@@chayo4537 you want to hear that you're perfect the way you are, and you don't have to adapt to any cultural norms in Korea that you would feel uncomfortable with even if you date Korean men. Sorry sweetheart, that's not how the world works. Now take the chip off of your shoulder and learn to accept reality.
100% agree i don’t have anything against mixed couples i just really hate when people go solely looking for a specific race as a partner to fill their fetishisation and idolatry ideas about that race
Wish we had things like this when I was younger, I would have definitely taken the advice and tried. Now I’m older, a divorced lady with two grown kids though they are only in their 20s and I was a young mother, I feel like their are no options left for my age group. I do not consider myself old and I keep in decent shape, I realize that at my age I would like someone for once just to chat with or get to know ….yet it seems impossible these days. I am not lonely but nor would I turn down an opportunity to meet someone, but their are so many stereotypes and such… I would be unsure if it was even possible. But I’m glad this topic is broached because I believe that it would s great for people to be able to meet and possibly develop relationships.
I'm sure You're a beautiful lady. Don't lose hope. There are a lot of good men who would like to date you and get to know you. Just work on yourself and put yourself out there. ❤
Always work on yourself including physically it keeps the mind strong. Age is just a number. So it is in the Spirit, so it is in the natural. First make God your everything....make Him your husband and He will show you so much to get ready for your earthly husband. He is a good GOD in Jesus name. LOVE GODS LOVE.
Мне кажется, что в последнее время из-за того что к-поп стал модным и Корея стала задавать правила моды и стандарты красоты, многие хотят иметь отношения с Корейцами
If you want to date a korean just because you fantasize korean drama then wake up. Reality is different. They are extremely shy. I once went a date with Korea and his cheeks and ears were all red. It's really different. I had to make him. Comfortable. I don't know why don't they let pay.
@@money0436 nothing. I am introvert so I hardly speak on date. He didn't break ice either. He was shy for sure. I asked him to divide bill but he said that I will pay for next date. He never asked for next time nor did I.
My korean ex bf, he's so extremely shy and introvert. He rarely hang out with his officemates. He always sat alone in a far and quiet place while his officemates were hanging out with me.
i'm ole school. I prefer the man to pay. if he doesn't have it then we both have a nice meal at home, and relax. basically we together and in a serious relationship, we should make it work. it's not about ..what's yours and mines, it's "OURS" we a team.
Sadly, one of the few ways a woman can know if a man is genuinely interested in the relationship is if he has no problem paying and it doesn't take any effort to him. When a man is interested in a relationship, it is not an effort for him to pay
I lived in many coutries and places where I don't belong. Be respectful of yourself and others. Which means observe the bidy language and based on that react...
As a foreign girl, who would love to intertwine with Korean (k-) culture and find a potential husband in that culture. I find it very troubling to see other women fantasize, or fetishize K-men/relationships. I myself find a relationship with a K-man very appealing, because they share a lot of the same values, and culture I agree with and admire. So there are a lot of reasons beyond attraction, for why in a perfect world I could find a K-partner. But it’s not my end all beat all, final option for a partner because you have to be realistic. Compared to other women, they have a fantasy in their head that’s like a k-drama love affair. They call k-guys oppa, or sexualize them. Without giving them any respect, for their culture, or for simply them being humans. It makes it very difficult for everyone, when white girls see a k-pop group and put that same perspective on every single k-guy
Holy shit? Isn’t the last guy from the Korean Netflix Dating show ‘Nineteen to Twenty,’ he looks exactly like a contestant. That contestant moved too fast with the girl he liked and ended up scaring her off (she felt uncomfortable) because she still wanted to get to know everyone. His words sound exactly like that experience 😮.
@@李珊-f2ri never said i want a white boyfriend first of all and the reason why i said it is weird to want a korean boyfriend is because most of yall are obsessed with kpop or korea and that's weird 💀
From what I've seen their celebs are exceptionally attractive while the average person is not that attractive. I don't get the fetish at all. I find my own race attractive as we tend to have a lot of diversity in phenotypes. I might visit Korea for the food but their culture doesn't seem interesting to me as they seem to have a very extreme drinking culture. I find countries with a high rate of alcoholism tend to have little to nothing to offer in terms of cultural attraction.
For me, Koreans are the most attractive. I have no interest in my own race and "diversity in phenotypes" is for me like a house of warped mirrors at an amusement park where everybody looks weird. I like the "Korean type" (well North East Asian in general, but I find the Koreans most attractive) and I like that there is one. I also come from a "country with high rate of alcoholism" (even though I'm not a heavy drinker myself) and maybe also in other aspects similar. We are often quite introverted and a bit reserved with strangers. I don't care for very "exotic" and extroverted, chaotic or loud cultures so also in that sense North East Asia is a good fit. Must be why I was drawn there in the first place, first Japan and then Korea (Korea wasn't that well known at the time yet in my country). Both good looking and unintrusive so the jackpot for me lol. It's good that the world is full of different cultures and looks to choose from, something for everyone 😁
They were all so kind and nice and seem to be open and they are handsome. Yes, I believe in splitting the bill. It shows you're not being "greedy and selfish!" I don't believe in picking up bar wise. If you have a moral character, you want one that has that same type of character. Loving to dance, not to be picked up or picking up, no way! I dance with my friends( not slow). I run in the bathroom. 😂😂😂🦊🐾🌅🦋🐯🦝🐼🐕🦺🐈⬛
"How Do Koreans Start Dating?"
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Korean culture suggest tall thin flawless
Dumbest
The third guy 😌 the only answer that matters. An emotionally intelligent and respectful response
He just said what you wanted to hear. All of their answers have merit, and most were more practical and specific.
@@user1029xspl8dy what is it that I wanna hear? Tell me.. since you've convinced yourself you know something already.
@@chayo4537 you want to hear that you're perfect the way you are, and you don't have to adapt to any cultural norms in Korea that you would feel uncomfortable with even if you date Korean men. Sorry sweetheart, that's not how the world works. Now take the chip off of your shoulder and learn to accept reality.
And a truthful response. :)
I loved his response. We are all human. ❤❤❤
The third dude in hoodie and hat, you couldnt be more right. Hope more people think like you one day 🙏
The third guy 😭😭😭😭
The third guy 🥺🥺🥺🥺
the 3rd guy won hearts...
Third guy is sweet, but a lot of Korean guys might straight up faint if you approach them like you would in your home country.
we don’t really approach men in my home country so he wouldn’t be shocked
They also think you just want to fuk...
The best way is
1. Be yourself.
2. Stay unfixed on having a k-bf
3. Do not go searching specifically on k-bf💕
100% agree
i don’t have anything against mixed couples i just really hate when people go solely looking for a specific race as a partner to fill their fetishisation and idolatry ideas about that race
@@sweng0717 agreed!!
The third guy must be protected at all cost
Third man just win my heart❤
They say take it slow, yet they move fast with the "I love you. 😊 take it easy. 😊😂
That third guy better be careful, he's got us foreign girls loving his answer lol ❤ but my gosh they are all so handsome!
2번째는 걍 피해의식이 있는거 같은데
?
어느정도는 사실임 근데
The third guy...so right...
The first guy reminds me of Seventeen's Mingyu. So cute
After I learn to speak Korean, I will be ready for an old school who is willing to learn new things.
This was informative for me. Thank you.
Black Sweatshirt & Cap ..."We're all Humsns" 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️
More videos like this ask korean guys as much as you can. I want to know how good/worse can it be to date them.
The third guy and second had said out of true heart thoughts that helps to understand people more
The best video short so far on this topic!
If you based your relationship on a fixed race or nationality, chances are you're missing on many other opportunities.
First time seeing so Natural koreans ❤️
To third guy saranghae 😂🫶🏼
The 1st guy sounds like taehyung 😮
Good question..👍Koreans know Koreans best ...
The 3rd guy is very open and understanding ❤
Guy #3 would be a good catch for a foreign.
Wish we had things like this when I was younger, I would have definitely taken the advice and tried. Now I’m older, a divorced lady with two grown kids though they are only in their 20s and I was a young mother, I feel like their are no options left for my age group. I do not consider myself old and I keep in decent shape, I realize that at my age I would like someone for once just to chat with or get to know ….yet it seems impossible these days. I am not lonely but nor would I turn down an opportunity to meet someone, but their are so many stereotypes and such… I would be unsure if it was even possible. But I’m glad this topic is broached because I believe that it would s great for people to be able to meet and possibly develop relationships.
I'm sure You're a beautiful lady. Don't lose hope. There are a lot of good men who would like to date you and get to know you. Just work on yourself and put yourself out there. ❤
Always work on yourself including physically it keeps the mind strong. Age is just a number. So it is in the Spirit, so it is in the natural. First make God your everything....make Him your husband and He will show you so much to get ready for your earthly husband. He is a good GOD in Jesus name.
LOVE GODS LOVE.
My goodness, they are all cute as can be!
I agree with the guy talking about stereotype and the last guy who advice to take it easy
Third guy is sooooo spot on👊🏿💯
The third guy
Yes the third guy!! Thankyou
모자를 쓰고 있는 남자 맷날 좋은 하루 되실 바래용 ❤
맨날* 😉
The third guy mentality is what women want . That s it.
Мне кажется, что в последнее время из-за того что к-поп стал модным и Корея стала задавать правила моды и стандарты красоты, многие хотят иметь отношения с Корейцами
Опаздывают, у меня муж - кореец уже 22 года, лол.
Break the stereotype! ❤
Helpful video!
If you want to date a korean just because you fantasize korean drama then wake up. Reality is different. They are extremely shy. I once went a date with Korea and his cheeks and ears were all red. It's really different. I had to make him. Comfortable. I don't know why don't they let pay.
what did you do to him?
@@money0436 nothing. I am introvert so I hardly speak on date. He didn't break ice either. He was shy for sure. I asked him to divide bill but he said that I will pay for next date. He never asked for next time nor did I.
My korean ex bf, he's so extremely shy and introvert. He rarely hang out with his officemates. He always sat alone in a far and quiet place while his officemates were hanging out with me.
The third man😭💖
Checking your video for a while and it's all good but it will be much better if you reduce the sound of your bg music
The third man >>
African young adult here and I have always wanted to date a Korean, I am quite intrigued with their culture
i'm ole school. I prefer the man to pay. if he doesn't have it then we both have a nice meal at home, and relax. basically we together and in a serious relationship, we should make it work. it's not about ..what's yours and mines, it's "OURS" we a team.
Sadly, one of the few ways a woman can know if a man is genuinely interested in the relationship is if he has no problem paying and it doesn't take any effort to him. When a man is interested in a relationship, it is not an effort for him to pay
I lived in many coutries and places where I don't belong. Be respectful of yourself and others. Which means observe the bidy language and based on that react...
All relationships should start out slow so you can get to know each other than consider a relationship.❤
I love the 3 person that said we are all human amd know difference 😊can i get his number 😅
Love that third guy
There is actually manly men in Korea!, by looking at the K-pop groups I had my doubts they existed!
Third guy 😢😢
As a foreign girl, who would love to intertwine with Korean (k-) culture and find a potential husband in that culture. I find it very troubling to see other women fantasize, or fetishize K-men/relationships. I myself find a relationship with a K-man very appealing, because they share a lot of the same values, and culture I agree with and admire. So there are a lot of reasons beyond attraction, for why in a perfect world I could find a K-partner. But it’s not my end all beat all, final option for a partner because you have to be realistic. Compared to other women, they have a fantasy in their head that’s like a k-drama love affair. They call k-guys oppa, or sexualize them. Without giving them any respect, for their culture, or for simply them being humans. It makes it very difficult for everyone, when white girls see a k-pop group and put that same perspective on every single k-guy
After all we are all humans.💜👒
나쁜 남자를 피하는법은 제가 암.
1. 클럽이나 틴더 같은곳에서 남자를 만나지 않는다
2. 문신있는 남자를 피한다 (아직까지도 한국은 문신에 굉장히 보수적임)
3. 말할때 "오빠가~" 라고 하는 사람을 피한다
The fourth guy 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
I WISH THERE WERE MORE MEN LIKE #3. THE OTHERS ARE FULL OF IT OR SOCIALLY DYSFUNCTIONAL.
❤❤❤❤
Third guy 🥺💝
Good guys
Holy shit? Isn’t the last guy from the Korean Netflix Dating show ‘Nineteen to Twenty,’ he looks exactly like a contestant. That contestant moved too fast with the girl he liked and ended up scaring her off (she felt uncomfortable) because she still wanted to get to know everyone. His words sound exactly like that experience 😮.
As a Spanish guy myself I would absolutely love to date a South Korean girl ☺️
Oh the guy in hat is so 🫰
This is the second most awkward country. Finland is first.
Can I date the 3rd guy please....!
Ne kadar saçma bir soru. Koreli erkek ne demek ya . Sanki bir özellikleri var. Erkek işte.
Stupid answer.
Ye sb kon h
AVOID CLUB!!!!
Give me the third guy’s number 🙏🙏🙏
I'll pay the entire bill 😂😂😂😂 but. Still I can't find a Korean boyfriend for myself
Why would you want a korean boyfriend for it is soo Weird
Why would you want a whyte boyfriend that’s weird
@@李珊-f2ri never said i want a white boyfriend first of all and the reason why i said it is weird to want a korean boyfriend is because most of yall are obsessed with kpop or korea and that's weird 💀
From what I've seen their celebs are exceptionally attractive while the average person is not that attractive.
I don't get the fetish at all. I find my own race attractive as we tend to have a lot of diversity in phenotypes.
I might visit Korea for the food but their culture doesn't seem interesting to me as they seem to have a very extreme drinking culture. I find countries with a high rate of alcoholism tend to have little to nothing to offer in terms of cultural attraction.
For me, Koreans are the most attractive. I have no interest in my own race and "diversity in phenotypes" is for me like a house of warped mirrors at an amusement park where everybody looks weird. I like the "Korean type" (well North East Asian in general, but I find the Koreans most attractive) and I like that there is one.
I also come from a "country with high rate of alcoholism" (even though I'm not a heavy drinker myself) and maybe also in other aspects similar. We are often quite introverted and a bit reserved with strangers. I don't care for very "exotic" and extroverted, chaotic or loud cultures so also in that sense North East Asia is a good fit. Must be why I was drawn there in the first place, first Japan and then Korea (Korea wasn't that well known at the time yet in my country). Both good looking and unintrusive so the jackpot for me lol.
It's good that the world is full of different cultures and looks to choose from, something for everyone 😁
Third guy ❤
Every girl started simping for 3rd guy .😂 (including me ) 🫣
They were all so kind and nice and seem to be open and they are handsome. Yes, I believe in splitting the bill. It shows you're not being "greedy and selfish!" I don't believe in picking up bar wise. If you have a moral character, you want one that has that same type of character. Loving to dance, not to be picked up or picking up, no way! I dance with my friends( not slow). I run in the bathroom. 😂😂😂🦊🐾🌅🦋🐯🦝🐼🐕🦺🐈⬛