Been Played? Trust Again: Vulnerability, Growth, Healing
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- Опубліковано 30 гру 2021
- This is the age of pervasive distrust: of experts, of science, of the authorities, of the future, and of each other. Everyone is wary of being played.
Personal growth, self development, and healing crucially depend on vulnerability and the willingness to accept hurt and loss.
This is especially true in family settings and intimate relationships.
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You're channel helped me survive a relationship with a borderline and daily life it's self. All due respect, Professor.
Even after being with a narcissist for almost 9 years, my trust in people and future relationships have not been ruined. I still trust, I'll just be more selective with who I allow into my life from now on. This includes friends, family etc. To lose all trust in everyone just because of one (even more than one) bad experience would be a shame. It's not a matter of whether there's still good and honest people in the world, and there are, it's a matter of trusting yourself to be willing to find that person and recognize their good character, when they come into your life.
It's took me 40+plus yrs to realise the, Fake from the genuine ppl throughout my life and now I hardly have anyone due to cutting contact with them I rather be lonely them be round those with fake persona
Such a timely and astute message as this world seems to be so disconnected from humanity than I have ever observed over my lifetime. Thank you Prof Vaknin for sharing your wisdom all these years. You’re views are priceless
Trust, thirst again. Take this leap of faith. Thank you Dr. SAM.
First, we must learn to trust ourselves for the first time ever. We let ourselves be dominated by a Narcissist. That's the lesson. Trust in our new boundaries. Then, I feel we can trust others again. God willing, I live long enough to accomplish this.
Yes I am on the the same track now and I just having to let go it's a rough time but God willing and best of luck to you ..
Same !
I love your talks that you share with us! You are a very generous man to share your time so graciously. I watch your talks more than once and get something new each time I do. Thank you Sam Vaknin! I hope your new year rocks like you do!
This is a great video to end the year on!! We all need this.
I hear they're looking into an oxytocin treatment for PTSD and other conditions. Happy new year everyone!
Astounding. How does Sam keep re-visiting core concepts in a way that pushes them to a new forefront of living in the world.
If honesty was back in vogue that would help.
No contact for 3 years today, 1/1/2022.
Professor Vaknin, thank you.
Encouraging support and balanced report on the need to trust, intimacy, vulnerability, individual identity and self worth. Expecting and accepting hurt as a likely outcome of risking our connections to others is the maturity needed for really experiencing life. Thank you, sir.
Thank you doc for comforting us through our trauma bonds. Your very insightful. One of the best self aware.
Boone année Professeur Vaknin. Vous êtes Lumiére dans les ténèbres de l'existence. Pur souhait...
What a heart warming message! Thank you.
Thank you Prof. Vaknin. This lecture was most beneficiary and profound. As like your other lectures, I have listened to in the past year. Thank you for sharing your valuable knowledge in such an eloquent and constructive manner. Best wishes.
Happy New Year!Thank you for everything!
Thank you for this..it is very comforting.
Happy New Year!!! You helped me more than you can ever know this year!!!
Thank You!!!
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
Thank you for sharing this video.
Needed this!! Thanks for giving me hope Doctor!!! Happy new year!!
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
These persons... don't choose the long term... the trust, the elevation of our human development. They choose short term pleasure and short term fuel.... People get drained by these effects... hurt, abuse, short term making up, etc. Trust? Who is willing to contribute to trust in such groups?
Happy New Year. Professor Vaknin. Grateful for your work.
Happy new year Dr. Vaknin! Thank you for all the knowledge you imparted this year. See you in 2022!
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
Astute, validating, insightful - brilliant. Thank you Prof.Vaknin.
Thank you and a happy New Year!
TNO.
Trust No One. 😎
Very moving. Thanks a lot...
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
Thank you for this message.
And Happy New Year Sam 🥂
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
Thank you, continue making these videos you're helping me, and others in such a tremendous way.
Very thorough detailed explanation… thank you 👍
Thank you Pro.Sam Vaknin and Happy new year 2022.
you are amazing Sam, thank you! Happy New Year!
Thank you Mr. Vaknin! You read me and helped me so much. Your a very intelligent man…much respect!
Happy New Year! Thank you for such a great message!
Happy New year 🎉 Prof.vaknin. Thanking you so much. I like your new hair cut.
Outstanding commentary! Happy New Year.
Thank you professor Sam . Brilliant information! Happy new year.
This was a very loving message, thank you
Your advice is getting soooo good. Love your videos on empowering us! 👍happy new year !🥂best wishes, love and happiness and most of all long , healthy life!🥂
Happy New Year, Sam! God bless you!
Heartbreaking but very true.
Thank you for this Prof.Vaknin
Happy new year! Thank you for sharing your lectures!
Hi, is Prof Vaknin from Greece? His face and accent sounds Greek..
Thank you.
Thank you for this lecture. It was of great help.
Thanks for trying and using a rational mind to format. Not over run with emotion
Thank you Dr. Vaknin
Thank you prof. Happy new year
Thank you
nice video, thank you
Happy new year! Prof Vaknin
Happy new year!
Happy new year- professor Sam vaknin,best wishes kevan greenhalgh.
Can you speak on being detached from the mother as a baby at birth then being adopted and it’s effects on future relationships. Thank you
Feliz Ano Novo 🎈🙌
Happy New Year!
Happy new year 🎉
Godzilla sure tried yet was not respected. He went back to the water alone. No Mrs Godzilla. Sometimes we gotta protect out hearts. Stay kind and life will take our hands and give us love. Were living in another planetary consumers society which breeds idolatry to things then self. Tragically is planetary. Yet its never everyone. Again!
Cheers
Right off the bat I like that the only one you trust is the Mickey Mouse on your cup. Had to watch!
Lifelong paralysis is sadly very real
Hey 👋 Sam ! I’m watching because I have trust issues
I’m more trusting after the background check. 90:90 rule
Thank you and happy New year to you too! 🎆🎉🎆🎉🎆🎉🎆🎉
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
Happy New Year
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
VAKNIN , WHY DO NARCISSISTS DO NOT LOVE NEW YEAR AND TRY TO RUPT THE MOOD OF OTHERS ??? THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWER AND WORK
Have you ever considered consulting on how to respond to Narcisstic governments? Might be a great gig! Your expertise may be very needed now....🌞😊🌞
Good Morning! Mr. Sam
Thank You for the bacon, nourishment.
ATTN: What is the terminology for us young small frye?....
Perhaps you can set (Another Set Standard) pre, grade1, 2 , 3.....
When you see it necessary to unite all im sure you will set the structure in such ever all consuming (Fog) called 21st Century Narcissistic Mega Tsunami.
Cheers,
Aloha
Sam...Thank you! Thank you for sharing this message. I have been hurt many, many times...and yes, in my last romantic relationship I became hypervigilant. His actions did ultimately prove what I had suspected in the end. But I often wonder if my lack of trust and constant questioning drove my partner to monkey wrench into his current relationship, and abandon our relationship for a younger and more "innocent" girl. I do take responsibility for this and I have learned my lesson. That was a year ago, and now I have decided to trust again. Because honestly, I have learned that I cannot control everyone or anything. And I have to have faith in other people if I want to have any meaningful relationships. If I don't trust again...then my ex wins. And we can't have that now, can we? Ha
I’m so scared to get played again by a narc. I need a video on how to spot and repel these vampires 🧛🏼♂️ ANY TIPS?
I have a general question. My ex-husband attempts coming back, won’t stop. I’m a mother now, we have no children together- I’ve moved on. He continues to say- “he needs me to be whole.” Is he telling me he needs me to continue to be successful or he won’t stop?
I mean successful in the sense I’m able to take care of my family. He’s been diagnosed, but he says- “I need you whole.” “I need you to be a whole person.” I don’t understand.
Wants to have you as a whole mother object. Sounds obsessive, be safe.
Lol never trust Disney!!
Some of us have had enough.
I sure have. Dealing and healing from a 8 year relationship with my narc ex bf and also cutting ties my fake best friend, I am exhausted!! This video is giving me life!! Happy New Year!
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Happy New Year !
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL, AND SAM VAKNIN THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOU HELP PEOPLE TO FIND THEMSELVES HOW STRANGE IT WOULD NOT SOUND GIVE YOU ALL GOOD AND LONG YEARS OF LIFE.
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