Highly Sensitive People in Relationships
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Im highly sensitive. When my boyfriend speaks to me in a certain tone I get upset. Or even the way he words things. I perceive it as rude even though he doesnt mean to come off that way. I feel bad because i dont want him to feel like he has to walk on egg shells around me. I knew this when my dad would speak to me in a rude tone, I would cry. So when my boyfriend speaks to me in a rude tone or says something snappy it puts me in a sad mood.
That's me Kay Nicole I do behave like u
@@thefail2284 what are you so angry about?
@@niceic.co.uk. cause she's a special snowflake
I can totally relate to this. It is really hurting my marriage a lot when we communicate and he is so rough. He knows he can be abrasive though. He is pretty emotionally cut off. And that bothers me. I am currently looking for helpful tips.
one of my gf was like that, and boy it drained me constantly reassuring her. to the point i couldnt take it any more. i never yelled, argued etc with her. but still she would get too emotional...
Imagine being a HSP and having a partner who makes an effort to understand you more, watches these kinds of videos just so he/she could love you the right way...
Just imagine.
Frankly, I still don't think they would get it or understand unless they were also HSP. But yes, nice if they try. I don't expect anyone to understand anymore.
I am watching this as some one getting to know some one who is hsp.
It REALLY makes it tough at work too when literally every single person around you are the opposite of hsp. They are all so self centered and unaware of other's feelings. Almost makes work impossible.
I feel you there. My job is the worst. I feel like an alien around all these power and money hungry people. I need A LOT of alone time to get back inside of myself and recharge and clear my energy field.
Yes, 100%.
That moment when I realise I’m emotionally sensitive and I’ve never had a man and figuring out it’s because I’m a HSP 💀
Very true! I see many people around me get into relationships, dating as if it is not a difficult task for them. Me, on the other hand, scrutinize so much, I crave for the same wavelength on terms of emotional attachment from the person whom I want to date/ am dating. It's really hard ;-;-;
there are plenty of hsp men out there. you just have to express yourself in that free crazy way you feel, and if it is not well accepted you should say thank you for not faking acceptance and move on. trust me it is for the best!! looking for understanding and acceptance where there can be none, will harm you a lot more. a whole lot more!
Same here!!!
As a girl who's somewhat recently discovered to be a HSP, I thoroughly agree with what she's saying.
Solely because of the love and encouragment my partner has consistently given me through the last, I've been able to accept my strengths and traits/qualities that had brought me to his attention when we had first met. And coupled with the previous, I have him to thank for working with me and never hesitating to remain by my side through the countless (and emotionally overwhelming) situations I've put him through during the past five and a half years. No one, not even my own family; has remained by my side the way he has.
My major problem has been I connect energetically too intensely to the other person...I want them to be happy, I want to take their pain away, to nurture them. It is a problem because more often than not I do not have that back from them and I would like to or they just take me for granted. I never met a person who could deal with that at the same level. I remember my husband (deceased now) would come to me for everything, asking for my advice, my help, my affection and even for cuddles but very rarely he would reciprocate that, I had to ask for it and even then it wasn’t the same...I felt alone sometimes.
Same problem I have in relationships
I know what you mean. The best I have found so far is to learn to be alone but not feel lonely. Sometimes I have even learned to like it. I have learned to put a shield up to protect my energy but when it's people I trust then I let them in once they show me I can. I can still get burned. It's tough feeling deeply but it's also a gift because we can experience and perceive things and do healing energy work other's can't.
Ive been told I’m an empath and highly sensitive. This all makes sense.
Just A Tip very great gifts once one learns to ground themselves.
Most people are nothing more than containment vessels for the production of human excrement with an ego attached. Shalom
I'm very sensitive and I refuse to go into another relationship. There's always a dominant one and I'm not that! I prefer my own company!
I've learned to stop myself from allowing myself to stay hurt over smaller things. Things are rarely personal, even if my first instinct is to take them personally so I can ease peoples negative emotions. That's helped alot. So has releasing attachments, journaling, affirmations and yoga.
Holy moly I’m so glad that I’m not the only one who literally experiences sensing people’s thoughts (uncontrollably)
It's hard to believe both agree to meditate together each day...I grew up being closed off in relationships....gives me a spark of hope, I think
These HSP videos are so helpful for me. I'm just learning about this term HSP and am so relieved that (1) I'm not alone and (2) there's ppl like you to explain and help. I haven't been in a relationship in so many years because of this. It seems like I'm just a sponge for all the pessimists around me. My emotional battery is almost always drained. I need to learn how to identify these energy vampires sooner and avoid them but I get blinded by my need to help.
⚡️And if you’re both highly sensitive ?!!! I love the non judgemental aspect. Meditating together suddenly seems like an option especially after my dream yesterday!
Spotted Dog yes meditation and other activities which increase your well being :)
I feel sooo much
I feel nauseous anytime I feel something so strongly
Which is 90% of the time!
I’m just disgusted with myself
Then being a highly sensitive, empathic romantic???
Disgusting
I’m so freaking mad at myself
My best feeling is ✨empty✨
It’s just so fulfilling and comfortable
I do commend you for being able to feel something about yourself since it means you have self awareness and you are alive. the next step is crucial and that is - get to know yourself better in terms of what personality type are you? what do you enjoy doing? what irritates you(basically your strengths and weaknesses)? Then learn on to benefit from your strenghs and how handle your weaknesses.
I’m so glad I found this, after being told I’m too emotional time after time and every time I like someone I know I’m going to scare them away with my emotions and intensity and I just don’t know how to deal
I think I’m in a relationship with my mirror. My partner and I are both sensitive. There are times where I feel we are super connected, but I can be very insensitive and so can he. Trying to find the balance.
I'm really very very sensitive person. It hard to control myself.my heart always feel uneasy when people like to judge me this and that.
Example:- someone talk about me i feel uncomfortable and angry. My heart pumping so quick when someone do like tht to me. It so hard to ignore it. Feel wanna cry also.
I become sensitive person since 2011. Almost everyday i having bad luck, unhappy and sad. Actually right now i having heartbroken.
Btw sis love ur video and keep it up.
I hear you and I absolutely understand!!! It can be tough but there are some great tool to assist you in feeling good every day. Do you have my workbook? This would help you a lot xx
Candace van Dell nope i don't have ur workbook. This is first time i saw ur video. Okey thnk u so much ❤❤
Cute Mir why i am aspie was curious about the highly sensitive one because rationality intellectual perseverance i have sense loyalty taste smell touch hearing sight are on Hiarchical structure learning is all doe very different then NARCISSTS phychopaths sociopaths boardelines histronics and ocpd avoidant dependent and Schizotypal schizoid paranoid then personality multiple personality . healthy empathes high sensitive。being imperfect aspie often that neurotypicals will gradually goe out existence autism down syndrome and schizophrenic ocd unibipolar bipolar 1 bipolar 2 will become the norm as time goes on(๑-﹏-๑)(╥╯θ╰╥)
me too, people don't respect my boundaries and want to dump all of their stuff on me when i might not be in a place to do so at the time. I have people I don't know asking me to heal them and get angry when i say I don't know how. I go out of my way to help friends and they take advantage of my kindness: I take in strays and feed them, sharing everything I have with them and as I am doing something like cooking them a meal they are stealing from me. This happens all the time, I've got a use me sign on my forehead. The only way to avoid this is to isolate, but they still come to find me, so I need my power back. I want to help people but I can't even help myself and I don't find relationships with a balance. I think I'm negative because i am carrying all the baggage of everyone I know and I don't know how to unload it so its all so heavy and I miss being lighter.
harun life I wish outside of virtual world I could find good people that were empaths but since I am an introvert I am naturally drawn towards extroverts and most those are narcissists. But I am absolutely appreciative of the kindness of others I have met online they are my sanity and it helps to vent to someone so it doesn't overwhelm that's my only release
Hi Candace, many people take my high sensitivity for weakness! I’m very misunderstood and I accept that, I usually know what people are feeling with out telling me and most people don’t like that from me! Just my experience!
Nobody cares. There's no use for knowing what are people are feeling except in very narrow contexts.
You're hormonally more like a female which is why you are the way you are. You may not be full on gay or even a bisexual, but emotionally you are wired much more femininely and there may be no way to change that except to work around it the best way that you can.
Good luck.
@@VwapTrader Ignorant response. The guy is clearly an INFJ
@@VwapTrader😂😂😂😂
@@VwapTraderhe emotionally gay
Thanks for the video. I am so happy that people are talking about this now. I don't feel so alone and scared of people anymore. This hermit is coming out!
Both my husband and I are highly sensitive people, have you made a video about 2 highly sensitive people in a relationship?
Jacob Parker whats rhe relationship like?
Have a look at Victor oddo channel he got a video about that
@@noneofyourbuizness title please?
@@notavailable708 go to his channel, on playlist you have the relationship section and then its called "what an empath need in a relationship"
Hi Candace, can you please make a video on understanding highly sensitive people for non-sensitives. I am extremely sensitive but I have trouble explaining this to my family, I feel as if they don't understand me.
Yes I will definitely make that video soon!!! Xo
Hi kitty, your not alone, I’m extremely sensitive to and it’s not fun! It’s very emotionally draining and can get overwhelming at least for me! Ty so much for listening, regards, Bob
I'm a highly sensitive male. I swear so many times I feel people energy and all kinds of thoughts come into me. and I never tell them. But after so long sooner are later those thoughts I had come to light and they start showing me the truth. And it also become bad to me for the most part. But true. Like there true intentions. And every time that happen it always become true. Always become true none of them became false. Just blow my mind at times cause I don't be believeing in my self but my self prove it to me that it's true what I feel.
I want a session with you, I'm in love with a highly sensitive man, and it's not been easy, but he has awaken me and I love him on such a deeper soul level, I can't explain it... it's just something I've never experienced...
misstiffglenn I get it! Go to www.candacevandell.com to book session. Xo
I’m beginning to realize I’m a HSP and have a history of dating in which I believe this became an issue.
Could you describe how you’ve come to the conclusion your husband is HSP and what you did to develop acceptance?
You are correct in the main things you describe, but it's so easy to read others; to know the meaning behind their words, because actions and expressions say it all.
Just one word or idea will stay in their mind and something- just one true word is required to change how they feel. You think everyone is the same, but they're not and life is confusing. To find your true love makes it all become clear. You'll recognise her through her look; you'll feel everything you ever wanted by just watching her and even may never have the chance to be with her, but she'll notice you and may not see all the things that you have in common, because you only can feel the things which matter and just can't put them into words.
She'll make you become the person you always needed to be and you'll love her forever. Luck will create instances where she notices you and even if she doesn't act, she will wonder over the times when nobody loved her so much and although she may forget you in the future, there will be times when she just wishes she was beside that person who never missed a chance to look at her.
He may have had the looks to have attracted her and it was she who initially did that, but she had more in common with others- personality wise - and none could ever understand her or give her the love she would forever keep searching for.
Yes, she cared; she is still thinking, but the love doesn't come from what I perceive as being love; it comes automatically from inside and I don't understand, but to love everything about her seems impossible, but it's not and it has been 4 months of becoming a better person.
I know that I could do so much if we were together, but something inside just is so stubborn and won't !earn the simple things or even care; not until you see them in her first.
I came accross here just to fully understand someone.thank u for this ❤
He finally accepted the split. So no more pressure. And the love is stronger
I'm an HSP, not an empath. They are not the same. I also have a trigger of raised voices, which comes from my childhood. It is rude but some people are not emotionally mature enough to control their tone. I am trying to not take it personally however it is disrespectful when someone raises their voice. I do not agree with many of the statements made in this video. Not all HSPs are emotional seesaws. Some of us have learned how to manage our emotions. I do agree that we can intuit what another person is feeling before they even realize it and then react to it. The key is to focus more on our own emotions and boundaries and practicing the "I feel..." statements.
Thank you for this video Candace! I'm a highly sensitive person and I'm in the early stages of a relationship with another highly, highly sensitive person...it is soooo difficult! It's exhausting. But yeah, like you said, what I'm getting from this relationship is the clear need to be really centered on myself and clear about my own boundaries, just so I can keep track of what's coming from me vs. what's coming from her. T_T
Yep, I absolutely understand that! When there are two HSP's it can get confusing but once both of your boundaries are secured and practiced, there is potential for great love 💜
I was in a relationship with a HSP for 6 years and I’m one too. The reactions off each other created so many layers of hurt. In the end we decided to part ways, we just had to let go, we did it in a respectful way. We spent a couple of years finding ourselves and ‘randomly’ the universe put us back in touch 😊. We’ve been together again for 3 years and it’s beautiful, we still sometimes react off eachothers emotions and tones, but each time it unpeels another layer of self, to look at and observe and understand. Setting your own boundaries and owning responsibility to your own emotions and balance is massive. Communication is key and we may not understand straight away but we begin to and I’m in awe what the relationship means to us and ourselves as individuals ❤
I think understanding the laws of the universe and laws of mirroring/reflection helps to see your own point of vibration and what you’re attracting into your life
Hi Candace, your amazing and very helpful ty, I’m very tired of being extremely sensitive but it’s who I am, you always make me realize I’m just highly sensitive and it’s ok, ty Candace, Bob
Candace :) If you would know that YOU are FIRING and PINGING arrows of light for alignment around the globe, point by point, instructing the Dimension. If you would know that YOU ARE A STAR! If you would know of your ENERGY! YOU ARE LIGHT x x
My husband is a highly sensitive person, I just want to understand how I can be supportive and I just want him to know I get him. I think from listening to this I may also be a highly sensitive person. I just want to know how I can best support him. It sometimes feels like it's all about him and how he feels and what I feel doesn't matter or just not heard. It's hurting so much. I just need to understand him more.
As an HSP I've sensed that you've prepared this script and read from it :) and it's cute! It means you care and don't want to miss any details or information! :)
You're so beautiful Candace! Inside and out ❤️🙏.
Thank you for sharing yet another wonderful and insightful video! I'd love for you to do a video on relationships with highly ego-based people. Marriage relationships and friendships with these people can be so hard when you feel like you are on a completely different path from them. Would LOVE your wisdom and thoughts on this!! :)
Hello Candace.
Thank you for your videos. I am a highly sensitive person. I also have an INFJ personality type if you are familiar with MBTI testing. I am also left handed. Lol Anyway, seems to be a few things most people don't have.
I watched your video regarding the emotional pain body. Mind blowing. I knew what it was because I feel it, but to hear you put it into words is lovely. I know the Zen feeling you are speaking of and I've changed things in my life to assist, such as positions at an unhealthy (for me) workplace, physical location (I moved to the beach 9 years ago) and relationships of course. Too many people before I moved to a small town made me exhausted and sometimes anxious.
Lastly, I say this in a absolutely positive platonic way. You are very attractive and comforting to listen to. With that being said, you play with your hair alot in this video and honestly, it was distracting. Lol
I am reiterating I am not "hating in any way". I don't know if anyone else noticed this. I scrolled through the comments and didn't see anyone else mention it. I notice everything. 😐
Now, I'm going to subscribe and watch another video. 😊
Thanks
Andi
I’m also a HSP, INFJ and left handed :)
I am glad to hear that you are married. There is a special connection and deeper relational experience in the covenant of marriage. Thank you for your service.
Your so helpful!! 😀 not only helping me learn more about being a positive Indigo but reaffirming the things I know but tend to doubt. Thank you so much Candace, take care and keep it up! 😀👍🏾❤️
Cory Hunter so good!! Thank you for letting me know! 💜
I realized I am pretty sensitive and intense maybe more than others.
I admit I have a sensitive attitude and I try to change because of bad behaviour sorry for my bf thank you for always understanding me you know who you are!
Candace, thank you so much for making this it resonates so deeply for me!! Also your scarf is really pretty and you make me feel calm and empowered! I'm so happy I found your channel
“Why you so sensitive?”
“Ahh... poor baby.”
🙄
Jdabomb93 i get that so much
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Being HSP and in a relationship is difficult as hell. I want someone who doesn't judge me and tries to understand me, without saying things like "ugh why so sensitive". In the relationship with my ex boyfriend I would have to fight for a good conversation because he didnt take me serious. He told me things like youre a pussy, dont be so silly, i will listen if youre not that emotional, even when everything in my head was terror. I was drained and had an overdrive almost everyday.. I am really scared to open up now. I am hsp and emotional intense. I want someone who sees it as a gift
20 minutes of meditation together before waking up? My kids would never allow for that 🤣😭
Hi Candace, I just love you ! I have only seen 3 of your videos so far, but you have already helped me gain further perspective on being an HSP / Empath .. I have been single the last 3 years , and have enjoyed / am grateful for my Feel/ Deal /Heal time. I know The Universe is prepping me for another chance to take what I have learned / am learning to experience a healthier and more self aware relation with another. I feel that your videos will be a good support for my healing and awareness... Much Love and Blessings to you.. You are a Bright Light.. Keep Shining
im sensitive person especially in relationship matter. im more serious most of the time. example. we just going to the store, i put make up on it and dress up nice, then suddenly my bf say my god why you need to put make up on and why u need to dressp up for, we just going to the store. i got dissappoment, instead his going to say u look beautiful your good enough. i feel judgemental in relationship. i keep my self pretty for him. but i got ignore it always. do i need to be sensitive like that?.
I think you should explain that you are trying to look nice for him and see how he responds. If he doesn't appreciate it or thinks it's unnecessary then there's no need for it. But if you're doing it because it makes you feel good about yourself then keep doing it. Just try to be plan ahead if you'll need additional time to get ready. You should also let him know how his words affect you and both of you should try to find a happy medium together. For example, maybe you can save the nice outfits and glam makeup for dates or when you're going to be out of the house for a long time. If you're just going to the store or you won't be gone for long then you can still look nice in a casual way with simple makeup like a little mascara.
Excuse what im about to say sweetheart but FUCK HIM!!! Its about what makes you feel good and your happiness. Stop looking good for him. Do it for you . If he bitches and whines, then hes insecure and trying to make you feel the same subconciously and he knows your sensitive.Men or little boys like to manipulate HSPs on the down low. Dress how you want because YOU LIVE FOR YOU, NOT HIM. As long as you are together then he should shut the fuck up and smile and tell you that u look amazing and i love who you are. PERIOD. !!!!!! Take my advice darling. I been there . I feel like whats wrong, should i put a dress on him and lipstick to make him feel INCLUDED. Im sorry but guys piss me off with that. Let me be who i am and love me , ADMIRE ME BITCH!!!. with and without being dressed up. If he wants to leave or say other unnerving stuff, those are all tactics to dominate you. DO NOT PERMIT THAT. Your tooo good for that and you deserve to be put on a pedestal !!!! Your the queen not him. Fix his face up too before yall go to the store. LMBO!!!!!!
Karmic relationships. There's something you need to learn from your relationship before you can find your Twin flame.
Hi Diane, we have this in common, it makes me feel unappreciated so I’m alone all the time! Ty, Bob
Bitches like you are the reason people are gay...
I think u r great! I was really tired to be with someone who is sensitive. They just refused to provide a healthy relationship.. they avoid, they peek and they were blushing. They are too easy to get hurt
Need more tips for those of us in RELATIONSHIPS with highly sensitive people!
dj freeman I'm going to create a course around it soon!!!
Candace van Dell please let me know!
I'm trying so hard to be conscientious of my GFs sensitivity, but it seems like I'm constantly hurting her feelings, even when I'm trying to be helpful or nice.
We need to learn how to establish healthy boundaries. why doesn't anyone on youtube talk about this?
Yup.
sowas existiert nicht in meinem Leben. Oder es ist eine kurz Aktion einmal im Jahr im Ausland...... die mich dann überfordert :/
wieso überfordert es andere nicht? My guess weil sie wie Alexia total an Typen gebondet sind und das nicht an sich heranlassen, und sofort wieder vergessen
aber ich werde Alt langsam....... und mein NArzissmus wird nicht besser.... und ich werde immer unattraktiver...... weil kompliziert und "Ansprüche" und man mag sich nicht mehr ändern und so weiter
bzw die wollen sich nicht an einen anpassen und verlangen dass man sich wegwirft seine Seele wegschmeisst und in ihre Kreise berläuft.....
Leider habe ich selber keine mehr
Ich wurde zu einem auf dem oOzean treibendem etwas ohne Halt hin und hergeschubst durch die Wellen die da draußen agieren
I love this sooo.much. I needed to something to share with my boyfriend. Hearing it from an outside source will definitely help! Thank you for doing this!!!
Im highly sensitive. I break up with gf 10 days ago. It was so difficult! She got borderline. 😢
Unfortunately my boyfriend is so sensitive to where he diesbt socialize outside of me and his own family. And yes I mean hes vague with my family and we've been dating for almost 2 years. I want him to pursue a relationship with my dad who is the most important Male figure in my life but hes almost too afraid to even initiate it. If I bring him to a party hes very quite, and he doesn't like that I'll get lost in conversation with people because it makes him feel excluded. I'm a very abrupt, and forward and speak my mind and hes toned down, quite and has high anxiety. Even with family gatherings I don't see him bonding and having a good time, I feel like hes not having fun when I'm happy to be around more people I love and with him showing a lack of connection really hurts me. Hell get mad about stuff I don't realize I do, jokes I say hell get offended and go on about it for days when to me, it's no big deal and when I think its over with it's being brought up again. It's to the point where I've lost my sex drive, like I'll get worked up from my own thoughts, but I've realized if he tries to pursue I push him away. He even told me I treat him more like a friend. I mean it's cool that there are ways to make them feel better but what about the other person. feeling like what you do to try to accommodate them isn't good enough and a good time turns into day care. It ruins a good time very quickly. I feel like theres only so much difference of personality people can handle. I'm soooooo use to having males in my life that are wild and rambunctious and loud and funny, and that confidence makes we want to find someone like that since I was raised by a man that's loud, funny and so and so. So sure I'm sure you can eventually work it out but when the person isn't willing to try. what hope is there?
i absolutely dont understand what youre talking about. choose whether you want a sensitive or a monkey. trust me, you wont find both.
id suppose you were raised a princess and i get this feeling you want him not just to talk to your dad but to become more like him.
also as a highly sensitive mostly past therapy, i think he needs it. imagine how HE feels being excluded! this stuff may build up over the years. its natural to try and bond. maybe he really doesnt like your family idk. how about when YOU meet HIS?!
I think understanding empaths and indigos is the solution to psychology and neuroscience
I am getting increasingly highly sensitive to Candace‘s beauty 🤣
Smh. What a beta simp.
Vwap Trader2019 I think you meant beta wimp.
What an insightful video !! So glad I found it ❤️🙏🏼 thank you x
Sensitive people have a higher likelihood of having low self-esteem, rooted in childhood neglect or trauma. Look to psychology to help, not "planet stuff."
BINGO!!! You nailed it Candace. My girlfriend and I are in this type of relationship.
Its been a nightmare and Its hard when I needed him to step up
i have hs 2 ... and i meditate and it realy helps... butt like school you have 2 lurn it :-)
Oh my God, this video just resonated so much with me that I couldn't stop shaking my head as sight of affirmation while I was watching the entire thing. Thank you so much.
I've never resonated with anything quite like this before. Everything just magically made sense. Thank you, ya beauty. Going to go and watch all of your other content. Love a good youtube channel binge, and genuinely valuable information is just a lovely bonus! Much appreciated
I am HSP by birth i guess. I'm 24 now and for about a year I have noticed irritation in my behavior. A little loud noise and strong smell bother me a lot. I startle on sudden happenings and i feel alone :(
The best lover, husband or wife for an HSP is their own self! HSPs are often (there are always exceptions though) narcissistic perfectionists with unrealistic high standards ("high" is a relative concept here) that only they themselves can reach. It's 21st century no one really needs to get married or involved in a romantic relationship for emotional or financial reasons.
Jason Kluge Wrong. Narcissism is the opposite of HSP. The HSP cares too much about everyone, not just themselves. A true narcissist has no such concerns. Learn to know the difference.
⚡️Jason Kluge there is no substitute and nothing better than the connection between two highly sensitive people. I will wait for this connection and meditate to keep that faith now that I understand the need.
mmmm....Jason being bitter is bad for you..it can turn you into a narcissist..no goood dude.
I hate overthinking :
I am sensitive , and bad in relationship , I am dressed up , looked ugly , not to make him happy , he is very compromised person , but he is of little bit late , than I refuse to go out , what to do
So l just came out of a relationship where l was abused emotional now l am struggling to move on and l just found out that l'm an HSP life hasn't been easy for me coz no one understood me including my own family
Sending love and positive vibes to you and I hope you get feel them extremely strong pouring upon you 🌺💋🥰🦋🌹🌸🌈🌟⭐️🍎🍭🥂🧁
@@muchlove9781 Thank you very much
Your ring is absolutely stunning! 💎💎
I Love your lightwork Candace! 💙💜 Thank you!! Light and blessings! 🙏🌞/Petra
Thank You!
I have a friend HS but I'm becoming controlled by her emotions. I resent that I keep stepping on land mines and can't be honest without being extremely aware of every word and being accused of judging or criticizing when it is her wounded child triggered. She's 47 and she hasn't changed since we were 13. I'm always wrong or apologizing for things I am not guilty of. It feels like abuse.
Realise they can't help it
If you aren't willing to understand them any longer, it's best to slowly get away but not to critise them because that's their personality
I feel ur pain
Im very grateful and positive when i see you Candase unconditional love to u :)
You are highly awesome!! Thanks for your efforts in making these videos.
Candace your gorgeous, converse well, and you understand people who are self aware such as myself; you've most definitely got it going on. I'm looking for my Candace lol.
That explains alot and why my spouse does that alot thanks for the tip
This video presented itself to me as such the perfect time. Thank you for sharing!
You describe a woman I am dating and I'm honestly at the end of my rope. Like I genuinely can't deal with it any more. I guess it's because I've been made to feel like a prick and there is a lot of finger pointing. I'm highly empathic which has been honed from rescuing dogs for the past two decades where feeling is more important than language in making a connection. So unfortunately feeling like a monster around a highly sensitive person is not do able.
Most HSPs find even the idea of Relationships difficult.
That's not to say they are antisocial, but withdrawing and ambivalent.
They want closeness but they are also wary of it.
Some have been abused or neglected.
When an HSP says " It's not You, It's Me!"
Believe them...
I’m not sure if my husband is highly sensitive or bi-polar. It’s been 16 years of walking on eggshells, not knowing if what I say would offend him, or if he would laugh, it’s a LOT to deal with. He’s definitely not an easy-going person and thinks I’m a narcissist for not understanding why he gets upset at the slightest things. I don’t get it.
I am a highly sensitive person...it's hurt me soo much...I loss many things bcoz of tiz sensitiveness... what can I do...I want some counseling... bcoz my mind is upset in all time....when I hear somebody don't like me...I hurted soo much...I want to live hpy...and I want calm hpy mind...
Sana Susan me too 😓
Love your vids ! I was wondering, I just don't get along very well with aggressive or non sensitive people, I just want to be in a relationship with a hsp like me and not to mention I'm 10 times more attracted to those types of people! Is this good?
it feels like im just giving attention and not getting any or maybe I'm just in a bad one
The amount of times I been known for feisty n jeez calm down😂😂
I love this!!!
But what if both people are HSP in the relationship?? Does that make for a good marriage or does it not
I want a relationship, but I'm in such an emotional mess due to my dysfunctional childhood. If a girl coughs, I'm binge eating. hahahaha.
Healing is possible ❤️
smh. beta simp. Fix your hormones through diet and consistent weight lifting. Good luck
Love and light to you Candace
Thank you 🙏
I would love to find some advice on what type of women to date as an HSP... most of the literature and videos out there always focus on how to date us HSP's ... are we being left out of this ?
HOW did I just now find your channel?!
I am sick of being trained to be localized and non moving and pinned down, and not having had any Life within the last 10 years.... because they sabotaged me and killed everything I was doing!
They had Life and destroyed mine all along
the only reason this working because they emotionally socially starveme to death........
They literally starved me dead over the years such that I wouldn't be able to do anything
and believe anything and everythingthey say to me
And I don't get anywhere...... I just am pinned here to wait, with destroyed eyes, and kaputt mind, and non sleep patterns and shit and nervous bursts and spams, and having to go on runs and do exercises to just keep alive and not crash for years on end..........
And they have nothing ... "NOTHING"!!!!!! Is a complete mistreatment and misseparation of things on people.......
Complete assholery... and all are responsible to put me in this undoable situation that was bound to make me sick for years. I was fright with wanteing to leave.... I felt this would overwhelm me and destry me.....
even without me having done any wrong in the first place it was just wrong
WAUW true words Thanks for sharing.
What if both of you are highly sensitive?? This is something me and my BF have been struggling with because we have both been unhappy in our lives with work etc. not necessarily our relationship but it's definitely taking its toll on our relationship. I don't know if there is such a thing as a true empath and a partial empath but it's the only way I can describe it. I believe I carry just about every trait an empath can have and am highly sensitive, my BF Carries less traits but definitely feels others energy.. so with both of us miserable at our jobs it's hurting us.. we are working on changing this though
So how’s it going now if you don’t mind me asking?
Hello! Me and my boyfriend are both HSP.
what a nightmare.
Candace, I have ALWAYS been very sensitive and felt something is wrong with me, and fought to be someone I'm not. I was also sexually molested and objectified by my father from the time I was 2 yrs old. This year I'm remembering more than I ever have. This led me to develop an addiction to pain pills, and HORRIBLE chaotic relationships. Despite being an RN, and a group fitness instructor- my relationships, my need to fill my own emptiness has over and over destroyed my life, and hurt my children badly. My question is, what advice/ experience do u have for highly sensitive parents?? I'm clean now 3 years, but I'm trying to stay out of relationships and BE A GOOD MOM, help my children and support them as they really need from me. What knowledge and or advice do you have for this??
Love it! 😘
this rings so loud. both me & my wife are sensitive. I was so frustrated for too long. My wife wants to leave. I've been trying to heal things. now she can't trust that
Yes this is a common theme. It would be highly beneficial for the two of you to do a coaching session together and really hear each other's hearts.
Yeeeeeeeees , I' m very sensitive . Love me squeeze me I love you too !
What if you have two highly sensitive people together? Any tips? 😊
Thank you for this awesome video!
I was sensitive ever since in the womb
Happy Saturday Candice.
Well hello fellow Pleaidian. Nice to see you're answering your calling.
I assume, given the status of your relationship you're family with the concept of twin flames as well?
Wonderful to listen to you.
You have helped my ascension drastically.