I feel like the pressure people feel to do everything at once and to have all your supplies that are listed in your study material, stems from the education system and back to school shopping, and how they expect students to, not only have all the supplies, but also learn several different subjects, in a class room setting. So your brain is kind of wired to that study technique, where you have to study all these things at once every day, and do the homework that comes with it every day, to succeed.
For me, i have this constant fear that im doing everything wrong, my protections arent strong enough, what if i accidentally let a spirit into my house, is my intuition strong enough, how do i know that this is what my intuition is telling me, etc. im still working on my intuition and doing my best to not overthink to where it hinders me yet at the same time not doing something absentmindedly. for now, i guess i'm reading up on lunar magick more (currently the centre of my craft) and trying to read as much as i can before i do anything else. the most i do are rituals during the four major moon phases, tarot/oracle readings, and some intention work. its a process and its a lot and i feel like i'm playing too safe and staying too much in my comfort zone? idk haha
ik exactly what you mean! i'll put up protections and be like 'is it up? am i supposed to feel something? what if it isn't up? is me doubting it affecting it, i should stop that' etc
What I did to ease my anxiety is I just layer my protections. I have my wards, but I also have several layers of protection spells. If it gets through one, it won't get through the others. Also, knowing and doing research into spirits is helpful. If you have it pre-written and well understood, when the time comes to use it, it will be much easier for you.
My biggest mistake was jumping into deity work without worship, and interacting with deities when I still wasn't sure where i stood with religion myself
@@raesoco117 I cleansed my entire space, apologized to the deity, and left a last offering. Since then I've felt their presence here or there, but not the same as before. I think I need to work on myself some more before I can begin that relationship again.
The same thing happened to me. A few months later my mental health started going to shit, and I still don’t know if it was a result of my mistakes or not. I stopped practicing for a while, and am so much more careful now
A big mistake that I have made so far is when I will read books instead of applying the things said in them to my craft, I would just read about them and forget. So now i’m re-reading all of the books I have on witchcraft and it’s really helpful so far !
This is a really personal and odd one, but one thing I regret is doing spells I found on the internet. Pinterest, TikTok, etc. the internet as a whole. Since day one of my craft, I hated spell recipes and wanted to craft my own spells but I didn’t feel like a real witch, so I made myself follow some spell recipes online. Turns out that for me specifically, spells only really tend to work if I made my own spells from the ground up instead of finding one on the internet and using it.
I did an anti-anxiety spell I found in a UA-cam video, as my first spell without any research and no protections. Additionally, I gave an offering to the fae in my first week of practicing without any protection. Luckily nothing bad came of either events, but I’ve since learnt from my idiocy and now have extensive wards and personal protections on and around me at all times and I do heavy research before attempting anything.
So far my worst mistake is not being specific. I asked for more money as I was struggling financially and someone hit the back of my car. I got a lot of money because it was their fault but man did it hurt me, especially since the car was picked by my grandpa who passed away a few years ago. I've learned since to be specific. 😅
@@shankaka_99 Yeah, it was their fault. I was at work behind the cash register when a guy came in and told me a lady hit a car and described my car (not a common car, especially where I live so I knew it was mine). Talked to her, got insurance info, and got it taken care of.
my biggest mistake - not protecting the shit out of myself after i broke up with my ex girlfriend who is also a witch (she did in fact try to curse me)
My patron does not like gold candles. That sucker lit once and would never light again. The candle color I thought of the first time was, indeed, the one he actually wanted.
I guess this is a sign (more like a reminder ig) for me to slow things down, and keep only doing my crystals, my tiny full moon rituals, practicing tarot, and researching. The sabbats will have to wait until the basics are part of my normal life. I've started witchcraft like 3 years ago but because I wanted to do too much, I ended up doing nothing at all and stopped witchcraft. A few months ago I started dabling again, and almost made the same mistakes of wanting to do it all. So thanks for reminding me to take it slow
I invited spirits to live in a cloth doll I had made. No protections. Didn’t specify what kind of spirits I was open to... Then when the doll started giving me nightmares every time I left it out of my closet... I burned it. And I justified the thought process by saying it wasn’t “real” magic (aka my TV show perception of stage magic) I highly dislike my 12 year old self
my biggest mistake by far is not checking in with my mental health before diving deep into my craft. if i'm anxious or depressed i can't fully devote myself to anything else, and I would do tons of research and spellwork when i wasn't ready and couldn't fully focus on it.
I think for me so far the biggest mistakes were trying to learn everything at once and then also automatically assuming working with a love deity would heal my trauma without me putting any actual work in. I was very excited when I first started learning more and I didn't want to limit myself to just one path or label so I tried learning a variety of things at once. This basically ended up causing me a lot of stress cuz I was overwhelmed with all the information and I didn't have as much of a concrete grasp on what I was learning. I only had surface information. As for the second one, it was basically that I still hadn't accepted that it was my job to heal my own trauma even when others had caused it. It didn't seem fair (it's still not really fair but that's just how life is) and I felt that others, like my therapist, were responsible for telling me what was wrong and then how to fix it. I didn't want to put the work in myself and this belief carried over when I started interacting with deities
That intro always makes me smile. I guess for me big mistakes were assuming if something is in a published book it was well researched and correct....oops. Not trusting my own judgement and putting too much stock in outside sources and assuming experienced meant wise. I also approached spellcraft pretty half asssed, on the spot with stuff from books with very little understanding of what the point of all the stuff was for in the first place. Also not being completely open and honest with those I should have been early on. That came out of alot of shame and fear that always had me halfway in the broom closet even when I claimed to be "out". Oh and believing I learned everything I needed to know. I know now the more you learn the more you realize just how much you don't know and still have to learn. I am more confident now but I know what I know and I have a pretty good idea of when I am out of my depth these days.
Hey, um, could you maybe do a video on the difference between honoring a deity and working with a deity? I’m not witchy myself, but I have a friend in the broom closet and I’m trying to learn all I can for them. Sorry.
I put up an altar to Aphrodite with no protections--in my bedroom. It was a grateful altar, since I'd just gotten engaged and wanted to thank her, so there were a lot of offerings and respect, but still. That's a lot of energy to bring into a bedroom!
That's interesting - i had my altar on the living room book case but people kept setting drinks on it and i had to move it to my room. I work with Gaia only for the most part and see my room altar as a protection and noy an issue but i keep my sabbat/other deity altar in the hall. I was nervous about a bedroom altar at first but once it sprung up over time, I have no issues. I was warned altars are a beacon of spiritual beings and all but my altar feels very protective. I think an altar can be anything though, people create altars and don't mean to. I think its fine. But we create our own reality
Love this story about you thinking Bastet was reaching out to you. The funny thing is she approached me directly within weeks of me starting my practice to help me with the protection element because she was like "ahhhhh this poor baby witchling is so sacred and needs help". I don't actively "work" with her but I have a beautiful relationship with her and dedicate time to honouring her daily. She's honestly the best, I adore her and love having her as my patroness.
Also another thing was jumping into angel work as a beginner witch. An archangel contacted me and while they were indeed the actual Archangel and he helped me out with my craft, I had and still do have so much to unpack regarding religion (as angels are often associated with Christianity) and my childhood trauma. I’m so glad that things didn’t turn for the worst but I’ve learned my lesson. I enjoy working with archangels but I think it will be several years before I can work with them again just needing time to 1) disassociate angels with Christianity alone, and 2) work on my trauma relating to religion.
@@gabrielleangelica1977 I know that and I never once said that angels are ONLY a Christian concept ffs. What I was saying though is that because of the cult I was raised in (SDA in case you were curious) combined with the fact that within the western world angels are USUALLY associated with Christianity, doing angel work triggered my trauma a lot and made me feel uncomfortable. I know it's my calling later on, but it's not something I can do at this moment. And as a side note, you can't just meditate trauma away. It takes years of seeing therapists and even medicating.
my biggest mistake was defiantly starting my journey with the wrong intentions, i would use it as an escape and to try to fix my issues without putting in any work myself
My gosh same thing with me for signs. always misinterpreting, over analyzing. I was so convinced that Hades was reaching out, he was for a good 2 weeks and we hung out but like....thats why you gotta do your deity research my friends. Many deities have the same signs and some things AREN'T signs
@@donna6686 I appreciate your concern. But please don’t be worried about me. We do not share the same beliefs, and that is not a bad thing. Please do not push your religious beliefs on others. It doesn’t benefit anyone.
Yeah I also started deity work like 6 months in. Except instead of a deity it was a demon who contacted me. And instead of 6 months it was like 3. And I mean he’s really nice and I still work with him but oop-
i am currently around a week into my practice. very bb witch. BUT. i had no original intent to work with deities so soon! but low and fricking behold, 2 deities have contacted me in my first fricking week. i now currently have aphrodite and dionysus sitting in my closet waiting for me to be ready. i had no intent to contact either of them. i lit a scented candle so i would have a bit of extra light while i read a book, aphrodite said hi. i was literally watching harry potter with a candle on and dionysus said hi. believe me, they're both super fun to speak to but i summoned both of them accidentally lol-
@@mc.3127 legit me. I was not going to get into deity work at all for a while. I was still researching. And a group I’m in was talking about their deities. They all had Greek and Norse deities and out of nowhere the name Thoth popped into my head. I honestly don’t even know if I was aware of this deity prior to this. And I was like nah this can’t be. But I kept getting signs so my sister, much longer practicing, taught me how to vet, and it was immediate responses like… damn. So in my first week I discovered Thoth is my patron deity and he’s very much like a guiding teacher. I’m also pretty sure he’s been around me for a VERY long time and was just waiting for me to wake up.
I bought so many tools when I first started when I should’ve focused on the basics of witchcraft, nothing bad happened and I still would’ve ended up where i am now but I should’ve learned more before buying
I only took crows as a sign because there are NO crows in my area and then suddenly, as I ask for them, two of them appear outside my window, I don't think I would have taken it as one if it was any different
My mistake was feeling I needed to force myself to practice when I was in an unsafe space. I always felt guilty about not practicing as much when my other friends were doing more but in reality, it was a good choice since I was in an abusive situation and I highly doubt I would have been able to do much there without it backfiring or worse. 5 years later I'm still at the basics but I'm happily taking my time with it in a healthy manner in a healthy environment!
I need to brush up on protection and warding more. Ive started shadow work and thats really helpful. Im trying my best to learn lots and just do daily practise routines and learning as im still new to this
No this was super helpful. I’ve been really concerned about where to begin and what to start with, but there isn’t really a rush. I know directions I want to explore, but I don’t need drive head on into them. I can just take my time and learn as I go, and especially needing to know what is and isn’t over my head seems to be very important lol
I've been into witchcraft for 3 years. The first 2 years, I was only discovering it, reading about it on the internet, being interested but never reading books or even practicing, it was more of a "oh yeah I know about this thing called witchcraft thing". And the 3rd year, I've really started to get into it. The thing is, I have a really demanding job, with demanding hours (hey, emergency veterinarian !!), and I don't get to practice or read everyday about witchcraft. But I've learnt to appreciate the moments when I can. i've been into tarot and runes lately, reading about the history of witchcraft, cleansing, and I've just deciced to allow myself to take it real slow and be gentle with myself. Because if I rush myself to be quicker, I know I'll eventually become sick of it and view it as a "duty" rather than a life practice. Thought that could help someone out there !
I remember going on a sketchy looking forum for spells as a beginner (it legitimately had spells that claimed to make you “levitate” and stuff). That’s probably one of the most embarrassing mistakes I made, and also trying to do a love spell that backfired. I feel like remembering that reminds me to be kinder to beginners on the internet now who are making these kinds of mistakes because misinformation is rampant online.
Very thoughtful and transparent. Thank you for being so honest with your subscribers. Your craft is a lifestyle and not a race. Don't overthink BUT, do come prepared. Research and learning are a witch's two best 'tools' for her craft. This is what I teach my daughters (they're both around your age) and other younger practitioners. You're a delight!
Love this video. My mistake I asked the universe for love and got a cat with separation issue and not the love I was asking for. Or maybe it was not a mistake coz I got a great cat!
My biggest mistake was getting into deity worship and work to soon, I also just moved from deity to deity and now I realise how stupid of me that was, I could sense a feeling of dissapointment from them and Im not proud of it but I think I most likely angered Lady Aphrodite because of how my self love and confidence and love life and my parents love life declined. I wish there was a way to go back in time and tell myself to be more carefull but my "perfect witch" complex as you said didnt let me and I got into important parts to early.
Frankie, thank you so much for the work that you do!!! You're always putting more content out and hleping educate us, baby witches. Thank you so so so so so very much for this. I appreciate it so much, I love listening to your recommendations, your advice and your stories that are always so interesting. Just remember to take care of yourself and rest as your guides told you!! As much as I love all the content you're giving us, be sure you have time for yourself and all! Thank you, Frankie, blessed be!
I needed this video. I’m so self conscious about my craft and what I’m doing wrong. And I started making some of these mistake LITERALLY the day before watching this. I’m really glad I found this.
7:05 i really needed to hear this. i struggle a lot with imposter syndrome and comparing myself to other people, so hearing this made me feel a lot better :)
I work with 3 deities. I identified them well at first ( really characteristic signs, and MASSIVE manifestations and sincronicities). I did magic work to vanish imposters. And a thing I must say is that it's really peaceful and good vibin'. I was literally crying for help last year and they listened and reached out. At first I was really afraid and nervous thinking it could be a negative entity. Basically, last year I did more cleansing than in all past years. But it happen and I'm really grateful. I did a lot (a ton) of research to be sure. Now I'm really happy with my deitiy work.
My one year witchcraft mark is April 1st, and I’m always scared to say that my deities showed up pretty early on. They mostly help me with my mental health and I have confirmed many times that they are real
"...and drink water."😂 Always good advice! Merry meet, and thank you for using your voice to share your hilarious insights and tough lessons lol honestly girl, I can relate😅😆
As a baby witch, there is so much for me to learn that I have no idea where to start and I get really worried that I’m doing a lot wrong. There’s so much to learn and things that my mom says (she’s a witch) that I sometimes have no idea what she is saying . I just learned how to do offerings and the basics of candle magic but there’s still so much! I’m so confused lol .
I am an asian guy who is into magick, the same kind of stuff you are interested in, not eastern magick practices like Taoism, although I am interested in learning more since it is linked to my heritage, but I don't know about it enough to be interested. Anyways, I know about witchcraft since 2007, but didn't truly get into it until 2017, I did dabble into it around 2012, then I stopped until 2017. In 2012, I did some candle work, but at the time, I didn't know that you need to anoint oil and have herbs on the candles to make it effective, all I thought it was about lighting a candle with the corresponding color and focus on my intention on it. I lit a red votive candle on a picture of a girl I liked at the time, also, I brought a love mojo bag from my local occult shop. Mistake I made at the time was not feeding the mojo bag. But I did have a taste of what the magick would be if I knew better at the time. You see, the girl I lit the candle for, was in fact interested in me for about a month, right after I brought the mojo bag and lit the candle. Before I did all that, she was cold, no matter how hard I tried to ask her out, she was only interested in being friends, I even tried to hang out with her and her friends for multiple study sessions, but she still didn't budge. Then all this pushed me to light the candle and brought the mojo bag, and in that one month, she didn't hesitate to agree to hang out with me, I helped with house shopping, went out on dates, it was not much, but definitely an improvement. Now that I looked back on this, I think it was not the candle, since I did not "dress" it, it was the mojo bag, however, it only lasted a month because of my mistake of not feeding the mojo bag, it died of "hunger", and the love spell died with it. Now let's talk about 2017, this is when my interest in magick started up again. At this time, I no longer follows the path of Wicca, instead, I started studying the way of being a folk magickian, which is a generalized term for anyone that does magick with herbs and other spiritual stuff, I don't call it witchcraft anymore, but it is still the same thing, just a slightly different path, with different rules. I brought a few poppets for yet another girl that I liked, at the time, I am still learning, so along with the poppet, I also brought a whole bunch of herbs, which included love herbs, as well as domination herbs. Now, here is my second and third mistake, not putting the herbs inside the poppet (I put rose quartz chips inside poppets), as well as mixing love herbs with dominations herbs (big mistake). Traditional way of doing poppets is filling it with herbs, not crystals, and always feed it. Where did I put my herbs you ask? I put them in a zip lock bag, rolled it up, and thought this can "feed' the poppets. Silly me lol, doesn't work like that. Also, domination/corecive herbs do not mix with love herbs, unless you are trying to dominate a lover in an already existing relationship, but the girl I was doing this on barely knows me. My intention was to make her come close to me and actually start a relationship. I no longer have those poppets, I threw them away in the trash, and burned the herbs. Starting in 2018, I started buying my supplies from Lucky Mojo, at first, I brought a whole bunch of sachet powders, this was me trying to tame an control a female boss I had at the time (she was a total bitch), but that also ended badly, which is the result of my fourth mistake, no protection. My spell worked on my boss, and she was indeed nicer to me, but because I didn't have any protection, I got attacked and probably even possessed by a Djinn, which caused a lot of damage to my life, made me lose my job, got me into serious debt, and manipulated other people to hate me. I am all good now, I have an iron nail to protect myself from Djinns (they hate iron), and learned a lot of stuff from Lucky Mojo's forum, which has knowledge that also applies to witchcraft. I feel like I am in much better control of magick than I did in 2012 and 2017, and I am still learning more and more stuff everyday about magick. I also have a routine self blessing/protection sessions to keep myself away from evil spiritual beings, Djinns are already bad enough, but they are pretty low level in terms of evil, I can't imagine what else that is worse than the Djinns, better protect myself.
I know some taoist magic myself. It is one of the few complete bodies of work there is, western is very fragmented and mixed with Christianity. You should be able to find much more in taoist then wicca.
@@elasticharmonyyea, the only problem is finding the right group for taoist magic. There are five groups, and the one that primarily deals with magick are the Fu Dao Pai (符道派), but there is no credible teacher of that group in existence outside of China, and I live in the US. I consider myself to be a folk magickian, and so far, most of my knowledge came from my Wiccan days and Hoodoo, but I am planning to add the right variations of Taoist magick into the mix. Since folk magickian is syncretist, just do normal magick for common folks.
I'm glad you mentioned Protection first. Newbies end up with draining parasites & are clueless. Protection & banishing should be the very first thing to learn!
After many many discussions with native practitioners, not really discussions more like listening to their opinions, I felt okay using white sage as long as I was either growing it myself or purchasing it from a native person directly and as long as I was clear about the fact that I was not smudging. I’ve never learned the ritual of smudging so I never refer to it as that, it’s smoke cleansing. But I still use white sage when I have ethical means of acquiring it (there’s a mother and son who sell white sage at my local market, they’re native)
My biggest mistake was not knowing that there are things that are closed. Doing workings that don’t belong to me with no protection at all with my kids in the house! I had no idea. Anyway, thankfully nothing bad happened. I learned that very fast.
My biggest mistake is accepting a deity two months into doing this, but also, I’m not regretting it? I’m learning slowly but note to self, probably do more protection 😂
@@donna6686 I appreciate your concern, and I’ve never stated that I did not believe in your god or Jesus, however, I’d appreciate if you would respect the religion that I personally pertain to that makes me feel the most secure and comfortable. I’ll respect what you believe in, and I will ask for the respect back. Thank you.
@@donna6686 I appreciate you wanting to help me. I do. However I feel quite safe with what I do do, and I still follow the path of catholism as well due to my family. You do not need to worry nor fret for me, while I appreciate it. May god be with you, and may tons of blessings bring much happiness and content in life.
I love your tiktoks sooooooo much! It inspired me to become a witch still haven’t told anyone though. I’ve been a witch for two years now and my deities are Mercury, Apollo, Artemis, Aphrodite, Bast, Persephone, and Hecate
Hehe, I have a story. After my first like... month of energy work and channeling... with no protections, at all. I had the genius teenage decision of just... Summoning some Demons. Like... A lot of them. Well predictably things went horribly. The house started to smell like rotting meat... I have ... a few scars from that time. Some Psychological, some ... not... So you know... What'll get rid of all these demons? Hell hounds? Is the answer hell hounds? ..... It was not... That... made it a lot worse. I woke up to a six eyed demon pup grinning at me while sitting on my chest. NOT FUN! None of this was done with ANY protection..... Well I didn't have a lot of resources, so I started getting in to ceremonial magics. I found a powerful ritual, used some aztec ... stuff... I won't discuss, and one "Ward of Xibalba" later... it was all good. ... Except.... Well you see my name. Guess who's attention I got? Guess who I still work with? Mistakes help you grow in ways you may not understand yet hehe.
I learned that I need to protect myself when getting into spells too, always good to protect yourself. What's funny is I did a spell last October then about a month later I felt another deity or spirit to make himself present to me and be around me when I was younger. I kept finding signs of him/keep finding signs too and I also started working with another deity before the one that showed up too.
My grandma recently passed away and I have a little sort of alter thing in my room for her where i burn a candle every night and now i'm worried im going to accidentally attract other things into my room. I regularly burn lavender incense and have a bunch of crystals but honestly have no idea what im doing
Well at its heart witchcraft was winging it - we have all these rules now people talk about but one of my friends said we create our own reality. If you think about it, Catholics light candles for the dead and don't have any protection except usually being in a church (hallowed ground). So if you put intention into protection, many believe you'll be protected. But your reality is yours and if you don't believe it, nothing anyone tells you will change it
I think with a lot of people it could go one way or the other when they first start out. Either jumping in too quickly or being way to scared to make mistakes so they never explore. Yes it’s important to research and fully understand things but it’s okay to make mistakes that’s how you learn.
im still a beginner but a mistake i’ve made so far is not being careful while using my pendulum and i started using a pendulum before research and before learning more about it
I started deity work before witchcraft so when I told people about my deity work as a baby witch people would get scared for me and it took me until I went on witchtok till I understood why...
I did diety work early in my practice because I had practiced a bit as a child but I didn’t really remember much so I had a bit of an ego and I was so ashamed for a long time so it’s good to know I’m not the only one
I can top that I started deity work 3 weeks In. yes Apollo was reaching out to me and we started working back then and still are he is my patron but still not a good idea
I just started learning about crystals because I feel very attracted to them. But I'm still to scared and overhanging stuff so I will stay with my crystals for a bit.
My big mistake as a beginner witch was binding the love of my life to me and then losing the spell jar..... Needless to say we broke up, and as soon as we did, I found this jar and had to go through the whole ordeal of releasing him. As soon as I had done so and released the contents and cleansed the jar, suddenly he wanted back with me. We've been together a few years now.
I’ve made a few so far: - Not learning the five basics thoroughly - Not charging my crystals - Buying incense (everyone pushed it and how great it was. I hate the scent I got and I have asthma and several pets)
Bro youre the only one ive come across who explicitly talked about the white sage being appropriated thing. Ive found like around 10 ish people who do witchcraft and no one brings it up😭
i've been doing 6 months of witchcraft, and i've been really stressed about not connecting with apollo (he calle out to me for like a month so i got into it yes it is not the greatest idea to start this early) but like now i'm realizing that i don't need to stress about learning stuff and everything
I’m still a beginner to witchcraft. But the one thing I know I made a mistake on was contacting spirit guides (via pendulum) without protection or researching more about it. I don’t think anything has gone wrong. But I know to definitely phrase my sentences correctly and do protection work.
I have been looking into getting a bunch of crystals for the past two days - looking around, window browsing.. I did a tarot reading today and the cards are like "STOP IT! You aren't READY!!!!" I still want it, though, but I stopped looking lol. I'm about a week into my practice.
This helps me understand where to start and what to research first before I go anywhere else because I did the same thing you mentioned in the beginning... Yikes, but I have yet to study signs from deities I really want to hold off on that till I know more in my practice.
I watched this video the second it came out yesterday and I loved it and I always enjoy enjoy watching your videos. Last night I even had a dream with you in it and I think it’s cause I watched you right before bed. It had nothing to do with the video and it was a crazy dream but whenever I have a dream with someone in it I always want to tell them :)
My biggest mistake in my practice was getting caught up in/with another witch who took pleasure tearing others down when she saw them a a threat to her standing. I was young and she was someone I thought of as a sister and was blinded by that and missed her darker aspects. I was talked into helping her and another friend into doing a karma spell on someone she was beefing with not knowing all the details and thankfully that protected me from the worst of the backlash of that spell. Well at the end of the spell the aunt of the other friend, whose house we did the spell in and who helped out with the spell, said that out of everyone in the room my light was glowing the strongest. I didn't quite know how to handle that so I just looked at the ground and thanked her before leaving. After that the two other girls that did the spell with with me tried to get me involved with something illegal that I obviously declined and they left my life. After they left my life anything regarding my practice makes my heart start racing and I have a panic attack just thinking about trying to meditate. Even now I feel like my heart is going to jump out of chest as I am thinking about it while I type this. Sorry this was so long, I tried to only Include the really important parts so I did leave out some of the small details.
@@donna6686 Your God abandoned me. I was raised Christian and when I needed his help and protection the most he turned his back. So go shove that hypocritical shit down someone else's throat.
y'all, please don't feel like you have to jump into working with deities and ancestors as soon as you start - or EVER, for that matter, if you don't want to !! for me, i never felt any calling or attraction towards it. i began to doubt myself because it's kind of a "trend" nowadays, but just because it's something everyone else is into, doesn't mean you need to be into it too. it doesn't make you any less of a witch.
Please do a tarot reading with a Cards Against Humanity Deck I would cry tears of joy
HHAHHA this is so chaotic
@@aprilsnow9543 and witchy
Omg yes please do this Frankie
yes pls omg
@Ty Malik shut up
I feel like the pressure people feel to do everything at once and to have all your supplies that are listed in your study material, stems from the education system and back to school shopping, and how they expect students to, not only have all the supplies, but also learn several different subjects, in a class room setting. So your brain is kind of wired to that study technique, where you have to study all these things at once every day, and do the homework that comes with it every day, to succeed.
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For me, i have this constant fear that im doing everything wrong, my protections arent strong enough, what if i accidentally let a spirit into my house, is my intuition strong enough, how do i know that this is what my intuition is telling me, etc. im still working on my intuition and doing my best to not overthink to where it hinders me yet at the same time not doing something absentmindedly. for now, i guess i'm reading up on lunar magick more (currently the centre of my craft) and trying to read as much as i can before i do anything else. the most i do are rituals during the four major moon phases, tarot/oracle readings, and some intention work. its a process and its a lot and i feel like i'm playing too safe and staying too much in my comfort zone? idk haha
ik exactly what you mean! i'll put up protections and be like 'is it up? am i supposed to feel something? what if it isn't up? is me doubting it affecting it, i should stop that' etc
What I did to ease my anxiety is I just layer my protections. I have my wards, but I also have several layers of protection spells. If it gets through one, it won't get through the others. Also, knowing and doing research into spirits is helpful. If you have it pre-written and well understood, when the time comes to use it, it will be much easier for you.
I know that I’m late but if anyone is reading this, 9/10 always stay in your comfort zone when it comes to practicing
My biggest mistake was jumping into deity work without worship, and interacting with deities when I still wasn't sure where i stood with religion myself
How did you cleansed 🥺
@@raesoco117 I cleansed my entire space, apologized to the deity, and left a last offering. Since then I've felt their presence here or there, but not the same as before. I think I need to work on myself some more before I can begin that relationship again.
The same thing happened to me. A few months later my mental health started going to shit, and I still don’t know if it was a result of my mistakes or not. I stopped practicing for a while, and am so much more careful now
what if you dont wanna worship any deities and just worship nature but still want to work work them?
@@saturngirlviolet8786do you mean u want to work with mother nature
A big mistake that I have made so far is when I will read books instead of applying the things said in them to my craft, I would just read about them and forget. So now i’m re-reading all of the books I have on witchcraft and it’s really helpful so far !
Especially if I'm just researching, I've actually started taking notes bc I was doing the same thing
@ruhrgur yeah I have been doing that and putting bookmarks on pages and it has been really helpful!
Awesome way of re-approaching! I've done the same!
bruh same !
me too! now i’ve been taking more notes
This is a really personal and odd one, but one thing I regret is doing spells I found on the internet. Pinterest, TikTok, etc. the internet as a whole. Since day one of my craft, I hated spell recipes and wanted to craft my own spells but I didn’t feel like a real witch, so I made myself follow some spell recipes online. Turns out that for me specifically, spells only really tend to work if I made my own spells from the ground up instead of finding one on the internet and using it.
oh man this may be what i need to do!
Wait I've been doing only spells from printrest-
I ONLY write my own. Prewritten spells are someone else's intentions. Writing your own makes it YOUR intention and so much more powerful
I did an anti-anxiety spell I found in a UA-cam video, as my first spell without any research and no protections. Additionally, I gave an offering to the fae in my first week of practicing without any protection. Luckily nothing bad came of either events, but I’ve since learnt from my idiocy and now have extensive wards and personal protections on and around me at all times and I do heavy research before attempting anything.
OMG!! I'm honestly scared to work with the fae lol.
no-
Oh god. Im glad nothing bad happened
So far my worst mistake is not being specific. I asked for more money as I was struggling financially and someone hit the back of my car. I got a lot of money because it was their fault but man did it hurt me, especially since the car was picked by my grandpa who passed away a few years ago. I've learned since to be specific. 😅
AND SOMEONE HIT THE BACK OF YOUR CAR- DID YOU GET THE INSURANCE MONEY AT LEAST 😭😭
@@shankaka_99 Yeah, it was their fault. I was at work behind the cash register when a guy came in and told me a lady hit a car and described my car (not a common car, especially where I live so I knew it was mine). Talked to her, got insurance info, and got it taken care of.
@@rayncloud99 well, you got the money 😃🤚🏾
@@shankaka_99 Yeah, I did get money that I asked for so I can't be that upset about it, just need to be specific next time I ask for something. 😅
same with me but moving, now i’m moving to a ugly house😭🤚🏾
My biggest mistake was trying to hex someone with the “help” of a “deity” LITERALLY THREE MONTHS INTO STARTING WITCHCRAFT LMAO
BRUH
I've only been practicing/researching for 4 or 5 months, deities scare me lmao
@@moi-manda4648 Deity work is terrifying! 😭 Nothing seem like worse idea than messing up interaction with a deity.
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i’ve been practicing and researching for almost 2 years and i’m still only on deity worship, i’m nowhere near ready to work with any yet 😅
@@cozyssims HAHJHSKNCA
my biggest mistake - not protecting the shit out of myself after i broke up with my ex girlfriend who is also a witch (she did in fact try to curse me)
@@donna6686 witches dont serve satan 😐
@@donna6686 no.
My patron does not like gold candles. That sucker lit once and would never light again. The candle color I thought of the first time was, indeed, the one he actually wanted.
I guess this is a sign (more like a reminder ig) for me to slow things down, and keep only doing my crystals, my tiny full moon rituals, practicing tarot, and researching. The sabbats will have to wait until the basics are part of my normal life. I've started witchcraft like 3 years ago but because I wanted to do too much, I ended up doing nothing at all and stopped witchcraft. A few months ago I started dabling again, and almost made the same mistakes of wanting to do it all. So thanks for reminding me to take it slow
I invited spirits to live in a cloth doll I had made. No protections. Didn’t specify what kind of spirits I was open to... Then when the doll started giving me nightmares every time I left it out of my closet... I burned it. And I justified the thought process by saying it wasn’t “real” magic (aka my TV show perception of stage magic)
I highly dislike my 12 year old self
@@donna6686 if i worship satan that's my problem, not yours so stop manipulating us 😋🙏🏻🙏🏻
Why are you running? WHY ARE YOU RUNNING?!
Me: ChaoticWitchAunt released a new video :)
my biggest mistake by far is not checking in with my mental health before diving deep into my craft. if i'm anxious or depressed i can't fully devote myself to anything else, and I would do tons of research and spellwork when i wasn't ready and couldn't fully focus on it.
@@donna6686 go outside 😭
It’s interesting because I found out that as soon as I began to embrace it I feel more at peace and… energized?
I think for me so far the biggest mistakes were trying to learn everything at once and then also automatically assuming working with a love deity would heal my trauma without me putting any actual work in. I was very excited when I first started learning more and I didn't want to limit myself to just one path or label so I tried learning a variety of things at once. This basically ended up causing me a lot of stress cuz I was overwhelmed with all the information and I didn't have as much of a concrete grasp on what I was learning. I only had surface information. As for the second one, it was basically that I still hadn't accepted that it was my job to heal my own trauma even when others had caused it. It didn't seem fair (it's still not really fair but that's just how life is) and I felt that others, like my therapist, were responsible for telling me what was wrong and then how to fix it. I didn't want to put the work in myself and this belief carried over when I started interacting with deities
That intro always makes me smile. I guess for me big mistakes were assuming if something is in a published book it was well researched and correct....oops. Not trusting my own judgement and putting too much stock in outside sources and assuming experienced meant wise. I also approached spellcraft pretty half asssed, on the spot with stuff from books with very little understanding of what the point of all the stuff was for in the first place. Also not being completely open and honest with those I should have been early on. That came out of alot of shame and fear that always had me halfway in the broom closet even when I claimed to be "out". Oh and believing I learned everything I needed to know. I know now the more you learn the more you realize just how much you don't know and still have to learn. I am more confident now but I know what I know and I have a pretty good idea of when I am out of my depth these days.
Hey, um, could you maybe do a video on the difference between honoring a deity and working with a deity? I’m not witchy myself, but I have a friend in the broom closet and I’m trying to learn all I can for them. Sorry.
I think she made a video about this! You can check it out in her channel^^
I put up an altar to Aphrodite with no protections--in my bedroom. It was a grateful altar, since I'd just gotten engaged and wanted to thank her, so there were a lot of offerings and respect, but still. That's a lot of energy to bring into a bedroom!
That's interesting - i had my altar on the living room book case but people kept setting drinks on it and i had to move it to my room. I work with Gaia only for the most part and see my room altar as a protection and noy an issue but i keep my sabbat/other deity altar in the hall. I was nervous about a bedroom altar at first but once it sprung up over time, I have no issues. I was warned altars are a beacon of spiritual beings and all but my altar feels very protective. I think an altar can be anything though, people create altars and don't mean to. I think its fine. But we create our own reality
Love this story about you thinking Bastet was reaching out to you. The funny thing is she approached me directly within weeks of me starting my practice to help me with the protection element because she was like "ahhhhh this poor baby witchling is so sacred and needs help". I don't actively "work" with her but I have a beautiful relationship with her and dedicate time to honouring her daily. She's honestly the best, I adore her and love having her as my patroness.
Also another thing was jumping into angel work as a beginner witch. An archangel contacted me and while they were indeed the actual Archangel and he helped me out with my craft, I had and still do have so much to unpack regarding religion (as angels are often associated with Christianity) and my childhood trauma. I’m so glad that things didn’t turn for the worst but I’ve learned my lesson. I enjoy working with archangels but I think it will be several years before I can work with them again just needing time to 1) disassociate angels with Christianity alone, and 2) work on my trauma relating to religion.
@@gabrielleangelica1977 yes but more often than not they’re associated with Christianity. Not always, but most of the time.
@@gabrielleangelica1977 I know that and I never once said that angels are ONLY a Christian concept ffs. What I was saying though is that because of the cult I was raised in (SDA in case you were curious) combined with the fact that within the western world angels are USUALLY associated with Christianity, doing angel work triggered my trauma a lot and made me feel uncomfortable. I know it's my calling later on, but it's not something I can do at this moment. And as a side note, you can't just meditate trauma away. It takes years of seeing therapists and even medicating.
Just got my Book of Shadows Yesterday! So exited for my Witchy Journey!
Does she sell books?
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my biggest mistake was defiantly starting my journey with the wrong intentions, i would use it as an escape and to try to fix my issues without putting in any work myself
My gosh same thing with me for signs. always misinterpreting, over analyzing. I was so convinced that Hades was reaching out, he was for a good 2 weeks and we hung out but like....thats why you gotta do your deity research my friends. Many deities have the same signs and some things AREN'T signs
me, knowing i haven’t redone any of my protection since the last-last full moon: 👁👄👁
Me just realizing because of you that I haven't neither 👁️👄👁️
Yes I always find myself multitasking while cleansing and I need to stop doing that lol
I didn’t regularly cleanse/protect for the longest time...
@@donna6686 I appreciate your concern. But please don’t be worried about me. We do not share the same beliefs, and that is not a bad thing. Please do not push your religious beliefs on others. It doesn’t benefit anyone.
@@donna6686 Once again, that’s very kind of you. I appreciate your advice. I’ll be alright. Thank you.
Yeah I also started deity work like 6 months in. Except instead of a deity it was a demon who contacted me. And instead of 6 months it was like 3. And I mean he’s really nice and I still work with him but oop-
i am currently around a week into my practice. very bb witch. BUT. i had no original intent to work with deities so soon! but low and fricking behold, 2 deities have contacted me in my first fricking week. i now currently have aphrodite and dionysus sitting in my closet waiting for me to be ready. i had no intent to contact either of them. i lit a scented candle so i would have a bit of extra light while i read a book, aphrodite said hi. i was literally watching harry potter with a candle on and dionysus said hi. believe me, they're both super fun to speak to but i summoned both of them accidentally lol-
@@mc.3127 that’s actually really cool to have 2 deities talk to you in your first WEEK :)
@@mc.3127 legit me. I was not going to get into deity work at all for a while. I was still researching. And a group I’m in was talking about their deities. They all had Greek and Norse deities and out of nowhere the name Thoth popped into my head. I honestly don’t even know if I was aware of this deity prior to this. And I was like nah this can’t be. But I kept getting signs so my sister, much longer practicing, taught me how to vet, and it was immediate responses like… damn. So in my first week I discovered Thoth is my patron deity and he’s very much like a guiding teacher. I’m also pretty sure he’s been around me for a VERY long time and was just waiting for me to wake up.
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Damn I started that within three months because Odin is my patron and welcomed himself into my life 😭
I love this "Welcomed himself into my life" this is hilarious
I bought so many tools when I first started when I should’ve focused on the basics of witchcraft, nothing bad happened and I still would’ve ended up where i am now but I should’ve learned more before buying
I only took crows as a sign because there are NO crows in my area and then suddenly, as I ask for them, two of them appear outside my window, I don't think I would have taken it as one if it was any different
My mistake was feeling I needed to force myself to practice when I was in an unsafe space.
I always felt guilty about not practicing as much when my other friends were doing more but in reality, it was a good choice since I was in an abusive situation and I highly doubt I would have been able to do much there without it backfiring or worse. 5 years later I'm still at the basics but I'm happily taking my time with it in a healthy manner in a healthy environment!
I need to brush up on protection and warding more. Ive started shadow work and thats really helpful. Im trying my best to learn lots and just do daily practise routines and learning as im still new to this
No this was super helpful. I’ve been really concerned about where to begin and what to start with, but there isn’t really a rush. I know directions I want to explore, but I don’t need drive head on into them. I can just take my time and learn as I go, and especially needing to know what is and isn’t over my head seems to be very important lol
I've been into witchcraft for 3 years. The first 2 years, I was only discovering it, reading about it on the internet, being interested but never reading books or even practicing, it was more of a "oh yeah I know about this thing called witchcraft thing". And the 3rd year, I've really started to get into it. The thing is, I have a really demanding job, with demanding hours (hey, emergency veterinarian !!), and I don't get to practice or read everyday about witchcraft. But I've learnt to appreciate the moments when I can. i've been into tarot and runes lately, reading about the history of witchcraft, cleansing, and I've just deciced to allow myself to take it real slow and be gentle with myself. Because if I rush myself to be quicker, I know I'll eventually become sick of it and view it as a "duty" rather than a life practice. Thought that could help someone out there !
I remember going on a sketchy looking forum for spells as a beginner (it legitimately had spells that claimed to make you “levitate” and stuff). That’s probably one of the most embarrassing mistakes I made, and also trying to do a love spell that backfired. I feel like remembering that reminds me to be kinder to beginners on the internet now who are making these kinds of mistakes because misinformation is rampant online.
Especially on certain platforms it’s really hard trying to find, as accurate as can be, information on the craft.
I had no idea I needed to watch this video until I watched this video. I wish more people showed their mistakes more often. Its soooo helpful.
Very thoughtful and transparent. Thank you for being so honest with your subscribers. Your craft is a lifestyle and not a race. Don't overthink BUT, do come prepared. Research and learning are a witch's two best 'tools' for her craft. This is what I teach my daughters (they're both around your age) and other younger practitioners. You're a delight!
Love this video. My mistake I asked the universe for love and got a cat with separation issue and not the love I was asking for. Or maybe it was not a mistake coz I got a great cat!
Success😻😹
But yeah that’s what happens when we’re not overly specific lol
Dont f**k with other peoples practice they might curse you. And when you re bound to a doll (for a curse) dont put energy it pull it out.
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No. Been there done that. The Jesus life is disempowering and miserable. Especially for females.
My biggest mistake was getting into deity worship and work to soon, I also just moved from deity to deity and now I realise how stupid of me that was, I could sense a feeling of dissapointment from them and Im not proud of it but I think I most likely angered Lady Aphrodite because of how my self love and confidence and love life and my parents love life declined. I wish there was a way to go back in time and tell myself to be more carefull but my "perfect witch" complex as you said didnt let me and I got into important parts to early.
I would love for you to be more specific about protection when talking to spirit guides/using pendulums/ divination in general
I have a whole video on protection!
Frankie, thank you so much for the work that you do!!! You're always putting more content out and hleping educate us, baby witches. Thank you so so so so so very much for this. I appreciate it so much, I love listening to your recommendations, your advice and your stories that are always so interesting. Just remember to take care of yourself and rest as your guides told you!! As much as I love all the content you're giving us, be sure you have time for yourself and all! Thank you, Frankie, blessed be!
The spirits and animals that follow you are guarding you...
My biggest mistake was joining a coven Chile coven drama be hella draining it’s like a pathetic secret circle 🤣🤣🤣
This is why your my favorite aunt
I needed this video. I’m so self conscious about my craft and what I’m doing wrong. And I started making some of these mistake LITERALLY the day before watching this. I’m really glad I found this.
as a beginner who overthinks things a lot, these kinds of videos are so helpful, thank you!
7:05 i really needed to hear this. i struggle a lot with imposter syndrome and comparing myself to other people, so hearing this made me feel a lot better :)
I work with 3 deities. I identified them well at first ( really characteristic signs, and MASSIVE manifestations and sincronicities). I did magic work to vanish imposters. And a thing I must say is that it's really peaceful and good vibin'. I was literally crying for help last year and they listened and reached out. At first I was really afraid and nervous thinking it could be a negative entity. Basically, last year I did more cleansing than in all past years. But it happen and I'm really grateful. I did a lot (a ton) of research to be sure. Now I'm really happy with my deitiy work.
My one year witchcraft mark is April 1st, and I’m always scared to say that my deities showed up pretty early on. They mostly help me with my mental health and I have confirmed many times that they are real
It’s so good to hear others mistakes it helps us to see the pitfalls and things to avoid
@@donna6686 I already follow Jesus I love him there are many christian witches
I look back and I just.. mmmmmm..
The Dunning Kruger effect hit me hard.
"...and drink water."😂 Always good advice! Merry meet, and thank you for using your voice to share your hilarious insights and tough lessons lol honestly girl, I can relate😅😆
As a baby witch, there is so much for me to learn that I have no idea where to start and I get really worried that I’m doing a lot wrong. There’s so much to learn and things that my mom says (she’s a witch) that I sometimes have no idea what she is saying . I just learned how to do offerings and the basics of candle magic but there’s still so much! I’m so confused lol .
I just recently started my witchcraft journey and those are some things I'll definitely keep in mind! 😊
I am an asian guy who is into magick, the same kind of stuff you are interested in, not eastern magick practices like Taoism, although I am interested in learning more since it is linked to my heritage, but I don't know about it enough to be interested.
Anyways, I know about witchcraft since 2007, but didn't truly get into it until 2017, I did dabble into it around 2012, then I stopped until 2017. In 2012, I did some candle work, but at the time, I didn't know that you need to anoint oil and have herbs on the candles to make it effective, all I thought it was about lighting a candle with the corresponding color and focus on my intention on it. I lit a red votive candle on a picture of a girl I liked at the time, also, I brought a love mojo bag from my local occult shop. Mistake I made at the time was not feeding the mojo bag. But I did have a taste of what the magick would be if I knew better at the time. You see, the girl I lit the candle for, was in fact interested in me for about a month, right after I brought the mojo bag and lit the candle. Before I did all that, she was cold, no matter how hard I tried to ask her out, she was only interested in being friends, I even tried to hang out with her and her friends for multiple study sessions, but she still didn't budge. Then all this pushed me to light the candle and brought the mojo bag, and in that one month, she didn't hesitate to agree to hang out with me, I helped with house shopping, went out on dates, it was not much, but definitely an improvement. Now that I looked back on this, I think it was not the candle, since I did not "dress" it, it was the mojo bag, however, it only lasted a month because of my mistake of not feeding the mojo bag, it died of "hunger", and the love spell died with it.
Now let's talk about 2017, this is when my interest in magick started up again. At this time, I no longer follows the path of Wicca, instead, I started studying the way of being a folk magickian, which is a generalized term for anyone that does magick with herbs and other spiritual stuff, I don't call it witchcraft anymore, but it is still the same thing, just a slightly different path, with different rules. I brought a few poppets for yet another girl that I liked, at the time, I am still learning, so along with the poppet, I also brought a whole bunch of herbs, which included love herbs, as well as domination herbs. Now, here is my second and third mistake, not putting the herbs inside the poppet (I put rose quartz chips inside poppets), as well as mixing love herbs with dominations herbs (big mistake). Traditional way of doing poppets is filling it with herbs, not crystals, and always feed it. Where did I put my herbs you ask? I put them in a zip lock bag, rolled it up, and thought this can "feed' the poppets. Silly me lol, doesn't work like that. Also, domination/corecive herbs do not mix with love herbs, unless you are trying to dominate a lover in an already existing relationship, but the girl I was doing this on barely knows me. My intention was to make her come close to me and actually start a relationship. I no longer have those poppets, I threw them away in the trash, and burned the herbs.
Starting in 2018, I started buying my supplies from Lucky Mojo, at first, I brought a whole bunch of sachet powders, this was me trying to tame an control a female boss I had at the time (she was a total bitch), but that also ended badly, which is the result of my fourth mistake, no protection. My spell worked on my boss, and she was indeed nicer to me, but because I didn't have any protection, I got attacked and probably even possessed by a Djinn, which caused a lot of damage to my life, made me lose my job, got me into serious debt, and manipulated other people to hate me.
I am all good now, I have an iron nail to protect myself from Djinns (they hate iron), and learned a lot of stuff from Lucky Mojo's forum, which has knowledge that also applies to witchcraft. I feel like I am in much better control of magick than I did in 2012 and 2017, and I am still learning more and more stuff everyday about magick. I also have a routine self blessing/protection sessions to keep myself away from evil spiritual beings, Djinns are already bad enough, but they are pretty low level in terms of evil, I can't imagine what else that is worse than the Djinns, better protect myself.
I know some taoist magic myself. It is one of the few complete bodies of work there is, western is very fragmented and mixed with Christianity. You should be able to find much more in taoist then wicca.
@@elasticharmonyyea, the only problem is finding the right group for taoist magic. There are five groups, and the one that primarily deals with magick are the Fu Dao Pai (符道派), but there is no credible teacher of that group in existence outside of China, and I live in the US.
I consider myself to be a folk magickian, and so far, most of my knowledge came from my Wiccan days and Hoodoo, but I am planning to add the right variations of Taoist magick into the mix. Since folk magickian is syncretist, just do normal magick for common folks.
When i start thinking about practicing witchcraft u share this video lmaaaaaaaaao i'll take it as a sign
I'm glad you mentioned Protection first. Newbies end up with draining parasites & are clueless. Protection & banishing should be the very first thing to learn!
Congrats on a milli! I am behind everyone since I just found you like a month ago.😅 CONGRATS!!!!!
Ahhh thank you!!! So glad ur here bb.
After many many discussions with native practitioners, not really discussions more like listening to their opinions, I felt okay using white sage as long as I was either growing it myself or purchasing it from a native person directly and as long as I was clear about the fact that I was not smudging. I’ve never learned the ritual of smudging so I never refer to it as that, it’s smoke cleansing. But I still use white sage when I have ethical means of acquiring it (there’s a mother and son who sell white sage at my local market, they’re native)
My biggest mistake was not knowing that there are things that are closed. Doing workings that don’t belong to me with no protection at all with my kids in the house! I had no idea. Anyway, thankfully nothing bad happened. I learned that very fast.
the returning negativity one that talked about internal work!! i feel like most witches need to work on that
My biggest mistake is accepting a deity two months into doing this, but also, I’m not regretting it? I’m learning slowly but note to self, probably do more protection 😂
@@donna6686 I appreciate your concern, and I’ve never stated that I did not believe in your god or Jesus, however, I’d appreciate if you would respect the religion that I personally pertain to that makes me feel the most secure and comfortable. I’ll respect what you believe in, and I will ask for the respect back. Thank you.
@@donna6686 I appreciate you wanting to help me. I do. However I feel quite safe with what I do do, and I still follow the path of catholism as well due to my family. You do not need to worry nor fret for me, while I appreciate it. May god be with you, and may tons of blessings bring much happiness and content in life.
I love your tiktoks sooooooo much! It inspired me to become a witch still haven’t told anyone though. I’ve been a witch for two years now and my deities are Mercury, Apollo, Artemis, Aphrodite, Bast, Persephone, and Hecate
I have stopped using white sage as well. Cedar can be messy as a bundle but I like the fragrance more as well.
This is a super helpful video, as always! I actually just had my first ever spell work so I'm super happy rn!
Hehe, I have a story. After my first like... month of energy work and channeling... with no protections, at all. I had the genius teenage decision of just... Summoning some Demons. Like... A lot of them.
Well predictably things went horribly. The house started to smell like rotting meat... I have ... a few scars from that time. Some Psychological, some ... not...
So you know... What'll get rid of all these demons? Hell hounds? Is the answer hell hounds? ..... It was not... That... made it a lot worse.
I woke up to a six eyed demon pup grinning at me while sitting on my chest. NOT FUN!
None of this was done with ANY protection.....
Well I didn't have a lot of resources, so I started getting in to ceremonial magics. I found a powerful ritual, used some aztec ... stuff... I won't discuss, and one "Ward of Xibalba" later... it was all good.
... Except.... Well you see my name. Guess who's attention I got?
Guess who I still work with?
Mistakes help you grow in ways you may not understand yet hehe.
I’m super excited to watch this
Please do a video on deities and who they are and such- I can't decide what ones to do research first
I love to drink coffee and watching your vlogs 🖤 Thank u for sharing
I learned that I need to protect myself when getting into spells too, always good to protect yourself. What's funny is I did a spell last October then about a month later I felt another deity or spirit to make himself present to me and be around me when I was younger. I kept finding signs of him/keep finding signs too and I also started working with another deity before the one that showed up too.
My grandma recently passed away and I have a little sort of alter thing in my room for her where i burn a candle every night and now i'm worried im going to accidentally attract other things into my room. I regularly burn lavender incense and have a bunch of crystals but honestly have no idea what im doing
Well at its heart witchcraft was winging it - we have all these rules now people talk about but one of my friends said we create our own reality. If you think about it, Catholics light candles for the dead and don't have any protection except usually being in a church (hallowed ground). So if you put intention into protection, many believe you'll be protected. But your reality is yours and if you don't believe it, nothing anyone tells you will change it
Ugh she looks so pretty here 🥺🥺🥺
i didn’t know you had a youtube channel too!! i’m so happy! also your literally so pretty
I think with a lot of people it could go one way or the other when they first start out. Either jumping in
too quickly or being way to scared to make mistakes so they never explore. Yes it’s important to research and fully understand things but it’s okay to make mistakes that’s how you learn.
biggest mistake i made is probably just not breaking down personal biases
My mistake was listening to someone who told me everything I was doing was ~wrong~
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@@donna6686 ua-cam.com/video/hbEyixxZJDg/v-deo.html maybe this will shake some sense into you
im still a beginner but a mistake i’ve made so far is not being careful while using my pendulum and i started using a pendulum before research and before learning more about it
I started deity work before witchcraft so when I told people about my deity work as a baby witch people would get scared for me and it took me until I went on witchtok till I understood why...
I did diety work early in my practice because I had practiced a bit as a child but I didn’t really remember much so I had a bit of an ego and I was so ashamed for a long time so it’s good to know I’m not the only one
I can top that I started deity work 3 weeks In. yes Apollo was reaching out to me and we started working back then and still are he is my patron but still not a good idea
I just started learning about crystals because I feel very attracted to them. But I'm still to scared and overhanging stuff so I will stay with my crystals for a bit.
My big mistake as a beginner witch was binding the love of my life to me and then losing the spell jar..... Needless to say we broke up, and as soon as we did, I found this jar and had to go through the whole ordeal of releasing him. As soon as I had done so and released the contents and cleansed the jar, suddenly he wanted back with me. We've been together a few years now.
I’ve made a few so far:
- Not learning the five basics thoroughly
- Not charging my crystals
- Buying incense (everyone pushed it and how great it was. I hate the scent I got and I have asthma and several pets)
You do you!
Bro youre the only one ive come across who explicitly talked about the white sage being appropriated thing. Ive found like around 10 ish people who do witchcraft and no one brings it up😭
i've been doing 6 months of witchcraft, and i've been really stressed about not connecting with apollo (he calle out to me for like a month so i got into it yes it is not the greatest idea to start this early) but like now i'm realizing that i don't need to stress about learning stuff and everything
Oh. I never do protection lol. Hmm. Maybe I should get some black tourmaline.
I’m still a beginner to witchcraft. But the one thing I know I made a mistake on was contacting spirit guides (via pendulum) without protection or researching more about it. I don’t think anything has gone wrong. But I know to definitely phrase my sentences correctly and do protection work.
oh my god hello sister I didn't know you had a UA-cam channel I'm subscribing right now!!!
I have been looking into getting a bunch of crystals for the past two days - looking around, window browsing.. I did a tarot reading today and the cards are like "STOP IT! You aren't READY!!!!" I still want it, though, but I stopped looking lol. I'm about a week into my practice.
This helps me understand where to start and what to research first before I go anywhere else because I did the same thing you mentioned in the beginning... Yikes, but I have yet to study signs from deities I really want to hold off on that till I know more in my practice.
You should do a video about potions spell jars for baby witches or things that baby witches should have
I watched this video the second it came out yesterday and I loved it and I always enjoy enjoy watching your videos. Last night I even had a dream with you in it and I think it’s cause I watched you right before bed. It had nothing to do with the video and it was a crazy dream but whenever I have a dream with someone in it I always want to tell them :)
I just cleansed my first crystal!!! It has barite, galena and cerussite.
My biggest mistake in my practice was getting caught up in/with another witch who took pleasure tearing others down when she saw them a a threat to her standing. I was young and she was someone I thought of as a sister and was blinded by that and missed her darker aspects. I was talked into helping her and another friend into doing a karma spell on someone she was beefing with not knowing all the details and thankfully that protected me from the worst of the backlash of that spell. Well at the end of the spell the aunt of the other friend, whose house we did the spell in and who helped out with the spell, said that out of everyone in the room my light was glowing the strongest. I didn't quite know how to handle that so I just looked at the ground and thanked her before leaving. After that the two other girls that did the spell with with me tried to get me involved with something illegal that I obviously declined and they left my life. After they left my life anything regarding my practice makes my heart start racing and I have a panic attack just thinking about trying to meditate. Even now I feel like my heart is going to jump out of chest as I am thinking about it while I type this. Sorry this was so long, I tried to only Include the really important parts so I did leave out some of the small details.
@@donna6686 Your God abandoned me. I was raised Christian and when I needed his help and protection the most he turned his back. So go shove that hypocritical shit down someone else's throat.
Yall my serotonin when she uploads 😌💖
y'all, please don't feel like you have to jump into working with deities and ancestors as soon as you start - or EVER, for that matter, if you don't want to !! for me, i never felt any calling or attraction towards it. i began to doubt myself because it's kind of a "trend" nowadays, but just because it's something everyone else is into, doesn't mean you need to be into it too. it doesn't make you any less of a witch.
@@donna6686 stfu literally no one asked and stop forcing your religion to others!