#1 Thing WOMEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW (her hidden hypergamy secret)
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I swear I've pulled this Brazilian woman and text game is a lot of f king games I didn't believe it at first but you've won me over I'm consuming as much as I can from your channel
It is NOT their fault as regards what they are (biologically) attracted to.... CORRECT -- but BEHAVIOR is a different story .... They dont have to ACT on those desires... If you are in a committed relationship - its certainly reasonable to expect the woman to honor the terms of the relationship - despite biological urges .... Women (and men) may simply have biological proclivities toward desirable prospective partners - but a sign of a person with integrity is that their word is their bond - and the long term damage and to the investment of time and trust developed - is not worth a short term "good time."
No wonder the divorce is at 90%
1. Dont simp
2. have other options
3. Stay focused on your future and career
4. Dont validate them at all
Basic shit
5. Make sure that she has high interest level from the start!
@@mrquick6775 it's your duty to spark that high interest in her back mind, it won't come from dust. so if you follow the above steps you'll kick that fire in her, and I'm taking from personal experience brother with a girl that she went from disliking me to begging me for a relationship. (and yes I'm not rich, or super handsome or anything like that, it's just mindset thing that's all)
@@mrquick6775lol...the most important thing
Don’t validate them being maybe the most important advice in that list
This only works with girls that have never been told no or always gets their way, which is 95 % of the female population!
Thanks Casey for another gem!
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16❤
Honestly this channel has made me look Women in the most negative, toxic way possible.
@@hastensavoir7782it’s the harsh truth bro
@@hastensavoir7782lol true they all are the same like they say about us, they got a shit ton of options and always have backup, then if you do secure one then the mind games really start
Basically how to date insecure person
Women fall in love because of the way they feel about themselves when they're with you.
Here's the catch : If you actually start doing this only to attract women, then it will probably backfire because women are super-intuitive and they will quickly figure-out that you are only doing these things to get them. You actually have to want to elevate yourself in every way possible for yourself -- NOT for the women. Also, remember that while the advice here is good, solid advice, the most important attitude to have is the ABUNDANCE MINDSET in which the women have to compete for you!
Don't chase, elevate yourself for yourself, have an abundance mindset, and the results (and the women) will come.
But then they qualify themselves to men by demanding to love them @ their worst lol
Women “intuition” is one of the biggest lies out there (comparable to “emotional intelligence” or “men are stronger physically but women are stronger mentally”) plus if a guy starts to get money/gains even if females were the catalyst soon he realise that all the gains give him testosterone boost which is a reward on its own (while females leeching of his success is a burden and a drain)
I think I'll go with Casey's advice.
Maybe u should have a channel, instead of trying to stupidly compete with this genius, Casey
@@calvintruckerdog3363 I am not disagreeing with Casey. In fact, I am certain he would agree with me. Doing things just to get women is Blue-Pill mentality because you are making them the prize. You surely need to have knowledge of female nature, and Casey obviously is teaching us these valuable lessons. He is also teaching us how to carry ourselves as Alpha males in our interactions and relationships with women. So, I fully support what he is teaching here. I'm just saying what every Red Pill Alpha Male already knows. You have to start from the Mindset that YOU ARE THE PRIZE ! You have to focus on yourself, elevate yourself for yourself, and not be overly concerned about trying to get women. Instead, you let the women come to you, while you continue to focus mainly on yourself, your goals, and your own life. That is Alpha.
I once dated a woman.. and after 6 months she wanted to split up. I asked why.. she said "Alex.. you are too easy to please.." At first I didn't get it.. but now it all makes sense. Thx for your great videos. Quite the eye opener.
She got really bored cause you didn’t challenge her. It sucks but that’s what it is
And another reason why I’m still single, never married. These videos are tough to hear. A punch in the gut. That’s ok. I need to hear this. 2024 will be much better for my dating life. Keep going guys.
I would call it an illuminating Light in a ignorant darkness.
remember brother steel goes through excessive temperatures to form beautiful shapes ❤
To be honest. I’ve been watching your videos for a while now. And everything that you preach if applied correctly works 100% and it’s crazy and fascinating how true it is.
After applying many of your theories life feels to me like a video game. Your videos are like cheat codes. I’ve been upgrading my life dramatically (it’s crazy how far I’ve come) in the last years in all aspects like fitness, dating and financial success.
My favorite idea of yours was about how giving free and undirected attention to women or any human being degrades your value as a man.
I’m gonna be hosting a podcast soon. I hope one day I can have you on it. I would like to know how and what lead you to discover these ideas.
Thank your for the value provided 🔥
good luck on ur podcast bro 💪🏽
Giving free or undirected attention lowers our value? Was in undirected attention?
Thank you Casey for sharing all of this that I could NEVER put together.
This has to be called “ How to attract a bloodsucking parasite who will turn your life into a living hell and then leave you anyway”
Dude, I am raising a daughter atm, she is 9. I just watched your video with the 7 deadly sins for men. And I'm thinking that instead of trying to tell her not to be a 304 I tell her about her own nature which she doesn't understand and only feels, I can direct her down the path of getting what she wants without a high body count and dudes I have to clip. Dawned on me, cheers from Oz hny.
Oh wow give her my number in 9 years
Love the flex at the end of each video !
My dog sure loves me.
Been watching this guy for a while, and he's speaking facts! T These truths have helped me to give up! I'm done, to much work! If they come good, if they go, good!
I feel the need to inform you that I love you bro. All these videos explain everything. And it's actually pretty hilarious.
Yo I want to truly let you know over all the videos I saw from you since the actual beginning this one is it ; tbh brother
Much huge mad love respect thank you.
Right on time man, nailed it, best video yet 🎯💪
Yup. I have learned early (teen years) to NEVER like a girl more than she likes you.
Then i gained weight due to sleep apnea messing up my sleep....the minimal sleep dropped my testosterone...and had to re-learn this lesson througg my 20s.
I'm back on top at 36.
Fixed my sleep apnea (got a TMJ appliance i wear at night)
Fixed my weight by having energy to gym
Got my money right.
Weekly hair cuts.
And WOW.
What a difference in power dynamics between me & women...currently have a regular roster of 3 cuties...2 of which in their 20s.
And aiming to marry a sweet & righteous virgin in 2024.
Never give up on yourselves, gentlemen.
The Most High is the source of all blessings/goodness.
Congrats, but do NOT get married! It's a scam for men, and you've worked WAY too hard to risk losing 50% or MORE of your shit!
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16❤
I had sleep apnea wreck my life. I got my cpap in my early 30s but still had testosterone issues due to my sleep / wake cycle with my job.
Solution- trt and life has been good.
I get irritated with women who like me more than
Haircut every week? Cuck trait.
Great info Casey, been putting it to the test, and hate to say it, works to good.
Some great points he makes as I remember my heart being crushed in the past by a woman I put on a pedestal.
Thank you for this Casey!
3:55 CORRECT!! These 2 chics I talking about, the one in my DMs (that i have not asked for her number nor offered mine) and the one calling me, I have not shown any form of interest in them at all. But I also dont blow them off but most important, KEEP MYSTERY WHICH KEEPS THEM CURIOUS. That is ALL you need with women, SPARK THEIR CURIOUSITY and no matter their marital status, you can possible get them.
Spot on Kaycee
Spot on.
Outstanding video! I’m 68 and learned this les the hard way! Ha! Ha! Crazy.
why should we ever waste time for a person that only waits at the top? doesn't this discourage anyone else
Sadly all women want to see the potential in you to be someone or see you at the finish line. If they see you don’t got shit going on that’s a relationship killer they’ll stick around for a bit but eventually they will go for better. As a man you should want to level up either way for yourself. As you grind someone will want to be around you because of who you are. Don’t get complacent
Much love bro ,,, thank you for your teaching you will never be forgotten
Im the fill in guy. I let them know i'm here for fun and leave it at that. Its crazy how many take me up on it. The key for me is dont cater to them. I treat them like theyre here for my pleasure and make sure they feel like they failed when they leave. I never let them stay over either. So far so good
Oh so you are a bonafide “fuccboi” 🤡
Always Interesting and informative 🇯🇲
Man, what you said around 9:00 resonates so much here. it makes perfect sense and is the only thing you can do, always strive to improve yourself. Being pushed out of our comfort zone is what makes us real men. Hope everyone focus on that, do not blame the player or the game, just learn how it works.
brah, ngl, that last bit had me lookin up from my phone from the messages my girl sending me since i went airplane mode on her and now she suddenly showing that affection i thought was never there, but really the part about needing to do something to make myself better, to accomplish some shit, my life been stuck in idle for too long and that hit deep cause i keep settin up new hobbies like beat making or trying to learn to code to get a better job but i always put it off and never jump into it, i just keep saying it.... If i pull this shit off, imma come back to you my man for getting my mind going cause that's what i'm bout to get on
You spittin spittin 💯
If you don't want to struggle with myriads of details and years of videoscreentime just follow this golden rule:
You're the most important person in your life! Act accordingly!
Facts!
Excellent video!!
You basically have to become the man she would cheat on you with, that's honestly a rather tall order. After a while constantly pushing forward gets tiresome. I think it's 'better' to aim for mini relationships 3-4 months and then move on, or play the field instead, which in turn is work but in many ways less stress.
Great content as always, very business like and straight to the point.
Yea this works a lot better for me tbh. If you get a hot girl especially because shes got countless guys everyday trying to get with her. I mean if you get your frame rock solid and have bulletproof self confidence ull be fine but that maybe %1 of dudes. So the other %99 are going to not satisfy hypergamy fully.
The first step is to find a woman(not girl) that has HIGH interest level from the start!
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16❤
This is sooo true , I’ve learned with women, less is MORE. If you really operate like that you have a successful dating or relationship life .
I came across Casey's channel in my recent "love research" binge as I became interested in a girl and wanted to say thanks for putting harsh facts out there for everyone to see.
Your channel is like a distinct school of thought from the other red pill like content, as it doesn't aim to incite hatred, but promote understanding - women's nature is complex and not as pure as we'd like it to be, and that's ok. If our fathers managed to link up with our mothers to create us despite the apparent different worlds of sexes, so can we. It's hard but it is what some people NEED to realise.
Thank you.
Bro casey you are a wise beyond your years. You should be 10 times more known then you are. Start going on other influencers channels! cant find nothing on you. Best wishes! thank you
Thanks, Casey!
Thank you for this ❤🎉💯💞
I am content with my status because it improves every year regardless what i do like inflation. The sooner men get this, the less stress they will have in life. Alpha will always know his value and practice less is more, once fully matured.
No approval or recognition required at that level.
Good video tho brother, and it helps those guys still on the journey of self-discovery.
This is gold..
Thanks Casey 👊🏻
Some of the best content on UA-cam!
You're the best 💯
Casey, we love u
Casey is spot ok about everything, he is generalizing..every woman is unique..however his principles work, I'm not a Chad WHATSOEVER to make that clear, but their were times in my life 5 6 7 chicks chased me at a time, it's all energetic and how you present yourself.
absolutely.
Bro you are really smart.
A little different when it married and have kids but it's important to stay focused
Sometimes, it's just a s ew em, why bother world.
Just enjoy yourself in your adventure, ask em if they want to come along- if they don't, move along unaffected. Sucks when you really dog a woman and she turns out to be a " professional victim". If she thinks you need to go through continual sh!t tests because some other guy wronged her- tell her you will own your own mistakes , but your not picking up the tab for someone elses abuses. Far too many women ride that "poor me" wave these days. Get over it.
One of the better dating coaches out there . He breaks down the psychology and really doesn’t express his disdain for the female gender like others , he doesn’t bash the opposite sex nearly as much as even the best coaches
Makes total sense
Really good video
Most men like to see effort from others, on anything in life, most women don’t.
That’s how it works fellas, he is speaking the truth there.
Keep going Casey. Your work is important.
Man you need to make more content on WHAT to do. Every video is the how but we need the solution to re-attract and solve the issues we’ve created by breaking frame
I believe that that is what he is selling at the end of each video
He does say how, focus on your career, getting money, get social status, don’t put her on a pedestal, act like you don’t like her.
@@remyogun8270 obviously, it’s genius on his end but the content becomes repetitive without any additional info
@@wilson8979 yeah that’s pretty vague and an generalization. Obviously it’s nuanced but having actionable steps would be better. Especially if 99% of men have no idea how to navigate…
I think you meant how to do he tells you what to do
Being a way below average man in term of looks, social position, career, whatever you name it, my chance of satisfying hypergamy is close to zero which is always a nice thought to wake up to every morning :)
It frees you to build your own life.
100% accurate .
Attract don't Chase
What exactly does it mean to "try less"? How does it relate with the whole taking iniciative thing? I've been taking this approach of not showing as much interest and trying less as taking less iniciative, i.e, text less, or not texting first, not asking on dates as much. In some instances this approach has backfired, on other instances it works like a charm, sometimes without me even trying to apply this approach. For example, many girls in which I have 0 interest seem to be very attracted to me, to the point where they are asking me out on dates and I'm turning them down, because you know 0 interest, and that seems like it makes them want me even more. But then, with girls I do have interest this hasnt been working at all, I even had conversations with a girl where things didnt work out because of this approach, and she told me verbatum: Well, you weren't taking as much iniciative or showing as much interest, I thought you weren't really interested, so I ended up chosing this other guy who took more iniciative and showed more interest. Am I doing something wrong? Does any one have some sort of feeback relating to the way one "try's less"?
You can't control what you are attracted to, but u can control what u entertain and pursue.
edit: mr Zander is dropping gold ngl, im old enuff to be his dad and have never heard or been able to articulate the distilled "ism" like he does on such consistent basis. gotta respect it
I'd like to know your workout and diet routine so I can compare and improve
Good video
Passportsz fellaz passportsz 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Win at all times
Saving lives
Uncle C don’t miss
Great video here
2:45 you know & understand why it is described as SMV, but honestly, it is really high SOCIAL VALUE/STATUS and maximum INTERNAL STRENGTH. Those are the two that have been pulling women towards me like magnet ever since high school. There is a girl since September blowing up my DMs to see me, and the more I dont fall to her request is the more she gets interested. There is a girl about 2-3 weeks now blowing up my phone, she has literally said she is the one calling 100% of the time AND SHE IS CORRECT. And her interest keeps increasing. She wanted me to call her yesterday, I didn't.... SHE DID 3 TIMES!!!
My wife of 15 years no longer wants me and has found someone else. I'm trying to understand why. These videos are helping me.
In short ignore women, do your thing.
3:17 correct. I went out boxing day, SHE DID NOT WANT ME TO LEAVE as I also told her she would not hear from me until the next day, I DID NOT CALL HER & SHE WAS CALLING AT LEAST 3 TIMES & I DID NOT ANSWER. So yesterday, she kept on WHO DID i GO WITH.... I said friend(s), SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT GENDER! I told her I am always dating, she fell back a little BUT SHE CAME BACK ON EVEN STRONGER.
Casey is becoming more handsome with beard
If he’s single, it won’t be for long 😏
Are ypu gay?
chads are usually DL or bi lol@@darrinelford1473
@@darrinelford1473 not gay lol . Just saying the truth. You funny hahaha
u sounds gay
Uncle C 💪💪
One love ❤
This channel got my head straight. I have 2 girlfriends and a dozen options.
Brother your videos are worth their weight in gold. The Adam and Eve reference needs a bigger deep dive. You could make a video on how not yo follow a woman’s lead for anything.
13:00 applause APPLAUSE!!! Casey has FULLY GOTTEN IT FULL STACK!! A video he said it all as it is and made no mention about building muscle in the gym! Now, do not get me wrong, there is NOTHING WRONG in doing that, go do that FOR YOURSELF if you feel to. Yes, it does help a lot of gaining a woman's attraction towards you due to esthetics. HOWEVER, if when you open your mouth your are of low value in her eyes, YOU BECOME INSTANTLY UNATTRACTIVE. Therefore, focus on your INTERNAL STRENGTH, social status and influence. She will then perceive your SMV as high, no matter how you look!!
If only Casey was teaching this in college class so much bs would have been avoided but others will learn and carry on the lessons and girls will be simpless and wanting
I realized I messed up with some girls but most I haven’t messed up yet 😂 so for girls it’s always Opposite Day thank god I’m a man good stuff
What annoys me is not whether women have this preference, rather that they lie about it and tell you to rather just “be nice” or “be yourself”. Why would you actively lie about what you actually want
its in their nature 😉
It makes sense. In order to trust your ability to protect and provide for them, they want you to know it without them having to tell you.
Think about it. If they had to explain to you how to hunt, could they really be certain that you would succeed?
After listening to some of Casey’s videos, I wonder why he and other men even bother with women at all.
I got to say I do find interesting a certain incongruence between this type of content and similar topics displayed from a perspective of your religion.
And gentlemen, we as men have to realize that not one person is not correct on everything coming out of their mouth as much as they would like to think so,
Get different perspectives from different individuals then develop your own perspective tap into your own perspectives and see what works for what you are trying to achieve
Who wants to see him picking up girls on camera ❤
No one we are on our purpose no time for BS
@@andrewgiegerich8211 😂
@@slayemgaming had to 😂👍
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Lads listen to my guy, I personally have suffered at my own hands by a lesser Smv female. Hurts a lot, peace.
I’m in my late 30s and I’m not popular anymore or have much status and I can choose any women I want, so this logic might work for some men but definitely not me, women see me as a way above average looking guy in great shape that makes a lot of money and has his life in order and they can’t resist, all this crap is a waste of time, just get jacked with a reasonably low body fat percentage, and make good money and you’ll be able to avoid all this complicated crap
The holiday beard is pimp!!!
2:00 applause, and don't forget, it also got NOTHING to do with how much muscle you got on your body! It is ALL.... INTERNAL STRENGTH. Yes, it does significantly help to attract, but without internal strength she is GONE. Again, remember, women say A LOT, "he was so attractive UNTIL HE OPENED HIS MOUTH".
What if the girl develops anxiety because of this? Ive been told that my lack of attachment to her made her think I am not into her, and that made her anxious.
The best dating channel on YT right now. You're really stepping up your game
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16❤
Is Casey ever gonna make on a video on how to keep a committed long term relationship?
That is exactly what his doing if you analyze all his videos properly
@@OGTrollTroll8 he says not to commit but at some point you have to commit
@@harman1056 Well that's when you get into you can commit but you also have to let her be aware you could easily leave
He have made several videos read between his words keenly
Damn, I'm in a difficult moment right now in my relationship with a girl I've known for several years. And I think I'm falling in love, but I'm afraid of losing her... Your films are supposed to be important and inspiring, but the more I know, the worse I feel about it, it scares me a bit.
Don't be afraid you had a life before you met her
You sound too insecure( lack of options)you need to make her feel insecure about losing you, (having more options), thats the cure for oneitis, bruh
Don’t simp, get on your grind and have that as priority over her
Fix your self-respect brother and you'll always prioritize yourself easily over any human being, it's the lack of self respect that kicks that feeling within you brother trust. me
If you scared of losing her you already lost her
Imagine being over 16 or so and not wanting to be with someone who wants to be with you?!
Basically society drives the majority of people insane, both men and women.
I think you should check out Cory Wayne, and Bobby rio. You do good work and the community of men is a great idea but I also think as men we do want that intimacy and love of a woman. If we always are so disciplined that we can experience her love and nurturing qualities, then why pursue a woman to begin with. I think there’s a balance, where we keep our masculine security, independence and strength while also connecting with a woman on an intimate level instead of always having a hard heart towards them. I think God would want it that way. Colossians 3:19
Yes sir
Think about it guys...the girl you're not Into is more into you than you are to her....apply that logic to the girl that you like and voila!!
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16❤
Is it reversible after showing too much interest will she catch on to your antics lol😂
Maybe I'm overthinking this, my bad if thats the case, but... If we assume all women are the same, and don't hold them accountable for their choosing and actions bacause "hypergamy its their nature, it's not their fault" we will end getting compleacent regarding our own standards regarding what women we have at our side. Even when we keep our frame, we check all the boxes, if we fall into that, we are on the road of a beta-provider.
I got many relationships, and from personal experience I know there are not all the same. Hypergamy and overly relying on feelings and emotions may be a common element in female nature, but even if we focus on that aspects only, we may find an arrange of different degrees, priorities and depth from one to another.
With this kind of vids I usually left the sensation that the message is absolutely on point... Regarding some of the women I knew... Usually, the cheap, ruined ones.
As I said, female nature may well be a basic common programming, but how it express and manifest may vary.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16❤
I have feelinfs for a friend what should I do
Go to church. Joking aside you should have just learned that men and women can't be friends.
Seriously though you should go to church.
Hey Casey, I have had a lot of success this year following your advice but I have a question still.
I’m not sure if I’m over applying these techniques but I have dealt with a few women who have gave up on me because I didn’t “give any effort”. I’m not concerned or bothered by this but I’m just curious if there is a limit to not giving a fuck or maybe a counter law to showing low interest?
Has anyone else encountered this?
I have. But I've then grown to realize that if you give ZERO fucks ALWAYS, she'll eventually leave. It's like a video game; if a person decided to create a game with only one level and literally made it impossible to beat, you'll just give up on it completely; at first it was fun, but after a while you'll be like "fuck this game". However, if the creator of the video game made the level challenging, but POSSIBLE to beat, you'll be a little frustrated but you'll still continue to play until you win. Same with girls. If you completely shut her out ALL THE TIME, she'll just give up on you and move on. But, just like the game, if you are challenging but possible to win over, she'll NEVER give up cos she'll see hope. You have to give her scraps, and be WORTH something to chase. If you're an average guy all around, there wont be anything fascinating about you to chase in the first place. You gotta be outstanding first, then be challenging by feeding her scraps of interest, then pull back, then repeat. She'll be OBSESSED with you because you aren't easily won over like most guys and, most importantly, are something worth chasing in the first place cos you got your shit together.
the key is let her work for your attention and approval, only give some of it away when she deserves it. don't give it away for nothing.
@@_Shadow10. good analogy
u got to feed her with atention, u can't be 100% available, but u still got to give attention, attention is currency if she give what u want, u have to feed her
I am encountering this, I have this girl going now on almost two and a half years. I really don't think it's possible for the majority of men to keep a woman highly interested indefinitely, the novelty wears out. I've employed these Casey techniques of not caring and eventually she starts doing the same or she kinda just gets numb to it after a while, I do believe these techniques might have an expiration date for how long they are effective. I started to really care and the relationship almost ended and that's when I brought in another girl into the picture which really did a great job of getting her jealous and make her chase and it restored everything back. To not fall back again.'ve been talking to other girls to keep me from not caring too much but after a while it loses it's power, I think she just gets used to it, I think she kinda knows or feels there are other girls and she's like if I lose you to another girl it would not surprise me but So I had to switch gears to reel her back in as she was becoming disengaged. I also became unavailable because I do have important projects to work on. I am being careful, I did lose my previous girl because I put her off to the side too much which drove her to another man.
5:50 this is ALL EXACTLY WHY miss "blow up my phone" is blowing up my phone. And this girl is top tier, she has dated a celebrity ok.