Advance expectation setting does work wonderfully. After listening to Rajni Mam I tried it on my 12 year old and it worked...though I had serious doubts it would. Instructing clearly beforehand has stopped my son from fiddling with basin taps at my moms place when we go for a visit. Also, telling him that I will be talking on the phone so I dont want to be disturbed for 10 min worked...although he started seeking my attention after about 10 min 😂. Thanks Rajni Mam. We underestimate our childrens abilities and this is the biggest disservuce any parent can do to their child. Presuming competence should be a mantra for parents who are raising a child..any child.
Advance expectation setting does work wonderfully. After listening to Rajni Mam I tried it on my 12 year old and it worked...though I had serious doubts it would. Instructing clearly beforehand has stopped my son from fiddling with basin taps at my moms place when we go for a visit. Also, telling him that I will be talking on the phone so I dont want to be disturbed for 10 min worked...although he started seeking my attention after about 10 min 😂. Thanks Rajni Mam. We underestimate our childrens abilities and this is the biggest disservuce any parent can do to their child. Presuming competence should be a mantra for parents who are raising a child..any child.