@@alice4416 Never work for salary. It's a suckers gig. I will never do that again. I put in WAY more hours for zero extra pay. Worst part was getting dinged for vacation time if I wasn't there mon-fri even if i worked all weekend. Straight hourly wage now. Get paid for every hour I work.
I'm a painting contractor. Midway through the job my client call me at 9 pm.I had 2 cocktails and was fine to talk with him. He was a very demanding client so I went ahead and answered his call. A couple of minutes in he asked me, "are you drinking" ? Yes Ken, it's 9 pm. Mind you, we'd had cocktails with him previously. I did alot of bending over backwards to keep him happy throughout that job. Reason for call, he was upset that the tile guy had left grout dust on the stairs.
Dwight Schrute : "Would I ever leave this company? Look, I'm all about loyalty. In fact, I feel like part of what I'm being paid for here is my loyalty. But if there were somewhere else that valued loyalty more highly, I'm going wherever they value loyalty the most. "
I was treated so rudely when I was pregnant with my twins, even by nurses, because they thought I was a teenager. I was 28 and married. One person actually said I should be ashamed for being a pregnant unwed child. I let her have it while showing my ring and offering my id then told her she should be ashamed for treating someone that way and being a judgmental bitch.
Even if you were a teenager, no one should be judging you. What if it was rape, or an accident, or a teenage pregnancy made out of love? The fact that we all have our own issues in this world to deal with should be enough to keep people quiet and focused on their own problems. Only those who put their business out there for the world should be subjected to public opinion.
22 and talked down to because we were not married. I ruined his life. Obviously he was the one growing the baby and pushing her out his tiny hole 🤣🤣 And these comments came from professional people
Just don't get ppl putting effort into involving themselves in stuff that's nothing to do with them. Plenty happy to go be negative and preachy to a stranger, they just suck niceness out of the world
I agree. I once said something like that to a girl who was leeching of my friend, living at her place for free etc, with the claim that she was a poor student. She later got a job and still didn't pay anything and didn't pay anything back either. Anyway, I said to her there is a difference between being poor and being a leech. And she replied "Yeah, but I hate cheap people, sooo much." Like not listening at all or deflecting her own bad behaviour. Basically, just show me you are willing to work for the money yourself and give back what you can give, when you can afford it. That's it.
@ lol ur doing that thing maga die hards do where they dont actually understand a concept but take a few aspects of it, accentuate and twist them a bit, so that they can understand something theyre obviously against as tories, as something that is really just isn't. Literally watch a ten min doc on what socialism is and if u come back still thinking it's that basic then that's only the fault of ur tiny brain, not poor people or leftists or me just u babe
I agree about the photographers having a hard time. When my daughter married we invited the photographer to the whole day. This included the sit down meal and the evening roast. (Where he was a guest not doing anything but enjoying himself with the other guests) He was overwhelmed. He said he had never EVER been treated so well. Most he had ever had was a sandwich at the bar!! Side note. My daughter had the BEST photographs. He is an excellent photographer (hence why he was chosen) but went out of his way to do some of the most stunning photos. We are still in touch with the photographer who has constantly said it was his best wedding ever! Not just because we treated him so well but what a fun time he had and how happy everyone was. Moral of this tale. Treat people as you would wish to be treated yourself with kindness and respect.
We had the same attitude at our wedding. He was someone we already knew from other circles and he knew a couple of people at the wedding but I would have treated him the same either way.
So true! I do that for everyone doing work for me/us and have never been disappointed! And my H was a perfectionist (but also a kind and generous man). I mean, making a pot of Sunday sauce so the guys doing work all week inside had hot meals (and when I figured they might get sick of lasagna, stuffed shells, every day, coming up with something else), muffins I made before they showed up in the a.m., selection of soft drinks, coffee pot kept full, etc. SEEMS a little over the top but not only was the work done well, I received great estimates for other stuff... One landscaper said MANY people won't even let the guys on the deck at all, let alone serve muffins, coffee and cold bottles of soda up there and encourage them to sit down (deck had built-in benches so I didn't have to worry about dirt on the chair cushions which I DID remove)...Tree fell on my tool shed and house during Hurricane Irene (and everyone wanted $1K and up just to bring it down, not even cut it up and dump the wood), the estimate was so low H gave them the stuff in the shed, like tractor, leaf shredder I wasn't going to use anymore anyway PLUS $200 more because he felt bad! Other estimates also were just so good
Keep your opinions about strangers to yourself, this is 1 reason why, A friend & her sister & i was on the bus a few years ago. 1 friend was only 15 (looked 12) & 8mths pregnant & felt really unwell. I asked if anybody could vacate their seat for her please in the seats reserved for pregnant, disabled & elderly people. This woman (approx 30's) went on a rant calling my friend awful names because she was pregnant. I ended up loosing my s**t with her & putting her in her place. My friend was pregnant because she was held against her will for 2 days & awful things were done to her. She decided to go through with the pregnancy & put her baby up for adoption. The hardest decision she'll ever have to make during the most traumatic time of her life. So unless you have something nice to say then don't say it at all, keep it to yourself. You don't know other peoples lives.
@@lm9327 Thank you, she is doing very well as the baby is to. She is now married & has 2 kids with her husband. Baby is 8yrs now & her parents love her very much wanted her to always know how much her bio mum loved her. So my friend is part of her life as an aunty. My friend is dreading the day she starts seriously wanting to know about her bio father but my friend & her parents have a plan how to tell her that.
Sending good vibes to you and your friend! I'm so glad she's married and has a loving family of her own as well as the support of her friends and family.
that's why I never (I work in a book shop) congratulate women on their pregnancies. Might seem rude but I don't know their story, what if something like that happend to them? Or they simply never wanted a child or whatever. Also pregnant women get asked by strangers about their babys way too often anyways so I'd rather not do that. I hope your friend recovers fast and well from any emotional wounds she probably has.
@@MrsClarissa3112 bless you! 💗 As a mother that spent some time visibly pregnant but knowing my baby was no longer alive inside me, I wish more people did this.
I too am safe from her! Alas, I was not safe from the vegan in the queue behind me in the supermarket last week who started ranting at myself and the nice lady working the checkout who complimented the beautiful satchel that my son ordered for me for Mother's Day. It's a large bag (I'm one of those people who carries a lot of crap around!) and checkout lady asked what it was made from (leather) and said it was big enough to make an armchair from. Woman behind me lost her mind completely and yelled "OR it could make a calf!! AND you're wearing a leather jacket, you should be ashamed". So I helpfully pointed out that I was also wearing leather boots and would she prefer it if I removed my jacket and boots as well as emptying my bag and sell it all to her so that she could cremate it all. She continued her barrage of abuse and totally lost the plot when I got my wallet out (a gift from my daughter - it's an exact replica of the wallet Jules has in 'Pulp Fiction', if you're familiar with the film you know what is stitched on to the leather 😁). When she paused to breathe, nice checkout lady refused to serve her, and she pretty much shrieked that I was the one with an obscene wallet and therefore, I should leave. Having already paid I quietly left whilst she was still banging on about my leather items and 'disgusting language' (my wallet doesn't talk for crying out loud, and I myself remained calm as my items were checked out. Admittedly I made a point of packing my steaks last with care, which was petty but jeez she was annoying me!!). It must be exhausting to be so entitled, she wound herself up good and proper!!
My entitled story... I was working for a big box retailer at the sporting goods counter. I was checking out customers and I noticed an elderly man in the paint area across from me. I kept working and looked back up and he disappeared. I thought that was too fast. I stopped ringing up the merchandise and walked around the counter and saw him in the floor. He was unconscious and hit his head on the shelf and was bleeding. I ran to the phone and called management and 911. The customers waiting at the counter could clearly see the emergency. One of them had the nerve to ask me to stop assisting the dying man and check them out. I nearly lost my ish on them for making such a heartless request. My manager saw I was about to erupt and instructed them to go up front to check out. It is like how heartless could you possibly be?!? You are being inconvenienced a little while this man may very well die in the floor. I never found out how he was but he was still alive when the EMS arrived.
My life as a nurse right here. I'll be literally doing CPR and coding someone to try and save their life but people will still be mad at you for not bringing them some more peanut butter crackers or some petty BS. Even though they're right next door to the code room and could hear everything going on. Some people just suck. Main reason why I'm in grad school to get out of bedside nursing. I sacrifice my lunch breaks, hold in my pee, and push my back and body to the breaking point for people just to get pissed at me for things that are out of my control. the patients can't help but be rude sometimes, I get it, you're sick. However, in my experience it's the family members with unrealistic expectations and demands are the worse. That being said of any of you Karen's out there are reading this give the nurse a break, because they probably haven't had one in days.
I worked EMS for 20 years and I had to get out because the world really is like this. Once a guy wouldn’t let us pass him on a two lane road. Running lights and sirens to a stroke, he kept weaving to keep us from passing. We followed him to his house (well his momma’s house because he lived with her) where she had suffered a massive stroke.
Dude I'm disabled. Like cannot stand for more than 15 mins a time without being in pain. I had a guy come up and told me to give him my seat on the bus bc he was older (by like 10 years) so I did. I had to stand for 4 HOURS IN TRAFFIC. Also I just got off and airplane and had to hold both big ass bags. I didn't complain. But from now on I've learned my lesson and made my scoliosis XRay my screen saver just in case anyone tries to challenge me. I REALLY don't like confrontation... idk why I said this. That 1st post really brought up a lot of angst. Lol. Enjoy!!
When it comes to entitlement, someone who suffers as much as you deserves genuine consideration. Age has nothing to do with it. Chronic pain is horrible. No one should expect you to vacate your seat. Stand on your rights to remain as pain free as possible.
I have 4 blown discs, post surgery. My back is trashed. I'm 54 but look much younger and I appear to be in great shape. People have asked me to lift things for them, pick up stuff they've dropped, etc. I just look at them like their crazy.
I’m so sorry! I have a lot of empathy. I’ve got nerve damage as well as damage to my spine, which doesn’t show on the outside, and have been in your spot many, many times. Remember you don’t deserve to sit down less than anyone else, and don’t let these asshats make you hurt yourself to keep them “happy.” They’re never ever happy and they always want more. They can suck it!
Charlotte- I love when you just bluntly state the truth. “Go to the grocery store and make your own fuckin dinner if you can’t afford to eat out.” I would subscribe twice if I could.
Love that one person who wanted "professional" images, but didn't want the "professional" to charge for them. That's actually literally the definition of professional: getting paid for your work! Photographers do have it rough! Story: the photographer at my wedding was easily 6'6", 325 pounds, and when he came to us at the end of the reception and said he was leaving, we were shocked. We said, "Did you take any pictures? We never actually saw you!" He said, "Yeah, of course, I actually shot one more reel than I said I would" (this was back in analog days). He was so good that not only were the pictures absolutely stunning, but this huge guy was the stealth photographer, somehow so unobtrusive we never even noticed he was there! We asked if we could pay him extra, which he refused. THAT'S a professional, and people like that deserve to be treated as professionals, ie, first and foremost, PAID for their work!
@@mariep6171 You don't HAVE to read comments. If you like short comments, then only read brief ones. I actually appreciate well written, thorough comments, especially if it is a good & relevant story. With the time it took you to hit Reply & gripe about about all of the text, you could have finished Ed's & moved on to another. Are you sure you're not one of those "entitled" people Ms. Charlotte is referring to in her video?
Fun fact, we couldn’t fit a photographer in our wedding budget. We have a photographer friend, but she was already a guest and we refused to consider asking her to work for free... so we got a bunch of disposable cameras and we were even lucky enough that the photographer friend later gifted us a digital copy of a small selection of finalised photos she’d taken.
Lmfao 😂 I loved how she went for it in demonstration but stopped like oh wait no, I'm streaming, that's public.... lmfao 😂💜 same. Not much to hold, but Same.
Interesting to know. As a man I must say, a lot us find it comfortable sleeping with our hands in our pants. Not necessary touching anything. Just in there. Safe and warm.
In regards to the homeless man saying he's vegan. I once met a homeless man that approached me when I was in my car. I had just come out of walmart, so I was at their parking lot. I had bought a pound of chicken wings and three boxes of the sushi they sell there. That was going to be my lunch and I was starving. As I'm starting my car, the man approaches me and tells me he just got out of jail and hadn't eaten anything in many days. I offered him some of my sushi and he just makes the biggest disgusted face and says, "What is that, fish?". I tell him they're California Rolls and he can have them if he wanted them. He just says, "No, I don't eat fish". Then he says, "Are those buffalo wings I smell?". I was already annoyed at the guy because he said he hadn't eaten in many days, but stands there and refuses what I offered him. I tell him, "Yeah, its wings. I just got them, fresh". He says, "Aight, I'll take that bag off your hands". I tell him I can give him like 10 or so, but I'm also hungry and I hadn't eaten anything all day. He just rolls his eyes and says, "Nah, I'll pass. I wanted the whole bag. What is that, two pounds of chicken wings?". I tell him its just one pound and he says, "Nah, man, one pound won't fill me up. Later man" and just leaves. I just want to know how you can be homeless and starving, but have the audacity to turn down food just because its not exactly what you expected?
people are people, many ranges of being decent. He could have been homeless because he might have a medical or illegal drug problem, or he could have come from a really rough background, however, it's not excusable they are all real reasons, last but not least some people are just jerks wealth doesn't determine to be a jerk which most people assume wealthy people are.
my guess would be he was lying and just broke, or he was not lying and totaly lost grip on reality.. either way, u realy have no reason to feel bad for him, entitlement is a psychological illness that is very hard to cure, and u acted like a decent human, something alot ppl these days seem to never have learned at all. have a wonderfull day u lovely example of a human being
This sort of thing is especially annoying because there totally are understandable and reasonable reasons to turn down free food even if you are really hungry... A diabetic might have to turn down an offer of an orange juice, some people are deathly allergic to peanuts, etc. But claiming to be that hungry and then turning down the food because it wouldn't fill him up? Wtf.
@@victorvera5864 wow dude...like really wtf?!!?...YOU spent YOUR money to get YOURSELF something to eat, and outta the kindness of your heart, offered him some food after learning "he just got out" and he denied it.... because 1 pound of food just isn't adequate enough and how dare you offer him 🍣 that wasn't freshly caught Wild Alaskan salmon and hand rolled by THE fuckin sushi masters of Japan....u have a lot of nerve Falcon 🤣.........but for real though dude...some fuckin people 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏼♂️🤷🏽♂️
Is anyone else so proud of Charlotte without having met her? lol. Like the success and momentum she is gaining on UA-cam is SOOOO REFRESHING! Definitely look forward to every upload! #TeamCharlotte
I completely agree! Every video she posts , I feel like a proud mama chick. 🤣 It’s so weird, because I’m so happy for her, and tell everyone to subscribe to her because she’s the awesome potato queen. Lol
10:44 - I broke my foot dancing at a wedding reception and the bride threw a fit and asked me to stop being so dramatic and called me an attention seeker because the staff was helping me (helping me to a bench, ice for the foot, free beer - they were afraid I was going to sue them. I didn't. I'm just a bad dancer.) She ended up in tears and stormed out of her own reception. Groom stayed and offered me a ride to the ER.
@@tuttyfat I think women are told from an early age your wedding day is "Your special day. It only happens once. It's your day to be a princess." They look for the perfect dress, the perfect color of this that and the other thing, want the perfect ring. And when something isn't "perfect" instead of rolling with it, they feel the whole day is ruined. And I think the Karens of the world are so wrapped up in the "wedding day" they forget they're actually getting married.
If I was a photographer and had the day free, I'd do the wedding. The photography is free. And then I'd keep the pictures. They weren't part of the deal.
Do the wedding eat the food drink the drinks take personal artistic photos of the scenery for portfolio, hook up with one of the bridal party, and then yes, never speak to them again... Unless of course they want you to do another free wedding haha
@@TheFastingStoic It's got me beat how any thinking human imagines any female got pregnant by herself. Apparently it has happened; called "exogenesis" but it's extremely rare. And a genuine miracle. Way past time all the men/boys involved were called to account and held responsible. My rant is over; but it seriously annoys me. Old days, women weren't even considered FIT for marriage unless they fell pregnant before. Lol.
Well fuck yeah she should think about what she did. It's not that bad that she got pregnant. Nobody gives a shit about that part. And I agree, it takes two to get pregnant and blah blah blah... But she decided to keep it. That's the stupid part. If you are 16 and pregnant you should get an abortion. Don't just stay pregnant as if you have no choice, what the fuck is wrong with people. Would still give her my seat though... poor thing. Somebody that stupid must have a horrible life.
Some people can't afford an abortion or maybe their parents or the father's parents didn't want her to get rid of the child. Things happen and there are consequences for it but shaming a 16 year old girl and saying they should think about what they did is a absolutely horrible thing to do. If you were pregnant you would want someone to give up their seat for you.
I've seen that. But the pregnant woman was like 35, and the woman who was sitting said: "It's not my fault if you're a whore who bangs anyone". Very offended, the woman said that she had a couple. And the other one answered: then, It's not my fault if You're banged a man Who can't afford a taxi for you! 🤪🤪
the "free" wedding photographer, I would take the job, then I would spend the whole day shooting, ad at the end I would tell her "oh my god...I forgot to insert a card in my camera" 😂😂😂
You know what would happen then? She'd probably sue you for breach of "contract" saying now she doesn't have photos of her precious wedding because you deceived her maliciously, and if she had known, she could have hired another photographer. Probably wouldn't win, no money was exchanged and she might not be able to prove you simply forgot, but I bet she would make your life a living hell. Funny idea though. LOL
My brother did some wedding shoots back in the day. The first rule was: Get paid FIRST in cash before unpacking equipment. NO CHECKS! Photographer is last guy paid and first guy stiffed. Wedding party would often be indignant having to dig through their pockets when they were told this when booking. Not paying in cash? LEAVE Being verbally abusive, drunk, or ridiculously demanding? LEAVE Once pics are taken, LEAVE, don't eat their food or hang out, just work and LEAVE Also; give them the film and let them handle processing it (remember film?) LEAVE Let their dumbass cousin with cheap camera "take pics" if they don't like it and LEAVE!!!
@@briansullivan6448 What about if you sold her the photos at a high price after? Like she called you to take photos for free and you did, deal over. If she wants the photos she has to pay or recreate her wedding for someone else to take them.
What you should do is take the photos then add obnoxious watermarks to all of them and charge her a premium price to have the watermarks removed. It’s how they do it at Graduations 😂
When I was dating in college, my profile states that I'm a broke student, and that I can't afford a fancy date. I said that I can afford my own coffee, but not lobster. So if you're gonna ask me out to a fancy dinner, I'll order what I can afford but hell no I ain't splitting half for your lobster and steak. (I'm a girl BTW). I had to be specific on my profile since I had guys wanting to take me to fancy places and expect me to split the bill. Needless to say, it helps to be spell things out sometimes. I'm a cheap date. But yes, it is nice if a guy offers to pay for my $3 tea.
Well yeah i think it's reasonable to pay for your own meals. What I didn't know is that splitting the bill meant as including the price of the fancy meal divided in two 😱
Dear burning4rmwithin, I must be old-fashioned because when ever I asked someone out I offered to pay. After all, I was the “asker”. Then again I tended not to go to expensive places and I always thought a coffee date a first up acceptable gambit. In return I never asked for much save that they either were happy or at least faked it. I never thought for a moment that buying someone a meal meant I could automatically leap on their bones. Then again for a long time Intended to date (adult) students who tend to be on the broke side, and I’m a little sentimental about struggling students. But I would never stoop to inviting someone out to a flash place them lumber them with half the bill, especially for a first date.
First date for me: I go to the Coffee place early, get my own coffee, then wait for my ‘date’. That way I can leave whenever I want without feeling obligated to stay. I pay for my own stuff and give us both an easy way out after 30 mins. As soon as our coffee is done we both decide if we want to keep the date going or if we want to leave. I think I’m pretty considerate when it comes to dating.
Now with the pandemic going on, virtual dates are really good for this kind of thing, actually both people save a lot of money and you can be much more comfortable in your own home...
Hey, about the woman who wanted to pay her friend to introduce her to someone... that isn't entitled. That's practically begging. You can call it weird, but it would be entitled if she was just expecting her friend to do it. I can empathize with this woman because about 10 years ago, all my friends were in relationships and I was the only single guy. I asked them if they'd introduce me to their single female friends and they laughed at me. They said "Go find your own woman." I wasn't asking for a hook up or a hooker, I just wanted to be invited to a party or to casually be introduced. Hell, I would have paid them. Sometimes friends can be downright jerks. So yeah, I feel for that woman. I needed better friends too. I don't talk to any of them anymore and had better luck meeting new people on my own.
@@juliomiranda7013 I still dont think it's entitled. She just wants an introduction and is willing to pay for it and invest time into it with no guarantee of a return on investment. Pathetic yep a little but not really entitled. I think she'd be better off just paying an dating agency instead that will match her to her "dream" man.
If my parents would get me any car and I would push it into a river because I don’t like it, they would probably get it retrieved just to sit me inside it and push it back in again
I had to laugh about the free refrigerator. I did a free fridge many years ago, and I ended up delivering it to the person, who really was in need. Difference was, this person was not at all entitled and just needed help out of a bind. She offered to pay me for doing so; I thanked her and told her, "keep it and put it to good use." She was in tears as we left. I have done similar things several times, but I would NEVER even consider such a thing if the recipient was behaving in an entitled way!
@Mel Lutz Same thing here - I had an old vacuum cleaner to give away and my annoying, self-entitled line manager said he'd take it for his son who'd just got a new flat in a city 50 miles away - and could I deliver it! Ended up giving it to one of our cleaners who walked across town with it to give to her daughter. The daughter's boyfriend had left her supporting a kid on her own. Slipped £500 inside one of the small brush extensions so when she gets round to using them, she'll get a nice surprise. 👁️ 👁️ 👄
When Target first started opening for the first hour for older people or those with medical issues, I was a former employee at the store and the security guy saw me in line and let me go in the first hour. I asked him why, and he said he remembered I had an autoimmune disorder (it has the *possiblity* to kill me if it reaches my lungs). I told him he knew I was okay, though, right. He said he did, but said he didn't mind. It was so sweet. I never planned to or have used this as a reason to skip lines or not wear a mask (because that's stupid), but I thought it was great of him. So hearing people DEMAND special treatment for just breathing is frustrating knowing people who are in terrible circumstances health wise.
As you mentioned the masks: There have been so many people berating others about "you have to wear a mask" and acting as if they "know" anything about a strangers medical situation, because they don't feel that person should have an exemption and that it is only made up... horrible how people have become aholes and acting like they are some sort of enforcer, but not having a clue - only based on their personal feelings. Horrible.
I dunno, maybe it's about being okay with other people drinking. Like me, I don't drink, but I don't care if other people do, so long as they're not stupid about it.
A friend of mine who thought she was a Mormon (until later when they supported anti-LGBTQ legislation) asked me not to tell her spoilers for Doctor Who because she was waiting for it to come on BBC America and didn't believe in illegal downloads. I pretended to look puzzled and said, "No, they do exist. I can show you if you like?" She and hubby were trying not to laugh and tow the official "not amused, how dare you mock faith" line. I guess that was the point I knew they were trying to hard to be what they weren't. That and the fact that it turned out she loved our gag gift on the birth of their baby - the ABC of elder gods. "A is for Azeroth, who guards the gates of Hell." Her older daughter told her she was going to have to stop reading it to the baby before it was old enough to understand the words!
I was a manger at a Pizza Hut. My cook had a seizure, hit his head on the oven when he fell back and was halfway under the oven. You can see right back into the kitchen. People were yelling at us because they had to wait for their pizza until the EMT's got him out.
Omg EXACTLY!! I've been a stylist for upwards of 12 years.. Your haircut, highlights, and/or "custom color" don't always cost the amount of time it takes your stylist to create what you wanted.. They cost the years of experience, not to mention the constant learning/researching new techniques and trends. I know not all stylists are glod, and at least 25% of them aren't passionate about their craft... But haggling your stylist on the price??? No ma'am. Re: holding boobs: yes, I think we all just want a little support from time to time. ❤😊
I have been in the hair business since the mid 80s, and if I had a dollar for every time I was asked for a free or discounted service because "it's only a haircut" I'd be a millionaire, lol!
I had a Facebook marketplace adventure. The couple came to pick up a free, very nice, wooden bunk bed with trundle drawers. Started walking around my garage asking to take other items. Literally the only thing being given away was the bed. When I told them that, they kept walking around asking for my stuff! Ouch! Ah the gratitude!
This happened at a garage sale an ex and I had at our house once. Most people were nice and in and out. This one mom and her kids kept hovering and one of the kids kept trying to distract us. I was a correction officer so it wasn't happening. My ex finally told them they could buy something cheap or go.
its like the old "all in the family" show where Archie complains to a tv repairman about a bill for 20 bucks for "just turning a screw." Repairman replies " You're not paying for me turning the screw. You're paying for me knowing where to turn the screw"
Now you were the one entitled.. "beggars cant be chosers".. beliefs are not something to make fun of regardless of the context. And let alone when youre tottally missingormed.. Since when is a vegan diet super expensive? How much do you pay for rice fruit veggies grains and beans? Its expensive if you want to eat vegan ice cream and vegan saussage and vegan burguer and vegan cheese and vegan butter and all the crap that is processed... being a vegan is litterally the cheapest diet.. give the begger beans and rice and he will be happy and you probably havent spent even 2$ on it..
@@isabelpinheiro1333 Being a vegan is a serious matter, but There maybe Vegan people who are humble and likeable , and there maybe vegan people who feel entitiled and annoying. The video is about the second type.
“You just press a button!” That’s why you want a professional photographer, with references, an impressive portfolio, and years of experience. To press a button.
"But you just press a button!" Literally the only person I have done something like event work for free was my own sister and it was her wedding since she knew I didn't have much in the way of money or time to put towards her wedding day at the time. But it was funny interacting with guests that didn't know I was also the brother of the bride not just a photographer and treated me like I was "the help" and shamed me for mingling or something. Even though it was made clear by my sister to the guests it was a small, cheap, backyard wedding (and it really was) where the whole wedding was done and worked by close friends and family (plus bride and groom) offering services either for free or for just cost of materials. Literally my sister did the wedding on a budget of about $15 000 this way. Best part was when she started posting the pictures after I sent her the raw image files to put up the next day for people to see, and people where telling her to demand a refund or sue me for my work. Before I could even reply my sister had already put them on blast telling them; I did it for free of charge, these where only raw images not the professional edits, explained they are insane if they think somehow a photographer could edit over 1000 pictures with in 24 hours of the event; I was so proud of her! lol
I got one for you, I was cleaning out my closet and had about 5 small bags of clothes that I posted to a free stuff Facebook group. Within like 5 minutes this girl had commented 3 times and messaged me twice. Her first message was asking me to hold the clothes, her second was offering to PAY me to hold them. I said yeah I can hold them for a few days, I don't mind. She then asked me to drive over an hour into a busy city to drop them off to her while she's working. I said that I rarely ever get out that way. She comes back with this sob story about really needing the clothes, working all the time and having kids blah blah blah. So pushing my nature down I decide to give her the benefit of a doubt and say that I might be able to do it the next weekend and asked for a couple dollars for gas money. That was 2 weeks ago and she never responded. She offered to pay me to hold it but then didn't want to give me gas money... To drive over an hour to drop off something I'm giving away for free.... This just blows my damn mind. Lesson learned though. Always go with my salty side when dealing with things like this.
Similarly to the half eaten cake story: i currently live in switzerland and the first place i worked at was a chinese restaurant. We often had a lot of tourist as it was in the central part of zürich. This one time in particular a big group of chinese-americans came to our restaurant, ordered a looooot of dishes, but particularly a bunch of rice bowls (not my table btw). Turned out they were brought 5 bowl and the 'Big Boy' of the group started yelling at my colleague cos HE ordered 6. She brings him another bowl and flash forward to pay time. He tells her "we only ate 4 bowls, so you can take 2 back and we will pay for the 4 we ate" my colleague goes "uuuh wut? no? that's not how it works." they start screaming the entire restaurant up and the 'Big Boy' screams he wants to talk to the manager. Manager comes over and tells Big Boy the same thing my colleague did. "you ordered these bowls, you touched them. You can have them to go, but you will have to pay" that didn't sit well with Big Boy and he starts screaming even louder "THIS IS ST00PID! I AM AN AMERICAN AND THIS IS NOT HOW IT WORKS IN AMERICA!!!" (it was kinda funny cos he was saying this with the biggest chinese accent ive ever heard and my family in law is from mainland china lmao) All in all they kept making a giant fuss and everyone in the restaurant was shaking their heads, customers and workers alike, until the wife was so embarrassed she begged him to just pay so they could leave. In order to have them leave, my manger agreed to not charge for the 6'th bowl that came late if he would pay for the fifth and just gtfo. He agreed and they finally left leaving a MASSIVE pigsty behind them from where they had eaten. They also complained they were charged 1CHF per glass of tapwater. (this is common in Switzerland) Some people are just so darn entitled smh. If you cant tolerate how things work in different countries. Stay home.
Americans order something take one bite refuse to pay because they don't like it.They are loud and rude.They ask for discount all the time.We have a daily special but no they complain that's expensive. Or why do we charge them in dollars because its a touristic place.The whole island uses dollars.
I hateeeee the "You just push a button" bs! Once, when I was shooting a wedding, some uncle came up to me and said, "That camera must take great photos!" I came back with, "Not if I don't hold it right!" 😂
I once photographed a wedding for free. It was my aunt's, it was small, I got free food and this counted as my gift, and I was a teenager just starting to get into photography as a hobby. It was a lot of work, but it was a great experience. But again, it was my aunt's small wedding and the expectations on me were pretty low. Asking a stranger, let alone a stranger with years of experience, to do all that for nothing (not even free food) is just absurd.
And with no breaks when would they even be able to eat/drink what they brought? 🙄 worked at 2 different Tim Horton’s & was there for 14 hours no break,nothing at one of them,(other one wasn’t much better)Took a drink of my water and got yelled at to ‘get back to work.’ Hated working there,so many instances of making me do all the work alone-even the manager (owners gf wouldn’t show up). But once in awhile on 3rd shift it wasn’t busy and I’d just get some extra time to sit around & do nothing,also pretty much ate/drank whatever I wanted & gave out free stuff sometimes. To be fair the first one I worked at made their friend a manger & he stole $50 from my purse,& they told me he’d never do that & then found out he embezzled from them. 😆😆
Please dig deeper into upstaged bride! Here’s what I found “Bride claims 'hugely pregnant' bridesmaid pal owes her a wedding 'do-over' ... One angry bride claims one of her bridesmaids owes her a $30,000 “do-over” for the big day, alleging that the “hugely pregnant” friend stole the show with her “electric personality” and “tall, incredibly attractive” husband.” Taking the entitlement even further!!
Thank you for the info. At first I thought maybe she went into labor and that would definitely upstage anyone, but still, how long were those people engaged? If that was such a problem for the bride, surely she knew her friend was very, very, pregnant BEFORE the wedding. She could have asked her to sit this one out. It certainly doesn't seem like that would have bothered bride-zilla one bit. Of course, then she wouldn't have had the opportunity to create such drama....
The ones about photographers really irked me. I’m a freelance artist and get asked ALL the dang time to draw people for free. Uhhhh NO! I can’t eat and pay bills from your happiness.
That is literally why I walked away from the field. I once saw an ad for someone looking for a videographer for a project. They required the person have years of experience, a red camera (about $3,000 at the time and hard to get), and they wanted them to work for free.
Well, you're just being selfish! LOL (That's a joke, by the way). I've known a few artists, and I've seen the HOURS of hard work that goes into becoming even halfway decent. Drawing for free? HAH! That's like asking an auto mechanic or a plumber to work for free. Or ANYONE!! It's just too stupid to tolerate.
I was working for an elementary school. I did a small favor for the EC class and painted a logo on a board for them. The principal saw it along with a gift during our Christmas Secret Santa that I painted for another teacher and was impressed. She asked me to paint a huge mural for the school. I asked how I was going to be paid. She skirted around the issue. Asked if I'd volunteer my time.. NO! Asked if I'd do it on the clock then.. NO! As a TA I don't make a living wage and have to work two jobs as it is. I was like I charge more than I make here for painting murals. Needless to say I didn't end up doing the mural. I took me decades to become this talented and thousands in student loans so heck no I ain't volunteering.
music producer here. People contantly expecting free beats. I don't get it i never expected things for free in my own carreer. I'll gladly give some away if i like and believe in the artist. But never if people ask for it. It's just rude.
We were in Hawaii back in 2005 for our wedding anniversary. At a luau, this woman kept annoying me but I didn’t let her know it did. I was very nice to her since she was there with her husband and three children. At the end of the night, she said to me, “you need to take a picture of my family. You’ll do it, right!?” She was very condescending. I smiled and said, “sure.” She gave me her camera and as they got into place and smiled big, I zoomed in on her husband and took his picture since he actually rolled his eyes at her. Wish I could have seen her face when she got the pictures developed. What a bitch. (This was the old days when we used regular cameras.).
I work at a Costco and it was devastating watching elderly and disabled people try to fight the crowds to get the bare necessities, so yeah we should try to cater to the people that need extra help
@@I_Am_SciCurious it's not like she's out here shooting cupid's arrows herself. It's clear she's not expecting true love, just blind monetary servitude.
My wife & I were pretty young when we got together. We've got through our respective schools, student loans, horrible bosses, bills, bills, bills and were finally able to own a house of our own. We worked our asses off to get where we are today. During all of this, we had to learn the hard way to say, "NO!" to a lot of folks. It's still hard to say no but the bigger the crocodile tears the easier it is. We've never been rich by any definition but it just seems that because you can pay your bills, you must be rich and should share your wealth with perfect strangers.
Well done, Jaspr. Unfortunately, it has become an elitist act to profess the value of hard work and self-sufficiency. These individuals will ask incredibly unreasonable things of you and then tell you that you are evil and driven by money when you decline. The irony is they are too. They want the things your money is able to buy, they simply refuse to do the work involved in earning it. I have to stop watching these entitlement videos but I just love, Charlotte.
A girl I went to HS with was always posting things like "my baby has a doctors apt tomorrow in a different town. Need a ride at 11am must have 2 car seats hmu if you are interested" um what? Lol 😂
Bro people like that make me feel so much better about being 24 still getting my BA because I couldn't afford classes. At least I am doing something to improve myself.b
Lmao the restaurant heart attack one has happened to my old manager. A guest choked on food and she had to do the hiemlich and CPR to save the guy. Then a couple complained that it ruined there dinner....she just lost her shit and asked them to leave lmao
Kind of related to the pregnant post you read: a few years ago I went to the store to get Plan B after a "malfunction in birth control" and I got the dirtiest look from the pharmacist while I checked out. I can only assume it's because I barely look 25 at my current age and back then I probably looked like a teenager. In my head I punched her with my left hand so she could get an up close look at my wedding ring.
Omg that "I feel betrayed" one hits hard... my mom LITERALLY gave/sold everything my grandparents & dad said I could have (including family heirlooms) when she inherited after my dad passed away out of spite that my grandparents left her out of their wills and gave everything to my dad and I. Pray for me as I now deal solo with my mom the KarenSupreme...
Just because someone is related by blood doesn't mean you must tolerate them. She sounds toxic so I would limit my exposure to her. When my Dad passed away my half-sisters and half-brother were trying to get some of his stuff. I refused to let them because when his health declined and he was no longer able to help them repair their massive homes and nice cars they suddenly had nothing to do with him. I was stuck chopping wood while pregnant to keep him warm, taking him to all his appointments causing me to loose wages, dealing with his finances, etc. I had to beg them to come to Hospice to see him before he died. Then they have the nerve to request stuff. Bug off! Then they stuck me with the funeral expense knowing I had just lost my home a couple years before and still had not recovered financially had a 2 year old and a baby on the way. All while bragging about having millions in investments and multiple properties. Plus their children were grown and they were empty nesters. I told them all exactly what I thought about them in the days following the funeral and I haven't seen nor spoke to them since. No love lost there.
We have family like that too all my mum was able to get from my great grandparents was a wierd cigar box that has a duck picking up the cigarettes and one of my great grandmas hand made quilts. everything else was purged by realitves even though they wernt part of the will :(
Looking at what you wrote I can only wonder the reasoning behind why she did that, were you a bad daughter in some way that caused her some financial grief by racking up some bills? did you ever assist with the housing costs including food bills? if you answered no to the first question and yes to the second then I cant fathom the reasoning behind why she'd do it and not let you have a keepsake of your grandparents/father.
When you said "Do you ever just hold your boob, just cup it" So relatable and I thought I was the only one! It's not like I am fondling myself haha! I just kinda criss cross my arms and hold my boobs when I relax at home watching movies ect. So funny.
I thought I would find that sexy, but it just sounds a bit weird. I guess it the equivalent of us guys "adjusting" ourselves through our pants sometimes. It just needs to be done.
I can’t believe the “invitee” or man or whatever are expected to pay. If you are invited it’s up to you to determine if you got money to got out or not. If your friend asked to go to the mall and she buys clothes is she expecting to buy you some because she invited you? Whenever my parents were invited they would reject if they didn’t have spending cash for them and me. People who think someone should pay because of “manners” or whatever is either entitled or dense.
CookieDough I’ve always made sure i was since i was 18 I either worked 2 jobs or worked serious overtime. I don’t go to club’s and I don’t blow money... so yes I always concerned about being a help mate... it does go both ways.
@CookieDough I agree that at least in my country, even if the man and the woman both work, woman does the cooking, laundry etc. Since men are not taught those things, they don't even try to learn them(not every men). That's why some women are afraid to work and marry here. But Idk, I think saying men are the providers is an old mindset. My mom was the provider through out my childhood. She had to work 15+ hours a day while my dad had a job but he didn't have to attend everytime(real estate agent). So he took care of me with his sisters help. Those kind of families are more common in this day and age. Being the provider isn't determined by your gender, but your pay
Agreed. I look for the same in a partner. I want to have a partnership not be a burden and I don’t want to date a burden. True partnership is proper give and take from both sides.
For those "free photographer" leeches, I would show up, eat my own food, drink my own drink, and take the most amazing pictures of my life. I would then cover all the proofs with watermarks, show them, and tell them " the photographs are free, you must pay me to remove each watermark from each picture.
I knew this girl in high school, We were sorta friends, but I hadn't seen her for years We reconnected online and she suggested we catch up and have a girls' day, in person. She didn't own a car and told me she lived in an area that was about a 25 minute drive from my neck of the woods. The next day, she texted me her address turns out she lived more like an hour and a half away. I brushed it off, figuring that she was confused or something. I picked her up, and we drove back to my area to chill. She kept asking if I wanted to pick up alcohol to drink. It was like 10 am. It was really weird. After an awkward hour of me explaining that no- I didn't want to get hammered before noon on a week day- we finally decided to go get pedicures. We got to the salon and got our toes done. Mind you, her pedicure took a bit longer, as she had gotten a super extra fancy deluxe pedi. It wasn't a problem, though- I didn't mind hanging out. After we were both finished and it came time to pay, she told me that she didn't have enough money to cover her pedicure. It cost about 60 bucks, not including the tip. I asked her how much money she had brought with her, and she pulled out like 4 bucks or something. Annoyed, I told her to keep her money and went ahead and paid for both our pedicures. After we left the salon, she began asking if we could go get some alcohol. At that point, I decided it was time to take her home. I drove her the hour and a half back to her place, exchanged pleasantries, and said goodbye. The next morning she called me bright and early- asking if I could drive out the hour and a half to get her to bring her to my area again. She said it was an emergency- something having to do with court and her children. Oh, and she'd need a ride back home too. Needless to say, I declined.
I have (excuse me) HAD that friend. She was always mysteriously short of cash after we would get together to do something she suggested. Then the final straw, she was in an abusive relationship so I paid for her divorce (40K) and she said thanks and moved to another state. Fast forward one and a half years, phone call, crying about hubby beating her and throwing her out of the house. Help me. My knee-jerk reaction was to send some clothes and essentials to her and book her a motel room. Then she wanted more and more and more and I found out she was also hitting up everyone we knew. That was it. I severed ties and never looked back. She tried to ooze back into my life but I just turned her away. In hind sight, I always wondered why she didn't go to her family for help.
@@janetliles4851 She didn't go to her family for help because she had already burned that bridge ages ago. But don't beat yourself up. You did a nice thing and helped her out in her time of need. Then she proved herself to be a terrible person, so you cut ties, no regrets.
@@janetliles4851 omg You are absolutely amazing!! I'm sorry that she felt so...dependent on you. I hope that you are surrounded by family & friends that appreciate the awesome woman that you are. I would love hanging out with someone as kind & generous as you. Thank you for helping her twice. The fact that she acted so inappropriately is on her, not you.
@Tee S Wowwwww...yeah you'd think people like this would have a sense of shame. I'd find it embarrassing to have people pay my way. I love when people ask for money for someone else. It's like, okay- your mom "needs help"? You're her daughter- help her. ;)
I'm a photographer too and get asked all the time if I will spend the day on a shot for FREE. When I say no, people flip on me! This is why I don't want to go freelance full time
When I was 31 and pregnant people thought I was still in high school. That pregnant glow made me wind the clock backwards on my face! No one should judge someone on their looks while pregnant!
Yep. I was 23,going on 24 when I had him and one of my friends who worked service desk (I was a cashier) told me people kept going up to her asking if I was old enough to be pregnant. My sons dad said people gave him dirty looks when we were in public thinking he was in his mid 20’s (he was he’s almost a year older) & I was only 16 or younger.
@@momentsformoms9467 Oh so you totally understand also! 😂Your poor husband! Everybody thought that you were jail bait and he was robbing the cradle literally! Yeah, people were worried if I was going to graduate high school! I said I already graduated college and their eyes 😳 🤣
Sometimes I would go walk around with my daughter. And during the times I would go walk was when the high-schoolers were getting dropped off from the bus. Well I was walking and I had a group of girls behind me saying, "That's the girls that dropped out to have a baby." And I also had parents give me a look and one actually came up to me and said, "Sweetie you should of really closed your legs or at least given it for adoption." I was 25 when all that happen and now I know to go walk during the early mornings.
@@ThatGirlNamedClarisa So sorry that happened to you! People are so rude! Yeah I can’t educate them or change their mind so changing your routine to avoid most people is wise! I think smarter people do more in the morning anyways so you going to be around a better pick of population 😊
@@Schquirl Honestly for real! Sometimes people really just need to keep their mouth close and mind their business. Unless I asked or something in danger, just walk away haha.
When it comes to dates, I think who ever asked pays. If he asks, he pays, if I ask, I pay. If we're just hanging out and randomly decide to get food, then either of us pay and the other person pays the next time. It's about balance. I can't assume a guy can afford to pay for a date right then if he agrees to going out if I was the one who asked.
I completely agree, especially if I picked the place. Some of my favorite places are a little pricey so if I'm really wanting to go there, I feel it's only fair to pay.
It must be understood before the date whether it's 50/50 or one sided if asked. I always preferred 50/50 because there may not be a second date. I don't want any expectations from the payer for some sort of extracurricular activities because he bought my burger.
I agree! If I choose the place, then I pay. If they choose the restaurant, activity, etc., I still offer to pay half so they have the option to split the bill. On a first date, I definitely don't assume that the guy will pay.
That last photographer one ... I yelled out loud "WHAT!!!" and scared my cat, at the bring your own food and drink. I don't know why but that was just to much for me.
I’ve totally experienced that where a beggar wouldn’t take what I was offering. He was sitting outside of a store almost blocking the door so there was no way to go around him. So he asked if I had any cash which I didn’t but I said if you wait here I’ll go buy you food and bring it out. He said “Oh no no food. I’m looking for cash only.” He wouldn’t take the food so I gave it to another person begging that he was with. That person was thrilled to have food and immediately began eating as fast as he could!
My husband was a poor college student and a beggar came up to him looking for money for food. He had McDonald's gift certificates (I don't think they even still have those, do they?) and he was going to give the man some. The guy looked at him and laughed and walked off. Yeah, he wasn't hungry.
Michela Pirvu Yes that’s a possibility or sure and I do give them cash if I am at a stop light or something where I’m not actually walking into a store. Some people say don’t give them cash but I do it anyway. My job is done when I hand them the money what they do with it is up to them. This particular incedent he was in front of a dollar tree nearly blocking the entrance so people didn’t have a choice but to interact with him or offer help. Because I was walking into a store and didn’t have cash I offered to buy him food. When I came out with just food he refused it and said he wanted cash so I handed the food to the man next to him and he was starving so he was so happy to have some food! Even if the man truly needed cash for a medication or something he should have taken the food anyway. If I was starving and struggling enough to be in that position I wouldn’t turn away anything or anyone trying to help.
Here in Germany my parents would always tell me "don't give them money, they will only waste it on drugs or on smoking" which is maybe true to a huge part of the homeless here in my city. But if you come across the right one he will be glad to accept your bread, pizza, .. whatever. A while ago I saw a homeless guy in the inner city and I asked if he wanted food and then I went to the next Pizza store nearby (which was even like a fancy restaurant) so I ordered a Pizza and brought it to him. He even said "Ooo you didn't have to buy such an expensive one!" But for me that wasn't really too expensive and I had a bigger smile giving him that Pizza than if I would have eaten it myself. Few months ago as I was working as a face-to-face fundraiser. We built our stuff up on some public space and there was a beggar right besides us. That day I had little tartes/cakes with me from the supermarket and I gave them to him. We were working for "Help" and I was the only one of our team to give a homeless person/beggar something whilst we were all promoting a organisation which helps other ppl in other countries to get proper food and water on themselves and else but no one gave our local helpless people anything. Idk I just wanted to mention this rn as I found that quite hypocritical.
With the vegan homeless person. It probably not a "diet" to him. If it's an ethical position eating meat would be very distressing to him, not just like eating broccoli when you don't like it, and honestly the kind thing to do would be to allow him to choose what he eats, regardless of dietary stuff. Because he's a person and he shouldn't have to forgo his personal autonomy like that. Homeless people are humans and deserve their personal choices to be respected. They don't have to eat whatever they can get if they choose not to. He's not entitled for saying no to food he didn't want. If he doesn't want it he doesn't want it. He didn't demand that the poster go back into the Chinese restaurant and order him a vegan meal, he said he didn't want the meal that he was offered. He's within his rights to do that. If you want to help him get some food, invite him to come into subway or wherever with you and say you'll pay for what he picks, or something like that. Treat him like a person. He's a human being.
100% agree. It's not like the guy said "buy me something else", he just refused something he considered unethical. If anything he deserves praise for sticking to his morals, even when probably quite hungry and faced with a hard decision.
(i have not used my youtube account in a decade, wow) This is a super great point I 100% agree with, and it made me remember another thing about being strictly vegan. Sometimes, it's because meat and meat products could be an allergy, like gluten, and eating it could have done way more harm than good for him. Veganism, like being gluten-free, may be treated and looked at like a fad diet, but there's other reasons why someone is a vegan that aren't related to personal choice and he is absolutely valid for rejecting something that may have caused a huge allergic reaction. We don't know his reasoning behind it but ethics are just as valid of a reason as allergies. It reminds me of a time in a restaurant I used to work in where a woman ordered a hamburger (with mayo, lettuce, tomato, etc) for the homeless man who frequently came in for cups of water and to use our restroom. He came back in a while later and asked for a new one because he's allergic to the lettuce we use. He kept apologizing and I told him I understood and got him a new one. Hell I'm lactose intolerant, if I was homeless and someone gave me a cheeseburger I'd thank them then see if I could exchange it because of my allergen. I'd be grateful but I'd also be within my rights as a human to ask for something I would be able to eat. Homeless people are allowed to have their allergies and dietary restrictions be respected just like anyone else
I started a Photography business in 2019. When I first started I offered free photo sessions with the purpose of getting my name out there and starting my portfolio. I received hundreds of responses from people showing interest in a free photo shoot. I even did a wedding for free. Then once time passed, into late 2019 I was already charging for photo sessions since the purpose of doing for free was met. One lady asked me to do a wedding and I told her it would be between 500 and 800 dollars, plus the price of printing if she wanted a portrait done as a canvas or an acrylic wall art print that looks amazing on any wall. She was like, "No, that's a bit high. I was thinking you could do it for $25.00 or maybe for free. I heard you were doing free photoshoots, so you could use our wedding to practice on. Oh, and I also want the photos unedited and without your logo so I can edit them myself and post them". I told her that was a while back and I no longer do free photo shoots and my prices are much lower than what any other photographer would charge her. She just hit me with the, "But, you're just pressing buttons, so why charge so much when I could do it on my iPhone for free." I simply told her that my prices stand and if she wishes to use her iPhone, that's fine too.". She just replies with "Omg" and then "rude" and blocks me lol.
Photography is an art. Dont let anyone sell you short :) And if she could have “dont it herself” (love when ppl say that byw) then she should have. Asking the price from someone and saying “no thats too much” is so rude and degrading. I hope your photography takes off to where you want it to be :)
Yeah i'm not sure it was good thing to get the word out for free weddings and such, that sets a bad precedent for entitled karens, devalueing your work in their eyes.
The problem working in the art departments. If we don’t put free/dirt cheap prices, little would be interested to our work, but if we really offer our work for free/dirt cheap, people will assume that’s the fair price and will refuse an actual fair, reasonable price for our work next time. Either we have none to extremely little amount of customers, or have our service/work extremely devalued and regarded as “cheap” or “worth next to nothing”. Unless we’re very famous and very well known.
We were leaving a nice dinner in La Jolla, California and came across a homeless person. We offered him our leftovers (Lasagne and Chicken). The homeless man said he only eats Organic!! OMG! Organic and he's homeless!! True story!
Why try to force your charity onto others? Homelessness doesn't mean losing one self-respect and values, if a person doesn't need or want your charity, then simply give it to others that needs or wants it. Why do you have the mentality that just because you are giving means that someone of less fortunate should be really appreciative and must take it? That is not the spirit of a charity nor a charitable mind.
Back before the virus I volunteered at a soup kitchen and some of the people who came through treated us like a restaurant being upset about some of the choices. Um, this is free, donated food. We don’t get any choices either.
I used to do pen and ink drawings. So many peop,e would say, "oh that's really good. Can I have it?" They meant give it to them for free. When I told a coworker the price was $300 she came unglued and said it was just paper and ink! Forty hours per drawing was $7.50 an hour!
The couple at the restaurant reminds me of when I was an EMT. We got called to a house that was hosting a Christmas party. The poor patient was elderly, collapsed on the floor and had vomited. Party goers were literally stepping over him while sipping drinks! No one gave two shits about the poor man.
Man, that "Because it wasn't a Jaguar" one reminds me of being in high school with millionaires' kids (After having grown up in the inner city). Where they'll sit there and talk about how much they hate their dad and hopes he dies, because he never does anything for them. However, when bringing up "Didn't he just by you a car for your birthday?" they counter with "Yea, but it's a BMW... And NOT the Mercedes I explicitly told him I wanted!" Damn, not a lot of love for BMWs going around.
God there never was enough food and winters were the worst when I grew up.Some people have it to good.Moving 5 times a year because youre dad can't pay the rent.Happy times😁Some kids are truly blessed
@@serdarkocak1277 pfffft...you think you had it bad growing up? I had to save up my whole mcdonald's salary for my Fiero, and it was a used one! Life isn't fair sometimes
I knew a girl in college that let her friends drive her car in the woods and trash it because she wanted a new one. Her parents bought her a brand new car.
I was once at a Bar getting myself a Drink when someone i knew came over to me to talk, out of politeness i asked them if they would like a Drink, they said no thankyou i have one but i'll take the Money instead. They didnt get the Money.
@@gerontius1934able I believe it, but that's just crazy!
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I have UA-cam premium so it's ad free. Does watching the entirety of the video count?
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Katy Ieaner you certainly don’t have to watch the whole thing. There are several ways Charlotte can make money; watching the whole ad does help, but she’s already making money if you were to skip the ads.
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Tanya Lee absolutely! Subscribing to her channel and not watching the content is actually harmful. The more you watch, the more you help Charlotte position her channel and improve her stats and profile in UA-cam’s eyes.
I collapsed at work just a few minutes before opening and 911 had to be called. My coworker went outside to let the customers know there was a medical emergency and we would not be opening until the ambulance arrived and took care of the situation. One of the customers asked her “did you even think about how that would effect me?”
6:35 This CEO thinks by hiring someone, he owns them. The employment contract is for working hours only. Employer can't show up at employee's home on Sunday am and demand work.
I could NEVER work with the public!!!! I have little patience and no filter. It would be a disaster, I know this, so I've just never even tried. Cashier's, waiters, nurses etc are all incredible ppl in my book and deserve great respect
@Michael Price the sayings go "It is harder to give compliments, than criticism.". And "Criticism flows from the mouth but compliments take contimplation". A sad reality
Correction, you see a true side of humanity... this is how people really are, they just put on a mask in most situations. Most people are genuinely terrible human beings, especially since modern society promotes narcissism and general obnoxiousness.
I worked in Rite Aid in high school and I second this comment. Luckily, our manager believed “the customer could always LEARN what was right” and she didn’t take crap from anybody. Thank you, Shirley, wherever you are!
I crochet and I dont know how many times someone told me "I can buy that cheaper at the store".. I usually just say go ahead! one girl wanted me to make her a blanket. I showed her the cost of the yarn( on a store's site) and she said I was lying!
"they're good, but I don't like that their commitment lasts for work hours only" Gotta love how employers are rigid in their enforcement of contracts when it benefits them, but expect their employees to be flexible in return. You're always expected to do a little extra, to go above and beyond out of loyalty for the company. But it's always a one-way street.
I found a driver's license in a parking lot once. I took the time to look up the person's phone number to call them and let them know I found it so they could pick it up. They demanded I bring it to them! You're lucky I didn't toss it in the trash and let you pay the $150.00 to replace it. Such a d bag! People are terrible.
@@lorsange1107 Why would I have? Single mom at the time with no car. I'm not in the habit of doing what rude people demand. Especially when I don't know you from Adam. I'm a nice person, if it was an old lady who was under the weather n asked nice I would have but not when you demand things. They made their teenager pick it up... eventually.
Where I live you can drop a driver's license and even library cards into the post office box and they will send it to the address on it free of charge.
I once found a signed blank check and thinking that it was the right thing to do I looked up the individual's phone number and gave her a call to let her know. Her reaction was “soooo, just destroy it” and hung up. I called her back and said “Sorry but it's too late. I filled it out for $100 and mailed it to “Food for the Poor.” … which I subsequently did.
I used to make name tags for people at my work, I would do this for fun on my free time. I had one girl ask me 9 months after I left the place if I could make her a name tag again. I told her I was in college and had homework/ was busy (I also was 6hrs away from home). She told me that I was a B!tch because I made everyone else’s, I proceeded to tell her I only did that when I worked there and if she didn’t lose hers then she would still have the one I made too. Then she asked if I could send her one in the mail?!?? People. Are. Crazy.
Most of them have a really well-known personality disorder: NPD - Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Look it up, my friend. You're welcome. ;) Also, "social media influencer" is the new nice term for "camwhore", "attention whore", "cyber slut", "cyber diva", "blogger/vlogger performer", and other formerly demeaning terms for the self-indulgent performers that they actually are. Now that they are pseudo-mainstream, they have a nice term for them. Ironically, they are borderline accepted while the same people look down on manual laborers, low-tier musicians, stand-up comics, and a variety of creatives like apes and scorn sex workers from strippers to porn stars to sexual surrogates to prostitutes as if they are somehow morally bankrupt compared to "social media influencers".
Which came first, I wonder. Did they become influencers because of their disorder (and what would they have done prior to the internet) or did the attention they got, however little, from strangers cause the disorder to develop? I am genuinely curious of everyone’s opinion.
That homeless person may have allergies or health conditions that requires them to eat that type of diet just because they are homeless doesn’t mean they don’t have medical conditions, health conditions, religion, allergies etc.
Thank you. I've been homeless and my stomach is fucked (something happened when I was born, stomach pumped multiple times, etc) and it's never processed meat properly, so I'm vegetarian, and I'm also mildly lactose intolerant, so I eat cheese but I have to be kinda careful about it and keep it down to a dull roar and people were so fucking mean about it. Like, doesn't matter how polite I was, they'd be a prick. I decided to just accept and find someone else to pass it on to after awhile. I'm sorry but that's entitlement of the person offering it, imo. Feeling entitled to the reaction they want. I can think of no other reason you're mad at me that there are 0 circumstances in which shitting myself with explosive diarrhea is better than being mildly hungry in a first world country where there's fully packaged bread and pineapple in the dumpster and cans of beans are, like, 50-80 cents. Is eating cold beans on dumpster score bread ideal? No. Shit better than being physically ill, at least I'll actually get nutrients from it. My body will actually reject what you are offering me. It serves 0 purpose to eat it. Even if it's tastier than what I might end up eating instead. 🤷 "I don't need to puke or shit myself to prove my sincerest gratitudes for your half eaten leftover Chinese food that I didn't ask for, you absolute douche." I wish if people were going to have a shit attitude they'd just ignore homeless people. People feel really entitled to voicing loud opinions about everything homeless people do like everyone homeless should just be holding out soup bowls sounding like dejected Victorian children at all times or they deserve to be shit talked. No matter how desperate someone is, your unsolicited opinion is still absolutely worthless.
@@JoeyisDREADful your situation that you described is totally understandable and a perfectly reasonable reason to politely decline someone's offer, and people had no right to be rude to you about it or treat you like you were ungrateful. The people that I believe the person in this video are referring to are the ones standing on the corner with a sign saying how hungry they are and begging for help, stating "any little bit helps" and then when offered something they bark "I can't eat THAT!" As though the person should know that and are heathens for even offering it. I've had this happen every single time I've offered to help someone who was holding a sign saying they were starving and would take anything. several times I've gone to McDonald's and gotten someone a quarter pounder meal. The first time the response was "ugh McDonald's? I guess that'll do, it's so unhealthy though!" the second time was "you wasted your money, I don't eat red meat, you should've just given me the money" and the third and last time was "is that all you brought me?" Having a legitimate health concern is one thing. completely understandable. I don't know how i feel about the vegetarian thing, only because my mom is a social worker who works exclusively with people in poverty, and part of her job is food assistance, and in her 15 years of doing this job, has she ever had someone, who was truly starving, turn down anything to eat unless it was because of a bad medical reaction they had to something. Her work does their best to accommodate diets, people can list if they are vegetarian or vegan, but because they run off of government funding and donations exclusively, they can't always accommodate that, and she's had to say to many people over the years "I see that you're vegetarian, our warehouseman will get you everything they can but our donations were low this week so we don't have as much as normal, I'm so sorry we can't be more accommodating this week", and every single time the person has responded "hey, I'll take meat items if that's all you've got, I'm so hungry I don't care what's in it, I'm just glad to have something to eat" So on the one hand I don't think anyone should tell a homeless or hungry person "you can't be picky when you're homeless" because they're still human, they get to have their beliefs and preferences and shouldn't be treated like they have to take ANYTHING handed to them or they're ungrateful and not really needing the help, but on the other hand I can see why it's frustrating for people to offer their help and have it turned down.
You want a professional photographer to work for you FOR FREE while demanding YEARS of experience and follow YOUR rules while not paying a thing and you don't even have the decency to offer food and drinks for all the work you want done???!! Who would deny such a "once in a lifetime" opportunity. If covering a wedding is so simple and you think it doesn't require payment then give a disposable camera or a mobile phone to a relative and ask them to take pictures. Geez, it's horrifying that many people like this exist. 😲
Agreed. If professional photography is so easy and simply ask that one drunk uncle or super snooty aunt to take pictures of your special day. Professional photographers know how to capture those once in a lifetime moment that most people don't even notice. You want quality work you HAVE to pay for it.
Someone should accept the offer and stroll around their wedding all day with his own food and drinks, free of charge and give them a single random picture in the end. Job Done!
Wow! I'm getting married in September and I've already paid both my photographer and videographer in full, and gave them seats at the wedding. That one was really insane!
my grandson just looked over my shoulder and said" wow that lady is so pretty I will marry her" you may have a long wait for the marriage as he is only 9
Here’s a whole ass story that one of these reminded me of. It was about 45 minutes of the worst shit show at any job I’ve experienced ever. I waitress and one of our regulars collapsed while walking out to his car. He had parked right up front and the whole wall is windows so you can clearly see whatever is happening in the parking lot. Our manager rushed out to help him and performed CPR but sadly the man didn’t make it. Ambulance arrived so the inside of the restaurant was lit up with the flashing lights, like there’s no possible way to ignore what’s happening outside. Literally all the other servers and the bartender were outside crying watching this man die. My section was right against the windows where everything was happening, so they’re like ten feet away from it with just a pane of glass separating them. The restaurant was almost full when this started, so I wasn’t able to offer my tables another place to sit. They also didn’t want to put down their blinds (fkn WHY) and I would have had to crawl across them to force them to close them. And since all the other servers abandoned their tables I was the only one to help anyone. You’d think people would be reasonable right? NO. NOT AT ALL. “Excuse me! Waitress! Can we get some service?!?” Coming from about thirty tables. I’ve never had a span of 45 minutes where tables were more needy about the dumbest shit. An example: asking for half cups of water in a new cup to be brought out frequently instead of a full glass that would require fewer trips on my part. I think I blacked out part of that time from my memory because it was just so hectic. But yeah my coworkers SUCKED that day so they had to go out back to cry it out after the ambulances left before getting their shit together and coming back to help. Idek where the manager went during that time. Ambulance left and not too much later a server who I truly despise showed up for her shift, looked around and saw a shit show and said f this I quit. So not a bad day, actually. But Rest In Peace, sir. Obviously I’d work with that bratty server everyday if it meant he had made it.
I personally would have chastised the entire restaurant for their selfishness and remind them that there's a life and death emergency happening so they will have to wait or leave. Sorry about the loss
🤣🤣 I'm a guy usually could give a shit about that sorta thing , but I was like " damn ! She is so beautiful "! Her eyebrows match perfectly 🤣🤣🤣🤣 first thing I noticed
The 16 and pregnant got me. LOL. Entitled woman behind me said babies having babies is just so wrong. My pregnant daughter was in front of me paying for her groceries. I told the EL that she's 21 and old enough. EL asked how I knew the pregnant girls age. Come back....shes my daughter.
"You just press a button" this usually comes from people who don't understand photography and use a mobile phone and just press it's button, they have no understanding of post production, extra equipment, insurance and travel costs!
my maid of honor was very pregnant on my wedding day with her rainbow baby, and I was just so incredibly grateful that she drove the 2 hours to be there and support me, she wore her flip flops so she would be more comfortable and I was ecstatic that I could share that special day with her and the blessing of her pregnancy, because that's what friends do for each other
How do y'all comfortably *demand* money from random people and 'friends'? I'll *ask* for $8 and if they have it they kindly let me borrow. If they can't spare it, they say that and we move on lmao
And how do they all so brazenly put their photos on those ridiculous social media demand??? I won´t be able to face people I knew (or even going out from my room) from embarassment if I posted those entitled money demand with my face and name clearly visible.
I just don't understand people who feel they have to get drunk to have a good time. What sad, unimaginative people they must be. Many years ago, when I used to answer personal ads, if anyone had on their ad/profile "I like to have a laugh/good time", I always thought "What the hell does that even mean, apart from getting pissed? That doesn't tell me anything useful". If they don't have any actual interests or hobbies outside of their work, they must be boring a hell.
@@hedgehog1965uk Its not a matter of "getting drunk to HAVE fun", its more like "Drinking to make things MORE interesting/funner". At least that's why I drink on weekends
I have a high school buddy who contacted me after 8 years of no talking asking for money to help her "move". After I told her that I wasn't in the USA, she proceeded to ask for my parents/brother's contact so she could go over and ask. When I told her no, she went and blocked me. After talking with a mutual friend, she told me that she had asked her for money also and it wasn't so she could move, but instead to buy drugs.
I gave away a couch once and a woman called me and said she wanted it and I said she could have it. Then she asked me if I could deliver it 16 miles away to her house. I said no, if you want it come get it. She got really pissed because I didn't deliver "her" couch. She threatened to sue me. I told her she could try. A couple of days after a mom asked if she could bring her son and get the couch. She was really sweet and I don't think she had a lot of extra money so I was glad I could give it to her instead. I really hate entitled people. They make life hard for everyone else. Sorry for the rant. I'm new to this channel (first video) and I really like it so I hope there will be a lot more of them.
This is the first video I've seen of hers and I agree. She's funny. I love the shape of her mouth and the faces she makes, they're adorable and quirky.
that girl who said dont contact her if you drink alcohol sounds awesome. about to hit her up, i don't drink at all and she said nothing about speedballs
About the vegan beggar thing: When I was a kid, maybe about 10 years old, my mother decided we were all "vegetarian" (we ate fish and were actually pescatarian but she didn't know there was a word for that, this was in the early 2000s.) No choice for us kids, mom's decided. About 6 months to a year later, she decided she was tired of cooking vegetarian and suddenly introduced meat back into our diet, again, without our choice. It made my sister and I both VERY sick, to the point of nearly vomiting, having to go to bed, et cetera. If the homeless guy is vegan, eating a non-vegan meal could very well do him more harm than good.
@@uknowwhodontyou921 So even though my tube fed daughter needs expensive formula or she'll be sick, we shouldn't give it to her because we can't afford it? People with allergies should just eat whatever because its cheaper?
I went vegetarian for years in middle/high school-- until out of state family came to visit and we had a huge family barbecue. Something was prepared specifically for me -- I have allergies to a lot of what everyone else eats -- and I couldn't be ungrateful. That gratitude caused me days of suffering, from the initial nausea/vomiting to just feeling miserable for days after--all thru their visit. It sucked.
Employer: ''Why does your commitment only lasts during work hours.''
Employee: ''Why does your pay only last during work hours?''
perfectly said. to be fair, at least the ceo isnt paying in exposure. lmao
CEO gets bonuses and other benefits. I just get a set salary no matter how many hours I put it.
@@alice4416 Never work for salary. It's a suckers gig. I will never do that again. I put in WAY more hours for zero extra pay. Worst part was getting dinged for vacation time if I wasn't there mon-fri even if i worked all weekend. Straight hourly wage now. Get paid for every hour I work.
I'm a painting contractor. Midway through the job my client call me at 9 pm.I had 2 cocktails and was fine to talk with him. He was a very demanding client so I went ahead and answered his call. A couple of minutes in he asked me, "are you drinking" ? Yes Ken, it's 9 pm. Mind you, we'd had cocktails with him previously. I did alot of bending over backwards to keep him happy throughout that job. Reason for call, he was upset that the tile guy had left grout dust on the stairs.
Dwight Schrute : "Would I ever leave this company? Look, I'm all about loyalty. In fact, I feel like part of what I'm being paid for here is my loyalty. But if there were somewhere else that valued loyalty more highly, I'm going wherever they value loyalty the most.
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I was treated so rudely when I was pregnant with my twins, even by nurses, because they thought I was a teenager. I was 28 and married. One person actually said I should be ashamed for being a pregnant unwed child. I let her have it while showing my ring and offering my id then told her she should be ashamed for treating someone that way and being a judgmental bitch.
Wow, no one deserves that, not a grown woman, nor a teenager.
Even if you were a teenager, no one should be judging you. What if it was rape, or an accident, or a teenage pregnancy made out of love? The fact that we all have our own issues in this world to deal with should be enough to keep people quiet and focused on their own problems. Only those who put their business out there for the world should be subjected to public opinion.
22 and talked down to because we were not married. I ruined his life. Obviously he was the one growing the baby and pushing her out his tiny hole 🤣🤣
And these comments came from professional people
Please, PLEASE post your story in r/olderthanyouthinkiam.
I would love to hear the full story!
Just don't get ppl putting effort into involving themselves in stuff that's nothing to do with them. Plenty happy to go be negative and preachy to a stranger, they just suck niceness out of the world
I'm amazed that so many people have the attitude that, "You can afford it and I can't, therefore you should buy it for me."
@ No. I bet my firstborn you don't know what it is without looking it up first.
I agree. I once said something like that to a girl who was leeching of my friend, living at her place for free etc, with the claim that she was a poor student. She later got a job and still didn't pay anything and didn't pay anything back either.
Anyway, I said to her there is a difference between being poor and being a leech. And she replied "Yeah, but I hate cheap people, sooo much." Like not listening at all or deflecting her own bad behaviour.
Basically, just show me you are willing to work for the money yourself and give back what you can give, when you can afford it. That's it.
There are people out there that genuinely believe that it’s possible for free to be too expensive as well.
@ lol ur doing that thing maga die hards do where they dont actually understand a concept but take a few aspects of it, accentuate and twist them a bit, so that they can understand something theyre obviously against as tories, as something that is really just isn't. Literally watch a ten min doc on what socialism is and if u come back still thinking it's that basic then that's only the fault of ur tiny brain, not poor people or leftists or me just u babe
That's female entitlement.
I said it. Sorry 💁♂️
I agree about the photographers having a hard time. When my daughter married we invited the photographer to the whole day. This included the sit down meal and the evening roast. (Where he was a guest not doing anything but enjoying himself with the other guests) He was overwhelmed. He said he had never EVER been treated so well. Most he had ever had was a sandwich at the bar!!
Side note. My daughter had the BEST photographs. He is an excellent photographer (hence why he was chosen) but went out of his way to do some of the most stunning photos. We are still in touch with the photographer who has constantly said it was his best wedding ever! Not just because we treated him so well but what a fun time he had and how happy everyone was.
Moral of this tale. Treat people as you would wish to be treated yourself with kindness and respect.
We had the same attitude at our wedding. He was someone we already knew from other circles and he knew a couple of people at the wedding but I would have treated him the same either way.
What’s his name???? I need info, maybe an Instagram 😂😂
So true! I do that for everyone doing work for me/us and have never been disappointed! And my H was a perfectionist (but also a kind and generous man). I mean, making a pot of Sunday sauce so the guys doing work all week inside had hot meals (and when I figured they might get sick of lasagna, stuffed shells, every day, coming up with something else), muffins I made before they showed up in the a.m., selection of soft drinks, coffee pot kept full, etc. SEEMS a little over the top but not only was the work done well, I received great estimates for other stuff... One landscaper said MANY people won't even let the guys on the deck at all, let alone serve muffins, coffee and cold bottles of soda up there and encourage them to sit down (deck had built-in benches so I didn't have to worry about dirt on the chair cushions which I DID remove)...Tree fell on my tool shed and house during Hurricane Irene (and everyone wanted $1K and up just to bring it down, not even cut it up and dump the wood), the estimate was so low H gave them the stuff in the shed, like tractor, leaf shredder I wasn't going to use anymore anyway PLUS $200 more because he felt bad! Other estimates also were just so good
At our wedding the photographer was the only person who ate and we all watched him. It was amazing.
Masochists:
Keep your opinions about strangers to yourself, this is 1 reason why, A friend & her sister & i was on the bus a few years ago. 1 friend was only 15 (looked 12) & 8mths pregnant & felt really unwell. I asked if anybody could vacate their seat for her please in the seats reserved for pregnant, disabled & elderly people. This woman (approx 30's) went on a rant calling my friend awful names because she was pregnant. I ended up loosing my s**t with her & putting her in her place.
My friend was pregnant because she was held against her will for 2 days & awful things were done to her. She decided to go through with the pregnancy & put her baby up for adoption. The hardest decision she'll ever have to make during the most traumatic time of her life.
So unless you have something nice to say then don't say it at all, keep it to yourself. You don't know other peoples lives.
Well said! I hope your friend is feeling better, as much as humanly possible after such an ongoing ordeal.
@@lm9327 Thank you, she is doing very well as the baby is to. She is now married & has 2 kids with her husband. Baby is 8yrs now & her parents love her very much wanted her to always know how much her bio mum loved her. So my friend is part of her life as an aunty. My friend is dreading the day she starts seriously wanting to know about her bio father but my friend & her parents have a plan how to tell her that.
Sending good vibes to you and your friend! I'm so glad she's married and has a loving family of her own as well as the support of her friends and family.
that's why I never (I work in a book shop) congratulate women on their pregnancies. Might seem rude but I don't know their story, what if something like that happend to them? Or they simply never wanted a child or whatever. Also pregnant women get asked by strangers about their babys way too often anyways so I'd rather not do that.
I hope your friend recovers fast and well from any emotional wounds she probably has.
@@MrsClarissa3112 bless you! 💗 As a mother that spent some time visibly pregnant but knowing my baby was no longer alive inside me, I wish more people did this.
That first one “if you were not born in the USA, do not contact me”
Oh thank goodness. I’m safe.
I was born in the USA. The rest of her standards make me safe. Whew!
@@That80sGuy1972 huh?
thank god im Australian
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I too am safe from her! Alas, I was not safe from the vegan in the queue behind me in the supermarket last week who started ranting at myself and the nice lady working the checkout who complimented the beautiful satchel that my son ordered for me for Mother's Day. It's a large bag (I'm one of those people who carries a lot of crap around!) and checkout lady asked what it was made from (leather) and said it was big enough to make an armchair from. Woman behind me lost her mind completely and yelled "OR it could make a calf!! AND you're wearing a leather jacket, you should be ashamed". So I helpfully pointed out that I was also wearing leather boots and would she prefer it if I removed my jacket and boots as well as emptying my bag and sell it all to her so that she could cremate it all. She continued her barrage of abuse and totally lost the plot when I got my wallet out (a gift from my daughter - it's an exact replica of the wallet Jules has in 'Pulp Fiction', if you're familiar with the film you know what is stitched on to the leather 😁). When she paused to breathe, nice checkout lady refused to serve her, and she pretty much shrieked that I was the one with an obscene wallet and therefore, I should leave. Having already paid I quietly left whilst she was still banging on about my leather items and 'disgusting language' (my wallet doesn't talk for crying out loud, and I myself remained calm as my items were checked out. Admittedly I made a point of packing my steaks last with care, which was petty but jeez she was annoying me!!). It must be exhausting to be so entitled, she wound herself up good and proper!!
My entitled story... I was working for a big box retailer at the sporting goods counter. I was checking out customers and I noticed an elderly man in the paint area across from me. I kept working and looked back up and he disappeared. I thought that was too fast. I stopped ringing up the merchandise and walked around the counter and saw him in the floor. He was unconscious and hit his head on the shelf and was bleeding. I ran to the phone and called management and 911. The customers waiting at the counter could clearly see the emergency. One of them had the nerve to ask me to stop assisting the dying man and check them out. I nearly lost my ish on them for making such a heartless request. My manager saw I was about to erupt and instructed them to go up front to check out. It is like how heartless could you possibly be?!? You are being inconvenienced a little while this man may very well die in the floor. I never found out how he was but he was still alive when the EMS arrived.
THEY ARE HORRIBLE ,🤯
My life as a nurse right here. I'll be literally doing CPR and coding someone to try and save their life but people will still be mad at you for not bringing them some more peanut butter crackers or some petty BS. Even though they're right next door to the code room and could hear everything going on. Some people just suck.
Main reason why I'm in grad school to get out of bedside nursing. I sacrifice my lunch breaks, hold in my pee, and push my back and body to the breaking point for people just to get pissed at me for things that are out of my control. the patients can't help but be rude sometimes, I get it, you're sick. However, in my experience it's the family members with unrealistic expectations and demands are the worse.
That being said of any of you Karen's out there are reading this give the nurse a break, because they probably haven't had one in days.
My husband would have taken over for you - taking care of the phone call and the man, I mean. He's like that.
As a manager I would say I am sorry the death of a worker has inconvenienced you.
I worked EMS for 20 years and I had to get out because the world really is like this. Once a guy wouldn’t let us pass him on a two lane road. Running lights and sirens to a stroke, he kept weaving to keep us from passing. We followed him to his house (well his momma’s house because he lived with her) where she had suffered a massive stroke.
Dude I'm disabled. Like cannot stand for more than 15 mins a time without being in pain. I had a guy come up and told me to give him my seat on the bus bc he was older (by like 10 years) so I did. I had to stand for 4 HOURS IN TRAFFIC. Also I just got off and airplane and had to hold both big ass bags. I didn't complain. But from now on I've learned my lesson and made my scoliosis XRay my screen saver just in case anyone tries to challenge me. I REALLY don't like confrontation... idk why I said this. That 1st post really brought up a lot of angst. Lol. Enjoy!!
When it comes to entitlement, someone who suffers as much as you deserves genuine consideration. Age has nothing to do with it. Chronic pain is horrible. No one should expect you to vacate your seat. Stand on your rights to remain as pain free as possible.
I have 4 blown discs, post surgery. My back is trashed. I'm 54 but look much younger and I appear to be in great shape. People have asked me to lift things for them, pick up stuff they've dropped, etc. I just look at them like their crazy.
I’m so sorry! I have a lot of empathy. I’ve got nerve damage as well as damage to my spine, which doesn’t show on the outside, and have been in your spot many, many times. Remember you don’t deserve to sit down less than anyone else, and don’t let these asshats make you hurt yourself to keep them “happy.” They’re never ever happy and they always want more. They can suck it!
Aaww you’re too kind, don’t be afraid to speak up 💕
Fuck that person who did that to you and I’m glad you don’t give in to that anymore
Charlotte- I love when you just bluntly state the truth.
“Go to the grocery store and make your own fuckin dinner if you can’t afford to eat out.”
I would subscribe twice if I could.
Love that one person who wanted "professional" images, but didn't want the "professional" to charge for them. That's actually literally the definition of professional: getting paid for your work! Photographers do have it rough! Story: the photographer at my wedding was easily 6'6", 325 pounds, and when he came to us at the end of the reception and said he was leaving, we were shocked. We said, "Did you take any pictures? We never actually saw you!" He said, "Yeah, of course, I actually shot one more reel than I said I would" (this was back in analog days). He was so good that not only were the pictures absolutely stunning, but this huge guy was the stealth photographer, somehow so unobtrusive we never even noticed he was there! We asked if we could pay him extra, which he refused. THAT'S a professional, and people like that deserve to be treated as professionals, ie, first and foremost, PAID for their work!
wow that's a lot of text
Ed Milham, that's a wholesome story! :-)
@@alicewilloughby4318 I suppose. Thing is, I'm a professional musician, so I'm used to being expected to work for free.
Ed Milham it seems like anyone in the arts has this problem
@@mariep6171 You don't HAVE to read comments. If you like short comments, then only read brief ones. I actually appreciate well written, thorough comments, especially if it is a good & relevant story. With the time it took you to hit Reply & gripe about about all of the text, you could have finished Ed's & moved on to another. Are you sure you're not one of those "entitled" people Ms. Charlotte is referring to in her video?
Fun fact, we couldn’t fit a photographer in our wedding budget. We have a photographer friend, but she was already a guest and we refused to consider asking her to work for free... so we got a bunch of disposable cameras and we were even lucky enough that the photographer friend later gifted us a digital copy of a small selection of finalised photos she’d taken.
Immediately after hearing the “do you ever just hold your boob?” comment, I hastily ran into my husband’s office and was like “SEE?!? I’M NOT WEIRD!”
Lmfao 😂 I loved how she went for it in demonstration but stopped like oh wait no, I'm streaming, that's public.... lmfao 😂💜 same. Not much to hold, but Same.
IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
Interesting to know. As a man I must say, a lot us find it comfortable sleeping with our hands in our pants. Not necessary touching anything. Just in there. Safe and warm.
Thank you!!!!!
@@wyett123 Though I would prefer holding a women's boob.
In regards to the homeless man saying he's vegan. I once met a homeless man that approached me when I was in my car. I had just come out of walmart, so I was at their parking lot. I had bought a pound of chicken wings and three boxes of the sushi they sell there. That was going to be my lunch and I was starving. As I'm starting my car, the man approaches me and tells me he just got out of jail and hadn't eaten anything in many days. I offered him some of my sushi and he just makes the biggest disgusted face and says, "What is that, fish?". I tell him they're California Rolls and he can have them if he wanted them. He just says, "No, I don't eat fish". Then he says, "Are those buffalo wings I smell?". I was already annoyed at the guy because he said he hadn't eaten in many days, but stands there and refuses what I offered him. I tell him, "Yeah, its wings. I just got them, fresh". He says, "Aight, I'll take that bag off your hands". I tell him I can give him like 10 or so, but I'm also hungry and I hadn't eaten anything all day. He just rolls his eyes and says, "Nah, I'll pass. I wanted the whole bag. What is that, two pounds of chicken wings?". I tell him its just one pound and he says, "Nah, man, one pound won't fill me up. Later man" and just leaves. I just want to know how you can be homeless and starving, but have the audacity to turn down food just because its not exactly what you expected?
people are people, many ranges of being decent. He could have been homeless because he might have a medical or illegal drug problem, or he could have come from a really rough background, however, it's not excusable they are all real reasons, last but not least some people are just jerks wealth doesn't determine to be a jerk which most people assume wealthy people are.
@@dootdoot94xo44 because when you are hungry, food is food. You can't be a beggar and be choosy too
my guess would be he was lying and just broke, or he was not lying and totaly lost grip on reality.. either way, u realy have no reason to feel bad for him, entitlement is a psychological illness that is very hard to cure, and u acted like a decent human, something alot ppl these days seem to never have learned at all. have a wonderfull day u lovely example of a human being
This sort of thing is especially annoying because there totally are understandable and reasonable reasons to turn down free food even if you are really hungry... A diabetic might have to turn down an offer of an orange juice, some people are deathly allergic to peanuts, etc. But claiming to be that hungry and then turning down the food because it wouldn't fill him up? Wtf.
@@victorvera5864 wow dude...like really wtf?!!?...YOU spent YOUR money to get YOURSELF something to eat, and outta the kindness of your heart, offered him some food after learning "he just got out" and he denied it.... because 1 pound of food just isn't adequate enough and how dare you offer him 🍣 that wasn't freshly caught Wild Alaskan salmon and hand rolled by THE fuckin sushi masters of Japan....u have a lot of nerve Falcon
🤣.........but for real though dude...some fuckin people 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏼♂️🤷🏽♂️
Is anyone else so proud of Charlotte without having met her? lol. Like the success and momentum she is gaining on UA-cam is SOOOO REFRESHING! Definitely look forward to every upload! #TeamCharlotte
Omg 🥺 thank you so much Jessica your kind words mean so much to me.
@@CharlotteDobre 71.9? Were you not at 68 or something last week? Wow, you're not growing, you're exploding! And well deserved! :-D
I completely agree! Every video she posts , I feel like a proud mama chick. 🤣 It’s so weird, because I’m so happy for her, and tell everyone to subscribe to her because she’s the awesome potato queen. Lol
exactly
her channel is the only one i actually watch all the commercials, so she gets credit and have more sponsors .
10:44 - I broke my foot dancing at a wedding reception and the bride threw a fit and asked me to stop being so dramatic and called me an attention seeker because the staff was helping me (helping me to a bench, ice for the foot, free beer - they were afraid I was going to sue them. I didn't. I'm just a bad dancer.) She ended up in tears and stormed out of her own reception. Groom stayed and offered me a ride to the ER.
Jesus. For the groom's sake I hope divorce is on the horizon.
I dont understand this whole entitled bride crap. I seriously doubt a bridezilla is just a witch for that one day ie RUN!
Wow. Just wow.
@@tuttyfat I think women are told from an early age your wedding day is "Your special day. It only happens once. It's your day to be a princess." They look for the perfect dress, the perfect color of this that and the other thing, want the perfect ring. And when something isn't "perfect" instead of rolling with it, they feel the whole day is ruined. And I think the Karens of the world are so wrapped up in the "wedding day" they forget they're actually getting married.
@@carolann811 that is a solid theory, one which I completely agree with. 😊
If you don’t feed the photographers at your wedding you are not a nice person.
Right!!!
How tacky!!
Seeeeeeriously.
Also add the musicians to that list!
If you don't feed the photographers at your wedding 💒
If I was a photographer and had the day free, I'd do the wedding.
The photography is free.
And then I'd keep the pictures. They weren't part of the deal.
I like this.
This, do this.
HAHAHAHAHAHA amazing idea!
Do the wedding eat the food drink the drinks take personal artistic photos of the scenery for portfolio, hook up with one of the bridal party, and then yes, never speak to them again... Unless of course they want you to do another free wedding haha
Brilliant!
"If you're 16 and pregnant...just stand there and think about what you did"...yep. all by myself. A MIRACLE!!!
I would have just told them I was 25
@@TheFastingStoic It's got me beat how any thinking human imagines any female got pregnant by herself. Apparently it has happened; called "exogenesis" but it's extremely rare. And a genuine miracle. Way past time all the men/boys involved were called to account and held responsible. My rant is over; but it seriously annoys me. Old days, women weren't even considered FIT for marriage unless they fell pregnant before. Lol.
Well fuck yeah she should think about what she did. It's not that bad that she got pregnant. Nobody gives a shit about that part. And I agree, it takes two to get pregnant and blah blah blah... But she decided to keep it. That's the stupid part. If you are 16 and pregnant you should get an abortion. Don't just stay pregnant as if you have no choice, what the fuck is wrong with people. Would still give her my seat though... poor thing. Somebody that stupid must have a horrible life.
Some people can't afford an abortion or maybe their parents or the father's parents didn't want her to get rid of the child. Things happen and there are consequences for it but shaming a 16 year old girl and saying they should think about what they did is a absolutely horrible thing to do. If you were pregnant you would want someone to give up their seat for you.
I've seen that. But the pregnant woman was like 35, and the woman who was sitting said: "It's not my fault if you're a whore who bangs anyone". Very offended, the woman said that she had a couple. And the other one answered: then, It's not my fault if You're banged a man Who can't afford a taxi for you! 🤪🤪
the "free" wedding photographer, I would take the job, then I would spend the whole day shooting, ad at the end I would tell her "oh my god...I forgot to insert a card in my camera" 😂😂😂
You know what would happen then? She'd probably sue you for breach of "contract" saying now she doesn't have photos of her precious wedding because you deceived her maliciously, and if she had known, she could have hired another photographer. Probably wouldn't win, no money was exchanged and she might not be able to prove you simply forgot, but I bet she would make your life a living hell. Funny idea though. LOL
My brother did some wedding shoots back in the day. The first rule was: Get paid FIRST in cash before unpacking equipment. NO CHECKS! Photographer is last guy paid and first guy stiffed. Wedding party would often be indignant having to dig through their pockets when they were told this when booking.
Not paying in cash? LEAVE
Being verbally abusive, drunk, or ridiculously demanding? LEAVE
Once pics are taken, LEAVE, don't eat their food or hang out, just work and LEAVE
Also; give them the film and let them handle processing it (remember film?) LEAVE
Let their dumbass cousin with cheap camera "take pics" if they don't like it and LEAVE!!!
That's just sad
@@briansullivan6448 What about if you sold her the photos at a high price after? Like she called you to take photos for free and you did, deal over. If she wants the photos she has to pay or recreate her wedding for someone else to take them.
What you should do is take the photos then add obnoxious watermarks to all of them and charge her a premium price to have the watermarks removed. It’s how they do it at Graduations 😂
When I was dating in college, my profile states that I'm a broke student, and that I can't afford a fancy date. I said that I can afford my own coffee, but not lobster. So if you're gonna ask me out to a fancy dinner, I'll order what I can afford but hell no I ain't splitting half for your lobster and steak. (I'm a girl BTW). I had to be specific on my profile since I had guys wanting to take me to fancy places and expect me to split the bill. Needless to say, it helps to be spell things out sometimes. I'm a cheap date. But yes, it is nice if a guy offers to pay for my $3 tea.
Well yeah i think it's reasonable to pay for your own meals. What I didn't know is that splitting the bill meant as including the price of the fancy meal divided in two 😱
Dear burning4rmwithin, I must be old-fashioned because when ever I asked someone out I offered to pay. After all, I was the “asker”. Then again I tended not to go to expensive places and I always thought a coffee date a first up acceptable gambit. In return I never asked for much save that they either were happy or at least faked it. I never thought for a moment that buying someone a meal meant I could automatically leap on their bones.
Then again for a long time Intended to date (adult) students who tend to be on the broke side, and I’m a little sentimental about struggling students.
But I would never stoop to inviting someone out to a flash place them lumber them with half the bill, especially for a first date.
In my world, whoever extends the invitation is the one who pays for it all.
That is very common practice here in Europe.
@@LA-wv7gf ugh that's the worst kind of guy. Men who can't even pay for their portion but expects their date to shouldn't even be dating.
But you're reasonable???
First date for me: I go to the Coffee place early, get my own coffee, then wait for my ‘date’. That way I can leave whenever I want without feeling obligated to stay. I pay for my own stuff and give us both an easy way out after 30 mins. As soon as our coffee is done we both decide if we want to keep the date going or if we want to leave. I think I’m pretty considerate when it comes to dating.
K Leon Excelllent
^ This is the way.
That's how I roll.
Now to get a date. Oof! Self-own!
Now with the pandemic going on, virtual dates are really good for this kind of thing, actually both people save a lot of money and you can be much more comfortable in your own home...
Same💯
Hey, about the woman who wanted to pay her friend to introduce her to someone... that isn't entitled. That's practically begging. You can call it weird, but it would be entitled if she was just expecting her friend to do it. I can empathize with this woman because about 10 years ago, all my friends were in relationships and I was the only single guy. I asked them if they'd introduce me to their single female friends and they laughed at me. They said "Go find your own woman." I wasn't asking for a hook up or a hooker, I just wanted to be invited to a party or to casually be introduced. Hell, I would have paid them. Sometimes friends can be downright jerks.
So yeah, I feel for that woman. I needed better friends too. I don't talk to any of them anymore and had better luck meeting new people on my own.
I thought Mikael Bloomqvist always had women around him. 😂
Dress nice, show a little class and be confident. Men lowered the bar so low, it’s seriously not any harder than that.
@@juliomiranda7013 I still dont think it's entitled. She just wants an introduction and is willing to pay for it and invest time into it with no guarantee of a return on investment. Pathetic yep a little but not really entitled. I think she'd be better off just paying an dating agency instead that will match her to her "dream" man.
@@juliomiranda7013 You sound like a stereotypical NiceGuy. If you refer to women as "used up", that would explain why so many women blew you off.
they clearly are not good friends
Some of these are priceless!! 😂 like Charlotte said...is the first one even real? 😂
Is rape real?
If my parents would get me any car and I would push it into a river because I don’t like it, they would probably get it retrieved just to sit me inside it and push it back in again
If my parents would get me any car 🚗
As they should...
I would throw that spoiled brat out of the house so he becomes a man, and forbid him to return until he's figured out and earned his own shit.
Congratulations! Your parents are qualified for their Asian Parent PhD
ROFLMAO!!!
I had to laugh about the free refrigerator.
I did a free fridge many years ago, and I ended up delivering it to the person, who really was in need. Difference was, this person was not at all entitled and just needed help out of a bind. She offered to pay me for doing so; I thanked her and told her, "keep it and put it to good use." She was in tears as we left.
I have done similar things several times, but I would NEVER even consider such a thing if the recipient was behaving in an entitled way!
@Mel Lutz Same thing here - I had an old vacuum cleaner to give away and my annoying, self-entitled line manager said he'd take it for his son who'd just got a new flat in a city 50 miles away - and could I deliver it! Ended up giving it to one of our cleaners who walked across town with it to give to her daughter. The daughter's boyfriend had left her supporting a kid on her own. Slipped £500 inside one of the small brush extensions so when she gets round to using them, she'll get a nice surprise.
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I get cold sweats whenever I see a message start with "Can I ask a favor?".
Can i ask a favor?
Mine is "Are you off today?"
I effing HATE that.
Mine will always be “we need to talk” gives me instant anxiety
Saw a bumper sticker that read, "Yes, this is my truck. No, I can't help you move.". Loved it.
"Quick Question", quicker answer...."no"
When Target first started opening for the first hour for older people or those with medical issues, I was a former employee at the store and the security guy saw me in line and let me go in the first hour. I asked him why, and he said he remembered I had an autoimmune disorder (it has the *possiblity* to kill me if it reaches my lungs). I told him he knew I was okay, though, right. He said he did, but said he didn't mind. It was so sweet. I never planned to or have used this as a reason to skip lines or not wear a mask (because that's stupid), but I thought it was great of him.
So hearing people DEMAND special treatment for just breathing is frustrating knowing people who are in terrible circumstances health wise.
As you mentioned the masks:
There have been so many people berating others about "you have to wear a mask" and acting as if they "know" anything about a strangers medical situation, because they don't feel that person should have an exemption and that it is only made up... horrible how people have become aholes and acting like they are some sort of enforcer, but not having a clue - only based on their personal feelings. Horrible.
Uhhh, alcohol isn’t something you “believe” in or don’t. FACT: Alcohol exists regardless of your beliefs.
I dunno, maybe it's about being okay with other people drinking. Like me, I don't drink, but I don't care if other people do, so long as they're not stupid about it.
Pfft, you believe in alcohol?! Alcohol is a deep state conspiracy you know...
I wish, I went to lemonade wedding, because the pair were Baha’i, miserable “party”
A friend of mine who thought she was a Mormon (until later when they supported anti-LGBTQ legislation) asked me not to tell her spoilers for Doctor Who because she was waiting for it to come on BBC America and didn't believe in illegal downloads.
I pretended to look puzzled and said, "No, they do exist. I can show you if you like?" She and hubby were trying not to laugh and tow the official "not amused, how dare you mock faith" line. I guess that was the point I knew they were trying to hard to be what they weren't. That and the fact that it turned out she loved our gag gift on the birth of their baby - the ABC of elder gods. "A is for Azeroth, who guards the gates of Hell." Her older daughter told her she was going to have to stop reading it to the baby before it was old enough to understand the words!
@@SuperMarkizas
How sad that you can’t have fun unless alcohol is served
I DO hold my boob, don't even realize I'm doing it lol
me too lol
omg i just did it 😂😂😂
I was holding mine when she asked that!!
yup! its comforting after a long day of wearing a bra :)
Same. I think it's quite normal. My friend however told me sleeps with her fingers between, I quote, "her f***y flaps" 🤣
I was a manger at a Pizza Hut. My cook had a seizure, hit his head on the oven when he fell back and was halfway under the oven. You can see right back into the kitchen. People were yelling at us because they had to wait for their pizza until the EMT's got him out.
Oh my god! Was he ok?? Poor guy 😮
Holy hell, that sounds horrifying! I hope the cook is safe and unharmed
Omg EXACTLY!!
I've been a stylist for upwards of 12 years.. Your haircut, highlights, and/or "custom color" don't always cost the amount of time it takes your stylist to create what you wanted.. They cost the years of experience, not to mention the constant learning/researching new techniques and trends. I know not all stylists are glod, and at least 25% of them aren't passionate about their craft... But haggling your stylist on the price??? No ma'am.
Re: holding boobs: yes, I think we all just want a little support from time to time. ❤😊
I used to do hair and you're 10000% right. Lol.
I have been in the hair business since the mid 80s, and if I had a dollar for every time I was asked for a free or discounted service because "it's only a haircut" I'd be a millionaire, lol!
I now only do my family's hair- too many people wanting services (color/highlights/perm) and not wanting to pay for the Product, let alone my Time...
I had a Facebook marketplace adventure. The couple came to pick up a free, very nice, wooden bunk bed with trundle drawers. Started walking around my garage asking to take other items. Literally the only thing being given away was the bed. When I told them that, they kept walking around asking for my stuff! Ouch! Ah the gratitude!
This happened at a garage sale an ex and I had at our house once. Most people were nice and in and out. This one mom and her kids kept hovering and one of the kids kept trying to distract us. I was a correction officer so it wasn't happening. My ex finally told them they could buy something cheap or go.
I’ve never asked my lady to pay half, and she hasn’t asked me. Sometimes I pay sometimes she does.
That’s what my husband and I did and still do. Sometimes he pays and sometimes I pay.
I do that too... Or maybe if we don't have a clear plan of what we'll do on the date then he pays for one thing I pay for another
its like the old "all in the family" show where Archie complains to a tv repairman about a bill for 20 bucks for "just turning a screw." Repairman replies " You're not paying for me turning the screw. You're paying for me knowing where to turn the screw"
Now you were the one entitled.. "beggars cant be chosers".. beliefs are not something to make fun of regardless of the context. And let alone when youre tottally missingormed.. Since when is a vegan diet super expensive? How much do you pay for rice fruit veggies grains and beans? Its expensive if you want to eat vegan ice cream and vegan saussage and vegan burguer and vegan cheese and vegan butter and all the crap that is processed... being a vegan is litterally the cheapest diet.. give the begger beans and rice and he will be happy and you probably havent spent even 2$ on it..
*misinformed
@@isabelpinheiro1333 Begging then having requirements about FREE things received is messed up, no matter who you are and what it is.
@@isabelpinheiro1333 Being a vegan is a serious matter, but There maybe Vegan people who are humble and likeable , and there maybe vegan people who feel entitiled and annoying. The video is about the second type.
“You just press a button!” That’s why you want a professional photographer, with references, an impressive portfolio, and years of experience. To press a button.
I would say to them "No, when you take a selfie, you just press a button and that's not photography".
@@hedgehog1965uk Of course, it's photography, but it's not the type of photography they have in mind when they ask for a professional photographer.
"But you just press a button!"
Literally the only person I have done something like event work for free was my own sister and it was her wedding since she knew I didn't have much in the way of money or time to put towards her wedding day at the time. But it was funny interacting with guests that didn't know I was also the brother of the bride not just a photographer and treated me like I was "the help" and shamed me for mingling or something. Even though it was made clear by my sister to the guests it was a small, cheap, backyard wedding (and it really was) where the whole wedding was done and worked by close friends and family (plus bride and groom) offering services either for free or for just cost of materials. Literally my sister did the wedding on a budget of about $15 000 this way. Best part was when she started posting the pictures after I sent her the raw image files to put up the next day for people to see, and people where telling her to demand a refund or sue me for my work. Before I could even reply my sister had already put them on blast telling them; I did it for free of charge, these where only raw images not the professional edits, explained they are insane if they think somehow a photographer could edit over 1000 pictures with in 24 hours of the event; I was so proud of her! lol
See, I love it when we siblings and cousins can get along! :)
I got one for you, I was cleaning out my closet and had about 5 small bags of clothes that I posted to a free stuff Facebook group. Within like 5 minutes this girl had commented 3 times and messaged me twice. Her first message was asking me to hold the clothes, her second was offering to PAY me to hold them. I said yeah I can hold them for a few days, I don't mind. She then asked me to drive over an hour into a busy city to drop them off to her while she's working. I said that I rarely ever get out that way. She comes back with this sob story about really needing the clothes, working all the time and having kids blah blah blah. So pushing my nature down I decide to give her the benefit of a doubt and say that I might be able to do it the next weekend and asked for a couple dollars for gas money. That was 2 weeks ago and she never responded.
She offered to pay me to hold it but then didn't want to give me gas money... To drive over an hour to drop off something I'm giving away for free....
This just blows my damn mind.
Lesson learned though. Always go with my salty side when dealing with things like this.
Similarly to the half eaten cake story: i currently live in switzerland and the first place i worked at was a chinese restaurant. We often had a lot of tourist as it was in the central part of zürich. This one time in particular a big group of chinese-americans came to our restaurant, ordered a looooot of dishes, but particularly a bunch of rice bowls (not my table btw). Turned out they were brought 5 bowl and the 'Big Boy' of the group started yelling at my colleague cos HE ordered 6. She brings him another bowl and flash forward to pay time. He tells her "we only ate 4 bowls, so you can take 2 back and we will pay for the 4 we ate" my colleague goes "uuuh wut? no? that's not how it works." they start screaming the entire restaurant up and the 'Big Boy' screams he wants to talk to the manager.
Manager comes over and tells Big Boy the same thing my colleague did. "you ordered these bowls, you touched them. You can have them to go, but you will have to pay" that didn't sit well with Big Boy and he starts screaming even louder "THIS IS ST00PID! I AM AN AMERICAN AND THIS IS NOT HOW IT WORKS IN AMERICA!!!" (it was kinda funny cos he was saying this with the biggest chinese accent ive ever heard and my family in law is from mainland china lmao)
All in all they kept making a giant fuss and everyone in the restaurant was shaking their heads, customers and workers alike, until the wife was so embarrassed she begged him to just pay so they could leave. In order to have them leave, my manger agreed to not charge for the 6'th bowl that came late if he would pay for the fifth and just gtfo. He agreed and they finally left leaving a MASSIVE pigsty behind them from where they had eaten. They also complained they were charged 1CHF per glass of tapwater. (this is common in Switzerland)
Some people are just so darn entitled smh. If you cant tolerate how things work in different countries. Stay home.
I'm sure this is obvious, but that is NOT how things work in America 🤦
As KT Jones said, in America you pay for what you order, not just what you eat, just like everywhere else! What a jerk!
Haha I'm the third person to say this, but that is most definitely NOT how it works in America smh.
This guy was definitely not from America.
Americans order something take one bite refuse to pay because they don't like it.They are loud and rude.They ask for discount all the time.We have a daily special but no they complain that's expensive. Or why do we charge them in dollars because its a touristic place.The whole island uses dollars.
"Do you ever like hold your boob.."
I swear I never admitted to that until NOW 😂 THANK YOU Potato Queen for helping me realize I'm not alone 🙌😂👌👍
YOU ARE NOT ALONE BABY
It's just comfortable, isn't it? 😂 Like nothing sexual about it, I just like the weight of a warm hand.
I do it too mostly when I’m in bed trying to fall asleep.
Ditto. I also like to put my hand under the waistband of my jeans, not fully down my pants, just there. No idea why.
Guys hold their balls of course women hold their boobs
I hateeeee the "You just push a button" bs!
Once, when I was shooting a wedding, some uncle came up to me and said, "That camera must take great photos!"
I came back with, "Not if I don't hold it right!" 😂
I once photographed a wedding for free. It was my aunt's, it was small, I got free food and this counted as my gift, and I was a teenager just starting to get into photography as a hobby. It was a lot of work, but it was a great experience.
But again, it was my aunt's small wedding and the expectations on me were pretty low. Asking a stranger, let alone a stranger with years of experience, to do all that for nothing (not even free food) is just absurd.
And with no breaks when would they even be able to eat/drink what they brought? 🙄 worked at 2 different Tim Horton’s & was there for 14 hours no break,nothing at one of them,(other one wasn’t much better)Took a drink of my water and got yelled at to ‘get back to work.’
Hated working there,so many instances of making me do all the work alone-even the manager (owners gf wouldn’t show up).
But once in awhile on 3rd shift it wasn’t busy and I’d just get some extra time to sit around & do nothing,also pretty much ate/drank whatever I wanted & gave out free stuff sometimes. To be fair the first one I worked at made their friend a manger & he stole $50 from my purse,& they told me he’d never do that & then found out he embezzled from them. 😆😆
Please dig deeper into upstaged bride! Here’s what I found
“Bride claims 'hugely pregnant' bridesmaid pal owes her a wedding 'do-over' ... One angry bride claims one of her bridesmaids owes her a $30,000 “do-over” for the big day, alleging that the “hugely pregnant” friend stole the show with her “electric personality” and “tall, incredibly attractive” husband.” Taking the entitlement even further!!
😮😣 what a horrible person!!
10:42
*Inside the Groom's mind
Status Report: Divorce Imminent😂😂
Thank you for the info. At first I thought maybe she went into labor and that would definitely upstage anyone, but still, how long were those people engaged? If that was such a problem for the bride, surely she knew her friend was very, very, pregnant BEFORE the wedding. She could have asked her to sit this one out. It certainly doesn't seem like that would have bothered bride-zilla one bit. Of course, then she wouldn't have had the opportunity to create such drama....
I'm assuming that somewhere between all the showers, dress fittings and the rehearsal dinner that she realized her friend was pregnant, right?
The ones about photographers really irked me. I’m a freelance artist and get asked ALL the dang time to draw people for free. Uhhhh NO! I can’t eat and pay bills from your happiness.
That is literally why I walked away from the field. I once saw an ad for someone looking for a videographer for a project. They required the person have years of experience, a red camera (about $3,000 at the time and hard to get), and they wanted them to work for free.
Well, you're just being selfish! LOL (That's a joke, by the way). I've known a few artists, and I've seen the HOURS of hard work that goes into becoming even halfway decent. Drawing for free? HAH! That's like asking an auto mechanic or a plumber to work for free. Or ANYONE!! It's just too stupid to tolerate.
I was working for an elementary school. I did a small favor for the EC class and painted a logo on a board for them. The principal saw it along with a gift during our Christmas Secret Santa that I painted for another teacher and was impressed. She asked me to paint a huge mural for the school. I asked how I was going to be paid. She skirted around the issue. Asked if I'd volunteer my time.. NO! Asked if I'd do it on the clock then.. NO! As a TA I don't make a living wage and have to work two jobs as it is. I was like I charge more than I make here for painting murals. Needless to say I didn't end up doing the mural. I took me decades to become this talented and thousands in student loans so heck no I ain't volunteering.
music producer here. People contantly expecting free beats. I don't get it i never expected things for free in my own carreer. I'll gladly give some away if i like and believe in the artist. But never if people ask for it. It's just rude.
We were in Hawaii back in 2005 for our wedding anniversary. At a luau, this woman kept annoying me but I didn’t let her know it did. I was very nice to her since she was there with her husband and three children. At the end of the night, she said to me, “you need to take a picture of my family. You’ll do it, right!?” She was very condescending. I smiled and said, “sure.” She gave me her camera and as they got into place and smiled big, I zoomed in on her husband and took his picture since he actually rolled his eyes at her. Wish I could have seen her face when she got the pictures developed. What a bitch. (This was the old days when we used regular cameras.).
I bet those cameras were awesome looking! Even though I have a gut feeling I’ve seen one before, but still they must have been great to use!
Even though any camera today is great
I work at a Costco and it was devastating watching elderly and disabled people try to fight the crowds to get the bare necessities, so yeah we should try to cater to the people that need extra help
Thank you!!!
"If you weren't born in USA don't contact me"
Harry Styles: oof
She doesn’t want douchebags trying to score a green card pretending to love her.
SciCurious that’s all she will attract no man wants that
@@I_Am_SciCurious it's not like she's out here shooting cupid's arrows herself. It's clear she's not expecting true love, just blind monetary servitude.
@@I_Am_SciCurious I think it's the other way around lol she's probably looking for a green card
Russian billionaire: “Okay US lady. Boy these American weemen ar demandeeng”
My wife & I were pretty young when we got together. We've got through our respective schools, student loans, horrible bosses, bills, bills, bills and were finally able to own a house of our own. We worked our asses off to get where we are today. During all of this, we had to learn the hard way to say, "NO!" to a lot of folks. It's still hard to say no but the bigger the crocodile tears the easier it is. We've never been rich by any definition but it just seems that because you can pay your bills, you must be rich and should share your wealth with perfect strangers.
Well done, Jaspr. Unfortunately, it has become an elitist act to profess the value of hard work and self-sufficiency. These individuals will ask incredibly unreasonable things of you and then tell you that you are evil and driven by money when you decline. The irony is they are too. They want the things your money is able to buy, they simply refuse to do the work involved in earning it. I have to stop watching these entitlement videos but I just love, Charlotte.
The Person asking to be introduced at least wants to pay.
Everybody else is expecting things for free🤷♀️😅
Whenever offered "exposure", my go -to line is "People die of exposure."
A girl I went to HS with was always posting things like "my baby has a doctors apt tomorrow in a different town. Need a ride at 11am must have 2 car seats hmu if you are interested" um what? Lol 😂
Bro people like that make me feel so much better about being 24 still getting my BA because I couldn't afford classes. At least I am doing something to improve myself.b
@@rrteppo you're doing great! I just got my Bachelor's degree at 30 for the same reason (had to save up first).
I always wonder why they do that. Has that EVER worked?
That’s such a strange way to ask for a ride. x.x
But why so many rides in so many areas at a specific time…? That’s so bizarre lol
Lmao the restaurant heart attack one has happened to my old manager. A guest choked on food and she had to do the hiemlich and CPR to save the guy. Then a couple complained that it ruined there dinner....she just lost her shit and asked them to leave lmao
good for her tbh!!!
Kind of related to the pregnant post you read: a few years ago I went to the store to get Plan B after a "malfunction in birth control" and I got the dirtiest look from the pharmacist while I checked out. I can only assume it's because I barely look 25 at my current age and back then I probably looked like a teenager.
In my head I punched her with my left hand so she could get an up close look at my wedding ring.
Or take the ring off.
Put it on the middle finger.
Then "show her the ring".
And switch it back onto your ring finger and leave😂
Omg that "I feel betrayed" one hits hard... my mom LITERALLY gave/sold everything my grandparents & dad said I could have (including family heirlooms) when she inherited after my dad passed away out of spite that my grandparents left her out of their wills and gave everything to my dad and I. Pray for me as I now deal solo with my mom the KarenSupreme...
Just because someone is related by blood doesn't mean you must tolerate them. She sounds toxic so I would limit my exposure to her. When my Dad passed away my half-sisters and half-brother were trying to get some of his stuff. I refused to let them because when his health declined and he was no longer able to help them repair their massive homes and nice cars they suddenly had nothing to do with him. I was stuck chopping wood while pregnant to keep him warm, taking him to all his appointments causing me to loose wages, dealing with his finances, etc. I had to beg them to come to Hospice to see him before he died. Then they have the nerve to request stuff. Bug off! Then they stuck me with the funeral expense knowing I had just lost my home a couple years before and still had not recovered financially had a 2 year old and a baby on the way. All while bragging about having millions in investments and multiple properties. Plus their children were grown and they were empty nesters. I told them all exactly what I thought about them in the days following the funeral and I haven't seen nor spoke to them since. No love lost there.
We have family like that too all my mum was able to get from my great grandparents was a wierd cigar box that has a duck picking up the cigarettes and one of my great grandmas hand made quilts. everything else was purged by realitves even though they wernt part of the will :(
Looking at what you wrote I can only wonder the reasoning behind why she did that, were you a bad daughter in some way that caused her some financial grief by racking up some bills? did you ever assist with the housing costs including food bills? if you answered no to the first question and yes to the second then I cant fathom the reasoning behind why she'd do it and not let you have a keepsake of your grandparents/father.
When you said "Do you ever just hold your boob, just cup it" So relatable and I thought I was the only one! It's not like I am fondling myself haha! I just kinda criss cross my arms and hold my boobs when I relax at home watching movies ect. So funny.
I thought I would find that sexy, but it just sounds a bit weird. I guess it the equivalent of us guys "adjusting" ourselves through our pants sometimes. It just needs to be done.
@@hedgehog1965uk its somehow comforting. kinda calming too 😅
Lol, I do that too, I thought I was weird 😂
I do it too 🤣🤣
I cup my girls all the time and massage when I'm bored, its.very comforting.
When i was dating. I made sure the woman had her stuff together. I wanted a help mate not an anchor. I found her and it’s been 17 years now
It is the most natural thing to ask for but it is way more acceptable if the woman wants it for some reason...
I can’t believe the “invitee” or man or whatever are expected to pay. If you are invited it’s up to you to determine if you got money to got out or not. If your friend asked to go to the mall and she buys clothes is she expecting to buy you some because she invited you? Whenever my parents were invited they would reject if they didn’t have spending cash for them and me. People who think someone should pay because of “manners” or whatever is either entitled or dense.
CookieDough
I’ve always made sure i was since i was 18 I either worked 2 jobs or worked serious overtime. I don’t go to club’s and I don’t blow money... so yes I always concerned about being a help mate... it does go both ways.
@CookieDough I agree that at least in my country, even if the man and the woman both work, woman does the cooking, laundry etc. Since men are not taught those things, they don't even try to learn them(not every men). That's why some women are afraid to work and marry here. But Idk, I think saying men are the providers is an old mindset. My mom was the provider through out my childhood. She had to work 15+ hours a day while my dad had a job but he didn't have to attend everytime(real estate agent). So he took care of me with his sisters help. Those kind of families are more common in this day and age. Being the provider isn't determined by your gender, but your pay
Agreed. I look for the same in a partner. I want to have a partnership not be a burden and I don’t want to date a burden. True partnership is proper give and take from both sides.
For those "free photographer" leeches, I would show up, eat my own food, drink my own drink, and take the most amazing pictures of my life.
I would then cover all the proofs with watermarks, show them, and tell them " the photographs are free, you must pay me to remove each watermark from each picture.
Hahahaha! That's awesome! Put the watermarks over faces! Lol! Well played!
That's petty as hell!!! I love it.
Nice
I knew this girl in high school, We were sorta friends, but I hadn't seen her for years We reconnected online and she suggested we catch up and have a girls' day, in person. She didn't own a car and told me she lived in an area that was about a 25 minute drive from my neck of the woods. The next day, she texted me her address turns out she lived more like an hour and a half away. I brushed it off, figuring that she was confused or something. I picked her up, and we drove back to my area to chill. She kept asking if I wanted to pick up alcohol to drink. It was like 10 am. It was really weird. After an awkward hour of me explaining that no- I didn't want to get hammered before noon on a week day- we finally decided to go get pedicures. We got to the salon and got our toes done. Mind you, her pedicure took a bit longer, as she had gotten a super extra fancy deluxe pedi. It wasn't a problem, though- I didn't mind hanging out. After we were both finished and it came time to pay, she told me that she didn't have enough money to cover her pedicure. It cost about 60 bucks, not including the tip. I asked her how much money she had brought with her, and she pulled out like 4 bucks or something. Annoyed, I told her to keep her money and went ahead and paid for both our pedicures. After we left the salon, she began asking if we could go get some alcohol. At that point, I decided it was time to take her home. I drove her the hour and a half back to her place, exchanged pleasantries, and said goodbye. The next morning she called me bright and early- asking if I could drive out the hour and a half to get her to bring her to my area again. She said it was an emergency- something having to do with court and her children. Oh, and she'd need a ride back home too. Needless to say, I declined.
Run, run as fast as you can!!!! 😂🤣
I have (excuse me) HAD that friend. She was always mysteriously short of cash after we would get together to do something she suggested. Then the final straw, she was in an abusive relationship so I paid for her divorce (40K) and she said thanks and moved to another state. Fast forward one and a half years, phone call, crying about hubby beating her and throwing her out of the house. Help me. My knee-jerk reaction was to send some clothes and essentials to her and book her a motel room. Then she wanted more and more and more and I found out she was also hitting up everyone we knew. That was it. I severed ties and never looked back. She tried to ooze back into my life but I just turned her away. In hind sight, I always wondered why she didn't go to her family for help.
@@janetliles4851 She didn't go to her family for help because she had already burned that bridge ages ago. But don't beat yourself up. You did a nice thing and helped her out in her time of need. Then she proved herself to be a terrible person, so you cut ties, no regrets.
@@janetliles4851 omg You are absolutely amazing!! I'm sorry that she felt so...dependent on you. I hope that you are surrounded by family & friends that appreciate the awesome woman that you are. I would love hanging out with someone as kind & generous as you. Thank you for helping her twice. The fact that she acted so inappropriately is on her, not you.
@Tee S Wowwwww...yeah you'd think people like this would have a sense of shame. I'd find it embarrassing to have people pay my way. I love when people ask for money for someone else. It's like, okay- your mom "needs help"? You're her daughter- help her. ;)
I'm a photographer too and get asked all the time if I will spend the day on a shot for FREE. When I say no, people flip on me! This is why I don't want to go freelance full time
I would do the "free" shoot and then hold the photos hostage for a big payout.
All you do is press a button. It cant be that hard🤣
@@getoffmygrass4857 One of the worst things they argue with too!
When I was 31 and pregnant people thought I was still in high school. That pregnant glow made me wind the clock backwards on my face! No one should judge someone on their looks while pregnant!
Yep. I was 23,going on 24 when I had him and one of my friends who worked service desk (I was a cashier) told me people kept going up to her asking if I was old enough to be pregnant.
My sons dad said people gave him dirty looks when we were in public thinking he was in his mid 20’s (he was he’s almost a year older) &
I was only 16 or younger.
@@momentsformoms9467 Oh so you totally understand also! 😂Your poor husband! Everybody thought that you were jail bait and he was robbing the cradle literally! Yeah, people were worried if I was going to graduate high school! I said I already graduated college and their eyes 😳 🤣
Sometimes I would go walk around with my daughter. And during the times I would go walk was when the high-schoolers were getting dropped off from the bus. Well I was walking and I had a group of girls behind me saying, "That's the girls that dropped out to have a baby." And I also had parents give me a look and one actually came up to me and said, "Sweetie you should of really closed your legs or at least given it for adoption." I was 25 when all that happen and now I know to go walk during the early mornings.
@@ThatGirlNamedClarisa So sorry that happened to you! People are so rude! Yeah I can’t educate them or change their mind so changing your routine to avoid most people is wise! I think smarter people do more in the morning anyways so you going to be around a better pick of population 😊
@@Schquirl Honestly for real! Sometimes people really just need to keep their mouth close and mind their business. Unless I asked or something in danger, just walk away haha.
When it comes to dates, I think who ever asked pays. If he asks, he pays, if I ask, I pay. If we're just hanging out and randomly decide to get food, then either of us pay and the other person pays the next time. It's about balance. I can't assume a guy can afford to pay for a date right then if he agrees to going out if I was the one who asked.
I completely agree, especially if I picked the place. Some of my favorite places are a little pricey so if I'm really wanting to go there, I feel it's only fair to pay.
This needs to be the unspoken rule. Then once you’re in an established relationship, you take turns paying
It must be understood before the date whether it's 50/50 or one sided if asked. I always preferred 50/50 because there may not be a second date. I don't want any expectations from the payer for some sort of extracurricular activities because he bought my burger.
@@mjones5760 Yes! I prefer a first date to be very casual so 50/50 is great too.
I agree! If I choose the place, then I pay. If they choose the restaurant, activity, etc., I still offer to pay half so they have the option to split the bill. On a first date, I definitely don't assume that the guy will pay.
I have cerebral palsy and I don’t even go when it’s set aside for people with mobility problems. Many people have a harder life than me.
I did it once and decided that as I have a buggy for balance I am good during normal hours. My CP is more on the mild side so I am good most days.
Seth K Johnson same here. I also have cerebral palsy, but my mobility problems are actually pretty mild compared to others.
God bless you Seth
That last photographer one ... I yelled out loud "WHAT!!!" and scared my cat, at the bring your own food and drink. I don't know why but that was just to much for me.
😂
I’ve totally experienced that where a beggar wouldn’t take what I was offering. He was sitting outside of a store almost blocking the door so there was no way to go around him. So he asked if I had any cash which I didn’t but I said if you wait here I’ll go buy you food and bring it out. He said “Oh no no food. I’m looking for cash only.” He wouldn’t take the food so I gave it to another person begging that he was with. That person was thrilled to have food and immediately began eating as fast as he could!
My husband was a poor college student and a beggar came up to him looking for money for food. He had McDonald's gift certificates (I don't think they even still have those, do they?) and he was going to give the man some. The guy looked at him and laughed and walked off. Yeah, he wasn't hungry.
Maybe he needed money to buy medication, clothes....etc. is not all about food.....
Michela Pirvu Yes that’s a possibility or sure and I do give them cash if I am at a stop light or something where I’m not actually walking into a store. Some people say don’t give them cash but I do it anyway. My job is done when I hand them the money what they do with it is up to them. This particular incedent he was in front of a dollar tree nearly blocking the entrance so people didn’t have a choice but to interact with him or offer help. Because I was walking into a store and didn’t have cash I offered to buy him food. When I came out with just food he refused it and said he wanted cash so I handed the food to the man next to him and he was starving so he was so happy to have some food! Even if the man truly needed cash for a medication or something he should have taken the food anyway. If I was starving and struggling enough to be in that position I wouldn’t turn away anything or anyone trying to help.
Here in Germany my parents would always tell me "don't give them money, they will only waste it on drugs or on smoking" which is maybe true to a huge part of the homeless here in my city.
But if you come across the right one he will be glad to accept your bread, pizza, .. whatever. A while ago I saw a homeless guy in the inner city and I asked if he wanted food and then I went to the next Pizza store nearby (which was even like a fancy restaurant) so I ordered a Pizza and brought it to him. He even said "Ooo you didn't have to buy such an expensive one!" But for me that wasn't really too expensive and I had a bigger smile giving him that Pizza than if I would have eaten it myself.
Few months ago as I was working as a face-to-face fundraiser. We built our stuff up on some public space and there was a beggar right besides us. That day I had little tartes/cakes with me from the supermarket and I gave them to him. We were working for "Help" and I was the only one of our team to give a homeless person/beggar something whilst we were all promoting a organisation which helps other ppl in other countries to get proper food and water on themselves and else but no one gave our local helpless people anything.
Idk I just wanted to mention this rn as I found that quite hypocritical.
They beg for alcohol and dope money. They dont beg for food.
With the vegan homeless person. It probably not a "diet" to him. If it's an ethical position eating meat would be very distressing to him, not just like eating broccoli when you don't like it, and honestly the kind thing to do would be to allow him to choose what he eats, regardless of dietary stuff. Because he's a person and he shouldn't have to forgo his personal autonomy like that. Homeless people are humans and deserve their personal choices to be respected.
They don't have to eat whatever they can get if they choose not to. He's not entitled for saying no to food he didn't want. If he doesn't want it he doesn't want it. He didn't demand that the poster go back into the Chinese restaurant and order him a vegan meal, he said he didn't want the meal that he was offered. He's within his rights to do that.
If you want to help him get some food, invite him to come into subway or wherever with you and say you'll pay for what he picks, or something like that. Treat him like a person. He's a human being.
100% agree. It's not like the guy said "buy me something else", he just refused something he considered unethical. If anything he deserves praise for sticking to his morals, even when probably quite hungry and faced with a hard decision.
Agreed
Totally agree
This.
(i have not used my youtube account in a decade, wow) This is a super great point I 100% agree with, and it made me remember another thing about being strictly vegan. Sometimes, it's because meat and meat products could be an allergy, like gluten, and eating it could have done way more harm than good for him. Veganism, like being gluten-free, may be treated and looked at like a fad diet, but there's other reasons why someone is a vegan that aren't related to personal choice and he is absolutely valid for rejecting something that may have caused a huge allergic reaction. We don't know his reasoning behind it but ethics are just as valid of a reason as allergies.
It reminds me of a time in a restaurant I used to work in where a woman ordered a hamburger (with mayo, lettuce, tomato, etc) for the homeless man who frequently came in for cups of water and to use our restroom. He came back in a while later and asked for a new one because he's allergic to the lettuce we use. He kept apologizing and I told him I understood and got him a new one. Hell I'm lactose intolerant, if I was homeless and someone gave me a cheeseburger I'd thank them then see if I could exchange it because of my allergen. I'd be grateful but I'd also be within my rights as a human to ask for something I would be able to eat. Homeless people are allowed to have their allergies and dietary restrictions be respected just like anyone else
I started a Photography business in 2019. When I first started I offered free photo sessions with the purpose of getting my name out there and starting my portfolio. I received hundreds of responses from people showing interest in a free photo shoot. I even did a wedding for free. Then once time passed, into late 2019 I was already charging for photo sessions since the purpose of doing for free was met. One lady asked me to do a wedding and I told her it would be between 500 and 800 dollars, plus the price of printing if she wanted a portrait done as a canvas or an acrylic wall art print that looks amazing on any wall. She was like, "No, that's a bit high. I was thinking you could do it for $25.00 or maybe for free. I heard you were doing free photoshoots, so you could use our wedding to practice on. Oh, and I also want the photos unedited and without your logo so I can edit them myself and post them". I told her that was a while back and I no longer do free photo shoots and my prices are much lower than what any other photographer would charge her. She just hit me with the, "But, you're just pressing buttons, so why charge so much when I could do it on my iPhone for free." I simply told her that my prices stand and if she wishes to use her iPhone, that's fine too.". She just replies with "Omg" and then "rude" and blocks me lol.
Photography is an art. Dont let anyone sell you short :) And if she could have “dont it herself” (love when ppl say that byw) then she should have. Asking the price from someone and saying “no thats too much” is so rude and degrading. I hope your photography takes off to where you want it to be :)
Yeah i'm not sure it was good thing to get the word out for free weddings and such, that sets a bad precedent for entitled karens, devalueing your work in their eyes.
Glad you stood your ground
The problem working in the art departments. If we don’t put free/dirt cheap prices, little would be interested to our work, but if we really offer our work for free/dirt cheap, people will assume that’s the fair price and will refuse an actual fair, reasonable price for our work next time. Either we have none to extremely little amount of customers, or have our service/work extremely devalued and regarded as “cheap” or “worth next to nothing”. Unless we’re very famous and very well known.
You're definitely overpriced especially for a career that doesnt even pay well to begin with.
We were leaving a nice dinner in La Jolla, California and came across a homeless person. We offered him our leftovers (Lasagne and Chicken). The homeless man said he only eats Organic!! OMG! Organic and he's homeless!! True story!
He's just trying to eat healthy . . . But still: beggars can't be choosers . . .
@@thomasraahauge5231 organic food isn't always healthy.
I’ve had two homeless ppl refuse or turn on me for offering them sealed snacks. Won’t bother again
Why try to force your charity onto others? Homelessness doesn't mean losing one self-respect and values, if a person doesn't need or want your charity, then simply give it to others that needs or wants it. Why do you have the mentality that just because you are giving means that someone of less fortunate should be really appreciative and must take it? That is not the spirit of a charity nor a charitable mind.
Back before the virus I volunteered at a soup kitchen and some of the people who came through treated us like a restaurant being upset about some of the choices. Um, this is free, donated food. We don’t get any choices either.
I used to do pen and ink drawings. So many peop,e would say, "oh that's really good. Can I have it?" They meant give it to them for free. When I told a coworker the price was $300 she came unglued and said it was just paper and ink! Forty hours per drawing was $7.50 an hour!
The couple at the restaurant reminds me of when I was an EMT. We got called to a house that was hosting a Christmas party. The poor patient was elderly, collapsed on the floor and had vomited. Party goers were literally stepping over him while sipping drinks! No one gave two shits about the poor man.
That's extremely sad
Man, that "Because it wasn't a Jaguar" one reminds me of being in high school with millionaires' kids (After having grown up in the inner city). Where they'll sit there and talk about how much they hate their dad and hopes he dies, because he never does anything for them. However, when bringing up "Didn't he just by you a car for your birthday?" they counter with "Yea, but it's a BMW... And NOT the Mercedes I explicitly told him I wanted!"
Damn, not a lot of love for BMWs going around.
Why did some men invent the BMW? So they wouldn't have to go door-to-door telling everyone they're an asshole.
@@twinklefire7241 to be fair, that pretty much applies to anyone that own an expensive german car 😁
God there never was enough food and winters were the worst when I grew up.Some people have it to good.Moving 5 times a year because youre dad can't pay the rent.Happy times😁Some kids are truly blessed
@@serdarkocak1277 pfffft...you think you had it bad growing up? I had to save up my whole mcdonald's salary for my Fiero, and it was a used one! Life isn't fair sometimes
I knew a girl in college that let her friends drive her car in the woods and trash it because she wanted a new one. Her parents bought her a brand new car.
I was once at a Bar getting myself a Drink when someone i knew came over to me to talk, out of politeness i asked them if they would like a Drink, they said no thankyou i have one but i'll take the Money instead. They didnt get the Money.
You did laugh like a madman didn't you.
@@davidsolomon2712 Not exactly like a Madman but i did laugh, they saw nothing wrong in asking for the money, some people. lol
Sounds like a joke
@@JeeZwriter64 It does but it actually happened, the cheek of it.
@@gerontius1934able I believe it, but that's just crazy!
When an ad pops up, I watch the whole thing and don’t skip any part so that I can support you and your channel. If I had to make a “Top 10 most beautiful things I’ve ever seen in my life”, you’d definitely make it to the first spot. ¡Eres hermosa! Love from Costa Rica 🤗
Thank you so much Andres!!
I was wondering about that. I didn't know I had to watch the whole ad or not. Thanks for the info
I have UA-cam premium so it's ad free. Does watching the entirety of the video count?
Katy Ieaner you certainly don’t have to watch the whole thing. There are several ways Charlotte can make money; watching the whole ad does help, but she’s already making money if you were to skip the ads.
Tanya Lee absolutely! Subscribing to her channel and not watching the content is actually harmful. The more you watch, the more you help Charlotte position her channel and improve her stats and profile in UA-cam’s eyes.
I collapsed at work just a few minutes before opening and 911 had to be called. My coworker went outside to let the customers know there was a medical emergency and we would not be opening until the ambulance arrived and took care of the situation. One of the customers asked her “did you even think about how that would effect me?”
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How rude
I think u making that up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@shirukaporras9879 how do you know? Were you there?
@@madelineryan548 were u ? Hahahaha
6:35 This CEO thinks by hiring someone, he owns them. The employment contract is for working hours only. Employer can't show up at employee's home on Sunday am and demand work.
There's a BUNCH of CEOs and supervisors that think like that, sadly.
And CEO gets paid bonuses!
When you work with the public in a cashier/server position, you see who different side of humanity. It's very disturbing..
I could NEVER work with the public!!!! I have little patience and no filter. It would be a disaster, I know this, so I've just never even tried. Cashier's, waiters, nurses etc are all incredible ppl in my book and deserve great respect
@Michael Price the sayings go "It is harder to give compliments, than criticism.". And "Criticism flows from the mouth but compliments take contimplation". A sad reality
Correction, you see a true side of humanity... this is how people really are, they just put on a mask in most situations. Most people are genuinely terrible human beings, especially since modern society promotes narcissism and general obnoxiousness.
I worked in Rite Aid in high school and I second this comment. Luckily, our manager believed “the customer could always LEARN what was right” and she didn’t take crap from anybody. Thank you, Shirley, wherever you are!
Was once a gas station cashier for a year. I had to put up with a bunch of douchebags.
I crochet and I dont know how many times someone told me "I can buy that cheaper at the store".. I usually just say go ahead!
one girl wanted me to make her a blanket. I showed her the cost of the yarn( on a store's site) and she said I was lying!
amydmac1 i get that a lot.. it’s so annoying
"they're good, but I don't like that their commitment lasts for work hours only"
Gotta love how employers are rigid in their enforcement of contracts when it benefits them, but expect their employees to be flexible in return. You're always expected to do a little extra, to go above and beyond out of loyalty for the company. But it's always a one-way street.
I found a driver's license in a parking lot once. I took the time to look up the person's phone number to call them and let them know I found it so they could pick it up. They demanded I bring it to them! You're lucky I didn't toss it in the trash and let you pay the $150.00 to replace it. Such a d bag! People are terrible.
Did you bring it to them? If so you can't complain about them.
@@lorsange1107 Why would I have? Single mom at the time with no car. I'm not in the habit of doing what rude people demand. Especially when I don't know you from Adam. I'm a nice person, if it was an old lady who was under the weather n asked nice I would have but not when you demand things. They made their teenager pick it up... eventually.
Where I live you can drop a driver's license and even library cards into the post office box and they will send it to the address on it free of charge.
@@Sabrina-wn6ey they don't do that here sadly.
I once found a signed blank check and thinking that it was the right thing to do I looked up the individual's phone number and gave her a call to let her know. Her reaction was “soooo, just destroy it” and hung up. I called her back and said “Sorry but it's too late. I filled it out for $100 and mailed it to “Food for the Poor.” … which I subsequently did.
I used to make name tags for people at my work, I would do this for fun on my free time. I had one girl ask me 9 months after I left the place if I could make her a name tag again. I told her I was in college and had homework/ was busy (I also was 6hrs away from home). She told me that I was a B!tch because I made everyone else’s, I proceeded to tell her I only did that when I worked there and if she didn’t lose hers then she would still have the one I made too. Then she asked if I could send her one in the mail?!?? People. Are. Crazy.
Wow
I feel like social media influencers have some kind of personality disorder
Most of them have a really well-known personality disorder: NPD - Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Look it up, my friend. You're welcome. ;)
Also, "social media influencer" is the new nice term for "camwhore", "attention whore", "cyber slut", "cyber diva", "blogger/vlogger performer", and other formerly demeaning terms for the self-indulgent performers that they actually are. Now that they are pseudo-mainstream, they have a nice term for them. Ironically, they are borderline accepted while the same people look down on manual laborers, low-tier musicians, stand-up comics, and a variety of creatives like apes and scorn sex workers from strippers to porn stars to sexual surrogates to prostitutes as if they are somehow morally bankrupt compared to "social media influencers".
Which came first, I wonder. Did they become influencers because of their disorder (and what would they have done prior to the internet) or did the attention they got, however little, from strangers cause the disorder to develop? I am genuinely curious of everyone’s opinion.
@@pattipeters9861 I’m sure a bit of both. They probably had it to begin with and it exasperated it but I’m sure it’s different for everyone.
@@jennahyser7245 probably. Ty for your opinion 😊
@@TheWatchernator wise words
That homeless person may have allergies or health conditions that requires them to eat that type of diet just because they are homeless doesn’t mean they don’t have medical conditions, health conditions, religion, allergies etc.
Agreed. So what, if you are homeless, you can’t have any beliefs?
Thank you. I've been homeless and my stomach is fucked (something happened when I was born, stomach pumped multiple times, etc) and it's never processed meat properly, so I'm vegetarian, and I'm also mildly lactose intolerant, so I eat cheese but I have to be kinda careful about it and keep it down to a dull roar and people were so fucking mean about it. Like, doesn't matter how polite I was, they'd be a prick. I decided to just accept and find someone else to pass it on to after awhile.
I'm sorry but that's entitlement of the person offering it, imo. Feeling entitled to the reaction they want. I can think of no other reason you're mad at me that there are 0 circumstances in which shitting myself with explosive diarrhea is better than being mildly hungry in a first world country where there's fully packaged bread and pineapple in the dumpster and cans of beans are, like, 50-80 cents. Is eating cold beans on dumpster score bread ideal? No. Shit better than being physically ill, at least I'll actually get nutrients from it. My body will actually reject what you are offering me. It serves 0 purpose to eat it. Even if it's tastier than what I might end up eating instead. 🤷
"I don't need to puke or shit myself to prove my sincerest gratitudes for your half eaten leftover Chinese food that I didn't ask for, you absolute douche."
I wish if people were going to have a shit attitude they'd just ignore homeless people. People feel really entitled to voicing loud opinions about everything homeless people do like everyone homeless should just be holding out soup bowls sounding like dejected Victorian children at all times or they deserve to be shit talked.
No matter how desperate someone is, your unsolicited opinion is still absolutely worthless.
Tbf I wouldn't like to eat meat if I were homeless still, beliefs are beliefs
Exactly. Charlotte please show some empathy and consideration :)
@@JoeyisDREADful your situation that you described is totally understandable and a perfectly reasonable reason to politely decline someone's offer, and people had no right to be rude to you about it or treat you like you were ungrateful. The people that I believe the person in this video are referring to are the ones standing on the corner with a sign saying how hungry they are and begging for help, stating "any little bit helps" and then when offered something they bark "I can't eat THAT!" As though the person should know that and are heathens for even offering it. I've had this happen every single time I've offered to help someone who was holding a sign saying they were starving and would take anything. several times I've gone to McDonald's and gotten someone a quarter pounder meal. The first time the response was "ugh McDonald's? I guess that'll do, it's so unhealthy though!" the second time was "you wasted your money, I don't eat red meat, you should've just given me the money" and the third and last time was "is that all you brought me?" Having a legitimate health concern is one thing. completely understandable. I don't know how i feel about the vegetarian thing, only because my mom is a social worker who works exclusively with people in poverty, and part of her job is food assistance, and in her 15 years of doing this job, has she ever had someone, who was truly starving, turn down anything to eat unless it was because of a bad medical reaction they had to something. Her work does their best to accommodate diets, people can list if they are vegetarian or vegan, but because they run off of government funding and donations exclusively, they can't always accommodate that, and she's had to say to many people over the years "I see that you're vegetarian, our warehouseman will get you everything they can but our donations were low this week so we don't have as much as normal, I'm so sorry we can't be more accommodating this week", and every single time the person has responded "hey, I'll take meat items if that's all you've got, I'm so hungry I don't care what's in it, I'm just glad to have something to eat"
So on the one hand I don't think anyone should tell a homeless or hungry person "you can't be picky when you're homeless" because they're still human, they get to have their beliefs and preferences and shouldn't be treated like they have to take ANYTHING handed to them or they're ungrateful and not really needing the help, but on the other hand I can see why it's frustrating for people to offer their help and have it turned down.
Wait Charlotte has lied. She has babies, we are all your potato babies.
I nicknamed my hubby "potato" 5 years ago ❤ 🥔
Cherrys Jubilee my hubby sometimes calls me Spud
YOU’RE a potato
MrsLawrence47 cutest lil spud ever xxx
You want a professional photographer to work for you FOR FREE while demanding YEARS of experience and follow YOUR rules while not paying a thing and you don't even have the decency to offer food and drinks for all the work you want done???!! Who would deny such a "once in a lifetime" opportunity. If covering a wedding is so simple and you think it doesn't require payment then give a disposable camera or a mobile phone to a relative and ask them to take pictures. Geez, it's horrifying that many people like this exist. 😲
This was probably the most disturbing one on the list in this video.
Agreed. If professional photography is so easy and simply ask that one drunk uncle or super snooty aunt to take pictures of your special day. Professional photographers know how to capture those once in a lifetime moment that most people don't even notice. You want quality work you HAVE to pay for it.
Someone should accept the offer and stroll around their wedding all day with his own food and drinks, free of charge and give them a single random picture in the end.
Job Done!
@@dottwate Yes, either that or take tons of good photos and then hold them hostage for way more money than he would have charged them.
I would LOVE a future wife with your level of sarcasm. Deadass cracks me up.
Wow! I'm getting married in September and I've already paid both my photographer and videographer in full, and gave them seats at the wedding. That one was really insane!
my grandson just looked over my shoulder and said" wow that lady is so pretty I will marry her" you may have a long wait for the marriage as he is only 9
Aww, I think it's sweet.
Here’s a whole ass story that one of these reminded me of. It was about 45 minutes of the worst shit show at any job I’ve experienced ever. I waitress and one of our regulars collapsed while walking out to his car. He had parked right up front and the whole wall is windows so you can clearly see whatever is happening in the parking lot. Our manager rushed out to help him and performed CPR but sadly the man didn’t make it. Ambulance arrived so the inside of the restaurant was lit up with the flashing lights, like there’s no possible way to ignore what’s happening outside. Literally all the other servers and the bartender were outside crying watching this man die. My section was right against the windows where everything was happening, so they’re like ten feet away from it with just a pane of glass separating them. The restaurant was almost full when this started, so I wasn’t able to offer my tables another place to sit. They also didn’t want to put down their blinds (fkn WHY) and I would have had to crawl across them to force them to close them. And since all the other servers abandoned their tables I was the only one to help anyone. You’d think people would be reasonable right? NO. NOT AT ALL. “Excuse me! Waitress! Can we get some service?!?” Coming from about thirty tables. I’ve never had a span of 45 minutes where tables were more needy about the dumbest shit. An example: asking for half cups of water in a new cup to be brought out frequently instead of a full glass that would require fewer trips on my part. I think I blacked out part of that time from my memory because it was just so hectic. But yeah my coworkers SUCKED that day so they had to go out back to cry it out after the ambulances left before getting their shit together and coming back to help. Idek where the manager went during that time. Ambulance left and not too much later a server who I truly despise showed up for her shift, looked around and saw a shit show and said f this I quit. So not a bad day, actually. But Rest In Peace, sir. Obviously I’d work with that bratty server everyday if it meant he had made it.
I personally would have chastised the entire restaurant for their selfishness and remind them that there's a life and death emergency happening so they will have to wait or leave. Sorry about the loss
Most customers are shit. Regulars are the only thing that make it worth while. RIP to a good regular
Your hair matches your eyes perfectly.
In a "drapes and carpet" kind of way?
I get what you mean, she's beautiful.
Nice teef
🤣🤣 I'm a guy usually could give a shit about that sorta thing , but I was like " damn ! She is so beautiful "! Her eyebrows match perfectly 🤣🤣🤣🤣 first thing I noticed
Her voice matches her hair as well. It all go’s together nicely.
The 16 and pregnant got me. LOL. Entitled woman behind me said babies having babies is just so wrong. My pregnant daughter was in front of me paying for her groceries. I told the EL that she's 21 and old enough. EL asked how I knew the pregnant girls age. Come back....shes my daughter.
The way I was raised if I had said anything like these things in my life I woulda seriously got the shit slapped out of my face
From the 90's 😁
so you were brought up correctly then!!! carry on
"You just press a button" this usually comes from people who don't understand photography and use a mobile phone and just press it's button, they have no understanding of post production, extra equipment, insurance and travel costs!
my maid of honor was very pregnant on my wedding day with her rainbow baby, and I was just so incredibly grateful that she drove the 2 hours to be there and support me, she wore her flip flops so she would be more comfortable and I was ecstatic that I could share that special day with her and the blessing of her pregnancy, because that's what friends do for each other
Sounds like you're great friends, cute
What is a rainbow baby?
@@monkeycigs4762 highlight, right click, search google
@@monkeycigs4762 usually means a post-miscarriage/loss of a baby I believe.
@@ambereyedbabygirl awwww, that's sad
How do y'all comfortably *demand* money from random people and 'friends'? I'll *ask* for $8 and if they have it they kindly let me borrow. If they can't spare it, they say that and we move on lmao
Honestly tho! I’d request it kindly if I absolutely had to and would have the intention of paying them back.
And how do they all so brazenly put their photos on those ridiculous social media demand???
I won´t be able to face people I knew (or even going out from my room) from embarassment if I posted those entitled money demand with my face and name clearly visible.
"If you drink alcohol or believe in it don't contact me" *sips shot of Chartreuse*
What does "believing in alcohol" even mean?
Is there some kind of religion based around alcohol?
@@gabrielemagnabosco8926 I mean.....I would join that religion.
I just don't understand people who feel they have to get drunk to have a good time. What sad, unimaginative people they must be. Many years ago, when I used to answer personal ads, if anyone had on their ad/profile "I like to have a laugh/good time", I always thought "What the hell does that even mean, apart from getting pissed? That doesn't tell me anything useful". If they don't have any actual interests or hobbies outside of their work, they must be boring a hell.
I'm not locked in here with alcohol. IT'S LOCKED IN HERE WITH ME!!!!!!!!!
@@hedgehog1965uk Its not a matter of "getting drunk to HAVE fun", its more like "Drinking to make things MORE interesting/funner". At least that's why I drink on weekends
I have a high school buddy who contacted me after 8 years of no talking asking for money to help her "move". After I told her that I wasn't in the USA, she proceeded to ask for my parents/brother's contact so she could go over and ask. When I told her no, she went and blocked me. After talking with a mutual friend, she told me that she had asked her for money also and it wasn't so she could move, but instead to buy drugs.
Never lend them money. If you are you won't get it back ever.Emergency happen
That's so sad
I gave away a couch once and a woman called me and said she wanted it and I said she could have it. Then she asked me if I could deliver it 16 miles away to her house. I said no, if you want it come get it. She got really pissed because I didn't deliver "her" couch. She threatened to sue me. I told her she could try.
A couple of days after a mom asked if she could bring her son and get the couch. She was really sweet and I don't think she had a lot of extra money so I was glad I could give it to her instead.
I really hate entitled people. They make life hard for everyone else.
Sorry for the rant. I'm new to this channel (first video) and I really like it so I hope there will be a lot more of them.
This is the first video I’ve ever watched where they didn’t “quack” out her cursing. I love it! That earned a subscribe!!! 😂❤️
just started to watch your videos and i can say you make me laugh so hard thank you for that
Charlotte is wonderful, no doubt 😊
This is the first video I've seen of hers and I agree. She's funny. I love the shape of her mouth and the faces she makes, they're adorable and quirky.
@@FriedSynapse HONESTLLYYYY
that girl who said dont contact her if you drink alcohol sounds awesome. about to hit her up, i don't drink at all and she said nothing about speedballs
HAHAAAAA! 😂
About the vegan beggar thing:
When I was a kid, maybe about 10 years old, my mother decided we were all "vegetarian" (we ate fish and were actually pescatarian but she didn't know there was a word for that, this was in the early 2000s.) No choice for us kids, mom's decided. About 6 months to a year later, she decided she was tired of cooking vegetarian and suddenly introduced meat back into our diet, again, without our choice. It made my sister and I both VERY sick, to the point of nearly vomiting, having to go to bed, et cetera.
If the homeless guy is vegan, eating a non-vegan meal could very well do him more harm than good.
Agreed, and it's not expensive at all! In fact its cheaper 😂
Agreed maybe he can’t eat
Dairy it might make him sick.
If you can be vegetarian you should at least be able to afford it. Haven't you ever heard Beggars can't be choosers?
@@uknowwhodontyou921 So even though my tube fed daughter needs expensive formula or she'll be sick, we shouldn't give it to her because we can't afford it? People with allergies should just eat whatever because its cheaper?
I went vegetarian for years in middle/high school-- until out of state family came to visit and we had a huge family barbecue. Something was prepared specifically for me -- I have allergies to a lot of what everyone else eats -- and I couldn't be ungrateful.
That gratitude caused me days of suffering, from the initial nausea/vomiting to just feeling miserable for days after--all thru their visit. It sucked.
“My rent actually costs 800 exposures” 🤣🤣🤣