People try to fix the external environment in a way that doesn't hit the stored pain inside instead of feeling the pain directly and dissolving it. Being present with the pain is the core of Eckhart's teaching or any other true spiritual teaching. Unless you drop the garbage, you are compelled to make decisions according to that garbage for the rest of your life because it will come everywhere with you, waiting to be triggered. The moment you are willing to face the pain, you are on your path of freedom.
That was me in my fourth year of studying speech and language therapy and working as an intern a few days of the week and absolutely dreading it(crying everyday out of frustration and not knowing what to do). I wasn't happy even though I was 'being of service' to others. I had to be of service myself first. I eventually chose to change direction, and almost every day there is something I can take and include from what I've learned in those 4 years and during the internships. It is okay to change direction, but you have to update your mindset. And when you do change, let life surprise you, it'll show up with signs on what to do next. Ps. Fasting seemed to really help with my mindset, mental stability and clarity and overall confidence WITHOUT changing anything on the outside.
I know how she’s feeling I felt that overwhelming fear too. I was always ‘right’ to fear something bad was taking over and was going to happen, now I know it was my pain body carrying too much negative energy for me to stay in alignment with universe but I went to work anyway and got a flat tyre on my car 3 times in a few months. My car broke down recently and I had to sell it I couldn’t believe ‘it’ had won as I had to leave my new job that was as close to helping others as I can currently get. After that though, the immense panic “how will I cope no car, no job, nobody to help me pay bills”… I started doing the ‘What Is’ meditation by Kim and realised none of it mattered, nothing mattered it was beautiful. That was nearly a month ago and I still do the meditation at least everyday now. My pain body is still regularly here, ego thinks it’s as evil as ever at times but truth is it is a LOT smaller, the pains in my body are much less like pure 🔥 just thought makes it feel as much an unnecessary obstacle of destruction as before. Turns out after a week thinking I’d lost my job, my work asked me to continue working for them even though a car was mandatory, but I have halved my hours as I have to walk to each client and I am coping fine so far. It means I’m always grounded and less stressed! I don’t even want a car at the moment now and couldn’t give a damn about money as long as I can pay necessities. When I have had spare cash the joy it can bring has surfaced as an attachment again but the deeper part of me is better without a lot of it at the moment, in some ways. Wouldn’t mind a few more holidays especially to retreats and healing workshops! 😂
Thank you Kim and for the woman asking that question. I found this very simple and powerful as this is what I do as well. I have not been able to meditate as my body wants to move. I think I need to start here.
I told my ex something that was really hard and difficult for me to say, he really was supporting and it felt so good, better than ever. Than suddenly he ghosted me and I’ve never ever regretted something so much, I wish I never said anything. I want to die without him and it’s my fault that it’s like this, but it was my biggest fear and I told him. Please pray that he will contact me again
My ex husband was a social work director. My mother was a social worker for 10 years. My ex husband loved the power trip sadly. My mother was too sensitive and didn't last.
People try to fix the external environment in a way that doesn't hit the stored pain inside instead of feeling the pain directly and dissolving it. Being present with the pain is the core of Eckhart's teaching or any other true spiritual teaching. Unless you drop the garbage, you are compelled to make decisions according to that garbage for the rest of your life because it will come everywhere with you, waiting to be triggered. The moment you are willing to face the pain, you are on your path of freedom.
Slow down, self-soothe. Do not worry about what you shall wear, eat, say, for the moment that you need it it is given ❤
Love how Kim is so human and practical. That is true Spirituality. Thank you.
Wow! I was meant to find this video today! I really feel for this person. How fortunate we are to cross paths with Kim! And to become conscious….
There is nothing not meant..
That was me in my fourth year of studying speech and language therapy and working as an intern a few days of the week and absolutely dreading it(crying everyday out of frustration and not knowing what to do). I wasn't happy even though I was 'being of service' to others. I had to be of service myself first. I eventually chose to change direction, and almost every day there is something I can take and include from what I've learned in those 4 years and during the internships.
It is okay to change direction, but you have to update your mindset.
And when you do change, let life surprise you, it'll show up with signs on what to do next.
Ps. Fasting seemed to really help with my mindset, mental stability and clarity and overall confidence WITHOUT changing anything on the outside.
I love that she prescribes a meditation practice for her that is specific and measurable.
Oh my god, I feel her so hard. What an impact, so pure
Ugh her willingness, exurberance, authenticity and just all around energy im so in love with omg
I know how she’s feeling I felt that overwhelming fear too. I was always ‘right’ to fear something bad was taking over and was going to happen, now I know it was my pain body carrying too much negative energy for me to stay in alignment with universe but I went to work anyway and got a flat tyre on my car 3 times in a few months. My car broke down recently and I had to sell it I couldn’t believe ‘it’ had won as I had to leave my new job that was as close to helping others as I can currently get.
After that though, the immense panic “how will I cope no car, no job, nobody to help me pay bills”… I started doing the ‘What Is’ meditation by Kim and realised none of it mattered, nothing mattered it was beautiful. That was nearly a month ago and I still do the meditation at least everyday now. My pain body is still regularly here, ego thinks it’s as evil as ever at times but truth is it is a LOT smaller, the pains in my body are much less like pure 🔥 just thought makes it feel as much an unnecessary obstacle of destruction as before.
Turns out after a week thinking I’d lost my job, my work asked me to continue working for them even though a car was mandatory, but I have halved my hours as I have to walk to each client and I am coping fine so far. It means I’m always grounded and less stressed! I don’t even want a car at the moment now and couldn’t give a damn about money as long as I can pay necessities. When I have had spare cash the joy it can bring has surfaced as an attachment again but the deeper part of me is better without a lot of it at the moment, in some ways. Wouldn’t mind a few more holidays especially to retreats and healing workshops! 😂
Thank you Kim and for the woman asking that question. I found this very simple and powerful as this is what I do as well. I have not been able to meditate as my body wants to move. I think I need to start here.
This woman is awesome!!! Very cool.
Be comfortable with not knowing... im struggling there too 🙏❤
Gracias Gracias Gracias ✨🙏🏻🙌🏻💓
In the moment you need it. It is given. Not two hours before but in the moment
I told my ex something that was really hard and difficult for me to say, he really was supporting and it felt so good, better than ever. Than suddenly he ghosted me and I’ve never ever regretted something so much, I wish I never said anything. I want to die without him and it’s my fault that it’s like this, but it was my biggest fear and I told him. Please pray that he will contact me again
Love Kim Tolle
Thank You Kim♥️🧡♥️
I love her so much
muchas gracias!!!
Beautiful
Thank you Kim...🙏
Thank you very much for this
So helpful Kim, thank you so much xx
So good🧘♀️
My ex husband was a social work director. My mother was a social worker for 10 years. My ex husband loved the power trip sadly. My mother was too sensitive and didn't last.
Very helpful
So helpful 💗
I wonder what was up with "that couple"! Become comfortable with not knowing, right? 😅
Hahaha ! Very well said.
😂
Right! But maybe just until the answer gets to you ;) ua-cam.com/video/685I6ecWDEI/v-deo.html
😂😂
❤️
❤❤❤❤🍀❤🙏
She's so beautiful, the one with the question.
Kim too of course
The few fierce copper concordantly zoom because minute only trip aside a wicked squash. wiggly, null broker