Talking to Your Partner About Your Sexual History

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  • Опубліковано 22 тра 2020
  • Real fam, what do you think about giving your partner a list of every single person you’ve slept with?
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  • @mollyshaj.3888
    @mollyshaj.3888 4 роки тому +843

    I don't need specific details but if I'm going to be in a room with ole girl, let me know you did something. Never let me go into a situation where someone knows things about you that I don't.

    • @827honey1
      @827honey1 4 роки тому +28

      Absolutely agree. That would be the issue. Don't make a fool out of me.

    • @emmab2013
      @emmab2013 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly.

    • @BabyDonZie
      @BabyDonZie 4 роки тому +6

      Give this comment a million likes!!! I AGREE!! That is trueeee

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +3

      Yes!

    • @mt3388
      @mt3388 4 роки тому +13

      Exactly. Don’t invite me to someone’s party and have some girl glaring at me from across the room and then saying something under her breathe when we leave the house together...OOPS 🙊

  • @kd-xp6eg
    @kd-xp6eg 4 роки тому +1037

    Tamera straining hard to get her shirt in the frame chile 😂

    • @glazyy_
      @glazyy_ 4 роки тому +24

      😂😫

    • @zrtopics2418
      @zrtopics2418 4 роки тому +64

      She often carries that posture.

    • @sheeshneesh
      @sheeshneesh 4 роки тому +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @uncut_diamond2306
      @uncut_diamond2306 4 роки тому +24

      Listen loool thats the first thing i saw lol

    • @abcd2683
      @abcd2683 4 роки тому +75

      nah, she had intense back pain in the past, so its probably just her trying to correct her posture

  • @kaiylasab9767
    @kaiylasab9767 3 роки тому +52

    Jeanie not knowing she's muted the whole time is KILLING me😂 0:41 3:07 2:53

    • @CC-si3cr
      @CC-si3cr 2 роки тому

      I thgt that happens so multiple people aren't talking all @ once. The View already has that covered with everyone talking over and being rude to each other. I didn't realize she was on mute.

  • @godsgirl5722
    @godsgirl5722 4 роки тому +509

    I don't need details; just his body count and for him to get tested for STDs. People are out here knowingly spreading stds.

    • @jayonpluto
      @jayonpluto 4 роки тому +36

      @Kaylin Carey body count does matter bc you get an emotional attachment to a person you decided to be intimate and the more people you've been with means that you're less likely to have an emotional connection

    • @beverlynoelle6941
      @beverlynoelle6941 4 роки тому +35

      Kaylin Carey body count does matter because the higher the number, the less selective you are. It shows you lack discernment and will sleep with just anyone. You don’t have standards. Anyone can have you. You’re essentially for everybody. I don’t want a partner who will literally sleep with anyone.

    • @therebex23
      @therebex23 4 роки тому +21

      @@beverlynoelle6941 You're stepping on slut-shaming territory. Standards exist when you take responsibility to know your partner's sexual *health* history and protect yourself. Having multiple partners doesn't mean you don't have standards it just means you enjoy a sex life with people you connect to and don't necessarily want a monogamous relationship with. You can still have, for example, 5 partners at one time if you are all on the same page and are responsible. That doesn't mean "you'll sleep with anyone."

    • @sharktalez
      @sharktalez 4 роки тому +6

      Body count matters to me because I've only been with one person. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22. I'm also still insecure at 25. Body count matters to me, doesn't mean it should or shouldn't. Just my thing

    • @elizabethd112
      @elizabethd112 4 роки тому +1

      Asking for body count is stupid because people will lie. No guy is going to tell you the real number if he thinks you're no going to like it. So I don't ask anymore, to me if he doesn't try to get me to sleep with him on a first date that's proof enough that he's not promiscuous

  • @NZZ72
    @NZZ72 4 роки тому +345

    I agree with Amanda! I don’t care unless it’s something happening NOW

    • @CorneliusCody
      @CorneliusCody 4 роки тому +6

      If def depends on the person. I would freely share, but if the person doesn’t care, then it’s good not to tell as well.
      The devil is a liar. And sometimes, you need your SO to help ya out.

    • @TheReal_TeeKay
      @TheReal_TeeKay 2 роки тому +1

      THANK YOU.

  • @triciabremnor
    @triciabremnor 4 роки тому +228

    Tamera's t-shirt 🤣😂# kidsiamworking

    • @charliehinds700
      @charliehinds700 4 роки тому

      kmll yeah she say 'emme fix you'll heifer 4 keep getting on me and my kids, while I'm working..

  • @scarlove50
    @scarlove50 4 роки тому +100

    " that wasn't the business cuz I'm the business now" - Amanda 2020
    😂👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾

  • @johnnyc3184
    @johnnyc3184 4 роки тому +312

    I'm Half Tamera and Half Adrienne.... lol

  • @rukiakameel6244
    @rukiakameel6244 4 роки тому +73

    ‘Confidence comes from what you know’ wow I really need to sit and think about that! Yes Amanda serving us with the wisdom

  • @katherinepoltoratzky6068
    @katherinepoltoratzky6068 4 роки тому +80

    Jeannie's style here has never looked better imo. That lip color is fire.

  • @latjaz5812
    @latjaz5812 4 роки тому +167

    A is keeping it real. We don’t like making stories up in our head. Tell me, please and thank you.
    I don’t want a person having one up on me especially if it can be avoided.

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 4 роки тому +148

    1:14. Adrienne head roll reminded me a lot of Tamar back in the day 🤣

    • @nomatterwatialwayswin
      @nomatterwatialwayswin 4 роки тому +2

      Lool straight facts haha omg now that u said that its on point😆😜

    • @69Fabulosity
      @69Fabulosity 4 роки тому +3

      Funny 🤣🤣🤣 cant say the same about her🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣❗

  • @juliansmith4987
    @juliansmith4987 4 роки тому +211

    I feel like Amanda thinks these women are simpletons.

    • @michelleodo2356
      @michelleodo2356 4 роки тому +10

      Honestly!! i'm crying!😂😂😂

    • @69Fabulosity
      @69Fabulosity 4 роки тому +11

      They kinda are with the exception of Tam! And sometimes jeannie just sometimes lol

    • @4evermakup07
      @4evermakup07 4 роки тому +9

      do you like pizza? cuz I want a pizza dat ass she has a PHD from columbia girl yes she is.

    • @helenmayberry6010
      @helenmayberry6010 4 роки тому

      @@4evermakup07
      Lol

    • @annefrankhidingfromhitler9424
      @annefrankhidingfromhitler9424 4 роки тому +8

      69Fabulosity Tamera is the simplest of the 5 right along with Adrienne

  • @Facesofthepeople
    @Facesofthepeople 4 роки тому +156

    Low key I peeped Amanda’s eyebrow lift when Jeanie made the “chicken head” comment 🤨

    • @victoriaramage1867
      @victoriaramage1867 4 роки тому +44

      I also raised my eyebrow completely unnecessary to make such a comment Amanda facial expressions tell you everything

    • @thatsangie2548
      @thatsangie2548 4 роки тому +38

      Amanda always made some weird faces everytime Jeannie is talking about her relationship with jeezy .. I don’t know but it feels like Amanda not reallly happy with that Jeannie situation 😏 like what’s her problem

    • @whaleykids
      @whaleykids 4 роки тому +45

      Amanda probably bites her tongue a thousand times a week being on this show. Lol I hope she spills ALL the tea when she leaves 😂😂

    • @TheSaray08
      @TheSaray08 4 роки тому +9

      Even I did to lol like chickenhead

    • @shivairas6717
      @shivairas6717 4 роки тому +4

      Time stamp?

  • @greylove2064
    @greylove2064 4 роки тому +55

    Lol Amandas face the whole time when Jeannie talking lol

    • @mamanova1
      @mamanova1 4 роки тому +2

      First thing I noticed lol

    • @etvscandalfanpage2011
      @etvscandalfanpage2011 4 роки тому +4

      Everytime Jeannie talks about Jeezy🤣 its like Amanda knows somethings we don't know 🙈

  • @Diamond-wu5ot
    @Diamond-wu5ot 4 роки тому +16

    “cause he told-ed me” 🤣🤣🤣 Adrienne funny 😆

  • @zabrinatheteacher
    @zabrinatheteacher 4 роки тому +71

    I'm gonna miss Amanda Seales and her point of views. She was a breath of fresh air...🥺😔

    • @hillaryrc
      @hillaryrc 4 роки тому +6

      Waaaait, she is not part of the real anymore?? Smh...danm

    • @aiyolee3069
      @aiyolee3069 3 роки тому +2

      Is she leaving ?

    • @ha8236
      @ha8236 3 роки тому +6

      @@aiyolee3069 Yup she quit. The real was never for her. She is a deep thinker.

  • @vsg5549
    @vsg5549 4 роки тому +252

    Ade israel was married for like 20 years do u really need to know more than that😂😂😂😂😂

    • @avafreeman336
      @avafreeman336 4 роки тому +97

      But he was being unfaithful many times smh

    • @shantell4847
      @shantell4847 4 роки тому +5

      @@avafreeman336 how do you know this

    • @helenmayberry6010
      @helenmayberry6010 4 роки тому +45

      Why is Adrienne being so extra "Boo"..your husband cheated on his wife of 20 something years and has 2 outside children...again sometimes silence is golden

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +3

      @Harold Berman There are GOOD pastors.

    • @mariyaa111
      @mariyaa111 4 роки тому +18

      Harold Berman You know that he is NOT a pastor right ???? Lmfao, girl he is a Gospel SINGER !!

  • @lucylee2144
    @lucylee2144 4 роки тому +67

    I agree with Amanda! I don't care as long as it is not happening with us now.

    • @simoneoliver7379
      @simoneoliver7379 4 роки тому +3

      Once a cheater always a cheater

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 4 роки тому +6

      Yup. I dont understand the term "one up" me. Do whatever you want, you are just his history where as I am his present time 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Patti81ify
    @Patti81ify 4 роки тому +39

    As long as he's clean... idc. What happened before me aint have nothing to do with me

  • @francescadeyo7045
    @francescadeyo7045 4 роки тому +28

    I would want to know, you have to admit if you walked into a room with your man and everyone there knows that his ex or exes is there and you have no clue you'd be lowkey embarrassed that everyone except you knew and she was giving off a vibe the whole time

  • @BATOOLESK
    @BATOOLESK 4 роки тому +42

    TAMERAH changed her story about adam's ex , she said before that she knew it was his ex and she acted confident cuz she got him , now she says she didnt know and his niece told her ..hmm

    • @Jerbrousky
      @Jerbrousky 4 роки тому +8

      Mmhm you’re indeed right.

    • @user-fj4tw9xu8l
      @user-fj4tw9xu8l 4 роки тому +8

      I was thinking the same thing!!!

    • @nellymthembu759
      @nellymthembu759 3 роки тому +5

      True

    • @jescyronia8111
      @jescyronia8111 3 роки тому +6

      May be they are 2 different people..

    • @person8520
      @person8520 2 роки тому

      @@jescyronia8111 no it’s the same scenario she just fibbed a bit

  • @Besh-ls5ee
    @Besh-ls5ee 4 роки тому +19

    Yep! Agree with Tamera... Not knowing about my bf/husband past gf's history doesn't do you justice
    in your current relationship!! it just got me worked up and jealous for no reason at all..,😒...and he had dumped her ages ago before me.....and he now with me 8 years later with a child.🙏🏾😃

  • @Chocolate.barbie444
    @Chocolate.barbie444 4 роки тому +64

    I hope Adam is faithful to Tam.

    • @crystalmorrison1616
      @crystalmorrison1616 3 роки тому

      It would mad her if he wasn't

    • @ha8236
      @ha8236 3 роки тому +8

      He brought Tamera to the party, he wasn't hiding her. So I dont think she has anything to worry about. That girl can do what she likes and try to impress whoever she wants. If Adam has eyes for only Tamera nothing else matters.

    • @MrB590
      @MrB590 3 роки тому +2

      I'm sure he is.

    • @person8520
      @person8520 2 роки тому +1

      @@ha8236 so they are speaking in general bc tam would self destruct if he cheated

    • @CC-si3cr
      @CC-si3cr 2 роки тому

      @@person8520 That would be so devastating to Tamera bc Adam is her whole world. If he was unfaithful that would suck! I honestly don't know how he would find the time.

  • @Talkswithmargarita
    @Talkswithmargarita 4 роки тому +5

    Adriene came in with the "haha i know all about you boo" this show is awesome

  • @haileymishler3018
    @haileymishler3018 4 роки тому +20

    When Jeannie said chicken head... Amanda’s eyebrows m went so high up her forehead

  • @irakaye
    @irakaye 4 роки тому +18

    THANK YOU TAMERA!!!! Amen! And Jeannie. Ain’t nobody got time to be costing me my peace. Especially in a marriage. And Amanda! It don’t matter unless it’s happening right now. Thank you, next haha

  • @rheannnelson2146
    @rheannnelson2146 4 роки тому +55

    It's ok to know, details aren't important when your partner makes u feel so secure. I wouldn't care now because I'm the one he chose in the end.

  • @MrAllysonn
    @MrAllysonn 4 роки тому +3

    Adrienne & Tamara has already told these stories. This is official I am a fan 🖤

  • @natalieportillo3189
    @natalieportillo3189 4 роки тому +131

    I think Amanda is gorgeous but I’m not a fan of her make up here

    • @annayeboah2008
      @annayeboah2008 4 роки тому +3

      I LOVE her lip! I think her concealer is a bit bright. Finding the perfect makeup takes time. I'm still learning.

    • @ha8236
      @ha8236 3 роки тому +1

      yeah it's bringing out her blue tones in her faces which looks corpse like 😕 The lipstick is beautiful but I wonder if she's not done her upper lip hair. Cause theres like a shadow around there.

    • @lipsohlips97
      @lipsohlips97 3 роки тому +1

      i think her lighting is bad cuz she looks ashy but i love the lip color on her

    • @rachelg6289
      @rachelg6289 3 роки тому +1

      It’s not the best but it’s quarantine and she doesn’t have her make up artist

    • @CC-si3cr
      @CC-si3cr 2 роки тому

      Amanda is a pretty girl, but fashion and makeup are not her thing. She looks like a tomboy who just finished playing blacktop basketball and put on some purple lipstick. I do not like this look. Amanda's foundation does make her look ashy and her hair is over processed, dry, and brittle.

  • @milena10191
    @milena10191 4 роки тому +2

    I dont wanna know either! Focus on the present !!!! Makes you and everyone happier! Agree with Tam ♥️

  • @Raellon115
    @Raellon115 4 роки тому +7

    Completely agree with Adrienne. It’s actually happened to me before.

  • @nomatterwatialwayswin
    @nomatterwatialwayswin 4 роки тому +6

    Tamara u so pretty girl u look like an angel. I love your natural hair like u rockin tf out that fr. Love u girl💖👑

  • @vanessaherrera6170
    @vanessaherrera6170 4 роки тому +21

    Amanda is hilarious 😂

  • @ViaBellaLife
    @ViaBellaLife 4 роки тому +5

    I am with Adrienne and Amanda. Honesty is important.

  • @ChrissyGotTheCoils
    @ChrissyGotTheCoils 4 роки тому +13

    I guess them as celebrities would need to know but normal people don't care if you're possibilities of running into those people is low.

    • @-.a9942
      @-.a9942 4 роки тому +2

      That’s what I though celebrities kind of date the same people or run into them often. Average folks don’t

  • @farahleong
    @farahleong 4 роки тому +37

    I’m loving Tamera’s shirt ahah

  • @cynless6489
    @cynless6489 4 роки тому +37

    Amanda is sooo right

  • @tazmaneleann4340
    @tazmaneleann4340 4 роки тому +1

    Loved this🔥. Everything that was said is valid.

  • @Venus-pd3ml
    @Venus-pd3ml 4 роки тому +57

    Why is jeannie always talking like she's a motivational speaker?

    • @angolson6108
      @angolson6108 3 роки тому

      Good question

    • @janiceeverybodytalksabout2019
      @janiceeverybodytalksabout2019 3 роки тому +1

      Probably a professional worker

    • @ruj91
      @ruj91 3 роки тому +3

      She’s an activist though and she does a lot of work with sex victims. It goes hand in hand. She was also abused as a child and wasn’t believed which brings a certain level of maturity and drives her in many ways.

    • @jescyronia8111
      @jescyronia8111 3 роки тому +1

      Because God gifted her that..And I love her so much

  • @altashiaa
    @altashiaa 4 роки тому +6

    Adrienne eye roll got me girl lol 😆

  • @pruemmetsi9329
    @pruemmetsi9329 4 роки тому +4

    Adrienne is hilarious! 'they was in love'

  • @Adriana_Rantonio
    @Adriana_Rantonio 4 роки тому +45

    I wanted to know how many people and if he’d ever contracted a disease and been tested for HIV. Ok

    • @collettethornhillrnbsn3301
      @collettethornhillrnbsn3301 4 роки тому

      Worry about your own HiV status

    • @luk3ycharm
      @luk3ycharm 3 роки тому +3

      Samantha Thornhill if you’re planning to be intimate with someone then knowing if that other person is clean is your responsibility for your own safety, dummy.

  • @paularodrigues2581
    @paularodrigues2581 4 роки тому +13

    I don’t care to know who he’s been with or slept with, that’s not important to me. But don’t have me in the same room as them 😂

  • @morganstewart3558
    @morganstewart3558 4 роки тому +1

    I love Amanda's look in this video 😍🙌🏽

  • @shavonnastucks6529
    @shavonnastucks6529 4 роки тому +4

    Ade is most definitely a Scorpio ♏️ 😂😂 I’m the same way 😩

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 4 роки тому +2

    They all look sooo beautiful! I especially love Jeannie & Tam :")

  • @zhabtema
    @zhabtema 4 роки тому +14

    I have the response: “I have lived at the bottom my whole life ain’t no further for me to drop. The ONLY person that can hurt me the worst is ME. So baby, please put the butter knife down cuz you ain’t making no deep cuts today.” (Drop the mic)

  • @TheeSocialButterflii
    @TheeSocialButterflii 4 роки тому

    That spades partner comment took me out 🤣😂 Amanda for the win?

  • @bossytweed6664
    @bossytweed6664 4 роки тому +21

    Am I the only chick who does not care? I never get insecure over other women... ever. I'm the type to be like, "yo your ex was kinda cute"😂Whatever came before me doesn't bother me as long as it was always consensual.

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 4 роки тому +4

      Bossy Tweed. Exactly! I will even bring up my ex, or his ex and have a discussion about it. I like to know how he was treated in the past and how the relationship was so that we can not have the same issues as our past. He was in the service like I was and all of his relationships didn’t work because of his constant deployments. I even be like, “I’m sorry your relationships didn’t work out, but I’m glad it brought us together today” 😂 😂

    • @anaana-uu8on
      @anaana-uu8on 4 роки тому +1

      I thought all this was in case you end up in the same room with them. Then I would like to know.

    • @lortiz2013
      @lortiz2013 4 роки тому +2

      Thought I was the only one. I feel the same way

    • @bossytweed6664
      @bossytweed6664 4 роки тому

      Anastazija Ajtic Yeah but the scenarios these women are talking about don't really apply to the average person. They're celebrities so they all date each other. Unless someone is still in high school, I don't see how often that even applies. But then again I live in a big city so running into old friends, ex partners, is kind of rare.

  • @ladyhamiltonxoxo3137
    @ladyhamiltonxoxo3137 4 роки тому +13

    No fam, it's not my business. I don't know why you want to say EVEYRTHING just for the sake of "communication"

  • @inmyownheadspace49
    @inmyownheadspace49 4 роки тому +1

    I agree with Tamera's standpoint. Why does it really matter? If it comes out it comes out. You won't really know how many people someone slept with. Just because they gave you a list doesn't mean everyone's on it.

    • @kevinc3342
      @kevinc3342 4 роки тому

      Trust and believe - a woman's body-count matters to men. You can't turn a trick into a wife.

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 4 роки тому +75

    Ade would you also like to know the mistresses?

    • @helenmayberry6010
      @helenmayberry6010 4 роки тому +6

      Such hypocrisy

    • @mariyaa111
      @mariyaa111 4 роки тому +10

      'Ammarah May Get OVER it ! It’s NONE of your business.

    • @Noname-bl5hk
      @Noname-bl5hk 4 роки тому +12

      myfav0s2012 the kids were at their wedding dude, y’all needa stop being so petty and shady

    • @KayaBea
      @KayaBea 4 роки тому +1

      and I oop

    • @anaysavelazquez8961
      @anaysavelazquez8961 4 роки тому +2

      Bruhhhhh lmao

  • @lmmg4416
    @lmmg4416 4 роки тому +11

    Omg! Tamera is so stiff🤣🤣posing ....she looks uncomfortable wen she is not talking🤣🤣

  • @sharae951
    @sharae951 4 роки тому +3

    I feel like if you know these women or men might cross paths in some way, shape, or form then you need to tell that person. It’s easier to say you wouldn’t want to know until someone steps to you with that information.

  • @ItsJadaSamira
    @ItsJadaSamira 4 роки тому +5

    I’ve been there with Amanda. I was dealing with a guy and found out my ex (who was trying to get me back) was coming to a party that we were attending. I told him about my ex coming and it was a little awkward because my ex made it clear he was trying to get me to go home with him but nothing we couldn’t work through.
    A little later, we were speaking about our college days (he went to Morehouse and I went to Spelman). We both know a girl who also attended Spelman; she and I had both transferred to the same high school our junior year as well and are pretty good friends. He didn’t know how well we knew each other though. There was a point in time where he and I weren’t speaking at all and I hadn’t spoken to the girl for like a year when he ended up having sex with this girl. He and I had gotten back in touch with one another and basically picked up where we left off. In the conversation about our school days, he informed me that they had had sex. He said he started putting two and two together when he noticed we talked to each other pretty often on fb and he wanted me to know from him in case it ever came up.

  • @Tee-fz4mf
    @Tee-fz4mf 4 роки тому +14

    I don’t need to know unless we bump into the chick or if she’s calling or texting

  • @TheSMCSS1234
    @TheSMCSS1234 4 роки тому +4

    Hahhahaa I like when Adriene speaks like this hahaha, she is speaking more like this during this pandemic.

  • @ms.beautiful
    @ms.beautiful 4 роки тому +29

    🗣🗣🗣It’s interesting that Iman gave Teyana a list of the women he slept with!!
    I wonder why none of the ladies brought up the reverse and how men would feel if their woman gave them a list of all the men that they slept with!!
    We ALL know that men’s egos are so damn fragile!!

    • @mollyshaj.3888
      @mollyshaj.3888 4 роки тому +3

      in the interview he said she gave him a list of ppl she dated too.

    • @darriuscole8544
      @darriuscole8544 4 роки тому

      Except it's not ego, it's outright judgement, pure and simple. If that number is too high he will break and check out, even if it hurts.
      I, too, wonder why they didn't bring it up. The true question is her body count, not his, unless his is really high or really low. In winning over a partner, high body counts are not a negative for men in the way they are for women. I guess they didn't want to tell their audience to lie, which is the right answer for most women. I guess they figured it was a bad look. So they avoided the discussion.

    • @-.a9942
      @-.a9942 4 роки тому +1

      Darrius Cole that’s some double standard right there.

    • @darriuscole8544
      @darriuscole8544 4 роки тому +1

      @@-.a9942 - Not really. Women cannot be cuckolded, men can. Therefore men have to take steps to defend against it. That anti-cuckolding defense is what you are calling a double standard.

  • @iluvbooty
    @iluvbooty 3 роки тому

    I love how they’re still on a stage ~

  • @jayonpluto
    @jayonpluto 4 роки тому +33

    I don't need to know your exes just your body count bc I'm staying at 0 until I'm married

  • @da-509chickk3
    @da-509chickk3 4 роки тому +31

    Adrienne is me and I’m Adrienne, I want to know everything .

  • @blessedpearls9373
    @blessedpearls9373 4 роки тому +21

    Adrienne calm down !!!!!

  • @SuperSouthchick
    @SuperSouthchick 4 роки тому +43

    jeanie: the chicken heads lawd have mercy.

    • @Stargazer3131
      @Stargazer3131 4 роки тому +13

      Exactly what i thought!, she's said it on the show before!... i'm surprised Amanda didn't check her!

    • @jokejohnson7699
      @jokejohnson7699 4 роки тому +13

      @@Stargazer3131 what are you talking about??🙄🙄Does Amanda owns the copyright of the word.

    • @dnicole4236
      @dnicole4236 4 роки тому +7

      Star Gazer why can’t she say that? lol

    • @mollyshaj.3888
      @mollyshaj.3888 4 роки тому +3

      @@Stargazer3131 chicken head is a problem?

    • @Stargazer3131
      @Stargazer3131 4 роки тому +8

      @@mollyshaj.3888 Yes it is a problem!😬🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @marinacosta3138
    @marinacosta3138 4 роки тому +2

    I love Tamera's shirt 😂😂

  • @Darlyon3
    @Darlyon3 4 роки тому +17

    I just want Tamara's shirt!

  • @Kayleec20
    @Kayleec20 4 роки тому

    Adrienne's eye roll 😂

  • @heavenjs8388
    @heavenjs8388 4 роки тому

    I agree with Adrienne here 100%.

  • @wbrendasheila
    @wbrendasheila 4 роки тому

    Your spouse/significant other should definitely tell you. But if the person he'd been with brings it up to you then they just trying to start some mess. If it's someone in your inner circle, excommunicate them from the circle coz they ain't your friend

  • @MyAssefa
    @MyAssefa 4 роки тому +26

    Am I missing something? Why should I have to know?? I ain’t Telling him nothing either 🤷‍♀️

    • @shivairas6717
      @shivairas6717 4 роки тому +3

      MyAssefa it’s ok wanting to know someone’s bodycount. I don’t wanna catch a disease, if he he didn’t get himself tested

    • @mollyshaj.3888
      @mollyshaj.3888 4 роки тому +11

      In their industry where you're going to events with the same people i think it's necessary. You never want to be at an event where a girl giving you negative energy and you don't know why all the while the reason is standing right next to you.

    • @bossytweed6664
      @bossytweed6664 4 роки тому +8

      shivaira s Bodycount doesn't disclose diseases🙄 medical records do. Needing to know bodycount is an insecurity.

    • @bossytweed6664
      @bossytweed6664 4 роки тому

      Mollysha J. Exactly, this conversation is dumb for them to discuss because the hosts' experiences are never going to be that of the average person. I live in LA, a huge city so its rare that I'd run into exes and such.

  • @tierraalexander4726
    @tierraalexander4726 3 роки тому +2

    I'm all for Amanda Seals hair 👏🏾✊🏿

  • @loveystar78cloud46
    @loveystar78cloud46 4 роки тому +8

    Don't approach me with events of the past between you and my current man, because idgaf! Ghosts of relationships past don't faze me, and just like real ghosts, they're haunting their ex and his current chick because they have unresolved issues and can't move on. And that's their problem, NOT MINE!

  • @themizzzzle
    @themizzzzle 4 роки тому

    Yaaaaaaaaas ade The last sentence was so true xxxxxxx

  • @shanicewebb1727
    @shanicewebb1727 4 роки тому +59

    Or we call other women Chicken Heads now? OK

    • @sheeshneesh
      @sheeshneesh 4 роки тому +8

      And “thots” wtf 🙄

  • @jackyreyes4850
    @jackyreyes4850 4 роки тому

    I honestly wouldn’t want to know unless it is something that is happening or has happened from the moment we have been together and moving forward. The past is in the past and it won’t affect my present with someone

  • @sushmitamukherjee4025
    @sushmitamukherjee4025 4 роки тому +8

    Tamera looks amazing

  • @decoratewithtee9203
    @decoratewithtee9203 4 роки тому +1

    Lol Amanda kills me 💕💕

  • @marissarodriguez3163
    @marissarodriguez3163 4 роки тому +2

    Adrienne looks so gooood 😍 I need her secrets

  • @ericanunez6387
    @ericanunez6387 4 роки тому +5

    Came straight here to hear Adrienne lie about her sex life lol

  • @SuperSouthchick
    @SuperSouthchick 4 роки тому +47

    Amanda looks beautiful i cannot wait till my afro reaches that height.

    • @k.lawrence894
      @k.lawrence894 4 роки тому +2

      Caramel Lisha love her makeup 😍

    • @helenmayberry6010
      @helenmayberry6010 4 роки тому +3

      @@bsbgirl85
      She has considering she's at her mom's house in Florida..the house she paid off last year as a birthday gift to her mom

  • @victorynazombe3437
    @victorynazombe3437 4 роки тому +1

    Love the afros💖

  • @CookingwithbabydDannyB
    @CookingwithbabydDannyB 4 роки тому +8

    Tamera contradicts herself on this one, she said in the past she is nozy and wants to know 🤓🤓🤓

    • @baeraq
      @baeraq 4 роки тому +7

      maybe her opinion has changed since they last talked about this

    • @charlotte6717
      @charlotte6717 4 роки тому +4

      Girl you said it yourself “IN THE PAST”. That was then this is now and she’s speaking about where she is NOW

  • @thefantexon4297
    @thefantexon4297 4 роки тому +5

    Love Tamera’s shirt. Where did she get if from? Would love to know.

    • @sabrina.natalie
      @sabrina.natalie 4 роки тому

      I’m not sure if she got it from here, but you can find really cute ones on Etsy in different colors and in different fonts, etc. (If you’re not familiar with what Etsy is, it’s a website where people make stuff from home. Cups, t-shirts, keychains, etc.)
      Here’s the link: www.etsy.com/search?q=go%20ask%20your%20dad&ref=auto-1&as_prefix=go%20ask%20y
      I hope that helps! 🌸✨

  • @miameyer4314
    @miameyer4314 3 роки тому

    Yeah, he told me who he had been with, but it didn’t stop these women for thinking that relationship is binding and you should make room for the old bold to exist!

  • @margiecos9296
    @margiecos9296 4 роки тому

    I'm with Jeannie. IF. IF. we are going to a place where EACH OF US ARE AWARE that an ex is going to be there then out of respect and courtesy for each other then yes inform so in case any WEIRD ACTION is taken. But me Personally the past is the past and I Don't want to know

  • @taatiiis
    @taatiiis 4 роки тому

    Com'on!! As a woman we want to KNOW IT ALL. Wether is not our business or it is our business NOW. Get to know his friend and be kind to his friends they will spit it all LOL, is our job to confirm wether it worth the trip or not.

  • @lindaa1238
    @lindaa1238 4 роки тому +1

    Hell no I don’t want to know and it’s before my time. Adrienne is too beautiful to be that insecure.

  • @mao1055
    @mao1055 4 роки тому +3

    I'm single so my opinion may change when I get into a relationship but I would like to know about your serious relationships like if you were heading towards engagement/marriage because that does shape your views on things going forward and of course if you have kids. But if you just had sex, then I don't need to know just for the sake of knowing if you are clean and I am not going to be around the person.

  • @Facesofthepeople
    @Facesofthepeople 4 роки тому +45

    Jeanie... Chill with the “chicken heads” comment. FOR REAL. Stay in your lane girl. Stay in your LANE!

    • @OneShotGameShow
      @OneShotGameShow 4 роки тому +1

      maybe she was referring to like video vixens or something . Idk

    • @bmarie5509
      @bmarie5509 4 роки тому +9

      I know you seen Amanda’s face 😂 but for real, I side eye her for saying that like who you taking about

    • @haryel5058
      @haryel5058 4 роки тому +10

      So true . And she is the one sayiiiiing women should watch how we are talking to each other lmao hypocrite

    • @ToriJanet
      @ToriJanet 4 роки тому +15

      Jeezy can't even remember the whole list, so she can't get it. But she needs to be inquiring about the girl he was DM'ing...

    • @Facesofthepeople
      @Facesofthepeople 4 роки тому +2

      Tori Janet that part 👆🏾hahaa!!!!

  • @ShareBearChelle
    @ShareBearChelle 4 роки тому +14

    Tamera tell this story every time. Lol

    • @Luna-ch9us
      @Luna-ch9us 4 роки тому +3

      really lol. I haven’t heard it

  • @jennifercamille16
    @jennifercamille16 4 роки тому

    If I'm never gonna meet the girl, I don't need to know much about who a guy has dated in the past if he has been tested recently for STDs. If I could meet her, I need to know a little more about her. I would (and have) provided the guys I've dated the same information. I was in the awkward situation of dating a guy whose friend I had dated in the past, like Amanda mentioned she was. I was honest w him about it from the beginning, so he never had a problem w it.

  • @nandinisingh60
    @nandinisingh60 4 роки тому

    This is why I love Teyana! ❤️🖤🤎

  • @avafreeman336
    @avafreeman336 4 роки тому +3

    Someone up there knows they have lied about theirs, truth be told, the industry has spoken🤥👹

  • @rapispac468
    @rapispac468 4 роки тому

    Bro her shirt says ''go ask your dad'' its like all the ladies are talkin and by the momment you see that pink shirt like its telling you to go ask your father what of the ladies said like that had me dyin i can just imagine😂😂😂😂

  • @lavuntecolquitt
    @lavuntecolquitt 3 роки тому +2

    And Tam is freaking beautiful!

  • @jeannierosa1721
    @jeannierosa1721 4 роки тому

    I'm wit tam 100%
    I dont care ,its the passed n i rather not know. Knowing myself I'll b stuck thinking bout the passed n not future.

  • @kathycollins4350
    @kathycollins4350 4 роки тому +1

    I was sad to hear Amanda is leaving she was an addition to the show with how open and how smart she is and up to date on the current happenings in the world I think since the real is popular because of the 4 woman that made it that way they should get to choose if their needs to be a 5th person on it.. will keep watchin either way..

  • @natyjimenez2349
    @natyjimenez2349 4 роки тому +3

    Tamera where can I buy your shirt I need that in my life

  • @kittywuvscissors3504
    @kittywuvscissors3504 4 роки тому +1

    Exactly I agree with Amanda. Like if we together and they tell me that ima be like I guess you ready to get yo ass beat bc that’s so disrespectful. Like why do you feel the need to tell me that. That’s so childish

  • @chazmitchell8247
    @chazmitchell8247 4 роки тому

    “...as a Spades Partner..” I HOWLED