Whether you're looking for something short or longer term, you still need to create that spark. Don't be afraid to let the conversation wander into the risque. That will also get her laughing... because they're not laughing it off, but they're laughing it in. Every woman has a step-by-step mental process that she will go through as she finds herself falling in love and attraction. Try and probe her to find out what that is and what her values are, and then demonstrate that you understand this. As she begins to recollect that process, she will relive the experience with you present and you'll create the desired impression. You'll have to gauge her level of interest before going somewhere private, but definitely no touching in public until then.
One thing for sure is, have a great sense of humour! We enjoy a good laugh... It's in our dna 😅. She will judge you based on your character. She will see how you treat other people in public. Smile!!! Or she'll think you're a grumpy person. Indos loves to smile
Thank you Minimalist Nomad for the helpful information. Very insightful. New subscriber here from the US. And, I see that it's a bit 'warm' there too. lol
Klo gadis indo yg pertama dilihat adalah agama dan kesopanan ato moral.Kedua laki laki harus yg humoris yg dapat menghiburnya dalam melakukan kencan pertama. Ketiga jangan sekali kali menyentuh atau memegang tanganya karena gadis indo sangat pemalu.beri pujian kepada gadis indonesia dengan memuji apa yg disukai oleh laki seperti menyebut matamu sangat indah bila seorang laki laki menyukai mata gadis indonesia dan jangan memuji terlalu berlebihan atau gombalan yang berlebihan.
Anda benar, cewek Indonesia sangat berhati2 terhadap orang asing.orang indonesia memang sangat antusias terhadap orang luar tapi untuk menjalin cinta mereka sangatlah berhati2.itu sebabnya cewek indonesia yang menikah dengan orang asing masih sedikit bila dibandingkan dengan cewek2 pilipina.
Summary of this video: ## The Dos and Don'ts of Dating an Indonesian Woman for the First Time🇮🇩 ### Chapter When dating an Indonesian woman for the first time, it's important to understand the cultural differences and be respectful. First, it's crucial to take the initiative and plan the date, suggesting a public meeting place like a coffee shop or park. Avoid inviting her directly to your home or private space. Be aware that she may bring a chaperon, such as a friend or cousin, as this is common and helps her feel more comfortable. In terms of appearance, dress neatly and presentably, but avoid overly casual or flashy attire. Grooming, such as shaving, is also important. During the date, be a gentleman - open doors, pay the bill, and avoid inappropriate touching. Conversation should be relaxed and focused on getting to know her, rather than bragging about your achievements or material possessions. Steer clear of topics like religion, politics, or her family, as these can be sensitive. Maintain a polite, humble, and respectful demeanor throughout the date. At the end, simply pay the bill and say goodbye, without offering cash or gifts, as that could be perceived as offensive. The goal is to make a good impression and show genuine interest in her and her culture. ### Chapter When continuing the first date with an Indonesian woman, it's important to be respectful of the local norms and traditions. You can offer a handshake if she seems comfortable with it, but some women may prefer not to. At the end of the date, you can wave goodbye, say thank you, and compliment the conversation to provide her with positive feedback. However, avoid any physical affection like hugging or kissing, as public displays of intimacy are generally not accepted, even for married couples. After the date, send her a quick message expressing that you enjoyed meeting her and would like to see her again if you're interested. Indonesian women can sometimes feel pressure to constantly entertain their date, so this message can help reassure her. When moving forward, be patient and let her take the lead - don't try to impress her with expensive gifts or activities. Stick to a "high school dating" mindset, focusing on getting to know her and spending quality time together rather than money. Overall, remain polite, respectful, and interested in learning about her culture and background.
I'm chatting an Indo woman in my country the Netherlands She is 26 and i am 32 She works as a nurse, and already speaks Dutch pretty well ! I look forward to ask her out soon. She is a muslim tho, I grew up with no religion. do you think it wil be an issue ?
It's gonna be an issue if you make it an issue. It will depend on her mostly. Will she be open to a relationship with a Non-Muslim? That's the question. Don't sweat it too much. Stay cool and look forward to your first date.👍
I want to support your channel with your memberships. Also want to be able to get consults from you. Your content is very rich and unique with content. Thank you
if suppose I want to marry an indonesian girl and she also wants to marry me her falimy and my family is ready for us to get married but the problem is i want a background check on her family if what they are saying and explaning is true or not how can i do it like a genuine background check like how was her family in the past 10 years and how she was from her childhood please help me out sir
If you are not working at the Police Department then I guess you would have to hire a private detective to find out 😉. Seriously, I have no clue how to background-check these people.
Yes. Stay patient. Regarding red flags: Indonesian women, the good ones (and there are many of them here) are not very manipulative, at least not in a negative way. They "play" their "games" with you of course but this is what any woman does: she is testing you without you realizing it.
Can you be specific.. it is not about Indonesia as a whole I guess.. the girls from Bali are different from girls in Jakarta because of Islam influence and Buddhism influence.. it will never be the same..in some places your not even allowed to stay with a girl in same hotel if not married..
To be too specific will be difficult in a country with over 1300 ethnicities, 17000 islands and many different regions. But I can tell you that I have dated girls in Medan (Sumatra), Batam (Riau), Jakarta, Yogyakarta, Surabaya (Java) and Bali. The dating rules I describe apply to all of these different girls and areas.
Jakarta must be expensive and chaotic, Bali isnt my kind of place with full of tourists and it is an island. Bandung i watched videos and liked the hype.
Whether you're looking for something short or longer term, you still need to create that spark. Don't be afraid to let the conversation wander into the risque. That will also get her laughing... because they're not laughing it off, but they're laughing it in. Every woman has a step-by-step mental process that she will go through as she finds herself falling in love and attraction. Try and probe her to find out what that is and what her values are, and then demonstrate that you understand this. As she begins to recollect that process, she will relive the experience with you present and you'll create the desired impression. You'll have to gauge her level of interest before going somewhere private, but definitely no touching in public until then.
Woop! Been waiting for this one. Good video, really good practical tips 😊
One thing for sure is, have a great sense of humour! We enjoy a good laugh... It's in our dna 😅. She will judge you based on your character. She will see how you treat other people in public. Smile!!! Or she'll think you're a grumpy person. Indos loves to smile
Agree!👍
Thank you Minimalist Nomad for the helpful information. Very insightful. New subscriber here from the US. And, I see that it's a bit 'warm' there too. lol
Thanks Mate!👍
Klo gadis indo yg pertama dilihat adalah agama dan kesopanan ato moral.Kedua laki laki harus yg humoris yg dapat menghiburnya dalam melakukan kencan pertama. Ketiga jangan sekali kali menyentuh atau memegang tanganya karena gadis indo sangat pemalu.beri pujian kepada gadis indonesia dengan memuji apa yg disukai oleh laki seperti menyebut matamu sangat indah bila seorang laki laki menyukai mata gadis indonesia dan jangan memuji terlalu berlebihan atau gombalan yang berlebihan.
ah sotoy nih.. justru pegang tangan kuncinya kalo mau ngelanjut...
Anda benar, cewek Indonesia sangat berhati2 terhadap orang asing.orang indonesia memang sangat antusias terhadap orang luar tapi untuk menjalin cinta mereka sangatlah berhati2.itu sebabnya cewek indonesia yang menikah dengan orang asing masih sedikit bila dibandingkan dengan cewek2 pilipina.
Super 👍👍👍 you know how to treat Indonesian women very well
Summary of this video:
## The Dos and Don'ts of Dating an Indonesian Woman for the First Time🇮🇩
### Chapter
When dating an Indonesian woman for the first time, it's important to understand the cultural differences and be respectful. First, it's crucial to take the initiative and plan the date, suggesting a public meeting place like a coffee shop or park. Avoid inviting her directly to your home or private space. Be aware that she may bring a chaperon, such as a friend or cousin, as this is common and helps her feel more comfortable.
In terms of appearance, dress neatly and presentably, but avoid overly casual or flashy attire. Grooming, such as shaving, is also important. During the date, be a gentleman - open doors, pay the bill, and avoid inappropriate touching. Conversation should be relaxed and focused on getting to know her, rather than bragging about your achievements or material possessions. Steer clear of topics like religion, politics, or her family, as these can be sensitive.
Maintain a polite, humble, and respectful demeanor throughout the date. At the end, simply pay the bill and say goodbye, without offering cash or gifts, as that could be perceived as offensive. The goal is to make a good impression and show genuine interest in her and her culture.
### Chapter
When continuing the first date with an Indonesian woman, it's important to be respectful of the local norms and traditions. You can offer a handshake if she seems comfortable with it, but some women may prefer not to. At the end of the date, you can wave goodbye, say thank you, and compliment the conversation to provide her with positive feedback. However, avoid any physical affection like hugging or kissing, as public displays of intimacy are generally not accepted, even for married couples.
After the date, send her a quick message expressing that you enjoyed meeting her and would like to see her again if you're interested. Indonesian women can sometimes feel pressure to constantly entertain their date, so this message can help reassure her. When moving forward, be patient and let her take the lead - don't try to impress her with expensive gifts or activities. Stick to a "high school dating" mindset, focusing on getting to know her and spending quality time together rather than money. Overall, remain polite, respectful, and interested in learning about her culture and background.
Well done!👍
Thank you for all your information
You are welcome!👍
I'm chatting an Indo woman in my country the Netherlands She is 26 and i am 32
She works as a nurse, and already speaks Dutch pretty well !
I look forward to ask her out soon.
She is a muslim tho, I grew up with no religion. do you think it wil be an issue ?
It's gonna be an issue if you make it an issue. It will depend on her mostly. Will she be open to a relationship with a Non-Muslim? That's the question. Don't sweat it too much. Stay cool and look forward to your first date.👍
@@MinimalistNomad yes i wil do thank you.
our love language is teasing.
Meet @ "Up 2 you café"
Hello. Great video. Indonesia amazing country.
Thanks👍
Good dating tips.
I want to support your channel with your memberships. Also want to be able to get consults from you. Your content is very rich and unique with content. Thank you
if suppose I want to marry an indonesian girl and she also wants to marry me her falimy and my family is ready for us to get married but the problem is i want a background check on her family if what they are saying and explaning is true or not
how can i do it like a genuine background check like how was her family in the past 10 years and how she was from her childhood please help me out sir
If you are not working at the Police Department then I guess you would have to hire a private detective to find out 😉. Seriously, I have no clue how to background-check these people.
Just visit her home and ask her neighbour-friends-otherfamilymember even maid.
@@Daisy-bs1on yah that can be a solution thankyou Daisy
Very good. I’m guessing that you must take it very cool and don’t rush the outcome. Gives time to look for red flags. Cheers. DD
Yes. Stay patient. Regarding red flags: Indonesian women, the good ones (and there are many of them here) are not very manipulative, at least not in a negative way. They "play" their "games" with you of course but this is what any woman does: she is testing you without you realizing it.
Can you be specific.. it is not about Indonesia as a whole I guess.. the girls from Bali are different from girls in Jakarta because of Islam influence and Buddhism influence.. it will never be the same..in some places your not even allowed to stay with a girl in same hotel if not married..
To be too specific will be difficult in a country with over 1300 ethnicities, 17000 islands and many different regions. But I can tell you that I have dated girls in Medan (Sumatra), Batam (Riau), Jakarta, Yogyakarta, Surabaya (Java) and Bali. The dating rules I describe apply to all of these different girls and areas.
You shouldn’t have to text her everyday. I don’t like the idea of making Indonesian girls inclined to constantly text you. What do you think is this??
Texting shows careness. If u don't they'll think u don't care
A woman laughing is a woman conquered. 🤣
Nice👍
Which city is best for date? Preferably less women with head scarf cities for example?
Jakarta and Bali for starters.
Mostly beautiful woman is in bandung
Jakarta must be expensive and chaotic, Bali isnt my kind of place with full of tourists and it is an island. Bandung i watched videos and liked the hype.
Jakarta, Bali, Medan, Batam and Manado
How much men expected to earn from Indonesian women perspective
Only sex with legal husband. That in real our culture.but bad girl or boy break the rule
Dont say indognesia
:)