5 Signs He Is Wasting Your Time

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  • @Theenrichmentlab
    @Theenrichmentlab 3 роки тому +490

    1. Inconsistency
    2. He says; let's go with the flow.
    3. He asks for relationship benefits without commitment.
    4. He is not willing to invest his time and money.
    5. You will not know where you stand with him.
    Run honey, RUN!!🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @charmainekapishe4177
    @charmainekapishe4177 3 роки тому +137

    Thank you. Now I can leave this stupid relationship peacefully without any regrets and doubt

  • @marthakerubo5541
    @marthakerubo5541 2 роки тому +50

    Im wasting my time ...let me block Him now..Thank you bro I hear it well

  • @amisiad1746
    @amisiad1746 2 роки тому +11

    This was hard to watch but very honest and needed. Truth hurts. Thank you and God Bless.

  • @ChikaInsights
    @ChikaInsights 3 роки тому +100

    You can say that again and again bro. This message is an 👁️ opener to many women out there who wasting their time thinking they can change a man to be what they want. God bless you

    • @mapulas145
      @mapulas145 2 роки тому +1

      I thank bro I was lost

  • @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
    @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 3 роки тому +123

    I give these men the exact same energy they give me PERIOD. If they get ghost, I'm ghost and block their ass. If they stop texting and calling, guess what? I stop texting and calling. Game recognize game all day long!

  • @user-rr9ei1dw1p
    @user-rr9ei1dw1p 2 роки тому +2

    I've been on that kind of relationship hoping that it will work . And guess what? He dumbed me like nothing has never happened. And you message gave closure that he wasn't there to stay.

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 3 роки тому +15

    When someone shows you who they are the first 🧭believe him..

  • @teespy88
    @teespy88 3 роки тому +37

    Ladies, don’t do it don’t give in to this foolishness of men. If a guy is not giving you time and what you deserve, when it doesn’t work there is no love lost, pack your mental bag and save yourself for the real man coming your way.

  • @rahmatusaidu9465
    @rahmatusaidu9465 3 роки тому +13

    u are very right, if someone loves you he/she will just try to make things right. no forcing

  • @1042firegirl
    @1042firegirl 2 роки тому +7

    This is as relevant after many years in a relationship as it is at the beginning. Well done sir, perfect perspective!

  • @SquishyGreenieTurtle
    @SquishyGreenieTurtle 3 роки тому +31

    Thank you, I think I needed to hear this "He is just not into you".

  • @trendy_tv4299
    @trendy_tv4299 3 роки тому +37

    Was in a relationship I gave it all wanted to get the energy back as mine 🥺damn I'm no longer in need of love again I'm chasing the bag love will one day find me 🥺this video just hit it right 👊

    • @ruuuruusamsr1891
      @ruuuruusamsr1891 2 роки тому +2

      Your comment hit it right … I want the bag , love dey find me later

    • @trendy_tv4299
      @trendy_tv4299 2 роки тому

      @@ruuuruusamsr1891 all the best

  • @sally2542
    @sally2542 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks a lot for this information.this is the reason why I dumped the idiot who was wasting my time thinking that he loves me only to find out that his intentions was to use my body but he had no future with me.the guy could call me only when he's in need of love .i saw red flags so fast and I decided to walk out

  • @Mindful.Movement.01
    @Mindful.Movement.01 3 роки тому +51

    Ladies learn how to serial date to offset disappointments and get rid of expectations not being met by these dusties so when they do play these games you already 10 steps ahead and the only time he wasting is his own #jokeisonhim

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  3 роки тому +3

      This is a topic in itself.
      Should people date one at a time or multiple people at the same time?

    • @Mindful.Movement.01
      @Mindful.Movement.01 3 роки тому +3

      @@Josh_LoveTalk I would love to hear you speak about this. Eventhough I am not dating at the moment serial dating in a sense help me protect my peace and sanity lol 😂 and have fun doing it without any “benefits” at all and when I was doing this imma tell you .. well imma just say this lol 😂 it ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 3 роки тому +29

    Eye opener
    Best and true
    Make right choices
    Love is nt easy
    Better choice, best life

  • @daisyrachel5227
    @daisyrachel5227 2 роки тому +15

    I wish I could give you the whole world brother, this message save(d) many women out there suffering emotionally
    A big thumbs up👍

  • @immaculatefon3323
    @immaculatefon3323 3 роки тому +2

    Perfect. I give u what u give me and that's it if not I block u period and move on. No need to be with time wasters because at the end u feel like u are the bad person. Ladies be wise and don't let ur emotions control u and make u look like a fool

  • @Josephinevibes123
    @Josephinevibes123 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for this tips sir. You're just talking me now. This is what I just passed through some months again and I call it quit. He calls whenever he likes, I don't know where I stand in dating him. I pay my bills by myself but he won't even bother to show concern, so I call it quit that I can't force my self im what is taking me nowhere.

  • @sharonbartley808
    @sharonbartley808 2 роки тому +6

    Best advice ever out of all those other stupid dating videos that recommends playing games. When a man wants you, you don't need to play games.

  • @chevellebrown9980
    @chevellebrown9980 2 роки тому

    I love that last part...I want to just download this video rn and put that last part on my fb story...

  • @luyirikaisham7112
    @luyirikaisham7112 3 роки тому +9

    This is exactly am going through oooh thanks sir for sharing this from today I have made up my mindas in its over though its painful but I have to move on🏃‍♀️

  • @sherikawhyte2096
    @sherikawhyte2096 3 роки тому +52

    I absolutely love your video... So informative and straight to the point... I hate some of these long videos that they just ramble and talk about the same thing in 10 different ways.... Love how short and precise this is... New subscriber here

  • @victoriasando1998
    @victoriasando1998 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for putting some sense into my head. He waisted my my time for seven years 😭😭, now I'm finally leaving.

  • @davinndungu6208
    @davinndungu6208 2 роки тому

    Thanks for being my eye opener my time has being wasted ..i can walk out of this relationship with no worry😥😥

  • @christinekirangwa8618
    @christinekirangwa8618 3 роки тому +9

    Thanks alot brother🙏🙏 I thank God 4months now I moved on after realizing that he was wasting my time I saw some mentioned signs in him for along time but I kept on trying thinking he would change🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️Some men you won't even smell the road to heaven🙄🙄

  • @vuyelobaddy8088
    @vuyelobaddy8088 2 роки тому +1

    Yohhhhhhh😥 I've been ignoring my gut, but after this message I've made peace with the fact that I'm being played here😕😥

  • @prexzycent903
    @prexzycent903 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks bro
    I just feel like u are talking to me, I think the guy I have been dating for the past 3years is just wasting my time🙆🙆🙆

  • @Queentobivibes
    @Queentobivibes 2 роки тому

    If he really wants to be with you, there will be no excuses

  • @Justina21
    @Justina21 2 роки тому +1

    You have really helped me alot thank you so much

  • @ngombaflora8035
    @ngombaflora8035 2 роки тому

    You just saved me from the wrong person. He posses all the quality you mentioned.

  • @annijensen5790
    @annijensen5790 3 роки тому +66

    Sadly, what you all said is true. I was doing well with this guy. He called me like every day, invested a lot of time in me and then all of a sudden he disappeared 😢 Now he barely texts me or calls me. How is one supposed to get over someone you’ve come to care for?

    • @petraalbatra9898
      @petraalbatra9898 3 роки тому +12

      I feel ya. I'm going through the same thing

    • @annijensen5790
      @annijensen5790 3 роки тому +3

      Should I make him aware that he is emotionally unavailable or should I just forget about him and stop contacting him?

    • @hembadoonalexander6497
      @hembadoonalexander6497 3 роки тому +6

      @@annijensen5790 you can't stop dear.
      The feelings is there.
      I went through what you said.
      I insisting we talked.
      I sent him message and told him my mental health is important to me.
      I need to know where I stand. He apologized and said he was upset and just wanted to punish me for two weeks.
      We back and happy.
      Winners are fighters girl

    • @nanayaatwumasi5579
      @nanayaatwumasi5579 3 роки тому +19

      Sis he did that to get into ur pants this why u need to value ur body’ in that case if things don’t work out u won’t feel hurt . Time reveals everything

    • @Thegazelle1000
      @Thegazelle1000 3 роки тому +12

      @@annijensen5790 you need to do like me. Call him and tell him that you need to talk. When you are face to face, ask him what he wants to do with you. Listen very well and watch very carefully his behaviour. If he doesn't want to commit to you or he makes excuses, DUMP HIM! he's just wasting your time.

  • @AndreaDawnBrewer
    @AndreaDawnBrewer 3 роки тому +9

    "Anything else is charity work"... 🤣🤣🤣

    • @AndreaDawnBrewer
      @AndreaDawnBrewer 3 роки тому

      @shafaat salisu Huh?!? What are you talking about?

    • @AndreaDawnBrewer
      @AndreaDawnBrewer 3 роки тому

      @shafaat salisu You must have me confused with someone else.

    • @AndreaDawnBrewer
      @AndreaDawnBrewer 3 роки тому

      @shafaat salisu I don't use WhatsApp. Facebook platforms steal your data.

  • @rachellel.3680
    @rachellel.3680 3 роки тому +11

    It seems like you were talking to me on the 5th sign After 10 months I still didn't know where we were

  • @hashelplineisos2796
    @hashelplineisos2796 2 роки тому +2

    On point. No waist of time for someone who doesn't care in a nut shell. Thanks bro

  • @arecosarah6637
    @arecosarah6637 2 роки тому

    Am impressed
    Well researched speech congs

  • @obatere204
    @obatere204 2 роки тому

    This is a great video... Thank you.. It's unfortunate and so sad to meet such guys.. accepting reality is painful at this junction but it's better now than later.. 😢😢😢

  • @modestinemungo4661
    @modestinemungo4661 2 роки тому

    Thank you 😊 💓 ☺ 💗 for my confirmation, I kicked him to the curb over a month ago

  • @kihemboann607
    @kihemboann607 3 роки тому +112

    This video has opened my eyes, i have been dating with this guy for a while i reached tym i needed help from him like wanted to go stay at his place for a while gusse wat this guy told me haha it's okay u can stay with me but my cousin come here for weekends so where a u gonna go wen my cousin comes around 😢oh juses was like wat 🤔this is the guy who has been telling me hw much he loves me🙄men😏

    • @salimamalongo8832
      @salimamalongo8832 3 роки тому +4

      Hello.same thing here.Can I have your contact

    • @kihemboann607
      @kihemboann607 3 роки тому

      @@salimamalongo8832 🤭

    • @favour-ug8og
      @favour-ug8og 3 роки тому

      Oh my goodness 😃😹

    • @kihemboann607
      @kihemboann607 3 роки тому +1

      @@favour-ug8og I swear Favour

    • @tvtv9581
      @tvtv9581 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 then what what did u do or what happened after telling you that?

  • @keletsomathe2958
    @keletsomathe2958 2 роки тому

    Thank you , I’m in a relationship whereby he said let’s go with the flow. I’m leaving it🥺

  • @skwilson34
    @skwilson34 3 роки тому +9

    Ladies, listen to this guy and stop over thinking it.....

  • @dineoelizabeth4887
    @dineoelizabeth4887 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks 😊 four the video. I've been there years and years now my eyes are open . # I'm done

  • @annsinga5049
    @annsinga5049 2 роки тому

    This is me 💯% ,,have wasted 6 crazy yrs waiting for change....,,I am on the move

  • @perfectlynini
    @perfectlynini 3 роки тому +7

    So the dude I was talking too he was consistent , he gave me time and invested his money butttt no title just a situationship like he never asked me to be his girl i was always confused … but gives me relationship vibes but don’t want me talking to anyone else

    • @perfectlynini
      @perfectlynini 3 роки тому +5

      But then again I never had to question his loyalty …like idk what we were seriously or what he want it’s been a year and I finally broke it off

  • @atwiinemollen6380
    @atwiinemollen6380 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u for opening up my eyes,he is really wasting my time

  • @ireneondieki9633
    @ireneondieki9633 2 роки тому +1

    You have talked the truth , thank you for this clip.make more clips please .

  • @claireomari9001
    @claireomari9001 2 роки тому

    These is me walai,i swear to pause from these moment,thess as opened my mind and eyes,what a hell!!

  • @veeoby3364
    @veeoby3364 3 роки тому +26

    I just discovered your channel and I'm a new subscriber. Your video is precise and straight to the point. I wasted 2 years but now I will not be foolish going forward. Thank you immensely for this video!

    • @deora2inG
      @deora2inG 2 роки тому

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    • @deora2inG
      @deora2inG 2 роки тому

      Okkķk

  • @norahmatomola8998
    @norahmatomola8998 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you. I needed to hear this. I'm done

    • @blessingorpal6548
      @blessingorpal6548 2 роки тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ i got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Wilfred who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. For a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

  • @mosslegae2807
    @mosslegae2807 2 роки тому

    You nailed it my brother I salute you

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 3 роки тому +6

    I just met a time waster. He barely called or texted. When we went out he was all over me. I think he has a girlfriend. When I asked him if he did, he went off! Bye bye👋

  • @swabrinnahally8373
    @swabrinnahally8373 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks u woke me up from my worst nightmare...I trully appreciate🙏🙏

  • @kssreelakshmi
    @kssreelakshmi 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for this. I was talking to someone for nearly two months. We met on matrimony. He never had time for me, he would ghost me at times.

  • @eileenluna3515
    @eileenluna3515 3 роки тому +2

    Yes my ex fiancé treated me like if I didn't exist !!! My ex fiancé was a waste of my time !!! My ex fiancé didn't pay attention to me !!!! I hate it when he wanted to go with flow !! He didn't want to spend money on me !!! He never committed to me !!!! He gotten the benefits and he stopped talking to me !! I have a new fiancé now !!! My new fiancé is sending me an engagement ring in the mail !!!

  • @oinchoo9535
    @oinchoo9535 3 роки тому +2

    Run brother 😂😂
    Man like you never lie to you
    Man who like you will make you feel like a queen.

  • @thokozanintinga3560
    @thokozanintinga3560 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for opening my eyes now I Know what to do🙏❤️

  • @michelleanglin1292
    @michelleanglin1292 2 роки тому

    Thanks so much , say no more I'm gone for good this time.🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

  • @noxolombekeli248
    @noxolombekeli248 2 роки тому

    See... I ran and never looked back. This is now my tool and I keep coming back for revival.

  • @lillianmargaretnakibuule5415
    @lillianmargaretnakibuule5415 2 роки тому

    This is so good and real bye time wasters.

  • @gloriamutuku6529
    @gloriamutuku6529 2 роки тому +1

    This so nice , it so painful to be in love with someone who only act nice when they need you en once they are satisfied become a bother,, buh as long as I'm not desperate I have to move on with life, coz this is a journey

  • @daisytonho2891
    @daisytonho2891 2 роки тому

    Very true my bro

  • @tesha._.quotescastillo1910
    @tesha._.quotescastillo1910 2 роки тому +5

    I've been in a toxic relationship for almost 3 years ..we broke up 4 days ago n now he wants me back🤦‍♀️

    • @eastherbartholomew6643
      @eastherbartholomew6643 Рік тому

      Pls don't go back cos if u do he will deal with you mercilessly so pls be strong and move on ,u have a better opportunity and u are the best version of your self

  • @jullykandush3053
    @jullykandush3053 2 роки тому +1

    This is.a very encouraging information.
    U have opened my eyes

  • @mauriceakerr9123
    @mauriceakerr9123 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this video been dating this guy for 7 years and now he says he's afraid to get married I'm such a fool,I knew but was just in denial

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 роки тому

      These things happen. Key thing is to learn and make better choices in the future

  • @lorettawilson9160
    @lorettawilson9160 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks soo much for putting this imfo out cause it really confusing that a guy would put you through that and have you wondering what is this what are we doing just be straight about the situation cause me I can give a flying f..k. If you dont want me cause baby I am a star

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  3 роки тому +3

      In an ideal world, everyone should make their intentions clear from the start. Sadly the world is not ideal, we all have to be responsible for our mental and emotional wellbeing

  • @Charlotte-zc7nt
    @Charlotte-zc7nt 3 роки тому +5

    Wow, just joined your channel today and it is such a vibe. Most of the sub_ topics discussed have happened to me, having learnt my mistake . I'm now working on rebuilding everything which was lost.

  • @simplykai95
    @simplykai95 2 роки тому

    That the guy I met last year, I regret it but now I'm healing ,I accepted I'm Wiser now

  • @harshabhatia47
    @harshabhatia47 2 роки тому

    Excellent explanation n all points are absolutely correct👍🏻🙂😎

  • @peacealoysius245
    @peacealoysius245 2 роки тому +6

    That's a great one my brother, thanks a lot, it really teaches me a lot

  • @feliciainkoom4695
    @feliciainkoom4695 2 роки тому

    U don't know how much ur words has touched mi today may God bless u 😭😭😭💔

  • @shanda01114
    @shanda01114 3 роки тому +13

    This was a great video. Well said and absolutely true! Thank you!

  • @francesjeanlouis9285
    @francesjeanlouis9285 3 роки тому +21

    Josh: "Run for the hills!"
    Me: Facts!

  • @queenfolashadeadewale2378
    @queenfolashadeadewale2378 2 роки тому +2

    Hmmmm, thank you so much, this message is for me, God bless you Mr Josh

  • @imeldago9137
    @imeldago9137 3 роки тому +22

    watching this video is really helpful it has opened my eyes in a current situation I am now...
    I gotta run....
    #Inconsistency
    #He says, let's go with the flow
    #He asks for relationshipbenefits without commitments.
    #He is not willing to invest his time and money
    #You will not know where you stand with him

    • @christyjames9356
      @christyjames9356 2 роки тому

      Thanks you so much I keep meeting the rough people 😭😭😭😭

    • @sophiakimani3847
      @sophiakimani3847 2 роки тому +1

      @@christyjames9356 me too.but I believe one day,God will gonna bring good person my way....🙏

  • @mindqueen2127
    @mindqueen2127 3 роки тому +7

    Straight to the point. Thank you

  • @ayisarah2957
    @ayisarah2957 2 роки тому

    Thanks for this beautiful message bro

  • @nkosithandilezinhledladla4136
    @nkosithandilezinhledladla4136 2 роки тому +3

    Wow thank you,you nailed it that's exactly the relationship I am in and I was just wondering so now I know what to do 💕💕

  • @kimn4721
    @kimn4721 2 роки тому

    So worth watching you've got yourself a new Subscriber !!

  • @comfortekah1477
    @comfortekah1477 3 роки тому

    Wow 😲 😲😲 this is really helpful.thanks so much for this...

  • @wilsonsdotadota9504
    @wilsonsdotadota9504 2 роки тому

    On point bro 😘

  • @mujajullyjames1879
    @mujajullyjames1879 2 роки тому

    Thanks for letting me know as well the inspiration.

  • @rosemairemiles5550
    @rosemairemiles5550 2 роки тому

    I will not wait for that. The first sign I run

  • @Lh-vy6rc
    @Lh-vy6rc 3 роки тому +6

    Thankyou.. the same thing is going on me😂

  • @beny843
    @beny843 2 роки тому

    This is so true! Excellent 👌

  • @Itsnurselo2you
    @Itsnurselo2you 2 роки тому

    Is saying “I’m just taking it day by day “the same as just going with the flow

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 роки тому +2

      I’d say so. For me both is showing lack of intent

    • @Itsnurselo2you
      @Itsnurselo2you 2 роки тому +1

      @@Josh_LoveTalk exactly that’s what I thought , he keeps saying that to me and telling me we can’t put a time limit on it and I’m like basically you got three months to make a commitment or I’m gone I refuse to keep doing this and honestly quite frankly I might be gone before that I’m done settling for what they want if we are spending time together going on dates and enjoy the company of each other there’s no reason for the stagnation and then you want my eggs all in your basket

  • @charityphilips381
    @charityphilips381 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks Sir, this is kinda teaching i learnt earlier from, CCTV CHRISTIAN. Topic: Why You Should Break Up With Him. Now that i made beneficial decision in my life. Thanks 👍

  • @brightonsaudah6082
    @brightonsaudah6082 3 роки тому +2

    Yes true am new here but thanks for that good message 👍 😊

  • @hidaayahoo1purehearts954
    @hidaayahoo1purehearts954 2 роки тому

    I ran after realising such.thank you

  • @catherinehoward4222
    @catherinehoward4222 2 роки тому

    These are facts you speak

  • @teresiagithua5584
    @teresiagithua5584 3 роки тому +1

    Better late than never. Thankyou

  • @sylviaijeoma6564
    @sylviaijeoma6564 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much..... This is my current situation.

  • @fintielisha2310
    @fintielisha2310 2 роки тому

    Thank you josh..God bless you I heard you Lound and clear 🙏 ❤

  • @Ashamylove629
    @Ashamylove629 3 роки тому +9

    Thanks dia for the sermons 🙏🙏

  • @lovenessmunyarari2200
    @lovenessmunyarari2200 2 роки тому

    Thanks bro that's very true I love your video

  • @SlindaAbraham90
    @SlindaAbraham90 2 роки тому

    This is really true, thanks so much for this

  • @reneecrotty6910
    @reneecrotty6910 2 роки тому +1

    Great advice super genuine!

  • @lilshelsuzie5235
    @lilshelsuzie5235 2 роки тому

    You're so great, very true.
    Thank you

  • @sekgowefirst953
    @sekgowefirst953 3 роки тому +1

    Straight to the point and clear😊

  • @gracemuia8167
    @gracemuia8167 3 роки тому +4

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    @maryongola541 3 роки тому +3

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