've tried her pizza. It's actually good
This series gives me life oh my god. So wholesome and genuine.
Keep making these!! Each and every one is so interesting
Indians r everywhere lol
U might find one on mars too
Well judging by the huge majority of Indians in most Scientific and Technical fields, it's not really that far-fetched lol
Abhay Sharma 😂😂😂😂😂
Abhay Sharma hahahaha....... 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
That's good...lol
@john doe who wants to go to an Islamic shithole?? Where they could go blow anyone saying Allah Hu fuckbar
His smile💕
I love this!!!!❤️ binge watching since last week!
the ending is super cringy
Anyone else got an Jon Snow vibe from the guy? (sorry I didn't catch his name)
lydiasnow dwarka his name 😄
lydiasnow no
Seems like you just high on GOT haha
Dwarka's hot :). I like guys with long hair.
hello hi Dwarka, rishta here for you! :D
Bro...
New to "SoulPancake")) Love every episode!
wow Dwarka seems like such a kind person. Something in his eyes and his smile... He is so calm... And hella handsome : D
Wow, he is so attractive.
I love the comment section on this channel so positive
His eyes makes me feel happy.
Half Caucasian, half Italian and half Japanese... Something isn't adding up here...
JoelKeys italians are caucasian
JoelKeys
U goofball!
She said i am half Caucasians :50% italian and also 50% Japanese
🤣😂
Lol!
Elizabeth's reactions in the beginning were definitely saying would date, which is confusing. I feel like she doesn't have much success dating because she judges quickly and compensates with her bubbly personality.
This was a really good one. Not necessarily because I ship them, but because of the questions asked and the flow of their conversation.
Everytime I watch these videos, I try to catch the duo's expressions when they open their eyes and see each other. This one lacked joy.