This is a testimony of my life. God told me the man I was married to was not the man for me. Every time I was fasting and praying for my marriage. Praying the word of God and reminding Him of His promises. But our life was getting more and more apart every day. The infidelity was so high that even my best friend had a child with him. I never gave up on him. I believed that God will change him. I reminded God how he saved Abraham"s marriage when he had given Sarah up and said he was his sister. I was working in the hospital. Before we started work. I always held 2 people to pray for my x husband. I asked God to give me one good year of remembrance. I had none good times. I was physically verbally, emotionally and financially abused. I was fasting and praying all the times because God was using me to minister His Word in the hospital and buses in South Africa. The church declare 21 days fasting for a conference. I did 30 days and said to God that I add 7 days for my marriage. He was the first man in my life. I had beautiful kids with him. I wanted this to work out. In that 7 days fasting I asked God who was this man I was married to. I found out he had 2 kids with another woman as well born the same year as my 2 youngest kids. God said he was not for me. And I didn't believe at first I though it was devil wanted me to give up. The word that came out of my heart was whatever God put together no one can put asunder. God said not every marriage are put together by Him. I asked Him why did He allowed me to have kids if he was not the man for me. He said children belong to Him. I am the vessel used by Him to carry them in my womb. They are His seed. I was a nanny for Him. During the end of that fasting I had 3 dreams and I knew God was convincing me about the wrong marriage. I saw the signs but I had no idea because I was not saved when I got married. The first dream was : I saw a magazine that was called Drum in South Africa. They were having competition of beautiful couples. People sent pictures of their wedding day as couple and they chose the best couples and would win a holiday. I was couples in that page with husbands but I saw my picture as well but where it was supposed to be my husband picture was an empty space. It was a mystery. The second dream I was walking on the main street in my city and when I looked at my self through the shop windows, I looked good and my hair was very long than usual and it was right behind my back. But what puzzled me. I was wearing a widow dress. The dress they put on women who lost their husband. And I declared when I got saved that I will never wear that garment to show everyone I was a widow. I got upset about it. The last dream It was the renewal of marriage vows in my church. All married couples came and stand in front of the pastor and renew their marriage vows. I was in the front with my wedding gown and I was alone. The pastor asked from the congregation where was the husband and he said can someone stand with me so I could say my vows and go. All of the suddenly he entered in the church very drunk that he couldn't stand. He had a drag logs on his head. He never left hair on his head. He was always shaving it. He didn't come up to the stage. I ran out of the church crying and I realised I didn't have shoes on my feet. I held my wedding gown with 2 hands up. Protecting it from getting dirty. I hid myself in a small room that had a little mirror and tears were falling down my cheeks messing my make up. Then I believed it was God.
Thanks for sharing your story. I can relate to it. I cried out for many years for the restoration of my marriage, but God loved me more. He could see what I cannot. I am free from a bad marriage.
Thanks for sharing!! I’m so glad to hear you are out of that bad marriage. May a God guide you into the new life He has for you and into a deeper relationship with Him. ❤️
I had an almost similar experience, i have always desired a Godly man, but always found myself in wrong relationships, last year i fell in love but it crushed me, i came back to the only place i knew is my refuge, to Jesus, and his Holy Spirit taught me a lot. I am now waiting for a husband from GOD and i have vowed purity until His will is done. I also started a UA-cam channel and you have inspired me to tell my story and that will be my next vlog. Thanks
I can relate, God released me from my marriage and 3months after divorce was finalized he got married. He was and still is an unbeliever. I got went back to God few months before we got married. I'm at peace now, my kids can even tell me that mommy you're the happiest now and you've made a great decision by leaving him. I now spend more time with God. I'm learning everyday to live a life fully surrendered/depended on Him.
Your first part of your story appeared in my feed, I thought how strange since we all now how you tube suggests videos based on what we view, why is this suggested? Your story is almost identical to mine. Coincidence, NOPE! I thank God for loving me, for forgiving me, for saving me, for delivering me from an ungodly marriage. This is a powerful testimony of God’s faithfulness and mercy. It’s been close to two years since my divorce. I’m so encouraged and I’m believing God and trusting His timing.
Very soon I will also testify how God saved me and my daughters from an abusive marriage and it is for me a certain confirmation that God is in complete control . I lived in sin as well and God still had mercy ... Thank you for sharing and May God bless you 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Dear rebecca.this is true.and the church should know.God does not condone judgement..judge not lest ye be judged.condem not lest ye be condemed.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
@@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 dear elizabeth.bless your heart.was in a narcecistic relationship.prayed for her change.not so.same thing.praise God for diverance.desire you're prayers.will do the same.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
@@imaginethat1276 ...The lord judges everything..you know what's right and wrong and what the commandments of the lord Jesus Christ are since you are professing to know Christ....Whormongers adulterers God will judge...Marriage is honorable in all the bed undefiled but whoremongers and Adulterers God will judge....Also look up. 1 corinthians 6 9-11....Works of the flesh.Galatians ch.5 Works of the flesh are manifest which are these Adultery fornication uncleaness lascviousness idolatry witchcraft hatred variance emulation weath strife seditions heresies envyings murders drunkeness revellings and such like they that do such thibgs shall not inherit the kingdom of God...Many other scriptures wrath of God scriptures...Such is the way of an Adulterous woman she eats and wipes her mouth and says I have done no wickedness...Whoever sinneth against me wrongs his own soul... Whoever commitrs adultery with a woman lacks understandibg he that does it deztroys his own soul...Adulterers adulterers friendship with the world is enmity against God ..So those are just a few scriptures...Ye are of your father the devil the lust of your father you will do He was a murderwe from the beginning and abode not in the truth their is no truth in him when he speaks a lie he speaks of his own cause he is a liar and the father of it and because I tell you the truth you believe me not...Those are a few scriptures.
Yeah uh yeah 😐 😳 begging my spouse please come back...flaunting her new man in front of me , took my kids from me too...I used the ⛪ church the Christians came to my life encouraging me... God himself said to me " I have carried you i am carrying you and i will carry you even into eternity " Also " i am the i am" God is still in control 🙏
Your wife is living in adultery and is in danger of going to the lake of fire for eternity. Since she remarried she’s an adulteress. She’s living in a constant state of adultery. This is the truth about marriage the scripture teaches, but like so many false teachings that crept in the church the idea of a person remarrying after a divorce is one of them. Unless the spouse of the divorced is dead you’re Not Allowed to Remarry.
I’m glad there’s people speaking on this. There are a lot of disgraceful divorces done in pride and selfishness which seems to be all we hear about but that is not always the case. Divorce can be the right thing to do in certain circumstances. I have seen brothers and sisters who have gotten divorced and I don’t think less of them AT ALL as it was clearly the right decision. I’ve also seen divorces that idk I’m not so sure they made the right choice. This is why everyone should fervently pray if someone is the right one before marriage and be VERY sure, also other brothers and sisters in Christ (people you know and trust that are well intentioned) should be able to see you and your partner are a good match and be supportive. If there is a godly/well intentioned person who is warning you or telling you to wait or that they aren’t so sure, take it seriously. I honestly think the only reason I married the right one is because of lots of prayer and when I dated someone before my husband, my sister warned me in sincerity that she didn’t think it was the right relationship for me and thank God I listened or I would have wound up with the wrong one and likely a divorce. I’ve been married 7 years and have 4 kids with another on the way 😊 Marriage and family relationships can be HARD though. Just because I found the right man doesn’t mean it’s been easy because it just honestly hasn’t been at all.. but the peace I feel being with a man that I completely love and trust is truly an unmatched joy, I don’t think a greater gift can be given. Just a short version of my opinions and testimony, hope it helps someone 💖
One week ago I watched this young man's first video and left a comment and thought what a beautiful young man, full of faith and truth. Now iv watched the second video and just brings tears to my eyes of how overjoyed I am for him and his beautiful new wife 😭. And now I'm so blessed to see there are 127 comments and my comment will be 128. Awe praise God, I feel blessed to be the one who leaves the 128 th comment. God bless you beautiful people in the Lord. I love sincerity and humility because this is also what God loves 😭🙏🍀🇮🇪🤗🍀🙏😭
Your testimony had me in tears. Thank you for sharing. I am newly married, less than 2 years. We believe God brought us together and He has been there from the start. We are both believers. However, we are not insync. We are not united. We don't agree on most things and our marriage is falling apart before it's even started. I'm holding on by a thread. And I guess the miracle I'm hoping for is that God will turn it all around
God didn't join me with my unbelieving spouse. I did that in rebellion and disobedience. I finally sought our Father to help me with my deliverance. He helped me with my sins and delivered me from deception and heresies in the faith. God has healed me and keeps protections over me and my family. Then this message along with the heartbreaking 1st video, shows up in my feed. Giving me a heartfelt truth that I've known all along. Thank you for sharing and caring.📖✝ God bless🕊
I cried watching this. It’s so encouraging listening to your story. I pray it’s God’s will for me to remarry a man of God. After 25 yrs in 2019, my marriage ended in divorce in 2020 due to his adultery. He remarried 2021 and she died of cancer 2022. Less than a year after they married. I’ve continued praying for Father to allow His Holy Spirit to convict and convince him to turn to God. Not necessarily back to me, I’m not sure that’ll be His will. But to save him from hell would be a deeply felt prayer answered. Please pray, if it’s Father’s Will for me to remarry, He will make it clear as He did for you Jared. Love to Kristin 🙏🏼❤️
I really needed to hear this I get really lonely and sad about my husband walking out but I look to god how he cares for me and my children he is rewriting my story so I praise him on high thank you god may not restore the marriage but he will continue to heal the broken hearted and set the captain free.
This is exactly what God is doing in my life. My Godly husband has yet to find me but I will remain celibate and faithful to God. I am believing God for this testimony.Bc God has given me signs to show it’s coming. God bless you and your wife Jared please continue to share
Dear candra.bless your heart.i to am waiting.came out of a narsicistic relationship bout7months ago.i thank God for his deliverince.prayed for her change..not so.. In the name of Jesus bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
@@candracurryofficial Dear candra.was a time at Jesus baptism as he came straight way out of the water..a voice from heaven said..this is my son in whom I am well pleased...dear candra.when God looks upon you these same words are spoken.. this is my ( daughter ) in whom I am well pleased.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🙏🙏
OMG!!! There is a thought in me that my wife when saying the she "no longer wants to identify as a wife or mother" when she separated from me 4 months ago after 20 years of marriage (22 years together) was trying to convey that she is a lesbian and remained in our marriage because of our daughter and wanting to be the "normal" one in the family as her older sister is a lesbian. So far it has not been confirmed to me, but if it turns out to be true as in your case then it will be time to end this and move on to whatever God has planned for me. Thank you for sharing the rest of your story.
I’m there now. My have had me thrown out of the house and I cannot see her or the kids. I’ve done nothing wrong to her or the kids. She is just filled with such rage. I have never spent a day away from my children and now I haven’t seen them in a week. I too am begging for forgiveness from God over my looming divorce. I also pray my children will survive this mentally and emotionally.
So true for me as well. I had to fight against condemnation before I was convinced that my divorce was a deliverance indeed. I was sent divine intervention as well.
This.is my situation right now and god promised me a godly husband and i sign my divorce papers on 3-15-2021 I'm waiting on my promises people have told me that i can't remarry (I told them my father's words out weighs there opinions and if he made the promise i trust him with all my heart) amen
@Requina Williams my dear. Our Heavenly Father loves you. A divorce is not the end of a marriage with a person who doesn't believe. For God can do everything. I believe that He gave you a promise. But while you waith please go to this website hopeatlast.com. And you will get the unspeakable joy that He has for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I love you very much 💓
I've listened to the 1st part of this story at LEAST a dozen times lolol..i can't help...i started out praying for marriage restoration & for God to fix my husband & we'd be great lol but amongst the NEVERENDING TEARS of pure heartbreak God said "Let's not worry abt him dear, lets look at you & all the places YOU fell short as a wife,a mom, step mom & foster mom" & i was like but what abt him?! & God said I'll take of him When I'm ready right now let's take a look at you.... And 2yrs later God is still showing me every other day ways i handled things wrong ,how i was 1/2 the problem bt couldn't see it @ the time...so had God restored my marriage bk when I was pleading & crying for 8mos i wouldn't have been ready..heck i wouldn't have been ready 6mos ago ...but in a way that 1st video sounds like you telling my story...it's insaane!!! :)
Hey Brother Jared, after watching your story I’m encouraged to keep fighting the good fight of faith. To continue to have the epistle of Christ written on my heart. My divorce which started in 2015 is still not finalized yet. Please pray for me, it’s been very much a waiting day by day process. To God be the glory His ways are better then my ways. I’m thankful to have come across yours and Micheal Chriswell stories. You both have encouraged me in my walk with Christ. God bless you brother Jared and Kristin, love in Christ Allan😊🙏🏻
Wow!!! This is such a great testimony!! My husband and I have been married for just over 1.5 years…he moved out and left me 7 weeks ago out of nothing but selfishness. We both went to church every Sunday, waited till marriage to have sex, prayed together (not recently) and he was taken over by an obsession of money, success, greed. I have said and done everything I can to save our marriage. He is filing for divorce this week. I am so torn because when we got married neither of us had any doubt!!! We both believed God brought us together. I have never been so happy or sure of anything before. But who I married is long gone. I don’t know or recognize my husband at all. He is emotionally, physically, spiritually neglectful. I pray that God provides me the same clarity and affirmation that he provided you.
I am ending my marriage , I been fighting for my my marriage and my husband doesn’t care. I asked God to revel to me what my husband was up too because I felt he was not into the marriage. And God revealed to me he was not being faithful or loyal. Been married 18 years he cheated 2 . I can not take this anymore. God please help me get through this painful ending.
Thank you for sharing, very encouraging. I am divorced and also knew God was in it. More Christians need to hear these kind of testomonies and not be so judgmental about divorce. Sometimes it is God's will.
You have indeedtthe Spirit of the Lord, as everytime I hear a message of yours, I am encouraged! Thank you for your testimony, it gives me hopetthat God will make good on His personal promises to me. Thank you for the love you share between God, and yourself, and your wife! Thank you for the obedience you show in sharing such a personal thing. Thank you for doing what God asks of you brother. It really is a blessing.
This is no coincidence, your story is so much like mine. Just different people with different sins. I thank God so much to for the opportunity to find love when I thought I was stuck forever with my childish decisions I made that ultimately I also left a long time marriage with kids. We got together 2010 and married 2012, I ended it in 2019. I tried everything to save the marriage for the kids. I didn't want to destroy my family. I found the person I clearly heard his confirmation. (It had been a very long time since I last heard his still voice) I wrote it down in my calendar the exact day. I remember the day and everything clearly.( For a person that forgets quickly this I still remember very clearly) This is the man he had planned for me. This relationship has helped me overcome so much sin, and heal from hurts I've had since a child some of which I had forgotten! Praise the Lord brother! I'm so happy for you too! True love lives! 01 Corinthians 13 💜
Thanks for sharing this, I too needed this. I’m going through separation and the pain I never thought would feel so real. I know that it will pass and I can’t wait until it does
Omg!! My heart was screaming to hear these liberating words! I've been stuck for 9 years and even my daughter has suffered due to the secret abuse she had to endure! And I as a wife had so many sleepless nights and couldn't bring myself to make this very URGENT decision because if fear of what God would do if I broke the pact of marriage (even only by civil court). And now I can see the the light! I had dreamed that I was in this dark place, then I opened two doors the size of windows above my hear and all this light came inside. And I would see the light. THIS IS MY LIGHT... It's time to go... Pls keep me and my daughter in prayers. She suffered so much because of her stepdad (my husband). 😶 Thank u so much first to God and then to this wonderful brother that allowed himself to b used to make this video. "God's Anointing is on this video for those that are ready to receive it" Blessings to all... 🙏
Praise the LORD! Thank you Jesus! I pray FATHER GOD bless you brother tenfold for your testimony and obedience! Amen! Your story touched my heart, I carry a very similar testimony that is still being written. I’ve struggled with the same questions of divorce and the promise GOD has made me of a godly husband. Your testimony brother has encouraged me as GOD clearly is using you in a wonderful way!
Love you story! Right now my beautiful wife wants a divorce due to cheating, my selfish ways and being controlling. I cheated and lied about it for 2 years. We have 3 wonderful children together and I wanted to finally come out and tell her the truth. She doesn’t want to forgive me. She doesn’t see a future for us. I’ve been seeking God since I told her. Hoping God will restore my marriage. I’m not sure what Gods plan is for me but thanks to your story I know God will have a plan for me as long as I seek him. I’m hoping I can save my marriage for the sake of my kiddos but God plan will be set for me in his name.
My spouse ran from God the last two years of his life and ended up dying of a drug overdose. God DID restore us seven years prior. But he did not stay walking with God and turned on our family in every way. Now he’s dead. And I am free
I’m so sorry to hear this. My husband is in a similar situation. I pray for his soul and our restoration. I love him so much even through all the pain we have caused each other. God has put a new heart in me for him. I tell God that even if he can’t be for me, I give him up to be fully His. After all his eternal salvation is more important. I will continue to pray that the enemy does not have His way and that God gets all the honor and glory. Seek His kingdom first now sister in Christ. I pray God will lead you and turn His face and blessings to you always.
Thanks dear man of GOD. This is very liberating to hear. Ist of all the WORD of GOD says. What GOD has joined together let no man put asunder. This means GOD doesn't join everyone together, most of the time it's flesh joining flesh. You through CHRIST have helped so many people. Thanks 🙏🙏
I am currently experiencing the elements of your initial video. I'm not sure how my follow on will be, but I appreciate your offering of hope in such an uncertain time. Thank you
Thank you for the honest and compelling way of your testimony. I look forward to watching the rest! I'm an old gal, but where there's life, there's hope. God bless you. Shalom.
Amen! Truly inspiring! I am going to get divorced soon after 18 years of a haunted marriage. God revealed to me the sins that my husband was committing and when I confronted him he confessed. God has aldo promissed me me a husband and has even told me who it is. I am excited to see where God is taking me. Thank you for your testimony!
Wow that’s so amazing! Also the timing of your comment is so spot on! We are about to share more of how God told Jared about his future spouse too! Thanks for sharing!
I'm going through something very similar and when your video stopped and you said 128 was the number God gave you and what it meant I looked at the time and it was 10:28 I just broke down and thanked God , I have some changing to do and I need God's to do it thank you for this video , and thank you Lord
Believers are equally spaced to light the world. You are like a light in the middle of the night. This story popped up on my suggested feed hours after God delivered me from my current six year relationship. Dreams crushed: human, man-created dreams full of sun. I will not stand in the way any longer. I’m letting the non-believer go. Thank you for this. PROVIDENCE in this message.
Sadly this is happening to me. My wife of 19 years up and left me because she said I was being emotionally and mentally abusive which I never did. I've always tried to keep up on reading my Bible, alot of time I had a hard time doing it everyday. I don't know what God has planned for me. But I will trust him to do his will for me.
I am so encouraged by your story keep spreading God's love and truth around the world you have a very powerful testimony God has so much in store for you amen amen
I just happened to see your 1st part of your story today & then I come across this video. When you said in the first video that God leads us to marry a unbeliever that is a very rare case, when you decided to marry you were not having a relationship with Jesus nor your wife so Jesus was not the head of your family & when you asked God to help you,He did! He loves you so much that He saved you from a marriage that would was leading you to pain & heartbreak, God is always just & He will hold His loved ones in His right hand. I’m so happy for you & it gives hope to many of us who are praying for the Lord to bless with a man after God’s heart for His glory. Marrying someone with a relationship with Jesus takes away from all the unnecessary issues we face in a marriage not led by our Saviour. God bless you!! God has a good plan for those who trust in Him!
God is amazing ! Congratulations to you both . God has confirm the same for my marriage I am separated on a divorce process but I am at peace God is working on our behalf🙌🏻
It’s amazing when you are going through such a struggle yet have the peace that transcends all understanding! He is so good to be able to give us His amazing comfort. God bless! Kristin
Jared God has used you in my life to be an encouragement. Knowing also there are others out there on the same path! I have a marriage story, may be a little different, but God used it to bring me closer to Him. I don't wish to share it because of the comments on here. We must listen to the Lord and do what He tells us! I have peace with the decision because the Lord instructed it. I am so happy you are going to continue on with Loaves and Fishes what a blessing they are too me. Bless you and Kristen...may the Lord continue to bless you and keep you.
Love your story ❤. I'm at the stage of .... I know what scripture says about divorce, I'd rather stay single rest of my life.. yet potential women try to get to know me.. yet I'm not ready to except it... I've made women cry because I reject there advances, manly cause I still believe remarriage is adultery. Plus I still tend to idolize put on a pedestal.. so I'm still working on myself... it's truly a painful process to go through.... yet your story has the potential to touch me.... yet... ekkk, I am still unsure
When I was newly separated from my husband I came across Michael's story and now after 3yrs separated I'm filing for divorce and I have come across your story. God has also confirmed to me that He will give me a godly spouse. Your story has encouraged me to wait on God thank you so much. Much blessings to you and your wife!
Dear grace.bless your heart.thank you for your reply..was a time at Jesus baptism.as he came straight way out of the water.a voice from heaven said.this is my son in whom I am well pleased..dear grace.when God looks upon you these same words are spoken.. This is my daughter in whom I am well pleased.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
Dear grace.thank you for your reply.will b praying for your situation.i came out of a narsicistic relationship bout 7 months ago.prayed for her change.not so.desire your prayers.i believe your gonna get through this.hold on to God.cling to jesus.i will spiritually stand by your side.once again thank you.in Jesus name.bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
I have yet to meet another man who has gone through something so similar to myself until now. I'm young but I have no plans to marry unless it is in God's plan. I just want to serve God in all ways and remain around his people for the rest of mt days.
"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." Mark 10:9 Sounds like your divorce was a blessing in disguise. He does hate some marriages because those marriages does not include Him and those marriages come before Him (Idolatry). Your divorce testimony is confirmation that it's not my job to find love and get married but leave that marriage plan to God if it is in His Will for me to get married."
I’ve gone through a divorce and have believed for a new godly marriage but I’ve gotten into 2 relationships with believers that weren’t it for me. I know he’s promised me a wife and has given me a number and verse just like you. I pray it’ll happen soon!
This story took my anxiety level down quite a bit. I became separated from my family 5 days ago. I am so scared and worried about my children which are with my wife. You gave me hope that God will see my family through this no matter the outcome. Thank you for putting it out there.
I’m sorry to hear your going through a challenging time. There is so much hope in Him and I’m happy to hear this message helped you to remember that! Keep seeking Him with all your heart, soul, and mind! And keep giving Him all your worries. Be encouraged that He can and will work *all things* out for good, for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose ♥️ -Kristin
Part 1 appread on my feed and I'm in a situation that makes me cry to God almost everyday and I feel my heart is tired but I'm so scared to divorce 😭😭😭
I'm hoping you continue to share. The volume was a bit low even when I tried to use 2 different devices. Your story is so powerful. God bless you and your family.
Psalm 43:5 NLT [5] Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again- my Savior and my God! Saying a prayer for you tonight 🙏🏼
I too married the wrong person..in counseling with my minister He told me when we chose who to marry instead of marrying who God chooses for us there will be trouble..he said God does not condone divorce but in certain circumstances does allow it..he does not want you to be in danger..there is mention in scripture of divorce..my minister said God will remove people from your life who are not good for you..I detest divorce ..it is the ultimate rejection ..it doesn't matter who filed..your entire family suffers... mostly your children...in my case my husband was an abusive alcoholic..God does not want you to live in danger..love should make you feel good not bad or afraid... ..I did all I knew to save my marriage but in the end I knew it was wrong..years later my ex called to tell me he was sorry ..he said he had joined a church and men's Bible study..he had become a Christian...someone told me by divorcing him I had saved his soul..this is not true...by finally accepting God he had saved himself..our divorce was just the incentive.
When 2 unbelievers are married and an unbeliever leaves Paul said, " I gove this command not the Lord." But when 2 believers divorce he says," The Lord command not I let them remain single or be reconciled." It also says. If an angel of light preaches another gospel rebuke them. This is no easy thing and where there was ignorance there is grace. But when the disciples asked," if it's like this between a man and woman it is better to be single " Jesus replied," some are unichs by birth some made so by a king, and some make themselves such for the Kingdome. Let those that can accept it accept it." In other words. It is like this between a man and woman and if you can't accept it be a unich. Nothing I hear here undermines this.
If you are unequally yoked and your marriage does not honour God and It prevents your personal spiritual growth and relationship with the Lord from developing... then He’d rather you divorced.
best5345 Oh, I forgot to mention the adultery but hey, it’s so easy to stand on the outside and throw legalism rocks. I stuck it out for 30 years. Please don’t tell me what is or isn’t biblical. I wrestled with it for 30years until God told me ... that’s enough.
We share a very similar story I dont consider my marriage to have been godly or sanctified by God I was a pagan, not a follower I also feel that the ending of that marriage was a deliverance from a sinful existence I also understand that I should not get married from scripture but I have since reconsidered because of those circumstances I am older and not looking to marry I feel that time is short and I need to be committing my time to Jesus I have no idea what he has planned for me I would love to have a Godly marriage but i think i wasted all that time now I'm old, what are the chances of meeting a man my age that is committed to God above all else? It matters not Only the love of Jesus matters and this world is not our home I am very happy that God has blessed you Always put him first
His ways is not our way neither are His Thoughts our thoughts .God is God His is Our Creator He created us not we ourselves .Gid knows what is best for us Our God we worship Him we Give Him All The Glory Amen
My friend I never really thought I would say this because my understanding of dreams is more based on physiology and psychology (both the works of Freud and the Christian Karl Jung) but honestly I have had at least one really vivid dream about by ex Wife and her new Husband. The dream just told me that I had to forgive passed hurt and that Jesus taught me to pray that as I am forgiven so I must forgive others. You know I recall waking up after that dream and I felt somehow cleansed, released and free to carry on serving Jesus Both of my late parents were re-married divorcees. My Father had served in WW2 in the Far East and he met my Mother when he was home on leave in the UK. Bear in mind this was around 1956 when they remarried. Most minsters then would refuse to remarry divorcees. However they found the Reverend Wilkins (I still have his picture in their wedding Album). He was what we’d call in the UK a ‘non Conformist Minster I have recently found letters my Mum wrote to my Dad who was serving with the British Army in Germany (where I was born) at the time. Mum tells him how she went to visit Reverend Wilkins and how he had a little Boy. Mum (who you can see from her letters always wanted children) says the little lad kept coming up to her and was really taken with her. She describes how Reverend Wilkins was perfectly happy to,Arryn them both in the sight of God and his people even though they had both been divorced. These letters are precious to me and I honestly believe God intended they should come to me. (I found them of all things through Facebook. Somebody had purchased them I think at a Car Boot sale. There are well over one hundred letters) I’ll be honest I had problems as a kid. I know now my Mother suffered from depression but as I read her letters I know right from the start how in love she was with my Father. Reading her words to him as he was serving there in Europe and doing all kinds of training (even preparing to fight in a nuclear War as the fifties and sixties were as you know the Cold War and you’ll recall the Cuban Missile crisis that took place when I was only a small child) I have seen such tenderness, such love, such care and such beauty) Their marriage may not have been perfect but frankly I truly believe God was in their marriage too.
I don't know why I stumbled on this video, may be God saying give, divorce now. I married a man who would continue to be unfaithful when I tried confronting him he would say, I have nothing to say. He becomes so bold even in the home he would be video chatting. He is distance emotionally, physically from our children. I would hear all the reasons why he would not change. I too Pray for God to change him but I think God is saying let the marriage go. Thanks for sharing your story
Ok, we as christias have been taught wrong about marriage one pastor say this and another day God hates divorce. I'm in a ten years second marriage and he goes to church but he want read his bible he start may for 2days and quit. He said you can't make me read it. So I believe in my heart it's time to get the divorce.im not waiting for ten more years until he get serious about God's words and truly live it. I admit at times I drink beer with him. I stop for 4months but he just can't stop. It's just alot of things going on. God please forgive me and help me to make the right decision thanks God.
I’m Confised my wife had affair 2019 and I was horrified and tried saving our marriage 2019 and 2020 then 2021 her affair partner got married and was horrible abuse and anger to me - by early 2022 I was resentful and angry and I lost my loving supportive patient side and it pushed her away she left me march 2022.. it hurt so much I feel like I failed her and our daughter
Can you explain re marriage after Jesus said that those you remarry are fornicators and adulterers and will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Jesus said divorce is allowable in certain situations such as sexual immorality. However, you are to remain celibate after.
Hi Rich, for the remnant that has a love for the truth, they will read this and be encouraged; perhaps strengthened... but their are many who have itching ears, as the time has now come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears, and they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables... and because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved, for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they *should* believe a lie... scary stuff. I pray this helps you or anyone else that may happen to come by this comment thread. Remarriage while the covenant spouse is still alive = adultery. Only death will end this covenant. God takes covenant marriage/vows verrry very seriously. Vows are not a game, w the holy God of Israel. It was the very first covenant established on earth and so it shall be at the last. The Bridegroom and the Bride will be married forever Rev 19:6-9. Rev 20:6, Rev 21:1-11. Pay attention to the second death: we don't want to be found fearful, unbelieving (unbelieving the Truth, which is the full doctrine Jesus Christ taught and gave His disciples, 2 John 1:9-11), we don't want to be found abominable, murderers, *whoremongers*, sorcerers, *idolaters* dogs, liars or anyone that loves (a lie) and makes a lie Rev 22:15... Trying to write this all as plainly (yet thoroughly) as possible. Bc the denominational cults and precepts of men will never ever preach or teach JESUS' doctrines. His sheep must hear His voice calling them out from among them (the harlot church system, the seducing devilish doctrines and/or the traditions of men), and be ye separate, touching not the unclean thing and He will receive them. God is not mocked, for whatsoever a man sows, that will he also reap. For he who sows to the flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption (death) but he who sows to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting (eternal life). We know the difference btwn works of the flesh and fruits of the Spirit, right? Just in the chapter prior, Paul admonishes to walk in the Spirit, bc when we walk in the Spirit, we will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh. In Galatians 5:19-21, note, the v first two works of the flesh that he lists are: *adultery* and *fornication* - Jesus said it plainly to the Pharisees in Matt 19, what we will be judged by in the end. The Pharisees literally tried to test my Lord by asking Him if it was lawful for a man to put away (send out of his house; divorce; etc.) his wife for every cause. You know what Jesus asked them? He asked, "Haven't you read (the Torah/the mosaic law that they were under at that moment in time), that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and for this cause shall a man *leave* father and mother, and *cleave* to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore (therefore) they are *no* *more* *twain* (two), but *one* *flesh* . What therefore *God* *hath* *joined* *together* , *let* *not* *man* *put* *asunder* - but then they come again asking foolishness, saying, "why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement and to put her away?" Command? Stop the madness. See how the flesh can twist things w/o one even being aware of it? The Pharisees were trying to put words in God's mouth BUT God never commanded that... at all. Jesus explains it better than I, He said: "Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered [ALLOWED or PERMITTED in other words] you to put away your wives: *but* *from* *the* *beginning* *it* *was* *not* *so* -> and I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for *fornication* and shall marry another, commiteth *adultery* and whoso marrieth her which is put away [separated; forsaken; abandoned; put out of the house; divorced] doth commit *adultery* ." Read the verse directly after this, and understand what Jesus is saying. Paul follows up w even more context, written and inspired by the Holy Ghost, in 1 Corinthians 7. Specifically it's commanded in v10-11 and by the power of the Holy Ghost, Paul also counsels further in v15-16, 20-24. Then in case anyone forgot the bottom line, God commands in v39, that the wife is *bound* by the law [referring to the first book of the Torah, Gen 2:22-24] as long as her husband liveth *but* *if* *her* *husband* *be* *DEAD* , she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; *only* in the Lord. We must all understand how much God *hates* divorce; He hates the putting away -> Malachi 2v14-16. When God sent His Son in His Name, JESUS did not preach any thing contrary to what His Father said. *God* was *in* *Christ* reconciling the world unto Himself, not imputing (charging; counting; reckoning) their trespasses unto them, and hath committed unto us *the* *word* *of* *reconciliation* (Matt 3:17, Matt 17:5, Mark 1:11, Mark 9:7, Luke 3:22, Luke 9:35, Romans 1:20, 2 Corinthians 5:19, Colossians 1:19, Colossians 2:8-9, Acts 17:29-30). So Jesus Christ, the Son of God, is not double-minded either. In Jeremiah 3:1 (pls devour the whole chapter, including chapter 4, for a fuller understanding) it's clear that God had divorced Israel (but not Judah) and yet He said: "...but you hast played the harlot with many lovers; yet *return* *again* *to* *me* , saith the LORD." *RETURN* = *REPENT* *COME* back to your first Love (Rev 2:4-5). Know therefore that the LORD thy God, He is God, the faithful God, which keeps covenant and mercy with them that *love* Him and *keep* His commandments to a thousand generations (Deut 7:9). Remember in the end, Rev 22:14-15, He does NOT change. Malachi 3:6a "For I am the LORD, I change not...". God’s word is forever settled I heaven. He doesn't change, Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever (Heb 13:8). I include scriptures to show that this is not a vain imagination or some personal interpretation, I beseech anyone reading this to please please Please go and read it for yourself; pray and ask the Lord and be straight w Him. Then study to show yourself approved *unto* *God* bc your souls are precious to the Lord, and eternal life depends on you knowing the only true God and Jesus Christ who He sent (John 17:3). Behold, this is the law God established from the v beginning concerning covenant marriage: Gen 2:22-24. Then in Numbers 30:2, it is written, "if a man vow a vow unto the Lord, or swear and oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth." I can't get anymore plainer than that. We will all be judged by His Word/the doctrine of Christ... so pls study the gospels, repent and obey the Gospel of the kingdom, be born again/baptized in His Name/filled w the gift of God/the Holy Ghost, know what the will of Father is, pray w/o ceasing, be led of the Spirit and continue in His Word John 8:31; abiding in Christ Jesus unto the end 2 John 1:9-11.
@@MrsK976 I prayed earnestly to ask Abba what Jesus actually meant by saying “fornication”, bc Jesus was speaking to unbelieving Pharisees, Hebrews under the old covenant. But Mark and Luke, do not record that at all (“unless it be for fornication”). So I had to ponder why? You know where the Lord led me, to find out what exactly He meant when He answered those Pharisees, w “except it be for fornication”? He led me to John 8... John 8:41-42 “Ye do the deeds of your father. Then said they [the Pharisees] to Him, *We* *be* *not* *born* *of* *fornication* we have one Father, even God. Jesus said unto them, If God were your Father, ye would love me: for I *proceeded* *forth* *and* *came* *from* *God;* neither came I of myself, but he sent me.” Do you see? These Pharisees accused our Lord of being BORN OF FORNICATION. Do you know when Jesus was born of Mary? When she was a virgin, espoused to Joseph - they had not been intimate yet and Jospeh notice Mary APPEARED to have committed fornication. According to the law, specifically in Deut 22:13-21 Joseph was not willing to make his espoused or betrothed wife Mary a PUBLIC EXAMPLE (see what he meant by this, in Deut 22:20-21) so he was thinking to PUT HER AWAY privately. But while he pondered these things, the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream... see Matt 1:18-21 for more. Mary appeared to have been playing the whore in her daddy's house, being a few months pregnant w that holy thing in her womb... that is why her husband Joseph minded to put her away privily or privately, he didn't want to do what the law permitted him to. Which was to stone her to death until she die [ ref Matt 1:18-21]. But God... Luke 1:30-35 "And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God. And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and *shalt* *call* *his* *name* *Jesus.* He shall be *great,* and *shall* *be* *called* *the* *Son* *of* *the* *Highest:* and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David: And he shall reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end. Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man? And the angel answered and said unto her, The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also *that* *holy* *thing* *which* *shall* *be* *born* *of* *thee* *shall* *be* *called* *the* *Son* *of* *God.* I pray the Lord open your understanding that you too may understand the scriptures - EXCEPT IT BE FOR FORNICATION, refers to a “virgin” or a "damsel", whom her father thought was living chase and pure but she instead was playing the whore in her father’s house, and unbeknownst to her daddy, he gives her away in marriage to a suitor and the dowry and everything is paid for and that man now expects to be w the daughter of that man who thought she was a virgin but the husband finds out on the day they consummate the marriage [ref. Deut 22:13-21] that he hates her bc she is not a virgin, she lied - JESUS clarified, unless it be for THIS reason alone: which pertains to the ancient Hebrews only. Those Pharisees, knew EXACTLY what Jesus meant, that's why the conversation was over after Jesus gave that commandment in Matt 19:8-9. Fornication does not mean ADULTERY or PORNOGRAPHY or ANY TYPE OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY, as the majority of christendom would like to think it means today, [ref. 1 Cor 6:9-10]. Christ's speech was directed to those who were under the Law, who were tempting Jesus by asking selfish questions, [ref Matt 19:1-3, Rom 7:1]. Hebrews were under the law and they were considered married even though they had not consummated the marriage yet. This might be equivalent to our western world, when we are 'engaged', perhaps. However, this is confirmed by how the disciples responded to the Lord's command [ref. Matt 19:10-12]. I'm sure if remarriage was possible, Christ would have shared that w His disciples. But no, He didn't, and look at how shell shocked they were by this new command regarding marriage, according to the NEW COVENANT. They were like, if this be the case for a man w his wife, then forgetaboutit! (I'm paraphrasing lol) but yes. If the wife was not found to be a pure virgin on the day they FIRST come together to consummate the marriage, it was bc she was playing the whore in her daddy's house, and Jesus said, ONLY THEN WERE THEY PERMITTED TO PUT THAT WOMAN AWAY [pls look prayerfully at that passage in Deut 22, alongside Matt 19:1-9]. However, for any other reason, you put your wife away and marry another, you commit adultery. And if you marry someone who is put away, you commit adultery. See Mark and Luke in comparison. No exception is noted there. Why? Those gospels were written to a Gentile audience, as opposed to the gospel according to Matthew, which was written to a Hebraic audience.. [1 Cor 7:10 -11]
Going through the same thing. Not exactly, but it was definitely toxic. I’m learning to let het go. Today is our 6 year anniversary. I consider her an unbelieving spouse. She wants nothing to do with me so I am leaving.
Let the unbeliever depart... does that mean he/she can NEVER repent and come to the Lord ? Because does God say... i don´t love him/her and won´t even try to save them... they are hopeless... they are impossible to save. ? Does he actually say that... You yourself said you were the worse sinner. I am in agreement that if they want to leave let them go... but it does not mean you give up. It is talking about leaving the home/ house.. but don´t give up on them... Don´t be a quitter. Divorce is always wrong... the ¨exception clause¨ is not what you think. The word ¨fornication¨ means just that. Anyway... the Lord will always always love you and her. But... don´t give up on anyone that is not saved... pray for their salvation and believe.
Thank you for saying this. People are so busy finding their so called “happiness” that they forget God said it wouldn’t be easy to follow Him and that we must love others even those who persecute us. How would He then not ask us to pray and believe for our own spouses salvation and healing. Marriage is a sacrifice that brings holiness. It teaches us unconditional love and forgiveness like God had with Israel even though they failed God so many times. Marriage is a covenant not a contract. It was never meant to be an easy fairy tale.
I have a question: Do you still pray for your ex-wife's salvation or ask trusted brothers and sisters in Christ to pray for her long after the divorce? I felt this heaviness for her as she was led astray. I imagine you must have felt bad that you were not able to save your wife; it is not your responsibility and it is between her and God. I am so glad that God has led you out of a toxic marriage and led you to a Godly marriage. God is good.
This is almost my story and yes I still pray for him years later God is long suffering to us and wishes that no man perish I agree with his mercy and grace Amen
@Kimberley He had already said he did everything for his ex's salvation.It is not wise to bring a third person in a marriage.God arranged their marriage and blessed it.Let them live happily.
His word said He will leave the ninety nine and go search for the one lost sheep, He is married to the backslider, just keep putting your trust in God, God bless you.
This is a testimony of my life. God told me the man I was married to was not the man for me. Every time I was fasting and praying for my marriage. Praying the word of God and reminding Him of His promises. But our life was getting more and more apart every day. The infidelity was so high that even my best friend had a child with him. I never gave up on him. I believed that God will change him. I reminded God how he saved Abraham"s marriage when he had given Sarah up and said he was his sister. I was working in the hospital. Before we started work. I always held 2 people to pray for my x husband. I asked God to give me one good year of remembrance. I had none good times. I was physically verbally, emotionally and financially abused. I was fasting and praying all the times because God was using me to minister His Word in the hospital and buses in South Africa. The church declare 21 days fasting for a conference. I did 30 days and said to God that I add 7 days for my marriage. He was the first man in my life. I had beautiful kids with him. I wanted this to work out. In that 7 days fasting I asked God who was this man I was married to. I found out he had 2 kids with another woman as well born the same year as my 2 youngest kids. God said he was not for me. And I didn't believe at first I though it was devil wanted me to give up. The word that came out of my heart was whatever God put together no one can put asunder. God said not every marriage are put together by Him. I asked Him why did He allowed me to have kids if he was not the man for me. He said children belong to Him. I am the vessel used by Him to carry them in my womb. They are His seed. I was a nanny for Him. During the end of that fasting I had 3 dreams and I knew God was convincing me about the wrong marriage. I saw the signs but I had no idea because I was not saved when I got married. The first dream was : I saw a magazine that was called Drum in South Africa. They were having competition of beautiful couples. People sent pictures of their wedding day as couple and they chose the best couples and would win a holiday. I was couples in that page with husbands but I saw my picture as well but where it was supposed to be my husband picture was an empty space. It was a mystery. The second dream I was walking on the main street in my city and when I looked at my self through the shop windows, I looked good and my hair was very long than usual and it was right behind my back. But what puzzled me. I was wearing a widow dress. The dress they put on women who lost their husband. And I declared when I got saved that I will never wear that garment to show everyone I was a widow. I got upset about it. The last dream It was the renewal of marriage vows in my church. All married couples came and stand in front of the pastor and renew their marriage vows. I was in the front with my wedding gown and I was alone. The pastor asked from the congregation where was the husband and he said can someone stand with me so I could say my vows and go. All of the suddenly he entered in the church very drunk that he couldn't stand. He had a drag logs on his head. He never left hair on his head. He was always shaving it. He didn't come up to the stage. I ran out of the church crying and I realised I didn't have shoes on my feet. I held my wedding gown with 2 hands up. Protecting it from getting dirty. I hid myself in a small room that had a little mirror and tears were falling down my cheeks messing my make up. Then I believed it was God.
Same things God revealed to me. He will bring our true husband 🎉❤
Thanks for sharing your story. I can relate to it. I cried out for many years for the restoration of my marriage, but God loved me more. He could see what I cannot. I am free from a bad marriage.
Thanks for sharing!! I’m so glad to hear you are out of that bad marriage. May a God guide you into the new life He has for you and into a deeper relationship with Him. ❤️
I had an almost similar experience, i have always desired a Godly man, but always found myself in wrong relationships, last year i fell in love but it crushed me, i came back to the only place i knew is my refuge, to Jesus, and his Holy Spirit taught me a lot. I am now waiting for a husband from GOD and i have vowed purity until His will is done. I also started a UA-cam channel and you have inspired me to tell my story and that will be my next vlog. Thanks
Thanks for liberating my conscience! I was ostracised for leaving my ungodly and sinful marriage and yet no one knew what I was going through.
Except the lord...God knows
God never saw your marriage as ungodly or sinful bc you are His. He sees you as one Spirit in Him.
I can relate, God released me from my marriage and 3months after divorce was finalized he got married. He was and still is an unbeliever. I got went back to God few months before we got married.
I'm at peace now, my kids can even tell me that mommy you're the happiest now and you've made a great decision by leaving him. I now spend more time with God. I'm learning everyday to live a life fully surrendered/depended on Him.
Your first part of your story appeared in my feed, I thought how strange since we all now how you tube suggests videos based on what we view, why is this suggested? Your story is almost identical to mine. Coincidence, NOPE! I thank God for loving me, for forgiving me, for saving me, for delivering me from an ungodly marriage. This is a powerful testimony of God’s faithfulness and mercy. It’s been close to two years since my divorce. I’m so encouraged and I’m believing God and trusting His timing.
I'd rather have Jesus than anything this world affords today.
Amen to that comment
Very soon I will also testify how God saved me and my daughters from an abusive marriage and it is for me a certain confirmation that God is in complete control . I lived in sin as well and God still had mercy ... Thank you for sharing and May God bless you 🙌🏻🙌🏻
This is a good video for people who have an abusive unbelieving spouse. So many women suffer due to fear of judgement from others in the church.
Dear rebecca.this is true.and the church should know.God does not condone judgement..judge not lest ye be judged.condem not lest ye be condemed.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
Very correct. I experienced the same the same, and stayed too long. Thank Gof I am out now
@@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 dear elizabeth.bless your heart.was in a narcecistic relationship.prayed for her change.not so.same thing.praise God for diverance.desire you're prayers.will do the same.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
@@imaginethat1276 ...The lord judges everything..you know what's right and wrong and what the commandments of the lord Jesus Christ are since you are professing to know Christ....Whormongers adulterers God will judge...Marriage is honorable in all the bed undefiled but whoremongers and Adulterers God will judge....Also look up. 1 corinthians 6 9-11....Works of the flesh.Galatians ch.5 Works of the flesh are manifest which are these Adultery fornication uncleaness lascviousness idolatry witchcraft hatred variance emulation weath strife seditions heresies envyings murders drunkeness revellings and such like they that do such thibgs shall not inherit the kingdom of God...Many other scriptures wrath of God scriptures...Such is the way of an Adulterous woman she eats and wipes her mouth and says I have done no wickedness...Whoever sinneth against me wrongs his own soul...
Whoever commitrs adultery with a woman lacks understandibg he that does it deztroys his own soul...Adulterers adulterers friendship with the world is enmity against God ..So those are just a few scriptures...Ye are of your father the devil the lust of your father you will do
He was a murderwe from the beginning and abode not in the truth their is no truth in him when he speaks a lie he speaks of his own cause he is a liar and the father of it and because I tell you the truth you believe me not...Those are a few scriptures.
I will draw near to you in judgement and will be a swift witness against adulterers sorcerers false swearers etc..
Yeah uh yeah 😐 😳 begging my spouse please come back...flaunting her new man in front of me , took my kids from me too...I used the ⛪ church the Christians came to my life encouraging me...
God himself said to me " I have carried you i am carrying you and i will carry you even into eternity "
Also " i am the i am"
God is still in control 🙏
Your wife is living in adultery and is in danger of going to the lake of fire for eternity. Since she remarried she’s an adulteress. She’s living in a constant state of adultery. This is the truth about marriage the scripture teaches, but like so many false teachings that crept in the church the idea of a person remarrying after a divorce is one of them. Unless the spouse of the divorced is dead you’re Not Allowed to Remarry.
I’m glad there’s people speaking on this. There are a lot of disgraceful divorces done in pride and selfishness which seems to be all we hear about but that is not always the case. Divorce can be the right thing to do in certain circumstances. I have seen brothers and sisters who have gotten divorced and I don’t think less of them AT ALL as it was clearly the right decision. I’ve also seen divorces that idk I’m not so sure they made the right choice. This is why everyone should fervently pray if someone is the right one before marriage and be VERY sure, also other brothers and sisters in Christ (people you know and trust that are well intentioned) should be able to see you and your partner are a good match and be supportive. If there is a godly/well intentioned person who is warning you or telling you to wait or that they aren’t so sure, take it seriously. I honestly think the only reason I married the right one is because of lots of prayer and when I dated someone before my husband, my sister warned me in sincerity that she didn’t think it was the right relationship for me and thank God I listened or I would have wound up with the wrong one and likely a divorce. I’ve been married 7 years and have 4 kids with another on the way 😊
Marriage and family relationships can be HARD though. Just because I found the right man doesn’t mean it’s been easy because it just honestly hasn’t been at all.. but the peace I feel being with a man that I completely love and trust is truly an unmatched joy, I don’t think a greater gift can be given.
Just a short version of my opinions and testimony, hope it helps someone 💖
One week ago I watched this young man's first video and left a comment and thought what a beautiful young man, full of faith and truth. Now iv watched the second video and just brings tears to my eyes of how overjoyed I am for him and his beautiful new wife 😭. And now I'm so blessed to see there are 127 comments and my comment will be 128. Awe praise God, I feel blessed to be the one who leaves the 128 th comment. God bless you beautiful people in the Lord. I love sincerity and humility because this is also what God loves 😭🙏🍀🇮🇪🤗🍀🙏😭
That is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing this story! That was such a blessing for us to hear! Thank you for your love for Him!
-Kristin
Your testimony had me in tears. Thank you for sharing. I am newly married, less than 2 years. We believe God brought us together and He has been there from the start. We are both believers. However, we are not insync. We are not united. We don't agree on most things and our marriage is falling apart before it's even started. I'm holding on by a thread. And I guess the miracle I'm hoping for is that God will turn it all around
God didn't join me with my unbelieving spouse. I did that in rebellion and disobedience. I finally sought our Father to help me with my deliverance. He helped me with my sins and delivered me from deception and heresies in the faith. God has healed me and keeps protections over me and my family.
Then this message along with the heartbreaking 1st video, shows up in my feed. Giving me a heartfelt truth that I've known all along.
Thank you for sharing and caring.📖✝
God bless🕊
God bless you Ana!
I cried watching this. It’s so encouraging listening to your story.
I pray it’s God’s will for me to remarry a man of God. After 25 yrs in 2019, my marriage ended in divorce in 2020 due to his adultery.
He remarried 2021 and she died of cancer 2022. Less than a year after they married.
I’ve continued praying for Father to allow His Holy Spirit to convict and convince him to turn to God. Not necessarily back to me, I’m not sure that’ll be His will. But to save him from hell would be a deeply felt prayer answered.
Please pray, if it’s Father’s Will for me to remarry, He will make it clear as He did for you Jared.
Love to Kristin 🙏🏼❤️
I really needed to hear this I get really lonely and sad about my husband walking out but I look to god how he cares for me and my children he is rewriting my story so I praise him on high thank you god may not restore the marriage but he will continue to heal the broken hearted and set the captain free.
Dear chastity
Bless you.been divorce from her for awhile.you will be fine.i understand lonelyness to.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
Dear chastity.
Bless your heart hun.hope your adjusting to circumstances.desire your prayers.will do the same.bless.aman
This is exactly what God is doing in my life. My Godly husband has yet to find me but I will remain celibate and faithful to God. I am believing God for this testimony.Bc God has given me signs to show it’s coming. God bless you and your wife Jared please continue to share
Dear candra.bless your heart.i to am waiting.came out of a narsicistic relationship bout7months ago.i thank God for his deliverince.prayed for her change..not so..
In the name of Jesus bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
@@imaginethat1276 thank you bless you also 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@candracurryofficial
Dear candra.was a time at Jesus baptism as he came straight way out of the water..a voice from heaven said..this is my son in whom I am well pleased...dear candra.when God looks upon you these same words are spoken.. this is my ( daughter ) in whom I am well pleased.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🙏🙏
@@imaginethat1276 it's not my season yet
@@candracurryofficial
Dear camera.i understand.its ok.desire your prayers.will do the same.jesus name.bless you hun.🙏🙏🙏
OMG!!! There is a thought in me that my wife when saying the she "no longer wants to identify as a wife or mother" when she separated from me 4 months ago after 20 years of marriage (22 years together) was trying to convey that she is a lesbian and remained in our marriage because of our daughter and wanting to be the "normal" one in the family as her older sister is a lesbian. So far it has not been confirmed to me, but if it turns out to be true as in your case then it will be time to end this and move on to whatever God has planned for me. Thank you for sharing the rest of your story.
Divorce ruins family. The kids are the ones that suffer. Lord, have mercy and Grace on my marriage. Forgive me (Us)...
I’m there now. My have had me thrown out of the house and I cannot see her or the kids. I’ve done nothing wrong to her or the kids. She is just filled with such rage. I have never spent a day away from my children and now I haven’t seen them in a week. I too am begging for forgiveness from God over my looming divorce. I also pray my children will survive this mentally and emotionally.
He and ex were both adulterous. I hope you listened
@@thatswhatsup712 so wat we all are sinners!!
So true for me as well. I had to fight against condemnation before I was convinced that my divorce was a deliverance indeed. I was sent divine intervention as well.
Dear Angela
Bless your heart.in agreement with you.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
Dear Angela
Bless your heart.in agreement with you.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
This.is my situation right now and god promised me a godly husband and i sign my divorce papers on 3-15-2021 I'm waiting on my promises people have told me that i can't remarry (I told them my father's words out weighs there opinions and if he made the promise i trust him with all my heart) amen
God does not approve of divorce. PRAY PRAY AND PRAY for your man
@Requina Williams my dear. Our Heavenly Father loves you. A divorce is not the end of a marriage with a person who doesn't believe. For God can do everything. I believe that He gave you a promise. But while you waith please go to this website hopeatlast.com. And you will get the unspeakable joy that He has for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I love you very much 💓
Jesus gave biblical grounds for a divorce, adultery.
I've listened to the 1st part of this story at LEAST a dozen times lolol..i can't help...i started out praying for marriage restoration & for God to fix my husband & we'd be great lol but amongst the NEVERENDING TEARS of pure heartbreak God said "Let's not worry abt him dear, lets look at you & all the places YOU fell short as a wife,a mom, step mom & foster mom" & i was like but what abt him?! & God said I'll take of him When I'm ready right now let's take a look at you.... And 2yrs later God is still showing me every other day ways i handled things wrong ,how i was 1/2 the problem bt couldn't see it @ the time...so had God restored my marriage bk when I was pleading & crying for 8mos i wouldn't have been ready..heck i wouldn't have been ready 6mos ago ...but in a way that 1st video sounds like you telling my story...it's insaane!!! :)
Hey Brother Jared, after watching your story I’m encouraged to keep fighting the good fight of faith. To continue to have the epistle of Christ written on my heart. My divorce which started in 2015 is still not finalized yet. Please pray for me, it’s been very much a waiting day by day process. To God be the glory His ways are better then my ways. I’m thankful to have come across yours and Micheal Chriswell stories. You both have encouraged me in my walk with Christ. God bless you brother Jared and Kristin, love in Christ Allan😊🙏🏻
Wow!!! This is such a great testimony!! My husband and I have been married for just over 1.5 years…he moved out and left me 7 weeks ago out of nothing but selfishness. We both went to church every Sunday, waited till marriage to have sex, prayed together (not recently) and he was taken over by an obsession of money, success, greed. I have said and done everything I can to save our marriage. He is filing for divorce this week. I am so torn because when we got married neither of us had any doubt!!! We both believed God brought us together. I have never been so happy or sure of anything before. But who I married is long gone. I don’t know or recognize my husband at all. He is emotionally, physically, spiritually neglectful. I pray that God provides me the same clarity and affirmation that he provided you.
How things are going now with your husband
Mine filled for divorce too
Every single morning when I wake up I thank God that I'm no longer married to that evil person.
I am ending my marriage , I been fighting for my my marriage and my husband doesn’t care. I asked God to revel to me what my husband was up too because I felt he was not into the marriage. And God revealed to me he was not being faithful or loyal. Been married 18 years he cheated 2 . I can not take this anymore. God please help me get through this painful ending.
I'm so sorry to hear this! I hope God guided you into what His will is for your marriage.
Thank you for sharing, very encouraging. I am divorced and also knew God was in it. More Christians need to hear these kind of testomonies and not be so judgmental about divorce. Sometimes it is God's will.
Dear Angela.in total agreement with you.in Jesus name bless you hun.🌹🙏🌹
@Lacresha stoner I need that please.
@Lacresha stoner thank you so much.
@Lacresha stoner what is the man ID on whatsapp ? How to find him?
@Lacresha stoner ok. Thank you. I will check. But there are some many comments ,more than 100s..
You have indeedtthe Spirit of the Lord, as everytime I hear a message of yours, I am encouraged! Thank you for your testimony, it gives me hopetthat God will make good on His personal promises to me. Thank you for the love you share between God, and yourself, and your wife! Thank you for the obedience you show in sharing such a personal thing. Thank you for doing what God asks of you brother. It really is a blessing.
This is no coincidence, your story is so much like mine. Just different people with different sins. I thank God so much to for the opportunity to find love when I thought I was stuck forever with my childish decisions I made that ultimately I also left a long time marriage with kids. We got together 2010 and married 2012, I ended it in 2019. I tried everything to save the marriage for the kids. I didn't want to destroy my family. I found the person I clearly heard his confirmation. (It had been a very long time since I last heard his still voice) I wrote it down in my calendar the exact day. I remember the day and everything clearly.( For a person that forgets quickly this I still remember very clearly) This is the man he had planned for me. This relationship has helped me overcome so much sin, and heal from hurts I've had since a child some of which I had forgotten! Praise the Lord brother! I'm so happy for you too! True love lives! 01 Corinthians 13 💜
Thanks for sharing this, I too needed this. I’m going through separation and the pain I never thought would feel so real. I know that it will pass and I can’t wait until it does
Omg!! My heart was screaming to hear these liberating words! I've been stuck for 9 years and even my daughter has suffered due to the secret abuse she had to endure! And I as a wife had so many sleepless nights and couldn't bring myself to make this very URGENT decision because if fear of what God would do if I broke the pact of marriage (even only by civil court). And now I can see the the light! I had dreamed that I was in this dark place, then I opened two doors the size of windows above my hear and all this light came inside. And I would see the light. THIS IS MY LIGHT... It's time to go... Pls keep me and my daughter in prayers. She suffered so much because of her stepdad (my husband). 😶
Thank u so much first to God and then to this wonderful brother that allowed himself to b used to make this video. "God's Anointing is on this video for those that are ready to receive it"
Blessings to all... 🙏
Praise the LORD! Thank you Jesus! I pray FATHER GOD bless you brother tenfold for your testimony and obedience! Amen!
Your story touched my heart, I carry a very similar testimony that is still being written. I’ve struggled with the same questions of divorce and the promise GOD has made me of a godly husband. Your testimony brother has encouraged me as GOD clearly is using you in a wonderful way!
Love you story! Right now my beautiful wife wants a divorce due to cheating, my selfish ways and being controlling. I cheated and lied about it for 2 years. We have 3 wonderful children together and I wanted to finally come out and tell her the truth. She doesn’t want to forgive me. She doesn’t see a future for us. I’ve been seeking God since I told her. Hoping God will restore my marriage. I’m not sure what Gods plan is for me but thanks to your story I know God will have a plan for me as long as I seek him. I’m hoping I can save my marriage for the sake of my kiddos but God plan will be set for me in his name.
My spouse ran from God the last two years of his life and ended up dying of a drug overdose. God DID restore us seven years prior. But he did not stay walking with God and turned on our family in every way. Now he’s dead. And I am free
I’m so sorry to hear this. My husband is in a similar situation. I pray for his soul and our restoration. I love him so much even through all the pain we have caused each other. God has put a new heart in me for him. I tell God that even if he can’t be for me, I give him up to be fully His. After all his eternal salvation is more important. I will continue to pray that the enemy does not have His way and that God gets all the honor and glory. Seek His kingdom first now sister in Christ. I pray God will lead you and turn His face and blessings to you always.
Your story is very encouraging! Praise God for you and Kristen. May He continue to keep you all.
Thanks dear man of GOD. This is very liberating to hear. Ist of all the WORD of GOD says. What GOD has joined together let no man put asunder. This means GOD doesn't join everyone together, most of the time it's flesh joining flesh. You through CHRIST have helped so many people. Thanks 🙏🙏
I am currently experiencing the elements of your initial video. I'm not sure how my follow on will be, but I appreciate your offering of hope in such an uncertain time. Thank you
I am in this situation rn !
Thank you for the honest and compelling way of your testimony. I look forward to watching the rest! I'm an old gal, but where there's life, there's hope. God bless you. Shalom.
Amen! Truly inspiring! I am going to get divorced soon after 18 years of a haunted marriage. God revealed to me the sins that my husband was committing and when I confronted him he confessed.
God has aldo promissed me me a husband and has even told me who it is. I am excited to see where God is taking me. Thank you for your testimony!
Wow that’s so amazing! Also the timing of your comment is so spot on! We are about to share more of how God told Jared about his future spouse too! Thanks for sharing!
I'm going through something very similar and when your video stopped and you said 128 was the number God gave you and what it meant I looked at the time and it was 10:28 I just broke down and thanked God , I have some changing to do and I need God's to do it thank you for this video , and thank you Lord
Believers are equally spaced to light the world. You are like a light in the middle of the night. This story popped up on my suggested feed hours after God delivered me from my current six year relationship. Dreams crushed: human, man-created dreams full of sun. I will not stand in the way any longer. I’m letting the non-believer go. Thank you for this. PROVIDENCE in this message.
Wow this video showed up while I am having a tough time in my marriage. I feel blessed to hear your story.
Me as well 💜
Sadly this is happening to me. My wife of 19 years up and left me because she said I was being emotionally and mentally abusive which I never did. I've always tried to keep up on reading my Bible, alot of time I had a hard time doing it everyday. I don't know what God has planned for me. But I will trust him to do his will for me.
he is giving you a license to divorce. God have mercy on you guys.
I am so encouraged by your story keep spreading God's love and truth around the world you have a very powerful testimony God has so much in store for you amen amen
I just happened to see your 1st part of your story today & then I come across this video. When you said in the first video that God leads us to marry a unbeliever that is a very rare case, when you decided to marry you were not having a relationship with Jesus nor your wife so Jesus was not the head of your family & when you asked God to help you,He did! He loves you so much that He saved you from a marriage that would was leading you to pain & heartbreak, God is always just & He will hold His loved ones in His right hand. I’m so happy for you & it gives hope to many of us who are praying for the Lord to bless with a man after God’s heart for His glory. Marrying someone with a relationship with Jesus takes away from all the unnecessary issues we face in a marriage not led by our Saviour. God bless you!! God has a good plan for those who trust in Him!
God is amazing ! Congratulations to you both . God has confirm the same for my marriage I am separated on a divorce process but I am at peace God is working on our behalf🙌🏻
It’s amazing when you are going through such a struggle yet have the peace that transcends all understanding! He is so good to be able to give us His amazing comfort.
God bless!
Kristin
@@ThePilgrimageWay Amen
Jared God has used you in my life to be an encouragement. Knowing also there are others out there on the same path! I have a marriage story, may be a little different, but God used it to bring me closer to Him. I don't wish to share it because of the comments on here. We must listen to the Lord and do what He tells us! I have peace with the decision because the Lord instructed it. I am so happy you are going to continue on with Loaves and Fishes what a blessing they are too me. Bless you and Kristen...may the Lord continue to bless you and keep you.
Thank you so much for your comment! It is a blessing to us to read. ❤️
Let the peace of God reign in your heart ❤️ - Kristin
Love your story ❤. I'm at the stage of .... I know what scripture says about divorce, I'd rather stay single rest of my life.. yet potential women try to get to know me.. yet I'm not ready to except it... I've made women cry because I reject there advances, manly cause I still believe remarriage is adultery. Plus I still tend to idolize put on a pedestal.. so I'm still working on myself... it's truly a painful process to go through.... yet your story has the potential to touch me.... yet... ekkk, I am still unsure
I needed to hear this! I love that you’re still amazed at your own story! Glory to God 🙌🏾
When I was newly separated from my husband I came across Michael's story and now after 3yrs separated I'm filing for divorce and I have come across your story. God has also confirmed to me that He will give me a godly spouse. Your story has encouraged me to wait on God thank you so much.
Much blessings to you and your wife!
Dear grace.may God grant you your hearts desires..and may your dreams come true.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏 Be strong in the Lord.
@@imaginethat1276 thanks so much God bless you too
Dear grace.bless your heart.thank you for your reply..was a time at Jesus baptism.as he came straight way out of the water.a voice from heaven said.this is my son in whom I am well pleased..dear grace.when God looks upon you these same words are spoken..
This is my daughter in whom I am well pleased.in Jesus name bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
@@imaginethat1276 oh wow thank you so much for these kind words you have blessed my ❤️
Dear grace.thank you for your reply.will b praying for your situation.i came out of a narsicistic relationship bout 7 months ago.prayed for her change.not so.desire your prayers.i believe your gonna get through this.hold on to God.cling to jesus.i will spiritually stand by your side.once again thank you.in Jesus name.bless you hun.🙏🌹🙏
I have yet to meet another man who has gone through something so similar to myself until now. I'm young but I have no plans to marry unless it is in God's plan. I just want to serve God in all ways and remain around his people for the rest of mt days.
*remarry
"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." Mark 10:9 Sounds like your divorce was a blessing in disguise. He does hate some marriages because those marriages does not include Him and those marriages come before Him (Idolatry). Your divorce testimony is confirmation that it's not my job to find love and get married but leave that marriage plan to God if it is in His Will for me to get married."
Thanks for this message so uplifting God is Good and able in every situation we face Praise the Almighty God
I’ve gone through a divorce and have believed for a new godly marriage but I’ve gotten into 2 relationships with believers that weren’t it for me. I know he’s promised me a wife and has given me a number and verse just like you. I pray it’ll happen soon!
This story took my anxiety level down quite a bit. I became separated from my family 5 days ago. I am so scared and worried about my children which are with my wife. You gave me hope that God will see my family through this no matter the outcome. Thank you for putting it out there.
I’m sorry to hear your going through a challenging time. There is so much hope in Him and I’m happy to hear this message helped you to remember that! Keep seeking Him with all your heart, soul, and mind! And keep giving Him all your worries. Be encouraged that He can and will work *all things* out for good, for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose ♥️
-Kristin
Part 1 appread on my feed and I'm in a situation that makes me cry to God almost everyday and I feel my heart is tired but I'm so scared to divorce 😭😭😭
Wow! Thank you for your personal testament & encouragement. God bless you & your new fruitful marriage. 😄
Thank you for your testimony Jared. It comes at a time of where I'm going through a troubled marriage. Please pray for me. God bless you guys.
I'm hoping you continue to share. The volume was a bit low even when I tried to use 2 different devices. Your story is so powerful. God bless you and your family.
Sorry about the sound. The sound seems to be tricky for us! Thanks for listening anyways!
-kristin
Thank you sooo much Jared.. I’m currently showing signs of depression but I know I will get through this! Your story helped me so much
Psalm 43:5 NLT
[5] Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again- my Savior and my God!
Saying a prayer for you tonight 🙏🏼
God works in amazing ways!
I too married the wrong person..in counseling with my minister He told me when we chose who to marry instead of marrying who God chooses for us there will be trouble..he said God does not condone divorce but in certain circumstances does allow it..he does not want you to be in danger..there is mention in scripture of divorce..my minister said God will remove people from your life who are not good for you..I detest divorce ..it is the ultimate rejection ..it doesn't matter who filed..your entire family suffers... mostly your children...in my case my husband was an abusive alcoholic..God does not want you to live in danger..love should make you feel good not bad or afraid...
..I did all I knew to save my marriage but in the end I knew it was wrong..years later my ex called to tell me he was sorry ..he said he had joined a church and men's Bible study..he had become a Christian...someone told me by divorcing him I had saved his soul..this is not true...by finally accepting God he had saved himself..our divorce was just the incentive.
When 2 unbelievers are married and an unbeliever leaves Paul said, " I gove this command not the Lord."
But when 2 believers divorce he says," The Lord command not I let them remain single or be reconciled." It also says. If an angel of light preaches another gospel rebuke them.
This is no easy thing and where there was ignorance there is grace.
But when the disciples asked," if it's like this between a man and woman it is better to be single " Jesus replied," some are unichs by birth some made so by a king, and some make themselves such for the Kingdome. Let those that can accept it accept it." In other words. It is like this between a man and woman and if you can't accept it be a unich.
Nothing I hear here undermines this.
If you are unequally yoked and your marriage does not honour God and It prevents your personal spiritual growth and relationship with the Lord from developing... then He’d rather you divorced.
this is not biblical.
best5345
Oh, I forgot to mention the adultery but hey, it’s so easy to stand on the outside and throw legalism rocks. I stuck it out for 30 years. Please don’t tell me what is or isn’t biblical. I wrestled with it for 30years until God told me ... that’s enough.
Separation or reconciliation is God’s word NOT divorce
We share a very similar story I dont consider my marriage to have been godly or sanctified by God I was a pagan, not a follower I also feel that the ending of that marriage was a deliverance from a sinful existence I also understand that I should not get married from scripture but I have since reconsidered because of those circumstances I am older and not looking to marry I feel that time is short and I need to be committing my time to Jesus I have no idea what he has planned for me I would love to have a Godly marriage but i think i wasted all that time now I'm old, what are the chances of meeting a man my age that is committed to God above all else? It matters not Only the love of Jesus matters and this world is not our home I am very happy that God has blessed you Always put him first
Nothing is impossible to God.Remember that.And remarriage is not a sin when there's been adultry involved.
I'm so glad I've come across this message today. Very timely. Thank you.
His ways is not our way neither are His Thoughts our thoughts .God is God His is Our Creator He created us not we ourselves .Gid knows what is best for us Our God we worship Him we Give Him All The Glory Amen
My friend I never really thought I would say this because my understanding of dreams is more based on physiology and psychology (both the works of Freud and the Christian Karl Jung) but honestly I have had at least one really vivid dream about by ex Wife and her new Husband. The dream just told me that I had to forgive passed hurt and that Jesus taught me to pray that as I am forgiven so I must forgive others. You know I recall waking up after that dream and I felt somehow cleansed, released and free to carry on serving Jesus
Both of my late parents were re-married divorcees. My Father had served in WW2 in the Far East and he met my Mother when he was home on leave in the UK. Bear in mind this was around 1956 when they remarried. Most minsters then would refuse to remarry divorcees. However they found the Reverend Wilkins (I still have his picture in their wedding Album). He was what we’d call in the UK a ‘non Conformist Minster
I have recently found letters my Mum wrote to my Dad who was serving with the British Army in Germany (where I was born) at the time.
Mum tells him how she went to visit Reverend Wilkins and how he had a little Boy. Mum (who you can see from her letters always wanted children) says the little lad kept coming up to her and was really taken with her. She describes how Reverend Wilkins was perfectly happy to,Arryn them both in the sight of God and his people even though they had both been divorced. These letters are precious to me and I honestly believe God intended they should come to me. (I found them of all things through Facebook. Somebody had purchased them I think at a Car Boot sale. There are well over one hundred letters) I’ll be honest I had problems as a kid. I know now my Mother suffered from depression but as I read her letters I know right from the start how in love she was with my Father. Reading her words to him as he was serving there in Europe and doing all kinds of training (even preparing to fight in a nuclear War as the fifties and sixties were as you know the Cold War and you’ll recall the Cuban Missile crisis that took place when I was only a small child) I have seen such tenderness, such love, such care and such beauty) Their marriage may not have been perfect but frankly I truly believe God was in their marriage too.
I don't know why I stumbled on this video, may be God saying give, divorce now. I married a man who would continue to be unfaithful when I tried confronting him he would say, I have nothing to say. He becomes so bold even in the home he would be video chatting. He is distance emotionally, physically from our children. I would hear all the reasons why he would not change. I too Pray for God to change him but I think God is saying let the marriage go. Thanks for sharing your story
It's really hard that people judge you for doing divorce. But God loves you even if the marriage is not restored He will restore you.
Very encouraging and faith filled message 🙂
Please pray for Floyd Custodio Goes and Rochelle Rose Dcosta seeking for marriage restoration
Powerful stuff . this testimony sets people free.
We pray so! 🙏🏼
Ok, we as christias have been taught wrong about marriage one pastor say this and another day God hates divorce. I'm in a ten years second marriage and he goes to church but he want read his bible he start may for 2days and quit. He said you can't make me read it. So I believe in my heart it's time to get the divorce.im not waiting for ten more years until he get serious about God's words and truly live it. I admit at times I drink beer with him. I stop for 4months but he just can't stop. It's just alot of things going on. God please forgive me and help me to make the right decision thanks God.
God speaks to us in different ways.
I’m
Confised my wife had affair 2019 and I was horrified and tried saving our marriage 2019 and 2020 then 2021 her affair partner got married and was horrible abuse and anger to me - by early 2022 I was resentful and angry and I lost my loving supportive patient side and it pushed her away she left me march 2022.. it hurt so much I feel like I failed her and our daughter
Beautiful testimony!🙌🙌
Shalom
Can you explain re marriage after Jesus said that those you remarry are fornicators and adulterers and will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Jesus said divorce is allowable in certain situations such as sexual immorality. However, you are to remain celibate after.
Paul also said he was the one suggesting that and it wasn’t from the Holy Spirit, correct?
Hi Rich, for the remnant that has a love for the truth, they will read this and be encouraged; perhaps strengthened... but their are many who have itching ears, as the time has now come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears, and they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables... and because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved, for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they *should* believe a lie... scary stuff. I pray this helps you or anyone else that may happen to come by this comment thread.
Remarriage while the covenant spouse is still alive = adultery. Only death will end this covenant. God takes covenant marriage/vows verrry very seriously. Vows are not a game, w the holy God of Israel. It was the very first covenant established on earth and so it shall be at the last. The Bridegroom and the Bride will be married forever Rev 19:6-9. Rev 20:6, Rev 21:1-11. Pay attention to the second death: we don't want to be found fearful, unbelieving (unbelieving the Truth, which is the full doctrine Jesus Christ taught and gave His disciples, 2 John 1:9-11), we don't want to be found abominable, murderers, *whoremongers*, sorcerers, *idolaters* dogs, liars or anyone that loves (a lie) and makes a lie Rev 22:15... Trying to write this all as plainly (yet thoroughly) as possible. Bc the denominational cults and precepts of men will never ever preach or teach JESUS' doctrines. His sheep must hear His voice calling them out from among them (the harlot church system, the seducing devilish doctrines and/or the traditions of men), and be ye separate, touching not the unclean thing and He will receive them.
God is not mocked, for whatsoever a man sows, that will he also reap. For he who sows to the flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption (death) but he who sows to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting (eternal life). We know the difference btwn works of the flesh and fruits of the Spirit, right?
Just in the chapter prior, Paul admonishes to walk in the Spirit, bc when we walk in the Spirit, we will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh. In Galatians 5:19-21, note, the v first two works of the flesh that he lists are: *adultery* and *fornication* - Jesus said it plainly to the Pharisees in Matt 19, what we will be judged by in the end. The Pharisees literally tried to test my Lord by asking Him if it was lawful for a man to put away (send out of his house; divorce; etc.) his wife for every cause. You know what Jesus asked them? He asked, "Haven't you read (the Torah/the mosaic law that they were under at that moment in time), that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and for this cause shall a man *leave* father and mother, and *cleave* to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore (therefore) they are *no* *more* *twain* (two), but *one* *flesh* . What therefore *God* *hath* *joined* *together* , *let* *not* *man* *put* *asunder* - but then they come again asking foolishness, saying, "why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement and to put her away?" Command? Stop the madness. See how the flesh can twist things w/o one even being aware of it? The Pharisees were trying to put words in God's mouth BUT God never commanded that... at all. Jesus explains it better than I, He said: "Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered [ALLOWED or PERMITTED in other words] you to put away your wives: *but* *from* *the* *beginning* *it* *was* *not* *so* -> and I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for *fornication* and shall marry another, commiteth *adultery* and whoso marrieth her which is put away [separated; forsaken; abandoned; put out of the house; divorced] doth commit *adultery* ."
Read the verse directly after this, and understand what Jesus is saying. Paul follows up w even more context, written and inspired by the Holy Ghost, in 1 Corinthians 7. Specifically it's commanded in v10-11 and by the power of the Holy Ghost, Paul also counsels further in v15-16, 20-24. Then in case anyone forgot the bottom line, God commands in v39, that the wife is *bound* by the law [referring to the first book of the Torah, Gen 2:22-24] as long as her husband liveth *but* *if* *her* *husband* *be* *DEAD* , she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; *only* in the Lord.
We must all understand how much God *hates* divorce; He hates the putting away -> Malachi 2v14-16. When God sent His Son in His Name, JESUS did not preach any thing contrary to what His Father said. *God* was *in* *Christ* reconciling the world unto Himself, not imputing (charging; counting; reckoning) their trespasses unto them, and hath committed unto us *the* *word* *of* *reconciliation* (Matt 3:17, Matt 17:5, Mark 1:11, Mark 9:7, Luke 3:22, Luke 9:35, Romans 1:20, 2 Corinthians 5:19, Colossians 1:19, Colossians 2:8-9, Acts 17:29-30).
So Jesus Christ, the Son of God, is not double-minded either. In Jeremiah 3:1 (pls devour the whole chapter, including chapter 4, for a fuller understanding) it's clear that God had divorced Israel (but not Judah) and yet He said: "...but you hast played the harlot with many lovers; yet *return* *again* *to* *me* , saith the LORD." *RETURN* = *REPENT* *COME* back to your first Love (Rev 2:4-5). Know therefore that the LORD thy God, He is God, the faithful God, which keeps covenant and mercy with them that *love* Him and *keep* His commandments to a thousand generations (Deut 7:9). Remember in the end, Rev 22:14-15, He does NOT change.
Malachi 3:6a "For I am the LORD, I change not...". God’s word is forever settled I heaven. He doesn't change, Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever (Heb 13:8). I include scriptures to show that this is not a vain imagination or some personal interpretation, I beseech anyone reading this to please please Please go and read it for yourself; pray and ask the Lord and be straight w Him. Then study to show yourself approved *unto* *God* bc your souls are precious to the Lord, and eternal life depends on you knowing the only true God and Jesus Christ who He sent (John 17:3).
Behold, this is the law God established from the v beginning concerning covenant marriage: Gen 2:22-24. Then in Numbers 30:2, it is written, "if a man vow a vow unto the Lord, or swear and oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth." I can't get anymore plainer than that. We will all be judged by His Word/the doctrine of Christ... so pls study the gospels, repent and obey the Gospel of the kingdom, be born again/baptized in His Name/filled w the gift of God/the Holy Ghost, know what the will of Father is, pray w/o ceasing, be led of the Spirit and continue in His Word John 8:31; abiding in Christ Jesus unto the end 2 John 1:9-11.
@@cassireneeAmen. So many people are being deceived and they accept it because of their hard hearts and flesh desires.
@@cassireneeit says if they fornicate they can be put away. You can’t remarry unless they fornicate and are put away……
@@MrsK976 I prayed earnestly to ask Abba what Jesus actually meant by saying “fornication”, bc Jesus was speaking to unbelieving Pharisees, Hebrews under the old covenant. But Mark and Luke, do not record that at all (“unless it be for fornication”). So I had to ponder why? You know where the Lord led me, to find out what exactly He meant when He answered those Pharisees, w “except it be for fornication”? He led me to John 8...
John 8:41-42
“Ye do the deeds of your father. Then said they [the Pharisees] to Him, *We* *be* *not* *born* *of* *fornication* we have one Father, even God. Jesus said unto them, If God were your Father, ye would love me: for I *proceeded* *forth* *and* *came* *from* *God;* neither came I of myself, but he sent me.”
Do you see? These Pharisees accused our Lord of being BORN OF FORNICATION. Do you know when Jesus was born of Mary? When she was a virgin, espoused to Joseph - they had not been intimate yet and Jospeh notice Mary APPEARED to have committed fornication. According to the law, specifically in Deut 22:13-21 Joseph was not willing to make his espoused or betrothed wife Mary a PUBLIC EXAMPLE (see what he meant by this, in Deut 22:20-21) so he was thinking to PUT HER AWAY privately. But while he pondered these things, the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream... see Matt 1:18-21 for more. Mary appeared to have been playing the whore in her daddy's house, being a few months pregnant w that holy thing in her womb... that is why her husband Joseph minded to put her away privily or privately, he didn't want to do what the law permitted him to. Which was to stone her to death until she die [ ref Matt 1:18-21]. But God...
Luke 1:30-35
"And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God. And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and *shalt* *call* *his* *name* *Jesus.* He shall be *great,* and *shall* *be* *called* *the* *Son* *of* *the* *Highest:* and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David: And he shall reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end. Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man? And the angel answered and said unto her, The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also *that* *holy* *thing* *which* *shall* *be* *born* *of* *thee* *shall* *be* *called* *the* *Son* *of* *God.*
I pray the Lord open your understanding that you too may understand the scriptures - EXCEPT IT BE FOR FORNICATION, refers to a “virgin” or a "damsel", whom her father thought was living chase and pure but she instead was playing the whore in her father’s house, and unbeknownst to her daddy, he gives her away in marriage to a suitor and the dowry and everything is paid for and that man now expects to be w the daughter of that man who thought she was a virgin but the husband finds out on the day they consummate the marriage [ref. Deut 22:13-21] that he hates her bc she is not a virgin, she lied - JESUS clarified, unless it be for THIS reason alone: which pertains to the ancient Hebrews only. Those Pharisees, knew EXACTLY what Jesus meant, that's why the conversation was over after Jesus gave that commandment in Matt 19:8-9. Fornication does not mean ADULTERY or PORNOGRAPHY or ANY TYPE OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY, as the majority of christendom would like to think it means today, [ref. 1 Cor 6:9-10]. Christ's speech was directed to those who were under the Law, who were tempting Jesus by asking selfish questions, [ref Matt 19:1-3, Rom 7:1]. Hebrews were under the law and they were considered married even though they had not consummated the marriage yet. This might be equivalent to our western world, when we are 'engaged', perhaps. However, this is confirmed by how the disciples responded to the Lord's command [ref. Matt 19:10-12]. I'm sure if remarriage was possible, Christ would have shared that w His disciples. But no, He didn't, and look at how shell shocked they were by this new command regarding marriage, according to the NEW COVENANT. They were like, if this be the case for a man w his wife, then forgetaboutit! (I'm paraphrasing lol) but yes. If the wife was not found to be a pure virgin on the day they FIRST come together to consummate the marriage, it was bc she was playing the whore in her daddy's house, and Jesus said, ONLY THEN WERE THEY PERMITTED TO PUT THAT WOMAN AWAY [pls look prayerfully at that passage in Deut 22, alongside Matt 19:1-9]. However, for any other reason, you put your wife away and marry another, you commit adultery. And if you marry someone who is put away, you commit adultery. See Mark and Luke in comparison. No exception is noted there. Why? Those gospels were written to a Gentile audience, as opposed to the gospel according to Matthew, which was written to a Hebraic audience..
[1 Cor 7:10 -11]
Love this so much. I'm so grateful to hear this
Going through the same thing. Not exactly, but it was definitely toxic. I’m learning to let het go. Today is our 6 year anniversary. I consider her an unbelieving spouse. She wants nothing to do with me so I am leaving.
I’m so sorry to hear this! May God comfort you and give you wisdom for your specific situation 🙏🏼
I thank God I watched this just got divorced and God is good
Thank you for this testimony, I needed to hear this.
Reality check. God doesn't save a marriage. He gives us free will.
God bless you and keep you both. Thank you for your testimony ❤️
God is Amazing🙌🏽
Thank you so much for your honest testimony and biblical truth.
You both were Beautiful. God Bless You both ❤️❤️🙏🙏✝️✝️
I divorced my husband back in 2016. He was cheating and abusive. When God say to divorce I did it and plus peace came along with me.
Let the unbeliever depart... does that mean he/she can NEVER repent and come to the Lord ? Because does God say... i don´t love him/her and won´t even try to save them... they are hopeless... they are impossible to save. ? Does he actually say that... You yourself said you were the worse sinner. I am in agreement that if they want to leave let them go... but it does not mean you give up. It is talking about leaving the home/ house.. but don´t give up on them... Don´t be a quitter. Divorce is always wrong... the ¨exception clause¨ is not what you think. The word ¨fornication¨ means just that. Anyway... the Lord will always always love you and her.
But... don´t give up on anyone that is not saved... pray for their salvation and believe.
Thank you for saying this. People are so busy finding their so called “happiness” that they forget God said it wouldn’t be easy to follow Him and that we must love others even those who persecute us. How would He then not ask us to pray and believe for our own spouses salvation and healing. Marriage is a sacrifice that brings holiness. It teaches us unconditional love and forgiveness like God had with Israel even though they failed God so many times. Marriage is a covenant not a contract. It was never meant to be an easy fairy tale.
The volume is low. It's hard to hear.
I have a question: Do you still pray for your ex-wife's salvation or ask trusted brothers and sisters in Christ to pray for her long after the divorce? I felt this heaviness for her as she was led astray. I imagine you must have felt bad that you were not able to save your wife; it is not your responsibility and it is between her and God. I am so glad that God has led you out of a toxic marriage and led you to a Godly marriage. God is good.
This is almost my story and yes I still pray for him years later God is long suffering to us and wishes that no man perish I agree with his mercy and grace Amen
@Kimberley He had already said he did everything for his ex's salvation.It is not wise to bring a third person in a marriage.God arranged their marriage and blessed it.Let them live happily.
Thank you for sharing I actually posted this on my Facebook
Thanks for sharing!!
This was truly touchng and a boost to a bounce back
God bless you brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you my brother!!!!!!!
We have the same father and savior.
His word said He will leave the ninety nine and go search for the one lost sheep, He is married to the backslider, just keep putting your trust in God, God bless you.
I like it. Thank u for sharing. So honest. Bless u
I'll share this. Thank you sir!
Beautiful story with scriptures n dreams
Thank you for sharing🙏🏾
It just means that that person wasn't for you and you can go your way and she could go hers God isn't upset with you
This is helpful. Thank you.
Same situation brother pray for me