I have been separated from the kids dad for 5 years he was abusive and belittled me through out relationship - my 17 year old daughter and I was just talking yesterday and I told her I made it through by forgiveness and wishing him the very best. Sincerely. I wish no harm to anyone. What that type of mindset say I have been supporting my children 100% financially and emotionally. They are a gift to me, and I Thank god I have them in my life. I will go through raging storm if it’s to keep them safe but god have been so giving and kind. People around me have Been amazing; my family and friends I am very blessed. This momma of two keep moving forward with a smile and peace in my mind ♥️
After listening to many spiritual teachers, you are the most brilliant for me. You just get to the point in a practical, loving way. Just feel your emotions and wisdom comes!! Thank you ❤️🌱
Kim, you bring it all together! Your feminine presence, the pure tranquillity of your voice, the teaching of the practical techniques to connect with the inner space and your spiritual teachings that join with Eckhart's is phenomenal. As a woman with a Baptist beginning I often find myself getting the Holy ghost and praising God with both of you😅
The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived; Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are timeless, unchanging, eternal, unconditional love, peace, joy, compassion, wisdom, contentment and fulfillment; your true self is what all beings seek. Love love
The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived; Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are timeless, unchanging, eternal, unconditional love, peace, joy, compassion, wisdom, contentment and fulfillment; your true self is what all beings seek. Love love
The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived; Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are timeless, unchanging, eternal, unconditional love, peace, joy, compassion, wisdom, contentment and fulfillment; your true self is what all beings seek. Love love
Kim-I love your way of teaching. Your soothing voice. Subjects are just spot on. Thank you and I look forward to working with all your videos and appreciate you so much. 🙏😘❤️👏
Kim is so right. I'm lucky enough to have reached the same point with my ex.... I now don't care about him (saying these words with compassion and not negativity) in the slightest.... I don't care about whether he's married again, whether he's alive or dead..... I just let go of him and that part of my life....💗
Wow! Thank you! I was raised to forgive, I went through a bitter and long divorce about 10 years ago and am still working on forgiveness, you made me realize that by denying my emotions it will never happen. I will go through and allow my anger, frustration, betrayal and all my feelings attached to this. It's as if you gave me permission to have these ugly feelings. Thank you❤
Some divorces cannot be settled with a feeling of love. It would be great if they could but some people have got away from abuse or similar trauma, for those there was no love in that relationship. They were used and abused. In those breakups loving the ex can be psychological damaging. People should go through their true emotions but not force themselves to love their abusive ex!
I think when she says love it doesn't mean "I love you, let's be together" it's the love that is for all human beings in our shared humanity and fallibility. But abuse or trauma or toxic: get away and stay away first and foremost.
@@stephthinks3109 I knew she meant love in a humanity sense. 🙄 And you misread my comment. I am also using the same meaning. Whether you like it or not there are different forms of formed beings in this universe and there are some, such as narcs and psychopaths whom you cannot love in any form. In fact in the same way they do not grasp what empathy is they don't not understand the energy of love. You're not only wasting your time and energy but you are making yourself bait for them. If you had a narc ex you would understand that. They would laugh in your face for wishing them well while they abuse you. Many people will tell you their narc ex carries on tormenting them, their kids and turning everyone they love against them while alienating their kids and dragging them through custody battles for years. If you want to send love to that type of ex you are nuts and deserve all you get when you meet the next narc you get involved with through your denial of exactly what you are dealing with.
@@obscurum6 I disagree with you. I love my narc ex and my narc parents. I have no relationship with them but I love them even more because I understand why they are that way and I feel sorry for them because they didn’t realise they had a choice and the power to overcome their trauma and abuse they suffered within their own childhoods. I’m also in a court battle with my narc ex regarding our children - this is the third time round and I have total peace about it. Yes he tried to turn everyone against me including our children but it has not worked out. It has taken over 10 years for people to see but now they all know the truth including our children. I realised that the pain they inflicted on me was never about me. It was about them. Loving and forgiving them keeps my heart open to ensure I’m not blocking my own energy in order to manifest great things and to remain zen within. I see your comment was 11 months ago so I hope you’ve transcended your comment x
@@talye You are in denial. The pain they inflicted was about YOU as it was inflicted on YOU! You are using displacement as a coping mechanism. It's obvious you have found that lying to yourself is your coping mechanism, which is your choice even though it will damage your mental health in the long run. One day it will occur to you that those people hurt you intentionally, not because of their so called abusive childhood (narcs use that excuse all the time, duh) but because narcs ENJOY THE PLEASURE of them hurting you. You should note that the majority of people who are abused in childhood do not become narcs, Duh. You will also be burdened with massive amounts of guilt when you finally wake up and realise that the love energy you have been sending to "your narcs" is just energy vampirism and they have used the pain of your children through their relationship with you, which you have allowed to continue by making excuses for them while your children have been in the cross fire of their malicious custody tactics. What you do to yourself is your business but shame on you for feeding love energy to people who have made your children suffer. You carry on "keeping your heart open" to you narc vampires, 🙄, they will bleed you dry of chakra energy while you numb yourself with BS excuses for allowing it. 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
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A wise woman with true humility. Thank you Kim. 🌺
I have been separated from the kids dad for 5 years he was abusive and belittled me through out relationship - my 17 year old daughter and I was just talking yesterday and I told her I made it through by forgiveness and wishing him the very best. Sincerely. I wish no harm to anyone. What that type of mindset say I have been supporting my children 100% financially and emotionally. They are a gift to me, and I Thank god I have them in my life. I will go through raging storm if it’s to keep them safe but god have been so giving and kind. People around me have Been amazing; my family and friends I am very blessed.
This momma of two keep moving forward with a smile and peace in my mind ♥️
Kim - You can let go of emotions in 30sec if you fully accept. Let go of time and expectation that it should be any different
After listening to many spiritual teachers, you are the most brilliant for me. You just get to the point in a practical, loving way.
Just feel your emotions and wisdom comes!! Thank you ❤️🌱
Kim, you bring it all together! Your feminine presence, the pure tranquillity of your voice, the teaching of the practical techniques to connect with the inner space and your spiritual teachings that join with Eckhart's is phenomenal.
As a woman with a Baptist beginning I often find myself getting the Holy ghost and praising God with both of you😅
The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are timeless, unchanging, eternal, unconditional love, peace, joy, compassion, wisdom, contentment and fulfillment; your true self is what all beings seek. Love love
Thank you Kim! I'm glad you post new video's again more regularly. I very much appriciate you! 🙏
The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are timeless, unchanging, eternal, unconditional love, peace, joy, compassion, wisdom, contentment and fulfillment; your true self is what all beings seek. Love love
@@Godly_Sharing Sounds like Rupert Spira :)
A continual thank you to you, Kim Eng! Many many blessings!
The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are timeless, unchanging, eternal, unconditional love, peace, joy, compassion, wisdom, contentment and fulfillment; your true self is what all beings seek. Love love
Accept the feelings go throughout the emotions ...thank you Kim!🙏
Kim, you absolutely speak to me every time! Deepest respect & gratitude 🙏🌈🌺🌿🤗☀️
I listen to your videos every night, your voice is very soothing. You’re very precious thank you deeply Kim!
Thanks madam for your deep understanding of any given situation.
I had so much resistance at the beginning of this video but minute after minute I felt it melt away.
I love both you and your husband Eckhart!!! You are lucky now!
That was a nice touch from both actually.....when pain gets stuck and it almost keeps you there..
Kim-I love your way of teaching. Your soothing voice. Subjects are just spot on. Thank you and I look forward to working with all your videos and appreciate you so much. 🙏😘❤️👏
Kim is so right. I'm lucky enough to have reached the same point with my ex.... I now don't care about him (saying these words with compassion and not negativity) in the slightest.... I don't care about whether he's married again, whether he's alive or dead..... I just let go of him and that part of my life....💗
Thank you Kim.
Wow! Thank you! I was raised to forgive, I went through a bitter and long divorce about 10 years ago and am still working on forgiveness, you made me realize that by denying my emotions it will never happen. I will go through and allow my anger, frustration, betrayal and all my feelings attached to this. It's as if you gave me permission to have these ugly feelings. Thank you❤
Thank you 🍃🍃
Thankyou, this has helped me so much x
thank you
Eckhart may be at a higher state of consciousness, but I find Kim Eng more relatable and insightful about relationships especially.
Thank you so much
That's so good.
Namaste ❤🙏
Thanks🌺💗🌺
I went through a long protracted divorce w/my ex lawyer over the course of 14 years- he was horrid. I am over it now, but I have PTSD.
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I really enjoy your insights. Thank you from Ontario 🧡
What did he say in the beginning? "I ??? right now..." Didn't understand it.
I am thank ful you
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When you dont have an attachment to the outcome that take away stress
Humpty Dumpty. 😆🤣❤
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I struggle here. I know my work is Reacting.
Some divorces cannot be settled with a feeling of love. It would be great if they could but some people have got away from abuse or similar trauma, for those there was no love in that relationship. They were used and abused. In those breakups loving the ex can be psychological damaging. People should go through their true emotions but not force themselves to love their abusive ex!
I think when she says love it doesn't mean "I love you, let's be together" it's the love that is for all human beings in our shared humanity and fallibility.
But abuse or trauma or toxic: get away and stay away first and foremost.
@@stephthinks3109
I knew she meant love in a humanity sense. 🙄 And you misread my comment. I am also using the same meaning. Whether you like it or not there are different forms of formed beings in this universe and there are some, such as narcs and psychopaths whom you cannot love in any form. In fact in the same way they do not grasp what empathy is they don't not understand the energy of love. You're not only wasting your time and energy but you are making yourself bait for them. If you had a narc ex you would understand that. They would laugh in your face for wishing them well while they abuse you. Many people will tell you their narc ex carries on tormenting them, their kids and turning everyone they love against them while alienating their kids and dragging them through custody battles for years. If you want to send love to that type of ex you are nuts and deserve all you get when you meet the next narc you get involved with through your denial of exactly what you are dealing with.
@@obscurum6 I disagree with you. I love my narc ex and my narc parents. I have no relationship with them but I love them even more because I understand why they are that way and I feel sorry for them because they didn’t realise they had a choice and the power to overcome their trauma and abuse they suffered within their own childhoods.
I’m also in a court battle with my narc ex regarding our children - this is the third time round and I have total peace about it. Yes he tried to turn everyone against me including our children but it has not worked out. It has taken over 10 years for people to see but now they all know the truth including our children.
I realised that the pain they inflicted on me was never about me. It was about them. Loving and forgiving them keeps my heart open to ensure I’m not blocking my own energy in order to manifest great things and to remain zen within.
I see your comment was 11 months ago so I hope you’ve transcended your comment x
@@talye
You are in denial. The pain they inflicted was about YOU as it was inflicted on YOU! You are using displacement as a coping mechanism.
It's obvious you have found that lying to yourself is your coping mechanism, which is your choice even though it will damage your mental health in the long run. One day it will occur to you that those people hurt you intentionally, not because of their so called abusive childhood (narcs use that excuse all the time, duh) but because narcs ENJOY THE PLEASURE of them hurting you. You should note that the majority of people who are abused in childhood do not become narcs, Duh.
You will also be burdened with massive amounts of guilt when you finally wake up and realise that the love energy you have been sending to "your narcs" is just energy vampirism and they have used the pain of your children through their relationship with you, which you have allowed to continue by making excuses for them while your children have been in the cross fire of their malicious custody tactics. What you do to yourself is your business but shame on you for feeding love energy to people who have made your children suffer.
You carry on "keeping your heart open" to you narc vampires, 🙄, they will bleed you dry of chakra energy while you numb yourself with BS excuses for allowing it. 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
its not different--raised 5 children and no support and he was rich--they figure out how--but just saying things are not different
Justice in USA is a joke and the children's best interests are their last priority sadly 🙄😐🇦🇺🇦🇺
Good luck and blessings to you all.
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