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🚨 HOLD ON TO YOUR HEARTS, FOLKS! 🚨 It's your girl, Charlotte Dobre, and today we're diving headfirst into the world of ultimate betrayal - the kind that could rival a Shakespearean drama, but with more emojis and less poetic soliloquies. 😱💔
🤯 Picture this: Two peas in a pod, BFFs for life, but guess what? The plot thickens, my friends! In today's rollercoaster of emotions, we're exploring the jaw-dropping phenomenon of best friend betrayals that will make your trust issues go through the roof! 🎢🤦♀️
🕵️♀️ Join me as we dissect the juicy details, the clandestine whispers, and the not-so-secret sabotage that turned these friendship fairy tales into twisted tales of treachery. Because who needs enemies when you've got a best friend with a secret agenda? 😏🔍
👀 We'll be spilling the tea on those clandestine text messages, the backstabbing brunches, and the epic betrayals that will have you questioning whether you ever truly knew your ride-or-die. Spoiler alert: Not all friendships are made to withstand the storm! ☕🐍
💅 Oh honey, we're talking drama levels that could rival a reality show. From stolen boyfriends to secret side hustles, these BFFs redefine the meaning of "frenemy." Grab your snacks, sit back, and prepare to have your jaw hit the floor! 😱🍿
👯♀️ But fear not, my darlings! In the midst of the wreckage, we'll uncover the silver linings - the lessons learned, the hilarious revenge plots, and the newfound friendships that rose from the ashes. Because nothing says "I'll show you" like success after betrayal! 💪🌈
👉 So, hit that subscribe button, grab your emotional support snacks, and join me, Charlotte Dobre, on this wild journey through the dark and twisty world of best friend betrayals. It's time to spill the tea, spill the truth, and spill some laughs along the way!
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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Ex Disney employee here.This clique, exclusion vibe is REAL. Worked for the Disney Store for over 3 years and there was so much petty drama, back stabbing and toxic vibe between cast members. I feel for that Disney girl. You deserved better.
This. Very, very similar things happened to me when I worked for Disney HK in entertainment. So nasty.
Not at the happiest place on earth?! 😅 how ironic. Humans ruin everything😂
I also worked at Disney and while I had decent roommates for the most part - it had it's moments. Too many girls in one place is tough (I was there before they built the new facility for the students - so we had the 4 bedroom/2.5 bath apartments for 8 girls (yes 2 girls per room) - the chaos! Luckily our schedules were all so different we rarely had more than 3-4 girls in the apartment at any given time. My roommate slept at her boyfriend's most nights so I basically had a room to myself. And you do not know any of them prior to living with them.
Only big drama was one girl put liquid soap in the dishwasher (not the stuff made to use with the dishwasher...) and it was like a foam party in our kitchen and they all just freaked out so I pretty much ended up cleaning it by myself because her and my other roommate were useless. She had issues with me anyways because she thought I was trying to steal her boyfriend, who was my friend (and honestly I rarely hung out with him anyways). I am shocked they lasted as long as they did since she was so hyper controlling of him and everything he did and everyone he talked to. Guy was not allowed to celebrate his birthday unless she approved it. Crazy people @ Disney for sure lol.
Was in the program. Yeah petty and cliques were all over the place. I left my first group I got put in and went to live with some Aussies and a Kiwi. They were so much nicer and laid back.
Disney was hell though.
I have heard the same thing! So sad :(
People tell on themselves all the time. All you need to do is listen. Like the Disney college thing, the girls immediately assumed OP was talking bad about them to her mom. Only to talk bad about OP behind her back. Its called projecting.
Very correct. Actions never lie. And the truth is always just below the surface, it doesn’t take much to actually find it.
Very well said!
Yup! Wish I'd been one of the roommates... this lovely girl did not at all deserve this despicable treatment.
I used to think only dudes were this loudly insecure but American chicks are just as messed up mentally
Absolutely!
I had a MAJOR glow up freshman year of college.
I had a very traumatic home life, mom sleeping with other men, dad physically and emotionally abusive to my brothers and I. I was riddled with anxiety, depression and had a binge ED.
Fast forward, I went to college two states away to get away from the drama. My roommate was absolutely amazing. Helped me get into counseling, encouraged me to get out more, gently helped me make healthier decisions during meals and introduced me to alternatives to stress eating. As a result, my weight reduced by over 60 lbs.
Before spring break, we went shopping, I had my hair highlighted, got contacts and had makeup application lessons.
When I got home, one of my high school friends met me for lunch with a few other people we graduated with and kept LOUDLY talking about how she missed her “fat friend” and that I screwed up our friend group because I went away ugly and came home pretty.
I awkwardly blew it off…the first couple times. My last night at home, we went to a party and I was talking to a guy I had a HUGE crush on the entire time we were in high school. We were just catching up and my friend came over, obnoxiously drunk and threw herself at said guy. He was embarrassed and tried to disentangle himself from the octopus. She decided to tell him and everyone in ear shot “cute” stories about me….
“Remember when you came over to my house after your dad backhanded you and you ate an ENTIRE bag of Doritos & French onion dip?” “Remember how your mom got caught with Mr A instead of going to your choir concert and you called me to pick you up at like 11pm because your parents forgot about you…” and on and on.
I was beyond mortified. My crush was horrified. I wanted to crawl under a rock. I tried to walk away and one of the other girls that I wasn’t friends with walked over and was like…..none of that is the least bit funny. If even a tiny bit of that is true, you’re an absolute idiot for blurting that stuff out trying to make yourself look and feel better. It isn’t J’s fault you flunked out of college after 1 semester (which I hadn’t known!).
I was finally able to slip away and was sitting in my car absolutely sobbing when my crush tapped on my window and opened the door. He asked if any of the verbal vomit was true about my home life. I told him it all was. He told me how much he admired me for getting through high school at the top of my class, working hard and getting away. He also told me he thought I was pretty before and had always been too shy to talk to me….
Fast forward again….I married my crush in 2004 and the girl that stuck up for me has been my best friend for 20 years, along with my freshman roommate …..
Girlie that was trying to embarrass me?? She’s still living with her mom, works at a gas station and has 5 kiddos with 4 different baby daddies…
Miserable girl that one. Well done for getting yourself out of such a bad life and changing for the best. Never let anyone try to embarrass you with your past. You’re a survivor. People like that girl live such a pathetic existence that they need everyone else to be pathetic for them to feel a tiny bit better 😂
Fate, bestie. Glow up means you are about to meet your real tribe of people. Energy upgrade.
Now THAT is pro revenge! Building a great life for yourself with great people and leaving toxic people in the dust, I love it! 😊👑
I love this for you! ❤
Karma really is a beautiful bitch 😅
1:50 You are NEVER too old to need/miss/want/love your mom. Straight Facts.
I lost my mom 3yrs ago when I was 37. I WISH I could call my mom. I miss her every day. If you have the chance to call your mom every day, do it!! There's nothing worse then not being able to call when something good happens or you're having a bad day and need to vent.
My mom still buys my clothes, and Im 44. It’s our thing!❤
I'm mid 40s and my mom passed almost 15 years ago and I miss her to this day.
@@alwaystired515this is so true! I’m sorry you lost your mom. October will be 20 years since I lost my mum. You never stop missing your mom.
@@Starcatt966 thanks! Shortly after my mom passed away we found out my dad has colon cancer. Long story but he now lives with me and he's going on his 3rd year of chemo. It's awful watching another parent slowly dwindle away. He's slowing losing weight and his mind. He's 5'9 and down to 106lbs.
"Friends that stab you in the back are more dangerous than enemies who stab you in the front" .
I've found that to be very true.
This is why I don't have very many friends stabbed in the back for no reason
Yes!! Ask Julius Caesar!! Et tu Brutus!!??
Love that quote! Can I use it?
At least with an enemy you know to bring a shield
That first one sounds like those roommates were basic ass villain characters from some 2000s movie lol
Trying to be Disney villains. 😂
🤣 YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
Maybe that's why they were going to Disney College LOL
nah SHE was the villian using christmas lights that were white only..
$25 could have been spent on the string which is better for the eyes to begin with..
Seriously? @@chriskosloski226
My freshmen year college roommates were like that. For example, instead of Christmas lights, I made an oil painting of roses to hang in the empty living room wall space. Two days later, when I came home early from class, not only did I find the painting replaced with a band poster, it was in the trash. Luckily, I saved it before housekeeping removed the trashcan. Instead, I gave the painting to a friend’s brother, who had Stage Four Cancer, to brighten his hospital room. Twenty years later, that painting is still hanging in my friend’s family home today.
The great benefit of backstabbing friends is that they indirectly help reveal who your true friends are.
Yeah, I had a housemate like this. I crocheted (by hand!) her a snood for her birthday and the next time I passed by her room I saw it in the bin. I picked it up out of the bin and took it back.
@@Sentariana As somebody who also crochets (I love the toys), this hits me so hard. I’m sorry.
@@katsa5 Thank you. 💕💕💕 I had to give up crochet because of chronic hand pain but I knit/loom knit now so it's OK. Recently learnt how to do cable knit!
@@Sentariana I also have chronic hand pain but crocheting has never been a problem, knitting needles hurt to hold though. I haven't knit since I was 5 but I really want to try again and I've been thinking of getting a loom. Do you have any recommendations for getting started?
@@thamertanner5448 Knitting needles also hurt me but I realised it was largely due to how cold the plastic and metal ones are, making my hand pain worse. I use wooden knitting needles.
Don't know if anyone has answered Charlotte's question about this already, but one of my former church members tried to participate in this Disney "program" for college students (read: cheap, unethical labor disguised as educational opportunity), and her roomates were so bad she dropped out, trying to get her busted with their drugs, doing everything possible to body shame her out of wanting to room with them. She found a program alum's self-published exposé for me to read, so I could help her explain to people that she hadnt dropped out in disgrace, and holy crap, she had it easy compared to so many horror stories that alum had and had collected. It's one of a hundred reasons I've never wanted to go to Disney.
I spoke to my mom several times a day. 16 years ago she died suddenly. Talk to your Mom as much as possible. Sometimes she drove me crazy, but I would do anything to hear my Mom's voice again. 😢
Not all moms are good moms therefore we can’t have a bond nor relationship with them. But yea I get what you’re saying
I called my mom and grandma everyday until I was in my 30s. Even after I had moved out and had a child. I'd call and say , " hey I'm going to Walmart for a bit." Then call when I got back home lol. I didn't want them to worry. I don't regret it.
@@ermelinda2223 I have a broken relationship with my own kids - their father put them in the middle of our divorce. I haven't seen them in almost 15 years. I don't push it because they are married adults with children. I will forever be their Mom. I've been reaching out for years with no response. My heart is broken, but I won't be here forever. I have grandchildren I will never meet - four so far, but I know their birthdays and always send gifts without signature. It is devastating for kids to be turned against the person who used to be the most important in their life. 🥲🥲🥲
@@marylasiter2803My dad always made me call him when I got home at night to let him know I had gotten home okay even after I had a husband and kids. He lived in a different city than me. It used to annoy me a little bit because I thought I was an independent woman 😂😂. Now I miss that so much. No one in my life has ever loved and cared for me like my dad. My rock and protector was gone 😢. It was devastating.
From the time I was 18 years old I called my mom at 2:00 pm every Sunday! That was in 1966. I was blessed to be able to have that opportunity until 2001 when she passed away. Thirty five years of great conversations! I still miss those visits! 😢
My daughter was 30 when she died. We were best friends. No one, but no one, should be judgemental about a mother/daughter closeness. I'd give anything to hear her voice again.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
My deepest condolences. Though the quantity of time you had together was much too short, I hope that the quality of that time provides at least some comfort. A bond like that is rare and you were both blessed to have experienced it while you could💗
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So sorry for your loss. I hope the memories help you through this
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤sending you love
My mother is in her late forties and still calls her mother nearly every single day. It's never embarrassing to have a loving relationship with your parent.
40 yr old here- if I go without talking to my mom for more that like three days, I think I go thru withdrawals
I’m so thankful I met my BFF in junior year of high school. We are still BFFS at the age of 64. You really only need one best girl friend.
I met my BFF Sophomore year and we're still sisters and her family is my family. We are 48. ❤
I met my best friend at age 12. We live in different states but over 30 years later, we're still close.
I'm 34 and never had a real girl friend in my life. Girls just don't like me. I think it's because I'm autistic. Women are too.... they play too many social games. I don't understand women and get confused by them. Men are simple, I can get along with most guys, it's very rare to find a girl I genuinely vibe with. Like I've only known 2 in my life. Everyone seems to think I need a female friend but I don't really think I do. It would be nice but at this point I've accepted it's just not gonna happen. I only have one friend in real life, he's the only school friend I still have, known him since 6th grade. Other than that every friend I've ever had has ghosted me for unknown reasons so I just assume everyone hates me and I keep to myself.
@@thamertanner5448 I’m sorry you have been treated like that. I also find I get along better with men than women. Most times women are to vane and gossip way too much. But it sounds like you have a good male friend and that should be all you need.
My daughter’s “best friend” slept with her boyfriend in high school their senior year because my daughter wouldn’t “put out”. She found out after they were a few months in college, they shared a room (2 people same room) and couldn’t escape. She came home a lot that year. We lived in Ft Worth, TX and she went to school in Houston…6 hrs away. My daughter is doing VERY well for herself (6 figure salary) and the ex-best friend is not. Karma is real.
I am so proud to hear that about a Texas girl! She done the down home good!! That "friend" got everything she deserved.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I'm just north of y'all and lived in Fort Worth in the Keller area for several years. I'm also from the Houston area. So howdy neighbor!
Good for your daughter ✌️😊
What’s put out mean?
@daydreamer4971 basically she wouldn't do anything sexual with him.
I had a HUGE glow up. I went from being bullied terribly during my school years, to the same people trying to gaslight me into relationships with them. People genuinely treat you differently based off how you look.
I wouldn’t say school years are the best indicator for people’s behavior on the whole, mostly because emotional and psychological maturity doesn’t complete until about 25. Also, the extreme insecurity coupled with close and repeated proximity can also be problematic. It does highlight, however, how insecure and emotionally disregulated people will behave. School bullies are often noted to be terribly insecure or feel a lack of control in their home life. To protect themselves and to soothe their shame/issues, their brain projects it onto others (because it hurts too much to focus on the reality of things like parents not loving you and caring for you as they should). Those people bullied you because it made them feel better about themselves and then wanted to have relationships after the glow up because you were now someone who could make them feel better about themselves in a different way. Point is when you realize the source of the actions, the patterns become really obvious and you take it much less personally.
This episode is the first time I've ever heard of glowup. Took me a while to figure out what it meant. 😊😊
Same thing happened to me, girl
Same here. I was bullied for literally everything, honestly yes I looked really ugly whatever. The best thing was when this DUDE(!) said I was flat. I mean I was 13-14, so obviously? Well let's say out of those girls in my class I'm the least flat 😅
One of my Math teachers was a HS favorite! Everyone freaking LOVED him, everyone wanted to be in his classes, he was really the best! Was voted year after year to be one of the teacher speakers at graduation. He was funny and lovely and taught more than just just math. He taught us about life! Shout out to Mr. C! An example of random bits of advice he loved to give…buy lots of brooms, especially those with wooden sticks, they are slim and can be stashed all around around your home and used as weapons if needed, when you become a parent-save the junk mail and then use it for your littles to find certain letters or words, just free and environmentally friendly worksheets, there were so many simple little things but the most impactful thing he tried to impart was about moving on from grief…this was the 2000s and his son had died in the Iraq war. He was a great great man! Hope he is doing well!
I know 3 people whose children went to the Disney intern/college program. They barely made enough money to feed themselves. One friend said her son was in it, there was 6/8 people sharing the room, because they couldn’t afford the payment, her son was spending money on food for the apartment. But he constantly asked for them to send money because he was buy food for everyone as his payment, but not everyone paid or moved. (When they paid his rent they sent it to the “landlord”They found out the people on the lease were subletting the apartment. The real rent was $950 they were paying $400 each for rent. And none of the people in the apartment were on the lease. She found out because she called the office to send it directly to office, not the person. At the end they All had to move.
Ex Disney employee here i worked at magic kingdom and honestly the employee drama we would hear and see was good enough to have our own reality tv series
Ex Epcot CM here and agreed. It also wasn’t just the CPs but the leaders and the more senior CMs. They wanted to fire me bc I wound up in the hospital for 4 days (TIA and they found an aneurysm), i out in my two weeks notice once I was discharged.
Same. Worked at MK in attractions and then ODV, the drama, oh, my word! Was much, much happier when I transferred to resorts.
@@megorex630experienced something similar. Almost got fired for being out for surgery. The drama I experienced at MK from leaders was something else. I was so much happier when I transferred to resorts. In my experience the drama is in the parks and they treat you like crap. Resorts are like family and treat you so, so much better.
Please don't give the greedy pigs of Disney any good ideas 😅
For real. I worked at Epcot. One of the dudes in my location was LITERALLY a child predator 😭
I got rid of toxic people by telling them exactly how they are toxic. And when they clearly don't show any signs of positive change I tell them exactly why I will no longer allow them in my life. Period.
I'm 53 and too old for bullshit and stress.
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Yep, I used to let a lot of things slide- go along to get along, you know- but then I turned 40 and I was like- "why am I the one who always has to be 'the bigger person??!'" Yeah, life is too short
Did this with my brother and dad. Haven't talked to them since. 😂
@@yelhsasokolova8561 I'm sorry, I know it hurts. But I bet you're a lot more at peace now. I know I am.
Do you apply the same standards to yourself? Not a snotty comment, just wondering if you also have worked on improving yourself too?
So glad that when I did the Disney College Program many many moons ago, I had AMAZING roommates. We had movie nights, made "family" dinners in our apartment, danced to boyband music in the living room, etc. And we all still keep in touch 19 years later.
On the Disney College Program, there was SO MUCH DRAMA in the apartment. I was grateful that there was one person that I was friends who I requested to room with and we got along perfectly. But the other 4 girls, man was there DRAMA and chaos. My coworkers on the other hand were the absolute best, I loved them.
I’ve lost 100+ pounds due to a life changing decision I made and it’s surprising how people treat me differently and how people are not shy about telling me I used to be fat. I appreciate those who tell me “great job with your weight loss” and “proud of you” but the direct “you were fat” comments are just jaw dropping AND those also come from basically strangers (places I frequent but aren’t friends with), it’s just amazing.
It’s because that’s still a part of who you are, even if you aren’t 100+ heavier now. So it makes absolute sense that it would hurt you when they say “you were fat” because they’re being mean to the girl 100+ pounds heavier (which is still youuu). People lack basic common sense and decency.
They probably say that because they need to find something to make themselves feel better. Such as: "She used to be fat. I'm better because I was never that fat." because they need to find a reason to justify in their head why you look better than them. It's them putting you in a box. As if people online said that they're glad they don't have an eating disorder to justify being bigger than me while I'm totally healthy, have always been eating disorder free, and I was seen by multiple doctors to asses why I hardly gain weight. Because it can't be that easy or I be so lucky. I swear I see plenty of people accuse others of getting plastic surgery because they themselves don't look pretty, so by proxy nobody that pretty must have gotten some kind of surgery or filler to be that pretty.
@alittleoflolo Doesn't matter. Adults are adults and should act like such. I'm glad I never had anyone tell me that when I dropped 70+ pounds, but it FELT like people were trying to say that about me when they asked me how I lost so much weight because I didn't do anything special, I just stopped eating. People really do seem to get jealous when someone they used to dislike for no reason has a beautiful glow-up.
@@alittleoflolo Very insightful ❤
@@nikitatavernitilitvynovaUgh, my mom always used to tell me, "I was never as heavy as you are at this age," when I was younger. It really hurt my self esteem because she always made it seem like outer beauty was a competition. I remember being upset when my mom started losing weight and was almost down to my size because she put that bullsh*t in my head. Now I can see why other girls didn't like my mom back when she was in high school.
I hate bullies, especially in a group. Girl you are such the bigger person, you have a loving family ....they obviously have issues with their own circumstances.
Literally just took a stand for myself and stood up to a Minecraft group I was a part of. The way they'd pull you in with false security and "friendship," then bully you behind your back was WILD. I finally took a stand against them, knowing others have experienced similarly within the group. I was ostracized and silenced. I guess they were never my friends to begin with. I had to grieve that loss, for sure.
The cliques, the exclusion. Yep yep yep
They're just jealous! You're probably a lot prettier than them! Bunch a babies!!!😮😮
That girl asked them to see the sunset and other kind things. She was pretty but seemed like a decent girl as well. Those girls were jealous, they were toxic, and bullying her made them feel special.
Thank you for not being a mean girl and trying to care for people. And yes, I'm a recovering nice girl too. I'm 70 years old! I'm finally looking after myself first.
I had a”frenemy” situation back in High School. Basically: People who had been my friend in Junior High were now were not appreciating my company anymore. Every year we’d coordinate our schedules so that we could have lunch together. Basically for the second semester one year I listened to when they were going to have lunch and made sure that I wouldn’t be there. Sometimes the universe is kind and showed you when to make the break as painlessly as possible. Yes: I was lonely for as while, but my self-esteem was immensely improved thereafter 🎉
Use to call my parents all the time. I lost both before the age of 35 to cancer. The grief is still so deep and I'd give anything to see them. I'm grateful I had such wonderful parents. If you have a good relationship with them, don't ever take it for granted
I'm glad that you had such amazing parents, that is invaluable. I bet they infused you with a lot of love and amazing memories and values. I'm sorry for your loss. 💔
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7th grade mean girls NEVER change. I taught school for 29 years and my last year, people that I once considered friends completely changed because of one mean girl...they made my work life so miserable, that I retired - best decision ever!
Just to clarify - these "mean" girls were my coworkers - I taught at an elementary school...these were grown-ass women who just never matured in how they treated people.
Wow, guess they haven't peaked yet,lmao. Still in grade school.
My mom accepted early retirement from the school district she worked for for 30+years because of this very reason. Entire office was replaced by bullies. Would not want my children attending school in that district. It was so bad we ALL moved away.
@@sylviajones6745 lol in my personal life it’s the ones who peaked in middle/high school who never grew up.
I was a mean girl to one girl in 7th grade. I have changed. I was abused and took my anger out on others. At 48 years of age I figured out that I needed therapy. It's true, no excuse, hurt people hurt people. I've apologized to those I can. Those I can't, I hurt, every day. I hope I will someday be forgiven.
"Do you ever just get to a point where you only want people in your life that you feel good around?" And that's why my best friend is my dog. 😂
As someone who was also in the Disney College Program, the drama was INSANE. I was so, so lucky and my group of roommates were instant besties, but the stories we heard 😅
Being a woman in my 40's you couldn't pay me to go back to those adolescent years where girls were so mean to each other for no good reason. Sending love from Los Angeles 💜💛
Same here!
I’m 35 and now I’m struggling with mean women, those high school girls haven’t changed much in adulthood 😂
@@andreear6444 I came to say the same! Some women don't grow out of it.
Luckily in my late teens I just stopped caring what anyone thought. I was just there to enjoy life and be nice to those that needed kindness.
Funny thing, the girls who bullied me, stopped once i told them I did not care. Some I told I didn't like them either but not gonna spend any energy even talking about them because whats the point.
They started to like me then.
Lol fickle
Anyway it literally saved my life, changing my perspective
So if I could go back with what I came to learn, I wouldn't hesitate.
Ugh, I feel so bad for y'all that was bullied. I always stopped it whenever I saw it happening. I had a constant resting b!tch face and cussed like a sailor. Maybe that's why I was never bullied. I was and always will be a feral one
My 12 yr old daughter is learning about mean girls. She grew up sheltered, attending a small public but upscale school. We moved to a bigger town & she was thrown into a huge school & her first ‘group’ of friends were so horrible and full of back stabbing. It has been a hard lesson, but she’s finally finding herself with a better group bc she looks at that other group from the outside & knows that’s not someone she ever wants to be like. I couldn’t be any prouder of her
0:09 my roommates were HORRIBLE to me in the Disney College Program. They would yell at me for leaving a dirty dish in the sink, but then they would do the same thing. They would tell me I didn’t have common sense because of my ADHD. They were just super mean, obviously peaked in high school kinda people.
Such a simple fix. The old saying: “Treat people how you want to be treated.” It’s truly ALL we need to do, as humans. 💯🤷🏼♀️
I said to my daughter, who was sad that she only had three good friends, that's good; at least you have them. Don't worry about having heaps of people, it's the people you know that have your back. Its a lesson we all have to learn.
True, even if someone has a large group of friends in that large group they truly only have two or three real friends within it. Your daughter has a better friendship knowing she keeps close friends instead of acquaintance friends
I'm 42 and I have three friends I have regular contact with. They've with me since my late teens.
They say we can only maintain 5 deeply meaningful relationships at any given time in life
Then phrase my family has always lived by. "Quality NOT Quantity". Made sense when I first heard it and makes even more sense as a 36 year old woman. Life is much quieter and alot more peaceful with less mouths blabbing.
I always told my daughter, studies prove that our future and our now is defined by the five people we keep in our life. Look at their lives and their actions and outlooks and know that that is the common result for you as well. So keep good friends, be a good friend.
I had a glow up, met an amazing man, got married, started working out daily, awesome job making 6 figures and living in a high-rise home overlooking the river and city. This all happened in the past two years, I have ZERO FRIENDS now, even the closest friend I had right before I got my place stopped talking to me and she refused to come see my new place it's was so odd I didn't understand. 🙃 people are weirdly jealous of you when you're actually living your best life. I've always been happy for everyone regardless of my situation, unfortunately not everyone thinks this way.
It’s not jealousy in the way you think. It is insecurity that makes them see what you did as threatening, because it reminds them that the choices are open to them too and they are CHOOSING to be how they are, which makes them feel guilt and shame. Healthy people will tell you good for you and use it as inspiration or at least an indication that they are unhappy about something within themselves or their own lives. Emotionally immature people will convert it to anger directed at you for making them feel bad about themselves.
It is not jealousy, at least not how you think, when someone makes a choice to do better for themselves over time. It reminds others that they are CHOOSING to be where they do not want to be, so they feel guilt and shame over not changing. Healthy people will tell you they are happy for you, and recognize those feelings as indicators that something within themselves or their lives should change, and use your change as inspiration. Emotionally immature people will convert those feeling to anger at you for “making them feel bad about themselves”.
Well I’m happy for you bestie ❤
First 🎉🎉🎉🎉 to you! Love this for you! I don't know if it's just because I've never had real support but I adore seeing my people succeed. It's weird to me when people want to tear their friends success down but I feel its poverty mindset (they feel there is only a certain amount of "success" out there and somehow feel you've taken it. - bizarre I know)
Anyway... I hope you find your soul family ❤
I've lost soooo many people since going down the healing route to find the most healed authentic version of me, they've dropped like flies but as painful as it can be I know people who deserve the love/support I have to give will find their way to me and vice versa. ❤
If you lose people, that means you're about meet newer, better people for you
I used to work at Disney and this is definitely real. I used to be entertainment cast member and I was also a minor when I started (16). I was friends with Minnie Mouse and one day I was working at Epcot and for those who don’t know, normally during a shift there are two people (sometimes 3 depending on the time of year) who switch out every 15-30 minutes so my coworker who was also working that shift for some reason had it out for me. She was “upset” that I had a smaller “chest size” compared to her (mind you I was 16!!) and said it would “break immersion” so she CALLED A MANAGER TO TRY AND GET ME DISQUALIFIED. The managers on duty were ALL men at the time. So I had to put my costume on and stand in front of grown men evaluating my breasts. I was MORTIFIED and angry at the entire situation. Ultimately, they didn’t disqualify me from the role but said I needed to tape the dress down so adults didn’t look down the middle of my dress. She was livid to say the least and we ignored each other the rest of the shift. Long story short, yes the rumours about there being cliques and bullying is 100% true, at least, it was for me. 🥹
This video reminded me of the time I came home to find my 1950’s antique record player cabinet on the front porch exposed to the weather. My c*nt roommate said it was taking up too much room in the living room even though she agreed to have it there when I first moved in a few months prior. I was lucky enough to have a friend who let me keep it at his tiny ass trailer until I was able to move. I’ve lived alone for the last 16 years.
Bro I feel this, I just picked up an antique Pooley and I'm trying to source internals for it, lemme know if you know anyone! Also in the market for glass 78s to go with it.
I had a glow-up. Lost 150lbs at age 18 and EVERYONE but my one best friend treated me differently. Bullies were all of the sudden nice and "friends" made passive aggressive comments about what i ate and "skinny" people in general all the time. It was a massive eye opener.
Enacting a major change is not something everyone can do. It takes planning, perseverance and intestinal fortitude. It seems weird but sometimes you fear the uncertainty of the benefit of the outcome, a fear of failure of sorts. People who want to make a large change but haven’t gotten to the action part yet, will harbor some small resentment towards you, all of them. Those who are really insecure and almost feel attacked when someone does what they haven’t yet been able to do or who are the person they’d like to be, will lash out directly. At 18, this is compounded by a lack of emotional maturity (maxes out around 25) and general insecurity. You also changed the dynamic, meaning that the “hierarchy” needed to be reassessed. Just be like Katharine Hepburn. She maintained you should do what you want because at least one person will be happy.
Was she a friend or an enemy when... I let her borrow my favorite book series (3 books, original covers, all paperback) and instead of reading them or taking care of them, she put them on the floor of her car and let them get all torn up from people's wet, muddy shoes tromping all over them. Then tried to hide it from me before coming clean because I asked about my books. And instead of giving them back to me, she threw them away so I'd never see the extent of the damage. The first book in the series I didn't buy. It was a gift from a friend who passed away. Few things in my life I regret. But the biggest regret was ever being her friend, for letting her treat me the way she treated my books, and for forgiving her time and time again. Fool me once, shame on you, but fool me twice, thrice, etc... 😮💨
To anyone who reads this, if you find yourself being a better friend to someone than they are to you, throw that whole "friendship" away. You deserve better.
It sure is a deal breaker if the mistreat borrowed books, or anything else. I would buy beater copies to lend before I leant my good copies!
That’s so terrible she did that!
That sucks royally! I had a friend who borrowed a favorite CD (prestreaming) and then let her cat use it as a chew toy and thought nothing of giving it back to me as it was, without replacing it or even attempting to repair it and we were both broke college students. Notice I said “had”.
I went to my friend’s house to help her clean her room and I saw her sweeping up a giant pile of items on her floor. I saw several CD’s I let her borrow being swept into the pile all scratched up. I was so disgusted I couldn’t even bring myself to say anything. She also lost a book I let her borrow, and that book is now very rare and worth like $800. She never treated my stuff with respect so I stopped lending her items, which pissed her off.
I had a friend like this. And to her: Eat 💩 . 20 years of back stabbing and name calling and manipulation. Happy to know that she didn't had children ( nor do I) but her to be mother with her super manipulative and unstable character... Children deserves better!
To the first story: I cannot tell you, how many friends I lost after things started going better for me and I started standing up for myself. Sometimes I miss my old self because I was very liked but I also had no boundaries. I am sharing this because maybe it makes someone feel less lonely and better understood
I have lost all my friends but I'm happier than ever by myself just doing my own thing taking care of me!
@@thamertanner5448 that's lovely! thanks for sharing
It’s a shame that girls treat each other this way. Kudos to all that grow beyond their bullies. Life gets so much better when we get older and no longer put up with the bullies.
These roommates are nothing more than schoolyard bullies. I feel so angry for this girl. 😡
They sound awful, like girls in 3rd grade who would steal your pencil sharpener, speaking from personal experience.
Charlotte at this point feels like that best friend that ALWAYS knows all the good tea and we can share laughs with her😂❤
The Disney College Program employs selected college students as “cast members” at the parks in various capacities (for credit, I believe). It is so disheartening that mean girls exist even here, at “the happiest place on earth.”
Salut maman j'espère que tu vas bien je suis très ravie de voir aujourd'hui 😊😊❤
@@solene2014 salut solene, je suis trés bien, merci.
@@dinasilva9263tu sais maman j'en veux toujours à tatie Charlotte car elle a défondu le méchant l'autre jour pourquoi elle lui donne de l'importance c'est un pauvre type sans ambitions
My first roommate in college wasn't close to her parents. We had a lot of mutual friends and she gossiped about how weird it was that I called my mom almost daily. I really needed to 'cut the cord'
I brought it up at group lunch and told them all my mom had had cancer multiple times, first round was when I was 4, and should have already died according to the doctors. I treasure the time I have with her because I never know how much time I had left with her. Especially because she was up for a surgery soon that she had a 20% chance of surviving.
They all were shocked, apologized, and started calling their parents more. Later on my roommate said it had given her a lot to think about and her dad's health wasn't the best. She's happy she isn't wasting time anymore.
Mom died when I was 25. I do not regret one second spent on the phone with her. She was my best friend and the kindest person I've ever known. The woman set up a local food bank at the church for struggling families while she was undergoing cancer treatment! Woman was a saint!
I was bullied all my life in school and no boys ever gave me attention, after i graduated over the years many people i went to school with started trying to message me and contact me. Mind you all my bullies are now overweight, which they made fun of me for being curvy, some of the best nicknames they gave me was "prego" and "piggy", they all had kids with their boyfriends and most of them have left them. Here I am after my glow up apparently, lost the bad weight, have a good diet, and take care of myself. I am now 29 years old and guess who still has never opened any messages sent to me solely because "now" I am attractive to them. *insert middle finger meme here*
P.S. Charlotte you kept popping up for me as recommended and I am so happy I clicked on it. I have now been bingeing your videos for awhile and I just love you and your personality so much. I hope you are happy and you are able to stay happy. keep smiling and being beautiful queen. *kiss kiss
I love the Christmas lights pic; they made yhe room look classy and elegant, yet so warm and cozy. Those LED lights didn't even brighten up the kitchen. Plus, i imagine they cost more
I am so blessed that the four friends I became close to 30 years ago are still besties! We were nurses and social workers. The trust is amazing and we can share ANYTHING with no judgment. Treasure your true friends!
I spent a couple of hours on the phone with an amazing friend last night. She & I met on the first day of grade 11 in January 1984 and even if we haven't talked for a year or more, our calls literally pick up where we left off last time. I love my Rose!
Same here. The friends that I meet often to catch up are friends I met in Primary School and High School and we've been friends for almost 25 years and counting.
Nurses and social workers are like soldiers who bond on the front lines.
I feel so much for that poor first girl. I just want to hug her and be her friend. She seems so sweet
Love that Blue sweater. It looks so good on you.
Being excluded from groups, and now text groups, still happens to me in my 40’s! I’m a nice, kinda odd sometimes, love to have fun, like to play with the kids typically instead of gossiping and drinking. I was oblivious to mean girls for so long. Now I understand they aren’t anyone I’d want to be friends with!
I've known my best friend for 28 1/2 years and she is currently dating my first ever boyfriend. We are 30 and I dated him from 12-15. She came to me about a year ago and said "I've been hanging out with him and some of our other mutual friends. I think I like him but I will get over it if you want" and I found out he liked her too. I'm in a very good relationship and I encouraged them to date. It took her like 6 months to believe I was ok with it and they are now about 5-6 months into dating and one of the best couples I've seen. When you have a real friend and things are far enough in the past things can work out for everyone 💚
The mean girl to nurse pipeline is absolutely insane though. I bet half these girls have thought about the career
Omg her makeup 😳😳😳 she's soo gorgeous.. You go girl❤❤❤
The first one with the Christmas lights looked cute, the LED lights looked like a club/disco vibe
First story: “Discovering the magic within?” More like they were “discovering the malice within”😌😌😌 some people are just wilddddd
Your blues jumper next to your hair and background looks fabulous 🤩
I genuinely feel like Charlotte would be the best friend to have haha she would 100% go above and beyond to stop you letting your ex back in while also understanding your mental state.
My sister did the Disney college program when she went to LSU. The pay is not that good, the hours are long, and they have lots of strict rules which if you break you are immediately kicked out. Basically you do it for your resume. The only good thing was on your days off you could go to the parks for free.
I had a roommate situation like the first story. I was getting singled out by them and basically bullied, so I talked to the dorm advisor and got a new dorm with great roommates. They tried to ask if I wanted some sort of mediation, but I knew it wouldn't work. It low key gave me trauma about roommates.
My first college roommate’s previous roommate was her 11 year old sister and she was a born again Christian. I left for the weekend to go home so she helped herself to my side of the room, tidying up because her mom was coming, WITH HER MOM, which she hadn’t mentioned, nor had she asked me to tidy. When I got home, I went ballistic (cPTSD surrounding snooping and people touching my stuff for any reason) and explained to her that her only option was to complain about it to her mom because she sure as heck wasn’t allowed to touch my belongings. Pulled the RA in to document the problem and he reinforced it was no go. After that, it got worse until I was sick with either a cold or the mono rolling around and she decided to come in at 4 in the morning and turn all the lights on. She wrote a nasty message on our white board so I simply called her out and told her she needed to get some maturity real quick to which she started sobbing hoping I would feel badly for her and forgive her. She moved out, thankfully, shortly after.
I didn't do "room mates" until well into adulthood, and I'm still traumatized. While away at Christmas, they raided my best table linen, used it for their Christmas dinner party, wrapped up ALL THE RUBBISH, dirty paper plates, everything and food leavings in it, and stuffed it back into the linen cupboard. Stole other things. Worst experience ever, especially as that tablecloth was pure linen from a company that no longer exists, and was white. With spilt ketchup and beetroot stains on it. They seriously hated me. Because I was kind? a people pleaser as Charlotte describes? yes, definitely, but not after that. I've never done something like that to anyone, let alone those house mates. Traumatic.
When I moved out I told them if they had any of my dishes to bring them out, my worst bully tried to keep my Superman tumbler that I had gotten for my birthday. Luckily my sister is more confrontational than me and went into her room and told her to give it back.
I was bullied from elementary school to high-school. I had a goth vibe back when it wasn't as accepted. I moved around for 5 years before moving back. Surprisingly when I came back, some of the same people that bullied me, now compliment me and tell me I look amazing, like???? I still see myself as an ugly duckling, but I'm with an amazing guy now, and my true friends have stuck with me through everything 🖤
I have never had any friends. I have always been horribly shy and bullied and beat up a lot. I had a couple people who I thought were friends and before long they had me signed up to MLM's. Then when I didnt want to work they were all offended and never spoke to me again.
I'm 51 and I talk to my mom almost every day. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
That first girl really got to me, not sure why. If she was still in that situation? Lemme come down. Those girls think they can be bullies? Ha! I've got a good 40+ years of experience beating up bullies either physically or verbally.
My best friend growing up was 3 yrs younger. We met when I was 5. His bully lived to the side of me. We were in the backyard playing, like kids do. His bully popped up on the fence and started harassing my friend. The bully was in the same grade as me. I yanked that boy up and over the fence and proceeded to beat the crap out of him. My grandfather pulled me off of the boy.
I felt horrible about 2 days later after finding out that his father whooped his butt badly for getting his arse handed to him by a girl. It kind of explained why he was a bully tho.
A basic summary of the Disney College Program is that Disney brings in college students to work the parks. Most of the cast members you encounter at the parks are likely DCPs. I was a DCP myself and did actually make friends that I've stayed in contact with but MAN..the stories DCP can share. I was there during the days of Vista Way.
My sister was part of this program and she never got over being lied about and kicked out of the program. She worked so hard to get into that program.
@therealmouseymouse oh man! I'm sorry she got kicked out! What year did she go? I've heard stories that the program participants have gotten vicious. I saw quite a few people termed during my program but due to their own actions.
I was at Vista Way too. Ages ago.
It was wild.
I got lucky with my roommates, but we had a girl from the apartment across from us practically living with us because her roommates had ganged up against her and were awful to her.
We tried to get management to just move her to our apartment because we had an extra spot, but they just kept telling her that she’s an adult and she needs to sit down and talk to her roommates and work things out.
That’s all they ever told anyone it seems like.
@Annie_Annie__ I was at Chatham for my program but during my time, there was groups termed at Vista Way for underage drinking (a party was broken by security and at least twenty kids were termed for drinking) and then at least 3 for a supposed threesome in hottub at like 3 am. The stuff that went down in Vista Way was WILD.
I think I got relatively lucky but was in between roommate drama (2 roommates didn't like the other and vice versa) and that was so super awkward.
@@melissagreen7327 I lived right by the pool and I quickly learned not to go in the hot tub.
If I wanted to go in a pool a usually begged a friend to let me go with them to the pool at Chatham because that pool was less dirty seeming.
I also avoided parties since I was 19. There were a couple parties that the over 21s threw that security broke up for being too loud.
They rounded up every underage person they could and kicked them from the program whether they were drinking or not.
One of my roommates just barely made it out of one of those parties without getting caught.
A couple of my roommates had alcohol in our apartment but they would buy a 3-liter of Coke, pour half of it out, then fill the bottle with bourbon. Then put it in the fridge.
We just knew not to drink the Coke in the fridge before work. And they never caught it when they did those searches.
But we never threw a party, per se. We’d have movie nights with just two other people, and that’s the only time we had alcohol. We kept it chill because we were so scared of getting caught.
People like these make me GLAD I am introverted, never had many friends as in one or 2 at a time and very comfortable being by myself.
The Disney college program is mainly for getting in cast members. They offer a place to stay while you work and even help pay for college. It's not an actual college. The college program participants actually used to live in one of the actual resorts on property, but since then I believe they have made fully furnished apartments only a few minutes down the road.
It's actually brilliant, really. It's a program that helps younger employees ensure they are taken care of so they can get to work on time and do their job properly, but also help with college. 😂
I'm 62 and wish I could still talk to and spend time with my mom. RIP MOM❤
Same here! Every day I think “I’m going to tell Mom that” then remember she’s gone😢
When I found out my best friend was sleeping with my boyfriend, i went full nuclear. I was such a pushover that literally all of their bills were in my name (she lived with me, he had awful credit). I had a feeling something was going on. So I told my man that my friend had slept with someone who was just diagnosed with aids (it wasn't a lie). She called me shortly after losing her damn mind! So I took the next day off work but didn't tell them. I waited down the street, and it only took minutes for him to show up. So I walked in on them naked on my damn couch! Within the hour I turned off their phones, all of his utilities, let my apt know I was breaking my lease and turned off all of my utilities. They were SO pissed off! I even called his landlord and said the rent would not be coming and why. Unfortunately I had to get tested for years after. It felt nice to know they had to pack with no lights though
Right on bestie!
@blizz2795 thanks! My mom said I was taking it too far, but I eventually cut her out too. I was pretty proud of the way I handled things ❤️❤️❤️
That's how it is done! Bravo!
@@Sarahopalno, that’s not too far. Often people will urge you to give certain people “the benefit of the doubt” saying it was a “lapse in judgment”, forgetting there are people who just operate differently manipulating and using people for their own benefit and lacking serious attachment ability, because they never matured emotionally or psychologically. They see the world as a threat and everyone is out to get them so they strike first. It’s really sad when you think about it, people going through life grenading their own relationships over and over. At least from what I can deduce, they operate using the same exact patterns and even the same scripts sometimes, which means you can use that person as a template for what to look for as warning signs you might not want to invest in a relationship with that person.
U paid his rent too?
She is beautiful, smart & kind. Those girls are haters. They hate that she has a REAL relationship with her family. She calls home for love, they call home for money. Hope she completes her time & runs from them. PEACE:-)!
Yoo That makeup looks so stunning! Suits you so well Charlotte! ❤
Disney college:
Swimming: by Ariel
Gym class: by Aladdin (test on escaping guards qucikly)
Housekeeping: by Cinderella
Litterature and imagination: by Belle
Rest & relaxation: by Aurora
Calm & inner peace: by Winnie the Pooh (guest starring Timon & Pumba on sophomore year)
Boundaries & self respect: by Jasmine
Be sure to be on time - extra classes for this by The White Rabbit
Here's a thought regarding the first girl: maybe she was more popular with regular staff and guests than them? Insecure bees with itches might be offended people arent as enthralled by their high school popular mean girl vibe. The fact that she appears as sweet as Snow White might rub their past bully selves the wrong way.
I can totally see that. She is like the perfect prototype for that kind of job. She probably got kudos all the time for her good work. Those girls were burning with jelly belly.
Bees with itches 😂 I love that!
Just found your channel and I’m really enjoying your videos!!! Love your inputs and commentary 😂❤
I had a close friend but our friendship shattered in the last year of middle school going into high school. It got progressively worse in HS almost resulting in me kms in my junior year. So kudos to the people who survived or got revenge
Charlotte’s makeup is so slay 😳🫶🏻 stunning 🥰
Aw thank you!!
You look very beautiful 🫂 ❤
@@CharlotteDobre yes girl it looks so fire !!! 🔥
We need to clone this lady... she's so pretty.
That broken glass girl is psycho!! That is crazy! When I was in my early 20s I had a “friend” who would start rumors about me saying I was stealing her friends.. when I was just trying to get along with her friend group…
She also tried to hit on every guy I liked, and would tell me how ugly I was and how I could never be an actress, or a singer…
Yeesh. She's sounds like a sad person who's jealous and insecure person, honestly. To target another person who just wants to make friends and live normally like any other normal human being is just pathetic. How *bad* must your life be to do that?
Anywho, how's she doing now?
@@inalatumarianna5510 I wouldn’t know. I snipped her out of my life and unfriended her on any platform I could possibly unfollow her on.
Some women set their value extrinsically, on subjective measures of how other people feel about or see them. Other women use their objective value, skills, competencies and knowledge, as well as values and morals to set their value intrinsically. When extrinsic women meet intrinsic women (who are often more attractive to the opposite sex, I found out directly from a college friend that guys like the charm of those women for short periods and then grow tired of it quickly), they feel threatened and resentful that you should not be subject to so subjective a measure of your value, so instead of doing the work, they cut you down.
Not friends, but I'm 47 and a manager at a small apartment complex. My boss is in the process of evicting a resident for starting a dangerous high speed chase with a child and another resident in the car. The tenant in trouble is an adult, yet acts like a child. This person's grandma is threatening to sue me for evicting this person AND is claiming she "has proof" that I smoke and cook meth.......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have 4 kids to take care of, a home, bills, and a job. I don't have the desire, time, money, or inclination to do drugs......and the people trying to spread these rumors are 20, early 40s, and early 60s!!!!! I guess I'm supposed to coddle this 20-yr-old because the mom and grandma did......yeeeeeaaaaaaahNO!!! I don't spoil my kids, I'll be damned if I spoil some adult child. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!
Your eye makeup looks amazing, Charlotte!!
Holy shit. Shows once again how good it is never to share space with roommates or to be too close to "friends". And that it is not that bad if you don't have both of it.
You're never too old to call your mother or father.. sometimes you just want to hear your mother's voice and it doesn't matter how old you are
Both of my parents are gone now. My mother didn't like me as much as my sister. I made her a grandmother--twice. My sister didn't have any kids but our mom worshiped the ground she walked on. Go figure. I'm not bitter, just hurt. I don't talk to my sister anymore. I don't miss being bullied by her.
Omg that sweet Cinderella student was surrounded by evil step-roommates
Serotonin from my fav potato queen Charlotte! Definitely don't miss my 20's. I could care less about what people think or talk about me. Getting older is very liberating!
10:43 You said that literally in the moment I thought to myself "damn I missed being hated on" lmao😭😭😭
Off topic but, can we talk about how GORGEOUS Charlotte looks in that shade of blue?!
FIRE! 🔥
The Disney college program is where you work at Disney (retail, rides, food service) but you get customer service training in the Disney style and you can get college business credit while you’re there as well as getting paid minimum wage. You live in apartments (there were 6 girls in ours and we all did different jobs in different parks)
That sounds great!
@@snicole042 it was definitely an experience I appreciated having but it’s also pretty hard sometimes. Working like 80 hour weeks in spring break with a full costume (i did merchantainment - retail in ride gift shops) and I had to wear a full 30s type work blazer, straight skirt, nylons, heels… in 90 degree weather. I’m very thankful for air conditioning.
lol, I did the Disney College program Spring 2013. I worked in Pioneerland and Tomorrowland mostly. When I was being trained to work in Space Mountain one of my trainers was spit on by a competitive cheerleader because he couldn’t show her group’s photo because she flashed the camera on the ride. lol. I don’t know how he didn’t lose his 💩.
The program is also designed to keep the park full of cheap labor because full-time workers are unionized and are protected.
the look that was served in this video!! you're gorgeous!
Omg! Lately I had been literally thinking that Charlotte has a glow up!!! Looking great as always but ever greater , even more feminine and confident. She does have a glow up!!
Charlotte is my comfort person !!! Girlie literally gives bestie vibes 😭❤
Yes!
Realness❤
Hi! 40 year old married woman with 2 teenage children. I call my 70 year old mom every day. And anyone who thinks that is weird can shove it. I love my mom. She is my best friend. I love my dad. He yells at me when my mom puts me on speaker phone haha. They are both so loving and supportive. I will never apologize for being close with my parents
You have the comfiest looking sweater on and I absolutely love the colour. Keep glowing beautiful 😊
Charlotte nailed it with the “they are jealous” statements.
I feel for the disney roommate. When I went four hours away to school, I had bad roommates. I had one good roommate that I was friends with before and still friends with. I'm very grateful for her
I feel so bad for the girl on her Disney CP. I had such an amazing experience. Almost 15 years later and I still talk to my roommates!
BBAAAAAAHHKKKKSSTTAAAAABBEEEERRR !!! Charlotte's voice! Love it!
Her roommates never grew out of their high school mean girl phase.
I had a lot of friendships that ended. One with a guy that liked me and was upset when I got pregnant by my boyfriend. He said he would “punch me in the stomach” which made me immediately cut off the friendship because I had a miscarriage a two month prior.
My "friend" recorded me in the shower & posted it online. I was EXTREMELY self conscious in highschool & she knew it. I was the most mortified I've ever been in my life & the comments are seared into my brain. She was the type to put others down to make herself look better. It's so bittersweet hearing other people's bullying stories bc, I hate that so many people go through that experience growing up. But, on the other hand it makes me feel a teeny weeny bit better knowing I wasn't alone during a time I felt like dirt on the bottom of someones shoe.
That is actually illegal. You could press charges.
@@TheBaumcm unfortunately, I was too much of a people pleaser and let people walk all over me back then so, I never really did anything about it. And it would be way too late now. That was back in 2008/09 😔
I’m 31 and call my Mommy 5x a day at some points , my mommy is my best friend . When my 2 kids are grown up and if they move a 2 hour plane ride away they better call me like this sweet girl did ❤😩 this girl they were JEALOUS OF .
FYI: Disney College Program is similar to a study abroad, but at Disney World. The students go for a semester, and are only in a few classes for their degree. The rest of the time they are working at a Disney park. Makes for some pretty cheap labor 😂
As someone who studied body language and interview and interrogate techniques semi casually, a HUGE Red flad is when someone says "I would never, I could never" instead of "I didn't." Nothing is fool-proof, but it is a definite indicator.
Why is that? Can you point me to a reference? The one book I read on body language was from an FBI interrogator who said deception was notoriously difficult to detect and that we can only detect discomfort.
@@stevezelaznik5872 Body language analysis and related fields are a pseudoscience. People don't all behave the same when deceitful. It's quite individual, which is probably why we are often better at detecting deceit in people we know vs. people we don't. Also, weird behavior can also be caused by other factors, especially in police interrogations, such as high levels of stress, tiredness, etc.
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