how to prepare for 2024 right now

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  • Опубліковано 13 гру 2023
  • how i'm preparing for the new year + traps to avoid
    this is the time of year that we get bombarded with programming that encourages overconsumption, followed by an influx of self improvement/self help content that encourages you to find a new spark of motivation to be productive again by january 1. in this video, i share how to re-think the new year, & things i'm doing currently to prepare for 2024.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 112

  • @goldenmelanin9258
    @goldenmelanin9258 6 місяців тому +233

    I spend a lot of time of TikTok and was feeling soo overwhelmed by those new year resolutions/re-brand yourself videos. Personally my new year is in march on my birthday which ironically is the beginning of spring. I like to spend the end of the year resting, going inwards for guidance and practicing gratitude 🙏🏾

  • @user-ft7gs9xd5e
    @user-ft7gs9xd5e 6 місяців тому +43

    I love how you don't say like "clean your room, take a Spa, eat well" but its more about connecting with your deep inner self and listening to my inner voice telling me about what is no longer serving me and me and where I see myself ❤

  • @angelflower176
    @angelflower176 6 місяців тому +59

    The best advice is turn your phone off and delete social media, get into nature and read books, be around animals and the ocean maybe and just heal:) also being conscious of how friends or family or certain people make you feel after you hang out with them. If they make you feel bad let them go out of your life.

    • @Blingi444
      @Blingi444 6 місяців тому +1

      Oh yes! I feel this one!!

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  6 місяців тому +1

      i love this, yes to all of it

  • @Justara.b
    @Justara.b 5 місяців тому +7

    I agree with you most about not over sharing. Like you said, it isn’t about “not trusting people.” It’s about experiencing something that makes you happy for yourself. Not everybody will be happy for the good news you have or your big plans for the new year.
    Society has a way of distorting the little things that make you happy, which is why it’s ok to keep many things to yourself

  • @iamphatvenus2
    @iamphatvenus2 6 місяців тому +56

    You definitely don't sound crazy. I literally write letters to my past self all the time. I'm always sending love back to a younger version of me. It's so insane I always look back and feel like the version of me who persevered is stronger than me now, or smarter, etc.

    • @AllUserNamesAreUsed
      @AllUserNamesAreUsed 6 місяців тому +1

      Oh I LOVE this!!!❤❤❤

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  6 місяців тому +2

      writing to your past self is so incredibly healing. this just reminded me to go do this again, thank you ❤️

  • @catriceaustin9335
    @catriceaustin9335 6 місяців тому +8

    thank you for the reminder to slow down during this retrograde season leading up to the new year! i've been trying to motivate and push myself to have a plan for 2024 (feeling like i SHOULD be doing this) but my body has been calling me to slow down and rest.

  • @Just-singing11
    @Just-singing11 6 місяців тому +23

    Wow almost 2024 already! Time flies! 😊

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 6 місяців тому +1

      Obviously lol

    • @Just-singing11
      @Just-singing11 6 місяців тому +2

      @@alexandria65 Yes I knew ofcourse! I don't live in a cave. But still I feel it goes fast! 😂😂

  • @jamiew.6606
    @jamiew.6606 6 місяців тому +36

    Thanks so much for this! I am not close with my family and I don't have any close friends, but I would really like that to change next year. I feel like my current environment is really holding me back and keeping me stuck in a "lack" mindset. Everyone around me wants more with their life, but is afraid to even try so they unhappily settle with what life gives them. Being an empath, I can feel this energy all around me, and I hate it! Lol. Meanwhile, I've traveled to big cities abroad and found people who even whilst living quiet humble lives, truly enjoy their lives and are at peace. For 8 months now I've been planning to move abroad. I told my family about it a few months ago, but I don't want them to sabotage my plans, so I intend to keep the details to myself moving forward. That being said, I am soooo excited for what my future holds! There is so much to come and I just want everything to work out for me. I've always put others first. So I'm excited to get back to myself and learn who I am at my core again.

    • @c.ronthemic7450
      @c.ronthemic7450 6 місяців тому +1

      Here's hoping everything works out in your favour. 🙏

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  6 місяців тому +2

      I resonate with this sooo much. sometimes nobody will get it but you & that’s ok as long as you believe in you! I love that you’re going to let anyone get in the way of what you want, you’re so many steps ahead already. wishing you all the best on your journey!!❤

    • @jamiew.6606
      @jamiew.6606 6 місяців тому

      @@c.ronthemic7450 Thank you ❤

    • @jamiew.6606
      @jamiew.6606 6 місяців тому

      @@LynetteAdkins Thank you so much! You've inspired me to trust myself and continue this journey even if it's alone with your insightful videos. So please keep being you!❤

  • @treeofparadise9619
    @treeofparadise9619 6 місяців тому +1

    Heavy on being gentle and self reflection. reducing screentime is massive, it's hard to resist sometimes but if you visualize yourself bent over your phone scrolling mindlessly it snaps me out of it.
    defo with mercury retrograde ive let go a toxic friend but all my other friends are going through similar difficulties. After letting go of that friend i feel so much better, a weight off my chest. It was meant to be. I wish no ill will to her and hope she figures it out and solves her issues and finds peace of mind, but i dont want her in my life and i know that now.
    be gentle everyone and be content and appreciate what you have now. So many blessings to come ❤❤

  • @ashdhaz5709
    @ashdhaz5709 6 місяців тому +9

    this was super helpful for me! i’m such a perfectionist and always push myself to the max but don’t take into consideration the ebs and flows of the seasons

  • @claudiajeanbaptiste
    @claudiajeanbaptiste 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for your suggestions and advice! I will definitely spend time with my dream self as she has been showing up lately in my dreams! Love u so much lynette

  • @qhirawithaq
    @qhirawithaq 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much, Lynette! Definitely a much needed video. I’ve been seeing SO MUCH content surrounding planning for the new year and i’ve been feeling so anxious at the same time. After watching your video it’s clicking that the two are probably connected. Definitely have a lot to reflect on from this year. Thank you for reminding me that it’s okay to slow down! Happy Holidays!

  • @_Alimm
    @_Alimm 6 місяців тому +2

    The way you described your family holidays this year is how I've celebrated Kwanzaa throughout my life and I'm happy to see so many people take on a more emotional/spiritual honoring to special occasions. Love your vids btw ❤

  • @giagenae
    @giagenae 6 місяців тому +2

    I definitely needed this one. I was just starting to feel a bit overwhelmed yesterday with all the "new year, new me" content. I recently got laid off, so I also started forcing myself to plan/strategize & maybe it's not quite time for that. I'll for sure be sitting with myself right now, to just enjoy the present.Thanks Lynette! Always on time.

  • @a.lumpia
    @a.lumpia 6 місяців тому

    I've watched like a hundred "2024" videos today and yours is the only one that really spoke to me.

  • @s.k.henkle
    @s.k.henkle 6 місяців тому +8

    I really appreciate this advice, so much of it was really on point to how I have been feeling and journaling about lately. I’ve been personally feeling inspired to mood-board and sketch out some ideas that I have for the upcoming year, but I have been focusing too on not trying to over plan and just take things as they come.
    Thanks again and hope the rest of your year is wonderful & insightful 🤍🤍

  • @imsodone29
    @imsodone29 6 місяців тому +1

    Lynette, I just want to thank you for waking my ass up especially with becoming more active in things that are happening in the world around us. I got so complacent with how things were and whenever I would speak with my friends + family on issues (BLM, socialism, being against fast fashion) no one would really care to listen or take it seriously. So I just stopped talking about these topics, I almost gave up. But after I saw your video about Palestine (which pushed me to go to two protest alone and I am so happy I did) - I am now more active in helping the best way I can with spreading awareness to real life things that are happening in our world. Thank you for being you and existing and please keep doing what you are doing because it’s working.

  • @zoiekelly-atol5097
    @zoiekelly-atol5097 5 місяців тому +2

    Your video was in my suggested, I just wanted to say I love your outlook so much. It aligns with how I feel too which is reassuring that I’m doing something right. Love your energy and I wish you many blessings in this new year!🤍

  • @rileystein6195
    @rileystein6195 6 місяців тому +4

    This is perfect for this time until the new year. I'll keep meditating on my future life and observing what changes I need to make in my current life to get there.

  • @snarkmonii9871
    @snarkmonii9871 6 місяців тому +1

    You are my girl❤ everything u say is so aligned I love how you speak from your heart

  • @GabrielleAbreuOficial
    @GabrielleAbreuOficial 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for this video Lynette! I'm from Brazil and it helped a lot. I usually takes the "reset for new year" as somethig exhausting, but u made me remider that there's more than just organize the outdoor.

  • @ITSSTORI
    @ITSSTORI 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you sharing your pov. This felt refreshing to watch and I wrote down some pointers. I am currently in space where I really need to clear out some things / declutter my energy. As well as spending time alone and pin pointing what my priorities are. I also am wanting to slow down and truly be in the present moment and not base my state on what my current reality looks. Things can shift at any moment

  • @chardonphillips724
    @chardonphillips724 6 місяців тому +15

    This message was right on time for me watching this thanks Lynette for sharing this as I am going through a transitional period myself in my life career at this moment. What you said was spot on in regards to being still and going deep within to find direction on where you need to go and cutting out things that no longer serve you, and focus on things that do serve you.

    • @LynetteAdkins
      @LynetteAdkins  6 місяців тому

      yesss these transition periods we have to be super conscious of what’s around us! sending you so much love + positivity with your career goals in 2024❤️

  • @ashleyha9804
    @ashleyha9804 6 місяців тому

    i changed so much in 2023 (one reason being i quit my medical assistant job and it made me so much happier), cheers to 2024 and necessary change!!!!

  • @dv.harris
    @dv.harris 6 місяців тому +6

    I completely agree with you girl. Thank you so much for this video. Definitely need to do a lot more reflection on myself and my life and what I want out of it next year. I deleted Instagram (the only social media I have) six months ago back in august and I haven’t felt the need to go back to it because I don’t want to overstimulate myself. Once I have things down packed I might return to Instagram. But for now I’ve been on UA-cam mainly & Pinterest. Love how peaceful life has been. Anyways, god bless u queen & happy holidays. ❤

  • @angelflower176
    @angelflower176 6 місяців тому +1

    Your videos actually really help me and resonate with me:)

  • @nafisah.muhtar
    @nafisah.muhtar 6 місяців тому +1

    I love this! It’s interesting to hear your take on preparing for the new year. I literally just made a similar video and I touch on the same topics, but somehow I still learned a lot from your point of view and I really liked how you framed your perspective. I am such a planner, but I constantly have to remind myself to stay grounded.

  • @avle609
    @avle609 6 місяців тому

    thank you for this video. i feel much more composed now that i realise everythings happening for a reason. the start of my new year wasnt great but thats ok, the rest of the year is still yet to come.

  • @theetravelhippie
    @theetravelhippie 6 місяців тому

    💎💎 self care is KEY! it will lead to self love thus leading to love and more patience for others🙏🏼 that is how we spark change

  • @dynomyteproductions710
    @dynomyteproductions710 6 місяців тому

    Love this girl 🥰 happy holidays everyone

  • @SH-iy7ju
    @SH-iy7ju 6 місяців тому

    I love that you have plants!! It’s great for the sight n the brain

  • @indefiniteopener
    @indefiniteopener 6 місяців тому

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing. Happy holidays

  • @vee-journey
    @vee-journey 6 місяців тому

    I like your energy and vibe it's comforting

  • @c.ronthemic7450
    @c.ronthemic7450 6 місяців тому +2

    Another great video in my opinion. Personally the take aways are without a doubt the refect , review purge. Its amazing how unconsiously we may dislike a pattern, behaviour conditioned default.
    But until we write, refelect and visalise/put into practice a better way. We may take longer to change the very thing that just isn't serving us. Sorry for the rant, all in all. My awareness is becoming better stronger with you help. Thank you and have a merry Christmas and a happy new year 🎉

  • @CariJanee
    @CariJanee 6 місяців тому +1

    I was wondering why my stance has been different this time of the year compared to last year…this time last year I was jotting things down, calculating what and when I was going to accomplish my goals-and I’ve accomplished almost every goal: from purchasing my first car and obtaining my real estate license at 20 years old after while working a full time job the entire year while too perfecting my craft and passion for poetry to a point where I’ve secured gigs at shows in Houston: and NOW I’m not necessarily “burnt out” but I just don’t feel called to take that same approach this year-I feel called to relish in what I’ve established within myself and still grow yes but without this expectation of where I need to be at any set time.

  • @lifewithjessenia
    @lifewithjessenia 6 місяців тому

    loved this video so much!! thanks you for sharing all the tips!!!

  • @InvestHerPodcast
    @InvestHerPodcast 6 місяців тому

    Wow it’s so crazy because everything you’re saying is literally how I been feeling !

  • @ifyougettheblues
    @ifyougettheblues 6 місяців тому

    Dont know anything bout 2024 but I know that I will spend a lot of time with my fav life teacher Lynette 🥰

  • @imanidixon9326
    @imanidixon9326 6 місяців тому

    This is a great video. I’m so glad this wasn’t a cliche into the new year video. Very helpful information that needed to be said out loud

  • @j4ylea
    @j4ylea 6 місяців тому +1

    i need a hair routine lynette 😩 it looks so good!! ✨

  • @sloanepoggenpoel6040
    @sloanepoggenpoel6040 6 місяців тому +1

    In the southern hemisphere, while we go on holiday the 9-5ers get to rest. We actually get so much busier during the holiday time. Anyway, I love your mindset

  • @nikkiyevette
    @nikkiyevette 6 місяців тому

    So big on going within before making decisions. 😊

  • @user-dy8gp2sn1d
    @user-dy8gp2sn1d 6 місяців тому

    Hey Superstar, just wanted to say thanks. I appreciate you. 🤩☮️🙏

  • @kemaranight2456
    @kemaranight2456 6 місяців тому

    Aligned and right on time. Cheers to our new year! ✨ #8Energy

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 6 місяців тому

    Thanks Lynette! Love the video and the message! just a heads up that it’s summer in the global South 😊❤

  • @ellismonte
    @ellismonte 6 місяців тому

    Thanks Lynette 🫶🏽

  • @imanaisis
    @imanaisis 6 місяців тому

    2020-2023 has been okay I’m ready for the greatness to come in 2024 . I just hope that positive change is brought upon the world and that there is more peace and happiness amongst all of us! ❤🌍

  • @samuelalexander1133
    @samuelalexander1133 6 місяців тому

    love this

  • @stuartk2244
    @stuartk2244 6 місяців тому +1

    Were coming towards the end my dear ❤

  • @shonacrawford1256
    @shonacrawford1256 6 місяців тому

    You ate me up with that the thumbnail. Let me go grab my tea and listen🤣

  • @aniyahb.13
    @aniyahb.13 6 місяців тому

    I lovveee tumblr it’s helped me sm get back to myself.

  • @withlovecole
    @withlovecole 6 місяців тому

    love this

  • @nicolemoyo6443
    @nicolemoyo6443 6 місяців тому

    Looking sooooo beautiful 😍 thank you for speaking facts as always

  • @Summersnoww
    @Summersnoww 6 місяців тому

    Needed this

  • @CreativepreneurJourney
    @CreativepreneurJourney 6 місяців тому +1

    This year was a very crazy year for me too. I started this year hoping to get a sale in a business to being force to leave FL.

  • @wjdanalshehri2732
    @wjdanalshehri2732 6 місяців тому

    I am from saudi 🇸🇦 and sometimes I don’t understand what you say but I love you so much and I like to hear u also I learn new things from you 🫂🩵
    I try to improve my english language

  • @zful291
    @zful291 6 місяців тому

    It’s crazy you’re talking about this because this is literally the theme for this Mercury Rx😩

  • @Immanuelm.8
    @Immanuelm.8 6 місяців тому

    Thank you🔥

  • @privatejc6521
    @privatejc6521 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being you ❤️ how do you keep up with astrology? I would love to learn more.

  • @AimmeV
    @AimmeV 6 місяців тому

    Thank you❤

  • @MichelleG333
    @MichelleG333 6 місяців тому +3

    How did you know I was over planning? 😮 my therapist had to remind me that it’s OK to set small achievable goals.

  • @niaballard1483
    @niaballard1483 6 місяців тому

    Idk why but I can reallly see you prospering in Mexico City

  • @renc.2632
    @renc.2632 5 місяців тому

    This is my first video I've seen of you and I feel like I connect with you as a creator. I only have one suggestion. It's hard to focus on what you say when you look at yourself while you're speaking versus when you're looking directly in the camera. Otherwise, great video!

  • @ambiencelectronica
    @ambiencelectronica 6 місяців тому +2

    Yep, they even lied and changed our real new year date, the first day of spring is the true natural new year.

  • @ChillingTales12
    @ChillingTales12 6 місяців тому +2

    Im preping for my vacation tomorrow thats what im prepqring for lol 😅

  • @queennnt
    @queennnt 6 місяців тому

    Clicked the video so fast! lol ❤

  • @Y3N..
    @Y3N.. 6 місяців тому

    You look beautiful 😍 Happy Holidays 🫶🏻

  • @katianalynn9384
    @katianalynn9384 6 місяців тому

    you look so pretty!!!!

  • @ErikaGuerrero__
    @ErikaGuerrero__ 6 місяців тому

    I’ve been off tic tok for about 6 months now. I feel better about myself because i used to let it take over time and my sleep. My mindset wasn’t the best but now that i’m off i feel good. The only thing that I hate about being off is everyone that i love is on it and i feel left behind since i’m not aware of what they are talking about. I’m on instagram but it’s not the same. any help on the feeling?

  • @LifestyleWithDanielleLessie
    @LifestyleWithDanielleLessie 6 місяців тому

    Tumblr is my favorite website to

  • @zaire-aniyarobinson2928
    @zaire-aniyarobinson2928 6 місяців тому +1

    The way life is going I’m just hope I’m alive

  • @carnishaxo2.0
    @carnishaxo2.0 6 місяців тому +1

    And if you really into astrology, you know that the “new year” isn’t until March because that’s when Aries season begins and Aries is the first zodiac sign.

  • @mariastephen6179
    @mariastephen6179 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheYungsimba21
    @TheYungsimba21 6 місяців тому

    Question, who is your favorite youtubers?

  • @lara94v
    @lara94v 6 місяців тому

    Where do you get your astrology info :) ? I want to learn!

  • @vlazarus124
    @vlazarus124 6 місяців тому +5

    👑🔥 Stop overplanning y'all heard her

  • @obetalk86
    @obetalk86 6 місяців тому

    Numb

  • @obetalk86
    @obetalk86 6 місяців тому

    The Bigger you

  • @sherminajean8476
    @sherminajean8476 6 місяців тому

    Saw this video at 111 with 11 comments 🥹

  • @juliannamalu
    @juliannamalu 6 місяців тому

    you make the deodorant stain cute 🧜🏼‍♀💘

  • @SmartAudioTv
    @SmartAudioTv 6 місяців тому

    Jesus Loves You! Seek him 2024 & he will guide your steps

  • @tessklein
    @tessklein 6 місяців тому

    🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @rahzilleoxile6488
    @rahzilleoxile6488 5 місяців тому

    I’d save up two weeks of my paychecks to FaceTime you for an hour

  • @Bell_plejdo568p
    @Bell_plejdo568p 6 місяців тому +1

    Didn't u have a tiktok account that got banned because u made a video about the letter to america?

  • @thechynab11
    @thechynab11 6 місяців тому

    your videos are always right on time 🤍

  • @WilleauxWill
    @WilleauxWill 6 місяців тому

    THIS is the vid that a LOTTA people need to see before 2024! 💯🫂

  • @skylershanice6735
    @skylershanice6735 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤