Mum Is NOT Happy She Was Not Invited To The Wedding! | Say Yes To The Dress: Unveiled
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This bride and groom eloped to Italy for an intimate ceremony, and even parents were not invited. Now back home, the newlyweds want to celebrate their marriage with friends and family. But the bride's mother is not happy about not getting invited to the actual wedding ceremony.
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I want to know what these people do for a living to be able to spend $18,000+ on a dress
And able to afford to elope in Italy and buy a different wedding gown! Somebody has money!
Maybe it is her husband that has money and not her.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj jealous 😂😂
SERIOUSLY!
The one she picked was $12k which I know isn’t much better lol
“It costs a lot of money to look this cheap." Dolly Parton hit the nail on the head with that quote. It's iconic.
Randy is a fabulous therapist. I love his heart and ability to read a situation
True, I wish he my therapist!
So true😊
Randy is such a very good person.
He sure is!
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I love the fact that the request was for a dress both "sexy" AND "skanky" -- and the first THREE were Pnina Tornai designs! That's incredibly telling.
😂😂😂
Exactly!
Yeah, I've always said that Pnina Tornai makes wedding dresses for strippers 🤣
@@indigocarra2762Strippers gotta get married too
@@DustyHoney with the kind of pennies and broke stripclub addicts coming into the club's for the last decade, they would be lucky to be able to afford any of those dresses LOL
I understand eloping. There's so much drama associated with weddings. A party will be fun!!
I find elopements more romantic than weddings as well. We turned ours into a vacation and don't regret it for a second.
@@ganymededarling We'll probably do the same if push comes to shove. His parents won't care, in fact they are strongly encouraging us to just elope. But my mom will be heartbroken. She does want us to get married as soon as possible though. She'd be mad about me getting married without her or without saying anything but she wouldn't be mad about it being quick and small.
there's only as much drama as you allow.
Same! But my boyfriend doesn't! He wants a big wedding....😅 (which I find really touching and lovely. BUT my family is stressful AF)
Not really as it can be a fun affair if you want it to be.
I didn't like the layers on the final dress but Lord this girl could look fab in a flour sack! Happy marital bliss to her
I didn't care for the dress she picked at all.
I didn’t like the last dress, but you’re right. She looked amazing in everything!
Totally agree, she has a fabulous figure and I hated the dress she ended up picking. It said to me, Slutty Bo Peep
@@debrakildau9288 Agreed. I think the 2nd one was the nicest on her. The last one just wasn't right. It was a nice enough dress just not for her.
@@debrakildau9288 Agreed. I think she chose it to get the process over with, since she knew that Mom just really wanted to see her in the dress she got married in, and wasn't enthusiastic about any of the other dresses, although she tried to put a good face on it.
Can't blame the Mom for wanting to see her daughter in the dress that she got married in. Once they got to the part where she was okay with looking for a reception dress then they were on the same page. Great job Randy!
The mother looked extremely sad on not being at her daughter's wedding.
This woman looked fabulous in all gowns.
Not necessarily my choice but she looked stunning.
Randy always respectful and supportive.
Australia ❤
It is also sad she couldn't be happy for the daughter that is preparing a reception to redo the wedding.
@@Willowy13 How can her mom be happy when she cut her mom out?My late mom would be extremely angry with me if I didn’t have her and my brothers on my wedding day.
The point of elopement is legit to not have an audience so now they're doing something stateside
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj That's the purpose of an elopement. Not to have a giant wedding thing. Her mom is being selfish honestly. My mom was overjoyed to find out I was married. I didn't even tell her. My brother did because I had no plans to tell anyone about it unless they asked since i had been with my boyfriend for 9 years and just bought a house. I figured it didn't matter. But she was thrilled. Ecstatic. She eloped too, and didn't do a wedding either. So she understood there was no need for a wedding.
@@eeriecraft1797 You don’t have to have a big wedding. My cousin had a small one with just immediate family from both sides which was not even 20 people.
I am wondering if Randy has a minor degree in psychology. The way he addressed the mother's hesitation towards the different gowns and came up with a solution was incredible!
No I'm pretty sure its just scripted
Before I saw the reply, I was going to say same thing. Scripted!!
Its all about psychology.
When his job is to consider the people having one of the most important moment in their life, you learn to understand people. You may not be 100% correct, but you learn to read the room better especially when it comes to selling products of that cost.
Wow for once the mother of the bride is sympathetic and actually cares. Her gripe is actually understandable. What mother wouldn’t feel burned not getting to see her daughter get married?
You usually don’t invite anyone to an elopement. It’s kind of a private intimate thing.
But also, that’s the point of an elopement. You’re more concerned about the moment with the person you’re with and focused on just yourselves. You don’t get married for other people.
@@brookelynnwu8016 But weddings in Italy aren't legally binding for Americans so they had to have something stateside, even just a courthouse ceremony. Why not have a small ceremony that mom could attend then?
Just because you're family doesn't mean you have a right to be in their life.
The mother can be upset yes absolutely.
but in the end it's the bride's choice and it needs to be respected
@@helenholt1161 that's what they're doing. That's why she's' dress shopping. And they may have gotten the certificate and things already done. Which you have to do for a normal marriage in the states anyone. The license has to be purchased first. Then you can get married. Some states/cities say you have to wait 24hours, during covid there wasn't a need to wait the 24 hours. but all the paperwork needs to be done BEFORE a wedding.
I would love to see Monty and Randy together.
Room isn't big enough for both their personalities. Would be fun to see..
Isn’t Monty and Randy the same person
@@kennedyblackner3561, could you imagine
@@kennedyblackner3561 lol nooo
@@JodiLeaSnakeQueen seriously I swear they’re the same person
I seriously love how Randy calls everyone "beautiful". It's so endearing.
I have always loved that, too! ❤
Bless her mumma. She just wanted to see her baby get married.
When my mom got married for a second time she went to Hawaii with my stepdad alone. I got to see the dress twice, once during her first fitting and once during the beach party we had once they got home. I was a little bummed I didn't get to go, but they had already done the whole big wedding thing before and that's not what they wanted for their wedding, and the pictures of them in Hawaii were stunning. She wore a simple pale silver mermaid dress with an antique gold trim at the bottom.
People are so used to weddings being about the entire family rather than a special day for the bride and groom, that family members take it as an affront to themselves when the couple decides not to invite them. A wedding should be about the COUPLE, not about anyone else. Everyone else should feel blessed and grateful they were invited at all. My mom married my dad in private too, and she still has no regrets about doing it that way. Less stress, less unnecessary bickering and feedback, more time for her and my dad to just enjoy themselves on their special day. No one else needed to be involved.
@@gothicMCRgirlbut I know for sure that you need some witnesses...
Their life??
Then when they want something in the future, the answer will be..
"Sorry,I can't! I have my own life"!
Lost my mom a few ago.
I miss her every day. I would like to see her in the next life.
Never had a mom who loved me like some moms do. So I have hope that In the next life I will have a mom who would go bridal shopping with me
My mother died at 58. I would have given anything to have had her at my wedding. It just wasnt the same without her
You can't project your life onto someone else
I really don't understand those see-through dresses that have such a weird bottom because it feels like someone made half of two different dresses and then glued them together, you can be sexy without looking like someone grabbed the scraps from a fashion class
😂 well said
Why on earth couldn't she just wear the elopement dress again?
I was wondering the same thing. I think a wedding is all about a show nowadays but to each their own i guess. Her money to spend 🤷
It's not about the wedding anymore ! It's about who has the most money to spend on a dress and a reception 😢📶
Cuz she can afford not to
Her Mum probably doesn’t want to be reminded she eloped all day. She’s her baby don’t forget. That would of been really upsetting and if someone claims they wouldn’t be if their daughter did it you might be on the spectrum.
@@nikitatrisha1616 I was thinking the same thing, because it's not like everyone saw her in her wedding dress. She eloped in another country and from the looks of pictures, it was just her and hubby for the wedding. So why not just wear the original dress. It's going to look new and fresh to everyone at the party that didn't see her get married. But to each their own. It's her money.
I'm honestly a bit annoyed that every time someone has an unlimited budget they go straight for the Pnina dresses. They feel so predictable and overestimated
Yes they expensive and so ugly.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj obviously the people buying them don't think so.
I bet it's staged and many of them don't no it the gown. The show is basically an extended commercial. They have writers, and everything we see is shaped to fit the storyline
It's their money
You know you've watched way too many SYTD videos when you instantly remember exactly what you wrote in the comments the last time the repeat was shown, just by reading the title, lol.
I think the disconnect with the entourage is because she already got married, and her pack wants another wedding dress. Once they got that out of the way, it was smooth sailing.
$18k for a reception dress?! Too rich for my blood!
She could have used that money to bring her mother to Italy with her.
@@beatnikmary sort of defeats the purpose of an elopement
You have to be a special type of self-absorbed to spend $18,000 on a dress. Really? She just seems so incredibly disconnected from the real world the rest of us live in.
@@camellia8625 Well having a Wedding Reception after you come back from eloping, kind of defeats the purpose of eloping too though.
Did you see the episode of that one lady that got 2 dresses for $51,000? One dress was $24,000.
Such a GORGEOUS bride- she slays in every dress she wears, even the ridiculous tiered one she chose. And it's obvious that she's just OVER the wedding drama and is happy she eloped because she just brought some random neighbours to Kleinfeld- 😂😂😂- good on her.
I understand that the bride wanted a party dress for the reception, but what happened to her original wedding dress? And she kept saying she wanted a party dress, so why not buy a party dress? And then she can do Randy's idea of having a mini ceremony in her wedding dress and change. I liked the silvery dress better than the one she chose, which was lovely and she did really look nice in it.
If my daughter did this, I would just ask her for time to get over being left out of her wedding. It's clear that she didn't do it maliciously and her mom seems to understand that, but a re-creation would just rub it in, for me. You're either there or you aren't. It's fine to have a reception, so just have a reception.
@@annfraley-mylife I think it is horrible that she didn't invite her mother to her wedding, what a terrible daughter. SHAME ON HER! She could have have invited immediate family to Italy, it sure seems like they have the money. If I were her mom I wouldn't forgive her.
@@MsLovestory01 Wow. Harsh and judgmental.
@@MsLovestory01 wow such vitriol
@@MsLovestory01 her immediate family wasn't getting married though, she was. What her and her husband wanted on the day is the only thing that matters, even if you think it was rude.
The bride is stunning! She looks great in all the dresses.
The Zunino was everything in her… glamour and party
Can't imagine wanting to get married without my family around me.
Yes, or at least, she could throw a party when she and her husband come back, wearing the dress and celebrate with close friends and family!
@@ChezMymy 👍🏻
I would not pay more than $2000 since there are many beautiful dresses at that price.
If the bride didn't bother to invite her mother to her wedding, why is she suddenly concerned with her mother's feelings now?
Very selfish!
We don’t know them - she had her reasons for sure. It looks like there were no guests so the mother shouldn’t take it too personal - it would be different if the mother was the only one excluded
It was their wedding - their decision.
If you are comparing guests with your mother then this is really sad. In the whole world there is only one mother and you should appreciate her ❤️
@@intentionallyleftblank3016 not really. Her daughter doesn't have to invite her mom. Her husband didn't invite his parents from the looks of it either. I don't understand how wanting a private wedding is selfish.
@@parijan4285 that only really works if your mother appreciates you. If she doesn’t then should you still invite someone who doesn’t care for your feelings or what you are going through to one of the biggest moments of your life? We don’t know what their relationship is like or it could just be a private wedding there is just not enough information to go off of here to really make an argument or to judge
Being a more frugal person, I don't know why she couldn't wear her wedding dress to the "party". And the price! Don't even
get me started.
Because she didn’t want to and has the budget not to. Just because you’re not as well off to get what you want does not mean everybody should do what you think they should do.
@@tifftiff_budgets that part! Some people can afford to have big lavish weddings and others can’t. Do what is best for you and your spouse for that day. Not the dress I would pick, but she looked gorgeous in all of them. Hope they enjoyed the ceremony.
@@tifftiff_budgets THIS. And I'm a fucking lower class person who grew up with a struggling single mother. There are times when I think people who sink so much money into weddings are crazy. But if they have the money (and they oviously do) and spending that much isn't going to put them into DEBT or hurt them in anyway then go for it.
I agree and even if I did want another dress, I would not come here as these dresses are a big rip off. I grew up in poverty so cannot understand how wasteful these people are. It is sad..
If she's already married and wants a party dress why buy another wedding dress. I wonder if she considered a tea length flirty dress. Seems that would be more practical and easier to party in.
My sister’s reception dress was knee length white with a nude top with a lace overlay. It was gorgeous and it meant she could dance in it. She also had custom made trainers with her name on one heel and her husband’s name on the other with her wedding date on the side. She said and I quote “it’s tacky and I love it”
I totally agree, these are not party dresses for reception..
I just can't with the Pnina Tornai dreses, they can make every beautiful woman look like they are wearing their underwear on the outside. Cheap and needlessly expensive
Extremely well said!
I think a red dress would look nice on her!!! Especially for a party.
I wouldn't ever get married without my mom with me, I can see why she's so sad
Her mom is fortunate to have a still living, now married daughter. The daughter is fortunate to have a mom who cares.
My guess is you lost a daughter? If so, I'm deeply sorry for your loss, and wish you comfort. Here's a virtual *hug*.
@@theprousteffect9717 Thank you for your kind words. I actually lost a son. He was an only child, which is why I thought of the ‘still living’ child. His wonderful girlfriend is still a presence in my life.
I’m so sorry for your loss ♥︎ ):
My son and DIL eloped. I was surprised at how sad I felt about it because I tend to be pretty liberal and hands off. A wedding is a rite of passage for an entire family; bringing a new person into the fold, celebrating and saying goodbye and giving a blessing to the new couple. I couldn’t do any of that and it was sad. That being said, they did their wedding exactly the way they wanted. My opinion was not considered. However, unlike the mom in this vid, I did not sit and sulk and remind the daughter how disappointed I was. What’s done is done. Get over it, mom!
@madelyn! That's pretty darn judgemental of you. I didn't think she was sulking. And BTW, they're in a GD bridal shop. Kind of hard to not BE REMINDED.
The one the entourage picked then ended up not liking was my favorite it was so gorgeous
For the first time EVER, I have to say NOOOO!😱 The dress she said yes too is so unflattering!! 😩
She didn't click with any of the dresses she tried.
The mum's still holding a grudge that she couldn't attend her daughter's wedding and perhaps also because it wasn't a big family affair, which is understandable because she probably had dreams of seeing her little girl in a big wedding dress and getting to have photos of the two of them together on the wedding day. The issue is her daughter is an adult and has a right to get married however she sees fit. We raise our children and hope for the best for them, and sometimes their actions and their own dreams don't align with ours, but so long as they are healthy and genuinely happy that's all a parent should want/hope for.
Bingo. It's the expectations that hurt us. That seems to add a lot of stress to weddings. You can't count on your kids living a picture you've had in your head.
I feel like she could have done so much better with an unlimited budget 😭😭 the final dress was nice, but she's so gorgeous, that final dress didn't do her justice
If this is a party dress…..does she need a veil?
my question as well.
I wondered if she got the veil or if it was just please the mom to see the look she not saw because her daughter eloped in Italy. Just a guess
Then again she eloped and then wants a party 🙃
@@jazlen20probably having a party to please the upset families
@@jazlen20Parties after elopements aren't unusual. I suspect they this is all a set up for the show anyhow
For 12K i should hope it’s a beautiful dress though the price of it could feed a village …
Wow. Gorgeous final choice.
Let me say it for those that don’t understand, people are ALLOWED to eloped without their parents or anyone else there!!!! IT IS THE COUPLES VOWS, THEIR PROMISE TO EACH OTHER. Not promises to their families.
Just don’t expect joyous celebratory parties with those who would’ve attended. Blow your parties out of ur azz.
Yes, but not taking your parents feelings into account after they bust their backs raising you, with all the heartache and expences that goes with that, it feels like very selfish and inconsiderate to me.
Marriage isn’t all about 2 individuals, don’t know what goes on in western culture but in our culture it’s considered a union between 2 families.
Also running away and getting married is what cowards do. Real lovers aren’t afraid of anything, they’d go to any length to get the elders to agree to their choices.
@@a.hussain2809 They did not elope because of their parents disapproval, it is sort of a "cool" thing to do and brag about in future at parties: " We eloped". I also believe that it is not only the joining of two people, but two families, except if they are both orphans.
i could never
You can see why Lauren eloped! Her mother sure doesn’t need her words to say anything. Her face says it ALL.
I personally wouldn’t want that kind of judgement and type of gaslighting during all the planning.
I don't see gaslighting here, but mom needs to process that sadness and refocus. Your kids are going to live their own lives
The mom was already having issues with not being invited to the wedding so I wasn’t at all surprised that she wanted a conservative white gown for her daughter.
A stunner! the bride is so jaw dropping ❤
This bride would look gorgeous in a paper bag! Stunning!
Dress #2 The prettiest NIGHT gown ever!☺
😂😂😂
I can’t imagine why she didn’t pick that second dress. I didn’t like the last one.
I feel so bad for the mother she looks heart bless her heart 😢
She's stunning. Wow!
Wants to make mom happy
*Elopes and has a wedding without her*
I don't get this one
I do. Mom should write her off. This type of treatment will continue with any children who enter the picture. Mom, make certain she is carved out of important and special family events.
@@DefendUrRights Yup and her kids will cut her out too. The cycle will repeat itself.
They probably got caught up in the moment or didn’t realize it was so important to their mom. It’s their marriage and a lot of people call ceremonies boring so they had a private ceremony with just them and then they’re having a party. They may not have realized it would still bother their mom since they’re having a celebration.
She was already married. She wanted a party dress. Why go to a bridal shop?
What a gorgeous bride
Dude even people behind them gasped at that first dress. 😂
Her dress is absolutely gorgeous
My husband and I just decided to go to the courthouse and get married one day. My only regret is that my parents were not there. We did the courthouse as we knew that his parents would object. (his parents hate me but, that is another story for another day.) We did not have a reception as we had been living together for almost a year and didn't really have the money for one and we didn't need anything.
$12,600? That’s literally my mortgage for a year. 😭😭😭
She’s stunning
Guys, guys, calm down. If you don't have a narcissistic obsessive mother you have no idea just how irritating it is to be around one. Mine straight up called me ugly in her work event that we attended together yesterday. Her smile drops every time someone says I resemble her. And I'm just a teenager. I can't imagine what hell she'll pull me through at my wedding. She just can't stand my face. Whenever I dress up to show her she makes a disapproving face and tries to ''fix" me. She's a wonderful mom but everyone in the family dispises her nitpicky buzkill attitude. I am not surprised she eloped, we don't know the full story. The mom should just let her be, she's not the one important here.
You are projecting. The mum is loving, the daughter is self absorbed.
@@teresayeates3437 Talk about protecting!!
@@teresayeates3437 I'm just saying people shouldn't assume either way just by one staged episode. I don't think the bride deserves scrutiny from strangers for her choices. And fyi, my mom takes pride in telling people how she treats people from outside with kindness and only shows her temper to her family. So you are projecting, I didn't accuse either of them, I just said shit happens and we don't know the full story here.
@@teresayeates3437 and you are judging that by a 10 minute reality show clip
@@aritry How is your mom a wonderful mom? You mean, she cares for you in practical ways etc? Honestly, what you described sounds horrible and very damaging, and I hope you are able to grow out of this and heal.
Wow,I can never understand bride's who need approval from their moms on what dress they are going to where> She didn't her moms approval to get married,now she cares about the reception dress? When I got married I found T H E dress right out of the box,my mother hated it,made me try on 13 dresses,finally the consultant and I told my Mother,"This is her dress"I didn't care what she thought.I bought it that day! Everyone at the wedding loved that dress. Then I over hear someone say to my mother,"wow what a stunning dress!" and my mother said I know, isn't it beautiful! Made me smile,that I stuck to my guns,and got MY Dress.
We're planning to get married and wrap our honeymoon into it, we'll be eloping so no guests. But we also plan to have a gathering afterwards back home. Nothing expensive or fancy, just a relaxing time together.
Wow she looks JUST like MAMA! They're very pretty.
If the person paying for my dress said ‘unlimited budget’, I couldn’t do the higher dresses. I just couldn’t do it. They may not have a budget but I need to sleep nights with a clean conscience.
There needs to be more emphasis on the preparation for the marriage and less emphasis on the dress and other items.
When the vail comes out it is the most emotional 😭
Mom is still thinking wedding, not reception, i am so glad Randy has the perceptiveness to find the real blocking point,
Normally I don't comment....but WHY is it when the bride says unlimited budget....they go straight to the top tier pricing??? $18,000 for a dress and you already got married in another probably $15,000 wedding dress that nobody saw.....
I wonder why the daughter choose to elope and exclude her family and especially her mother…it seems so sad and mean.
No idea why she wanted another dress... What was up with the one no-one has seen??? Of the dresses here, the dress that was "the one to beat" was by far the nicest - it looked stunning on her! The one she chose...nah! She shouldn't have bothered.
The one she chose was cheaper than some of the other ones she tried on.
I think she’s getting another dress just because she can.
17,500 on a dress that looks like nightwear?🙄
I just can't wrap my head around the price tags of those dresses plus the willingness to spend that much money on an impractical white gown that you wear for a few hours and never again. That amount of money could be a refurbished kitchen or bathroom or patio of one's dreams, or a long, luxurious holiday, or part of a sabbatical...I would never ever spend it for a wedding dress. I'm too practical and down to earth for this shit I guess 😂
why would anyone pay $18K for a dress? that’s almost enough for a down payment for a house!
She is gorgeous in all the dresses
I’m wondering what these people do to earn a living that they have $18,000 to blow on a party dress without giving it another thought.
You know you can buy a home for the amount of money some people spend on a dress for one day. I could never do that.
Gorgeous dress!
If I ever get remarried and have to go there for a dress I want randy I always loved randy
He picks the perfect dresses
When my daughter got married the most important thing to me was that she felt beautiful, and was happy with what she chose.
does anyone else lowkey dislike most pnina tornai dresses?
Loved the dress❤very beautiful bride❤
I liked the second dress, it had the open sides but it didn't look too over the top
personally, you got married, you’re no longer a bride, you’re married! Mom is upset, there are no redos that will make up for that choice/exclusion on this daughter’s choice, i’ve been there myself as a mom. it’s ok if you want to do it your own way privately, your choice, but the consequences are real and the hurt deep and not redeemable, it just is… hope it was worth it!
Randy is brilliant!! ❤❤
Rewatching these now I’m engaged 😂
The bride is so beautiful
Sexy, borderline skanky? She could have just said Pnina Tornai.
I really do like Randy.
BLESSINGS 🎊 CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 SO GORGEOUS 😍 💖
The bride is soo beautiful 😍
Wow, so selfish to not have your mother there.
It's just another wedding dress. Thought she wanted a party dress.
Pnina will forever be my favorite dress designer
My cousin eloped and my aunt was the same way. My cousin ended up letting her mom plan a banquet and bought a dress.
The bride has the beautyface from her mama 🥺
They're both genuinely stunning women
Am I the only one who finds Pnina Tornei ugly? They are not only ugly but expensive too.
I think it was sad to not invite her mom but if she eloped, then I wonder what happened? Her mom did not seem to oppose her marriage so why did she need to elope and not invite her mom? If I was a mom, I would be hurt too.
Some people just don't want to to have a big spectacle of their vows. Sometimes it's anxiety. Sometimes it's money. Sometimes it's just the stress of planning. Whatever the case, elopements aren't a big affair. They're just the couple. the judge, and maybe a witness. Some places don't even need a witness.
@@eeriecraft1797 Even if I did have an elopement, I would at least have my parents there.
Stunning
Your mother is the most important person in your life. Your happiness comes from her blessings
I always said the Dress should always be picked out by only the Bride to be, cause she the one who is going to ware it and feel good about her Dress. No one should have the saying but the Bride.