How to Know When You Are “Spaving” and Practical Ways to Stop

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  • @katherinepace7369
    @katherinepace7369 3 місяці тому +134

    My favorite new saying is, "I'm saving 100% by not buying that!"

  • @reganbarnes6424
    @reganbarnes6424 3 місяці тому +62

    At my grocery store, they have 2 for $6 sales, but you don’t actually have to buy 2 to get the deal. You can buy 1 for $3. So it’s worth checking out if your grocery store does the same.

    • @rebeccabaca559
      @rebeccabaca559 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes: in TN 2 for 6 is really $3 each. But in Florida you have to buy 2 to get the price. Otherwise it is regular price. At Publix grocery stores anyway.

    • @olenatalksrealestate176
      @olenatalksrealestate176 3 місяці тому

      My smiths always does that 🤦‍♀️

    • @nancymc4154
      @nancymc4154 Місяць тому

      My Publix does that, not sure about the other stores

  • @lazygardens
    @lazygardens 3 місяці тому +27

    On Amazon I keep a list of things I want and will use, but don't urgently need. When I am buying something I really NEED, I can put them into the cart if I need to get the free shipping.

  • @DoniaBellydance
    @DoniaBellydance 3 місяці тому +25

    Spent 30 years of my life spaving 😫 but no more! I’m simplifying my home, my life, and only buying what I really need! Which at this point is pretty much only food! But not dining out… except special occasions! 😊

  • @kakylong2
    @kakylong2 3 місяці тому +26

    I've never heard this word, but it makes perfect sense. 😊

  • @arpitamukherjee9800
    @arpitamukherjee9800 3 місяці тому +18

    I realised this trap in the sales tactics a few years ago when I started my journey with minimalism. Whenever I see the above discussed offers, I carefully think whether it would be beneficial in the long run.... regular items like detergent, floor cleaner etc having long shelf life and won't go wasted. In that case I grab the deal and save, not spave!

  • @LisaHice
    @LisaHice 3 місяці тому +35

    Dang almost fell into the trap at Ulta last night....I actually walked out and didn't spend more to get the $10 off $50...I really didnt need anything so i got my $8.99 dry shampoo and walked out...

  • @taichistudent
    @taichistudent 3 місяці тому +13

    I've learned to be wary of the "spend more for free shipping" trap. Unless the planned purchase is really close to the threshold and the shipping costs take the total to above that threshold. Then I try to find a small item I will use anyway to meet the threshold and actually save some money.

  • @simini1837
    @simini1837 3 місяці тому +21

    Thank you for the video and adding the word spaving to my vocabularium! I only use "buy one get two" kind of offers, on things or food I will purchase anyway. Then it is saving instead of spaving.

    • @SpeakTruthBeKind
      @SpeakTruthBeKind 3 місяці тому +2

      Since you watch posts like this I’m presuming that you are very knowledgable in the actual cost of an item so you can tell when the sale is truly a bargain and that they haven’t increased the base price in advance.
      Personally, if I have more of a food item I seem to go through it faster especially snacks so have decreased spending on those items. 😉

    • @simini1837
      @simini1837 3 місяці тому +3

      @@SpeakTruthBeKind yes i understand:). For me its food and beverages I use on a daily basis, like plantbased milks which you can store uncooled, or expensive cooking oil or nuts and seeds, beans, Twinings tea, good coffee etc. And personal care items like tooth brushes, dental sticks, tampons etc that I wanted to buy anyway. Our grocery store has these kind of deals every week so I pay attention. The tric is to not exaggerate it, storage space is limited and sometimes I tend to forget we still have nice hand soap for example:).

  • @wedadbatugan5005
    @wedadbatugan5005 Місяць тому +1

    Oh, so that's the word🥰 1st time hearing it, not realizing been doing it.
    SPAVING

  • @faylinameir
    @faylinameir 3 місяці тому +24

    Target does a lot of spaving. I usually do this for diapers. It’s something I’ll need and I actually wait for the spend $100 get a $25 gift card. I don’t spend more overall. I actually save but you need to be very intentional doing this.

  • @RoxanaNistor-qf2um
    @RoxanaNistor-qf2um 2 місяці тому +1

    Such a wonderful and useful video ❤ thank you!

  • @schreckpmc
    @schreckpmc 3 місяці тому +21

    I do this at the grocery store. I fall for the “buy five save five” scam frequently.

  • @sabrinafalle4012
    @sabrinafalle4012 3 місяці тому +8

    Been spotting the annoying "Spaving" everywhere. I'm so glad you brought it up here. I love bulk purchases and had had to find a balance. Very appreciated. ❤

  • @ashlynnkaplan680
    @ashlynnkaplan680 3 місяці тому +11

    This is such a trap and so many people even with conservative spending habits fall for it! A new discount store opened up just next to my sister’s work, who is an avid spender. I can’t tell you how many bags of things she has come over with simply because they are at a very discounted price. The first time, I told her that I didn’t need any of it, and please consult me before buying anything. Her Response was, “ but it’s really cheap”. Mine was, “ Add up your receipts. Just because something is on sale, doesn’t mean you need it!”

    • @SpeakTruthBeKind
      @SpeakTruthBeKind 3 місяці тому +2

      You are such a good sister showing your concern by pointing that out to her. ❤

  • @ellie1461
    @ellie1461 3 місяці тому +15

    This is one of the most timely messages!

  • @AhhhSukeSuke
    @AhhhSukeSuke 3 місяці тому +9

    Very legitimate video with superb financial advice.
    I'm guilty of being tricked into overspending to save money. I didn't realise this was happening lol ..
    An example would be: buy 1 loaf of bread, and it's $4. Or, buy 2 loaves for $6. End result.... I ate 1 loaf of bread within the 2wk expiry date, and now have 1 whole loaf of bread in the freezer. My freezer is full now 😆 ($5 tub of ice cream, $10 pkgs of progress etc etc etc)

  • @carriemainquist757
    @carriemainquist757 3 місяці тому +5

    I have never heard of the term "Spaving" before. Wow. Now I know it when I see it!

  • @DeloresLowndes
    @DeloresLowndes 3 місяці тому +11

    When it comes to bulk purchases you a l so might take time to think about how having hoards of material ie. Tp, tissues, paper towels...affects how you use those items. When you know there is a vast stockpile are you more careless in your usage? We found that to be true.

  • @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx
    @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx 3 місяці тому +7

    I've reduced the amount of things i buy. Thanks to these type of videos, books.

  • @mjgriffin49
    @mjgriffin49 3 місяці тому +5

    Your video was followed in my feed by a Temu ad. I had to laugh. I have avoided that rabbit hole for certain! Tks for today's lesson. Good information as always.

  • @sarahandrade8462
    @sarahandrade8462 3 місяці тому +5

    You always make so much sense

  • @mariagiakalis4615
    @mariagiakalis4615 3 місяці тому +6

    Really great topic Joshua. I live in Greece and the supermarkets here have spaving but to a much lesser extent. What they do have mostly is discounts on products. So, you might have a cheaper price. What I do is buy the product with the discount even though I may have to switch brand. This doesn't bother me at all. Product quality is basically the same. I really enjoyed your video. Thank you. ❤

  • @molee8863
    @molee8863 3 місяці тому +2

    Ah yes, I am guilty of spaving but only for items that I truly need & use 😂. Great episode 😊.

  • @DavidAllan-t1u
    @DavidAllan-t1u 3 місяці тому +4

    Good to bring this into consciousness for many of us are unaware.

    • @j.m.7056
      @j.m.7056 3 місяці тому

      So sad that so many are unaware.

  • @TheDriftwoodlover
    @TheDriftwoodlover 3 місяці тому +7

    Thanks for covering this topic now. With inflation as it is, I have been sucked in a few time recently. Definitely played on my anxiety - as a retiree - of static income and rising prices.

  • @PeterWare-m1g
    @PeterWare-m1g 3 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for educating this Senior Citizen on fixed income in New York City 🌆!! 👏🏿

  • @AhhhSukeSuke
    @AhhhSukeSuke 3 місяці тому +11

    Loll the clip about the " buy 5 scam" and lemons. Buying 1 lemon was $1, buying 5 was $2.
    Joke is on me. I wanted a lemon for lightly flavoured lemon water--- only ended up using 2.... the other 3 lemons went moldy before i used them 😢

    • @1whitecottagelife770
      @1whitecottagelife770 3 місяці тому +2

      Same here. I keep on buying a whole bag of lemons and using 2 and throwing out the rest because they went bad.

    • @gaynorprice-jones1826
      @gaynorprice-jones1826 3 місяці тому +2

      @@1whitecottagelife770 If it's just the juice you need, I squeeze the fruit and freeze in ice cube trays.

    • @gaynorprice-jones1826
      @gaynorprice-jones1826 3 місяці тому +1

      If it's just the juice you need, I squeeze the fruit and freeze in ice cube trays

  • @lucindawilson5510
    @lucindawilson5510 2 місяці тому +1

    mmm never heard of it before.Thanks so much very helpful.Season greetings to you and familyy.

  • @daughterofmyabba
    @daughterofmyabba 3 місяці тому +3

    Im so guilty of this! Thanks for giving it a name and exposing it 😊 once you know you are doing it, you can start battling it.

  • @carysw8967
    @carysw8967 3 місяці тому +4

    Waterstones book shop in uk have 'buy two books get third free'. Many times one book has caught my eye, then in looking to find two others I find 5 books I want and end up getting 6! Spaving.

  • @sweetlampe
    @sweetlampe 3 місяці тому +19

    Wow that was such good information and awareness to us all. How much are we fooled and tricked into this. Thank you for enlightening us.🙂

  • @Runningwiththehorses80
    @Runningwiththehorses80 3 місяці тому +7

    Thank you!!

  • @SusanL-ds6lc
    @SusanL-ds6lc 3 місяці тому +7

    Thanks for all your wonderful videos :)

  • @eileenbecker9245
    @eileenbecker9245 3 місяці тому +8

    No store cards for years! But i fall for spaving

  • @Aurrsa
    @Aurrsa 3 місяці тому +4

    I am happy to note that this year so far I made just one purchase n I don't regret it. I used to be a spaver. When I look at my past orders, I cringe. Thanks for this timely video. Nowadays I don't use rewards unless it's something I would be purchasing anyway like recharging my phone or paying the electricity bill. I keep things on my cart n only buy after I can get the shipping free so that has led to lesser purchases in the same period as what used to be years before. I also use the subscribe and save in such a way as to avail of the discount n buy less than before. I only buy non perishable items on this platform like detergent, handwash.

    • @lazygardens
      @lazygardens 3 місяці тому +1

      "I keep things on my cart n only buy after I can get the shipping free so that has led to lesser purchases in the same period" Do you ever look at things in your cart and think, WTF WAS I THINKING? And delete it?

    • @SpeakTruthBeKind
      @SpeakTruthBeKind 3 місяці тому

      @@lazygardens😂👍🏻

  • @MendeMaria-ej8bf
    @MendeMaria-ej8bf 3 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for learning a new word and sharpening awareness. ❤

  • @mikew8573
    @mikew8573 2 місяці тому

    My take on bulk purchasing is that it eliminates my having to hit the retail stores more often to restock and lessens my 'additional want's shopping' temptations. Plus I save on gas, time, and more time for adventures, hiking, etc. I being a minimalist have one closet that only keeps bulk items stored. Was an empty closet prior.

  • @karenprice3886
    @karenprice3886 3 місяці тому +3

    Excellent video and so timely with the upcoming holidays!

  • @lalablotz7348
    @lalablotz7348 3 місяці тому +8

    Yep the free shipping thing is really irritating

    • @bossmom7089
      @bossmom7089 3 місяці тому +6

      Especially if the amount you need to spend for free shipping is equal or less than the cost of shipping

  • @aleithea2715
    @aleithea2715 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for your wisdom Joshua.

  • @esperanzarobles6782
    @esperanzarobles6782 3 місяці тому +11

    wow!Ive been doing spaving for such a long time...i really need this

  • @kimhuitt5341
    @kimhuitt5341 3 місяці тому

    Deciding to stay off social media definitely helps me to stay on budget. Time online equals spending.

  • @carolanderson2796
    @carolanderson2796 3 місяці тому +1

    Love this! So helpful!

  • @piercrab7595
    @piercrab7595 3 місяці тому +2

    My husband is a fan of Costco where every item takes up closet space for at least 6 months. That’s not including unplanned items

  • @mezwilson
    @mezwilson 3 місяці тому +1

    Another great message, thank you Joshua!

  • @pacifica9718
    @pacifica9718 3 місяці тому +2

    This is very timely. Thank you.

  • @andrewellis7656
    @andrewellis7656 3 місяці тому +7

    Yeh Joshua.

  • @deborahcaldwell9775
    @deborahcaldwell9775 3 місяці тому +4

    This is one thing that I have never fallen for. I won’t even buy two oranges for the price of one when I’m the only eat one. But it sure is a trap.

  • @Au-19
    @Au-19 3 місяці тому +2

    So true!

  • @mangopuppybaby
    @mangopuppybaby 3 місяці тому

    Such timely advice before the holidays ❤ thank you

  • @sherihepworth8253
    @sherihepworth8253 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video. Sometimes I get caught spaving. I’ll be more watchful now!

  • @anaalves3658
    @anaalves3658 3 місяці тому +2

    So this was probably not the ethical thing to do 😳 but years ago I got a notification from a retailer saying that if I bought any 2 pairs of shoes I would get 25% off. I needed a pair of leather ankle boots and I knew that i liked the shoes from that brand, so I bought the boots i wanted and an inexpensive pair of mens shoes and got the 25% discount 😊. A few days later i returned the men's shoes that were not needed, I definitely used the system to my advantage and I was prepared to return my boots or pay back the discount difference, but the store didn't ask for it. They are very comfortable boots and good quality 😊 so I definitely got a good deal.

  • @letgogrowlive
    @letgogrowlive 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for these 🙏

  • @stickinsectadventures
    @stickinsectadventures 3 місяці тому +2

    I just went to the store, my goal was to buy some Sprite for my husband. They had 7up (a case of 12) for $7.99 or they had Sprite buy 2 get one free for $10.49 each. My husband only wanted one case of lemon lime soda. If I got the buy 2 get 1 free deal on the Sprite I would have three times the amount of soda I actually wanted, and I would have spent $13 more than I was intending on doing. The deal is ONLY any good if you always intended to 1) buy Sprite brand (not 7up) and 2) needed two cases of it. I went for one case of 7up.

  • @samblock
    @samblock 3 місяці тому

    Step 9 is my favorite! I do that alll of the time😂

  • @joyceshiffer8412
    @joyceshiffer8412 3 місяці тому +1

    I try to remember that the STORE is the warehouse, not my spare room which is supposed to be our guest room.

  • @susannegiesen2114
    @susannegiesen2114 3 місяці тому +4

    I 95%never do that, because I think: I can save the most by not buying it😅. Sometimes it makes sense to buy more, but before you buy you have to always check if it really is so- like you said: Do the maths👍

  • @goodenoughgirl8102
    @goodenoughgirl8102 3 місяці тому +3

    CVS is good at that. Lol. The infamous “rebates.” But you can still save if you’re in it for more than a minute and really need the stuff (for me occasionally it’s just a few consumables).
    I need to take notes on this about a house purchase. Lol. But then again picking quality over cheap and paying a bit more isn’t the same as “spaving.” But I am def sticking to my guns about the square footage. No. I do not want to go over 1000 and I don’t need a third bedroom or second bath. Quality over quantity. Sure you can get more bang for your Buck going bigger but then how much is 30 years of overhead for that bigger house? How much tax and upkeep for that bigger yard? I don’t want that.
    Idk. Worst spaver encourager on the planet…..TEMU? 😂😂

  • @jennifermcmahon3517
    @jennifermcmahon3517 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m so fed up with Costco bugging me everytime I shop to upgrade my membership to then get more back on my yearly return. I don’t want to pay more with the chance of getting more.

  • @jwuertz7101
    @jwuertz7101 3 місяці тому +1

    Its a balance. The big bag of pet food is less per pound than the smaller ones. One blogger uses spavings for actual money saved like car plus home insurance discount.

  • @marilynndesilva7620
    @marilynndesilva7620 3 місяці тому

    Occasionally I'll see two different size bottles or packages of a product, both at their regular price, and the smaller item will cost less per ounce than the larger one! I don't know if that is intentional or just an oversight, but it pays to check and see if you are actually saving by buying the larger item.

  • @butterflyrebelde
    @butterflyrebelde 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the clarification and put a name to it. I truly hate cupones. You get to the register and never work because of what you are saying. They want you to buy more than what you need it.
    On your PowerPoint consider other font background color combination. The letters get lost. Tks

  • @Jepsen5w
    @Jepsen5w 3 місяці тому +2

    I came to know Christ in jail in 2013 by reading a book, "Overcoming spiritual blindness" by James P. Gills MD. The veil was taken off my eyes. Heaven came through for me in my finances too, getting $35,500 monthly. I can support God's work and give back to my community. God is more than enough!

  • @chrisg9174
    @chrisg9174 3 місяці тому +1

    Had to watch video to learn what the word “spaving” means.

  • @anitasez
    @anitasez 3 місяці тому +3

    I’m a Spaver. 🙈

  • @rebeccabaca559
    @rebeccabaca559 3 місяці тому

    It is worth it though in some times like expensive contact solutions. I have 4 bc I had 2 coupons for totaling $9 off that the eye Dr gave me. And then Costco had a sale. So now I am set for 6 months and saved approx $20. They don’t expire for years and even then you can still use them.

  • @florian4346
    @florian4346 3 місяці тому +1

    I ‚m an English learner and i just learned a word : spaving 😊

  • @mrsjam1252
    @mrsjam1252 3 місяці тому +3

    Costco …

  • @lalablotz7348
    @lalablotz7348 3 місяці тому +8

    Why may I ask are the retailers all doing Black Friday sales now? It’s October! Has anyone else noticed this?

    • @AhhhSukeSuke
      @AhhhSukeSuke 3 місяці тому +4

      😂 because retailers think people lose their minds as soon as they see the word SALE, especially BLACK FRIDAY.
      Truth is, the joke is on us: retailers aren't stupid. They aren't going to sell things below cost/go bankrupt for a sale. That price they set will still allow a profit, while clearing inventory of old stock 😆

    • @daylenestaneart775
      @daylenestaneart775 3 місяці тому +6

      Also watch to see if they raise the prices a couple weeks before the sale and then “sale” the price back at the original price.

    • @lalablotz7348
      @lalablotz7348 3 місяці тому

      @@daylenestaneart775 Amazon did this with the recent Prime Day ruse . I had things I actually need in my cart ahead of time and waited to see what happened. I had the prices written down and yep they slowly raised them over a few weeks and on Prime Day the sale prices on most were to the original. Ridiculous.

  • @eh94
    @eh94 3 місяці тому

    And we patronise a certain supermarket to earn points which eventually turns into discounts. And there is the use of credit cards to earn points which can be turned into gift vouchers to buy other things. 🤦‍♀️

  • @vickiemartin1453
    @vickiemartin1453 3 місяці тому +3

    If you're going to have to pay for shipping isn't it better to buy something extra to avoid it since you're going to be spending the money anyways.? Thku😊

    • @lazygardens
      @lazygardens 3 місяці тому +5

      IF and only IF it's something you need and will use ...
      On Amazon I keep a list of things I want and will use, but don't urgently need. When I am buying something I really NEED, I can put them into the cart if I need to bump the $$ to get the free shipping.

    • @vickiemartin1453
      @vickiemartin1453 3 місяці тому +2

      👍 exactly- Thku😊

  • @Filzlauszwei
    @Filzlauszwei 3 місяці тому +4

    Im singel and i only wenn i need somting

  • @wrends
    @wrends 3 місяці тому +2

    when money looses value, it's better have goods than money...

  • @lynnegordon6749
    @lynnegordon6749 3 місяці тому +4

    The grocery store card game....

  • @isabeedemski3635
    @isabeedemski3635 3 місяці тому +5

    Dont take store cards or buy one get one...

  • @annie.bo.briggs
    @annie.bo.briggs 2 місяці тому

    I don't even do that! I'm not normal. Stores hate me 😒

  • @kenholleran9012
    @kenholleran9012 3 місяці тому

    Temu is big culprit

  • @diamondbolton2944
    @diamondbolton2944 3 місяці тому

    Evan

  • @schreckpmc
    @schreckpmc 3 місяці тому +2

    I just wish Bronze Age caveman would take off. I wonder what I need to do to pull that off…

  • @caterthun4853
    @caterthun4853 3 місяці тому +1

    Spaving.. Is buying an EV or installing solar panels on your property

  • @rebeccabaca559
    @rebeccabaca559 3 місяці тому +1

    They also call this “girl math” on instagram reels. Not very flattering.

  • @SallyS99
    @SallyS99 3 місяці тому

    Costco....

  • @michellemercado4549
    @michellemercado4549 3 місяці тому

    I ALWAYS SPAVE when it comes to cat food. ❤

  • @lovinglife3954
    @lovinglife3954 3 місяці тому +3

    FOR SINGLES: Ask a friend for advice, if you know they're more of a saver than a spender.

  • @annie-sc
    @annie-sc 3 місяці тому +1

    This is similar to that annoying "girl math" trend