Ryan Sheckler: I couldn’t stop drinking

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  • Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
  • X Games gold medalist and former MTV reality star Ryan Sheckler discusses the role his mom plays in his life, including the moment he called to tell her he needed help battling alcoholism. Sheckler says the day he went to rehab was the scariest day of his life, because he had to fully surrender to the program. The skateboarding star candidly shares details of a 2020 relapse that started around his 30th birthday and lasted five months, plus how a newfound focus in his Christianity created positive change in his life and an inspiring call from Michael Phelps that helped fuel Sheckler’s sobriety.
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  • @dingleberries1517
    @dingleberries1517 3 роки тому +525

    Honestly seeing Ryan Sheckler put himself out here like this is super brave and great for skateboarding culture

    • @chad_garrison1991
      @chad_garrison1991 3 роки тому +2

      He looks a lot better then he use to. I say he looks his age. Tattoos might throw it off a bit

    • @nothingleft2lose-
      @nothingleft2lose- 3 роки тому

      The dudes being leached on by all the blood suckers around.... And they have him right where they want em.....

    • @307beez
      @307beez 3 роки тому +1

      @Carson Runnells who the fuck do you hang out with ?!?! Skateboarding bringing people to satanism ?? Lol

    • @chrispennington6890
      @chrispennington6890 2 роки тому +3

      This dude probably wasn't drinking that much lol he exaggerates . Also lied about El toro

    • @rickeykoga2312
      @rickeykoga2312 2 роки тому +3

      The amount of skaters who self-medicate with beer and weed is massive. That's the culture that I was drawn to. It was manly, it was rebellious, and it was exciting. But oh so dangerous bc you don't know you're in too deep until it's too late

  • @eldiablo3794
    @eldiablo3794 2 роки тому +86

    Glad to see he's sober. Im a recovering alcoholic and heroin addict. Ive
    been sober going on 2790+ days and I can totally relate to him because
    it was my mother who was the only person who stayed by my side and
    brought me to rehab. Awesome to see skaters getting sober and being
    better role models to the younger skate generation... because it was the
    piss drunks I grew up idolizing and made me think partying and skating
    go hand in hand. Those guys are all sober now too. One day at'a time.

  • @ryanp6999
    @ryanp6999 3 роки тому +884

    Man, I can't believe he's only 31. I feel like his name has been around forever.

    • @aurorahiraeth5896
      @aurorahiraeth5896 3 роки тому +14

      Bro

    • @elmentado9231
      @elmentado9231 3 роки тому +62

      He definitely doesn’t look 31, he looks more like 41.

    • @1x0x
      @1x0x 3 роки тому +41

      he won gold at 13 thats insane

    • @KINGCJ23_
      @KINGCJ23_ 3 роки тому

      Facts

    • @-ms9vrS
      @-ms9vrS 3 роки тому +28

      he aged really bad honestly. he’s only 31 yet can pass for someone who’s in their early 40s. I guess the drugs got into him because 10 years ago he looked his age

  • @vincentv.i.p9961
    @vincentv.i.p9961 3 роки тому +133

    17 months sober myself Iam proud to say iam blessed.

    • @gt9188
      @gt9188 3 роки тому +6

      Nice, I'll be there in 19 months after I quit drinking in July.

    • @iHPL666
      @iHPL666 3 роки тому +1

      Stay strong!

    • @Superdada
      @Superdada 3 роки тому +1

      Good job dude. Keep it up!

    • @howjune4842
      @howjune4842 3 роки тому +1

      Salute! 💪🙏

    • @augustvergara6878
      @augustvergara6878 3 роки тому +2

      Keep it up I am 16 months sober best thing i did

  • @jpowell230
    @jpowell230 3 роки тому +308

    Been clean and sober since 3-26-10. Best decision I ever made was to ask for help. AA saved my life and my family.

    • @2006sirignano
      @2006sirignano 3 роки тому +9

      Thats a Beautiful thing.Keep it up.

    • @jamier6742
      @jamier6742 3 роки тому +4

      Keep up the good work!
      One day at a time!!
      Stay Blessed!!!
      👊😎👊😎👊😎

    • @e2zbasketball288
      @e2zbasketball288 3 роки тому +8

      Yawn go get a beer you loser

    • @jpowell230
      @jpowell230 3 роки тому +1

      @@e2zbasketball288 🤦‍♂️

    • @jbq10
      @jbq10 3 роки тому +10

      Sober for 2 years here!

  • @eklypised
    @eklypised 3 роки тому +120

    15 years and still battling this opiate addiction. I'ma beat it though....Yeshua is Lord no doubt

    • @rustybritches6747
      @rustybritches6747 3 роки тому +3

      The next day you have your dope and it's early enough in the day to call or go down there, go get on methadone or Suboxone! Your appointment probably won't be for like a week so you'll still have to do your thing in the meantime but make sure you make your appointment go get your first dose do what they say and just don't use if you're serious not getting clean once you feel good from the Suboxone or methadone you're not going to want to use but if you're not serious you're still going to have that itch in the back of your brain 15 years is a long time that's about how long it took me you can do it bro it's hard but you can definitely do it!

    • @JeremyWashington1489
      @JeremyWashington1489 3 роки тому +10

      Stay strong buddy. I was a dope fiend for 9 years. Couldn’t go six hours without using. In July I’ll have 7 years sober. Just keep on putting in the work and don’t give up. Go to meetings, talk to people, and most importantly of all, don’t come up with reasons for yourself about why all those things might work for others but not for you. I thought meetings and sponsors and all were the lamest thing in the world, and I hated all the cliches. But at a certain point it starts to click

    • @CebuanaDrama
      @CebuanaDrama 3 роки тому +8

      The amazing thing about God’s grace is not only the ability to forgive you, but also the strength He gives you when you start over. 7 years off dope this year

    • @yobro6053
      @yobro6053 3 роки тому

      Yeshua is just a human. The Creator who can never die and is above the heavens and the earth and who created Yeshua, it is he who deserves all praise and glory.

    • @eklypised
      @eklypised 3 роки тому

      @@yobro6053 good thing he rose from the dead and didn't stay dead...

  • @koryjensen8610
    @koryjensen8610 3 роки тому +379

    Almost 2 years sober. AA saved my life. I love how this kid is open about it.

    • @Recoveryplus
      @Recoveryplus 3 роки тому +6

      Same here brother - CA for me

    • @oscar5768
      @oscar5768 3 роки тому +9

      Same here 2 years sober my daughter saved me took me 1 kid to change my life

    • @parkerwilson9197
      @parkerwilson9197 3 роки тому +3

      Keep coming back gentlemen!

    • @brotherdj777
      @brotherdj777 3 роки тому +8

      AA doesn't save people, Jesus does.

    • @ghhhp
      @ghhhp 3 роки тому +5

      Congrats broskie I’m clean off opiates shit is good wish I could have that time back

  • @Utahtruckguy
    @Utahtruckguy 3 роки тому +280

    It’s because he has an obsessive/addictive personality... it’s why he is such a good skater and is successful. But also is a curse with drugs, alcohol, etc..

    • @brettfrimmer6567
      @brettfrimmer6567 3 роки тому +33

      Definitely. And I think there’s a definite connection between all these really successful people and addiction. They are obsessive over their sport, their music, their career and that same personality that is soo focused, these people are all in or not at all. They don’t do anything half way. Often there’s no balance.

    • @chad_garrison1991
      @chad_garrison1991 3 роки тому +9

      Facts. I got an addictive personality. And it catches up to you. Good and bad.

    • @Yabas00
      @Yabas00 3 роки тому +2

      @@brettfrimmer6567 especially people who are successful and famous very early on in life

    • @jiggybah1304
      @jiggybah1304 3 роки тому +3

      @Win From Within lol facts

    • @johnconnor4136
      @johnconnor4136 3 роки тому +5

      He is a person of extremes. Most addicts are. Sometimes the people who look the most hopeless are actually the ones who are most likely to make a huge comeback, once they find the right support.

  • @davetulipan6325
    @davetulipan6325 3 роки тому +37

    Takes a lot of courage to speak honestly. Hats off to him. I was a fan before of his skating. Now, a bigger fan. Life's hard. You give up or you fight. Mad respect legend.

  • @mikejimenez6470
    @mikejimenez6470 3 роки тому +55

    The fact that he’s passionate about his sobriety just shows he didn’t just get this talent for skating, but he’s just a really good person in general. MTV is what made me think of him differently as a kid. Like some punk ass. But he’s genuinely a really good dude.

    • @rolandthanksjesus4733
      @rolandthanksjesus4733 3 роки тому +1

      Hey Mike, no one is good: „as it is written: “None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one.”“
      ‭‭Romans‬ ‭3:10-12‬ ‭ESV‬‬
      Thats why we need Jesus, his perfection and sacrifice is the only reason why we can cine to the father: „“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”“
      ‭‭John‬ ‭3:16-21‬ ‭ESV‬‬
      www.bible.com God bless you Mike.

  • @monstermind4286
    @monstermind4286 3 роки тому +210

    Man he just inspired me. I have so much potential and I need to stop drinking

    • @victorhardin2186
      @victorhardin2186 3 роки тому

      How old are you

    • @vincentfiore7588
      @vincentfiore7588 3 роки тому +6

      Get help man I’ve never had a problem with alcohol but my family has had alcoholics and drug addicts life has so much to offer and never be afraid to admit you have a problem it’ll be the best decision you’d make

    • @holo6858
      @holo6858 3 роки тому +2

      You can do it man

    • @bam4446
      @bam4446 3 роки тому +20

      man im 27 been drinking everyday for the past 5 years... 3 days ago out of the blue i said im done with this shit.. tired of the fatigue hangovers, i started to lose interest in the things i loved, and i put drinking before anything really. a day later i see this interview come out and it just motivated me even more.. if i can stop you can stop. i just smoke weed now :) good luck you should quit

    • @diegolopez-zubiri8694
      @diegolopez-zubiri8694 3 роки тому +4

      @@bam4446 it’s a sign bro, u got it

  • @wesleyacord4614
    @wesleyacord4614 2 роки тому +7

    WOW!! What an inspiration! I'm also a Christian. But when my dad passed away last september, I totally feel back into my self medicating ways. I'm trying 2 get back on the road 2 recovery, but I've failed so many times.....but I'm determined 2 get there. Thank U for sharing Ur struggles and faith!!

  • @toolrocks10
    @toolrocks10 3 роки тому +15

    Been sober for 1 1/2 years. No AA no nothing. DR said your liver is severely damaged and you will die shortly. Sober me right up. Specially being a full time single father. My daughter deserves better

    • @lilchaos4792
      @lilchaos4792 3 роки тому +1

      You're awesome !!! This comment inspired me. I quit drinking last November.

    • @ipunchpoliticians1144
      @ipunchpoliticians1144 3 роки тому +1

      Single Dad as well. Was drinking a handle of Jim Beam a day to get rid of the stress. Kids needed their dad.

    • @jaysivv436
      @jaysivv436 Рік тому +1

      Way to go brotha 💪🏼You’re daughter’s lucky to have you.

  • @MrRedsi
    @MrRedsi 3 роки тому +52

    I was a huge fan of Ryan growing up as I skated too. So awesome to see him in this place in his life and also talking about God and his faith.

  • @JFord1234
    @JFord1234 3 роки тому +57

    Brave dude......to come clean about his addiction....to admit outloud in this day and age that he is a follower of Christ.....takes strength.....inspiring....appreciate your honesty Ryan....

    • @natalienelson8681
      @natalienelson8681 3 роки тому +4

      I couldn’t believe those words were coming out of his mouth. What a testimony to the miracles Christ performs. I got the chills.

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому

      God help us all to be brave and testify that Jesus is our Lord and Savior, and the rapture is near. In these last moments before the end of the age of grace, many are deceived by the devil and scoffing at those who know Jesus is coming back. Stay armored up. Maranatha.

    • @timsunderland5153
      @timsunderland5153 Рік тому

      More delusional than brave. 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏼
      It Still blows my mind that actual grown adults still believe that nonsense! 🤦🏼

    • @JFord1234
      @JFord1234 Рік тому

      @@timsunderland5153 I've got plenty of evidence that God exists......What's yours that He doesnt?

  • @moviesandmusic5055
    @moviesandmusic5055 3 роки тому +12

    I've been Clean and Sober since 2-20-2021. 79 days. My absolute longest time in the past 7 years was 33 days,which I felt was a huge accomplishment and a few occasions for 10-14 days. I'm also 31 years old. I got to the point that I was drinking 30,40 and sometimes more than 50 days in a row. 2017-2020 I stayed drunk an excess of 300 days every year or more.
    It's not easy,but you can do it.
    Stay Strong

    • @lilchaos4792
      @lilchaos4792 3 роки тому +1

      You got this bro! This comment inspired me

    • @joshuwahhhh7404
      @joshuwahhhh7404 2 роки тому

      Your a champ man!! It isn't easy you got it man! I'm not sober and haven't been for 5+ years day to day I know it's time to be the real me. Thanks for sharing man God bless.

    • @AnonymousQwerty
      @AnonymousQwerty 2 роки тому

      Much love brother ♥️

    • @jaysivv436
      @jaysivv436 Рік тому

      You’re killing it bro. Keep going 💪🏼Thanks for the inspiration.

    • @vipermusic60
      @vipermusic60 Рік тому

      You got it g 🔥

  • @julianr1330
    @julianr1330 3 роки тому +9

    The way he spoke on his mom, tells me all i need to hear. Wonderful man i remember as a kid watching you Mr. Sheckler! God bless you for getting through those demons and its crazy u only 31😂😂😂 young still

  • @jamesfrels7492
    @jamesfrels7492 3 роки тому +13

    Praise God !!!
    Love this Man !
    Keep living Keeping Growing Keep Shredding , Christ is King 👑.
    Love and Light !

  • @valeriemaironis531
    @valeriemaironis531 3 роки тому +3

    Ryan this is your testimony & it is POWERFUL. I can relate so much! My last drink was 1-5-19. I fully surrendered. I always had faith but my sobriety brought me so much closer to Him & His Word. I was raised to life a month after my 1 year sober... 2-1-20. Not everyone understands. Jesus is the way, the truth & the life!!! 🙌🏼❤️ I’m so proud of you & love seeing this vulnerability, you will help SO many.

  • @jstew4js
    @jstew4js 3 роки тому +9

    Wow amazing ryan..I'm 38 and went down a similar path and also have gone to the lord.so amazing to see a man like u become humble let your ego go and surrender.the lord I'm sure is pleased with your turn around.

  • @samcarbajal2117
    @samcarbajal2117 3 роки тому +98

    First step is admitting you have a problem with any addiction, addict's don't see that

    • @Ek0
      @Ek0 3 роки тому

      First step to admitting you have any problem tbh... for the longest time I denied I had PTSD and abandonment issues.

    • @dickfitswell3437
      @dickfitswell3437 3 роки тому +7

      Wrong. I admitted I had a problem 5yrs before I got clean. The first step is Rock Bottom.

    • @samcarbajal2117
      @samcarbajal2117 3 роки тому +2

      The point is to get help before you hit rock bottom

    • @sergiorobles7169
      @sergiorobles7169 3 роки тому +1

      @@dickfitswell3437 it is the first step to admit u have a problem, some people take years to get sober in my case after admitting i had a problem it took me 6 years, it was not only until i realized my life was at risk that i quit. Now finally i have the opportunity to be a better me i have taken courses on subjects online that i was always interested but couldnt do it because i was always drunk or hungover. I have time now to workout study and my family is proud of me. Alcohol took away at least a decade from me i am 31 now and its not too late for me to get into a good career and become that person everyone likes and not that person who offends everyone while intoxicated. God Bless

    • @KP-05
      @KP-05 3 роки тому

      Facts

  • @NoName718.
    @NoName718. 3 роки тому +31

    It’s crazy to see how life can turn out. These young kids run around on top of the world then boom. I’m not a skateboarder but I remember him on rob and big and he was like a 16 yr old phenom.

    • @sambo198921
      @sambo198921 3 роки тому +1

      Me too I remember that too

  • @generationofbmx
    @generationofbmx 2 роки тому +2

    So stoked to see your a Christian! Born again believer here too man and I have struggled with weekend drinking on and off most of my life. Thank you for your testimony! God Bless and stay Rad!

  • @CarlosSanchez-ev3bn
    @CarlosSanchez-ev3bn 3 роки тому +14

    Shout out to this dude. There’s tons of people going thru the struggle. You are representing us well

  • @drthunder4544
    @drthunder4544 3 роки тому +6

    Ryan is a true role model, skateboarding needs him.

  • @4arturo6
    @4arturo6 3 роки тому +66

    Im geniunely happy watching this interview. Being real with yourself is probably the biggest key in life due to the decisions you'll make off of that. God bless whoever read this and know its never too late to face your inner self and become your true self

  • @killmonger4169
    @killmonger4169 3 роки тому +5

    “Not in the cards for me” spot on. This is the line I told myself the last time I drank. A year sober soon

  • @joshuapmorse4780
    @joshuapmorse4780 3 роки тому +6

    Ryan shows a great side of his life. I can relate with him so much. So happy he got back on track!

  • @artisticendeavorsemmorris.3165
    @artisticendeavorsemmorris.3165 3 роки тому +10

    Much respect! He’s a sweet person I met him a few times at the Dew Tour. We all have places we go. When stress and other life’s challenges come up. I appreciate he opened up about this.

  • @blraider9724
    @blraider9724 3 роки тому +24

    As someone in recovery I can’t tell you how comforting it is to see more and more people be open, honest and outspoken about their struggles with addiction. The public’s historical stigma of having an addiction and how it slots you as a person is the primary reason I believe most people won’t get help. That was the biggest barrier for me and it wasn’t until I met people struggling like me that I was finally able realize that I wasn’t alone in this fight and I should’ve be ashamed of it. Thanks for showing this type of content.

    • @AnonymousQwerty
      @AnonymousQwerty 2 роки тому +2

      Much love brother

    • @ShogunateDaimyo
      @ShogunateDaimyo Рік тому

      There's nothing to be ashamed of. Especially once you take accountability for wrong past actions and have the courage to change. That's pretty much the definition of being a quality human being and having self respect.

  • @shariblock
    @shariblock Рік тому +2

    I love how in touch he is with his feelings. Loved it when he was like that on the show too. Very inspiring to just be you.

  • @robloftus13
    @robloftus13 2 роки тому +2

    Oh fuck yea. I get filled with so much gratitude when I see people I looked up to as a kid get humble and vulnerable and talk about their struggles and how they found recovery.
    As a person in recovery myself, these kinds of videos are inspiring.

  • @crittlebubs
    @crittlebubs 3 роки тому +76

    “Felt this warmth come over me...” I love that Ryan mentioned this. Thank you Holy Spirit🙌🏼

    • @marqqqddr
      @marqqqddr 3 роки тому +1

      How do you know it's the "Holy Spirit" he's feeling?

    • @cale8309
      @cale8309 3 роки тому +1

      @Mark prolly because she’s felt it before

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +1

      We know the feeling of the Holy Spirit with us, and the rapture really could happen any day. Jesus told us to watch- Matthew 24:42-44 and Matthew 25 for the wise virgins. It's a great motivator to know it's imminent. Maranatha.

    • @marqqqddr
      @marqqqddr 2 роки тому +3

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways that's nonsense. Why do you believe the Bible is anything more than an ancient book written by humans without any scientific understanding?

    • @nonmutualgroup
      @nonmutualgroup 2 роки тому

      @@marqqqddr Christians know everything thats going to happen and can explain everything..

  • @jeffharden2797
    @jeffharden2797 2 роки тому +3

    Amazing and open interview! Thanks. I’ve been drinking so hard it was making me shake in the morning. Prayed for strength, should be detoxed by tomorrow (hopefully) but most importantly, my heads clear and I’m thinking positive thoughts.

  • @justinlloyd3921
    @justinlloyd3921 Рік тому +1

    Ryan is so true open and honest, probably one of my favorite interviews I've watched to date nothing but respect

  • @amachvt
    @amachvt Рік тому +1

    He got me when he said that he lived a very fulfilled life, when so many people blame their circumstances. This guy took personal responsibility and made that change. Respect!

  • @spoonerluv
    @spoonerluv 3 роки тому +31

    Glad Ryan found something that is working, addiction is a lifelong battle for the overwhelming majority. Most of us have been or will be impacted by addiction in some way.

    • @catwoman1149
      @catwoman1149 3 роки тому

      @Joel Moore Couldn't say it better.

    • @stalin1909
      @stalin1909 3 роки тому

      Wisdom brother , wisdom and the truth

  • @jamescaricola6439
    @jamescaricola6439 3 роки тому +3

    I was surprised when I learned threw this interview that Ryan was like me and couldn’t drink safely. I’m a few years older then him but did watch him grow up into the super star he is. He’s a beast and much respect for sharing his experience because that gives people hope.

  • @angelashelley2711
    @angelashelley2711 3 роки тому +2

    Top 5 of the most authentic interviews I’ve ever seen. Best wishes Ryan.

  • @cg741graf5
    @cg741graf5 2 роки тому +1

    Well what a refreshing dialogue and not pretentious or holding punches. Moving from one topic to another seamlessly and with an intent of purpose. Kudos to Ryan and his ‘family’ for truth in the journey. 🌟

  • @marketwizard8012
    @marketwizard8012 3 роки тому +4

    This dude has been the man since I was a kid . So much respect for him

  • @MarCoReacts
    @MarCoReacts 3 роки тому +6

    I wish my brother was more like this man. Takes a man to say they need help and go to treatment.

  • @megancarman8193
    @megancarman8193 2 роки тому

    Fellowship in recovery! We in it need to be brave and talk about it! So proud of you! Sending prayers and love! Its a beautiful new life!

  • @jenniferlehmann217
    @jenniferlehmann217 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your authenticity Ryan. Much respect...

  • @kee7678
    @kee7678 3 роки тому +47

    Hey Ryan, Good for you bro!!!! I'm super stoked for you as Jesus gives us our Hope. So many don't know HIm but think they know all ABOUT Him, but the truth is, Jesus is the LIFE. Happy for you Ryan. God bless and keep on keepin on!

    • @staygold5280
      @staygold5280 3 роки тому +1

      Amen!

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +2

      Amen. Lots of fake Christians, and I was one of them in the Baptist church all my life until God started speaking to me on June 28, 2004. I have been on YT for over four years because the Lord told me to warn people that the rapture is happening. Don't want anyone to be left behind, but most are not born again. Praying someone will surrender to Jesus Christ completely today. It's not religion but a personal relationship.

    • @kee7678
      @kee7678 2 роки тому

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Good for you bro. God bless you and we'll be chilling and hanging together eventually, with our Father so...until then...sharing the good news and makin disciples!

  • @hakeemorozco6712
    @hakeemorozco6712 3 роки тому +6

    I could relate to this man
    Big times in and out of Jails and institutions now by the Mercy and Grace of God I’m sober.
    Amén 🙏🏽

  • @carter4597
    @carter4597 3 роки тому

    Really appreciate this dude’s honesty and courage.

  • @matthewjohnson2704
    @matthewjohnson2704 10 місяців тому +1

    Man this is such a great interview, thank you for being so open Ryan!

  • @kathleenchapman3890
    @kathleenchapman3890 3 роки тому +4

    When things get tough and the people who love you say you have to change, you have to listen.

  • @angus3139
    @angus3139 3 роки тому +3

    good for you bro!! I'm sober 11,463 days. (31 years

  • @Nathan-hd6lp
    @Nathan-hd6lp 2 роки тому +2

    Much respect for sharing your story Ryan, you've been an idol for so many and to show the darker side takes balls but is sooo important

  • @ericschafer9178
    @ericschafer9178 3 роки тому

    He seems like a very down to earth dude, which is humbling to see. It takes a very special kind of person to be in the spotlight for their entire short life to not develop a huge ego. I’m glad he’s taking the right steps in life to feel better. Addiction is brutal I’ve been there and it takes a lot of courage to turn it around, god bless 🙏🏼

  • @phdr754
    @phdr754 3 роки тому +5

    "12 Steps" is a BLUEPRINT for life ANYONE could use, should use. How many of us have the same story? Terminal Uniqueness? - Dangerous Feeling!
    I was 28. We - No Doubt - have the same Higher Power, I call mine by a different name.
    Your Brothers will do what they will......glad your an example of how a Man walks thru this.

  • @sergiolewes
    @sergiolewes 2 роки тому +5

    The way alcohol makes me feel the day after drinking, keeps me totally out of it. Glad to see Ryan well

    • @markl5998
      @markl5998 2 роки тому

      The day after is the absolute worst. Everything sucks

    • @chrisjames4248
      @chrisjames4248 Рік тому

      100%. I just became so sick of feeling like crap the next day. I just stopped. Haven’t thought about having a drink for 5 years. I know some people need help, And should always reach out if you can’t do it yourself. Drinking is a waste of time, money and is always full of regret.

  • @Coasterkitty7
    @Coasterkitty7 2 роки тому +1

    I'm a recovering alcoholic, too. Thank you, Ryan for being so honest and open about your addiction and religion.

  • @kcook8023
    @kcook8023 3 роки тому

    Preach!!! A day you remembered is a day to be proud of! Life is good. Happy for ya

  • @nathanmieure4071
    @nathanmieure4071 3 роки тому +3

    Powerful message.

  • @thedriver8534
    @thedriver8534 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you JESUS! He gave us the 12 steps that gave me a life back. after 20 years of sobriety I am so thankful

    • @TheWillog
      @TheWillog 2 роки тому +1

      did jesus give you the alcohol in the first place also ?

  • @platinumhandymansolutions
    @platinumhandymansolutions 3 роки тому

    Ryan thank you for sharing this story. Amazing on the board and off the board. Glad you are doing well.

  • @anthonyjesse5880
    @anthonyjesse5880 3 роки тому +1

    im so thankful heairng this from such a soul.

  • @89sunnydays
    @89sunnydays 3 роки тому +3

    Wow, I’ve been a fan forever of him forever, I am so glad that he is in a good path, God bless you Ryan 🙌🏻 I hope you impact many with your testimony ❤️

  • @voisin24cooking50
    @voisin24cooking50 3 роки тому +57

    this is amazing this interview is so well done and inspiring

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому +16

      Thanks for the kind words, glad you enjoyed the interview! -AD

    • @neuralbliss
      @neuralbliss 3 роки тому +2

      Graham is a wonderful interviewer.

    • @tyronebiggums3853
      @tyronebiggums3853 3 роки тому +1

      @@GrahamBensinger the canelo piece was incredible, thank you !

  • @sinatramnzzz928
    @sinatramnzzz928 3 роки тому

    its awesome how open and honest he is about this subject, not many celebrities are willing to talk about. '
    he has the power to inspire millions.

  • @chrivison
    @chrivison 3 роки тому

    Shouts out all the people out there doing their thing and getting better or wanting to. Graham does what he does best here and brings a lot of us here for strength. Thank you for sharing and being strong Ryan, if you read this lol. Shouts out.

  • @PaulHarwood856
    @PaulHarwood856 3 роки тому +10

    I think the reason he drank again after initially getting sober is because it didn't feel normal to be sober. Count how long it's been partying and how long it was before partying and this concept makes sense. It really takes a strong human being to admit you have a problem, and not only that, but to embrace sobriety and tell others your story. I've been fascinated with Ryan's skating but honestly I now respect him on another whole level. Thank you Ryan and Graham for sharing a very intriguing success story. - Paul

    • @ShogunateDaimyo
      @ShogunateDaimyo Рік тому +1

      So true. You're either finally getting to know you're true self or you're getting to know your sober self all over again. It can be scary at first but it's so worth it.

    • @PaulHarwood856
      @PaulHarwood856 Рік тому

      @@ShogunateDaimyo True that! I have no regrets being sober and feel so much better and clear minded. Some people get uneasy when I don't say yes to drugs or drinking, and I think this is because they can't imagine having a good time without using. People places and things really help too. I imagine Ryan knows that one. It's difficult at first, but you then realize who really are your friends and who aren't.

  • @neuralbliss
    @neuralbliss 3 роки тому +111

    “Frankly, there isn't anyone you couldn't learn to love once you've heard their story.”

    • @zinkr5470
      @zinkr5470 3 роки тому +1

      True words

    • @joshuahymer15
      @joshuahymer15 3 роки тому +1

      Hitler?

    • @byronbass1370
      @byronbass1370 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah there is. Thats dumb

    • @cnote8061
      @cnote8061 3 роки тому +8

      @@byronbass1370 Dude obviously we're not talking about the trash of the trash. We're not talking about pedophiles, rapists and mass murderers. We're talking about flawed people. At least I hope the guy who made the comment is.

    • @stalin1909
      @stalin1909 3 роки тому +2

      That is so true man . it really is . because it simply breaks down whoever it is , to a human . just a human like all of us .

  • @gustavogonzalez3004
    @gustavogonzalez3004 3 роки тому

    He’ll yeah Ryan ! Way to be strong and open to sharing your story. Both my parents are in recovery and I seen what it does to the people you love. One day at a time.

  • @Workfourit
    @Workfourit 3 роки тому +1

    Just ran across this interview, really good to see that Ryan was not ashamed to share that he believes in Jesus and not ashamed of Christ, we need more younger people like this to not be ashamed. It all starts with the grandparents and beyond, all the prayers they sent down to there kids and family chain. Beautiful to see I hope it gets back to that.

  • @matthewconway1494
    @matthewconway1494 3 роки тому +4

    Four an half years sober, and still going strong 💪.

  • @ebenezeradjei6587
    @ebenezeradjei6587 3 роки тому +3

    so proud of him! i remember playing tony hawk as a kid using him and bam often. time flies, only 31.

  • @furrfurr
    @furrfurr 3 роки тому

    Thank you Ryan... this was very impactful and will help me tremendously

  • @slipknot7424
    @slipknot7424 3 роки тому +2

    Beating addiction is the hardest thing a human can do especially when you’re extremely wealthy with the World and everything in it is at your feet. Keep up the good work Ryan and remember there’s millions of people going through the same exact thing.

  • @vance12341234
    @vance12341234 3 роки тому +24

    I used to enjoy Ryan on MTV.

    • @alr1577
      @alr1577 3 роки тому +8

      yeah his mom was a babe

    • @JesusForgivesSin
      @JesusForgivesSin 3 роки тому

      Me too, it was entertaining to watch

  • @joshkerslake11
    @joshkerslake11 2 роки тому +3

    Absolute legend! So powerful, raw and inspiring. Thankyou Ryan🙏Takes courage to lay it all out to the public like that.

  • @j.j.aguilar
    @j.j.aguilar 3 роки тому

    needed this ! God bless you Ryan !

  • @grandmasterjay2190
    @grandmasterjay2190 Рік тому

    🙏🏾 happy I seen this video . Stay strong Brother

  • @swagjackinduck
    @swagjackinduck 3 роки тому +41

    Hes on a great path because he knows the power of Jesus.

    • @mattsmith3835
      @mattsmith3835 3 роки тому +3

      Absolutely! Jesus loves us unconditionally and is all forgiving. Accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, inviting him into your life and into your heart is by far the best, smartest, greatest decision you can ever make!

    • @brandonleeps
      @brandonleeps 3 роки тому +6

      There is no god. You’re delusional. It’s important that people tell you that. Stop being a child.

    • @theway3058
      @theway3058 2 роки тому +1

      Jesus is the only answer.

  • @upshotMusicTV
    @upshotMusicTV 3 роки тому +3

    What an incredible story. Dude seems like a very legit guy

  • @KC--1776
    @KC--1776 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing interview and very encouraging. Thank you.

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! -AD

  • @bmcminn8838
    @bmcminn8838 3 роки тому

    You always interview the best people you rarely get to hear from like this

  • @jamier6742
    @jamier6742 3 роки тому +8

    🗣Basic
    🗣Instructions
    🗣Before
    🗣Leaving
    🗣Earth
    😇
    🙏
    Amen Brother!
    Stay Blessed!!!
    👊😇👊😇👊😇

  • @humbertosolis5758
    @humbertosolis5758 3 роки тому +3

    That is So Awesome, You have No Idea how much I Needed to hear this because of my Struggles with alcohol, and because I also believe in Jesus and want to go with Him in The Rapture... Thank You! You have No idea, God bless you my brother

  • @phillipmartin7717
    @phillipmartin7717 3 роки тому

    God this kid was all I watched I completely forgot about him inspirational then and now kids need real people like this speaking more on these platforms

  • @skepticatbest
    @skepticatbest 3 роки тому

    Sheckler - this was awesome. Great to here. Thanks buddy

  • @monstamonstas2274
    @monstamonstas2274 3 роки тому +4

    That's an awesome story bro. I'm glad that you're saved and that you believe in Jesus. You are truly going to be blessed more than you already have and you will bless those around you. Even if you don't read this, which you probably won't, God bless you and your family. Much love and respect brother

  • @BVonBuescher
    @BVonBuescher 3 роки тому +42

    As a product of the skateboarding/punk rock culture of the 90s, I can attest to how easy it is to slip into the party lifestyle.
    We are just a bunch of tatted up Peter Pans with a penchant for partying hard and livin day to day.
    I found my way out of a similar hole. Ish ain’t easy, but we all gotta grow up eventually. I found my connection with God and haven’t looked back since.

    • @buttneked3963
      @buttneked3963 3 роки тому +5

      Been sober since 9-2002 53 years old now and I’ll never “grow up” but I did become a man and I matured a little. My mother is 83 I’m still her kid and I refuse to grow up. Quote for sons: “A man doesn’t become a man until the day his father dies”. My father died 5-31-2002. The Lord took drugs and alcohol from me before 9-7-2002

    • @BVonBuescher
      @BVonBuescher 3 роки тому +3

      @@buttneked3963 Thanks for sharing bro.
      I feel ya there. I still play music and am young at heart too.
      All the best to you and your family. Much love.

    • @TheTrey181
      @TheTrey181 3 роки тому +1

      Much love from dallas. You too men make me wanna do better and I plan to do better. I'm 22 and feel stuck but seeing grown men who've came out of darkness and shined makes me know, there is hope. So thank you for reminding me. Both of you. Thank you.

    • @dimaermolenko98
      @dimaermolenko98 2 роки тому

      Yeah man growing up to believe in Santa clause again.

  • @Lukeflesh
    @Lukeflesh 3 роки тому

    Thanks Ryan.. im a believer down in the dumps, this message has really hit home. See ya there!

  • @carlosgpacheco1621
    @carlosgpacheco1621 3 роки тому +1

    Yeah bro, thanks for sharing, you are a champion! Greetings from Mexico!

  • @smb2265
    @smb2265 3 роки тому +30

    Great interview. Glad to see he is on the path to redemption. Everyone I know who has become extremely successful has gone through the tribulations of success. Money , sex and materialistic possessions, but they never got enough. There was still a hole in them, and they didn't know what it was.

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому +7

      Glad you enjoyed the interview, thanks for watching. -AD

    • @catwoman1149
      @catwoman1149 3 роки тому

      @Bleeding Edge Well, it's not that hard to understand the reason why. Those people mostly chose earning money and fame over living a sustainable and happy life. It's the prize they pay for always wanna be better, faster, richer, more beautiful than everybody else.

    • @datazndood
      @datazndood Рік тому

      It’s because no matter how successful more often then not these people are spiritually dead inside. Not that being a monk in a desolate land somewhere will make you whole but the western model clearly does not work. I know people who pray and commit themselves to enlightenment and they aren’t complete either. It is the human condition and suffering and sadness is apart of it since happiness and euphoria is also there.

  • @wesdaaawg
    @wesdaaawg 2 роки тому +3

    Shout outs to Shecks for getting his life together before things got too dark. He’s still relatively young and by going sober at his age, he is going to avoid a lot of torment later on down the line

  • @joebrellahan8444
    @joebrellahan8444 3 роки тому

    Awesome man really you have a great platform to change lives brother ty

  • @codykoplin5337
    @codykoplin5337 2 роки тому

    Love you shecks! Always loved you bro. I'm 12 years sober from drugs and alcohol. I started going to AA and another recovery group through my church. Bless you
    Much love brother!
    Jay Adams
    Christian Hosoi
    Ryan Sheckler
    Cody Koplin
    Staying sober it takes a lot of hard work and dedication.

  • @TheZeek011
    @TheZeek011 3 роки тому +27

    Amen brother, Glory to Jesus Christ.
    Keep at it Ryan.

    • @rickeykoga2312
      @rickeykoga2312 2 роки тому

      How did Jesus help him?

    • @CarterOfTheWord
      @CarterOfTheWord 2 роки тому

      @@rickeykoga2312 Jesus opened the doorway to the God’s eternal glory

  • @tonybellick7841
    @tonybellick7841 3 роки тому +27

    Matthew 11:28 says : “ Come to me , all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
    With God’s help you can turn around too. If you’re not a believer at least have an open mind and an open heart for the bible and God. He’s always by your side and if you’re willing to change he’ll help you. God bless !

    • @kingdomoverculturePodcast
      @kingdomoverculturePodcast 3 роки тому +3

      Facts

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому

      That's the truth! We stay with our Bibles open and read it daily to keep us on the straight and narrow and in love with Jesus with all our heart, mind, soul and strength and to love our neighbor as ourself. Jesus really is coming to rapture us any day. We have to sound the alarm that the time to repent and trust in Jesus is now. Maranatha.

  • @danpauch2035
    @danpauch2035 3 роки тому +1

    I hope that whatever gets u through the day to day is fulfilling for you. Best skateboarder under 35 on the planet. Keep wowing the skate fans ryan

  • @YagerNation
    @YagerNation 3 роки тому +1

    Love all these interviews from Graham!!!

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому

      Thanks! Love that you're watching, make sure you're subscribed, we've got some great stuff coming up! -AD

    • @trailblazer77
      @trailblazer77 3 роки тому +1

      @@GrahamBensinger what the hell does the AD mean?

  • @edwinguzman8198
    @edwinguzman8198 3 роки тому +3

    Not a coincidence this popped up on my recommendation’s. Maybe its time to start listening to the person on the other shoulder 😒

  • @llpressstartll7894
    @llpressstartll7894 3 роки тому +5

    shecks kickflipping everything was my youth man

  • @LucasPenido
    @LucasPenido 3 роки тому

    I already liked Ryan Schecklet, now I have the utmost respect! AA is a lifesaver and works! If you are reading this and going through pain, don’t wait any longer! There’s an AA near you! God Bless you in your recovery brother!

  • @schawnettarobinson8584
    @schawnettarobinson8584 Рік тому

    My mother was my best friend. She showed me grace and peace.