Exercise 7 - Validation

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  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2024
  • Welcome back to my monthly series of exercises from my book, "The Laws of Human Nature." Today, I examine the importance of validation.
    Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature, and most recently, The Daily Laws.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 81

  • @RobertGreeneOfficial
    @RobertGreeneOfficial  3 місяці тому +30

    If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing to my UA-cam channel and picking up a copy of "The Laws of Human Nature":amzn.to/3HJdGuA

    • @CarolR-hw6qr
      @CarolR-hw6qr 3 місяці тому

      Good advice.❤

    • @rohitborse922
      @rohitborse922 3 місяці тому

      Thank you Robert... I have always admired you for your persistence... I have heard your life stories from you... thank you for being brutally honest in your works...I really appreciate it.

  • @DecentralizedGaming000
    @DecentralizedGaming000 3 місяці тому +94

    Thank you, Robert for your sweet kindness and making these videos. You don't have to, and I really appreciate them, and I know others do as well.

    • @RobertGreeneOfficial
      @RobertGreeneOfficial  3 місяці тому +32

      Thank you for watching. Glad you enjoyed it.

    • @losmit2194
      @losmit2194 3 місяці тому +11

      O shoot 😮 Robert Greene replied to you. I bet that made your day

    • @ibraheemmonks8866
      @ibraheemmonks8866 3 місяці тому +8

      ​@@RobertGreeneOfficialRobert I really hope you read this, you have had a profound impact on my life - I have been obsessed with mastery but until I read your book I had no idea how to get there. You've laid out a roadmap for myself and many others that no one else has managed to do before. You've helped me gain a deep sense of purpose and to understand what it takes to truely become a master; I cannot thank you enough!

    • @bachinsanchal1007
      @bachinsanchal1007 3 місяці тому +1

      A profound yes

    • @hildaoti
      @hildaoti 3 місяці тому +1

      👍👍

  • @TheMonoilove
    @TheMonoilove 3 місяці тому +32

    Robert Greene you have changed my life in so many ways.

  • @shaheemjackson283
    @shaheemjackson283 15 днів тому +1

    Very important. But this validation MUST be earned...

  • @neilrivera4194
    @neilrivera4194 10 днів тому +1

    My favorite author in the entire world

  • @itachiyt8525
    @itachiyt8525 3 місяці тому +18

    These exercises are a helpful addition to the knowledge that are already in your book

  • @TheLove1Makes
    @TheLove1Makes 2 дні тому

    Validation when getting or giving can be monumental. Like I appreciate you. You know your really a good person. I just want to let you know that. Peace

  • @satnamo
    @satnamo 3 місяці тому +5

    Do not bother people who want to ignore you

  • @VinothKumar18193
    @VinothKumar18193 3 місяці тому +12

    Love you, sir. Your 48 Laws of Power book is my favourite

  • @hertzdigo5412
    @hertzdigo5412 3 місяці тому +8

    As a person I really appreciate what you're doing for humanity awakening us to the knowledge of reality we have been deceived since we were young through music movies adult movies and all this did not align with the essence of human soul Thank Sir May Allah bless you and guide you...Thank you

    • @RobertGreeneOfficial
      @RobertGreeneOfficial  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for watching. I appreciate your kind words.

    • @eugeneabillar9506
      @eugeneabillar9506 3 місяці тому

      @@RobertGreeneOfficial Please stay healthy Sir Greene. You have deeply inspired millions of minds of this generation.

  • @GilTheArtAlien
    @GilTheArtAlien 3 місяці тому +9

    Read The 50th Law last year twice and still reading The Laws of Human Nature. Your material thus far, are the among best things to learn from that very few people actually teach us about in life.

  • @HappyPlace48
    @HappyPlace48 3 місяці тому +2

    I would love a friend like Robert.

  • @sophiemonfared2531
    @sophiemonfared2531 3 місяці тому +6

    Dear Professor Rober. I truly admire you. Thank you so much for your insights and your advice. I listen to you each time I feel down or discouraged. Kind regards.

  • @Aur9345
    @Aur9345 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Robert, keeping validation in mind, will help tremendously in increasing social competency.

  • @ReallyGoodLife
    @ReallyGoodLife 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for reminding me of the fact that kindness and validation are essential for success in all our relationships

  • @True38
    @True38 2 місяці тому +2

    I've done that to almost everybody throughout my life still to this day. People have rarely ever done that to me. And I'm an introvert.
    Think about that one.

  • @jojokandrianto3144
    @jojokandrianto3144 3 місяці тому +8

    God bless you Robert. Thank you for all the valuable advice you gives to us. ❤

  • @Alpha-qz8wj
    @Alpha-qz8wj 3 місяці тому +3

    Your books have nurtured me, shaping me into who I am today. Forever indebted to you for changing my life.

  • @DouBBy-The-Great
    @DouBBy-The-Great 3 місяці тому +3

    I'm reading the 33 strategies of war and I'm amazed.. I thought the laws of human nature was the last great Robert Greene book I've read🥺🥺this gets me excited for the art of seduction and mastery

  • @RachidHabil-qi5nb
    @RachidHabil-qi5nb 3 місяці тому +6

    Dear Robert Greene,
    I am a research student from Morocco eagerly awaiting your book "The Law of Mastery." It is such an important topic. I highly recommend everyone to follow your wisdom and read your books.
    I would like to express my anticipation for your upcoming book and hope that it will delve into the concept of desires and how we can elevate them. Additionally, I hope it sheds light on how we can achieve our goals in a noble way.
    rachid

    • @blueicer101
      @blueicer101 3 місяці тому

      Doesn't he just have a book called "mastery"? or is this like a followup book you're anticipating?

  • @papamordiop4857
    @papamordiop4857 3 місяці тому +3

    We can feel how you care.Thanks

  • @dawnversationspodcast444
    @dawnversationspodcast444 3 місяці тому +2

    I love this message! You are the best! Thank you!

  • @yelena3285
    @yelena3285 3 місяці тому +3

    Love this episode. Thank you, inspired me to call my child and express my gratitude.

  • @didntask6019
    @didntask6019 3 місяці тому +2

    people do require validation and this makes them feel bad because as you said this is a rare case. instead will it not be efficient if we were to seek validation from within ourself. the only problem is how to stop seeking others so that you can feel good about yourself

  • @vishvishnu6151
    @vishvishnu6151 3 місяці тому +5

    Robert 😊

  • @bachinsanchal1007
    @bachinsanchal1007 3 місяці тому +1

    Robert, i cant express how happy and relieved i feel after watching your videos! Im an adult child of narcissistic parental(father) abuse, that lierally destroyed my 32 years of life, im single, have no friends, only acquaintances and colleagues. I feel no motivation to stay alive, please please make a detailed video,Sir, on,how can one restart their life and build themselves as quickly as possible and also find a right partner for life.
    Thanks a lot

  • @bink865
    @bink865 2 місяці тому +2

    He's right, you know

  • @RandomPerson-mq3pl
    @RandomPerson-mq3pl 3 місяці тому +1

    Yesterday I was having one of the best conversations with a friend, and what I observed from it was that we were both validating each other in some way. Id tell him something about what i did last week, and he said it was nice, it made me talk on and on about it and open up more. I think i had the same effect on him too. I agree with you, validation feels best when its given in an area in us thats yearning for it, like a child seeking the validation of their parents for a drawing they made, its deeply motivating. I think it gives us that feeling of importance for our efforts. I can only imagine what the opposite of validation can do to a person.
    Robert ive been reading your books laws of human nature and mastery recently and i really cant put them down, theyre very interesting. Thank you for your work and these vidoes.

  • @mstra2341
    @mstra2341 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes, true. Some validation needed and we appreciate it when we are validated. You have some pepple live on validation, always need to be validated. This is insecurity. I know someone have to be validated all the time.

  • @Dominusesseeulembro
    @Dominusesseeulembro 3 місяці тому +5

    Thanks from Brazil!

  • @DuttyBoukmansToe
    @DuttyBoukmansToe 3 місяці тому

    I bought, read, used and currently living the life of various characters from your books. One Love!!

  • @mikeltolman7622
    @mikeltolman7622 3 місяці тому

    You sir are my MASTER! I OWN ALL YOUR WRIGHTINGS.
    I'm becoming more self aware of
    Personal GOALS!
    THANK YOU!

  • @MurdockNI
    @MurdockNI 3 місяці тому

    We love you Robert.

  • @LWP955
    @LWP955 3 місяці тому +1

    since l watch your videos l literaly start to fall in love with psycology.Ya show us how beatiful and intresting psycology is.Thank ya so much.

  • @bagadi9917
    @bagadi9917 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Robert

  • @sikandarali615
    @sikandarali615 3 місяці тому +1

    Love you Robert

  • @gayathrirajagopal3051
    @gayathrirajagopal3051 3 місяці тому +1

    Love you Robert❤❤❤

  • @Darkpsychologyy
    @Darkpsychologyy 3 місяці тому +1

    Good ❤

  • @shannarsaidSwahili
    @shannarsaidSwahili 3 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @mehdielhajbi5243
    @mehdielhajbi5243 3 місяці тому

    Robert Greene is a great writer.

  • @jafaralnwiser1769
    @jafaralnwiser1769 3 місяці тому

    your books changed the way i see life

  • @tomicaa11
    @tomicaa11 3 місяці тому +1

    Praised work gets repeated. Even if something was not done well, the thing we get praised and validated on, we will make sure not to change, or prove that someone was wrong for praising us.

  • @a.bogdanenko8309
    @a.bogdanenko8309 3 місяці тому

    I can't write about the impact you had on me through your books and videos. ❤

  • @kevinappEmonkey
    @kevinappEmonkey 3 місяці тому

    I search Robert greene video talking about validation,and then luckily 1day ago he Made this video,a good luck

  • @abdullahtalib4335
    @abdullahtalib4335 3 місяці тому

    I'd love to see Robert Greene write a novel blending all his wisdom about people. Imagine him creating cool characters inspired by his ideas like the 48 Laws, seduction, and mastery. That could be the ultimate story!

  • @divided_and_conquered1854
    @divided_and_conquered1854 Місяць тому +1

    The compliments should be _genuine_ to come off correctly.

  • @F1ct10n17
    @F1ct10n17 3 місяці тому

    (power and intelligent) you will pay the great price. Impossible to use power when all words and actions have become names, no more secret to hide, even enemies knows you and every word you spoke or type is determined by names. That is the highest power. Absolute prisoners of word.

    • @F1ct10n17
      @F1ct10n17 3 місяці тому

      Ex.
      I -(me,you,name) want -(like, crave,see) something (a thing, 3 out of 10,secret )
      The name? People will decide.

  • @ashply4306
    @ashply4306 3 місяці тому +4

    Love your book

    • @RobertGreeneOfficial
      @RobertGreeneOfficial  3 місяці тому +2

      Which one is your favorite?

    • @ashply4306
      @ashply4306 3 місяці тому

      @@RobertGreeneOfficial All of them. My favourite is The Art of Seduction and The law of Human Nature.

    • @genius-pf1mi
      @genius-pf1mi 3 місяці тому

      ​@@RobertGreeneOfficial art of subduction because seductionnis ultimate form of power
      -love from india

  • @brightgamer2197
    @brightgamer2197 2 місяці тому +1

    1:58 "how👹👹rarely👹👹 "

  • @ajaychambers5458
    @ajaychambers5458 3 місяці тому

    VALIDATION. Been waiting for this a good while now. Thank you Mr. Greene.
    However, isn't self validation more important? Because if someone does not validate, respect and love themselves, wouldn't be some what of a narcissist. To be seeking someone's attention. Help me to understand the balance.

  • @thehaziesthazel
    @thehaziesthazel 3 місяці тому

    When you give too much validation to someone, they sometimes get used to it and neglect you. They become complacent to the fact that you admire them and they don't make effort to reciprocate,

  • @jimdo9797
    @jimdo9797 3 місяці тому +1

    Robert Greene, This suck. I now know that I will spend at least 2-3 hour thinking about it and writting about it on a papper.
    Yes that is my favirot time to think about things with a deep mean that people say and reflect on it, then writting about it.
    You give me this really love of writting almost everydag Robert!

  • @abelashine5930
    @abelashine5930 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow cool

  • @losmit2194
    @losmit2194 3 місяці тому

    I want the Black cover.

  • @Passporthomies
    @Passporthomies 3 місяці тому

    Can't remember the last time anyone validated me. Not my voice, not my art, not my outlook nada. Its like im invisible. Im trying to change. But yes we all want to be validated. Its painful to be look over
    .

  • @muai
    @muai 3 місяці тому

    I deeply conncect to your content

  • @tabor503
    @tabor503 3 місяці тому

    Robert you seem to have me all wrong. Tho I still appreciate ur vids

  • @ThePoisonvee
    @ThePoisonvee 3 місяці тому

    Do you have any book signing?

  • @muchomabbq7785
    @muchomabbq7785 3 місяці тому

    Hello Mr. Greene,
    Could you please elaborate more on chapter 16: The law of aggression.
    On how it is an essential tool to gain control of one's circumstances but also what happens when you let it get lost. And how we compensate for that.
    In reading it i immediately linked it to machiavelli's qoute 'it is better to be impetuous than cautious'.
    I would like to know if thats how you meant it.
    Not recklessness but bold calculated risk to serve a particular goal and gain control.
    It would be highly aprreciated thank you.

  • @fastslow002
    @fastslow002 3 місяці тому

    i really need call of athena in my empty head.
    i feel like loosing iq over time...for real😭💀💀

  • @bobbuilder155
    @bobbuilder155 3 місяці тому

    So you are giving people advice on manipulating me. Sorry ro say but validation isn't what I need. What I need is feedback.