thank you for watching and stay tuned for the gcse exam results video this week :) let me know what you like about the video or any suggestions for improvements! VIDEO CHAPTERS: 00:00 - So, you wanna socialise 01:03 - Why we get anxiety 04:14 - How anxiety works 05:15 - Why you have limting beliefs 06:15 - Common reason for social anxiety 08:32 - My experience with anxiety 11:39 - Biggest Mistake about Anxiety 12:58 - How to get over anxiety 13:52 - How to get over Judgment 14:38 - How to stop caring 17:38 - The ironic little secret 18:38 - But… if it’s still scary…
I never thought that embracing social anxiety would be the way to remove it. I would always personally avoid social situations that would cause me to feel anxious, and I just realized it made me miss out on a lot of the things I’ve done in my life. Placing other people’s opinions of me on a pedestal, and giving their thoughts about me more value, only held me back. Not caring about what others think is definitely a crucial step to overcoming social anxiety. Btw, don’t stop making long videos like these, they’re really fun to watch.
@@ayoy9 yes!! everything you said here is so true. and i can tell you that you are definetly on the right path to overcome it :) also, i am glad you like these longer style of video, i will continue to post these ❤️ Thank you for taking the time out of your day to comment this
this comment literally made my day 😪😪😪 i look up to those two so much and i hope to one day meet them and reach their level of success!! thank u so much 💓💓💓💓💓
thank you for this video, because of it, i managed to somehow rack up loads of confidence for my english language speaking exam speech and ended up getting a distinction and being complimented by my really strict teacher
omgg!! this comment literally made my day 😪 I am so glad that you gathered the courage to do this, AND completely ace it AND even get complimented by that super strict teacher!! This is a huge achievement. You should be really proud of yourself. Whenever you feel down and defeated, or like you can't do things anymore, come back to this moment, and remember the strong way you pulled through 💓
Other people give good advice as well but in my opinion you give a more transparent and overall clearer explanation for basically everything girl and I don't know how you haven't blown up yet, maybe it could what grabs people's attention, but regardless, thank you so much for all your life-changing videos and advice, it's really going to help so many people including me to improve!! thank youuu :D
hiiiiiiii thank you very much !! I study English and your videos help me a lot, I even discuss your videos in courses, I like your accent and you are gorgeous!!! thank you
thank you so much for the wonderful video it really means a lot because i have so much anxiety to an extend that i do not trust myself anymore and listened to other people 's opinions about me😊
HOW DOES THIS VIDEO ONLY HAVE 19 COMMENTS AND 106 LIKES??? I can’t thank you enough for this video! I can tell your channel is going to sky rocket incredibly fast, you have a real gift. New sub, like, and comment to hopefully help your channel grow. ❤
awh why thank you so much! ☺️ 💓 this comment means a lot to me. And thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to write a comment. this comment is really motivating :) thank you so much for helping me out here ❤️
@@girlinworld girl I did a speech competition and it was ok I came 2 or last not sure and the way I felt was indescribable so this year my goal is to come the first but I am so nervous even tho back in Africa I used to have non of this kind of anxiety and awkwardness gosh is so bad but I am going to do it and I will communicate with u if i needed help Ty girl peace 🫰🏾
Hey.. i just started college and I really need some advice. I've been socially awkward for 17 yrs (am 3 months from being 18).. i managed to make a few friends alr but it's so hard when i constantly overthink with "what if" thoughts. What if i tell the teacher my answer and students laugh? What if I'll fail college like i did in highschool because of depression? I always think choices i make are stupid compared to 'better' people with more confidence etc. i become tensed, sweaty.. nervy (yk that feeling when you're anxious and it's like your entire body is electrifying?), shaky.. like i hate it. I also don't know how to stop procrastinating and feeling unmotivated sooo often. I feel like I'm failing. You're so beautiful and confident.. i feel far from it. I don't even know how to communicate with friends i add online from college and apps.. i add then just.. ghost them as a habit. How did you do it? I'm not productive, organized, determined.. i become involuntarily blank in class and at home.. mood changes.. please help 🙏❤
thank you for watching and stay tuned for the gcse exam results video this week :)
let me know what you like about the video or any suggestions for improvements!
VIDEO CHAPTERS:
00:00 - So, you wanna socialise
01:03 - Why we get anxiety
04:14 - How anxiety works
05:15 - Why you have limting beliefs
06:15 - Common reason for social anxiety
08:32 - My experience with anxiety
11:39 - Biggest Mistake about Anxiety
12:58 - How to get over anxiety
13:52 - How to get over Judgment
14:38 - How to stop caring
17:38 - The ironic little secret
18:38 - But… if it’s still scary…
I never thought that embracing social anxiety would be the way to remove it. I would always personally avoid social situations that would cause me to feel anxious, and I just realized it made me miss out on a lot of the things I’ve done in my life. Placing other people’s opinions of me on a pedestal, and giving their thoughts about me more value, only held me back. Not caring about what others think is definitely a crucial step to overcoming social anxiety.
Btw, don’t stop making long videos like these, they’re really fun to watch.
@@ayoy9 yes!! everything you said here is so true. and i can tell you that you are definetly on the right path to overcome it :)
also, i am glad you like these longer style of video, i will continue to post these ❤️
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to comment this
girlinworld + thewizardliz + tam kaur = the golden trio ❤
this comment literally made my day 😪😪😪 i look up to those two so much and i hope to one day meet them and reach their level of success!! thank u so much 💓💓💓💓💓
thank you for this video, because of it, i managed to somehow rack up loads of confidence for my english language speaking exam speech and ended up getting a distinction and being complimented by my really strict teacher
omgg!! this comment literally made my day 😪
I am so glad that you gathered the courage to do this, AND completely ace it AND even get complimented by that super strict teacher!! This is a huge achievement. You should be really proud of yourself. Whenever you feel down and defeated, or like you can't do things anymore, come back to this moment, and remember the strong way you pulled through 💓
@@girlinworld thank you sm 🥹
Other people give good advice as well but in my opinion you give a more transparent and overall clearer explanation for basically everything girl and I don't know how you haven't blown up yet, maybe it could what grabs people's attention, but regardless, thank you so much for all your life-changing videos and advice, it's really going to help so many people including me to improve!! thank youuu :D
I am so glad you feel this way! This is what motivates me to make content :)
hiiiiiiii thank you very much !! I study English and your videos help me a lot, I even discuss your videos in courses, I like your accent and you are gorgeous!!! thank you
Ahh thank YOU so much!! I am glad that my videos are helping and thank you for all of your kind words and compliments 💓💓😊
thank you so much for the wonderful video it really means a lot because i have so much anxiety to an extend that i do not trust myself anymore and listened to other people 's opinions about me😊
HOW DOES THIS VIDEO ONLY HAVE 19 COMMENTS AND 106 LIKES??? I can’t thank you enough for this video! I can tell your channel is going to sky rocket incredibly fast, you have a real gift. New sub, like, and comment to hopefully help your channel grow. ❤
awh why thank you so much! ☺️ 💓 this comment means a lot to me. And thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to write a comment. this comment is really motivating :) thank you so much for helping me out here ❤️
@@girlinworld It’s my pleasure!
How did you achieve such enlightenment and wisdom at such a young age.
you are such an inspiring person, your videos are helping me be more confident for y11. keep making the amazing content
thank you so much!! And good luck for year 11 💓
Loved this , thank you very much.
I am glad you liked it 😊
You just earned a sub young lady
Amazing video !!!
I'm glad you liked it 😊
Thank u for this video
@@DouaaAhmed-f4i thank you for taking the time out of your day to comment :)
@@girlinworld girl I did a speech competition and it was ok I came 2 or last not sure and the way I felt was indescribable so this year my goal is to come the first but I am so nervous even tho back in Africa I used to have non of this kind of anxiety and awkwardness gosh is so bad but I am going to do it and I will communicate with u if i needed help Ty girl peace 🫰🏾
Hey.. i just started college and I really need some advice. I've been socially awkward for 17 yrs (am 3 months from being 18).. i managed to make a few friends alr but it's so hard when i constantly overthink with "what if" thoughts. What if i tell the teacher my answer and students laugh? What if I'll fail college like i did in highschool because of depression? I always think choices i make are stupid compared to 'better' people with more confidence etc. i become tensed, sweaty.. nervy (yk that feeling when you're anxious and it's like your entire body is electrifying?), shaky.. like i hate it. I also don't know how to stop procrastinating and feeling unmotivated sooo often. I feel like I'm failing. You're so beautiful and confident.. i feel far from it. I don't even know how to communicate with friends i add online from college and apps.. i add then just.. ghost them as a habit. How did you do it? I'm not productive, organized, determined.. i become involuntarily blank in class and at home.. mood changes.. please help 🙏❤
Good video
thank you so much :)
Are you a flat-earther or was that just an unfortunate example at the beginning?
Are u forcing me to get out there thara how dare u😢😱🫣
@@alanis_1009 yes girl you will thank me later 🌞❤️