HOW TO DRESS LIKE A GENTLEMAN IN DAILY LIFE
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In this video your host discusses how to dress like a gentleman in daily life.
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Most days one can wear a button down shirt with a collar, nice dress trousers or chinos with nice shiny pair of shoes, and be the best dressed in sight. I like that summery shirt you are wearing.
You can indeed. The bar is set very low in modern life
I think I had 4 phases of dressing well, about 6 months between stages..
1. Awakening to the fact that I had slept walked life for the last 10 years, dressing like I'm still living in the Uni Dorm, got a bit flabby around the edges, the hair is a bit unloved and the beard bushy and it hits you that I have become a bit of a slob, I think it hits most of us at about 35. Started wearing clothes and items I already had, like swapping cargo trousers for plain jeans, T-Shirts for Polos/Shirts, trainers for Chukka Boots, Grotty old G-Shock for a nicer looking watch (I had a smart looking FOSSIL Chronograph that I didn't wear), The Hoody for a bomber jacket started to workout, diet and the od visit to the Barbour and beard trim. It cost nothing (Apart form the hair cuts) and I had gone from slob to smart casual and people noticed and the confidence grows.
2. Swap the jeans for Chinos and the Polo for a Button down shirt (tucked in) a few times a week as well as introducing a signature scent, buy a half decent watch (For me at this stage I got an Omega 200 Quartz 38mm), it didn't cost that much and it got alot of compliments. The 6 months of diet and workout started to show.
3. Once I got used to wearing Chinos and shirts as apart of the weekly rotation, I started to introduce a Sports Jacket a few times a week, a Navy Blue 2-Button Sports Jacket and a Earthy tone Tweed jacket. I found this the hardest part, I felt like I was over dressing but after a few weeks, it just became apart of the uniform.
4. Start to introduce suits to the mix, getting older suits tailored to fit properly, adding a tie and buying a Dinner Jacket for special occasions, going to more events like the theatre, fancy restaurant or functions that requires dressing up a few times a month with likeminded people.
For my journey, I certainly had role models all the way, Steve McQueen, Sean Connery that random well dressed guy that got on the same train carriage who somehow dressed exactly how I wanted to but I lacked the confidence to do so.
Exactly my way up. From white plain t-shirt to polo. From polo to OCBD. From old jeans to decent dark denim. From dark denim up to chinos. From some branded hoodie to harrington jacket. Harington jacket-grey herringbone sport jacket. Ugly sneakers-plain leather white sneakers-brogues....the list goes on and on.
Good on the fellow that asks for help and or advice. No shame in developing one’s game💪.
The early 90's want their shirt back, lol
It doesn't take drastic measures to up one's style. Instead of chunky trainers, get some nice leather sneakers or chukka boots. Instead of the torn jeans, get a nice pair of dark wash jeans or some chinos. Instead of the T-shirt, get a nice polo shirt. For the baseball cap, instead try a simple flat cap. Swap out the hoodie for a bomber jacket or nice sweater.
The evolution of style in just a few sentences sir - bravo!
spot on
Great shirt. When the time comes to turn it into pocket squares, all those colors will look harmonious! And while I’m here - in the USA the summers can get BRUTAL. So I have no idea why t-shirts are so popular here - they cling to the body, and retain heat! I recommend Oxford cloth, because that rough texture allows the skin room to breathe.
This shirt really wants to grow up and become a mature pocket square - but I actually rather like its contrarian style and really enjoy wearing it!
I like a nice a nice Grey suit.paired with a nice white shirt.and tie
Excellent. I admit to wearing joggers and t-shirts around the house...I have a lurcher and 3 ladies here at the moment, so I'm not wrecking good clothes butlering and cleaning up after them! ;) When there is the glimmer of a chance of donning gent's clothes, I do. Nipping over the Spar for bread and milk doesn't count. .... It's great that ties are not that popular... I see loads of fairly top names for next to nothing.... there are one or two brands that are staying stubbornly high in price though. ta.
Outside the celebs mentioned below, I’d recommend looking at Nick Foulkes, Tom Chamberlin, and Kirby Allison. Each have their own style; all are impeccably dressed.
Another valuable video, Ash! In Phoenix, Arizona these days, dressing without “Schlubbing down” can be a challenge in our 45C summer days. But its possible! Thanks again, Ash!
@@jonstern7511 linen or cotton/linen blends
You are right on. Straight forward advice. It is worth the time and effort.
you are my favorite mens dress channel on youtube and there are many.
Thank you sir.
@@TheChapsGuide I just finished architecture in Germany and I will work in a big engineering and architecture office. Sadly nobody wears a tie anymore and I was looking forward to wear the ties (bought beautiful ones second hand, thanks to your help). Everbody wears shirts and blazers and suits but without ties. Ifear they will look strange on me, when I as a junior architect wear a tie (that only, if at all the directors and ceos wear).
I am really in between just ignoring my surrounding and wear a tie or to adapt myself. I hate suits and blazers without ties - it looks incomplete to me and I know as an architect a thing or two about colors and proportion. Do you haven an idea?
All the best from berlin
Becoming more chap-like has helped me enormously in my everyday life. I feel much more confident, self-assured and now delight in being well turned out. Was a bit self-conscious at first, especially when I started wearing a tie and pocket square more regularly- but, now I’m used to it, I certainly wont go back!
Wonderful!
My own favourite has been Prince or rather King CHARLES, although I am not as slim as he is.
For a more bolder style search for pictures of American ANDRE CHURCHWELL.
For a gentlemanly style make sure of the following:
- always have your clothes neatly pressed
- always wear a pocket square
- always shine your shoes.
Sage advice
George Clooney, Daniel Craig would be modern role models in my opinion. Older choices Cary Grant, David Niven.
Great choices sir
David Niven!
And don't forget"Mistake is your teacher by the way even in your style😁"
That's a bargain on those Dunhill Ties. 💪
Great channel, stumbled across it recently! A book called Gentleman has never failed me.
most of my clothes are pre-owned but themed from that book 😅.
Welcome aboard!
Great advice Ash, having cleared out a portion of my wardrobe I'll take your advice on board when restocking it.
Great content, as always, Ash.
Personally, I'd suggest a holistic approach to one's wardrobe choices. Take into consideration the sort of employment and social circumstances you'll be wearing your clothes. Think about your physical shape, and the colouring of your skin, hair and eyes. Your hair (or lack thereof!). Think also about the climate where you'll be wearing them. All of these factors need to be taken into consideration.
Ask yourself some questions. Do you always want to be the "best dressed man in the room"? (Depends on the room.....) Does being "well dressed" really pay worthwhile dividends? I've received more than a few compliments and positive comments on my clothes, ties, shoes, etc. But being "admired" isn't necessarily the same as being loved. And I know which one I'd prefer.
Some guiding principles:
1) Be honest. Don't dress like a cowboy if you aren't one. Don't dress like a soldier or an NFL player or a fighter pilot if that's not who you are. Don't dress like Sherlock Holmes or Earl Grantham (from Downton Abbey). Because you live a hundred or more years after those men were dead and buried.
2) Be appropriate. Don't wear a suit to the beach. Don't wear shorts and an Aloha shirt to lunch in a smart restaurant. Think about when, and when not, it's right to wear a hat.
3) Given a choice, choose quality over quantity.
4) Take the long view. There are photos of me, dating from the 1980s, wearing garments that today look ridiculous. Parachute pants, that whole "Miami Vice" thing, and a dreadful acid-washed jean jacket. There are also pictures, dating from the same period, that make me smile. A nice tweed jacket, a well-cut Nino Cerutti suit, and a tasteful Brooks Brothers blue blazer. It's OK to make mistakes. But be honest about them.
Thanks Ash!
I find my dressing influence to closely mirror the men depicted in Norman Rockwell's paintings.
I like some of the movie stars of the 40's. John Gilbert immediately comes to mind. How about Gary Cooper and Clark Gable!
Cary Grant was always one of my favorites.
Practically ALL men dressed very well in those days, it was part of the popular culture and taste of that time.
Ash has so much confidence and class, he could wear a trash bag out in public and be more stylish than most of the slobs out there…
Speak for yourself.😳
I loved that one! 😂😂😂It is very true!
nice advice Mr.Ash. I like that you point out other people's styles that you like and want to mimic. I actually like Richard Hammond's style In his later years, I saw him in his Barbour jacket and tweed suit(I really want one someday). It's most likely my anglophilia but I really like the British countryside look with the tweed and wax jackets, always excited for fall to bring out my own wax jacket and tweed cap. One tip I give to someone who wants to dress a bit smarter is wear a collared shirt of any type, polo or button up, oxford or flannel. a collar just boosts up the formality a bit and I feel more confident with a collar shirt on.
Very nice short sleeve shirt, especially with the "camp collar" press. Not too often seen., these days, at least in the States.
Good morning sirs. I have Dressing the man book on my coffee table and look thru it often. A very good book and a great place to start. Great video again Ash.
All caught up now.
Timely advice.
I am about to embark on a week's technical training in deepest South-West Wiltshire where I may well need to pack for all seasons and possible social situations, let alone the kit I need to attend training.
This will straight off the back of 2 days in the Peak district. I will be the best dressed man on the hill!
I hope I am furnished with a large hire car...
As always a lovely video Ash, thank you for your work. Best regards.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great advice there and of course anyone looking to step up in style can also follow the many UA-camrs that are give style consultancy, much like yourself Ash. Must say you are looking very well dressed for summer Ash.
The journey to Chap Nirvana! :)
Great video as always Ash, thank you.
I've leaned to the formal side for many years now, but getting in shape has also been invaluable to developing and maintaining my confidence.
Very good observation. Good clothes mean nothing/do not look good on a bad looking body; that is why the classic dummies we see on displays on window shops replicate slim and athletic bodies. Have a nice day.
When it comes to attitude toward life and the way you go about, you are my role model Ash. Styling wise, we couldn't be further apart though. (except for your excellent watch collection 😉)
@@jonstern7511 I like my t-shirt and jeans in the summer. I wear Clarks, Nike, Adidas, whatever suits my mood that day. You could say my wardrobe is eclectic, I can dress up and down. In the winter I usually wear either sweaters or denim shirts with jeans or chinos. Buy most comfortable is just jeans and sneakers. Does that answer your question?
Good day to you Ash. Another great video! I have a question: What brand of Chinos would you recommend? I looking for a new model/brand. Cheers!
I have tried so many so called 'elite' level chinos and have come full circle back to Dockers brand, which are annoying cheap, but for me, they wear like a dream!
@@TheChapsGuide Thank you kindly for your answer Ash! I wish you a great day.
Start with shoes 👞 !!!
That printed shirt looks super cool for the summer
To where on the side of the foot do is the correct place for an inseam leg measurement?
I would suggest the break should be half way down the laces of your shoes, but everyone has a different preference - I suggest visiting a local alterations tailor for the best results, they will be able to discuss your preferences.
@@TheChapsGuide
Thanks. I am thinking about getting a suit from Bookster. I like their traditional styling.
You would never see that shirt in your book.😂
*ouch*
If I may say, one should look at Tom Cruise if they have a body similar to Tom Cruise. Don't look at Tom Cruise if you have a body like John Candy and vice versa.