Going To A Wedding When You're Single

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 687

  • @LittleLottieLorah
    @LittleLottieLorah 8 років тому +1461

    me next month ...a girl I used to babysit is getting married ....forever alone over here lol

  • @acridjess
    @acridjess 8 років тому +1722

    I VOLUNTEER TO BE KELSEY'S PLUS ONE.

  • @29chelsea
    @29chelsea 8 років тому +1415

    Where you at single squads!?😋
    #4eversingle

  • @zedress4836
    @zedress4836 8 років тому +473

    Oh, umm. I kinda thought it was gonna show her at the wedding....

  • @nicoolio7310
    @nicoolio7310 8 років тому +158

    Scrolling down to the comments looking for the "I didn't expect it to be so deep" stuff

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 років тому +12

    You don't have to worry of what other people might think about you if you go to the wedding alone. Just be yourself and do great.

  • @aaryalouise6391
    @aaryalouise6391 6 років тому +1

    He is awesome at understanding her and giving great advice

  • @mariottabuttalapasta
    @mariottabuttalapasta 8 років тому +136

    If she'd asked me, I'd go anywhere with her...

  • @justasmr029
    @justasmr029 8 років тому +447

    come on she's hot asf lol i would go with kelsey any time one of my buzzfeed crushes

    • @Artbug
      @Artbug 8 років тому +5

      Mia Jordana Nieves makes you wonder what's really wrong with her.....

    • @vanessaandkatie
      @vanessaandkatie 8 років тому +8

      in a video she said she's bipolar, not really a problem to me but some might see it as a hardship? idk

    • @kelligardner20
      @kelligardner20 8 років тому

      Katie Lee *bisexual

    • @blackeyedpeas720
      @blackeyedpeas720 8 років тому +2

      December_Babie 04 She's bipolar and bisexual

    • @sheruthom6339
      @sheruthom6339 8 років тому +2

      +Skylar Hyde what's bipolar?

  • @vivalanina
    @vivalanina 8 років тому +194

    this stresses me out because I'm 22, my friends are slightly older than me and have long term relationships and I am VERY single. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO!?

    • @DareToBeDeviant
      @DareToBeDeviant 8 років тому +9

      Treasure your drama-free lifestyle.

    • @Jen18lol
      @Jen18lol 8 років тому +19

      Nina Dees you're fine still young!, too much pressure on people to be in a relationship

    • @animangachu96
      @animangachu96 8 років тому

      you can be the friend who your friends who are in relationships go to when they want to rant about their S.O.

    • @Gea3101
      @Gea3101 8 років тому +6

      Enjoy.

    • @suzanne-abigailclaxton904
      @suzanne-abigailclaxton904 8 років тому +16

      Nothing. Do nothing. Enjoy your singleness. Do all that you wanna do. Invest in yourself, making you the best you you coul be.

  • @marla9923
    @marla9923 8 років тому +726

    What's next? Going to a funeral when youre alive??

    • @marla9923
      @marla9923 8 років тому +3

      im just making this comment based off the title btw

    • @DionneKaliisa
      @DionneKaliisa 8 років тому +1

      m a r l a 😂😂😂👏👏👏

    • @JV-ls6wu
      @JV-ls6wu 8 років тому +1

      m a r l a 😂😂

    • @JV-ls6wu
      @JV-ls6wu 8 років тому +1

      m a r l a (getting a car when you have a license?) 😂

    • @benc6297
      @benc6297 8 років тому +7

      m a r l a taking a shower in the bathroom?

  • @alexisatkinson7420
    @alexisatkinson7420 8 років тому +8

    I just want to say that seeing your scale number made me feel good and affirmed. I'm a tall person like you and whenever I go on the scale I feel like a failure because my BMI is supposedly high but I feel good and fit, and I like that I'm fuller in some places and toned in others. I believe think and thin women to be equally attractive when they're confident in what they have. I enjoy exercise just as much as I enjoy eating but the scale always makes me feel like I'm the only one, that I'm an optical illusion, that I'm doing something wrong. I may be heavier than you but you feel like you are kin to me. Thanks for that.
    I'm currently writing something with my mom about singledom so this makes me happy and affirmed in other ways. Stay tuned and stay strong, Chicago. We're living a good life.

  • @awesomeperson8839
    @awesomeperson8839 8 років тому +8

    "I'm gay as f"
    "But your my hottest friend!"
    Lol so tru tho 😂

  • @jessicafogarty8687
    @jessicafogarty8687 8 років тому +257

    I imagine this is me when I grow up

    • @dontblame1010
      @dontblame1010 8 років тому +32

      Jessica Fogarty don't, it becomes reality.

  • @lyssaScruz
    @lyssaScruz 8 років тому +12

    hoping no one will be a widow/widower if you're invited , i reminisce our wedding so much how much more , specially the "i do" and you may now kiss the bride part .. nothing is more frustrating and painful being a widow than being a single

  • @lauracth
    @lauracth 8 років тому +21

    dang i need a friend like that :p also love love kelsey videos so much; think she's the most relatable one in buzzfeed to me

  • @Lighting_Desk
    @Lighting_Desk 8 років тому +75

    This was me at my mother's wedding the other week. God my life.

    • @BTjessica
      @BTjessica 8 років тому +13

      That sounds painful. Did you get wasted though?

    • @anaaa8484
      @anaaa8484 8 років тому

      if my dad ever gets married, I'm not gonna go...(I don't want to) you must be really strong to do that!! I also hope my mother finds so wonderful to live with again!! I wish to al of your family all the best, man!! stay strong!!

  • @thecrowlov3r
    @thecrowlov3r 8 років тому +17

    Whoever she's on the phone with, I need them in my life.

    • @jayal5771
      @jayal5771 8 років тому

      Ash Morgue they're $130 for an hour , gentlemen to rent.

  • @mollsGreen
    @mollsGreen 8 років тому +60

    The only thing I would freak out about is that I hate going to events alone PERIOD. I'll bring anyone who wants to go with me, just please don't make me go alone where I won't know anyone besides the couple getting married! D:

    • @mollsGreen
      @mollsGreen 8 років тому +2

      Let's go! X)

    • @mollsGreen
      @mollsGreen 8 років тому +2

      dammit i always have this problem

    • @CrazyLocoInsane1
      @CrazyLocoInsane1 8 років тому +1

      Weddings are bogus anyways did you know the divorce rate is higher for couples who spend a lot on weddings than the couples who hardly spend that much on their wedding?? Not sure if I typed that right lol

    • @Josephlokzz
      @Josephlokzz 7 років тому +2

      mollsGreen let's go I'm always down

  • @privatenumber9672
    @privatenumber9672 8 років тому +41

    But she already left a message saying she would 'definitely use that +1'... Won't they be confused now?

  • @bcaye
    @bcaye 8 років тому +11

    Funny...I just went to a friend's wedding solo and had a blast! Never even thought about it. I did have a *fierce* dress, though.

  • @cindysanchez2987
    @cindysanchez2987 8 років тому +15

    I've been attending weddings single since 13. I bring a friend so I won't get bored

  • @joeymoehlenkamp1097
    @joeymoehlenkamp1097 5 днів тому

    It’s not something to cry over but when you feel that emptiness it hits you hard

  • @wishjcena
    @wishjcena 8 років тому +8

    Going single in a desi wedding means a massive amount of proposals coming for ya!!😂

  • @Basicaly-sf7zn
    @Basicaly-sf7zn 8 років тому +12

    I don't know why, but the thumbnail is so relateable.

  • @N00RA96
    @N00RA96 8 років тому +221

    You could go alone and find a date there tho

    • @BeaaTheSceneQueen
      @BeaaTheSceneQueen 8 років тому +89

      N00RA96 usually the groom

    • @gcooper642
      @gcooper642 7 років тому +5

      Yeah right. When all your friends are paired up already and only hang out with other couples there's only ever 2 other single people and they are the same gender and none of you are gay.

    • @JustLIkerapunzel
      @JustLIkerapunzel 7 років тому

      Damn you must have lame friends then lol

    • @forman208
      @forman208 6 років тому

      LOL!

  • @jemmablidennel
    @jemmablidennel 8 років тому +8

    Kelsey is the reason I still watch buzzfeed

  • @kimbrolyy
    @kimbrolyy 8 років тому +213

    I don't get why people care about being single at a wedding? what's the big deal?

    • @Elysion404
      @Elysion404 8 років тому +35

      Definitely not. I love being the single one at weddings! Then again, I've never wanted to get married so that might be the reason.

    • @JovanaSanchez000
      @JovanaSanchez000 8 років тому +24

      Kimberly Brouwers Because a lot of people think everyone should be with someone.

    • @michaelm9361
      @michaelm9361 7 років тому +8

      Going to a wedding when you're single is humiliating !

    • @pink3t224
      @pink3t224 7 років тому

      Ikr? This video is stupid

    • @AnaisAzuli
      @AnaisAzuli 6 років тому +2

      Maybe a US thing?

  • @M3ikeiMonsTaRr
    @M3ikeiMonsTaRr 8 років тому +12

    I went to three family weddings alone the last two years, I have another two family weddings to go to plus my sister just got engaged.
    I couldn't care less what people think. I'm focusing on myself and my happiness. I don't need another being to make me happy. If it happens, ok, if it doesn't, awesome life and I'll adopt if I want children.
    Like Gaga says, "Some women choose to follow men, some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore".

    • @M3ikeiMonsTaRr
      @M3ikeiMonsTaRr 8 років тому +1

      Agatha jay The video is discussing the importance of having someone to chaperone you to functions and the peer pressure of being seen alone is a taboo when you reach a certain age. I really don't think it matters whether you go alone or with someone. If you have someone, good on them, if they don't have a plus one it's not the end of the world. Things will happen and fall into place at a time that's suitable for the individual.
      Also, passing on knowledge and power doesn't necessarily have to be your own children. It could be the children of your siblings or the students at a school as a teacher.

    • @M3ikeiMonsTaRr
      @M3ikeiMonsTaRr 8 років тому

      I see where you're coming from and I absolutely agree. Perhaps this quote from Lady Gaga just struck a cord with me because I've dated perhaps the "wrong" men who don't think it's possible "to have both a relationship and chase your dreams". Perhaps I'm just tilted by my last relationship because they didn't understand this concept.
      In saying that, the way I also see Lady Gaga's quote is with another quote I feel compliments my situation, "Don't invest in a guy based on how much you like him; invest in a guy based on how much he invests in you"- Matthew Hussey.
      In a way, it's really up to the individual's circumstances and how it applies to them.
      I honestly respect and enjoy having this discussion with you. TBA, just still "fresh" with my circumstances that's why I feel so passionate and semi-biased about the situation :P
      Kind regards, xoxo

    • @SeaFlower38
      @SeaFlower38 2 роки тому

      Well okay I get the sentiment but your job and career can also walk out on you for a myriad of reasons haha

  • @sabinajoh
    @sabinajoh 8 років тому +8

    When all your ads on Twitter are: "Meet singles near you!"

  • @xXMilkaXx1
    @xXMilkaXx1 6 років тому +8

    Friend: How long’s has it been?
    Me: Like 19 months.
    Friend: JESUS!
    Me af.

  • @JustJoshinMagic
    @JustJoshinMagic 8 років тому +10

    Kelsey, I have three weddings to go to next year and I'm in the same spot. LETS DO THIS

  • @Famegonna9999
    @Famegonna9999 8 років тому +66

    I went to a wedding by myself it was the most terrifying thing ever and I would never do it again

    • @suzanne-abigailclaxton904
      @suzanne-abigailclaxton904 8 років тому

      jeez! what happened man?

    • @Famegonna9999
      @Famegonna9999 8 років тому +7

      Suzanne-Abigail Claxton​ a whole lot of couples asking you're alone you're alone you're alone I would have had come alone you're alone you're lonely that was the only time in my life I ever felt bad about being single

    • @suzanne-abigailclaxton904
      @suzanne-abigailclaxton904 8 років тому +19

      Wawa M that's not cool at all. I'm married but that doesn't mean I'm gonna rub it in the faces of my single friends. I think people need to leave single people alone to live their lives.

    • @Famegonna9999
      @Famegonna9999 7 років тому +2

      Suzanne-Abigail Claxton​ good to know they're still good people out there lol

    • @u.s5423
      @u.s5423 7 років тому

      Wawa M ouuu

  • @RosatoTomato
    @RosatoTomato 8 років тому +326

    isnt this the same chick that constantly raves about how great single life is, in every other buzzfeed video?

    • @carolinechalue9029
      @carolinechalue9029 8 років тому +7

      Jessica Fioritura I think so

    • @RosatoTomato
      @RosatoTomato 8 років тому +13

      Alyssa Chalue1 it was meant to be a rhetorical Q, but thank you for answering :P

    • @hanapekar614
      @hanapekar614 7 років тому +3

      Jessica Fioritura yes😂

  • @blurryink115
    @blurryink115 8 років тому +113

    I thought she said rob and Corrine

    • @brynn05
      @brynn05 8 років тому +1

      Blurryink me too! It sounded a lot like that

    • @mroonicide
      @mroonicide 8 років тому +2

      damnn random Threadhead..

    • @roxannacrystal2148
      @roxannacrystal2148 6 років тому

      I thought that too

  • @ashventuresiii1254
    @ashventuresiii1254 8 років тому +3

    you're definitely one of my favorite! love you kelsey!

  • @lindstheteacher1611
    @lindstheteacher1611 8 років тому +33

    She sounds like Jennifer Lawrence.

    • @SparkzMxzXZ
      @SparkzMxzXZ 8 років тому +3

      i watched this whole video while reading the comments and.. i can imagine j.law in silver lining playbook saying all these!

  • @babysivan4068
    @babysivan4068 8 років тому +43

    Correction Buzzfeed! You're not Youre

  • @seanhartley2902
    @seanhartley2902 8 років тому +218

    The title should be 'you're'

    • @rominezieck4597
      @rominezieck4597 8 років тому

      Sean Hartley it should be your not youre or you're

    • @vickyle4518
      @vickyle4518 8 років тому +15

      wwe fan no, it should definitely be "you're"

    • @seanhartley2902
      @seanhartley2902 8 років тому

      wwe fan nope

    • @millardsglory
      @millardsglory 8 років тому +4

      I'll just put this here.
      1.Going To A Wedding When Youre single.
      2.Going to a wedding when you are single.
      the correct phrase is 2 as 1 is meant to be an abbreviation, (therefore having an apostrophe )

    • @autumn7809
      @autumn7809 8 років тому +3

      +millardsglory *contraction

  • @rubenventer5235
    @rubenventer5235 8 років тому +60

    not even gonna lie , this was postted 45 seconds ago

  • @inge76
    @inge76 8 років тому +27

    But does this remind anyone else of that HIMYM episode where Ted thinks he checked he'd bring someone, but he didn't, and then invites Robin and then he can't and then he can and then she can't come?

  • @jacobaeden
    @jacobaeden 8 років тому +83

    Just ask ex-wife, Jen

  • @JJ-ug1vx
    @JJ-ug1vx 8 років тому +137

    is it really that big a deal?

    • @unruh955
      @unruh955 8 років тому +30

      Your Darkest Corners You would think. Last summer I went to a friend's wedding alone and was asked by many people throughout the night why I was single and not married yet.

    • @May04bwu
      @May04bwu 8 років тому +3

      nope

    • @luckydominguez2654
      @luckydominguez2654 6 років тому

      If you´re strong then no, but those who have lived the next thing would tell you that surely get unconftarble: Try to get into a friends reunion, but now all of them have couples and you´re single, is very weird.

    • @DavidZakuzaRyutashi
      @DavidZakuzaRyutashi 6 років тому

      If you don't care what people think, then no.

    • @marywatkins9438
      @marywatkins9438 5 років тому

      Facts.

  • @mslettucebfrank
    @mslettucebfrank 8 років тому +18

    There is going to be a follow up to this right?

  • @adrianatde
    @adrianatde 8 років тому +2

    "like 19 months"
    "JESUS" 😂😂💀💀

  • @JenniferPerez-qy3kq
    @JenniferPerez-qy3kq 8 років тому +1

    Freaking Garrett on the phone "K byeeee" 😂

  • @ghost245353
    @ghost245353 8 років тому +34

    Yes because weddings are about you.

    • @gcooper642
      @gcooper642 7 років тому +4

      By inviting other people, you are inviting them into your experience for the day and they will have their own individual reactions to it.

  • @Minverna
    @Minverna 8 років тому +7

    *brings one of my bff's as a plus one so that I'm not bored*

  • @dianem.7281
    @dianem.7281 8 років тому +11

    I don't understand how it is such a but deal to show single at a wedding 😅

  • @emmylee8862
    @emmylee8862 8 років тому +5

    I went to a wedding and after three hours of couples complaining about relationship problems I was so glad to be single!!!

  • @ornelasjorge9102
    @ornelasjorge9102 6 років тому

    I died when "How long is it been?
    19 months
    "Jesus" 🤣🤣

  • @In_time
    @In_time 8 років тому +3

    Gracious! Just go to the wedding, skip the reception if you're that worried about how it'll look going alone.

  • @kiwthebeauty
    @kiwthebeauty 8 років тому +6

    Me next month and I am a bridesmaid. I feel you!

  • @Yaromiah
    @Yaromiah 8 років тому +15

    Because Buzzfeed doesn't have the budget for a wedding set cuz they don't even pay their employees

  • @amandas3567
    @amandas3567 8 років тому +5

    I love Kelsey's videos!

  • @wombatcom
    @wombatcom 8 років тому +355

    You're(*) title is incorrect :)

  • @eriklopes3508
    @eriklopes3508 7 років тому

    Plus one? I'd DO IT!!! She is awesome and beautiful!

  • @cuddlycactus6981
    @cuddlycactus6981 8 років тому +71

    If I get married, I want it to be pet friendly so if someone doesn't have a plus one then they can bring their cat or dog as long as it's restrained or in a pet-to-chest holder thing.

    • @beccaann6866
      @beccaann6866 8 років тому +13

      Cuddly Cactus that sounds even more sad than just coming by yourself. Not only are you by yourself, everyone know because you have your freakin cat with you

    • @beccaann6866
      @beccaann6866 8 років тому +4

      Cuddly Cactus and that could be a recipe for disaster.

    • @abraanhgonzales3515
      @abraanhgonzales3515 8 років тому

      becca ann e

    • @jquikshot
      @jquikshot 8 років тому +4

      nice thought but I think that would be worse

    • @actuallyxanna774
      @actuallyxanna774 8 років тому +4

      Cuddly Cactus Lol yeah because everyone LOVES having an animal at their wedding.. an animal that's going to get into everything.. and poop and pee everywhere where they spent thousands of dollars on 😂😂 real classy 😕

  • @LynxChan
    @LynxChan 8 років тому +32

    For the love of all things holy and good, please add the apostrophe to the title of this video!

  • @onlyangel21
    @onlyangel21 8 років тому +2

    I can literally feel this being my life as I get older

  • @kathryncole5536
    @kathryncole5536 8 років тому +8

    that was Garret on the phone
    that's how you know that you watch too much buzzfeed

  • @xDigitalMonster
    @xDigitalMonster 8 років тому +3

    I always just go with my family 😂😂

  • @ezraistriggered9686
    @ezraistriggered9686 8 років тому +4

    I'd definitely just take my best friend lmao

  • @DuvalKing69o4
    @DuvalKing69o4 8 років тому +3

    are we going to get another episode of am I doing this right??? Kelsey is why I sub to buzz feed. please make more

  • @amirmurray9916
    @amirmurray9916 3 роки тому

    Lmao his reaction at 2:03 is hillarious

  • @Mariam-zl4sc
    @Mariam-zl4sc 8 років тому

    "how long has it been?"
    "...like 19 mont...."
    "JESUS!!" 😂

  • @theghostofkinglear
    @theghostofkinglear 8 років тому +8

    Why didn't it actually show the wedding

  • @ananyaasthana3203
    @ananyaasthana3203 6 років тому

    Kelsey has an amazing room 😍😍

  • @madeleinerenee8505
    @madeleinerenee8505 8 років тому

    I love that friend lol

  • @sally9504
    @sally9504 8 років тому +11

    kelsey has such nice hair

  • @mysteriousdark6897
    @mysteriousdark6897 8 років тому

    Buzzfeed : Going to a wedding when youre single Me : IS (YOU'RE)! XD lol

  • @robmart2012
    @robmart2012 7 років тому

    I really enjoyed this video and was pleasantly surprised with something feeling kind of emotionally real sneaking in

  • @sunshine2481
    @sunshine2481 8 років тому +1

    OMG! I literally just came from the Bahamas yesterday because my friend was getting married!! And guess who went by themselves because she couldn't find a date?? Yep this girl right here. I can totally 100% relate to this!! Ugh! It really kind of sucks!

  • @laralara6607
    @laralara6607 6 років тому +1

    I love Kelsey 😂❤️

  • @almas3748
    @almas3748 6 років тому +1

    KELSEY DESERVES SOMEONE WHO LOVES HER OMGGGGG

  • @ablanchi
    @ablanchi 8 років тому +1

    Not even a skit, this is Kelsey forever.

  • @_fendiman97
    @_fendiman97 8 років тому +1

    Kelsey is literally me at every wedding

  • @Estherchow0
    @Estherchow0 8 років тому +13

    wait that's it?

  • @glamgurl
    @glamgurl 8 років тому +17

    what was the point of this video?! I'm confused..

  • @rkdmks
    @rkdmks 8 років тому +3

    the ending was sad af

  • @harihehe
    @harihehe 8 років тому +1

    i've missed her

  • @ni9999
    @ni9999 8 років тому +1

    HER LIFE is LITERALLY me

  • @aleciagreer5646
    @aleciagreer5646 8 років тому +5

    Maybe my life is different or something, but I've been to weddings when I was single. Nothing happened. The day wasn't about me at any time.

  • @zukozula
    @zukozula 8 років тому

    i just wanna watch kelsey vids all day

  • @nerdygamerguy8378
    @nerdygamerguy8378 6 років тому

    Going single is the best part, you can hit on everyone at the wedding

  • @unculturedswine7993
    @unculturedswine7993 8 років тому

    How could someone not want to be Kelsey's plus one? She' so dang pretty!

  • @HiAndHello-w9l
    @HiAndHello-w9l 8 років тому +4

    is it that hard to be happy with your self such that you are confident in being single?

  • @Asizzle5597
    @Asizzle5597 8 років тому +5

    I would love to go with Kelsey.

  • @beautycookie6114
    @beautycookie6114 Рік тому +1

    I was a bridesmaid for my best friend and the ONLY single one

  • @erin8347
    @erin8347 8 років тому

    0:29 was brilliant

  • @Star71476
    @Star71476 8 років тому +22

    Y'all remember when Justin and Quinta went to a wedding? 😭 #Quintin

  • @Dabagel100
    @Dabagel100 8 років тому +2

    Best part is an open bar :)

  • @Sheisdreaming06
    @Sheisdreaming06 6 років тому

    ''its been 18 months''
    Me : deam its been 17 years and meh xD

  • @rosegreenstone7602
    @rosegreenstone7602 6 років тому +1

    That bed though.

  • @bha5880
    @bha5880 8 років тому +1

    kelsey + zach = boom - perfect couple

  • @chuichui1
    @chuichui1 8 років тому +1

    Wow this is so true

  • @Cari111111
    @Cari111111 7 років тому

    When the fork thing comes into play... me: whaaaa? Is that a thing?

  • @SusanaSantei
    @SusanaSantei 8 років тому

    I would love to see a follow up at the wedding.

  • @ardyrizky2209
    @ardyrizky2209 4 роки тому +1

    anyone knows her name please ?

  • @chocolateisalwaystheanswer9426
    @chocolateisalwaystheanswer9426 8 років тому

    *you're GET IT RIGHT BUZZFEED!!!!