Popular vs Unpopular girl meeting a Highschooler : Who do you want to be friend with?
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- Опубліковано 12 гру 2023
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the guy didnt even try having a conversation with the first girl
who? jiahn or yujin?
@@_cvylarenee888 Jiahn
jiahn
jiahn @@_cvylarenee888
He did tho- 👁👁
beauty privilage is real you can see the difference on the boys behaviour with jianh and yujin
@@user-sx9z33 all sorts of people get harassed, do you not realise people that are deemed more attractive are subconsciously treated better by society? pretty privilege is very much real, you ask any who has experienced being seen as both attractive and "ugly" they will always tell you they'd rather by pretty. the original comment didnt even disregard anyone's problems, i think you got a bit defensive for nothing.
@@esq5343 i do realize and thats
Why you said "all sorts" thats all sorts pretty people can also get harassed
@@user-sx9z33you said it as if only pretty people can get harassed but i get your point, you still ignored half of what i said tho
I think it's not just because she is pretty and he cares just about looks. But in life, people who are pretty are considered out of reach, everyone admires them and wants to leave a good impression on them. The "ugly " people are more relatable ones and you can easily form closeness with them cause you expect them to go through hardships in life just like you. While everyone thinks pretty people have it easy in life and they would never understand your problems. He even said that he was chubby and he felt more comfortable around person that is as well. But the other girl is probably perfect in his eyes, and that's intimidating. Plus, he was shy with both of them, especially in the beginning. It's just that Jianh was giving comforting vibes
Beautiful people who take care of themselves, feel confident. I can confirm that confidence make people closer to you. Even fat people can be confident, and society consider them normal, because of their energy.
So it’s important to take care of you, because most of the time fat person is not confident, confidence come to you when you do sports or take care, and you start feel more confident.
the way the boy asked no questions whatsovever to the first girl but when he was talking to the second "pretty" girl he opened up so fast and seemes so interested lol
He said he enjoyed talking to the other girl more though did you guys even watch the video 😭
The first girl was shy and barely looked into his eyes and he complimented her but she responded with “oh” and it make it completely awkward
That ia the plot of most of the kdramas🙃"he is soo handsomeee"
@@Ellyyx_right? 😭
It does not matter you are fat or thin, ugly or beauty, rich or poor. When night falls, before sleep, you cry at your bed. Everybody has their own problems but the size of them are different. I hope they become close friends.
no ,It matters thats why you have to try harder and be better.
@@mybuddies5648 i agree
@@mybuddies5648or perhaps those bullying mfers should try to be better people for God's sake!!!
The short 😢
@@mybuddies5648you’re blaming the victims and not the bullies. The only people that needs to be better is the ppl that think it’s okay to judge, bully, etc ppl.
boy didn't even try to have a conversation with the first girl tf
4:30 watch this again before commenting
The way the boy and the girl was more talkative with yujin ..
Or maybe they fit with her personality more
Even tho the boy and Jiahn had a more meaningful conversation and clearly clicked more. Lol everyone actin like fatphobia is more common than it rlly is
@@brennathecatlover4360 you can clearly see that they’re the ones engaging the conversation unlike with the other girl
no.. tbh I think the girl tries to talk to both of them.. But the boy.. idk bout him.. Idk..it just felt a bit rude.. lol
Because yujin was more confident and the first girl (I don’t blame her though) was more shy and insecure and didn’t really look into their eyes, and she said “oh” when he complimented her which made us awkward
I can so relate to Jiahn. Im pretty much a pessimist when it comes to relationships that I dont allow myself to have crushes on anyone because I automatically assume they wont be into me. I had a crush on a guy once and my inner demons said "Girl, you have a crush? On him?? Look at you and look at him. Do you think he'll ever like you?" And I'd be like "Damn, you're right" and just with that, I would lose my feelings for him. The whole premise of "If we never try, how would we know?" would not be applied by me, because I tell myself straight up that it would never work.
they didnt ask the guy if he was hard right?
I relate to this so much? This is why I also never get into relationships. When I start to get feelings for someone the Wicked Song “I’m Not that Girl” automatically plays in my head and I never just let myself go that path.
I kinda feel the same, but instead if I have a crush I assume there’s no way he would like me, so I start to get really insecure and try to “show off”(idk how to explain it exactly) when I’m around him
Omg this is too relatable. I used to have a crush on this one guy, but I was too insecure. I thought to myself, why would he even like me. I started thinking that he might have a crush on the other girls instead of me.
nothing wrong with know your place in this world
I think some people are looking to be upset, they clearly spoke to both girls. Especially the female high schooler and Jianh was shy around the boy especially at the start so saying he didn't speak to at the start her was partly because she was less outgoing at the start. Plus he did compliment both of them and said Jiahn was easier to talk to.
Pretty privilege exists for sure, I'd never argue against that, but don't automatically make assumptions about people.
0:43 3:18 you cant tell me he wasnt acting way different..
FR
ikr
They both picked the popular girl, the bubbly girl was saying sorry to the unpopular girl and the boy said he felt more comfortable talking to the popular girl. This is to assume they both picked her.
No he was comfortable with the unpopulsr girl. Jiahn is the unpopular girl and yujin is the popular.
stop yapping bruh, he literally said he is comfortable to jianh
Jiahn talking about crushes and relationships is so real, I’ve always been a big girl and the thought that someone could ever want a relationship with me seems impossible.
They were nicer to the skinny girl
That's the reality. People are nicer to people they deem attractive or better than them.
@@StrawberryMilkkTeaa yeah-_-
i mean yeah read up on the halo effect
I wanna delete this comment should I ?
If the gets 50 likes I will delete it
U can delete it now@@straykiss-WOO
getting called huggable is the worst thing, its not acc a real compliment more of a backhanded compliment
i thought about that too, but i dont think the girl had a bad intention
in my opinion, i understand that some people will larger body weight might have body image issues and deeply rooted insecurities. so if that's the case, the "huggable" person might perceive this compliment as offensive. it all depends on how far you overthink. i can be totally wrong tho so no hate just a thought.
i believe tht is because the receiving person itself is insecure with their body. cuz if I said "your are cute", or "you are beautiful", they would think its backhanded too. either way, complimenting them will never be right thing to do. they don't event like to talk about their body , cute or wtv
why did they start throwing compliments at the second girl saying you're so fit and ur face is tiny and stuff like??? the entire culture of complimenting someone's features on the immediate first meeting is one of the contributors, if not the result, of korea having such a huge emphasis on beauty. i don't understand the purpose of pointing out beauty so intensely... i get that compliments are important but there's a time and place for that.
SK has a massive beauty above all culture (compared to many others). Plenty of people have gotten cosmetic surgery just to be hired at work. They are, at the moment, extremely looks focused and also fairly classist. That's why they value light skin, because the association is that you didn't have to work out in the sun and could be indoors because you have resources/money to not work as hard in dangerous conditions. It's so ingrained that it's not really thought about (this is everywhere by the way, it's the same reason Europeans like extra light skin too. It's classism. In America, tan became popular because rich people could afford to go to exotic places on vacation and get a tan due to relaxing, not working in the sun.)
Being poor, neurodivergent or "ugly" are huge no-no's basically. It's changing overtime, but it's a big hurdle for SK and many of the east Asiatic cultures.
Not that the west doesn't have it's own issues, but they're in different places and different levels.
Two biggest things are the work culture and the beauty culture and how not working yourself to death and looking stunning are suicide worthy faux pas. That definitely needs to be addressed.
In schools, bullying by seniors for being poor, ugly or different are a huge issue.
pls don’t tell big girls that they look “huggable”
I want to hug everyone you all look so huggable from my perspective 🫥
Can I ask why? Is it offensive? (No hate)
@yae2064 cus it's like calling them a big Teddy bear which ain't what most would like to hear
@@izme4432 but teddy bears are cute..anyway, thanks
@yae2064 its cus of the other implications I guess you could say its like reading between the lines to some degree
I hate pretty privilege but it exists…its so annoying that most guys in school only talk to pretty girls, it’s not these girls fault that they’re less attractive than others, why must they go through this and restrict themselves from falling for a guy they like 😢
I mean that’s life people talk to people they find attractive
so you are not like that? phew..then what about your profile photo? u use that photo because of his personality? let's stop a hypocrisy
@@binnie8559 lol what ? Why are you assuming they are someone who only talk to people who are pretty because of their profile picture ?? Their profile does not correlate to their comment at all. It seems like you are projecting ....
Blame natural selection
@@binnie8559 bruh in there profil pic is just a member of enhypen, a grup in korea thats very talented people in it. It doesnt matter and doesnt relate to what the comment said.
i was curious to on who they would had picked .-. i guess they didn't want us to fight in the comment section or something idk
yea I was curious too... ig they both picked yujin
this episode feels like the two unpopular kids were on a therapy session learning from two popular/extroverted Girls on how to face their fears and overcome their issues.
What’s the point of this video if yall aren’t gonna show the answer to the main question?💀 (rhetorical question)
0:50 When 2 introverts are in the same room. 😭
I realized that as soon as they changed from the obese girl to the the skinny girl the girl and the boy started complementing the skinny girl about things the obese girl didn't have example being fit and stuff
i wouldnt say the girls "obsese" but i get what u mean
@@brokentoes sorry if I was mean :)
@@brokentoes medically she does seem to be obese but there's nothing wrong with that
@putsomerespeckonmaname540 if being medically obese means that there is nothing wrong with that then idk when is.
Also idk why fat in Korea = not popular. Korea has some serious beauty issues.
Complementing another person is a social skill and an easy way to start interactions, and "being fit and stuff" is a desirable trait. Since they didn't bash the unpopular girl with it, I didn't see anything unordinary..
5:24 이 부분에서 지안님이 "남자가 그냥 보고만 있어도 아... 이 아이는 나를 이렇게 생각하겠구나" 이 말에 정말 공감이 많이 됐어요. 저는 체형이 뚱뚱한 편인데 이쁜 아이들과 밖에 나가면 남자들뿐만 아니라 모든 사람들이 그 아이와 나를 비교하겠지라는 생각을 정말 자주해요. 정말 이 말에 공감했어요. 그래서 연애를 해도 항상 불안해요. 동정심 때문에 나를 만나주나? 정말 나를 사랑해서 만나는건가? 나 놀릴려고 사귀어주나? 그리고 싸우거나 조금만 나한테 못해줘도 역시 나를 좋아하지 않구나 이런 생각을 정말 많이해요.
It's ok babygirl don't give any fuck to what people say about you. In the end of the day it's you who will be leading your life not them and if they try to they are fucking lifeless. I'm not korean or I live there but the beauty standard there seems pretty fucked up I hope this changes one day though because what's on the outside doesn't define the insides. Being 'big' is not necessarily bad at all! Just remember to stay fit. Fit as in healthy btw you don't have to be slim you can have fats on your belly, thighs, arm it's a very human thing.
Recuerda esto: Tu eres una persona única y especial,podrá haber muchas personas que tengan una bella apariencia pero eso jamás te asegurará que esa persona vale realmente la pena,nunca cometas el error de compararte con los demás, todos somos diferentes y sería un completo martirio vivir comparandote constantemente, disfruta tu vida y aprende en soledad cosas sobre ti misma,muchas gente le tiene miedo a la soledad pero es más reconfortante de lo que crees,aprendes a conocerte a ti mismo,tus defectos,tus virtudes,lo que te gusta y lo que no,pero recuerda: nunca dejes de ser tu misma por querer encajar con alguien,eres especial y no estás obligada a ser como otras personas,si quieres un cambio en tu hazlo pero porque tú lo deseas para ti misma y que tú te sientas cómoda con ellos,ten confianza en ti misma siempre❤❤❤❤la gente siempre va a criticar,eso pasa en todos lados y naciones, entonces que no te importe lo que sigan los demás,nunca sabes si el día de mañana es un día más o un día menos de vida,así que vive cada día como si fuera el último son arrepentimiento y disfruta el presente,la vida es muy corta para prestarle atención a lo que dicen los demás.
나쁘게 받아들이지 말아주시고 들어주시면 감사할 것 같아요..!😊
사실 자존감의 문제가 커보여요…! 사실 말씀하신 그 생각들이 떨쳐내야하는 생각인건 알면서도 떨쳐내기가 쉽지 않죠🥺
뭐라고 해드려야 위로가 되고 해결을 해드릴 수 있을지는 모르겠지만 세상에 님을 그렇게 안좋게 생각하는 사람들보다는 좋게 생각할 사람들이 훨씬 많을거라는 것만 알아주세요😢
너무 힘드시면 사실 가격은 좀 나가지만 심리상담도 좋은 방법이 될 수 있을 것 같아여..!
충분히 본인을 좋아하니까 남자친구분들이 작성자분 본인과 사귀는거겠지만.. 자존감이 떨어진 상태에서는 그렇게 생각하기가 쉽진 않죠… 뭔가 직접 만나서 꼭 안아주고 싶지만 그럴 수 없기에 댓글로라도 안아드려요!! 토닥토닥😊
하는 일마다 잘되시길 바라며.. 힘내세요✨
as someone who has lived under a rock for the past 9 years, i cant make friends with anyone
@@vinaytyagi9643 I think they meant as in, they're not updated with trend and things like that.
@@vinaytyagi9643 Probably Patrick
Lmfao girl same😭😍
i feel u, its very hard to even start a voice conv for me
Do you have a discord account? We cant talk with you, I have some issues communicating myself out loud so I can relate you guys
why were the comments saying “they didn’t even try talking to the first girl” did you watch the whole video? 😭😭😭 also the video isn’t uncut, keep that in mind
“unpopular” friends are more loyal while popular ones would leave u for a diff crowd
Depends
No? You just sound bitter...
I agree. It's partly true. Popular friends lack empathy sometimes
Is it true loyalty though? If their roles were switched, would they behave the same? Authenticity is predicated on true freedom of choice, not just choice by circumstance
Tbh as someone who has popular friends, maybe I just am not as close with them or smth but I'm left alone most times
Natural beauty vs enhanced
Its really different
Her character is really bubbly too
Can tell when someone is genuine
Actually doesnt anyone think that to even want to go through painful surgery to enhance your looks, means that the person has self esteem issues as well?
I believe self esteem issues affects all
Should just embrace your looks and hopefully you will find someone suitable for you.
Doesnt have to be the best looking or make your heart flutter, just someone that is suitable for you
Obviously looks has a lot to do with it but also the way they are coming across. Even if you couldn’t see the speakers the second girl seemed happier, more interesting, cheerful, engaged even when talking about struggles. Awkwardness alone is one thing but the main issue i see is that the first girl mentioned it felt like therapy and that’s probably because she’s carrying the weight of her hardships like it’s her banner of war and right out the gate too. And her mannerisms give off too much of that vibe of needing to be liked by others. People want relationships with those who bring out the positive, inspire growth and fun and help them appreciate life more, not one where they’re primarily carrying your burdens.
Agreed, everyone also struggles with difficulties in their life, it's enough that you already feel sorry for yourself no need to make others do the same, despite the struggle you're still stand strong to face it, and should be proud of it, life is life.
Some people in comments are saying that the "unpopular girl" was not treated as kindly and I don't see it. Seriously these people want to make her a victim so much! Like if you don't look at screen and just read the subtitle, you will feel both of them being treated equally and the first girl even got more friendly with others. People these days...
guys I think when the guy complemented the first girl she responded like that because growing up she probably was never given compliments 😭 it’s normal to react that way to a compliment if you never received any in your younger days/growing up. she was probably just a caught off guard since it’s maybe new to her. and who knows maybe he didn’t even mean it (not saying he didn’t) 🤷🏽♀️. usually people compliment you when they meet you, even if they don’t mean it.
I love Jianhs humor especially at this part 5:38 😭😭😭
When she said "Yes, I want to go talk to them" with those kind a reaction. Seems great, but it's broke me. Idkw
Idk why but when I see the popular girl, her face really reminds me Wendy from Red Velvet
"I want to give you a hug" now.....
You guys say that the guy doesn't try to talk with the first girl but all she did was talk about herself (how shy she is and her bullied experiences) while the second girl talked mostly about him. Of course he's more comfortable with talking with the second person. 🤷♀🤷♀
“I wanna hug you?” TF???
the way i GASPED cuz wth T-T
That’s a compliment
who did they choose at the end tho? it jumped to a white screen @-@
i think the girl student chose the popular girl
I'd like to believe they didn't actually make them choose and just wanted to provoke the viewers into thinking about it because otherwise it's frankly cruel.
@@setsumikokonoe4814 i dont think so because at the end the girl student was apologising to the unpopular girl
seriously when they say unpopular girl just doesnt mean they are overweight bcs i find jinah very good looking and the second girl was as not as attractive as jinah , honestly that guys behaviour has changed with the second girl , jinah looks insanely attractive in her ig . jinah looks good even though she is a bit chubby , unpopular girl doesnt just resemble an overwieght girl , they should stop calling jinah unpopular girl
청소년들이여.
좋은 사람을 만나세요.
당신의 안전을 위해.
먼저 좋은 사람이 되세요.
타인과 당신의 행복을 위해.
예쁘고 못난 사람은 분명히 나뉘기 때문에 거기에 얽매이면 대부분 블행해집니다.
우선 좋은 친구를 만나세요.
美와 醜의 구분을 떠나.
Wait the chubby girl is so cute and adorable though 😭😭
STOP BOTH THESE GIRLS ARE SO CUTE AND I WANNA BE FRIENDS
I'm reading the comments but it feels like they've watched a differet video, because, I feel like both of them tried to be careful at first and they talked to both girls just fine.
wait so...who did each highschooler choose?
남학생분 너무 잘생기셧어요
와.... 완전 내 스타일.... 미쳤다....
I never get it why popular girl is always pretty slim and talkative while unpopular are wearing glasses healthy and shy🤨😒
한글자막은 없나요｡｡? 볼때마다 알아듣기가 힘드네요
Wait who did they choose😅?
me gusto mucho el video, fue divertido y entretenido, no se porque hay tantos malos comentarios, es triste :( personalmente creo que fue bueno que no mostraran con quien querían hacerse amigos porque siento que recibirían mucho hate, incluso recibieron cuando no lo mencionaron :( me agrado mucho el chico y realmente la chica es muy extrovertida, fue interesante el video
De acuerdo :)
What happened to the og like bom and Yumi
No matter if you are fat or thin, tall or short, rich or poor, at the end of the day, it's night
7:19 this is exactly how it should be addressed. Instead of denying the obvious he simply agreed in a respectful manner. Acknowledging someone’s appearance is not a bad thing, it’s when you think poorly of them because of their appearance that it becomes wrong. Props to this guy❤
The THING with "Attractive" person that people don't hold back on comments about your appearance... "That haircut is a crime, you should sue the person who made u do it your old hair looks wayyy better.." or the orginal "You look so TIRED today"... "Your eyes look bigger, where did u get work done ?"...... And people actually RARELY gives compliment cuz they're think that me being attrative is like something obvious so giving comment, rumors, gossip about it was NORMAL !!! 😂😂😂
These types show not nice and the korean society mindset also not nice. They are creating friendship also by appearance. The girl also need to know how to love herself. All people are beautiful . Girl don't space to tease her she need to be confident. They are make friends by appearance you don't need that kind of friend
First!
i think those girl's skirt is too short for a school uniform.. i think it's not good to be like that, you know about sexual abuse and they are not idol but high school student.. supposed to be more polite so it will be a good watch for other students.
They sometimes lie of age and they can be older, they probably already finished school. But if not, in their school kids wear short skirts and uniform
It's not their actual uniform
Not the same culture, shoulders and breast area are considered more suggestive in Asia whereas in western culture it's not uncommon to have a neckline
뭉탱이로 있다가 유링게슝 아이그냥
what was the result can any one tell
I think they both chose the popular girl
유진님? 쉐딩 무엇….
This video makes me so sad
Isn’t the popular girl 25? 😭
LMAO WHAT ?? FR ? 😃
yeah, i think they're no longer in school its just a uniform or wtv
Yes😂 thereis a video „guess the teenager“ she is in there and its true she is 25
the way the guy was more talkative with the second girl....
I don't understand why everyone is associating skinny and pretty she's literally got good skin😭
Damn them kids looks so mature, 😂😂 bro im 150cm at 17 bro im same height as girls my school same age 😂😂😂😂😂 im like the little junior ass hahaa
I have the same age and height too! 😂😔
facts@@Name-js9zc
We are twins imao😂 I'm also 150 at 17. I get bullied for my heights cause people around me are giants
Ngl, she’s the prettiest “overweight” girl I’ve seen.
i think the girl chose the popular girl and the guy chose the unpopular girl
The popular girl looks so much like taeyeon from girls generation!!
Wow the boy is sooo cute 😮😊!
skinny girl sounds like Jisoo
the first skinny girl, that is.
both are good but i honestly like the first girl,she is just amaing!
i wish to be friends with her
😔
Who did they pick at the end-? And also what are you guys on about.. they were equally nice in my opinion to both and you guys are overreacting, in my opinion.. from the guy it looked like he thought the skinny girl was a pick me or something and the bigger girl could relate to him more and that’s why he felt more comfortable talking to the bigger girl. And I also think it was pretty obvious they were both introverts, the skinny girl looked like she was more extroverted and started the convo.
The boy kept making odd body language with Jiahn, he looked awkward and disengaged into the conversation, he looked like he was avoiding her.
Jiahn and him started talking first. examine his body language too well:
The boy is quiet awkward with Jiahn, He seems to fear saying the wrong thing to Jiahn... if you look at his face IT IS VERY visible he has a lot in mind to say but is limited due to his shyness but Jiahn made him feel comfortable by the time He moved to talk to the other girl he felt a little in bcs Jiahn helped him adjust to the environment. He wasn't disengaged with Jiahn, he seem to have found a great companion.
no one would choose me
I choose you! 💜
Pokémon!
What are you a pokemon? Charmander, I choose you!
Ok no one asked. Stop fishing for compliments. You’re acting like your 11.
@@FingerFeetVitamins I can comment what tf I want on a UA-cam comment section, im not fishing for anything 🤡 you aren’t funny you’re just annoying, next time scroll instead of being an asshole
I always get bullied bcs im skinny :/
They always say i need to eat more
I can’t remember the names but I think the first girl has autistic trates not in a rude way bc I have it to and if she does have autism she might understand herself more :)
The one with glasses
연애가 하고 싶으시면 자기관리를 하시면 됩니다.
Damn
اوف
no but the thing is every 'big' person when they lose weight, they always turn out to look very pretty but can't say the same for skinny people...I've been skinny all my life and it doesn't matter if i gain a little weight or lose weight, my face doesn't get any flatterer. I'm not saying being 'big' or 'fat' is bad or not bad, but I do want to point out the fact that if you try hard and take care to stay in shape for your own self and health, you always have a high chance to become self confident and pretty. Ofc I'm not saying you to go on extreme diet, just eat lots of healthy food and keep on exercising and working out.
Being fat or big does not mean your not pretty wtf are you on gtfoh
… everybody is aware that everything outside your body is dead skin and cells right? 😅
40th like
솔직해져라....뚱뚱하면 누가 좋아하냐?
You’re so ew
Who truly loves you
Your thinking is really superficial
the korean beauty standards are very toxic ngl
this type of content is dehumanising asf
I genuinely thought everyone was beautiful and wonderful 🥺 I was bullied lots in school and I understand feeling trapped inside. I’d want to be friends with everyone there if I were in school. 화이팅! 🫶🏻
Hopefully you could do that. Cuz you will realize that being friendly didn't always a good thing. I know it, cuz I've been there. And sorry for my bad English btw
@@zenyoctavia8158 I understand and have been there! Be cautious 💜🫶🏻. Your English is great! 너 영어 잘한다! 저는 한국말 잘 못해요 미안해요 … ㅋㅋㅋ 😬