Remember, 10+ years ago, if you didn't have social media or dating apps, you we're considered boring. Now it's the opposite. If you don't have them, the person you met considers you exciting and mysterious, and actually thinks about you. They reach out to you by text or call. They believe they found the diamond in the rough. I can normally tell when I meet someone whether or not they have social media or not. If they don't, they still have an innocent presence in how they view the world. That within itself is attractive. It's a breath of fresh air, really.
A lot of women use them for attention, to give themselves an emotional pump up, seeking validation of sorts. They can become hooked on it like someone with an addiction such as gambling, drugs, etc.
To pull broads from a dating app you have to have a lot and I mean A LOT of game. I'm tempted to put up a fake photo of a super model to use as an experiement.
There is no way I'm paying for that shit. Besides women come up their to boost their egos. Even the fat asses get attention from all the simps on there. It's a zoo.
They're forcing men to inter-compete at a higher level. In the past a man could have an average job and be out of shape and get a house and wife. Now average job can't pay for a 1 room sht hole, can't get you a gf, and you have to be both highly skilled in the workplace and highly aesthetic while posting and flexing your status on social media to have the same options. It's actually women that have become much weaker
Brilliant take on it. I thought dating apps could lead me to find people I otherwise would not meet in my daily life, or at the bars/clubs.. but they are completely broken. (Reading about how only 5% get matches, and only 2% of those matches ever leads to real dates. What a joke, plus they hide profiles that would have been a good match for you, to keep you on the app spending money). Endlessly exploring, avoiding etc. nailed it. Still my cosine met his long-term partner on a dating app.. but was years ago. I got one date after 6 years, but devastated my sense of self-worth. Overall a waste of time, and very toxic. Better off just going to the sports-bar or the gym etc. ;) - Found 5 girls at the gym that I like now.. only issue now is that I actually have to talk to them, to ask them out. LOL.
Great video, everything you said is spot on. Dating apps aren't designed to foster relationships only profit and that's why their stock is going down the toilet because people are catching on.
7:45 Yes even just the littlest or rapport gets people wanting to talk with you the last time I legitimately went out as usual I did not expect to meet anybody & even though they were both attractive males & even though they liked me & even though knew that I wasn't really their type I think you agree for our mental health it is important to build rapport with others in public & also for many other people to actually know you Because the people who would be the only people who would be interested in you anyways gravitate closer & closer to you As you know these are the laws of magnetism. & Yes you are right people are wasting theirs & other peoples lives being incels on dating apps when they should invest in rapport Conversations all lead to good things Where there is no conversation there is no pairing off
I met my girl on Snapchat. Lives one state over. We first met in person on my birthday. Still together. Theres no formula to relationships everyone’s situation is different but my only advice is don’t kiss anyone’s ass whether its a potential partner, employer, family member, political etc. Know who you are as an individual. Don’t worry about sex
Bumble and Hinge can work for relationships. But at the same time..doesn't being on a dating app mean that we're not socializing enough ? That's something to think about
On apps I get lots of likes and messages but it very very rarely ever turns into anything. I went on an actual date last night that won't go anywhere either. I genuinely think women just don't really like men anymore.
10:56 I remember an article that said dating apps dont work but people do find others on the net but generally outdoors nearby is the easiest way yes going to the city vs being local is not such a big difference as long as people actually know you
Takes time. Took me last couple of years of nothing on the apps. I failed alot before i found her and she found me. Been together for 7 months. Goodluck fellas.
I got 364 matches on a dating app it freaked me out and I deleted the app I think people should have to do a hiv test and a sexual health test before they can even go on these sites because some people have a different person every night
When society gets another go-around we will abolish “dating”. Courtship will take its place and where will be only two sexual/romantic designations, single or married. Matchmaking will take the place of dating apps.
Met my amazing wife through a dating app. Only person i ever actually met in person too- after speaking to hundreds of matches but always there being a reason why we never actually met in person, until my wife😅
11:20 Yes just living & being social & *trust worthy* & your imagination "carries you" just fine on its own, anytime you share mutual attraction with another person you both know that that is possible & that mutual attraction fully expressed & experienced (probably recorded on CCTV) is much more true & exciting than delusions You should not abuse the trust of those who show you they are attracted to you & you usually know who is having sexual fantasies about you they dont hide it but show it because they trust you & yes you have to be very socially mature to be worthy of the trust of someone who shows that to you & not humiliate or shame them them & to respect their privacy in showing that to you even if nothing comes of it Like I said I met two people recently & I knew I was not the type of either of them but I let one of them touch my hip knowing I would not leave with them while they were talking to me they were touching my hip it was nice for what it was & I will always be nice to that person This is totally normal for all men & women who go out I pass so many clubs & bars while I bike *& most people of all ages meet no one & I know you know this* Details like this are important because you are right no one ever is around anyone because they have to have self respect & respect others to successfully be around others in the first place So it is important to just be social for its own sakes even if you are alone yes it is healthy
Found my gf on Tinder. We are planning our life together now. It took long time to get here. I probably spoke with over 300 girls between 2019-2023. Went to around 20 dates. It was lot of shit digging before I found golden nugget. It's possible only if both persons know what they are looking for and are not on dating apps to look for validation.
3:00 Yes dating apps never seem to take off because yes nobody ever meets anyone compatible there have not been any dating app books or movies about soul mates meeting on dating apps if there were it would be a market in the millions
Have this dating app and it's pretty much as any other app you have where you go to when you're bored for a min. 95% of profiles are fake so all i do there is delete nonsense DM's, unmatch and then match with other fake profiles again. Rinse and repeat lol 🤣🤣🤣
In Canada they are terrible now, i really don't think it's designed for getting dates. If I want to date someone i really don't want to date, then I can that on the apps 😅
Think this is true for dating apps specifically. But for social media in general, e.g. Instagram, if you've got the right profile, status etc., it's the only real way to clean up. Most women value this over real life
Exactly, even in person these girls are constantly checking social media so dates are just social media flexes and if you have nothing to post or brag about it's over
I thought maybe the corporates that own them would use the data and messages to find evidence of infidelity to smear anyone they notice taking significant action against them.
Dating apps don’t work for men but there isn’t any alternative I think most zoomers have checked out of the dating market while the last of the millennials are losing their minds.
What’s up brother!!! You drinking that Mr. Hyde Max Pump? I just bought some online after seeing your video on your fitness channel. Do you lift at night or in the morning? This is Brett O from your livestreams btw. Decided not to have my real name and pic on here anymore lol. Great video as always!
Exactly it works like the videogames, this apps are designed to reach our lower vibes of the brain. Also porn and lottery and all the TV shows and so on. I truly recommend like the Master LFA teachs us, to try once in a while to move into the real world even if this only means to start a good talk with the gas station cashier🤓💖💖💖💖
You're right. Actually me was such a gamer after a brake up i came to tinder just watching the market. But i had to sent two fotos and i was in the game. But in a year i fu...cked around 30 very hot girls on top of real life. Just a few dates each. But you explained very smart the girls that are highly intersted have your phone number, but you never see them. But i had a lot of fun even with my neighbours in Argentina, exiting week ends made by tinder.
I've got the best results on FB dating and it's free. I'm booked up with meetings this weekend. To me it's just a gateway to meeting women in person. A tool in addition to organic irl meetings.
@@dragorn3212 A pic of me with helmet on at the gas station with my bike, a bathroom mirror selfie (clothed), a selfie from inside an industrial facility. Hardly displaying 10% lifestyle 😆
im a mill. not a gen z. ive been slaying women on dating apps for years since myspace and as a mill we were also having women we met in person . no offense . im 34 now. im over dating apps . its really lame now and you can meet women in real life and in person . when your on a dating app for a long time you get to socially weird and dont like to talk and scared to talk to women in the real world . too many single mothers on fb, or weird , not so good looking, never had a snapchat, i quit instagram , i dont do tik tok . get off the dating apps and get outside and enjoy the real world for a change.
To be fair you should see these gen z girls. The live off of social media and what guy is posting what interesting story or achievement. So if you meet these girls in person they are just checking your social media with you standing right there and getting bored if your life isn't a movie
The longer people do not date with intention and put boundaries and have respect for themselves the longer they still single. After 30 after 40 after 50 you just get worst at relationships. It’s you!
Can’t speak for every guy, but at 50 the desire to ever live with a woman again is completely gone lol… she can come over for the weekend but Sunday nite she gots to gooooo!!! My peace is priceless
Remember, 10+ years ago, if you didn't have social media or dating apps, you we're considered boring. Now it's the opposite. If you don't have them, the person you met considers you exciting and mysterious, and actually thinks about you. They reach out to you by text or call. They believe they found the diamond in the rough.
I can normally tell when I meet someone whether or not they have social media or not. If they don't, they still have an innocent presence in how they view the world. That within itself is attractive. It's a breath of fresh air, really.
A lot of women use them for attention, to give themselves an emotional pump up, seeking validation of sorts. They can become hooked on it like someone with an addiction such as gambling, drugs, etc.
To pull broads from a dating app you have to have a lot and I mean A LOT of game. I'm tempted to put up a fake photo of a super model to use as an experiement.
They only up there for validation
I don’t use them. I don’t meet people on social media. It’s too dangerous and shady
Agreed, that said I met my wife through one- just as I was about to delete it forever after some bizarre and frankly unpleasant experiences
👍
Deleted the mess. Focused on my grind👌💯 Can meet a woman outside any day of the week😅 Endless swiping and liking pics is not for me.
Exactly! 🎉 Cheers
There is no way I'm paying for that shit. Besides women come up their to boost their egos. Even the fat asses get attention from all the simps on there. It's a zoo.
Every women on dating apps thinks they're dimes. Yet mostly not good even in large cities like NYC
I’ve seen like he said almost the same girls there. For example I’ve matched and talk to some of the those girls who are still there.
Yeah even the fat nasty looking ones
Dating Apps & porn are making men weak
Absolutely agreed 👍👍
They're forcing men to inter-compete at a higher level. In the past a man could have an average job and be out of shape and get a house and wife. Now average job can't pay for a 1 room sht hole, can't get you a gf, and you have to be both highly skilled in the workplace and highly aesthetic while posting and flexing your status on social media to have the same options.
It's actually women that have become much weaker
No, what makes men weak is not hitting the gym
Men are not spending time with other men.
Chasing a poon makes men weak.
Dating apps are just ego boost for women. Total waste of time unless you look like Tyler Durden from Fight Club
Avoid these apps like you avoid carcinogens. Because they are the same.
I’ve been on dating apps and got a few dates every here and there; never paid one cent and I don’t plan to.
Enjoy an awesome weekend LFA! ☀️🙏🏻
Brilliant take on it. I thought dating apps could lead me to find people I otherwise would not meet in my daily life, or at the bars/clubs.. but they are completely broken.
(Reading about how only 5% get matches, and only 2% of those matches ever leads to real dates. What a joke, plus they hide profiles that would have been a good match for you, to keep you on the app spending money). Endlessly exploring, avoiding etc. nailed it. Still my cosine met his long-term partner on a dating app.. but was years ago.
I got one date after 6 years, but devastated my sense of self-worth. Overall a waste of time, and very toxic. Better off just going to the sports-bar or the gym etc. ;) - Found 5 girls at the gym that I like now.. only issue now is that I actually have to talk to them, to ask them out. LOL.
🚩 Red flag nr 1: She's on a dating app...
Great video, everything you said is spot on. Dating apps aren't designed to foster relationships only profit and that's why their stock is going down the toilet because people are catching on.
7:45 Yes even just the littlest or rapport gets people wanting to talk with you the last time I legitimately went out as usual I did not expect to meet anybody & even though they were both attractive males & even though they liked me & even though knew that I wasn't really their type I think you agree for our mental health it is important to build rapport with others in public & also for many other people to actually know you
Because the people who would be the only people who would be interested in you anyways gravitate closer & closer to you
As you know these are the laws of magnetism.
& Yes you are right people are wasting theirs & other peoples lives being incels on dating apps when they should invest in rapport
Conversations all lead to good things
Where there is no conversation there is no pairing off
I met my girl on Snapchat. Lives one state over. We first met in person on my birthday. Still together. Theres no formula to relationships everyone’s situation is different but my only advice is don’t kiss anyone’s ass whether its a potential partner, employer, family member, political etc. Know who you are as an individual. Don’t worry about sex
Dating apps are a means to an end. That end is NOT marriage or relationships.
I dunno, I only ever met one person through a dating app- she is now my wife. And an incredible lady too I must say!
I go out and hunt for connections. I love that ! That special lady can work in a library or dinner . Dating app never done one never will.
I'm don't know anything about dating apps, or dating, never done either. But this man knows what he's talking about, so saith my intuition.
The girl down the street would also be outside waiting for you without social media
thank you for sharing , the last 2 videos you posted couldn't have come at a better time , it really is a blow to one's self esteem after a while
Chest and biceps looking on point LFA bro!
good morning lads, have a good weekend!
1:13 "It satisfies this human desire to explore" exactly.. Yes.
Tinder The Time Killer 🚫
A voluntary return to Plato's cave. Everything "online" is. Be free.
Great message, and one i needed to hear at this moment. Perfect timing.
I like your intake on different subjects. Thanks for the video!
Wasn’t expecting this today. Thanks
Good video brother!
I feel like narcissists use them to get attention from multiple people
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
yep, agreed
100% truth. I've seen the Same girls for 10 years over and over again and matched with them dozens of times haha
Yet they’ll complain they can’t find one guy. Absolutely comical because they get loads and loads of matches
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr yep
Very insightful way to look at these things. I used to clean up on tinder in 2014. I tried a year or so ago and got bad results.
Bumble and Hinge can work for relationships. But at the same time..doesn't being on a dating app mean that we're not socializing enough ? That's something to think about
On apps I get lots of likes and messages but it very very rarely ever turns into anything. I went on an actual date last night that won't go anywhere either. I genuinely think women just don't really like men anymore.
10:56 I remember an article that said dating apps dont work but people do find others on the net but generally outdoors nearby is the easiest way yes going to the city vs being local is not such a big difference as long as people actually know you
Takes time. Took me last couple of years of nothing on the apps. I failed alot before i found her and she found me. Been together for 7 months. Goodluck fellas.
I got 364 matches on a dating app it freaked me out and I deleted the app I think people should have to do a hiv test and a sexual health test before they can even go on these sites because some people have a different person every night
😂😂😂😂😂
I created a fake female profile with nothing but a blank photo and got 50+ matches almost instantly so i realize i have no chance as an average guy
Your eyes look like Clint Eastwood. 😊
Thank you for these videos you're helping me to unserstand what my son's going through.
When society gets another go-around we will abolish “dating”. Courtship will take its place and where will be only two sexual/romantic designations, single or married. Matchmaking will take the place of dating apps.
Come on, it's really about hookups and sex. Your value goes down with every "date". Online human marketing normalized.
100%..
Met my amazing wife through a dating app. Only person i ever actually met in person too- after speaking to hundreds of matches but always there being a reason why we never actually met in person, until my wife😅
11:20 Yes just living & being social & *trust worthy* & your imagination "carries you" just fine on its own, anytime you share mutual attraction with another person you both know that that is possible & that mutual attraction fully expressed & experienced (probably recorded on CCTV) is much more true & exciting than delusions
You should not abuse the trust of those who show you they are attracted to you & you usually know who is having sexual fantasies about you they dont hide it but show it because they trust you & yes you have to be very socially mature to be worthy of the trust of someone who shows that to you & not humiliate or shame them them & to respect their privacy in showing that to you even if nothing comes of it
Like I said I met two people recently & I knew I was not the type of either of them but I let one of them touch my hip knowing I would not leave with them while they were talking to me they were touching my hip it was nice for what it was & I will always be nice to that person
This is totally normal for all men & women who go out
I pass so many clubs & bars while I bike *& most people of all ages meet no one & I know you know this*
Details like this are important because you are right no one ever is around anyone because they have to have self respect & respect others to successfully be around others in the first place
So it is important to just be social for its own sakes even if you are alone yes it is healthy
I met my wife on Myspace lmao. But that was nearly 20 years ago when women had values and morals.
Found my gf on Tinder. We are planning our life together now. It took long time to get here. I probably spoke with over 300 girls between 2019-2023. Went to around 20 dates. It was lot of shit digging before I found golden nugget. It's possible only if both persons know what they are looking for and are not on dating apps to look for validation.
Lmfao
Give it a few years lol
@@jasonmyers8278 God One Chief!
It's just your turn. She'll be back on there in a few months. Lol.
Nice one dude
I love your thoughts here
3:00 Yes dating apps never seem to take off because yes nobody ever meets anyone compatible there have not been any dating app books or movies about soul mates meeting on dating apps if there were it would be a market in the millions
Attention.
Excellent video. I just deleted hinge.
0:53 yes to "make money" off of (abusing) us .. Your awesome shirt is like "woooooo weeee yeah oh yesss" :P boom LFA: work of art
Have this dating app and it's pretty much as any other app you have where you go to when you're bored for a min. 95% of profiles are fake so all i do there is delete nonsense DM's, unmatch and then match with other fake profiles again. Rinse and repeat lol 🤣🤣🤣
In Canada they are terrible now, i really don't think it's designed for getting dates. If I want to date someone i really don't want to date, then I can that on the apps 😅
Think this is true for dating apps specifically. But for social media in general, e.g. Instagram, if you've got the right profile, status etc., it's the only real way to clean up. Most women value this over real life
Exactly, even in person these girls are constantly checking social media so dates are just social media flexes and if you have nothing to post or brag about it's over
I thought maybe the corporates that own them would use the data and messages to find evidence of infidelity to smear anyone they notice taking significant action against them.
We need a "State of the world" LFA aka Chad Thundercock live stream right now
Great video
Thanks for the video. Is there any other way nowdays to find someone for dating?
Of course! You just have to go out and find them.
Dating apps don’t work for men but there isn’t any alternative I think most zoomers have checked out of the dating market while the last of the millennials are losing their minds.
4:43 yes its a delusional fantasy and you can only date a person not a delusional fantasy so you have to actually like people in general yes
What’s up brother!!! You drinking that Mr. Hyde Max Pump? I just bought some online after seeing your video on your fitness channel. Do you lift at night or in the morning? This is Brett O from your livestreams btw. Decided not to have my real name and pic on here anymore lol. Great video as always!
Yessir
Yup ...
Exactly it works like the videogames, this apps are designed to reach our lower vibes of the brain. Also porn and lottery and all the TV shows and so on. I truly recommend like the Master LFA teachs us, to try once in a while to move into the real world even if this only means to start a good talk with the gas station cashier🤓💖💖💖💖
Chads and sugar daddies mostly. If only 5% of men get matches
You're right. Actually me was such a gamer after a brake up i came to tinder just watching the market. But i had to sent two fotos and i was in the game. But in a year i fu...cked around 30 very hot girls on top of real life. Just a few dates each.
But you explained very smart the girls that are highly intersted have your phone number, but you never see them.
But i had a lot of fun even with my neighbours in Argentina, exiting week ends made by tinder.
0:03 💪🏼👋🏻
I've got the best results on FB dating and it's free. I'm booked up with meetings this weekend. To me it's just a gateway to meeting women in person. A tool in addition to organic irl meetings.
That works if you display a lifestyle in the top 10% of guys. Otherwise it's pointless
@@dragorn3212 A pic of me with helmet on at the gas station with my bike, a bathroom mirror selfie (clothed), a selfie from inside an industrial facility. Hardly displaying 10% lifestyle 😆
@@THunt-ss4hy got to blame the bike there then
You can say the same thing for dating
you know you can play game for a story?
Cannot become a member for lfa after dark
You're handsome. ❤️
Hinge is legit.
The goal of online dating is to actually go on dates… in real life.
Obviously if you’re not meeting people in real life then it’s a dumb waste of time
prey beware
Ive finally come to realize that this channel is 100% autobiographical. Respect brother.
100%
im a mill. not a gen z. ive been slaying women on dating apps for years since myspace and as a mill we were also having women we met in person . no offense . im 34 now. im over dating apps . its really lame now and you can meet women in real life and in person . when your on a dating app for a long time you get to socially weird and dont like to talk and scared to talk to women in the real world . too many single mothers on fb, or weird , not so good looking, never had a snapchat, i quit instagram , i dont do tik tok . get off the dating apps and get outside and enjoy the real world for a change.
To be fair you should see these gen z girls. The live off of social media and what guy is posting what interesting story or achievement. So if you meet these girls in person they are just checking your social media with you standing right there and getting bored if your life isn't a movie
The longer people do not date with intention and put boundaries and have respect for themselves the longer they still single. After 30 after 40 after 50 you just get worst at relationships. It’s you!
Can’t speak for every guy, but at 50 the desire to ever live with a woman again is completely gone lol… she can come over for the weekend but Sunday nite she gots to gooooo!!! My peace is priceless
If this the internal dialogue with your self than yes it will be put into existence
@@Andrew_406 buy a dog 🐶
That's sad reality unfortunately as we age our chances to find someone decreases😢😢😢
I’d rather “rescue” an animal then buy one from a seller…. But none the less, I don’t need or have time for one as I have a life and hobbies lol ..
For moneeeeey🤑🤑🤑🤑
Wasting an entire life on computing endlessly how to get more women, like an un self aware addict who never matures.
the places to explore include the bar, the gym, local public venues, joining a class ... some examples
Big fan from India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Good, stay there.
Doctor Skankypoon can help
🟦wool socks to sleep = depression cure , seriously🟨🟤
100%.
Great angle, fresh and ready for the day:) Keep it cool. 🌤️