How to Set the Right Goals and Stay Motivated | Ayelet Fishbach | TED

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  • Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
  • You can't just "find" motivation, says scientist Ayelet Fishbach - you have to learn how to motivate yourself. She shares a handful of tips backed by 20 years of motivation research, offering surprisingly simple wisdom on how to optimize your goals, set yourself up for success and avoid the tempting calls of procrastination.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 189

  • @user-yj4hk4oq9m
    @user-yj4hk4oq9m 5 місяців тому +194

    key points from the video:
    🎯 Set inspiring goals that you look forward to, not just things you wish you had already done.
    🌈 Make the "middle" parts of your goals shorter (like weekly vs. monthly goals) to keep motivation high.
    🔍 Don't take setbacks personally - remove your ego and see them as chances to learn.
    ⚖️ Balance your goals by finding the right mix, not trying to do everything at once.
    💡 Anticipate temptations so you're prepared to resist them.
    👥 Leverage the support of friends, family, and loved ones to help keep you motivated.

    • @gyo.kur0
      @gyo.kur0 5 місяців тому +3

      Tysm! I got an assignment to watch a TED video, and write an essay, now I can just skip it lol

    • @paulooliveira1502
      @paulooliveira1502 3 місяці тому

      Thanks gpt

    • @pinarbadedurusonmez2228
      @pinarbadedurusonmez2228 Місяць тому

      Teşekkür ederim 🙏🏻 Türkçe altyazı seçeneği yoktu. İngilizcem yeterli gelmedi. Sayende özet gibi oldu teşekkür ederim 🥰

    • @personwithaquestion1800
      @personwithaquestion1800 28 днів тому

      Sadly I am struggling with step 1.

  • @cocoa4831
    @cocoa4831 5 місяців тому +134

    1. Motivation is a mindset.
    2. The enjoyment of the process determines whether you can achieve it.
    3. Make the goal fun, break it into small pieces, and work on it with others, for others.

    • @RexTee438
      @RexTee438 5 місяців тому +4

      Make the middle of a task/goal as short as possible

    • @CHESSNUT1992
      @CHESSNUT1992 5 місяців тому

      thank you

  • @Money_Making_Mentality
    @Money_Making_Mentality 4 місяці тому +332

    There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.

  • @stanijev
    @stanijev 5 місяців тому +152

    This video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood

  • @TheBrainyBiz
    @TheBrainyBiz 5 місяців тому +3

    Ayelet Fishbach is fantastic, thank you for helping more people to hear her amazing words and insights, TED!

  • @MonicaKristies
    @MonicaKristies 4 місяці тому +2

    The way Hidden Time Wealth dives into the concept of productivity is mind-blowing. Hidden Time Wealth tips are pure gold, and I wish more people knew about them.

  • @gptBreeze_io
    @gptBreeze_io 5 місяців тому +53

    - 00:00 Understanding Motivation
    Many of us feel a deep sense of unmotivation, but you’ve never lost it-motivation is about wisdom.
    - 03:14 The Power of Goals
    Setting exciting, engaging goals is crucial, as enjoyment in the journey affects motivation.
    - 06:06 Keeping Motivation Alive
    Mid-project dips in motivation are common; setting shorter goals and removing ego can help maintain focus.
    - 09:20 Juggling Life Goals
    Balancing multiple goals is essential; anticipating temptations can keep you on track.
    - 13:47 The Importance of Support
    Relationships are vital for motivation; supporting and encouraging each other makes a big difference.
    - 16:26 Takeaway and Final Thoughts
    Motivation is about being wise, not just strong; embrace your journey and keep pushing forward!
    by GPT Breeze

  • @The_Reaper86
    @The_Reaper86 5 місяців тому +42

    Yeah, motivation sure is a important thing and the video summarized very well it, but there's one thing that usually happens and she didn't mention: comparisons - these happen a lot to many people, and the best thing to do about these is comparing yourself to you, and not other people.

    • @joycewong3620
      @joycewong3620 5 місяців тому

      completely agree

    • @SdF-s3j
      @SdF-s3j 5 місяців тому +1

      和头脑特工队差不多

  • @DontBeALlama
    @DontBeALlama 4 місяці тому +4

    1. find enjoyment in the process not the end goal
    2. keep the middle between start and end of a goal short to stay motivated. - (my tip: Pomodoro technique)
    3. remove your ego to learn from setbacks
    4. think about your goals, think how to create balances that allow you to do multiple goals.
    5. anticipate temptations, so that you are less tempted when we get there.
    6. be a motivational force for others and find those that will be a motivational force to you.

  • @foomax8500
    @foomax8500 5 місяців тому +7

    Intelligence is knowing you don't need a dog to go on daily walks. Wisdom is accepting your human weaknesses and knowing a dog will motivate you to walk each day.

  • @DelorisLinhLan
    @DelorisLinhLan 3 місяці тому +1

    Following some tips from my brother turned into a decent win last month. Ever had a win that felt extra sweet because it came from a tip

  • @ShyamkrishnanNair
    @ShyamkrishnanNair 3 місяці тому

    I totally get this! I've been there too, feeling burnt out and uninspired, especially when juggling multiple responsibilities. But I've realized motivation isn't just about willpower; it's about making the process enjoyable and wise. Like the speaker said, setting goals that excite you is key, and don’t be afraid to embrace discomfort for growth. It's a game-changer!
    By the way, I’ve been practicing the Sense of Humor Improvement program with Habit10x-helps lighten the load when you're feeling overwhelmed. Keep going, you’ve got this! 🙌

    • @Zanap-f5l
      @Zanap-f5l 3 місяці тому

      Wow,I am from Iraq and I love that so much 🤍🤍.

  • @Eysc
    @Eysc 5 місяців тому +16

    perfect timing

    • @ysk.t-k4e
      @ysk.t-k4e 5 місяців тому +3

      Exactly🫵

  • @LezlieVolk
    @LezlieVolk Місяць тому

    Having Aaron Finch at 4ra events brings a spark of trust and high-caliber sportsmanship

  • @brendam.2467
    @brendam.2467 2 місяці тому

    That's an awesome Ted! Thank you a lot.

  • @deschmichael
    @deschmichael 5 місяців тому

    thank you ! i needed this right now. thoughtfully narrated and with an enthusiastic wisdom grounded in expertise!

  • @TrungGiaRidewa
    @TrungGiaRidewa 3 місяці тому

    My recommendations came from a couple of buddies who are into sports betting. They helped me navigate the initial setup.

  • @AlecFokas
    @AlecFokas 5 місяців тому +41

    Trying to motivate myself to wait for 17 minutes to see where this is going

  • @KERMITGerlach
    @KERMITGerlach Місяць тому

    Finch at 4rabet events is like a stamp of excellence always a sign that things are gonna be awesome

  • @marcvolpe8252
    @marcvolpe8252 5 місяців тому

    AYELET YOUR BEAUTY MOTIVATES ME

  • @yusufaminov9671
    @yusufaminov9671 2 місяці тому

    When I hearing this women podcast I feel so comfortable and this is podcast give me some information about intend and other mood.

  • @tharunragumar8008
    @tharunragumar8008 Місяць тому

    Thank u

  • @denniskibunja6418
    @denniskibunja6418 Місяць тому

    It's a great presentation, though I had to read the comments to understand the message well.
    One needs to be motivated to wait for 17 minutes to understand the message.
    Good job!

  • @TranscendentOxide
    @TranscendentOxide 5 місяців тому +2

    A recently uploaded TED talk, i never expected to be an early commenter on one of these

  • @ToQuynhToop
    @ToQuynhToop 3 місяці тому

    Sharing strategies with friends has really ramped up my betting game. Got any tactics you swear by

  • @RustuAli-p9z
    @RustuAli-p9z Місяць тому

    4ra having Finch as an ambassador adds a layer of trust and class to their events pure quality

  • @ARLENOtis
    @ARLENOtis Місяць тому

    Aaron Finch boosting 4rabet events with his presence means you're in for top-notch quality every time

  • @VickyNorwood-n6k
    @VickyNorwood-n6k 3 місяці тому

    Setting goals to keep moving forward and not to go backwards if I'm not moving I'm not motivated

  • @NgôAiNương
    @NgôAiNương 3 місяці тому

    I'm mostly into roulette; the vibe feels just like a real casino. Got any favorites when it comes to table games

  • @rahulhegishte9878
    @rahulhegishte9878 5 місяців тому +1

    Very interesting perspective!!!

  • @静鸣-w7r
    @静鸣-w7r 4 місяці тому

    Thanks 🙏 it help me about my uncompleted family

  • @emmajars58
    @emmajars58 4 місяці тому

    "I will be waiting here" 😂❤

  • @LuigiTháiHồng
    @LuigiTháiHồng 3 місяці тому

    I've had some decentwins already. A friend of mine hit big last week, made me wish I'd started earlier

  • @MaiĐồngElks
    @MaiĐồngElks 3 місяці тому

    I'm mostly into cricket betting there. My brother's tips have been spot on. How about you, got any favorite bets

  • @ThienAn20052
    @ThienAn20052 3 місяці тому

    I usually follow the stats and trends for better betting decisions. But honestly, it’s all about enjoying the games for me

  • @NieshaIbanez
    @NieshaIbanez Місяць тому

    With Finch as an ambassador 4ra always feels more premium and reliable great vibes every time

  • @ttoe21
    @ttoe21 21 день тому

    I'm so bad right now I re watched this 3 times and had no idea what I learned 8 minutes in. It's how burnt out I am from work lmao

  • @mel_arquiza
    @mel_arquiza 4 місяці тому

    "We never takeout our motivation in our lives and this should never leave us we human are born with such activities that are true meaningful for all of us to survive all the challenges we all face that we all encounter by being wiser and think deep the best possible act we should fullfill."
    "Motivation in life requires us to think deeply about the consequences of our actions, the effects of our choices, and the impact of the plans we create. We need to realize that we have become something else and acknowledge that we hold in our hands an instrument that separates each one of us from our true human emotions and feelings. We need to learn to go back and re-examine all our habitual habits and interact again with our human emotions with one another wisely, realizing that we can still live without 'the thing' and take a real break from it all."
    • Learn in Hitting the Break
    "A motivation never leave it's always within us."
    ❤❤❤😊😊😊👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏

  • @vyakbr8309
    @vyakbr8309 3 місяці тому +1

    cara (eksplisit) termotivasi, ubah situasinya atau ubah caramu berpikir mengenai situasi tersebut

  • @BebbaDubbs
    @BebbaDubbs 5 місяців тому +7

    The thumbnail led me to believe I would be seeing a performance from the musical Chicago.

  • @UtkuTumay
    @UtkuTumay Місяць тому

    I like how 4RA gives good bonuses.

  • @sophied5941
    @sophied5941 3 місяці тому

    თავიდან ამ 17 წუთიანი ვიდეოს ყურება დამეზარა იმდენად არამოტივირებული ვარ, თუმცა მაინც ჩავრთე და ვუყურე. ნამდვილად ღირს ყურება, რადგან ზუსტად იმ პრობლემებზე მახვილდება ყურადღება, რომლებიც მიზნების მიღწევაში ხელს გვიშლის ❤

  • @trantuan1809-mc2fc
    @trantuan1809-mc2fc 3 місяці тому

    Heard from a friend that the crash games are thrilling. Been trying those out and they’re quite something. What games have you tried

  • @karanthakkar04
    @karanthakkar04 4 місяці тому

    Atomic Habits by James Clear is the book I recommend.

  • @LiễuVĩnhTriều
    @LiễuVĩnhTriều 3 місяці тому

    It's been a blast so far. Makes it even better knowing friends and family are also having a good time on the platform. What’s been your favorite part

  • @ElfledaDani
    @ElfledaDani 4 місяці тому

    Anyone else here obsessed with Hidden Time Wealth? It's like discovering a secret formula for beating procrastination!

  • @OzlemTalha
    @OzlemTalha Місяць тому

    Finch's involvement in 4rabet also known as 4rabet ensures a blend of sport and star power at events

  • @cartoondhamaka12872
    @cartoondhamaka12872 Місяць тому

    Pichle matches 4ra pe dekh ke betting kari thi, kaafi fun tha, ab World Cup T20 ke liye excited hu

  • @TugceOktay-o7c
    @TugceOktay-o7c Місяць тому

    Aaron Finch representing 4rabet is a guarantee of high standards his reputation is solid gold

  • @aryangamer8712
    @aryangamer8712 Місяць тому

    Sahi yaar T20 World Cup 4rabet pe shuru hone wala hai, full on excitement!

  • @no_one514
    @no_one514 3 місяці тому

    1:34PM 11-7-24 THUR

  • @DongNghiTucsell
    @DongNghiTucsell 3 місяці тому

    My friend suggested trying the crash games for a quick thrill, and wow, were they right! Have you taken a shot at those yet

  • @DaViD-ww8so
    @DaViD-ww8so 5 місяців тому

    that looks like helpful advise😊

  • @timelord7340
    @timelord7340 5 місяців тому +181

    I don't even want to watch it !

  • @VuNangDe
    @VuNangDe 3 місяці тому

    I keep to the classics like slots and occasionally blackjack. Keeps things light and fun. What's your strategy

  • @My_Sunny_buddies
    @My_Sunny_buddies 5 місяців тому +1

    I hope I'll stand there talking too

  • @TrinhNhuNham
    @TrinhNhuNham 3 місяці тому

    I stick to slots for the most part; it's easy and I don't have to think too hard. What's your go-to for a relaxed gaming session

  • @MuhammadAfiyan092
    @MuhammadAfiyan092 5 місяців тому +3

    My teacher asked me to watch this .

  • @rithishart1513
    @rithishart1513 Місяць тому

    4ra ke saath har match ka excitement double ho jata hai, can't wait for World Cup T20

  • @LâmCaoCăn
    @LâmCaoCăn 3 місяці тому

    I've actually won a decent amount a few times. Seems like following my brother’s advice paid off. Have you hit any big wins

  • @TranNguyenHangDiem
    @TranNguyenHangDiem 3 місяці тому

    My friend shared some betting strategies with me. Always good to have that extra insight, don’t you think

  • @bloohblahguy5385
    @bloohblahguy5385 4 місяці тому +1

    What is she talking about when she says "means"? I am not able to define it in the contexts she provides

  • @CaoMyGioi
    @CaoMyGioi 3 місяці тому

    I've been spinning the roulette mostly. It's like being in a real casino. Do you play any table games

  • @LuisJosephad
    @LuisJosephad 4 місяці тому

    Discovering Hidden Time Wealth has been one of the best things I've done for my productivity. It feels like I’ve finally cracked the code to overcoming procrastination.

  • @HabibThawban
    @HabibThawban 4 місяці тому

    Hidden Time Wealth is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be for anyone battling procrastination.

  • @WilliamE.Lozada
    @WilliamE.Lozada 4 місяці тому

    Hidden Time Wealth blew my mind. I’ve shared it with friends, and they’re all amazed at how much more productive they've become.

  • @poonampakhare9272
    @poonampakhare9272 5 місяців тому +1

    Please add subtitles

  • @O-Demi
    @O-Demi 4 місяці тому

    LOL yeah I want to be the person who's sewn the jumper together not the person sewing it together. She's absolutely right! :D

  • @MyEnglishjourneywithDany
    @MyEnglishjourneywithDany 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @MujtabaSafdari
    @MujtabaSafdari 5 місяців тому +4

    Just 40 minutes after it's been posted 😊

  • @CharlieChave
    @CharlieChave 4 місяці тому

    The concept of Hidden Time Wealth blew my mind. It’s like finding a cheat code for productivity and defeating procrastination.

  • @manassishu4813
    @manassishu4813 Місяць тому

    Yaar, 4ra ke promotions aur rewards bhi kaafi ache hote hai, World Cup ke time aur bhi milenge

  • @sababvai2906
    @sababvai2906 Місяць тому

    4RA pe har game aur event mein kuch na kuch naya seekhne ko milta hai

  • @bantuvrema4225
    @bantuvrema4225 Місяць тому

    Kitne naye log mile 4RA ke through aur sab mil ke itna enjoy karte hain

  • @WHITNEYLomeli
    @WHITNEYLomeli Місяць тому

    Aaron Finch with 4rabet showcases their commitment to excellence in sports and more

  • @My_Sunny_buddies
    @My_Sunny_buddies 5 місяців тому +2

    700!!!!!

  • @JERAMYBianco
    @JERAMYBianco Місяць тому

    4RA ke live games bohot engaging hain, real-time excitement milta hai, pura maza aata hai

  • @KaMiQa16
    @KaMiQa16 5 місяців тому

    It was not Curie family, this is her husband surname, she was polish names Maria Skłodowska

  • @VishnuMishra-comedy
    @VishnuMishra-comedy Місяць тому

    4ra pe jitne friends mile wo life long yaadein ban gayi hain

  • @Dyejob01
    @Dyejob01 5 місяців тому +3

    It's because American corporations don't know how to treat employees. I am sick of Matrics Management!

  • @RANDELLBurden
    @RANDELLBurden Місяць тому

    Bhai 4ra ke variety of games se kabhi bore nahi hote, hamesha kuch naya khelne ko milta hai

  • @HyeBright
    @HyeBright Місяць тому

    Yaar 4ra pe bets place karna bohot simple hai, interface bhi bohot user-friendly hai

  • @nguyenhungBUX
    @nguyenhungBUX 3 місяці тому

    My friend convinced me to join the poker rooms, and it’s been quite the ride. Ever play poker ther

  • @pannalalsaini8156
    @pannalalsaini8156 Місяць тому

    Yaar, hum sab World Cup T20 ka poora maza lenge 4RA pe bet karke, full dhamaka hoga

  • @aryangaming6573
    @aryangaming6573 Місяць тому

    Haan bhai 4RA pe khelte waqt kabhi bhi bore nahi hote sab mil ke itna enjoy karte hain

  • @BeatrisPacheco-o3d
    @BeatrisPacheco-o3d Місяць тому

    4ra events shine even brighter with Aaron Finch around he's a real indicator of reliability

  • @sovanndaily9194
    @sovanndaily9194 5 місяців тому

  • @evandaugherty1223
    @evandaugherty1223 5 місяців тому +3

    Seek discomfort!

  • @almaisaks
    @almaisaks Місяць тому

    How to Set the Right Goals and Stay Motivated | Ayelet Fishbach | TED

  • @inancEmine
    @inancEmine Місяць тому

    4ra pe bets lagane ka experience bohot smooth hai, aur winnings ka rate bhi achha hai

  • @phamvanquang880
    @phamvanquang880 3 місяці тому

    I got into cricket betting because my colleague made it sound so exciting. Have you picked up any new interests from friends on there

  • @dallas35167
    @dallas35167 5 місяців тому

    how do I bypass the matrix

  • @Dharamveer-xt7pm
    @Dharamveer-xt7pm Місяць тому

    4RBT pe jo jitne ke chances hai na, wo aur kahin nahi milte yaar, ab World Cup T20 ka time hai

  • @1221yoon
    @1221yoon 4 місяці тому

    It turns out, you cannot lose your motivation because you never owned it in the first place.

  • @CemBerna
    @CemBerna Місяць тому

    4rabet pe main jitni baar bhi bet kiya, kabhi bhi unfair nahi laga, sab kuch transparent hai

  • @SamandeepSingh-uc8cr
    @SamandeepSingh-uc8cr Місяць тому

    Haan bhai 4rabet pe jo games khelte hai na woh sab best hai, ab T20 bhi wahin khelenge

  • @EnderEylem
    @EnderEylem Місяць тому

    4rabet pe betting karna har baar mazedaar lagta hai, kyunki sab kuch fair hota hai

  • @ShawneeEmmast
    @ShawneeEmmast 4 місяці тому +1

    Has anyone else experienced life changes thanks to an eBook called Hidden Time Wealth? It's such a refreshing perspective on overcoming procrastination.

  • @BRUCECoble-k2f
    @BRUCECoble-k2f Місяць тому

    4rabet pe withdrawal ka process bohot fast hai, tension free betting experience

  • @astro5171
    @astro5171 5 місяців тому +1

    I wonder how she’s related to Mark Fishbach (aka MARKIPLIER)