I had a friend cut me off & it completely blindsided me. I saw her as my sister and didn’t realize how much resentment and animosity she had towards me!!! You know what it made me think about? All of the girls who got set up by their friends, either by being attacked or murdered, and they didn’t expect it. It’s so scary when someone you thought was cool with you, secretly hates you. May God protect us.
@@viciousreasoning504I thought this too. I’ve actually cut people off because of outgrowing the friendship and feeling like something is not right. There was no jealousy on my part-in fact I would say it was the other way round and therefore needed for my own protection. A fees years later turns out I was right to contact as my ex friend was dabbling in witchcraft, which unknowingly.
This has been a pattern that followed me at school and even work There is always one person who rallys with a group to target me to harass me , follow me to provoke me to respond.... Its triangulation. I usually try to separate myself from people who provoke but.... there are some even if you try to bow out the situation they still will have it out for you and you may have to physically move because these people have evil in them and they wont stop theyll continue to try to attack and bring you down if they see you.
@@kayamen2021 yup I’ve addressed this notion by reading the section in the book dedicated to redirecting your attention and efforts elsewhere when the situation is too far gone. Sometimes the best thing one can do for themselves is cut ties!
I commented on your other video about Mr. Big, Carrie, and Natasha because I was in a similar situation with a French man who I was in a relationship with. He and I were engaged this summer, but he was friends with his ex, who also happened to be his parents neighbor. This woman was incredibly hostile towards me. I did not know she was his ex because he had lied to me for quite some time and said she was just his parents neighbor and an old friend. He eventually told me the truth and told her that he and I were engaged, and that I would be moving in with him this December. And he told me that she took it very badly. And when I went over to his parents house for dinner one evening, she saw me from the window upstairs, and I began hearing her yelling and cussing in French next door. It turned out, that she was calling my fiancé's phone and leaving him crazy voice messages, threatening me. So, although I primarily broke off my engagement because of issues with my ex fiancé, I also ended things because I was scared of his ex-girlfriend. Some of my friends told me I should have fought to keep my relationship with him because I was deeply in love with him, and it was my dream to live in France (I'm American), however, I don't want to be with a man who lies to me, and I certainly don't want to be around his crazy ex. I honestly think it's very important for people to be very careful around people who show signs of envy and jealousy because they are dangerous. When I was younger, I also had a woman who I thought was my best friend for several years, admit to me that she tried to sleep with my boyfriend. When I asked her when this happened, she said that it had happened many months prior to her telling me, and she said that I always got what I wanted, and men were always more attracted to me, and it wasn't fair, so that's how she justified stabbing me in the back. It's so scary because she was smiling in my face, being a shoulder to cry on, and pretending to be my best friend all while she had tried to sleep with my boyfriend. I genuinely don't understand how people can act so shamelessly and still have the audacity to pretend they're good people.
Him lying about it sounds like a red flag sis. And the fact she’s still emotionally invested gives a vibe she feels like they have a chance of getting back together. In order to move forward with someone else, firm boundaries have to be set in place so others know you are committing to someone else. From what you shared it definitely sounds a little sketch in my opinion. It doesn’t sound like your friends are making the right call on this one.
@@MsReadTheRoom Thank you for the response to my comment and thank you for making such great content ☺ The entire situation was sketchy. I ended things with him three months ago, it was extremely painful, but it's for the best because I'm not going to fight over a man. I think ending the relationship was the best thing for me because I was stressed and scared. I signed up to be in a relationship with one man, not to be in a throuple 😐 Looking back, I should've ended things as soon as I discovered that she was his ex and not just a friend 😔 But life goes on, and I won't make the same mistake again 🙏
Babes let me tell you something straight away if he’s entertaining you consider him yours. My life is too precious to throw away over a man that lacks self-respect and consideration.
Ill get the book but ive experience this my entire life i couldn't pin point why women i barely knew would monitor me try to be my friend just to get close to me to try to set me up.... I havent had much friends but even them have shown the evil eye... it gets worse as you age when yall date. They get very evil and spiteful if when yall go places men usually approach one friend out of the group; even if the girl isnt interested in the guy or pay much attention to the men who approach her...these women if they arent used to men they will stop at nothing for the male gaze...... and if they are already jealous of a woman that a man they want is paying attention to they become more violent
@@kayamen2021 yup! And this is why I recommend the resource! For those who don’t know what to do next. Because most of the time, once a person reaches a state of envy they become relentless. No matter what you do, they won’t stop with the attacks.
Hi can you something oñe day about the trophy child and emotional incest relationship where the mum treats the son like te husband to tare down the daughter
Over a man?? Baby stand up!🤦🏽♀️ some of these women are so disgusting and wicked. How hard is it to make your “man” accountable for his actions and or leave him? It’s never that serious. God please protect my beautiful peaceful Black sisters🙏🏽
A narcissist doesn't want to discuss their actions. they want to provoke your reactions, so they can use your reaction as distractions from their actions What is reactive abuse ? ''an in the moment reaction to mistreatment from another person. When a person reacts, the abuser uses this reaction to impact further abuse in the form of blame shifting Becoming self aware that someone is using reactive abuse tactics on you, so you are able to stop, enables you to ' End the Game' You stop and think - what would happen if I did X? what are the consequences of those actions and words? would i regret anything? could the choices i make now alter my life forever? would I have regrets? would my life be destroyed or damaged? what would I lose? you have to learn to step back in your mind and think before yo slip into survival brain mode and react instead of respond''
@@Livingtruth2024 I love this break down. Being provoked is NEVER okay. However, the goal is to perceive when you are being provoked so you don’t have to pay the price for a fight you did not initiate!
It was actually the burn victim that was the villian. She came to her house just like she explained to fight and terrorize the poor woman. And it wasn't her fight strike. She kept approaching that woman physically until she got what was coming to her. A hard hit. And Tasha explained that on a different live, the burned victim was a stripper and roudy. I understand your statement but switching roles with real people isn't cool. That burned lady was the envious one.
Yes, I mentioned that Savannah stated she was antagonized in the video. To clarify, I believe both of these women fell victim to a man that was using them for his own benefit. I stressed this point in the latter half of the video. As stated at the end, I commend and am praying for both of these ladies because their testimonies are heavy. My goal was to stress how important it is to not engage when you are being pit against others because it typically leads to negative outcomes. This was the main reason for reflecting on their story.
There is no excuse for what Savannah did. Savannah was stupid to keep staying with a cheater in the first place. That’s what happens when you stay with a cheater, you get caught up with other women. If the girl was harassing her so bad, why didn’t she leave the guy? Not to mention, Sabrina was much younger than Savannah. It’s really sad and pathetic to try and justify what this woman did to another woman over a sorry piece of man. It’s weak and pathetic. She should be in jail the rest of her life like Sabrina has to be permanently disfigured the rest of hers. I’m sure you would feel the same way if this happened to you, your daughter, or mother. Pathetic…she needs her face ruined too!
I had a friend cut me off & it completely blindsided me. I saw her as my sister and didn’t realize how much resentment and animosity she had towards me!!! You know what it made me think about? All of the girls who got set up by their friends, either by being attacked or murdered, and they didn’t expect it. It’s so scary when someone you thought was cool with you, secretly hates you. May God protect us.
@@SS-cu8se I’m glad you got out of dodge! This hidden animosity is more common than some may think!
Ppl cutting you off doesnt equate to extreme hate or animosity sometimes ppl grow apart and honestly ppl dont owe an explanation as to y
@@viciousreasoning504I thought this too. I’ve actually cut people off because of outgrowing the friendship and feeling like something is not right. There was no jealousy on my part-in fact I would say it was the other way round and therefore needed for my own protection. A fees years later turns out I was right to contact as my ex friend was dabbling in witchcraft, which unknowingly.
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@@viciousreasoning504 same thing I thought,
You have to have a lot of protection when you're a young, pretty black woman. This rarely happens to other groups of women....
FACTS 💯
Male centered women (in my opinion and from EXPERIENCE) have been thee absolute MOST dangerous women I have ever encountered. Ever.
@@Key-Key444 they NEVER fail to disappoint
That’s 99% of black females
It’s crazy when you want nothing to do with another woman’s man but she deluded enough to think you want him! Ur pookie is safe
@@Datb2 the envy clouds their judgment. Even if you try to bow out gracefully, their relentless nature will still cause them to pursue!
This has been a pattern that followed me at school and even work
There is always one person who rallys with a group to target me to harass me , follow me to provoke me to respond....
Its triangulation. I usually try to separate myself from people who provoke but.... there are some even if you try to bow out the situation they still will have it out for you and you may have to physically move because these people have evil in them and they wont stop theyll continue to try to attack and bring you down if they see you.
@@kayamen2021 yup I’ve addressed this notion by reading the section in the book dedicated to redirecting your attention and efforts elsewhere when the situation is too far gone. Sometimes the best thing one can do for themselves is cut ties!
Discernment is key
@@Sweetdreamz313 EVERY TIME 👏
I commented on your other video about Mr. Big, Carrie, and Natasha because I was in a similar situation with a French man who I was in a relationship with. He and I were engaged this summer, but he was friends with his ex, who also happened to be his parents neighbor. This woman was incredibly hostile towards me. I did not know she was his ex because he had lied to me for quite some time and said she was just his parents neighbor and an old friend. He eventually told me the truth and told her that he and I were engaged, and that I would be moving in with him this December. And he told me that she took it very badly. And when I went over to his parents house for dinner one evening, she saw me from the window upstairs, and I began hearing her yelling and cussing in French next door. It turned out, that she was calling my fiancé's phone and leaving him crazy voice messages, threatening me. So, although I primarily broke off my engagement because of issues with my ex fiancé, I also ended things because I was scared of his ex-girlfriend. Some of my friends told me I should have fought to keep my relationship with him because I was deeply in love with him, and it was my dream to live in France (I'm American), however, I don't want to be with a man who lies to me, and I certainly don't want to be around his crazy ex.
I honestly think it's very important for people to be very careful around people who show signs of envy and jealousy because they are dangerous. When I was younger, I also had a woman who I thought was my best friend for several years, admit to me that she tried to sleep with my boyfriend. When I asked her when this happened, she said that it had happened many months prior to her telling me, and she said that I always got what I wanted, and men were always more attracted to me, and it wasn't fair, so that's how she justified stabbing me in the back. It's so scary because she was smiling in my face, being a shoulder to cry on, and pretending to be my best friend all while she had tried to sleep with my boyfriend.
I genuinely don't understand how people can act so shamelessly and still have the audacity to pretend they're good people.
Him lying about it sounds like a red flag sis. And the fact she’s still emotionally invested gives a vibe she feels like they have a chance of getting back together. In order to move forward with someone else, firm boundaries have to be set in place so others know you are committing to someone else. From what you shared it definitely sounds a little sketch in my opinion. It doesn’t sound like your friends are making the right call on this one.
@@MsReadTheRoom Thank you for the response to my comment and thank you for making such great content ☺ The entire situation was sketchy. I ended things with him three months ago, it was extremely painful, but it's for the best because I'm not going to fight over a man. I think ending the relationship was the best thing for me because I was stressed and scared. I signed up to be in a relationship with one man, not to be in a throuple 😐 Looking back, I should've ended things as soon as I discovered that she was his ex and not just a friend 😔 But life goes on, and I won't make the same mistake again 🙏
@@marissa1616 proud of you Marissa, keep moving forward there is something better for you. Free of confusion and full of certainty!
Babes let me tell you something straight away if he’s entertaining you consider him yours. My life is too precious to throw away over a man that lacks self-respect and consideration.
@@bunggelo OKAY! Hang it up, FLAT SCREEN 📺
Ill get the book but ive experience this my entire life i couldn't pin point why women i barely knew would monitor me try to be my friend just to get close to me to try to set me up....
I havent had much friends but even them have shown the evil eye... it gets worse as you age when yall date.
They get very evil and spiteful if when yall go places men usually approach one friend out of the group; even if the girl isnt interested in the guy or pay much attention to the men who approach her...these women if they arent used to men they will stop at nothing for the male gaze...... and if they are already jealous of a woman that a man they want is paying attention to they become more violent
@@kayamen2021 yup! And this is why I recommend the resource! For those who don’t know what to do next. Because most of the time, once a person reaches a state of envy they become relentless. No matter what you do, they won’t stop with the attacks.
Very true. I had a girl elbow my face once. She tried to make it look like an accident.
@ oh no 💔
@@Lalaland099 😭😭😭
They literally manipulate you to provoke you to anger because they want a excuse to physically harm you
@@kayamen2021 thank you for explaining! Makes so much sense.
You do some really good videos!
@@SRobinson-hr6me 🥹🥹🥹🥹 thank you babes! 💗💗💗💗
Hi can you something oñe day about the trophy child and emotional incest relationship where the mum treats the son like te husband to tare down the daughter
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Over a man?? Baby stand up!🤦🏽♀️ some of these women are so disgusting and wicked. How hard is it to make your “man” accountable for his actions and or leave him? It’s never that serious. God please protect my beautiful peaceful Black sisters🙏🏽
@@Mslee8320 never throw your life away over someone who views you as disposable! 💯
The second case had a lot of coverage in the UK:(
@@ElleSeven-l3q are they based in the UK?
thumbnail scared me because that's my name to a T.. I'm tuned in!!!
A narcissist doesn't want to discuss their actions. they want to provoke your reactions, so they can use your reaction as distractions from their actions
What is reactive abuse ?
''an in the moment reaction to mistreatment from another person. When a person reacts, the abuser uses this reaction to impact further abuse in the form of blame shifting
Becoming self aware that someone is using reactive abuse tactics on you, so you are able to stop, enables you to ' End the Game'
You stop and think - what would happen if I did X? what are the consequences of those actions and words? would i regret anything? could the choices i make now alter my life forever? would I have regrets? would my life be destroyed or damaged? what would I lose? you have to learn to step back in your mind and think before yo slip into survival brain mode and react instead of respond''
@@Livingtruth2024 I love this break down. Being provoked is NEVER okay. However, the goal is to perceive when you are being provoked so you don’t have to pay the price for a fight you did not initiate!
Always a pleasure to listen to your videos 🙏🏿💡
@@Chamsiee appreciate your support babes! Thanks for tuning in 🤍
Great advice and analysis ❤. Buy the book. Some of us had to learn these strategies and tactics The Hard Way, over decades...🙏🏽
@@ElleSeven-l3q 🥹🥹🥹🤍🤍🤍 appreciate you Elle, glad you enjoyed 🙏
It was actually the burn victim that was the villian. She came to her house just like she explained to fight and terrorize the poor woman. And it wasn't her fight strike. She kept approaching that woman physically until she got what was coming to her. A hard hit. And Tasha explained that on a different live, the burned victim was a stripper and roudy.
I understand your statement but switching roles with real people isn't cool. That burned lady was the envious one.
Yes, I mentioned that Savannah stated she was antagonized in the video.
To clarify, I believe both of these women fell victim to a man that was using them for his own benefit. I stressed this point in the latter half of the video. As stated at the end, I commend and am praying for both of these ladies because their testimonies are heavy. My goal was to stress how important it is to not engage when you are being pit against others because it typically leads to negative outcomes. This was the main reason for reflecting on their story.
There is no excuse for what Savannah did. Savannah was stupid to keep staying with a cheater in the first place. That’s what happens when you stay with a cheater, you get caught up with other women. If the girl was harassing her so bad, why didn’t she leave the guy? Not to mention, Sabrina was much younger than Savannah. It’s really sad and pathetic to try and justify what this woman did to another woman over a sorry piece of man. It’s weak and pathetic. She should be in jail the rest of her life like Sabrina has to be permanently disfigured the rest of hers. I’m sure you would feel the same way if this happened to you, your daughter, or mother. Pathetic…she needs her face ruined too!
@babydd4 Ohhh ok I didn't realize that! Thanks for the info...
So calling the police was out of the question?
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢wow
@@musicmakeuplover3025 very heavy stories
Did she go to jail for throwing acid in that woman's face?? I guess I'll have to wait till the end to find out!
Yes she did
@@traceylennon1204 yes
Wow so sad
@@face-in-the-crowd this was a hard analysis for me because everyone involved took a major loss.
The lady is legally blind 💔
@@BeautyfulBrenda so heartbreaking
This was so drawn out. I love your videos. This one was chit chatty
😂😂😂 okay, I will try to fix that for the next analysis