I'm wondering how both of them raised beautiful, responsible children, though. Their children must not have been impacted by this indifference attitude between them.
@hershekissed Love? Hardly! They possibly respected and cared for each other through their arrangement, but there was no love there. That's why I say, I don't want nobody to "love" me, just respect me because the definitions of love that people have are just sad.
@@aligneddivine4522 they been married probably longer than you been alive. With age comes wisdom. Tap in when you her age, let’s see how that works out for you🤷🏽♀️
Decades?. This has been since the beginning of time. If you are Christian remember Abraham and his wife Sarah and their slave Hagar..Abraham and is sons wife Tamar. I believe that their mother had more lovers than their father. That old joke about the milk man or the mail man baby isn't a myth. The show Paternity court and Maury Povich exposes grandma lies everyday . Mexicans call the wife's lover Sancho. In those old blues songs they called them the Back door man. .I was in the USMC and there we called the man that's your wife's lover is a Jody Because everyone knows that when you get deployed she will have a lover. Not an exaggeration
So true. A really good friend of mine who I had grew close to the dad, his mother married to his father for 45 years had a boyfriend who used to come to the house while the father was there. Everyone treated this as normal I could not wrap my head around none of this at all. It was just insane.
Do you really believe she was playing cards? The whole point is staying together, you women are so lazy that’s why it’s millions of single women and winter is coming
You are on the right track ,don't change pray for a person that feels the same way too .This man most likely is the cause she played cards,he said he didn't care he is one man that couldn't direct her path .I ts not funny it's a shame he is a poor excuse for a man you never admit infidelity to your children if you want them to take a straight path.
EXACTLY ! because this Warp mindset is worldly and selfish.A TRUE man who fears God could Never . Grandpa is too old to continue thinking like this , what happened to the wisdom that comes from aging, this is not it.
Will and Jada too. With all the criticism from everybody who has an opinion, they’ve managed to keep their marriage together, while even those people criticizing them can, and have not kept their own marriages together.
After being married for 51.5 years, then losing the love of my life to pancreatic cancer, this couple is so sad to me...enough to make the angels weep! She's lonely! He's been neglected! Both their hearts are hardened. If what they had was acceptable, the daughter's line of questioning would have gone entirely different. My husband and I had the theme of LOVE FOR A LIFETIME. God blessed our commitment to Him, to our vows and to each other...HEAVENLY!!!
It worked for them, I wouldn't want to know my parents had this arrangement,and openly admitting infidelity,and not caring . Did they fall out of love,or were they ever in love?? WTF ?!!!
THIS IS REAL REAL REAL TALK 👄 💯 🙌 👏 👌 🙏 LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THESE STORIES ABOUT HOW TO STAY MARRIED LET HER DO HER BECAUSE DADDY WILL. DO HIS THING 👋 HELLO KIN FOLKS ALL MENS WILL DO.THIS SO WHAT LET HIM.DO HIS THING 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE
They are alike … sounded like grandma. She doesn’t look like an abused wife. Grandma was making herself happy too. Obviously they were both ok with it it.
@@herself50 She was emotionally and mentally abused as well as neglected. You have to remember that Black people could not afford divorces and the financial ability to live separately. Grandma seems bitter but she adjusted to these horrible circumstances. Grandma definitely does not seem to be happy. Happy women smile, have inflection in their voices and have a light and bright personality. Grandma is a great woman but she definitely does not seem happy.
@@intentionalparenting2605 Yes and I think both are true. It wasn’t a marriage. It was an arrangement. And both were at least content if not happy with it.
@@719kai719 and many women have children that they tell their husbands that they belong to them. I know women like this and am related to women like this. We all are some just don't know it. I have heard plenty of people say that they didn't care because their mother loves them.
Exactly. They don’t like each other. For everyone that thinks those old marriages were the goal, it’s been my experience that a lot of them were more akin to this. He was the breadwinner and it’s cheaper to keep her
And you know this because they both told you this personally right? Ya'll are truly sad, making comments and judgments about people you never met a day in your life. Not knowing shit you talking about with complete confidence is a mental disorder.
Mother and father have their "understanding". Sons grow up distressed over seeing their mothers suffer, but end up a lot like their father's because that's all they know. Daughters grow up in a household seeing their fathers sleep around and therefore don't trust men.
Exactly, this is why the Black community is broken. This is mostly the norm for most of the Black community. You hear young people talk about it all the time and you see it in lack of cohesive marriages in the Black community.
@@albertcuturic8666grandma said in another vid that she married because her friends were getting married. There was nothing in this "marriage " it was practically a facade
Plain said. Eff these "marriages" of old. This sh&t was a shambles. Today is a better day and time because people are finally truthful about what is going on.
Narcissist / Psychopaths always got them momma in there minds. She did not teach him to respect all women and to love for the good. OG was a nightmare of a player running free. Momma did not put it there 🏏🍑. He became a bully all over the place.
🙌 he’s absolutely correct, we are responsible for our own happiness! We can’t count on other people for our happiness, or will be disappointed. We each have one life to live our own individual life with the right to choose the options we wish to fulfill in our one life. I mean I’m not talking about the soul after you die I’m just talking about life on earth lol.
Hey whatever works for them is ok with me there aren't any fairy-tale stories based off reality involving human beings. I respect honesty over everything else especially the bits and pieces of people's lives we see on social media that present a false image of reality. True love exists but emotions change like the weather in many cases however overall stability in all aspects of life is equally important. There aren't any recipes you can mix together to create happiness in another person we are all solely responsible for building a stable emotional river within ourselves. You can only enhance what lies within someone however you can't create anything that doesn't already exist within there character. Many are in love with the temporary highs of something new or exciting but are gone with the wind the moment temporary low situations arise. It is important to invest in yourself whether single or married otherwise your needs are to overwhelming constantly draining the energy source of others because you failed to create the essential qualities of joy within Self! I have no negative comments to say about this couple as long as it works for them it's really not my business to judge there entire marriage based off mini clips. Blessings to All!
They are a perfect together, have the same mind-set. She said the same things "Why would I care". Player Player......very entertaining, never a dull moment around that house. That laugh.
Wife & Husband are the perfect match! They are truly one. They sound like, Female/Male version of each other😂 Same personality... The daughter sound like the Mothr & Dad😅
This is how men should be. Not weakened or affected by what women do. Mom sounded like a woman who didn't listen or really cared about what he said. Pops wasn't planning to run behind her at all.
Yeah, this is why folks say long marriages are not goals. You had to put up with pure bs to stay married. Also the reason people don't want to get married anymore or don't stay married very long.
I love how honest they answer. Wise words. Most don't realize they can't change their partner and think they should be with each other 24/7. I love this though. Thank you for sharing.
Kind of Crazy how many of the people commenting is overlooking the fact that Grandpa is a Proud Adulterer.What ever happen to respecting and keeping the vows you made before man &God. Marriage is one big joke to some people i guess smh. Seem they was marrying for fun .
@@SEKHMET-7777 And to think she laid down and gave herself to him. Her attitude is no better. And people think she's giving wise advice. Just because she's old... Smh!
You are ONE brave Sista asking Grownfolks these questions….. My Mama would go OFF on me at 72! I pretty much know this is how they lived back then…. but the siblings CHOOSE to Not dig too deep. 😂😂😂😢😂
@@SPOTLIGHTOVERTHECITYTVHi. Please let everyone know that it's his niece laughing. Because at first I thought it was you. However, I can hear the hurt and pain in your voice. ❤😢😮🙏🤗
Why laugh @ that!? I fail to see what’s funny about not taking the Sacrament of Marriage, vows you made to God & eachother ~ seriously. I’m sooo grateful my Grandparents were opposite of this!! Why marry if all you want to do is run around on who’s suppose to be your love!?
@@jenniferstein1702no1 likes people that boast and brag. That isn’t of God either. Neither is passing judgement on others. Great for your grandparents but I’m sure your grandparents probably didn’t even have the same struggles, lifestyle and things to overcome that these people had the strength to do. So you can quit the condescending act.
@@demetria4339 ‘Boasting, bragging,’ … Isn’t this what these two are doing ~ but of their immorality & wickedness!? 🤔 & ‘Passing judgement!?’ It’s kind of hard not to have a feeling on this ~ if you have a brain. They’re broadcasting it. People ofcourse will feel one way or another. Let me guess … Anyone who finds this dysfunction cute ~ is just fine with you!? But anyone not embracing this joke of a union/that takes marriage seriously ~ you want to have a personal problem with!? I DIDN’T say they were going to hell for making a mockery of the Sacrament of Marriage, & for playing in God’s face a lifetime. That’d be me actually judging. But, you are aware ~ that God tells us & wants us to discern!? Discern & live our lives for him, as justly as possible.!? That’s what we’re ALL called to do. Not JUST my Grandparents. We’re NoT to live our lives mocking God & the Sacrament of Marriage. Their ‘arrangement,’ derangement infact is a deliberate mockery. … & Nice try, trying to play the race card. As iF certain groups are exempt from the Ten Commandments!? No one is, last I knew. & ‘Condescending/act?’ Not @ all. No act here. It’s called having a properly formed conscience. You should get you one. Try it on for size. Lol. ~
I keep telling people, just because a couple is married a long time that don't mean they were "faithful" to each other.
Unfortunately it's true
Or happy...
Or happy...😮
Yes evry married couple I kno Cheats!! Especially the women!!!!!!
@@babygurl2993 disgree
It all comes together. Now you understand why she feels the way she does about him.😢😢
😢😢😮😮
And him too if she was out playing cards for 5 years …
Yea, they both know and understand what goes down.
And just gey on with it
But, who initially started the separation?
FACTS THATP PARTY😂
He’s damn right, YOU are RESPONSIBLE for YOUR OWN happiness
Another example that the length of the marriage does not determine the quality of the marriage, just that you stayed married.
I have a saying if humans can't do right by God? How are we gonna do right by each other?
I'm wondering how both of them raised beautiful, responsible children, though. Their children must not have been impacted by this indifference attitude between them.
Who says this marriage wasn’t quality
@@imhotepausar3744by god ?
It was quality. You ain't listening
They respond alike, talk alike and move alike… They are one in the same❤❤👑💯
They are one
I don't think she had much choice in the matter, she learnt to deal with it!
Ooooooh! They had an OPEN marriage. Ok. Got it! Nothing new under the sun😉
🤷🏿RIGHT ✌🏿
It’s wasn’t open, dear. They chose happiness. They loved the other enough to want that person to be happy. Then actually allowed them to be happy😂
@hershekissed Love? Hardly! They possibly respected and cared for each other through their arrangement, but there was no love there. That's why I say, I don't want nobody to "love" me, just respect me because the definitions of love that people have are just sad.
@@aligneddivine4522 they been married probably longer than you been alive. With age comes wisdom. Tap in when you her age, let’s see how that works out for you🤷🏽♀️
THATS IT
And she wasn't "playing cards" either😂😂😂😂
Facts😂
"Either!" 🙃🙃🙃
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right!!! They both don't give af❤
At all
They talk the same mess, and wouldn’t have known what to do without each other
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
True
Exactly! Even there inflections in their voice and mannerisms are similar. Wisdom! Grandma already told y'all they was playing on each other.
I swear they are literally like the same person in separate bodies. 😂
My thoughts exactly 😂. They both have too much of the same energy and couldn’t have handled being with anyone else. ❤
Pop spoke Volumes when he said U gotta make urself Happy 😊.
They loved each other. They were 2 of a kind and that's why they married lasted love. love grandma and grandpa ❤😂😅
“What would I care?”, was striking. He didn’t care because he was too busy being unfaithful.
She was to she wasn't just play with cards there was some batts and balls to
Play with to believe that!
Most marriages are like this. Those who believe in Cinderella end up finding out it was a fairy tale!
Ya'll need to grow up. This internet has confused y'all into thinking you actually have real life wisdom. Shit is sad.
A lot of marriages were like that because it was cheaper and more convenient in society to be married than be single. MY...HOW TIMES HAVE CHANGED!
I can’t with them they are hilarious 😂😂😂
He was definitely cheating on grandma
And grandma was doing her thing too I believe…🤷🏽♂️
Believe that!
And grandma was doing the same shit😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
2 can play this game😂😂😂😂
He didn't lie about it, did he. 😅
Well she said I. Previous videos she had a boyfriend
For decades, This type of utter disrespect was commonly called a marriage.
Foul.. and people wonder why they can't find someone who is faithful. It starts at home.
Decades?. This has been since the beginning of time. If you are Christian remember Abraham and his wife Sarah and their slave Hagar..Abraham and is sons wife Tamar. I believe that their mother had more lovers than their father. That old joke about the milk man or the mail man baby isn't a myth. The show Paternity court and Maury Povich exposes grandma lies everyday . Mexicans call the wife's lover Sancho. In those old blues songs they called them the Back door man. .I was in the USMC and there we called the man that's your wife's lover is a Jody Because everyone knows that when you get deployed she will have a lover. Not an exaggeration
So true. A really good friend of mine who I had grew close to the dad, his mother married to his father for 45 years had a boyfriend who used to come to the house while the father was there. Everyone treated this as normal I could not wrap my head around none of this at all. It was just insane.
Do you really believe she was playing cards? The whole point is staying together, you women are so lazy that’s why it’s millions of single women and winter is coming
That part
I Want To Be Faithful Married, Happy And Successful.
You are on the right track ,don't change pray for a person that feels the same way too .This man most likely is the cause she played cards,he said he didn't care he is one man that couldn't direct her path .I ts not funny it's a shame he is a poor excuse for a man you never admit infidelity to your children if you want them to take a straight path.
He sounds like my EX-husband! Told me I should make myself happy however I want, said no matter what, I can't make him happy. Lord knows I tried.
A house divided cannot stand ...
And im crying because I want a husband so bad. I shouldthink again. This would suck. Only a man wirh Jesus in his heart will due
do.*
EXACTLY ! because this Warp mindset is worldly and selfish.A TRUE man who fears God could Never . Grandpa is too old to continue thinking like this , what happened to the wisdom that comes from aging, this is not it.
Men with Jesus in their hearts are no exempt from sinning in any way.
Jesus ain't real either, just live your life sensibly and ethically!
Let me tell you y'all church ladies are far from any truth.
What a mess
Granddaddy talking his shit!!!! Lol 🤣
HE WAS PLAYING
BUT NOT NO CARDS😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😮
He's speaking truth, remember... before Granddaddy was Granddaddy he was a young MAN
@@vanessaandrews152 yassssssssssssss
Imagine when he was young 😮
Why would he care? Wow. That's all I need to hear to know the state of this marriage.
This makes me sad and also a eye opener to “back in the day” marriages 🥺
They are both the same that is why their love works for them❤
I wouldn't call it love.
@@marthakaine4132 we can all define love differently, but I do agree with your statement😉
That's what I was thinking. 😂
Will and Jada too. With all the criticism from everybody who has an opinion, they’ve managed to keep their marriage together, while even those people criticizing them can, and have not kept their own marriages together.
Equally Yoked.😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅
After being married for 51.5 years, then losing the love of my life to pancreatic cancer, this couple is so sad to me...enough to make the angels weep! She's lonely! He's been neglected! Both their hearts are hardened. If what they had was acceptable, the daughter's line of questioning would have gone entirely different. My husband and I had the theme of LOVE FOR A LIFETIME. God blessed our commitment to Him, to our vows and to each other...HEAVENLY!!!
SADLY.. MANY WOMEN SETTLED FOR THIS ARRANGEMENT. LADIES, KNOW YOUR WORTH.
Yeah it is sad.
@user-qj6gh2it5h And many men settled for this arrangement, too. Stop acting like women were perfect and the men were the problem.
Very well said. Astonishing even
I'm sure your husband was cheating too you just didn't know it, stop pretending you had a model marriage
Perfect match 😂. No wonder they stayed this long. Daddy was busy😂😂
Moma was busy too ! 😅
"Ha ha!" Spoke volumes 😮🤣🤣
It worked for them, I wouldn't want to know my parents had this arrangement,and openly admitting infidelity,and not caring . Did they fall out of love,or were they ever in love?? WTF ?!!!
Girl same.. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
You're right.
Right idk why everyone saying this is cute sounds disfunctional af
@@Fannie_Mae why judge their marriage. if it works for them then its their business.
Im sure they're joking
They are so well suited for each each other and both so cute!!
Yes
Match made in heaven
Cute??? Its sad. I will rather have old couple that love each other.
Nothing cute about this travesty.
@@0330Marcella Relax, ain't that deep,lol
They are JUST ALIKE!!!😂❤
THIS IS REAL REAL REAL TALK 👄 💯 🙌 👏 👌 🙏 LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THESE STORIES ABOUT HOW TO STAY MARRIED LET HER DO HER BECAUSE DADDY WILL. DO HIS THING 👋 HELLO KIN FOLKS ALL MENS WILL DO.THIS SO WHAT LET HIM.DO HIS THING 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS PRICELESS WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE AGREE
One created the other. Miom accepted this man and adjusted to his unfaithfulness by adapting and doing the same to stay in the marriage.
They are alike … sounded like grandma. She doesn’t look like an abused wife. Grandma was making herself happy too. Obviously they were both ok with it it.
@@tonya6437 That’s exactly what I get from her vids. She adjusted to his infidelity and found her own happiness elsewhere. Just sad
@@herself50 She was emotionally and mentally abused as well as neglected. You have to remember that Black people could not afford divorces and the financial ability to live separately. Grandma seems bitter but she adjusted to these horrible circumstances. Grandma definitely does not seem to be happy. Happy women smile, have inflection in their voices and have a light and bright personality. Grandma is a great woman but she definitely does not seem happy.
Luv it can't get enough of it ❤❤❤❤
Sad...This was not a marriage folks. This was an arrangement.
Whatever works. They were both content
Arrangements often works better and last with both parties being happy. Marriages don’t works! Hints-the divorce rates 😂
I agree
RIGHT! SMH on how many FAKE "marriages" exist just say they have someone! Soul contracts have end dates!
@@intentionalparenting2605 Yes and I think both are true. It wasn’t a marriage. It was an arrangement. And both were at least content if not happy with it.
Wow, what life was like for many of our mothers. Keep it coming. Interesting. As they get older they have no filter. No shame.😂
Yep and many of our fathers raised kids that they only thought were theirs
@@d.d.sarason8749 and had kids outside of their marriage, and tricked their money for outside 🐱
Maybe for your mothers. 😂
@@d.d.sarason8749Many of them men had whole other families out there..
@@719kai719 and many women have children that they tell their husbands that they belong to them. I know women like this and am related to women like this. We all are some just don't know it. I have heard plenty of people say that they didn't care because their mother loves them.
It was not a happy marriage. They tolerated each other for reasons known to them but resentment is there.
Exactly. They don’t like each other. For everyone that thinks those old marriages were the goal, it’s been my experience that a lot of them were more akin to this. He was the breadwinner and it’s cheaper to keep her
I agree
They were codependent on each other and they had children that's it that's all.
And you know this because they both told you this personally right?
Ya'll are truly sad, making comments and judgments about people you never met a day in your life.
Not knowing shit you talking about with complete confidence is a mental disorder.
Grandpa a trip😅
It's so crazy how much they are alike. Wow
I can hear these people all day,everyday.True conversation and smiles❤
Mother and father have their "understanding". Sons grow up distressed over seeing their mothers suffer, but end up a lot like their father's because that's all they know.
Daughters grow up in a household seeing their fathers sleep around and therefore don't trust men.
SAD....BUT TRUE...AND THE STRUGGLE CONTINUES FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION. ...MAY GOD HELP US ALL
Exactly, this is why the Black community is broken. This is mostly the norm for most of the Black community. You hear young people talk about it all the time and you see it in lack of cohesive marriages in the Black community.
Can't spend life pursuing and checking each other! 💯 Sane and smart
If you love and respect for each other and you are secure with in each other and confortable than you don't need to check
If there's is no respect or love than there's nothing
@@albertcuturic8666grandma said in another vid that she married because her friends were getting married. There was nothing in this "marriage " it was practically a facade
@@eac-guy7272 Well i believe exactilly what that marriage is. Why even get married if you are not gonna marrie for love
So basically no accountability??? Pathetic
No wonder why she keep sayin she didn’t like him too much I wouldn’t have either 😂
Don’t do that, she wasn’t perfect. They both had faults
I agree. Who wants to be with someone for a lifetime and have to deal with him cheating and speaking poorly about her.
Me neither. She carried on with her life.
@@thealchemist333They both were cheating. They both admitted to this. 🤷♀️
You are right and too many women endured this kind of treatment. That generation did not have privilege and not many people could afford to divorce.
Truth Be Told ✨️💫✨️💫✨️
Plain said. Eff these "marriages" of old. This sh&t was a shambles. Today is a better day and time because people are finally truthful about what is going on.
They act like they didn't even care. Why marry?
Grammy and Grampy are both so darn cute! And down to earth. ❤
True match
I Don't know them, but I LOVE them Both, would love to meet them
They sound just a like, they are one spirit for sure
@@SanctifiedLadyRight… I’m trying to figure out how a 50-year long marriage full of adultery is cute.
At least he's being honest 😂
He's funny 😂I jus love watching them cause they jus tell it like it is😅😅😅
We can't make our partner happy, we can only make ourselves. Bars!
CAT-DADDY MARRIED MAMMA-SOUSA! Sorry for the children of this union.
Haha "I was playing & there were no damn cards" This couple tolerated each other and stayed together for the convenience.
Adultery is adultery. I wish the algorithms would stop putting other people's dysfunction of my timeline.
If you stop watching and commenting on these videos you will see less of them
@ImreallylikethatIRL ; @mommyfixyourcrown448
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I haven't been on social media in several weeks or longer. I come back and 🎶 It's another one. 🎶
You can click the three button on the side and say do not recommend this channel
The illuminati is MAKING you watch..
Since you're not able to make the choice on your own nor to watch
They are both good looking people. They both make their own happiness 👏👏
"Only i can make me happy" Priceless. ❤
Unique ❤
I just love these two people,they have me cracking up when ever I listen to them,the two of them were made for each other.
I really love watching this channel very inspiring, we're you watching from?
They are honest but not a relationship I would want for myself or my children just saying....
Narcissist / Psychopaths always got them momma in there minds. She did not teach him to respect all women and to love for the good. OG was a nightmare of a player running free. Momma did not put it there 🏏🍑. He became a bully all over the place.
They stayed together because they needed each other
Perhaps, they should have stayed free and single.
Sounds like a marriage of convenience but full of void.
I wouldn't want this for myself.
Exactly 💯
I agree. I don’t understand why this is being glorified. Smh.
Very sad marriage for both of them.
It does sound good. Both of them were out there. She didn't care either when you listened to the mother.
I would love it...I'm not clingy or needy...But when I want to be bothered, He bothers me...We understand ....❤
What a shame that those 2 lived a life together but never being true and faithful. So sad that this is posted up as an example like its cute
How is it sad if both are happy? Don't put your sadness on someone else's life.
@@YemayaIndigo I don't have sadness because I walk with Jesus and understand what marriage is meant to be. Stop normalizing devilshness
@@2turntablesandamicrophone201Yur no fun. I was gonna say something snarky or controversial, but I cant argue with that.
True@@YemayaIndigo
Stop judging @2turntablesandamicrophone201
🙌 he’s absolutely correct, we are responsible for our own happiness! We can’t count on other people for our happiness, or will be disappointed. We each have one life to live our own individual life with the right to choose the options we wish to fulfill in our one life. I mean I’m not talking about the soul after you die I’m just talking about life on earth lol.
However, according to marriage vows and the roles of husbands and wives, each other's happiness is and should be a major concern.
... according to the Bible.
Exactly 💯
This couple is brutally honest 😊😊
Hey whatever works for them is ok with me there aren't any fairy-tale stories based off reality involving human beings. I respect honesty over everything else especially the bits and pieces of people's lives we see on social media that present a false image of reality. True love exists but emotions change like the weather in many cases however overall stability in all aspects of life is equally important. There aren't any recipes you can mix together to create happiness in another person we are all solely responsible for building a stable emotional river within ourselves. You can only enhance what lies within someone however you can't create anything that doesn't already exist within there character. Many are in love with the temporary highs of something new or exciting but are gone with the wind the moment temporary low situations arise. It is important to invest in yourself whether single or married otherwise your needs are to overwhelming constantly draining the energy source of others because you failed to create the essential qualities of joy within Self! I have no negative comments to say about this couple as long as it works for them it's really not my business to judge there entire marriage based off mini clips. Blessings to All!
That "haha" was now your asking the right question
Y’all young folk need to listen to the elders. He speaks the truth!!
They are a perfect together, have the same mind-set. She said the same things "Why would I care". Player Player......very entertaining, never a dull moment around that house. That laugh.
I really love watching this channel very inspiring, we're you watching from?
Wife & Husband are the perfect match!
They are truly one.
They sound like,
Female/Male version of each other😂 Same personality...
The daughter sound like the Mothr &
Dad😅
Yep to the point that I saw her while he was talking. Smh
…. And we think the CHARACTER of marriages were modeled by our elders…. NOT😂😂😂😂
This is the best time of your family thank you for that
Pops knows what’s up.
Yikes. Sounds like a loveless marriage of convenience. Sad.
He was playing but it wasn't card's she knew it that's why she continued to Play cards😂
I love these two. 💕
Grandma and grandpa formed a solid pair
Grandpa and grandma are exactly alike 😂😂😂😂😂they love each other in their own crazy way 😂😂❤❤❤
I love watching this , great teach and idea , we're you watching from?
They are 😂
This is how men should be. Not weakened or affected by what women do.
Mom sounded like a woman who didn't listen or really cared about what he said. Pops wasn't planning to run behind her at all.
What the what😂😂🎉 I can't go but to each it's own. Love how you love babies.. ❤️ 😍
Yeah, this is why folks say long marriages are not goals. You had to put up with pure bs to stay married. Also the reason people don't want to get married anymore or don't stay married very long.
I love how honest they answer. Wise words. Most don't realize they can't change their partner and think they should be with each other 24/7. I love this though. Thank you for sharing.
He didn't care because he was doing him too😂
Spoken like a true player.
Kind of Crazy how many of the people commenting is overlooking the fact that Grandpa is a Proud Adulterer.What ever happen to respecting and keeping the vows you made before man &God. Marriage is one big joke to some people i guess smh. Seem they was marrying for fun .
Exactly! The worldly mindset.
He know Mrs Gladys was getting that thang reamed out😂
I love when people keep it real 😂😂, I love it ❤️❤️😍❤️😍
Terrible marriage.... I wouldn't listen to nothing they have to say! fr... Just sad!
Exactly my thoughts too. This is garbage this is why family can't stay together. Because his attitude it's horrible.😮
@@SEKHMET-7777 And to think she laid down and gave herself to him. Her attitude is no better. And people think she's giving wise advice. Just because she's old... Smh!
I agree 😂😂😂😂😂
It worked regardless.
Me neither
Granddads laugh at the end is the best. I was playin' but it wasn't no damn cards either
He avoided answering the question. He could have just said, "Because I love her.".
So true such a handsome man God bless you sir🙏🏼
I See Why Grandma Speaks the Way She Does🤔🤔She has the Perfect Personality For❤ Being Married to Him!!❤I Was Playing But it Was No Damn Cards🤔
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They are two of a kind. ❤😂😂.
Everything grandpa said is what most of men need to understand today. Nobody makes a man happy, a man is only loved for what he provides
Real Talk major concern in a long lasting marriage for men is RESPECT 🦁
So disrespectful!
You are ONE brave Sista asking Grownfolks these questions….. My Mama would go OFF on me at 72! I pretty much know this is how they lived back then…. but the siblings CHOOSE to Not dig too deep. 😂😂😂😢😂
Get slapped done for getting into grown folks business you mean. 😂
This is why you can't take marital advice from people. You never know what people are dealing with behind closed doors.
Preach dad !!!!!
You are correct 💯💯💯💯💯
Lmboooooo grandpa had me at the end 🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆😆😆🤣
They both make a perfect couple. Same thing his wife would say 😆
Oh now I see what grandma be saying!😂😂😂
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Old school tell it like it is
He loves her just that much . and she did like wise 😊😊😊
That’s not love that’s tolerance.
Very wise !!! Kids please take heed ? This will be a better world !!! Listen to Grandma and Pop pop .
Like it or not, most of our grandparents had an "understanding" lol no matter how happy we were to go to their house 😂 ❤❤❤
Is that her laughing in the background?
😂😂😭🤣😭😂
No. That’s his niece.
@@SPOTLIGHTOVERTHECITYTVHi. Please let everyone know that it's his niece laughing. Because at first I thought it was you. However, I can hear the hurt and pain in your voice. ❤😢😮🙏🤗
Why laugh @ that!? I fail to see what’s funny about not taking the Sacrament of Marriage, vows you made to God & eachother ~ seriously. I’m sooo grateful my Grandparents were opposite of this!! Why marry if all you want to do is run around on who’s suppose to be your love!?
@@jenniferstein1702no1 likes people that boast and brag. That isn’t of God either. Neither is passing judgement on others. Great for your grandparents but I’m sure your grandparents probably didn’t even have the same struggles, lifestyle and things to overcome that these people had the strength to do. So you can quit the condescending act.
@@demetria4339 ‘Boasting, bragging,’ … Isn’t this what these two are doing ~ but of their immorality & wickedness!? 🤔 & ‘Passing judgement!?’ It’s kind of hard not to have a feeling on this ~ if you have a brain. They’re broadcasting it. People ofcourse will feel one way or another. Let me guess … Anyone who finds this dysfunction cute ~ is just fine with you!? But anyone not embracing this joke of a union/that takes marriage seriously ~ you want to have a personal problem with!? I DIDN’T say they were going to hell for making a mockery of the Sacrament of Marriage, & for playing in God’s face a lifetime. That’d be me actually judging. But, you are aware ~ that God tells us & wants us to discern!? Discern & live our lives for him, as justly as possible.!? That’s what we’re ALL called to do. Not JUST my Grandparents. We’re NoT to live our lives mocking God & the Sacrament of Marriage. Their ‘arrangement,’ derangement infact is a deliberate mockery. … & Nice try, trying to play the race card. As iF certain groups are exempt from the Ten Commandments!? No one is, last I knew. & ‘Condescending/act?’ Not @ all. No act here. It’s called having a properly formed conscience. You should get you one. Try it on for size. Lol. ~
Something better left alone
SHE NOT MY MOTHER 😮❤😂😂😂😂🎉
They didn't put unrealistic expectations on one another. We would never be able to understand in the era of social media.
Mom and Dad are actually alike in their thinking and speech.
💯 SANITY! That's why it worked!