Battling Envy

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
  • Ask Pastor John
    Episode: 151
    Transcript: www.desiringgo...

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  • @aletheamallory9674
    @aletheamallory9674 2 місяці тому +1

    TRUTH........THANK YOU LORD GOD FOR DELIVERANCE. I HAVE LEARNED IN MY SUFFERINGS AND STRUGGLES OVER THESE MANY YEARS TO BE CONTENT AND TRUST ABBA FATHER IN ALL THINGS. HE KNOWS BEST👑🙋🏾👑

  • @Derek_Baumgartner
    @Derek_Baumgartner 3 роки тому +17

    Thanks for this.
    A key thing is trust and gratitude to God: for in Him we 'live and move and have our being' (Acts 17:28).
    We, too, are to bring all our problems to God in prayer: our wants, our sins, our issues, and seek strength from Him.
    Strength to conquer sin, strength to discern what is sinful from what is not, strength to continue on, and strength even to continue trusting Him.
    He is worthy - and if you don't constantly seek Him and bring your problems to Him in prayer, you're missing out.
    (Philippians 4:6)

  • @paulinamassaquoi517
    @paulinamassaquoi517 3 роки тому +19

    I used to struggle with envy so much in my teenage years but God saved me and thanks to the grace of Jesus, I'm a lot better now. Just a bit concerned because nowadays, I'm finding myself jealous and envious about vain, little things and I'm ashamed because most times when I feel like that, God blesses me even more with things I never worked for. He keeps showing me what Matthew 6:32 truly means. He knows our need better than we do...He gives us just exactly what we need. I pray He helps us all to be more content.

  • @eatntell1421
    @eatntell1421 3 роки тому +18

    Looking forward to the jealousy episode. I’ve been admittedly envious of certain people in my life and it’s been going on for several years now. It can be discouraging sometimes and i often wonder if it will ever go away. Thank you, APJ team, for bringing this message. I’ll press on.

    • @lili.h1813
      @lili.h1813 3 роки тому +4

      I am sure you have good qualities that God created you with.
      Just don't compare yourself with others.
      Look at yourself through the eyes of Jesus....and less is better. God bless you. 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @joyzjazzy
      @joyzjazzy Рік тому

      God sees you❤️

  • @nicole8576
    @nicole8576 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you! I am dealing with this now and it’s so difficult. I’ve never experienced this emotion and it’s taken a lot of me but I want to overcome it. Pulling out my bible now to read Philippians. Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart 🙏🏽

  • @BubblyOne
    @BubblyOne 3 роки тому +25

    Speaking of envy and jealousy.. We never know what someone is having to go through to have or keep what is being envied. Have you ever regretted getting what you asked for? I definitely have experienced it. Now I just pray God meet my needs not so much my wants.

    • @jessitabonita
      @jessitabonita 2 роки тому +3

      As someone who has suffered countless financial setbacks after foolishly financing a used Mercedes-Benz: I cannot agree with this comment more!
      When others look at it and me impressed, I am quick to let them know that if I had done my homework on the maintenance and fuel costs, I would not have made the same decision.
      I just liked the look and feel of it, and didn’t realize I’d be lumped into most people who buy a “luxury” brand of vehicle to be seen or feel some weird worldly sense of superiority.
      It’s definitely been a blessing but more of a lesson. 😕

  • @caisabino1943
    @caisabino1943 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you, Pastor John! God bless you and whoever is reading this comment!

  • @wasabigirl2354
    @wasabigirl2354 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Pastor John very encouraging!!! I super agree with your points raised.
    It is not a sin to want or desire, what is sinful is coveting and envying others to the point of not glorifying to God and allowing bitter roots in the heart to grow into resentments that causes us to be unproductive for God.
    I have "Godly wants" for example to want or desire to have children, to be married, to serve like other missionaries, to be promoted at work so I can make my family secured and I can help others, to want to be good at playing piano like my teacher, to have a house for my family, a 2nd hand car so it will be easier to go to work, wanting to eat healthy foods to be healthy, wanting to exercise to lose a bit of weight so I can be healthier, wanting to travel to take a break from my stressful career, wanting to feel energetic like my friend, wanting to be like Pastor John having clarity, Christ-driven and spirit-filled kingdom advancing God-glorifying goal life and the list goes on and on. I believe these are valid wants and desires. We pray for our needs and wants. But how about those we did not ask but He still gives??? Well, God is also Father who also gives our needs and wants even if have not asked for it. I have many needs and wants that He gave simply bec He is a loving, generous and blessing Father! He always blesses me with my want to travel not bec I want to covet... We always have to put our heart and mind in a Godly check and inventory to see if all our needs and wants are aligned with God.

  • @DailyMaddie
    @DailyMaddie 3 роки тому +3

    Amen! I feel like this is such a great topic to talk about! Thank you so much for sharing this envy is some thing that the world tells us to hold onto but God tells us that envy is bad! Thank you for sharing again God bless

  • @lili.h1813
    @lili.h1813 3 роки тому +6

    Envy, such an ugly feeling.
    Envious of money, beauty, a job, posetions, happiness, and so forth.
    I don't understand why people envy.
    🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @Fabian7227
      @Fabian7227 3 роки тому +3

      I think it’s just something really hard to control.

    • @lili.h1813
      @lili.h1813 3 роки тому +3

      @@Fabian7227 That's why, and for many other reasons that we need God's help everyday.

    • @VoidDweller86
      @VoidDweller86 Рік тому

      The Sheer Enigmas of Jealousy and Envy Can Cut Very Deep, Me Speaking For Myself.
      I am 36 years old by the way, Black American male,
      I live in Greensboro, North Carolina.

  • @JohanaFlores13
    @JohanaFlores13 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for this! Timely message.

  • @Richie016
    @Richie016 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Pastor John,for preaching😇

  • @anauxistential8486
    @anauxistential8486 3 роки тому +9

    Gods Law, the 10th commandment tells me that it is wrong to want something someone else has.
    It's called covetousness.
    Coveteous, greedy, acquisitive, grasping, avaricious mean having or showing a strong desire for especially material possessions. covetous implies inordinate desire often for another's possessions.
    "Envy," on the other hand, is more like "want" and "desire" than "zeal." It's sometimes considered a "nice" word for "jealousy." The Biblical sin, though, is "envy," not "jealousy": When you "covet thy neighbor's wife," you are resentful that your neighbor has her, and you don't.
    In the Book of Genesis envy is said to be the motivation behind Cain murdering his brother, Abel, as Cain envied Abel because God favored Abel's sacrifice over Cain's. ... Envy is, therefore, a sin deeply ingrained in human nature.
    Merriam-Webster:
    Definition of envious
    1: feeling or showing envy
    envious of their neighbor's new car
    envious looks

  • @paladindragoongirl18
    @paladindragoongirl18 3 роки тому +14

    I haven’t even seen the video, but let me tell you: social media is the #1 source of envy.

    • @josiah2chingy492
      @josiah2chingy492 3 роки тому +3

      Sure right

    • @benjohn1031
      @benjohn1031 3 роки тому +3

      I deleted my social media. Best decision I ever made

    • @josiah2chingy492
      @josiah2chingy492 3 роки тому +2

      @@benjohn1031 good job mate it’s a distraction but you can also use it for good to spread the gospel

    • @anauxistential8486
      @anauxistential8486 3 роки тому +4

      I'd like to add that The hearts of men are the #1 source of envy. Social media is the product of our desire for covetousness. Thanks for sharing!🕊

    • @lili.h1813
      @lili.h1813 3 роки тому +1

      @@benjohn1031 Me too.
      Two years ago.
      I prefer investing money on buying bibles to share with others. 🌷

  • @irisheinrich4483
    @irisheinrich4483 3 роки тому +1

    What a blessing! Thank you!

  • @justin10292000
    @justin10292000 Рік тому

    Profound Truth. This audio video should be much more widely known and listened to.

  • @josefhermann8101
    @josefhermann8101 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your true and encouraging doctrines

  • @PMA65537
    @PMA65537 3 роки тому +5

    0:57 said Proverbs 37 but meant Psalm 37

  • @thebumblebeemovie3514
    @thebumblebeemovie3514 Рік тому

    Envy is eating away at me due to the feeling of lacking worth or not being good enough. I’m straight up jealous of my family members cause they’re excelling at things I’m struggling in, even the young ones.

    • @joyzjazzy
      @joyzjazzy Рік тому +1

      Sending you love ❤️ Dont forget to take these feelings to Jesus

  • @TheJesusNetwork
    @TheJesusNetwork Рік тому +1

    Check out 'is envy stealing your joy...and killing you?' for more on this fascinating topic

  • @appledough3843
    @appledough3843 4 місяці тому

    2:27 🔑

  • @angloaust1575
    @angloaust1575 3 роки тому +2

    Be content with food and rainment

  • @christophersedlak1147
    @christophersedlak1147 Рік тому

    thanks

  • @andremahesa4249
    @andremahesa4249 3 роки тому +1

    I am so exausted. Envy of heterosexual man who have possibility to have a wife, children, family (all of these are God grace, and they can enjoy it with God, in a holy way).
    Me, who have same sex attraction, even without act, this attraction is sin. I will not go into that life style, trying so hard to kill this attraction, begging God for deliverance, so lonely, when all of church fellow go back to their family. I go to no where.
    My bad thinking, when i want to die soon, cause i have no purpose in this world. I have no power to share gospel, to evangelize, cause my self can't even enjoy God. Especially when normal men (new born Christian) praise God and they have feast with God.

    • @Mr2001ghost
      @Mr2001ghost 2 роки тому +1

      I understand you posted this a year ago Andre and I have no idea how time has been for you since. I just want you to know you’re loved by Jesus and by His Church.
      I’ll pray that you continue to fight these sinful desires and I encourage you in that battle. Reach out to the Word, to God and to your fellow believers. Do not spend long periods of time in solitude but instead always be accompanied by the Word and the Spirit in all situations. Amen.

    • @andremahesa4249
      @andremahesa4249 2 роки тому

      @@Mr2001ghost thank you bro. Still the same. Now i try to accept the reality, the bitter pill, maybe this is my destiny.

    • @Mr2001ghost
      @Mr2001ghost 2 роки тому

      @@andremahesa4249 hey Andre, I will pray for you tonight but I would encourage you to never accept sin. Take up your cross daily. Deny yourself and follow Christ. I still struggle with masturbation even 8-9months after becoming a Christian, it’s really not easy when you fall again and again but the mark of a Christian is repentance, confession and a battle which we do daily. You should watch this sermon: ua-cam.com/video/dZ6u5SYDuUk/v-deo.html
      Often we listen to the accusations and lies of Satan more than the promises of God, we believe our sin more than we believe Him. Hope you continue to fight this brother. Amen

    • @selfyk6304
      @selfyk6304 2 роки тому

      Are you any better now? I wish you the best there

    • @joyzjazzy
      @joyzjazzy Рік тому

      I know its been a year now, I encourage you to get some content of Jackie Hill Perry... She talks a lot about this as she is now married but was formerly lesbian

  • @acwright
    @acwright 3 роки тому +1

    MAGA2020