This is Holding You Back from Becoming a Multi-Millionaire

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  • Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
  • I want to help you reprogram your money psychology so you can become a millionaire. If you follow along closely, you will never view money the same way again.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 66

  • @HeyHeyHeyThats2EZ
    @HeyHeyHeyThats2EZ 2 дні тому +34

    Exactly what I needed this morning Ramit. We make nearly 300k a year and my rich life involves a beautiful house and yard, but I find myself stressing too much about pinching pennys. I realize I should continue to live life and the money will come and we will have enough for a down payment when it gets here. I shouldn’t stress about the $15 dog toy or $40 for a hobby I truly love. Thanks a ton and have a great rest of your week!

    • @lowlowseesee
      @lowlowseesee День тому

      also please run the numbers on that house. which ramit also has a video for lol

    • @the1337fleet
      @the1337fleet День тому

      I feel this way too, but this feeling of motivation dies down the next day because I go back to my old scripts. "I'm going to lose or quit my job/business, expenses are getting out of hand, I need more, when will I have enough...?"

  • @MissGirl1450
    @MissGirl1450 2 дні тому +7

    I used to tell myself I wasn't good with finances. Sure, I could avoid debt but I didn't know anything about investing. Then I got the best advice from my cousin. He works at one of the big finance companies, and I asked him if I should hire a financial advisor to help me. He said I was smart enough to do it myself. By golly, he was right. I had to read lots of articles and books and listen to many podcasts, but I've completely changed the way I view money. Thanks, Parker, and thanks, Ramit, for all your lessons.

  • @RB-gq2zy
    @RB-gq2zy 2 дні тому +12

    We grew up poor with me having to drop out of school to work. I subsequently returned and graduated high school and later college. Due to the scarcity and instability of my upbringing I bought my first home (one of those no down payment loans) at 22 which was a financial hardship. If I could go back in time I would tell my old self to rent, invest and enjoy life and that homeownership does not define success or stability.

  • @DidacticToast
    @DidacticToast 2 дні тому +26

    Straight up teaching therapy skills of thought challenge, thought diffusion, and dialectic statements; I love it

    • @coreyburke3493
      @coreyburke3493 2 дні тому +3

      I love how Ramit uses psychology, patience and understanding with people. He tries to help them understand WHY they are failing and lead them in a better direction.
      Guys like Dave Ramsey and Caleb Hammer just try to make people feel like shit about their mistakes and tell them beans and rice for 5 years is the only way out.

  • @rebeltheharem7028
    @rebeltheharem7028 2 дні тому +9

    My parents raised me to be very conservative with spending because we grew up poor, and that caused me to be a penny pincher. Even up until last year. It wasn't actually until I went on vacation in Europe, where everything was expensive, and watching your videos (as well as a few other finance tubers), that I started to change my penny pinching ways and spend a bit more on myself on the things I care about (mostly high-quality groceries and some hobbies).
    This was helpful in letting me re-evaluate some things.

  • @dawnkoplitz1825
    @dawnkoplitz1825 2 дні тому +7

    I loved the look on the car sales person’s face when we said, “No financing. We’re paying cash for it.”

    • @gnd111
      @gnd111 2 дні тому

      Bad move...compounding interest on that lump sum would have served you better.

  • @geralynmurphy9957
    @geralynmurphy9957 2 дні тому +17

    I had a breakthrough listening to one of the money scripts you described. Thank you for your channel, it has helped me very much. I wish I understood the invisible scripts sooner instead on the brink of retirement. Better late than never!

  • @violetlight8138
    @violetlight8138 2 дні тому +5

    His book 'I will teach you to be rich' is amazing and is changing my life.

  • @lifeisbeautiful7452
    @lifeisbeautiful7452 2 дні тому +5

    Not Ramit posting the gym thirst traps 😂. J/k great video as usual and wonderful message. Keep it up.

  • @coreyburke3493
    @coreyburke3493 2 дні тому +1

    My script was basically twofold.
    One I thought the only way to be successful was to own a house or at least condo.
    As I saw housing go up faster than my income I told myself I'd never be able to afford a house where I wanted to live.
    So those two combined and led to "I'll never be able to afford a house so I mind as well drive a nice car"
    So instead of saving and investing I have been on the buy/drive/trade in/upgrade treadmill for probably 20 years.
    I watched Ramits Netflix special when it came out, read the book shortly after. Ever since then I feel so much better about money and my ability to retire one day.
    I still have plenty of work to do. But having a plan and a direction has taken so much weight off my chest.

  • @etgemdzab
    @etgemdzab 2 дні тому +1

    I loved it! Keep making videos like this, you’re the best!

  • @CAGChannel1
    @CAGChannel1 2 дні тому +8

    Yep, I feel good about buying my holiday themed, beautiful crocs :)

  • @dapperbowtique2696
    @dapperbowtique2696 2 дні тому +4

    Loved listening to this! Thanks for the content.

  • @ikewashere
    @ikewashere 21 годину тому +1

    I’m a financial planner and I still recommend all my friends and family to read your book first before asking me about money. Good stuff!

  • @soumyajeetchakrabarty6872
    @soumyajeetchakrabarty6872 2 дні тому +2

    This has been very insightful

  • @tonywahab3523
    @tonywahab3523 2 дні тому +1

    Great information about money Psychology. thank you!

  • @ntimn8r
    @ntimn8r 2 дні тому +2

    Why did I imagine the Obi-wan Kenobi meme, where he says, "of course I know him, he's me!" when this video first started? haha

  • @strwbryblondi07
    @strwbryblondi07 2 дні тому +1

    Super impactful video and actionable strategy - thank you for sharing info on this super important part of personal finance that is overlooked most places!
    Reading your book and listening to your content has really helped me on my journey. While I grew up with overall neutral/ positive views of money, it was not an abundance mindset and had a lot of class insecurity (despite financial security) passed down. Took me yesrs to start to feel comfortable around what I now consider peers and feel comfortable having similar lifestyles rather than constant imposter syndrome

  • @tashaydonaldson
    @tashaydonaldson 2 дні тому

    Brilliant video!!

  • @aditiseshadri6560
    @aditiseshadri6560 2 дні тому +3

    This is awesome

  • @shonJ17
    @shonJ17 2 дні тому +1

    FANTASTIC

  • @charletfoster8917
    @charletfoster8917 8 годин тому +1

    💯 need this video, I’m going to listen to this weekly for motivation 🙏🏿😊🙏🏿😊

  • @ib12541
    @ib12541 2 дні тому +1

    habit is controlled by your reticular activating system, and it takes about 3 weeks to reprogram it (ymmv). so, if you need to change those scripts all is not lost. keep working at it.

  • @user-pj1vd5hl9s
    @user-pj1vd5hl9s 2 дні тому +8

    My parents were very generous and they didn't have a lot. ❤❤❤

  • @Musicfillin
    @Musicfillin 5 годин тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @superBrainwayne
    @superBrainwayne День тому

    A Question opens your mind, a Statement closes your mind.

  • @zo_471
    @zo_471 2 дні тому +1

    I agree with other comments, no need for background music

  • @caligal
    @caligal 2 дні тому

    As I am listening to this episode, I get reminded about a book that I read many years ago that made me rethink my relationship with money. It’s written by a financial adviser (Buddhist too) called George Kinder. The book is called “The seven stages of money maturity”. Highly recommend it as it touches upon the points Ramit is making here.

  • @lawandahilaire5057
    @lawandahilaire5057 2 дні тому

    Wow Ramit with guns in the small pic 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @kylemrgn
    @kylemrgn 2 дні тому +1

    One of the hardest things I have ever had to do is face my money scripts, they run DEEP

  • @kiditsmaug
    @kiditsmaug 2 дні тому +3

    With DeleteMe, will I stop getting junk snail mail everyday?

    • @ramitsethi
      @ramitsethi  2 дні тому +2

      No, but you can use Optoutprescreen for that

  • @Bows-Trading-System
    @Bows-Trading-System 2 дні тому +2

    Don't be a slave to money.

  • @mariapadilla7501
    @mariapadilla7501 2 дні тому +2

    PLEASE help. I have no idea as to how to grow my money. single mom working 2 jobs with little to show. Have no idea as to how to invest...

    • @GHANAGAL2010
      @GHANAGAL2010 2 дні тому +5

      Read his book- I read his book and even though I was on a low salary $30k I made sure to invest $50-$100 every month into my retirement

    • @moemoeforyou
      @moemoeforyou 2 дні тому +4

      Definitely read his book, “I will teach you to be rich”

  • @darialexn
    @darialexn 2 дні тому

    omg, do you ever vacuum? Or is it not dust on your mic?😅

    • @zo_471
      @zo_471 2 дні тому

      Dude prob has a live in maid

    • @patdennis2586
      @patdennis2586 День тому

      I’ve noticed it as well! Wish it would go away.

  • @Bachimge
    @Bachimge 2 дні тому +3

    “DO YOU LOVE YOUR PARENTS?! Then buy DeleteMe”
    A little heavy handed there brother. Rolling your sponsor into the video concept/flow is usually fine, but that left a bad taste in my mouth

    • @sihr07
      @sihr07 День тому +1

      Actually one of the things I’m super insistent with my family is this kinda stuff…we have already dealt with scams by people getting my parents info online. So, yep, I care about my parents so keeping their info confidential is super important to me

  • @ChanaIlunga
    @ChanaIlunga 2 дні тому +2

    Dear Ramit, could you please, re watch your content and re write your invisible scripts. See yourself paying for phantom cost.

  • @enigmathegrayman2953
    @enigmathegrayman2953 2 дні тому +9

    They should’ve thought of a better name than “Delete Me” that is UA-cam/internet code phrase for……

  • @Tusehem
    @Tusehem 2 дні тому +3

    1st

  • @polupopus5836
    @polupopus5836 2 дні тому +66

    very distracting and nervous making background music. No need to stress your viewers out with these sound effects ... just tell the story is interesting enough.

    • @pdpgkeeper
      @pdpgkeeper 2 дні тому

      *Johnny Harris has entered the chat

    • @martata8404
      @martata8404 2 дні тому +2

      It got so much better few minutes in

    • @TheSnookerGym
      @TheSnookerGym 2 дні тому +3

      Yes it is very jarring - causes anxiety and cognitive dissonance

    • @froseti1524
      @froseti1524 2 дні тому +1

      0:29 needs more UA-cam Starter Pack *SHHHHINGGG*

    • @chastiana
      @chastiana 2 дні тому +11

      I didnt even notice it.

  • @alpanaboruah2525
    @alpanaboruah2525 2 дні тому +4

    You are indian