I'm sensing a theme here lol..... I understand these stories very well, divorcing my Filipina wife next week. Turns out women don't know what they want and when you do give them what they want (house,car, financial security), its never enough haha. Guys don't bring your foreign wife back to the states, it'll corrupt them.
The states didn’t corrupt her, you probably took her to the states and isolated her instead of getting her involved in the Filipino community and you being with her step by step, then you have to lift her to get a degree and or skill to be able to strive, trust me your support will not go in-noticed, share time energy and compassion with her, take trips back to the Philippines and don’t just bring her and expect her to be your housemaid. So don’t blame the states blame yourself
@@MAGICJ23 Don’t give me that. I brought my wife from the Philippines as a fiancée, then married her. We shared household chores equally. I paid for her Philippine university transcript to be evaluated, worked with her on interviewing skills, and helped her land a high paying professional job as an accountant. We took two trips together back to the Philippines to visit her family, and she went once alone for her grandmother’s funeral. I always encouraged her to have Filipina friends, and do anything she wanted. I paid for all her immigration needs, as well as her US citizenship. But once she became a citizen, she didn’t need me anymore, and left me for some good looking military guy, at the encouragement of her Filipina friends. Once in the US, she definitely was corrupted by US culture, and was transformed into just another American skank.
I brought my wife from the Philippines as a fiancée, then married her. We shared household chores equally. I paid for her Philippine university transcript to be evaluated, worked with her on interviewing skills, and helped her land a high paying professional job as an accountant. We took two trips together back to the Philippines to visit her family, and she went once alone for her grandmother’s funeral. I always encouraged her to have Filipina friends, and do anything she wanted. I paid for all her immigration needs, as well as her US citizenship. But once she became a citizen, she didn’t need me anymore, and left me for some good looking military guy, at the encouragement of her Filipina friends. Once in the US, she definitely was corrupted by US culture, and was transformed into just another American skank.
Women: "I want a man who is 6'4", $200,000 salary, mountain of muscle, sit with me while watching my shows and not judge me on my looks." Men: "Ok." Men: "I want a woman who is slender, feminine..." (interrupted by women) Women: "You misogynist, racist, homophobe, anti-trans, ray-pihst!".
True words of wisdom, Scotty Boy! My mom took my dad to the cleaners before, during, and after their marriage. My Mom got custody of me and my two sisters and My Dad faithfully paid child support and alamony throughout. My sisters, much older than me, went on to graduate university for which my Dad footed most of the bill. They of course went on to becoming man hating feminists. My Mom, to my Dad's nievete, was a lesbian man hater also. And she loved ME so much (not really), she sent me to Military School for half my childhood. Dad footed the bill for that too. My mom was by far the tougher of the two because she had the capacity and the willingness to be ruthless. My Mom was a real beauty in her day but sadly, Dad was a SIMP. She could sweet talk him and he would fall for it. Be brutally mean and he would crumble. But I'll tell you this, his love for us was strong and REAL. That I will never forget. My Mom's was not, though she did have a lot of guilt in her later years about how she treated me. Too late Mom. But I'm glad I'm heterosexual even though I've had a LOT of lessons to learn about women.
Your Dad might’ve been a SIMP. However, it takes strength and resilience to be a good person. It’s easy to be bad because there’s no weight to carry. No one taught your Dad to set boundaries and never drew the line of what needs to be respected. I do not know your Dad but these are my sum up based on what on your story
My wife (filipina) was here already (Europa), She was very sweet,caring and hot. Everything a man can ask for. I would say, she isn´t corrupted over the last 17 years, but she has changed. In some ways she is still very much a Filipina, but in others very adapted to the west, sometimes i even forgets that shes a filipina. Shes much more a Filipina when we are in the Philippines, more caring and attentive (more time, due to no work ). We had ups and downs, but she never quits, even when she got citizenship here, when i was unemployed and we where low on money.
@@grumpymcgrump5822 Yes she is, when situation was quite bad and we had more than normal fights?, i was able to slowly change her way. I said to her, instead of spending all our time and energy on fighting?. Then start to use that time and energy to improve our situation. Slowly she started to change, we started a business together, situation got better, then the business got competition and we had to something, then we got our break, we where offert to buy another business, i saw, it realy was a great chance. if we tried, it was a bit run down, but if customers return it could be great. We bought it and startet, it was hard the first 6 month, but then it continued to get better. When she saw, i was right, i could run that business (with her help), that we earned good money, her respect for me increased again. Now after 7 years, we sold the business and dont need to work again. we would return to the philippines at least 50% of the year.
Congratulations on your ability to turn everything around and achieve success! I'll be moving to Valencia from Southwest Florida this year. Best wishes to you both!
@@frank5436 Thanks, Dumaguete area is also something we (I) have in mind, i saw some great places for hire. the question is if we just plan to stay half of the year ? what about the house, we could end it and just rent another, when we are back. But then what about all that crap you/we collect, or if the rent is not to high, we could just keep it and let someone watch it. I would like to Keep out health cover we have here and also some minor income (that you lose if you move out of the country compleatly). We would like a place, not to far from the sea and a nice mall, a place where you easy can travel to other parts of Phils, where you can buy Imported food or have international restaurants. We have a house in Phils, but its inland, and it takes hours to go to the beach 😞 and a part of the lot is used for family business 😞. wish you well in the Phils
I stayed at a 4 star resort in Mexico last month for a week and by weeks end I had become accustomed to daily maid service, spotless gardens and gourmet meals. In other words my expectations had been raised in that short period of time, the same thing happens to your Filipina when you raise her up. After five years she will complain about stuff she never dreamed of having.
Same here in South America, my long term gf complains about our 3 bedroom 2 bath apartment 3 blocks from the mall. She grew up on the banks of the Amazon river with basically nothing until she was a teenager and moved to a city to find work herself. No toilet paper (no toilets even) no potable water no electricity no telephones and most of the time they struggled to even have clothes soap to wash clothes not to mention food and other things we consider necessities (toothpaste, deodorant, bar soap, etc.) . It doesn't take much time for them to become accustomed and entitled and think they deserve everything and more that you can provide.
The key lesson here is don't change her. If you want a highly educated woman in your home country, get a highly educated woman in your home country. Bringing a woman from a traditional background to your country and showering her with goods and opportunities she could only dream of back there, and thinking she'll stay the same, is nonsense.
The key lessons is to be realistic and properly vet a potential long term partner. Dudes find a hot Filipina and they lose all sense of logic. They aren't being realistic and miss all the red flags. They find a hottie in her 20s. The dude is 15 plus years older with average or below average looks, and lives in the middle of nowhere USA. They barely date, get married and it doesn't turn out well. Shocking.
My last girlfriend I took to Myrtle Beach with me on my vacation. She wasnt working at the time but I felt she deserved to get away for a week. Stayed at a resort on the beach. Paid for everything, took her shopping while there. Did everything she wanted to do no questions asked. Took my very low mileage vehicle so we could sight see. How did she treat me you ask? Well, she did nothing but complain on our way to Gatlinburg, TN. Figured it would be nice to stay there a few days on our way back home. She pretty much made it clear she didnt want to be with me any more. I vacationed the next month in St. Petersburg, FL. First night there I stopped by a strip club. She texts me a photo of a false pregnancy test while there while texting me she was so glad because couldnt stand it if we had a kid together. I decided to show the stripper that was trying to get a drink out of me and she was like, WTF? The ex texted me the whole time while I was on vacation there, it was like she just wanted to ruin my whole vacation. And that is one of many reasons why American do not interest me any more. And western women wonder why passport bros exist.
Those passport bros are going to ruin everything, if they start tipping like in America or Canada, making those women expect more, and want more. while they are happy not with a few pesos, they will expect more because you can give more.
I hear ya on that, bro. These American women are not even attractive to me anymore. I have the Philippines in my sights..already got my passport. Got money. Once there will never get into a relationship. Only friends. And definitely will never bring a filipina back to the USA because once I get my money right I plan on staying in the Philippines permanently.
@@elgancho9638 always see these vloggers going around in asia, giving store people massive amounts of money or giant tips. SMH maybe they think it makes them look nice, but it is corrupting these locals to expect that from all foreigners, then when you go there you get charged extra foreigner price
My mom was a farmer,s daughter, onions. She was raised in a small village, still under 1,000 people now. She moved to London in 1949, right out of high school. Found a job with Bell Canada for 12 years before she met my dad. Dad was born and raised in Scarborough, Toronto, joined the army at 18 and met my mom when he was posted to Wolseley Barracks (1RCR ) in London. They married, mom was happy to be a housewife for good but it did not work out that way. Elite driven inflation, corruption, the game, forced my mom and many mothers back to work. That is when the term ( DINKS ) came into existence and others. It is even worse now, women are expected to work, share bills and and men do housework. We are all kept more busy and distracted. The phone makers love it. They advertise to kids, who do the selling for them. Parents are forced to buy the kid a phone just to keep track of them, so many are too busy trying to make ends meet. This now exposes very young kids to the dangers of the internet, one example of our de-evolving society. That is why I, for one, want to meet east with west via inter-marriage or just simply retirement in a beautiful, maganda land, where your money stretches 4-5x farther, on average. Pretty simple math there. The west created much of the economic imbalance in the world today. However, we as individuals can join together to try to improve the balance just a little bit each, in our individual ways. Yada, yada, yada Scotty! Excellent content and informative and well presented my friend.
u say the West created the economic imbalances of today.....If ure talking Third world countries ,Hundreds of millions of their people are better off financially BECAUSE of the west
I brought my Filipina wife back to U.S. on fiancé visa about a year after starting relationship marred her here, I had been in two long term 10year relationships with American women prior to meeting my wife,first one ended when the girl decided join the army and came back home from basic training with a husband somehow, completely blindsided never seen it coming. So after a few years started seeing another girl she goes on vacation for two weeks visit family out of state returns home with a husband OMG! I’ve already seen this movie once didn’t like it the first time, that’s when decided I need to look as far away as possible from where I was at,happily married 23 years now to someone who appreciates the life I have given her
Women like the nagging one from the first story are the reason men seek companionship abroad.... my filipina gf is just happy to spend time with me, whatever we do😁 Of course it doesn't mean she never is moody but overall a much better time with my young attractive pinay than any older Canadian women my age ( I'm 49).
I was raised to do the little things that will make the world a better place to live. Not overly altruistic, just keeping enough for myself to improve my life, and spreading just enough to enlighten those close to me. This doesn’t always involve money.
Reality sucks but the truth will set you free lol. My Thai wife, she was 18 when I met her and I was 39. Paid for her education, lazek, her braces, computers, android phone apple phone and blackberry phone (thai ppl have a fascination with phones) She eventually had an affair and I am totally guilty of lifting a skank up. Lesson learned, never getting married. Just gf's and no supporting and buying shit anymore. Love your stories because its keeping it real.
Tom Lykus 101 flash Friday radio Jockey said never buy them a boob job or shower them with spoils or they will leave you. And it sounds like these women are going the same way as the American attitude. Blow me up Tom, take me out.
If you never marry her and are tyrannical about it, she'll be unhappy but remain loyal. Marry her and she'll be unhappy AND unfaithful. At least get the loyalty out of the deal.
That's exactly why, I NEVER planned to meet n bring my Filipina back to the states....Learned long ago, the high risk of them getting "Westernized" and ruint lol Heard the stories years ago, even my Filipina physical therapist told me stories. Her n hubby both lived in the states for years. She said " yes, don't bring one here, they end up connecting with other filipinos n the chismiss starts". They teach her that here she is "richer" and she can divorce you and get half of your stuff" story lol. Told her, well my plan is to retire here in Phil's, and STAY here!! My hunny does not ever wanna go back to the states. 👍
You're preaching to the choir! I'm on my second marriage, and so far, (15+ years), things are going great. She is a Filipina from the provinces, and is only 23 years younger than me. Now while living here in the Philippines, we do tip. We consider it a "Kano tax". But on the super-duper rare occasion where we get crappy service, we do NOT tip. I HATE that many places in the West now automatically include a tip on the bill.
I can relate to the egg shell mom - my mom had 8 children and she would say that she was nauseated and had migraines for 20 years. My childhood was somewhere in the middle of that 20 years - I just wanted to get away from her as soon as possible and at 18 I took off like a bolt of lightning and didn't look back. She was a whole different person when I caught back up with her 10 years later -very likable and lovable, but before that - holly shit, if she raised her hand for any reason I flinched, recoiled or did a backflip to make distance - this would always make her suspicious of me as if I was admitting guilt of something - hell I was just trying avoid another surprise attack .
My girl here in Colombia keeps hinting that she wants to be bf/gf and married one day. We get along so well that sometimes it sounds like a good idea. But stories like this help keep me in check. 🙏 PS I feel like you're me but from the future lol only difference is the country of choice 🇨🇴
@@treeamigo8447 I'm currently in Cali but I usually stay in Medellín. Overall I like Medellín better but there's alooot of good things about Cali too. There are too many things I like but I'll say the weather/people/food are a bit better than Medellín
I ran into an older Filipina through my work years ago. I started talking about the Philippines with her and she asked how i knew so much. I said i had a Filipina girlfriend online. She warned me that if i brought her to the U.S. that she would change. She said the young girls get wild when they come to the U.S. Her words. I suspected this before. But having this come from someone that had much more experience made me change my mind. She may be a simple Filipina. But putting anyone in a different culture could absolutely change their perspective or aspirations. The guy will not know until it is too late.
Hey Bro, I totally agree about the Tipping, and over paying when you are purchasing stuff. A vendor says these slippers are worth 100 pesos and you give him 200 because you feel bad. Next time when he sees a gringo he will raise his price and charge him 200 and hope he will get a tip as well. That kind of action will just the raise the price for all of us. I think if you want to give, find a charity or someone in real need of help and help them out.
You get what most guys your age and older never get till it's too late. And your video vividly made a powerful point and was very relevant to your subject. All in all, a winning audio-visual with a very constructive insightful message.
It’s how you stack against other men. That’s it. If you’re a high value asset in the Philippines then your woman will stay true. If you’re a low value asset in the west, expect to lose them. Women wait at the finish line for winners, they struggle with long term investments if it’s not always wins. It’s that simple
Like a lawyer friend of mine said, 100% of the time, women that have their husbands pay for their plastic surgery leave. Once she looks better and has more options she will leave. Never has a woman with plastic surgery getting divorce was she not the one initiating the divorce.
I’m catching up on your previous videos 😊. For what it’s worth my 2 cents an open mind…I think or believe the biggest issue has been “ social media “ and pop culture, for many reasons why but Moreorless a keeping up with the Jones. So much has drastically changed with the internet. But forget all of that…there is something so special about having a great home life, whatever that dynamic might be…making holiday memories, cooking food, hobbies, campfires but I would think or * hope * most women would love to still lead in those activities because we love giving to our family and making special memories whether small or large. My mom was like that and this is why I’ve always felt more at home with Puerto Rican or Filipino girlfriends. Time together not on the internet. I would agree that so much has changed between men and women but there still are many girls/women out there that are hopeful for a peaceful life with memories. ❤
Ahhh yes and the “ walking on eggshells “ is no fun for anyone. 6:51. Life is just so short…it’s just so important to not be upset but appreciate the now and future.
13:03 I’ve never wanted a bag…in fact I was made fun of for carrying my items in a plastic bag for so long. And that’s ok because in the long run, I saved and now at peace with that. I bought a Walmart bag for 10 dollars it lasted me a long time.
Great stories, thank you! I’m surprised myself that nurturing has taken a backburner. I do not hunk there are still some that have that character trait and always will in their lifetime. There is nothing wrong with nurturing no matter what has changed, live life. Be you.
Improve your life, f-me. I have done everything in my life based on having an enjoyable experience. My relationships with women are the same way, only I try my best to make it so they are better off in their lives having experienced a relationship with me. I don’t necessarily lift her up-pay the price, but I do things like helping them overcome fears and insecurities. I introduce them to new experiences they wouldn’t otherwise have. I have taught American girlfriends how to swim, surf, shoot guns, ride motorcycles, and believe it or not…. Cook. Some of my ex’s took the breakup very hard. A few got violent. Most are amicable separations and we still communicate today even after 30+ years. In the latter part of my life, I have exclusively dated Filipinas here in the PI and have picked up the same life experience habits. The Filipina can do more with that small improvement in their life than a western woman. They are also much more grateful. No matter where you are, if you improve a woman’s life situation and have a good time, it makes the sex much more enjoyable. You get out what you put in.
I totally agree with this. Just add to it a strong sense of "outcome independence", (a la Caleb Jones), and I think you have a winning approach to life.
Until she has what she wants, and the sex faucet is shut down because she feels she does not have to put out to get anything anymore. At least a good prostitute understands the dynamics of the man woman relationship and you will get what you pay for. 🤣🤣🤣
True, true! And as far as tips go I never understood the whole thing, why would you like to pay MORE for something that costs less :))) really if you want to express appreciation you say Good job or you did an amazing service, you can recommend them to some of your friends and so on, but why throw money at them, so then the next time they will expect more...
This commentary makes so much sense. Science in simple words. When it comes to tipping - yes, I remember when generous guys where living 10% and cheap ones less than that. Now all the prices went up, so the tipping automatically has increased. But no - these days if you leave a 15% tip, you are getting a dirty look from a waiter. Some machines are set up for automatic minimum 20% tip. You can lower it manually, but... where is the limit?
Great stories Scotty, like you I always try to raise them up as I like cowgirl. You gotta raise them up from time to time as their legs get a little tired !!! Thanks Scotty boy. You’re the best and soooo damn funny.
Hello, everyone. I married an Eastern European and live in her country. You may ask what this has to do with the Philippines. I wanted to console you because at least you don't have language problems and maybe that is why many people have relationships with Filipino women. In my case language is the biggest problem. My wife has learned my language but otherwise I feel like an idiot.
Ukraine has wonderful traditional women. Just google up the ones who are enlisted voluntarily. Anyway, Ukrainians are not conscripting, they have more volunteers then they can use.
What you say is correct. I was very stupid, I fell for a philippina who was young and pretty. She looked like a raven haired, slim asian dream princes, but I later discovered that she did not have much else to bring to the marriage. I brought her back to the west and we married. I got her a permanent redidency, put her little brother through collage, brought her father on two visits to the west, her familly a number of trips to Boracay, bought her land, house and a car in the Philippines and so on. In the last few years bought a house back here as well. A decade after we got married she moved out and tried to rob me blind economically. I think she had met some other guy. But what you have lifted up, might fall down again. My ex got a big chunk of cash (5+ million peos), I payed off all her loans, she got the land, house and car in the philippines and she emptied everything new and of value from the house while I was at work. But she had to sign papers that she no longer has any economically claims on me. She has a bachelors degree but are lazy and almost do not work, sooner or later she will run out of cash. At the same time, I was struggling for over a decade to earn enough to support her (and helping her familly & some relatives), and at the end I managed to land myself a good and well paying management position. I am not sad at all. The divorce finalized december 2022, I earn really good, now I have huge loans but they are costing me way less then my ex did (and the loans will be out of my life when I have paied them off). And I am no longer economacally responsible for a lazy and nagging woman who now do not have either inner or outer beauty. The only thing I did not work out is that we married in the Philippines as well. What would happen if I travel to the Philippines while divorced in the west, but still married in the Philippines? Is there something bad my ex could do legally to me if I visit the Philippines?
You can show the government in the Phils your divorce papers from the US and they will process it as if you two are now divorced. The key is a full, US divorce being completed. Use a lawyer in the phils for assistance prolly, and you're good to go. Nice escape, and I fully agree, she'll overreach her position and be in the shyt right soon.
In theory splitting everything 50/50 is completely logical and fair. Women always want equality, right? That's the most equal you can get in a relationship. But it normally doesn't work out that way.
I was just in PI and now I’m Thailand. I run in to tourists and expats who all expressed how their ex wife’s took them to the cleaners. I am 50, never been married and have no kids. My question is where is the happy medium?
Be "outcome independent". Marry, buy try to arrange your life in such a way that if she decides to nuke the marriage, you aren't financially/emotionally/physically ruined. Yeah I know ...... not the easiest thing to set up, but if you work at it, you can do it.
Tipping: a problem in PI is workers aren't paid much. There can be a lot of fluidity in staff (people jumping to the next offer) and so a constant lack of competency in a job. Tipping may help keep good staff around places you like. I tip Grab drivers because I want them to come running when I call.
I saw you on Marc’s channel today. It was a good interview hearing all about Marc and his cruise ship days. Oh wait, this was supposed to be about you. Well, you knew what you were getting. At least he stuck around this time. Love your channel by the way.
You are not only the king of comedy you are the king of thumbnails, I learned many videos ago that no thumbnail is in the video, but still like your style
Love the content. Moving to the Philippines myself in a few months. Thanks for all the solid info about what to expect. Yes, am single and looking for relationship. May have found the one after many months on PinaLove; it's a long story as you can imagine. Could do a whole episode on the dating app thing. I'm sure you have. Cannot wait to get in Country. Totally agree with you about the relationship dynamic stuff. Worst mistake appears to be bringing Filipinas to North America. You, being Canadian, are naturally very polite about it. I would say that Western culture is poisoned in that regard and that life in the Philippines is closer to what we evolved to deal with. I am literally counting the days until I move, and in my heart I am already there. Thank you so much for your work. It is much appreciated. :)
Like the way you tell stories….it takes a certain person to make them enjoyable….kinda like some people are good at telling jokes while others are not….
Speaking as a western man married to a lovely Filipina I honestly have no issue with her pursuing her career, my lovely wife is well educated and young. I’ve only ever asked her to not become a “career woman”, I’m still the primary breadwinner in this marriage. If there’s overtime that needs to be put in, that’s my responsibility and it’s honestly nice having two incomes coming in. We’ve only been married 3.5 years so far and it’s going very well!
A Coworker brought his Pinay and her 8yo daughter here to the US. She was a College Professor in the Phils. 10 years later, she worked part-time as a Substitute teacher, would only drive a Lexus, had built "Them" a retirement house in the Phils, and her family moved right in. They sold the house to her brother, who paid the first half of the agreed price, then didn't pay another penny. But he found his life mate, so I guess it's all good!🤣🤣🤣
i had a buddy marry a foreign woman (twice..ha!) His first wife was Thai. He met her online, married her, brought her back to the US (Seattle). ~4-5 years later she gets her green card, starts going back home on visits, meets a german airline pilot and stays with him in Thailand (my buddy and her get divorced). His second wife was from Vietnam. He met her online, married her, brought her back to the US (Seattle). ~4-5 years later she gets her green card and starts getting wild (staying out late, meeting other guys). My buddy and her get divorced. My buddy was a nice, middle of the road type guy. not rich and handsome but not bad either. He gave them both good lifestyles here in the US. After his experiences, I know better now (not to get married!). hahaha
Male/Female , greed ,materialistic attitudes , authoritarian, control, it's all the same, been a decent human being, and love, true love is about, the inner humanity respect and admiration for who we are and the choice to continue the act of love.
Scotty boy you're onto something here man my favorite time in radio was Opie n Anthony was on terrestrial radio it was more fun having to interpret what they were really describing !!! When they went to satellite it flopped for most guys when they could say anything
For anyone not in the know (and also to those of you who are)..... Think of it as you (probably a regular, working type individual) just winning the Powerball. It's your first day with 200 million in the ol bank account.... FIRST DAY! What are you gonna do? Answer: go crazy! Ok, we all say we'd be responsible with it, sure.... But we're talking about 200 million after taxes here! You'd be lying if you say you wouldn't even give yourself a single day to just splurge like crazy and buy all the stupid crap you've ever wanted! That's exactly how it is with these pinays! Their dad works as a fisherman for someone else who owns a boat (so he's not making hardly anything), their mom slaves away at the sewing machine for 10 hrs a day just to earn $5. It was a struggle to get them all the way through high school (and they possibly didn't make it all the way due to financial restraints). They've never owned a shirt that costs more than $1 before, they've never owned more than 2 pairs of shoes (house slippers and maybe some tennis shoes). They feel lucky when they eat more than once a day, they grew up in a bamboo hut and may or may not have had running water and/or electricity and/or an indoor toilet. These are a lot of the types of girls we're talking about here. Now, you come in and maybe feel a little bad for them or whatever, despite the fact they were actually pretty happy with their life before you came along (believe it or not), and you start doing things like dropping $20 on a single shirt for them, $100 brand new tennis shoes, $20/person meals at restaurants, etc. To you it's nothing crazy, just some nice little treats to show your appreciation for them. To them they feel like they just became the 1% overnight! I don't care who you are, that kind of overnight riches (relatively speaking) messes with your head. A girl who has never had more than 2 pairs of shoes at the same time, and never paid more than $5 for any of them, all of a sudden is rocking some authentic $100+ Nikes. That would be like you overnight upgrading from the trusty ol 2011 Camry sitting out in the driveway to a brand new Aventador SV. It's GONNA mess with your head! Just like ol Scotty boy here, I'm not advocating you keep your Pinay down! But absolutely be careful! Don't spoil her! And reevaluate your definition of "luxury."
My X wife died and I was attending the funeral eulogy, the nice priest said some kind words and said now they can be finally closed, after the funeral I asked the priest what he meant, he said her legs.
Nice Video, I have similar Experience. Now Next girl Form Philippinen Village and keep her wehr she is. Two German girls i help to Grow. It was my bin mistake.
@@Regular_Guyph I think womens are mysteriöse but aktuelly Not positive way. They Like Domination until end, it is exosting to canterol Partner.. I Love your Chanel and you 🥂❤️
2 people in a relationship is a power struggle, in most cases this is the natural order, win and it's resented loose and your as soft touch that gets kick to the curb, equality is a fleeting myth.
My Filipina wife divorced me: Supported her $200-300 mon 1.5 yr $10k process I worked 2 jobs Gave her 2 sons Took her 5 yr daughter own Helped her very sick Sent $ her family Citizenship Not enough! She left me. Hired female attorney. She said I manipulated her.
Scottyboy I have to ask, where do you get the vides from that you put your voice over to? Did you create the video walking around the different locations yourself? Keep up the good work.
I made my gf finish High School, she didn't want to. She made good friends, had a good time. Now she has some basics for a job. College? Maybe not, too much stress for me!
Before I came down to the comments section I just knew there were going to be 500 paragraphs all telling slightly different versions of the same story, just like this video. Great video. Sad but true.
I'm sensing a theme here lol..... I understand these stories very well, divorcing my Filipina wife next week. Turns out women don't know what they want and when you do give them what they want (house,car, financial security), its never enough haha. Guys don't bring your foreign wife back to the states, it'll corrupt them.
precisely
Food for thought Ryan!
The states didn’t corrupt her, you probably took her to the states and isolated her instead of getting her involved in the Filipino community and you being with her step by step, then you have to lift her to get a degree and or skill to be able to strive, trust me your support will not go in-noticed, share time energy and compassion with her, take trips back to the Philippines and don’t just bring her and expect her to be your housemaid. So don’t blame the states blame yourself
@@MAGICJ23 thank you for the fan fiction!
@@MAGICJ23 Don’t give me that. I brought my wife from the Philippines as a fiancée, then married her. We shared household chores equally. I paid for her Philippine university transcript to be evaluated, worked with her on interviewing skills, and helped her land a high paying professional job as an accountant. We took two trips together back to the Philippines to visit her family, and she went once alone for her grandmother’s funeral. I always encouraged her to have Filipina friends, and do anything she wanted. I paid for all her immigration needs, as well as her US citizenship. But once she became a citizen, she didn’t need me anymore, and left me for some good looking military guy, at the encouragement of her Filipina friends. Once in the US, she definitely was corrupted by US culture, and was transformed into just another American skank.
I brought my wife from the Philippines as a fiancée, then married her. We shared household chores equally. I paid for her Philippine university transcript to be evaluated, worked with her on interviewing skills, and helped her land a high paying professional job as an accountant. We took two trips together back to the Philippines to visit her family, and she went once alone for her grandmother’s funeral. I always encouraged her to have Filipina friends, and do anything she wanted. I paid for all her immigration needs, as well as her US citizenship. But once she became a citizen, she didn’t need me anymore, and left me for some good looking military guy, at the encouragement of her Filipina friends. Once in the US, she definitely was corrupted by US culture, and was transformed into just another American skank.
Corrupted? Skank?
Oh, no, sir!
She did exactly what she was supposed to do.
She just behaved as a woman!
Don't be wrong or you will fall again.
Woooow , whaaat
Or, possibly, she could have been planning that all along, just saying.
Sorry to hear that, man. Do you notice you're still blaming others on her actions.
Tapping that throughout has to be sufficient compensation. So you manage your spend and it’s all good.
Women: "I want a man who is 6'4", $200,000 salary, mountain of muscle, sit with me while watching my shows and not judge me on my looks."
Men: "Ok."
Men: "I want a woman who is slender, feminine..." (interrupted by women)
Women: "You misogynist, racist, homophobe, anti-trans, ray-pihst!".
Nailed it!👍👍👍
Give her a chance to upgrade her life, you also give her a chance to upgrade from you too!
True words of wisdom, Scotty Boy! My mom took my dad to the cleaners before, during, and after their marriage. My Mom got custody of me and my two sisters and My Dad faithfully paid child support and alamony throughout. My sisters, much older than me, went on to graduate university for which my Dad footed most of the bill. They of course went on to becoming man hating feminists. My Mom, to my Dad's nievete, was a lesbian man hater also. And she loved ME so much (not really), she sent me to Military School for half my childhood. Dad footed the bill for that too. My mom was by far the tougher of the two because she had the capacity and the willingness to be ruthless. My Mom was a real beauty in her day but sadly, Dad was a SIMP. She could sweet talk him and he would fall for it. Be brutally mean and he would crumble. But I'll tell you this, his love for us was strong and REAL. That I will never forget. My Mom's was not, though she did have a lot of guilt in her later years about how she treated me. Too late Mom. But I'm glad I'm heterosexual even though I've had a LOT of lessons to learn about women.
Wow.... So sad to hear that Amigo.
Thanks for sharing your story my friend.
God bless and have a great day.
same thing with my mom and dad, I feel you brother.
Kudos to your Dad. Even though he was a simp, he took care of his kids and wife.
Your Dad might’ve been a SIMP. However, it takes strength and resilience to be a good person. It’s easy to be bad because there’s no weight to carry.
No one taught your Dad to set boundaries and never drew the line of what needs to be respected. I do not know your Dad but these are my sum up based on what on your story
My wife (filipina) was here already (Europa), She was very sweet,caring and hot. Everything a man can ask for. I would say, she isn´t corrupted over the last 17 years, but she has changed. In some ways she is still very much a Filipina, but in others very adapted to the west, sometimes i even forgets that shes a filipina. Shes much more a Filipina when we are in the Philippines, more caring and attentive (more time, due to no work ). We had ups and downs, but she never quits, even when she got citizenship here, when i was unemployed and we where low on money.
She sounds like very good woman. It's difficult to not let your surroundings corrupt you, so she deserves credit for that.
@@grumpymcgrump5822 Yes she is, when situation was quite bad and we had more than normal fights?, i was able to slowly change her way. I said to her, instead of spending all our time and energy on fighting?. Then start to use that time and energy to improve our situation. Slowly she started to change, we started a business together, situation got better, then the business got competition and we had to something, then we got our break, we where offert to buy another business, i saw, it realy was a great chance. if we tried, it was a bit run down, but if customers return it could be great. We bought it and startet, it was hard the first 6 month, but then it continued to get better. When she saw, i was right, i could run that business (with her help), that we earned good money, her respect for me increased again. Now after 7 years, we sold the business and dont need to work again. we would return to the philippines at least 50% of the year.
Congratulations on your ability to turn everything around and achieve success! I'll be moving to Valencia from Southwest Florida this year. Best wishes to you both!
@@frank5436 Thanks, Dumaguete area is also something we (I) have in mind, i saw some great places for hire. the question is if we just plan to stay half of the year ? what about the house, we could end it and just rent another, when we are back. But then what about all that crap you/we collect, or if the rent is not to high, we could just keep it and let someone watch it. I would like to Keep out health cover we have here and also some minor income (that you lose if you move out of the country compleatly). We would like a place, not to far from the sea and a nice mall, a place where you easy can travel to other parts of Phils, where you can buy Imported food or have international restaurants. We have a house in Phils, but its inland, and it takes hours to go to the beach 😞 and a part of the lot is used for family business 😞. wish you well in the Phils
I stayed at a 4 star resort in Mexico last month for a week and by weeks end I had become accustomed to daily maid service, spotless gardens and gourmet meals. In other words my expectations had been raised in that short period of time, the same thing happens to your Filipina when you raise her up. After five years she will complain about stuff she never dreamed of having.
Same here in South America, my long term gf complains about our 3 bedroom 2 bath apartment 3 blocks from the mall. She grew up on the banks of the Amazon river with basically nothing until she was a teenager and moved to a city to find work herself. No toilet paper (no toilets even) no potable water no electricity no telephones and most of the time they struggled to even have clothes soap to wash clothes not to mention food and other things we consider necessities (toothpaste, deodorant, bar soap, etc.) . It doesn't take much time for them to become accustomed and entitled and think they deserve everything and more that you can provide.
The key lesson here is don't change her. If you want a highly educated woman in your home country, get a highly educated woman in your home country. Bringing a woman from a traditional background to your country and showering her with goods and opportunities she could only dream of back there, and thinking she'll stay the same, is nonsense.
I agree. Statistics shows they change after a while.
The key lessons is to be realistic and properly vet a potential long term partner. Dudes find a hot Filipina and they lose all sense of logic. They aren't being realistic and miss all the red flags. They find a hottie in her 20s. The dude is 15 plus years older with average or below average looks, and lives in the middle of nowhere USA. They barely date, get married and it doesn't turn out well. Shocking.
When my gf/wife pays half the bills, then I'll do half the chores!
Good attitude !!
My last girlfriend I took to Myrtle Beach with me on my vacation. She wasnt working at the time but I felt she deserved to get away for a week. Stayed at a resort on the beach. Paid for everything, took her shopping while there. Did everything she wanted to do no questions asked. Took my very low mileage vehicle so we could sight see. How did she treat me you ask?
Well, she did nothing but complain on our way to Gatlinburg, TN. Figured it would be nice to stay there a few days on our way back home. She pretty much made it clear she didnt want to be with me any more. I vacationed the next month in St. Petersburg, FL. First night there I stopped by a strip club. She texts me a photo of a false pregnancy test while there while texting me she was so glad because couldnt stand it if we had a kid together. I decided to show the stripper that was trying to get a drink out of me and she was like, WTF? The ex texted me the whole time while I was on vacation there, it was like she just wanted to ruin my whole vacation. And that is one of many reasons why American do not interest me any more. And western women wonder why passport bros exist.
Those passport bros are going to ruin everything, if they start tipping like in America or Canada, making those women expect more, and want more. while they are happy not with a few pesos, they will expect more because you can give more.
I hear ya on that, bro. These American women are not even attractive to me anymore. I have the Philippines in my sights..already got my passport. Got money. Once there will never get into a relationship. Only friends. And definitely will never bring a filipina back to the USA because once I get my money right I plan on staying in the Philippines permanently.
And you did not block her because ..... ?
@@grumpymcgrump5822 I eventually changed my number when I got back from vacation. But yes, I should have just blocked her right away.
@@elgancho9638 always see these vloggers going around in asia, giving store people massive amounts of money or giant tips. SMH maybe they think it makes them look nice, but it is corrupting these locals to expect that from all foreigners, then when you go there you get charged extra foreigner price
My mom was a farmer,s daughter, onions. She was raised in a small village, still under 1,000 people now. She moved to London in 1949, right out of high school. Found a job with Bell Canada for 12 years before she met my dad. Dad was born and raised in Scarborough, Toronto, joined the army at 18 and met my mom when he was posted to Wolseley Barracks (1RCR ) in London. They married, mom was happy to be a housewife for good but it did not work out that way. Elite driven inflation, corruption, the game, forced my mom and many mothers back to work. That is when the term ( DINKS ) came into existence and others. It is even worse now, women are expected to work, share bills and and men do housework. We are all kept more busy and distracted. The phone makers love it. They advertise to kids, who do the selling for them. Parents are forced to buy the kid a phone just to keep track of them, so many are too busy trying to make ends meet. This now exposes very young kids to the dangers of the internet, one example of our de-evolving society. That is why I, for one, want to meet east with west via inter-marriage or just simply retirement in a beautiful, maganda land, where your money stretches 4-5x farther, on average. Pretty simple math there. The west created much of the economic imbalance in the world today. However, we as individuals can join together to try to improve the balance just a little bit each, in our individual ways. Yada, yada, yada Scotty! Excellent content and informative and well presented my friend.
Great insight!
Thank you.
Very well put my friend.
Thank you my friend, very kind sir!
u say the West created the economic imbalances of today.....If ure talking Third world countries ,Hundreds of millions of their people are better off financially BECAUSE of the west
I brought my Filipina wife back to U.S. on fiancé visa about a year after starting relationship marred her here, I had been in two long term 10year relationships with American women prior to meeting my wife,first one ended when the girl decided join the army and came back home from basic training with a husband somehow, completely blindsided never seen it coming. So after a few years started seeing another girl she goes on vacation for two weeks visit family out of state returns home with a husband OMG! I’ve already seen this movie once didn’t like it the first time, that’s when decided I need to look as far away as possible from where I was at,happily married 23 years now to someone who appreciates the life I have given her
You got a good one. Cherish her!
@@grumpymcgrump5822 without a doubt living best time in life, and find it amusing that the two that left me are now miserable 😂
@@jenbill there's some justice in that
@@Zack9k absolutely what at the time felt like a disaster actually turned into the best thing that could happen
Sounds like you dodged 2 long-term bullets that might have killed you had you kept them. Congrats!
“We are forcing a change that was never meant to be!” You are right my friend!
Yes it's the truth. But it's ok Mother Nature will always get it's way at the end
I was Married to a Filipina. THEY CHANGE once they moe to another Country! Truth is the truth!
move to another Country.
Yes I've heard that
Did you divorce
yes@@Regular_Guyph
You are killing me here with so much reality with Filipina relationships!
Reality is quite a thing sometimes!
Women like the nagging one from the first story are the reason men seek companionship abroad.... my filipina gf is just happy to spend time with me, whatever we do😁 Of course it doesn't mean she never is moody but overall a much better time with my young attractive pinay than any older Canadian women my age ( I'm 49).
I was raised to do the little things that will make the world a better place to live. Not overly altruistic, just keeping enough for myself to improve my life, and spreading just enough to enlighten those close to me. This doesn’t always involve money.
Reality sucks but the truth will set you free lol. My Thai wife, she was 18 when I met her and I was 39. Paid for her education, lazek, her braces, computers, android phone apple phone and blackberry phone (thai ppl have a fascination with phones) She eventually had an affair and I am totally guilty of lifting a skank up. Lesson learned, never getting married. Just gf's and no supporting and buying shit anymore. Love your stories because its keeping it real.
Hard lesson
Why would an 18 year old be attracted to a 39 year old?
@@snuscaboose1942 because we ae successful and have money. Easy quesion... next?
@@franklincaramonte7081 How did that work out for you?
Tom Lykus 101 flash Friday radio Jockey said never buy them a boob job or shower them with spoils or they will leave you. And it sounds like these women are going the same way as the American attitude. Blow me up Tom, take me out.
If you never marry her and are tyrannical about it, she'll be unhappy but remain loyal. Marry her and she'll be unhappy AND unfaithful. At least get the loyalty out of the deal.
You seriously have a great talent for storytelling 👍
That's exactly why, I NEVER planned to meet n bring my Filipina back to the states....Learned long ago, the high risk of them getting "Westernized" and ruint lol
Heard the stories years ago, even my Filipina physical therapist told me stories. Her n hubby both lived in the states for years. She said " yes, don't bring one here, they end up connecting with other filipinos n the chismiss starts". They teach her that here she is "richer" and she can divorce you and get half of your stuff" story lol.
Told her, well my plan is to retire here in Phil's, and STAY here!! My hunny does not ever wanna go back to the states. 👍
Smart.
You're preaching to the choir!
I'm on my second marriage, and so far, (15+ years), things are going great. She is a Filipina from the provinces, and is only 23 years younger than me.
Now while living here in the Philippines, we do tip. We consider it a "Kano tax". But on the super-duper rare occasion where we get crappy service, we do NOT tip. I HATE that many places in the West now automatically include a tip on the bill.
Na you are confusing the USA with the rest of the world. Mandatory tip scam is only an American thing.
I can relate to the egg shell mom - my mom had 8 children and she would say that she was nauseated and had migraines for 20 years. My childhood was somewhere in the middle of that 20 years - I just wanted to get away from her as soon as possible and at 18 I took off like a bolt of lightning and didn't look back. She was a whole different person when I caught back up with her 10 years later -very likable and lovable, but before that - holly shit, if she raised her hand for any reason I flinched, recoiled or did a backflip to make distance - this would always make her suspicious of me as if I was admitting guilt of something - hell I was just trying avoid another surprise attack .
My girl here in Colombia keeps hinting that she wants to be bf/gf and married one day. We get along so well that sometimes it sounds like a good idea. But stories like this help keep me in check. 🙏
PS I feel like you're me but from the future lol only difference is the country of choice 🇨🇴
How'd you meet her?
What city and how do you like it down there?
Im going to Bogota in April. Any advice?
@@kingmelanin7468 latín cupid. You have to pay for it and it's still not easy to find a good girl, but at least the effort you put in gets you results
@@treeamigo8447 I'm currently in Cali but I usually stay in Medellín. Overall I like Medellín better but there's alooot of good things about Cali too. There are too many things I like but I'll say the weather/people/food are a bit better than Medellín
Yes, yes, yes! Lift them up! They deserve everything and more. You must pay! You must! You!
I ran into an older Filipina through my work years ago. I started talking about the Philippines with her and she asked how i knew so much. I said i had a Filipina girlfriend online. She warned me that if i brought her to the U.S. that she would change. She said the young girls get wild when they come to the U.S. Her words. I suspected this before. But having this come from someone that had much more experience made me change my mind. She may be a simple Filipina. But putting anyone in a different culture could absolutely change their perspective or aspirations. The guy will not know until it is too late.
Hey Bro, I totally agree about the Tipping, and over paying when you are purchasing stuff. A vendor says these slippers are worth 100 pesos and you give him 200 because you feel bad. Next time when he sees a gringo he will raise his price and charge him 200 and hope he will get a tip as well. That kind of action will just the raise the price for all of us. I think if you want to give, find a charity or someone in real need of help and help them out.
Once you take a woman serious you loose
Amen!!
The Regular Guy, speaking TRUTH!...keep up the great content Sir!
You get what most guys your age and older never get till it's too late. And your video vividly made a powerful point and was very relevant to your subject.
All in all, a winning audio-visual with a very constructive insightful message.
Keep up the Great Story Telling ✊🏾🖤
It’s how you stack against other men. That’s it. If you’re a high value asset in the Philippines then your woman will stay true. If you’re a low value asset in the west, expect to lose them. Women wait at the finish line for winners, they struggle with long term investments if it’s not always wins. It’s that simple
If your gf/wife isn't *scared* of losing you, then you don't have a gf/wife. And that's just the start.
Interesting stories Scotty Boy! Thanks for sharing.
Never take the lotus from the jungle
Good advice
Brilliant 🔥
Like a lawyer friend of mine said, 100% of the time, women that have their husbands pay for their plastic surgery leave. Once she looks better and has more options she will leave. Never has a woman with plastic surgery getting divorce was she not the one initiating the divorce.
A wise old man once told me if you buy your wife boobs they're not for you!
My humble experience
I’m catching up on your previous videos 😊. For what it’s worth my 2 cents an open mind…I think or believe the biggest issue has been “ social media “ and pop culture, for many reasons why but Moreorless a keeping up with the Jones. So much has drastically changed with the internet. But forget all of that…there is something so special about having a great home life, whatever that dynamic might be…making holiday memories, cooking food, hobbies, campfires but I would think or * hope * most women would love to still lead in those activities because we love giving to our family and making special memories whether small or large. My mom was like that and this is why I’ve always felt more at home with Puerto Rican or Filipino girlfriends. Time together not on the internet. I would agree that so much has changed between men and women but there still are many girls/women out there that are hopeful for a peaceful life with memories. ❤
And*
Ahhh yes and the “ walking on eggshells “ is no fun for anyone. 6:51. Life is just so short…it’s just so important to not be upset but appreciate the now and future.
13:03 I’ve never wanted a bag…in fact I was made fun of for carrying my items in a plastic bag for so long. And that’s ok because in the long run, I saved and now at peace with that. I bought a Walmart bag for 10 dollars it lasted me a long time.
Exactly 30:06 and seeing smile on someone’s face knowing you did well is great!
Great stories, thank you! I’m surprised myself that nurturing has taken a backburner. I do not hunk there are still some that have that character trait and always will in their lifetime. There is nothing wrong with nurturing no matter what has changed, live life. Be you.
Improve your life, f-me.
I have done everything in my life based on having an enjoyable experience. My relationships with women are the same way, only I try my best to make it so they are better off in their lives having experienced a relationship with me. I don’t necessarily lift her up-pay the price, but I do things like helping them overcome fears and insecurities. I introduce them to new experiences they wouldn’t otherwise have. I have taught American girlfriends how to swim, surf, shoot guns, ride motorcycles, and believe it or not…. Cook. Some of my ex’s took the breakup very hard. A few got violent. Most are amicable separations and we still communicate today even after 30+ years. In the latter part of my life, I have exclusively dated Filipinas here in the PI and have picked up the same life experience habits. The Filipina can do more with that small improvement in their life than a western woman. They are also much more grateful. No matter where you are, if you improve a woman’s life situation and have a good time, it makes the sex much more enjoyable. You get out what you put in.
I totally agree with this. Just add to it a strong sense of "outcome independence", (a la Caleb Jones), and I think you have a winning approach to life.
Until she has what she wants, and the sex faucet is shut down because she feels she does not have to put out to get anything anymore. At least a good prostitute understands the dynamics of the man woman relationship and you will get what you pay for. 🤣🤣🤣
True, true! And as far as tips go I never understood the whole thing, why would you like to pay MORE for something that costs less :))) really if you want to express appreciation you say Good job or you did an amazing service, you can recommend them to some of your friends and so on, but why throw money at them, so then the next time they will expect more...
This commentary makes so much sense. Science in simple words.
When it comes to tipping - yes, I remember when generous guys where living 10% and cheap ones less than that. Now all the prices went up, so the tipping automatically has increased. But no - these days if you leave a 15% tip, you are getting a dirty look from a waiter. Some machines are set up for automatic minimum 20% tip. You can lower it manually, but... where is the limit?
I have lived on Leyte four years. My advise is stay in the Philippines with your Filipina.
Oh yeah! I'm looking forward to watching this one! Right up my alley as you know! Thanks Broseph!
Another great video ! Thanks for the stories. Lifting ends up bad most of the time. Reminds me of the wishful thinking from Paul as well.
Great stories Scotty, like you I always try to raise them up as I like cowgirl. You gotta raise them up from time to time as their legs get a little tired !!! Thanks Scotty boy. You’re the best and soooo damn funny.
Prenup! Prenup! Prenup! This is what I have learned in my lifetime and I am passing that idea on to my sons!
You have a very funny way of telling interesting stories. Don't stop. lol
If plan A is don't get married you don't need to have a plan B.
Hello, everyone. I married an Eastern European and live in her country. You may ask what this has to do with the Philippines. I wanted to console you because at least you don't have language problems and maybe that is why many people have relationships with Filipino women. In my case language is the biggest problem. My wife has learned my language but otherwise I feel like an idiot.
I'm confused if equality is the way why in Ukraine are men of fighting age not allowed to leave, but the women can?
Male privilege.
Ukraine has wonderful traditional women. Just google up the ones who are enlisted voluntarily. Anyway, Ukrainians are not conscripting, they have more volunteers then they can use.
@Cameron Rogers OK, then why is it hard for the men to leave?
Scotty Boy great video...
Thanks for sharing buddy.
You are getting fast and more subscribers than Gio in the Philippines, Paul in the Paul in the Philippines, Every Man Has A story nad other Expats!!!
Hey it makes me happy bcuz I can keep doing this
What you say is correct. I was very stupid, I fell for a philippina who was young and pretty. She looked like a raven haired, slim asian dream princes, but I later discovered that she did not have much else to bring to the marriage. I brought her back to the west and we married. I got her a permanent redidency, put her little brother through collage, brought her father on two visits to the west, her familly a number of trips to Boracay, bought her land, house and a car in the Philippines and so on. In the last few years bought a house back here as well. A decade after we got married she moved out and tried to rob me blind economically. I think she had met some other guy.
But what you have lifted up, might fall down again. My ex got a big chunk of cash (5+ million peos), I payed off all her loans, she got the land, house and car in the philippines and she emptied everything new and of value from the house while I was at work. But she had to sign papers that she no longer has any economically claims on me. She has a bachelors degree but are lazy and almost do not work, sooner or later she will run out of cash. At the same time, I was struggling for over a decade to earn enough to support her (and helping her familly & some relatives), and at the end I managed to land myself a good and well paying management position.
I am not sad at all. The divorce finalized december 2022, I earn really good, now I have huge loans but they are costing me way less then my ex did (and the loans will be out of my life when I have paied them off). And I am no longer economacally responsible for a lazy and nagging woman who now do not have either inner or outer beauty.
The only thing I did not work out is that we married in the Philippines as well. What would happen if I travel to the Philippines while divorced in the west, but still married in the Philippines? Is there something bad my ex could do legally to me if I visit the Philippines?
You can show the government in the Phils your divorce papers from the US and they will process it as if you two are now divorced. The key is a full, US divorce being completed. Use a lawyer in the phils for assistance prolly, and you're good to go. Nice escape, and I fully agree, she'll overreach her position and be in the shyt right soon.
Thanks for the story. Really makes you think, listen and keep your eyes wide open
Ya....a women's loyalty lasts as long as you are her best option
The secret to a happy and blissful marriage is to marry a deaf mute, communication is highly overrated and never an argument!
In theory splitting everything 50/50 is completely logical and fair. Women always want equality, right? That's the most equal you can get in a relationship. But it normally doesn't work out that way.
Great storys and excellent advice
I was just in PI and now I’m Thailand. I run in to tourists and expats who all expressed how their ex wife’s took them to the cleaners. I am 50, never been married and have no kids. My question is where is the happy medium?
Be "outcome independent". Marry, buy try to arrange your life in such a way that if she decides to nuke the marriage, you aren't financially/emotionally/physically ruined. Yeah I know ...... not the easiest thing to set up, but if you work at it, you can do it.
Just rent women
Thank you for posting this footage. If this is how 90% of Filipinos live. It's no wonder they want out of this poverty.
Awesome 👏
Always a positive message ;) Trontonian here 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
Tipping: a problem in PI is workers aren't paid much. There can be a lot of fluidity in staff (people jumping to the next offer) and so a constant lack of competency in a job. Tipping may help keep good staff around places you like. I tip Grab drivers because I want them to come running when I call.
I saw you on Marc’s channel today. It was a good interview hearing all about Marc and his cruise ship days. Oh wait, this was supposed to be about you. Well, you knew what you were getting. At least he stuck around this time. Love your channel by the way.
You are not only the king of comedy you are the king of thumbnails, I learned many videos ago that no thumbnail is in the video, but still like your style
Great work SCOtty Boy👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Love the content. Moving to the Philippines myself in a few months. Thanks for all the solid info about what to expect. Yes, am single and looking for relationship. May have found the one after many months on PinaLove; it's a long story as you can imagine. Could do a whole episode on the dating app thing. I'm sure you have. Cannot wait to get in Country. Totally agree with you about the relationship dynamic stuff. Worst mistake appears to be bringing Filipinas to North America. You, being Canadian, are naturally very polite about it. I would say that Western culture is poisoned in that regard and that life in the Philippines is closer to what we evolved to deal with. I am literally counting the days until I move, and in my heart I am already there. Thank you so much for your work. It is much appreciated. :)
Like the way you tell stories….it takes a certain person to make them enjoyable….kinda like some people are good at telling jokes while others are not….
another person could tell this stories and it would be boring, It's good content, but also has great delivery.
Speaking as a western man married to a lovely Filipina I honestly have no issue with her pursuing her career, my lovely wife is well educated and young.
I’ve only ever asked her to not become a “career woman”, I’m still the primary breadwinner in this marriage.
If there’s overtime that needs to be put in, that’s my responsibility and it’s honestly nice having two incomes coming in.
We’ve only been married 3.5 years so far and it’s going very well!
A Coworker brought his Pinay and her 8yo daughter here to the US. She was a College Professor in the Phils. 10 years later, she worked part-time as a Substitute teacher, would only drive a Lexus, had built "Them" a retirement house in the Phils, and her family moved right in. They sold the house to her brother, who paid the first half of the agreed price, then didn't pay another penny. But he found his life mate, so I guess it's all good!🤣🤣🤣
Scotty Boy rationalizing why he’s a single guy. It’s all good! I do it all the time.
Good topic , great content...thank you! Made me realized my pass relationship
Love it! Good stories
i had a buddy marry a foreign woman (twice..ha!)
His first wife was Thai. He met her online, married her, brought her back to the US (Seattle). ~4-5 years later she gets her green card, starts going back home on visits, meets a german airline pilot and stays with him in Thailand (my buddy and her get divorced).
His second wife was from Vietnam. He met her online, married her, brought her back to the US (Seattle). ~4-5 years later she gets her green card and starts getting wild (staying out late, meeting other guys). My buddy and her get divorced.
My buddy was a nice, middle of the road type guy. not rich and handsome but not bad either. He gave them both good lifestyles here in the US.
After his experiences, I know better now (not to get married!). hahaha
Male/Female , greed ,materialistic attitudes , authoritarian, control, it's all the same, been a decent human being, and love, true love is about, the inner humanity respect and admiration for who we are and the choice to continue the act of love.
DUDE. HOW DID I EVER MISS YOU. YOU ARE BEST OF ALL PHIL SHOWS PUT TOGETHER
hi dave did we just find each other?
@@Regular_Guyph - So happy I just found your show last night. Your stories ROCK
Scotty boy you're onto something here man my favorite time in radio was Opie n Anthony was on terrestrial radio it was more fun having to interpret what they were really describing !!! When they went to satellite it flopped for most guys when they could say anything
For anyone not in the know (and also to those of you who are).....
Think of it as you (probably a regular, working type individual) just winning the Powerball. It's your first day with 200 million in the ol bank account.... FIRST DAY! What are you gonna do?
Answer: go crazy!
Ok, we all say we'd be responsible with it, sure.... But we're talking about 200 million after taxes here! You'd be lying if you say you wouldn't even give yourself a single day to just splurge like crazy and buy all the stupid crap you've ever wanted!
That's exactly how it is with these pinays! Their dad works as a fisherman for someone else who owns a boat (so he's not making hardly anything), their mom slaves away at the sewing machine for 10 hrs a day just to earn $5. It was a struggle to get them all the way through high school (and they possibly didn't make it all the way due to financial restraints). They've never owned a shirt that costs more than $1 before, they've never owned more than 2 pairs of shoes (house slippers and maybe some tennis shoes). They feel lucky when they eat more than once a day, they grew up in a bamboo hut and may or may not have had running water and/or electricity and/or an indoor toilet. These are a lot of the types of girls we're talking about here.
Now, you come in and maybe feel a little bad for them or whatever, despite the fact they were actually pretty happy with their life before you came along (believe it or not), and you start doing things like dropping $20 on a single shirt for them, $100 brand new tennis shoes, $20/person meals at restaurants, etc. To you it's nothing crazy, just some nice little treats to show your appreciation for them. To them they feel like they just became the 1% overnight!
I don't care who you are, that kind of overnight riches (relatively speaking) messes with your head. A girl who has never had more than 2 pairs of shoes at the same time, and never paid more than $5 for any of them, all of a sudden is rocking some authentic $100+ Nikes. That would be like you overnight upgrading from the trusty ol 2011 Camry sitting out in the driveway to a brand new Aventador SV. It's GONNA mess with your head!
Just like ol Scotty boy here, I'm not advocating you keep your Pinay down! But absolutely be careful! Don't spoil her! And reevaluate your definition of "luxury."
My X wife died and I was attending the funeral eulogy, the nice priest said some kind words and said now they can be finally closed, after the funeral I asked the priest what he meant, he said her legs.
Good and practical advice! 💯
Sometimes we all need to become selfish and think of ourselves
Yes I agree
I enjoy listening to your humour and so true.
Wooooow , what a good video. Especially about tipping. Thank you man.
People tipping more while over there are running it for others coming after them.
Nice Video, I have similar Experience. Now Next girl Form Philippinen Village and keep her wehr she is. Two German girls i help to Grow. It was my bin mistake.
i just don't understand why women do this.
@@Regular_Guyph I think womens are mysteriöse but aktuelly Not positive way. They Like Domination until end, it is exosting to canterol Partner..
I Love your Chanel and you 🥂❤️
@@sudhirjoshi6466 thank you Sudhir my good friend
Thanks for the stories. Tipping is indeed BS and just a way for restaurants to pay people less money, you are 100% correct on that one.
You’re really outdid yourself with this one Scotty outstanding
2 people in a relationship is a power struggle, in most cases this is the natural order, win and it's resented loose and your as soft touch that gets kick to the curb, equality is a fleeting myth.
Stay Ssavage men. Work on yourselves and women aren't the priority today. They really want what you can provide for them.
A video of a recycling garbage dump lol . Thanks for another great story 😊
it's an honor sir
Is this his footage walking around or just footage he finds online?
@@Regular_Guyph I like your stories but I admit I don't get the angle. You like philipinnes but don't like the women?
@@lttraveler2458 the objective is the story. The visual is not important.
@@Regular_Guyph It's like going on a walk with you and listen to you talk, great video and content!
My Filipina wife divorced me:
Supported her $200-300 mon 1.5 yr
$10k process
I worked 2 jobs
Gave her 2 sons
Took her 5 yr daughter own
Helped her very sick
Sent $ her family
Citizenship
Not enough! She left me. Hired female attorney. She said I manipulated her.
Women are a tricky breed.
Bitter pill to swallow. You are better off without her.
The magic words:
"Manipulated"
"Abusive"
Lift up my baberoonie!!!! Great sarcasm!
Comedic Gold Scotty.
Thanks
Like the O’l saying goes
“ There’s nothing more expensive than free poontang”
Hahah I will remember that
Love this
Scottyboy I have to ask, where do you get the vides from that you put your voice over to? Did you create the video walking around the different locations yourself? Keep up the good work.
I made my gf finish High School, she didn't want to. She made good friends, had a good time. Now she has some basics for a job. College? Maybe not, too much stress for me!
Amazing advice😁👏👏👏👏👏
Great video and how true. We must lift up our women and do everything to make them happy!! Lol
The mum wouldn't get the paperwork to get her kid to Canada without the Dad's permission.
Great topic...I certainly hope this got thru to some.
Before I came down to the comments section I just knew there were going to be 500 paragraphs all telling slightly different versions of the same story, just like this video. Great video. Sad but true.
I was alive back then (1950s) and yes, there was a lot of complaining and unfairness regarding women and ethnic minorities.
your best vid ever! tks for the heads up! brilliant story teller really found your spot there Scotty boy