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  • @stubeast4031
    @stubeast4031 2 роки тому +879

    Having a hard time hearing you through that loud ass piano music.

  • @dreamgaits
    @dreamgaits 2 роки тому +554

    Yes, people, dogs need strong leadership. Not weak reassurance that they cannot possibly understand.

    • @smith806
      @smith806 2 роки тому +23

      They understand a sympathetic tone, not the words

    • @3rdreichball525
      @3rdreichball525 2 роки тому +25

      My dog understands words if you use them enough. Seriously. My malinois has quite the dictionary. We even created our own dialect as well. 2 barks for yes. One bark for no. I shit you not. Dogs can understand if you take the time to help them understand

    • @3rdreichball525
      @3rdreichball525 2 роки тому +1

      My dog understands words. I kid you not. My malinois has quite the dictionary. We even have our own dialect. 1 bark for no. 2 for yes as an example. Dogs can understand words if you take the time to help them understand

    • @evergreen4034
      @evergreen4034 2 роки тому +2

      @@3rdreichball525 ... For the Reich, I’ll choose to believe you.

    • @CryMeARiver63
      @CryMeARiver63 2 роки тому

      @@smith806 tell that to my dogs .

  • @ryansmith-on5im
    @ryansmith-on5im 3 місяці тому +4

    Very good content. Straight to the point! 🎉

  • @alphaomega1351
    @alphaomega1351 2 роки тому +62

    I'm a dog 🐕 and this man understands us! 👌 😶

  • @jennyalpaca7544
    @jennyalpaca7544 9 місяців тому +9

    I always tell my anxious boxer “cmon one of us has to be tough, we can’t both be anxious” since I’m naturally an anxious person too but with training I’ve learned to calm my anxiety and lead! U can def see the difference when u take the lead and they trust you and calm down! My boxer is a scaredy cat but slowly I feel so proud to see her go past benches or trash cans timidly but still goes through them when she used to want to run away in the opposite direction !

  • @exoticivy4180
    @exoticivy4180 2 роки тому +77

    Wow I just learned some thing important in less than a minute! Thank you! 😁

  • @luvulord2
    @luvulord2 2 роки тому +130

    I had my rescued fearful dog for about 3 months and I was doing the confident leading and as she learned to trust me she was getting better. But then I started adding a soft reassuring "he's o.k." if someone was running towards us or if a noisy motorcycle was going by and ,I don't know, I see a difference in her when I communicate that she is safe with words, adding it to the confident reassuring walk

    • @DoctorSess
      @DoctorSess 2 роки тому +8

      I did the same exact thing and she understand it. The all clear.

    • @DoctorSess
      @DoctorSess 2 роки тому +6

      I am not trying to completely suppress my dog’s natural instinct to protect: it’s a good thing! Just need to make sure it’s controlled and she understands that I PROTECT HER first.

    • @phoenixrising5088
      @phoenixrising5088 2 роки тому +7

      No words are necessary. They follow positive energy.

    • @elsiem7295
      @elsiem7295 2 роки тому +9

      Honestly words definitely work as well when accompanied by action.

    • @emilyhunt4368
      @emilyhunt4368 2 роки тому +3

      I think saying that gives us confidence as well as humans we understand language so if we say it's all good it's okay then we feel that even more and I think that's what helps I use it with my horses as well as dog. Definitely helps me but I speak to myself like that a lot it's a strategy I use for my anxiety that works ( fake it until you make it)

  • @jeffreyvences5746
    @jeffreyvences5746 2 роки тому +58

    I do that with my boy. If i hesitate entering somewhere, he'll be looking around more than usual. But if i go somewhere without hesitation, he has the same attitude and follows with confident waddles and tailwhips. 😁

    • @lilyxciv5637
      @lilyxciv5637 2 роки тому

      I’ve even noticed my dog randomly barking at things on our walk that I am staring at for too long - because I’m simply trying to figure out why something looks different from the last time we walked there. Lol

  • @Katiee0592
    @Katiee0592 Рік тому +2

    It's the same with kids. So many parents coo their babies/ kids when they are crying or upset or nervous, for example, when most times the best response is to ignore them and let them watch you be comfortable, calm, and confident.

  • @richardcranium3479
    @richardcranium3479 2 роки тому +28

    Excellent advice.

  • @jacobsstigger8628
    @jacobsstigger8628 2 роки тому +7

    I love how happy the dog is

    • @alanclark785
      @alanclark785 7 місяців тому

      the Staffordshire Bull Terrier has a great smile outstanding breed

  • @DTRIPLESOWKOW
    @DTRIPLESOWKOW 2 роки тому +1

    This is very true. Dogs are masters of body language.

  • @erinfennessy5332
    @erinfennessy5332 2 роки тому +33

    Yes!! I learned this with dogs that were just bad on leashes too. Stop and sniff everything and pull. You just have to face forward and start marching with authority and don’t stop even if you feel they’re resisting at first. As soon as they see you’re looking forward and marching ahead with authority, they immediately follow you as the pack leader

    • @cuzza4321
      @cuzza4321 Рік тому +9

      This usually works for me until the first time met a dog that flops and will literally get dragged by the neck on concrete for meters. Was so confused never had the confident march not work. I tried using treats but he learnt to constantly stop fishing for more treats. Only method that works has been waiting not looking at him until he gets bored and moves on

    • @bennyhotsteppa9388
      @bennyhotsteppa9388 Рік тому +1

      @@cuzza4321Same here. I hate pulling the dog so I stopped for the most part. He is good out of the hustle and bustle of the city though.

    • @c_v_os
      @c_v_os 11 місяців тому +10

      It’s ridiculous not to stop to sniff stuff. Dogs don’t need the kind of marching walks that people do need. They need to engage with the environment through using their nose and they will obviously resist if you don’t give them plenty opportunities to do that.

    • @erinfennessy5332
      @erinfennessy5332 11 місяців тому

      @@c_v_os you have more time on your hands than the rest of us then sir 🫡

    • @pinkshinx
      @pinkshinx 9 місяців тому

      ​@cuzza4321 got my first puppy and she does the same thing. Ive had dogs brfore but not a puppy. No matter how much i march ahead and am confident, no matter how much i drag her without even looking at her. or changing my approach like stopping and waiting, she refuses to walk and will literally let herself be dragged, she refuses to eat treats. The only way I can think of doing is to give her a very high reward treat and give it to her everytime she starts walking forward untill she gets bored of stopping

  • @adventurousdoglover
    @adventurousdoglover 2 роки тому +2

    I personally always tell them it’s OK and talk to them but I make them go through whatever I’m trying to get them to do.
    My last rescue was a four-year-old LGD mix and she would not let me walk her or touch her for over a month and I have officially adopted her and can at least walk up to her to put a leash on and walk her to where I need her to go but I can take a lot more time than people are wanting to realize and commit to. Nice video!

  • @shedred1967
    @shedred1967 2 роки тому +1

    Confidence and mellowness counts. If your in a car wreck tense, you get hurt more than if you were just relaxed. When two fighter face each other, the calmer and less emotional almost always come out on top. Dogs respond to your demeanor and personality. My new pups always run when the miss or I yell at the movie screen for whatever reason as it's the only time we yell so it's so very intimidating. Almost all come back when they understand they are not under attack and see us repeat the behavior and laugh slightly uncontrollably. This person is a great trainer. Beautiful dog.

  • @lenabebb4940
    @lenabebb4940 Місяць тому

    Absolutely right dogs pick up all of our emotions and we need to be confident calm leaders ..I have a blue staffy and before a rescued staffy x for 12 years they're can be very sensitive dogs but all dogs need good leadership

  • @jenbrixton6834
    @jenbrixton6834 2 роки тому +15

    I would ask my gsd to sit, and just wait until he was ready to move on, once he looked at me I would say hi, let's go,

  • @Joe-ie8vk
    @Joe-ie8vk Місяць тому

    This is super helpful thank you. I have a Shepard boarder collie rescue who is scared of her own shadow. I couldn’t imagine what she went through before she was rescued the man did a real number on her.

  • @twentyforsevenrelaxation7286
    @twentyforsevenrelaxation7286 10 місяців тому +1

    Your amazing mate so helpful this channel so glad I found it

  • @marydavis2695
    @marydavis2695 2 роки тому +1

    THANK YOU for giving us the propper tools to speak doggies language 🥰🥰🥰.

  • @kagurachan4779
    @kagurachan4779 2 роки тому

    I like this guy, he's a good trainer for dogs. :)

  • @ohitsthem7601
    @ohitsthem7601 Рік тому

    Same with people tbh, at least when im panicking

  • @geraldineharvey6804
    @geraldineharvey6804 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you, good information.

  • @disco3landrover654
    @disco3landrover654 8 місяців тому

    You have it, my friend. Keep up the good work. As I often say, the problem is really at the other end of the lead.

  • @plantidentificationnewzeal9032
    @plantidentificationnewzeal9032 7 місяців тому

    I'm not sure what you missed about language but that is how humans send energy

  • @JohnSmith-uv4ox
    @JohnSmith-uv4ox 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you! This is super helpful, going to implement this.

  • @sublow
    @sublow 4 місяці тому

    Keep up the great work

  • @kavitagurappaji1427
    @kavitagurappaji1427 2 роки тому +1

    YOUR VIBRATION TELLS THEM A LOT!! EVEN BEFORE U KNOW IT SOMETIMES. SO BE REAL AMONGST ANIMALS!! GENTLE. KINS AND LOVING!!!

  • @jessicaharrison1401
    @jessicaharrison1401 6 місяців тому

    Brillant video and stunning dog😘❤

  • @allisonlevy616
    @allisonlevy616 7 місяців тому

    Beautiful explanation.

  • @j619killer
    @j619killer 2 роки тому

    That's how my sisters pit is, but little by little he's learning

  • @cassthompson3386
    @cassthompson3386 2 роки тому

    Fantastic video. Very well done and well said 👏

  • @CastIronGinger
    @CastIronGinger 2 роки тому

    this was great info thanks! teaching just like caesar milan

  • @preston74
    @preston74 2 роки тому +3

    Or perhaps dog is nervous because of damn piano man?!

  • @joaoportesantava1412
    @joaoportesantava1412 2 роки тому

    100% correct! The dogs looks to the owner and how he is handling situations and they panic with you. If you know what your doing the song is right there with you. If you are being attacked then he knows to help you (if he is trained that way). It’s all about what you feel.
    People have no clue that the dog spends his whole day looking at you, trying to please you and looking at everything you do. They know all the things you do all the time. It’s very important that you stay calm so your dog has a good life and a calm life

  • @ahzigos
    @ahzigos 4 місяці тому

    I have a dog that was really reactive, it was impossible to walk him around the neighborhood because he would bark at every single dog, eventually I started walking faster whenever I passed in front of a fence, and he focused on running rather than barking, then he lost that habit pretty quickly
    later on, when I became more confident I didn't even need to run, or do anything or give him any commands, my confidence and calm gave him confidence and calm
    also, don't let the dog push/pull you around, make sure the dog understands that you're stronger and that he should follow/listen to you
    I like how the guy focuses a lot on "don't use words" and that's true, dogs mostly learn key words or commands, if you want to get something through to them, show them through actions

  • @bargepoled
    @bargepoled 2 роки тому +1

    Strong assertive confident leadership leads to calm confident dogs. They pick up on your body language and visual cues.

  • @tjdoyle9780
    @tjdoyle9780 2 роки тому

    What a cute pupper!!

  • @sueshrodes9462
    @sueshrodes9462 Рік тому

    Excellent.

  • @lbu9542
    @lbu9542 2 роки тому

    Learned something new today! I loved how the doggie appeared to be smiling at the end 🙂🐶🐾

    • @wayofthekodiak3118
      @wayofthekodiak3118 2 роки тому

      That's you projecting. Dogs don't smile. The dog still had it's tail between it's legs. Trying to hide it's scent coming from the anus. That's a fear response.

  • @zacu122
    @zacu122 10 місяців тому

    This is the guy that called one of his employers a coward for backing a way from a dog

  • @HarrySKeith
    @HarrySKeith Рік тому

    Great stuff Sir!

  • @RaulDukeKnife
    @RaulDukeKnife 2 роки тому

    Thanks for being kind to that little Bull!

  • @davidca96
    @davidca96 2 роки тому

    this is so true, ive found using the words can make me project the action, which the dog does pick up and follows. Some people dont do this and will have nervous actions while trying to tell the dog "its ok". Hes right.

  • @mikeg1032
    @mikeg1032 2 роки тому +4

    Why did you play music? Did the dog die or something? Otherwise, I'd like to hear this informative video.

  • @markgeering5943
    @markgeering5943 2 роки тому +1

    Exactly people need to stop humanising dogs/animals thinking they understand our words! Body language speaks so much more than our voice

    • @thereaper89
      @thereaper89 2 роки тому +1

      My dog understands everything I tell her to do.

    • @markgeering5943
      @markgeering5943 2 роки тому

      @@thereaper89 it understands the noise and behaviour expected when that noise is heard which is different to understanding the meaning of a word!
      But again body language and tone of voice communicate just as much if not more than the noises we assign to behaviour we wish the/our/your dog to carry out

  • @susiebrown6646
    @susiebrown6646 Рік тому

    Good advice

  • @user-cv1ti7qd4l
    @user-cv1ti7qd4l 6 місяців тому

    Great vid ,great job 👍

  • @cscloud150
    @cscloud150 2 роки тому

    I hear you completely but I just gotta say those North face joggers are DOPE

  • @meeramoves4404
    @meeramoves4404 2 роки тому

    A reassuring "its okay" will do wonders aswell. Just ignoring the dog is not as good.

  • @say6626
    @say6626 Рік тому

    Great advice!

  • @joshuamitchell4343
    @joshuamitchell4343 2 роки тому +2

    Wish we had all these skills with other humans lmaooo

  • @girlgirl2534
    @girlgirl2534 2 роки тому +4

    I always just tell my girl, you're good

    • @john.premose
      @john.premose 2 роки тому

      Just tell them they’re golden

  • @kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700
    @kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700 2 роки тому +1

    Bully breeds have the best smile! It’s their whole face😁

    • @clackstaclicky890
      @clackstaclicky890 9 місяців тому

      That's a Staffordshire bull terrier

    • @kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700
      @kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700 8 місяців тому

      @@clackstaclicky890 in the US or at least where we are they are a category of breeds called the bulky breeds and a staffy is part of that. That group is sadly over represented in shelters, given away in parking lots, in sidewalks and busy traffic corners. They’re also “banned” in many housing complexes etc.

  • @soclose2her
    @soclose2her 2 роки тому

    Preach!

  • @azembejta2463
    @azembejta2463 Рік тому

    Finally someone who's actually taking the time to make us dog owners better handlers and protectors of our family and our bay bees thank you sir

  • @Vince_F
    @Vince_F 22 дні тому

    You GET what you PET.
    If you pet a nervous dog, you encourage the dog to continue to be nervous.

  • @carolconquest5649
    @carolconquest5649 2 роки тому

    Strong calm but assertive training

  • @theirishninja8199
    @theirishninja8199 2 роки тому +2

    👌🙏spot on

  • @PittBlu213
    @PittBlu213 5 місяців тому

    Great video
    Subscribed

  • @slydEvil35
    @slydEvil35 3 місяці тому

    Dogs and children are not the same. But they both thrive on the same things: consistency, clear rules/expectations, and positive reinforcement. It’s hard to not humanize dog emotions but remember they crave direction and leadership. It’s just up to us how to show them!!

  • @deanawells4395
    @deanawells4395 11 місяців тому +1

    We are so stuck with my very over nervous grand dog. We do all the extreme treats, clearing our minds and being very calm and confident training. He now holds his urine and poops so he doesn’t need to go outside it is heartbreaking. We have now tried medication (Prozac). I don’t see a big difference yet and I am so frightened that this medication will actually hurt him.

  • @fraythedjfraydoeindacut7484
    @fraythedjfraydoeindacut7484 2 роки тому

    Show the dog how you want them to be, be a LEADER! They see you’re confident in situations they are not, they’ll follow suit!!

  • @cianog
    @cianog 2 роки тому

    Good points

  • @son_of_jambo2835
    @son_of_jambo2835 6 місяців тому

    Actions speak louder than words especially with dogs

  • @saramartinez3142
    @saramartinez3142 2 роки тому

    Trainers face: 😎
    Dogs face: 😬

  • @EmluvsJesuschrist
    @EmluvsJesuschrist Рік тому

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @PlayingLittleLife
    @PlayingLittleLife 2 роки тому

    Well explained ❤️

  • @sharoneastwood.1025
    @sharoneastwood.1025 2 роки тому

    BRILLIANT 😊 THAT'S THE WAY.

  • @ShindlersFiist
    @ShindlersFiist 2 роки тому +4

    Yup you need to let him self sooth and just relax with him

  • @nikicarrie4071
    @nikicarrie4071 2 роки тому +1

    Wow 🤩 thank you

  • @ARPorganics
    @ARPorganics 2 роки тому +1

    Yes but everything is energy so a little words of expression don't hurt.

  • @ItzCornucopia
    @ItzCornucopia Рік тому

    I was explaining this to my sister lastnight about a dog that just got dropped off and she’s a super nervous dog

  • @illwill9396
    @illwill9396 2 роки тому +1

    They understand tone of voice as well.

  • @mattbaker6514
    @mattbaker6514 2 роки тому

    The whole world needs to see this

  • @andrejohnson7049
    @andrejohnson7049 Рік тому

    Sounds like the Alfie Solomons of dog training! Love it

  • @bonezzzz6330
    @bonezzzz6330 2 роки тому +1

    You reinforce the scared behavior by saying it's ok...
    You must push them through their fears.

    • @AclockworkPurple
      @AclockworkPurple 2 роки тому +2

      No. “Pushing them through their fears” causes way more issues than it solves. In behavior it’s called “flooding” and MAY occasionally work but generally causes the behavior being modified to get worse.
      Now they are scared of whatever it is they were uncomfortable with and anxious that you will force them into that situation when it is presented to them inhibiting their ability to overcome whatever the issue may be.
      The best thing to do is be patient, work within the dogs threshold and then offer positive reinforcement as incremental progress is made.
      Being a confident leader for your dog doesn’t mean forcing them to do things they don’t like or are unfamiliar with. It means paying attention to what your dog is telling you and going from there.

  • @rioangel8397
    @rioangel8397 2 місяці тому

    Love Staffies.

  • @TheoCynical
    @TheoCynical 2 роки тому

    So, not to be that guy but this is good advice that spreads to people as well.
    If people are unsure about something, showing confidence in a situation makes people less stressful.

  • @mobstercrow7515
    @mobstercrow7515 2 місяці тому

    I've owner trained both of my service dogs and I do neither. I get excited when my dogs get scared, especially if they are afraid of an object or a noise. They both know the "paws up" and "go sniff" command, so if they are unsure or scared of something, I'll ask them to do either of those things after I inspect the object first. I like saying "what is that???" in a very energetic voice. Sometimes I start bouncing around like a caveman seeing fire for the first time and I make a lot of excited noises. It makes my dogs excited and happy to see new weird things, now my service dog puts his paws up on EVERYTHING that is new to him, and his tail wags like crazy while he looks at me. If you ever see a short emo twink with neon green hair making odd noises in public with a service dog, you are probably looking at me. I'm getting my next prospect in 3 weeks and he is a standard poodle, I can't wait to start acting like a baboon again.

  • @am32ireland
    @am32ireland 2 роки тому +9

    He literally just dragged the dog across the floor. Ya nice an relaxed.

  • @darylmiranda8597
    @darylmiranda8597 2 роки тому

    Body language, mood, and temperament is the most important.

  • @travelingpsychicsupperclub5015
    @travelingpsychicsupperclub5015 10 місяців тому

    Love. And that is a beautiful boy ❤

  • @JohnSmith-yw3jr
    @JohnSmith-yw3jr 2 роки тому

    EXACTLY!!

  • @farriermaiden7289
    @farriermaiden7289 2 роки тому

    Well said 👏

  • @kalayne6713
    @kalayne6713 2 роки тому +1

    The poor dogs I have had over the years. Loved heaps but not led by me, I am a cat lady, I didn't have a clue. I doubt I will ever have another dog but I love learning the right way to lead them calmly.

  • @whatwillyoudiefor7774
    @whatwillyoudiefor7774 2 роки тому

    He is a beauty. The dog.

  • @Kytreeswerving
    @Kytreeswerving 2 роки тому

    Honestly people are the same. A good partner will help a more anxious partner by showing gentle confidence and giving the unsure person time to process.

  • @TheMancalorian
    @TheMancalorian 2 роки тому

    Beautiful Staffy

  • @testicularoxide5055
    @testicularoxide5055 2 роки тому

    Good doggo...💘

  • @thesourstation636
    @thesourstation636 2 роки тому

    This guy could train humans with this info. Actions do speak louder than words in a bunch of senerios.

  • @SoapChill
    @SoapChill Місяць тому

    Not saying he invited this stuff, but ceaser millaj really did change the world...
    It's crazy.

  • @sherryyocom5389
    @sherryyocom5389 2 роки тому

    Good explanation.

  • @topBnana
    @topBnana 2 роки тому

    He is beautiful bud 😎✌️

  • @tammyvanburen-duke4918
    @tammyvanburen-duke4918 Рік тому

    Thank you!, I have 3 texas rescue brothers pitbull/pharaoh hound mixes who all act like this. I feel horrible, if I didn't know better they look like they've been abused. I've had them since September last year at 6mths of age. They're getting better but not sure if they'll ever be confident. Not giving up but very long process. Never had dogs act like this before..

  • @josephvella3688
    @josephvella3688 2 роки тому

    Can't stress this enough!

  • @son_of_jambo2835
    @son_of_jambo2835 6 місяців тому

    Humans can do this too during football or basketball players are always making eye contact winking double blinking etc without saying anything they know what play to play by hand signs or simple looks

  • @monalise6079
    @monalise6079 2 роки тому

    Actions and calm energy are both important to ease tension in a nervous dog. Well said. This is the same approach for insecure children. Cool.

  • @envidiaff8485
    @envidiaff8485 2 роки тому +2

    Pays off to talk to your dog from pup believe me when the dog older you will see why 😎💯🔥

    • @dawnmontgomery73
      @dawnmontgomery73 2 роки тому +1

      So true! I can literally tell my dog to do anything or go anywhere and he understands me. If I tell him to find me a toy and he doesn’t see one in the room we’re in, I just tell him “go look in __ for it” and he’ll go straight to that room and find it. People are always shocked by how much he understands me but it’s simply me having always talked to him like a normal person and not “baby talk” him.

    • @thereaper89
      @thereaper89 2 роки тому

      My dog understands everything I say to her.

  • @earljohnson2676
    @earljohnson2676 2 роки тому

    I always talk to my dogs well I have a little chihuahua now and she’s the best very obedient but what he’s doing is absolutely correct there working off your senses and if you get scared they get scared etc . I’m a combat vet and don’t really get scared like I used to been in worse situations. My wife n daughter panic there was a scary dog trying to attack ours and I told her calm down pick her up and walk away walk don’t run just relax where ok We’ll get through this just listen to me