NEVER TRY to PLEASE A WOMAN - her biggest turn off (downfall of masculine men)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  7 місяців тому +45

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    • @cmatt7512
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    • @vincentjames2202
      @vincentjames2202 7 місяців тому

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  • @jcnlaw
    @jcnlaw 7 місяців тому +2240

    Experienced divorce lawyer here. I recently had a case where the husband earned over $500k annually, has male model looks, gives wife the car of her choice (in this case a 911 S), a beautiful house in the suburbs and a house on the beach. He was faithful and super kind and generous. Still, she was not happy with herself, her life, and she made everyone around her miserable. She unnecessarily dragged out the divorce over two years. He was so happy when he was finally free from someone who did not appreciate him, did not love him, and did not appreciate the life he gave her. He was so happy to begin his post-divorce life.

    • @jamesward5721
      @jamesward5721 7 місяців тому

      Whereby the dumbazz remarries.. and she cleans him out again too. :-) Rinse, repeat...

    • @strzala88
      @strzala88 7 місяців тому +157

      we need more stories from you, I've seen your comment under another of Casey's video and I see huge value in your experiences!

    • @everettwalker2258
      @everettwalker2258 7 місяців тому

      I always appreciate your contributions to the Manosphere & stories/reports from the field @jcnlaw💯💯

    • @jcnlaw
      @jcnlaw 7 місяців тому +162

      @@strzala88 Thanks. I have my own UA-cam channel as well and have collaborated with other popular content creators. Maybe I’ll reach out to Casey and schedule a collaboration with him on his channel. I think I can bring some value through the lens of an experienced divorce lawyer (who also dates beautiful women).

    • @Bibliophile_singh
      @Bibliophile_singh 7 місяців тому

      ​@@jcnlawsubscribed

  • @TheLyricsGuy
    @TheLyricsGuy 7 місяців тому +1213

    Women want two things:
    1. More
    2. Something else

    • @brentonl
      @brentonl 7 місяців тому

      Most women are completely hollow, like a bell. They have no substance

    • @yardietraplifemedia999
      @yardietraplifemedia999 7 місяців тому +32

      😂

    • @tomaszsosnowski9279
      @tomaszsosnowski9279 7 місяців тому +92

      They don't know what they want

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@tomaszsosnowski9279😂

    • @richradtylr4
      @richradtylr4 7 місяців тому +3

      ​​@@yardietraplifemedia999A god damn shame, man.😢

  • @A.nasierkhan
    @A.nasierkhan 7 місяців тому +450

    1- always be ready to leave her.
    2- if she behaves badly and doesnt appreciate and respect your time return to step 1.

    • @khamiahsimmons957
      @khamiahsimmons957 7 місяців тому +6

      💯💯

    • @ElFrak
      @ElFrak 7 місяців тому +14

      That one foot out the door 🚪 mentality 🔥🔥🔥

    • @A.nasierkhan
      @A.nasierkhan 7 місяців тому +16

      @@ElFrak exactly the perfect mindset. Always put yourself at first.

    • @USARealityCheck
      @USARealityCheck 7 місяців тому +12

      Yes, this is the mindset. You must believe it, you must breathe it, you must live your life in accordance with it.

    • @grassyfieldz4578
      @grassyfieldz4578 6 місяців тому

      True, but most men are so desperate they can't bare the thought of not having a woman, and think they are incredibly lucky to have a woman at all so turn into servant simps!

  • @mminniear984
    @mminniear984 7 місяців тому +238

    Something I’ve learned is if a woman breaks up with you or you to her and she says “you’re controlling”. You probably had good boundaries and she didn’t want to deal with being held to account on her bad behavior.

    • @akuma1921
      @akuma1921 6 місяців тому +17

      The real right here.

    • @Final_Turn
      @Final_Turn 6 місяців тому +8

      That seems right !

  • @user-se8hh4uh6x
    @user-se8hh4uh6x 7 місяців тому +310

    Never ever put any woman before you, ever.

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 7 місяців тому +44

      Women are literally big children

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 7 місяців тому

      @@davidpark2509women stop aging mentally after they get their first period. Naturally she is fully developed at the age of 13 or 14, whenever she gets her first period, since a woman wasnt created to be intelligent (thats the mans job)

    • @NikolaTesla-nb5nm
      @NikolaTesla-nb5nm 7 місяців тому +9

      ​@@davidpark2509 i read "big chicken" 😂😂😂

    • @damascus6480
      @damascus6480 7 місяців тому +3

      @@NikolaTesla-nb5nmthat’s what I thought he said at first glance too lol

    • @hamza-kn7lk
      @hamza-kn7lk 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes i v heard that from some youtubers women . Never put woman preority .

  • @DigeiFrunza
    @DigeiFrunza 7 місяців тому +246

    "You can't make a woman happy. It's impossible! I've never met a happy woman in my life! Woman always complaining about something!"
    - Chris Rock -

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 7 місяців тому

      In my extended family, there's literally a couple of exceptions, but the majority of women are absolutely unbearable. I genuinely don't know how my grandfather didn't kill my grandmother and my aunt (his daughter) with his bare hands. I guess that's why he died before reaching 70. Bitches are pure walking toxic negativity. And I'm speaking about my family lol.

    • @nanakwesinyantakyi9408
      @nanakwesinyantakyi9408 7 місяців тому +2

      Based

    • @colerainswaggify6387
      @colerainswaggify6387 7 місяців тому +4

      Then what's the point of dealing with women? Honest question.

    • @hoedemakerbart
      @hoedemakerbart 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@colerainswaggify6387just breed 😂. That's what they did before woman had rights bro

    • @colerainswaggify6387
      @colerainswaggify6387 6 місяців тому +1

      @@hoedemakerbart Makes sense. This is the whole truth!

  • @theharshtruth8563
    @theharshtruth8563 6 місяців тому +175

    I was engaged at 28 with a woman who was never satisfied.
    She ended up cheating on me while we were engaged.
    Even after we went our separate ways, she still attempted to
    have a relationship with my family because she wanted them
    to help pay off her student loan. Only after they declined her,
    she felt destroyed. That was back in the late 1990's.
    Now she is in her 50's, she is still working at a grocery store,
    still has a student loan to pay off, still has no kids, still is single
    and still pays rent.
    I finished paying off my mortgage in 2015, I run a successful
    business, no kids, no wife and saved up enough to take things
    a little easier.
    Life improved mainly because I stopped chasing the approval
    of women. I chased financial stability and peace of mind instead.
    No regrets.

    • @timothyn4699
      @timothyn4699 3 місяці тому +3

      actions have consequences, you put in the work so your success went up
      she was ungrateful, entitled, not loyal, and she paid the price, and is still reaping the consequences

  • @millermanhal
    @millermanhal 7 місяців тому +432

    I'm 41 Casey. Once I learned your knowledge....my wife tries now to get my attention. She has transformed herself at 33 and lost weight, got hotter than when we met. Even after 4kids, sex is better,marriage is stronger than ever. I been learning and listening to your tips and changed my life. Now doubled my income at work and even have girls 20years younger wanting me. These traits work in all aspects of life. Masculine men are attractive to all. No joke. Thanks for teaching an old dog some new tricks. Men learn this young and you will too.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 7 місяців тому +10

      Which were the more important concepts for your transformation?

    • @Majorhavoktv
      @Majorhavoktv 7 місяців тому +16

      Never stop dating your wife.

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 7 місяців тому +9

      Great comment! You aint no old dog though dude, cmon! And yes act like a MAN and you will get women 20 years younger interested, at almost any age, especially if you take care of yourself and workout etc.

    • @kunal_k_
      @kunal_k_ 7 місяців тому

      @@dennisrobinson8008 he's taken all the help, but doesn't wanna contribute helping others struggling.. Better look elsewhere than a shallow sometime coming off only to show off here, half of which sounds much fabricated here. This ain't real but a show I'm telling you!

    • @UnrealTournament420
      @UnrealTournament420 7 місяців тому +5

      Get out while things are good bro, she will rinse you!!!!

  • @educ8te
    @educ8te 7 місяців тому +292

    Remember the story of the Garden of Eden?Eve still wasn't satisfied with having everything.

    • @deathismyfate5677
      @deathismyfate5677 7 місяців тому +3

      Her name was Eden lmao

    • @galaxydoxx4326
      @galaxydoxx4326 7 місяців тому

      shouldn’t truth be so irrespective of religion?

    • @reggiesmith131
      @reggiesmith131 7 місяців тому +42

      Also Adam asked God why and in Genesis 3:17 “because you listened to that woman”.

    • @abuDA-bt6ei
      @abuDA-bt6ei 7 місяців тому +16

      "The Bible describes shame as the core and consequence of Adam’s fall. In Hebrew, Adam is equivalent to mankind. Adam symbolizes all human beings. The Bible suggests that Adam was not satisfied with his own being. He wanted to be more than he was. He wanted to be more than human. He failed to accept his essential limitations. He lost his healthy shame. The Bible suggests that the origin of human bondage (original sin) is the desire to be other than who we are . . . to be more than human. In his toxic shame (pride), Adam wanted a false self. The false self led to his destruction."
      "Shame is internalized when one is abandoned. Abandonment is the precise term to describe how one loses one’s authentic self and ceases to exist psychologically. Children cannot know who they are without reflective mirrors. Mirroring is done by one’s primary caregivers and is crucial in the first years of life. Abandonment includes the loss of mirroring. Parents who are shut down emotionally (all shame-based parents) cannot mirror and affirm their children’s emotions."
      Healing the Shame That Binds You - John Bradshaw

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 7 місяців тому +13

      Her name is Eve, Eden is where Adam and Eve resided, bruh

  • @n300zx931
    @n300zx931 7 місяців тому +518

    Just discussed this topic with one of my friends. You can not please a women by doing what she says she wants. Her happiness is developed by believing that she’s with a man who is better than her.

    • @Imae08I
      @Imae08I 7 місяців тому +55

      Agree, and the fear of losing you.
      I truly belive "love" for women is truly "uncertainty"...because it is the only way to satisfy hypergamy

    • @n300zx931
      @n300zx931 7 місяців тому +34

      @@Imae08I yes. As a man you must focus on you and your happiness. A woman can be happy but it’s only through her happy man who she feels lucky to have.

    • @gobbledeegouup6578
      @gobbledeegouup6578 7 місяців тому +6

      It's true and the funny thing is with me personally that puts me off women completely. I just do me and I love me I don't care about being with a woman now that ship sailed along time.ago. I Don't want to get with a woman who thinks I'm above her because if thats truly what she thinks she don't deserve me thars how I see it. I also want the best of the best for my self which let's be real I probably won't find in a woman. When your out of the matrix and not programed on porn you have zero care for pus pus. What she offering if she's below you? If your providing more to your life then what she has to offer you then what is the point. Yea it attracts even the best looking women to you and they constantly wondering why your not interested but then they become.bunny boilers just by you giving them one tiny bit of attention every couple months and that is a real put off believe me.

    • @n300zx931
      @n300zx931 7 місяців тому +4

      @@gobbledeegouup6578 sounds like you’re reading way too much into it. The actual facts have nothing to do with this. She could be 10x better than you. None of it matters. All that matters in a woman’s eyes are her emotions. She just needs to “feel” that you’re better than her. It’s your job as a man to give that feeling to her regardless of where you actually stack up to her.

    • @gobbledeegouup6578
      @gobbledeegouup6578 7 місяців тому

      @@n300zx931 My job is to do what makes me happy and that includes staying away from women who are mental yes. They are so run by there emotions that it is crazy. I only deal with evolved women who don't need attachment. Thars only a very few. The majority ain't having me. I have women on a weekly basis messaging me and I show I'm not interested I give one little bit of kindness to or something they want and they get hooked and bunny boil me. I've had to get out 3 restraining orders in my time km only 36. I swear to god bro but believe what you want. So me being just me without trying any tactic or cognitively thinking how to be i got women falling at my feet and I don't even want it or like it. Why? Bexuase I'm happy within my self and I love my self if yiu need a woman you'll like them all over you.
      It also proves when I've had some women ask me innpast don't you like all this female attention what the the hell? I say NOPE. That makes thst indivual woman more attracted as she wonders why. "Can I be the first one to change that?" she's thinking.

  • @theBSisreal
    @theBSisreal 7 місяців тому +43

    They use to say back in the day, "A woman can have 100 problems, you can solve 99 and she'll still complain about the 1 you didn't solve". Don't try to please them.

  • @808BJJ_Black_Belt
    @808BJJ_Black_Belt 7 місяців тому +145

    My ex wife was exactly that way focusing on what she didn’t have. I provided a home, car, food, love, everything but she always found a way to be ungrateful. After the divorce I’m finally happy without her nagging sad negative vibes holding me back

    • @lookupthereupinthetrees9860
      @lookupthereupinthetrees9860 7 місяців тому +2

      Join the club mate 👍 Have been there.

    • @BL2197
      @BL2197 7 місяців тому

      Yep...., it happens.

    • @comet6740
      @comet6740 7 місяців тому +3

      Not judging you but you giving her everything that is materialistic like money, cars and home are not every thing. Your love is the most important thing and if you tried your best to fulfil her needs then you have nothing to worry about.

    • @hamza-kn7lk
      @hamza-kn7lk 6 місяців тому

      same as me

  • @Coyote_boa
    @Coyote_boa 7 місяців тому +450

    This 100% applies to most women. I’d say 99% of women. There are a few of them out there who are wholesome but that number dwindles more and more as society and our culture continues to decay.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 7 місяців тому +6

      Facts

    • @alexleggett6270
      @alexleggett6270 7 місяців тому +49

      Trying to find a decent women takes a shit load of time too. Most women can behave well the first 3 months to a year before the true colors show. Then you have to start over again.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 7 місяців тому +29

      @@alexleggett6270 a damn fact. The bait and switch is real. Soon after I married her she became a devil.

    • @harshyadav1224
      @harshyadav1224 7 місяців тому +15

      ​@@CiluhStyle1Bro make it 110%. There is no such women in this planet

    • @TheRickfire
      @TheRickfire 7 місяців тому

      So hilarious ! Yup

  • @flameelorm
    @flameelorm 7 місяців тому +252

    This message goes to everyone in life. Dont try to please anyone, Especially with women, be a little tough on them.

    • @HighSpeedNoDrag
      @HighSpeedNoDrag 7 місяців тому +8

      This video makes Zero sense. Not ALL Women are the same period. Let's go back to Cave Man Days.

    • @TSMPimpDaddyPain
      @TSMPimpDaddyPain 7 місяців тому +10

      @@HighSpeedNoDrag What didn't make sense?

    • @halawishes
      @halawishes 7 місяців тому

      Garden Party

    • @JBlazeCalifornia
      @JBlazeCalifornia 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@HighSpeedNoDragthe sad truth is most women do act like this. And they are in fact wired lile this weather you want to believe your girl is or not. Sorry pal.

    • @Havanafly
      @Havanafly 7 місяців тому +7

      It doesn't make sense to the pleasers and beta males...

  • @Lady.Luck.
    @Lady.Luck. 6 місяців тому +16

    The key is don't be part of the extreme. Don't be extremely passive, don't be extremely dominating. The fun is in the middle

  • @aliMohamed-ev3wr
    @aliMohamed-ev3wr 7 місяців тому +27

    They were born to please us & take orders... no mercy!

  • @alexleggett6270
    @alexleggett6270 7 місяців тому +148

    We've stumbled into a dystopic sexual environment because men don't have any boundaries or standard for women anymore and its about as nightmarish of a scenario one can imagine.

    • @alexl.4362
      @alexl.4362 7 місяців тому +1

      True. Women are running wild all over men right now.

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish 6 місяців тому +4

      Exactly. It’s nothing wrong with pleasing a woman. Problem is that no boundaries as set

    • @raizen21ss56
      @raizen21ss56 6 місяців тому +2

      I disagree, many of us do have boundaries we just give a damn about so little. Just think about the requirements a man has for a woman and vise versa. Who's more demanding?

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish 6 місяців тому

      @@raizen21ss56 I think it depends on scenario and the man. Still yeah for sure it’s been shift on expectations male to girl. Girl to man the last 100 years in the western world

    • @DelroyHenderson-tl8pi
      @DelroyHenderson-tl8pi 6 місяців тому

      Never place don't matter what you do to.them not even
      Hod can not please them hi really knows that okay hi
      Love when see
      Love but other they never get me today

  • @roberttocci6085
    @roberttocci6085 7 місяців тому +62

    Ok … so I’m 58 years old … and this EXACT same thing happened to me …. My second marriage… gave her everything I thought she could want… and took care of her son like he was my own …and one evening after dinner she said she wasn’t “happy “ but couldn’t explain why … insane !! …. My logical mind just couldn’t understand this !! …and she hated me for doing everything for her !! … thankfully her son stayed with me …. And left me one dog 🐶 … oh , and she just posted a TikTok video of her partying in Paris France 🇫🇷….welcome to the truth…

    • @conscientiousdefector
      @conscientiousdefector 7 місяців тому +5

      Damn. I’m sorry bro. I guess you got a son out of the deal. Sort of a roundabout adoption. 😊

    • @roberttocci6085
      @roberttocci6085 7 місяців тому +3

      Yes !! … it worked out well in the end !! … 😁👍

    • @Joeyb33f
      @Joeyb33f 7 місяців тому +3

      Youre 58 so it is what it is but she won. Left you with the responsibility (another mans kid) while she gets to sleep with random men

    • @abel4776
      @abel4776 7 місяців тому

      Western women are heavily embraced by the spirit on Jezebel.

    • @ricklong3218
      @ricklong3218 7 місяців тому +2

      It's not her kid if she left! A FATHER makes a baby, a DAD takes care of them! It's not just a kid, it's a "friend" and someone to pass information through and teach how to be a proper man, which his FATHER failed to do! Most of us know the difference 😊

  • @brianfank4634
    @brianfank4634 6 місяців тому +29

    Being single is the real way to go, no dumb drama 🎉

  • @ramonsaucedarealtor
    @ramonsaucedarealtor 7 місяців тому +54

    Im 62 years old dealing with my 6th long term relationship breakdown I wish I would’ve seen this video when I was 27 it would’ve saved me so much aggravation and pain!!

    • @jimjones2287
      @jimjones2287 7 місяців тому +2

      What would you do different?

    • @ramonsaucedarealtor
      @ramonsaucedarealtor 7 місяців тому

      @@jimjones2287 I invested a lot of my time, energy, money and emotions in women hoping for a mutual exchange but I never received the same value and I wasn't willing to walk away in time!! Its okay to give but you have to be willing to walk away as soon as you realize that the woman is not investing as much or more that you.

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 6 місяців тому +4

      @@jimjones2287 set boundaries at the start and walk away if they break them.

    • @hamza-kn7lk
      @hamza-kn7lk 6 місяців тому +2

      I agree same happend to me

    • @jamesokeeffe3216
      @jamesokeeffe3216 5 місяців тому

      You’re alive ☘️❤️🙏

  • @eNv3n0mX
    @eNv3n0mX 7 місяців тому +264

    This is so true. Casey, your examples of woman's permanent dissatisfaction is on point.

    • @ReturnOfWilderness
      @ReturnOfWilderness 7 місяців тому

      to add to this; a woman never wants to change ever - she expects to be accepted how she is so don't think you can change it, theyre super stubborn.

    • @simeoncumberbatch4150
      @simeoncumberbatch4150 7 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 7 місяців тому +1

      that's dissatisfaction, there is no 'un' version . sorry to be a pedantic prick !

    • @paulchenpanther602
      @paulchenpanther602 7 місяців тому

      Absolutely the truth 💔

  • @nige_moves
    @nige_moves 7 місяців тому +148

    Alot of guys cant handle this info, the fact is all of us need to hear it. Brings up past memories of things going south , YOU DISSECT IT in a way that hits home so we can learn . Thank you casey never stop doing this , it is a service to all men

    • @rejectwokeness1314
      @rejectwokeness1314 7 місяців тому +7

      Exactly, it's something I never understood but once I started to adopt red pill and think about my previous relationships and dates, I realised these guys are absolutely right. Men absolutely have to care less, so women actually think about how to please you. If you keep thinking about how to please her, she thinks about what u can do more and she thinks she's the more important component of the relationship.

    • @millermanhal
      @millermanhal 7 місяців тому +6

      Truth. Wish we heard this as young men. Would have made my life alot easier.

  • @LRS11B
    @LRS11B 7 місяців тому +101

    Casey, I'm 56 years old, my wife is 5 years older and we've been married for 32 years. She has just confirmed to me that you are spot on on every single thing you've said. Basically, a husband doesn't OWN hus wife,....It's his turn. Should he screw that up, then it's somebody else's turn.

    • @alanmoss2882
      @alanmoss2882 7 місяців тому +22

      it's only your turn? Half the expression sir. The rest is: "There are many, many more women awaiting their turn with you. Ask me!

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому

      ​@@alanmoss2882 yep, many desperate crappy women

    • @mvanliere100
      @mvanliere100 7 місяців тому +9

      Yeah if it’s your turn with her then you’re just going to be pleasing her until it’s someone else’s turn to please her.

    • @kom072692
      @kom072692 7 місяців тому +10

      Thats a weak beta way to put it… so does she own you?

    • @thomass6809
      @thomass6809 7 місяців тому +4

      Nawr, that's red pill. If it's just "your turn" you're implying she owns you -->beta!!!

  • @buentaste
    @buentaste 7 місяців тому +55

    Bro at my 55 five year old I could certify that if not all almost all you have said is TRUE! Most woman can not be pleased.. I have been with many and proved myself... Glad you are helping the new generation....

    • @lemat579
      @lemat579 7 місяців тому +2

      Neither convinced...? How about convincing women about anything? 😂😂😂 (starting from mother ending at grandma, and a whole lot of them in between)

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 7 місяців тому +47

    That's why we treat them the way we do. It's no point in be truthful, honest, and caring with them. Especially long term.

    • @thickseed
      @thickseed 7 місяців тому +1

      🎯

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 6 місяців тому +1

      you can be truthful and honest and caring. You just have to set firm boundaries.

  • @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
    @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 7 місяців тому +32

    It's not a new mindset... it was the mindset our forefathers had to deal with women.

    • @Jo-oc3dx
      @Jo-oc3dx 6 місяців тому

      The mindset has been long forgotten but now it needs a comeback

  • @finance1man
    @finance1man 7 місяців тому +41

    When a man learns he will never please a woman by trying to please her, he will be better off.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 7 місяців тому

      Wanking alone is your choice. Go on. Who cares.

  • @ashtonfrett2536
    @ashtonfrett2536 7 місяців тому +81

    Straight facts!
    I'd rather be alone than be with a woman that causes me problems.
    I've become addicted to the peace and learned the art of giving myself all the attention and validation. For some reason women can't keep away from me now. I can't complain

    • @ElFrak
      @ElFrak 7 місяців тому +2

      example of the validation you give yourself? curious on how other people do it

    • @DANGER10101
      @DANGER10101 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ElFrak "oh yeah am the shit" "I got that big d!ck energy" "I beat a gorilla and a grizzly in hand to hand fight" probably

  • @mannysworld7679
    @mannysworld7679 7 місяців тому +123

    Casey is the big brother that millions of Men needed in their lives growing up 🙏🏼

    • @raginald7mars408
      @raginald7mars408 7 місяців тому

      Men????
      kids
      kin der gar den

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 7 місяців тому

      @@raginald7mars408cry

    • @lemat579
      @lemat579 7 місяців тому +1

      Well. Possibly kids

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 7 місяців тому +1

      He's like 2 decades younger, but he's still my big bro man!

    • @BlindfoldSniper
      @BlindfoldSniper 7 місяців тому

      Perhaps better than nothing but given the choice between him and my actual role models there isn't actually any comparison.

  • @emmw7794
    @emmw7794 7 місяців тому +136

    100% I'm glad you made this video. I have the same beliefs but when I tell men that I know, they laugh and brush it off. My Ex's friends thought I was controlling, Ex accused me of being jealous. They are gaslighting you. As a man you a right to determinr what behavior you will accept from your Girlfriend. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. That's the attitude we need, men. Set your boundaries and don't backtrack on them.

    • @user-zm1rq6xj9v
      @user-zm1rq6xj9v 7 місяців тому +6

      Yep. Gotta set boundaries in the beginning. I told my current girl back when we were dating (and i say this to any girl i am datng to weed them out), when she brought up the idea of relationships, i told her "listen to me good because i will tell you one time: if you ever expect to go serious with me, then I am not cool with you being friends with guys you used to date. if you do, i will walk away". nip that in the bud early on.

    • @emmw7794
      @emmw7794 7 місяців тому

      @@user-zm1rq6xj9v I should have done that. My ex cheated on me with her ex that she hadn’t even seen in 5 years

    • @averycolnite3561
      @averycolnite3561 7 місяців тому +2

      Exactly. And not just girlfriends.
      Anyone.

    • @klopossa2
      @klopossa2 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@averycolnite3561Absolutely, we've had that discussion..I ask her all the time. Who are you texting? She is usually says sister or female friends. If she hesitate I'll ask to see it. I offer her the same. I don't cheat..Don't want one.

    • @leealex24
      @leealex24 7 місяців тому +1

      Time for men to reverse the tide

  • @danielwilson3313
    @danielwilson3313 7 місяців тому +46

    This is absolutely true. My wife leaving is proof of this. Its painful how true it is.

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 7 місяців тому +14

      Women are literally big children

    • @user-lz2mt5nc9e
      @user-lz2mt5nc9e 7 місяців тому

      @@davidpark2509 and if you can't even control a child what can you control?

    • @notsure8879
      @notsure8879 7 місяців тому +1

      Stay strong brother

  • @trillmix0652
    @trillmix0652 7 місяців тому +42

    You telling the truth. I even noticed this with my own mother. She has a nice house, and nothing's wrong with it. She talking about painting the walls a different color. 6 months later, she'll want another color.

    • @ak-up8fg
      @ak-up8fg 7 місяців тому

      And also blaming everyone for her fault. I love my mom but we all should agree female are the worst mentally messed up creature. My dad work all day 3 job and she doesn't stop complaining. now i understand my dad more and love him he was our sacrificed underrated man. I wish him nothing but heaven because i know he is not going to rest cuz mom won't shut her mouth when he stay home

    • @LWT1449
      @LWT1449 7 місяців тому

      Let her paint the F__king house herself then

    • @PremiumFuelOnly
      @PremiumFuelOnly 7 місяців тому +1

      Your mom too??

    • @trillmix0652
      @trillmix0652 6 місяців тому

      @@PremiumFuelOnly pretty much

  • @theviralhub245
    @theviralhub245 7 місяців тому +67

    Literally one of the best videos Casey’s ever put out. The Adam and Eve analogy is narrowed down to the T. Fellas, stop trying to please women. Be indifferent about it all. You’re just fine with or without them, so relax and live and grow as a man. Be you, to your deepest core and don’t compromise your values, morals and what you deserve to appease her. Women want more, more and more than that. Never satisfied. Walk your own kingly path as a man and live.

  • @busterfrank1818
    @busterfrank1818 7 місяців тому +59

    Here is a bit of advice from me to all who read this: if you meet a woman and you both really like each other are considering having a relationship with each other, try asking the woman this before things go any further: how to you plan on keeping me satisfied?.... because if you dont keep me happy, give me a hard time, act up etc ill get rid of you I promise... see what she has to say about that. Have her submit to you from the start or say goodbye and keep it that way

    • @jeroenvermunt3372
      @jeroenvermunt3372 7 місяців тому +9

      That sounds toxic man

    • @sxed4vid
      @sxed4vid 7 місяців тому +1

      @@jeroenvermunt3372 True, i wouldnt use this wording because it *sounds* toxic. Stay on your path but word it differently, women are all about apparences.

    • @Reaper-ml6ly
      @Reaper-ml6ly 7 місяців тому

      @@jeroenvermunt3372 Modern dating is toxic

    • @ridhamatri9447
      @ridhamatri9447 7 місяців тому +2

      More than 70% divorces are initiated by women bro. In reality men usually cope😂

    • @tonic1667
      @tonic1667 7 місяців тому +3

      Sounds like manipulation. Please each other but if it’s a one way street it won’t work.

  • @genrichyagoda715
    @genrichyagoda715 7 місяців тому +11

    I’m Somali & an aunt told me once a woman likes hot & cold toxicity some days be loving & caring and some days be assertive and cold & that you got to switch it up. Never be that guys thats always tending to her needs and is always available emotionally otherwise shes going to ruin you. Its sad but its the way they are hard wired. Be indifferent if you want your relationship to last.

  • @realSpook
    @realSpook 7 місяців тому +13

    I really hate how spineless I was before realizing this

  • @JTDyer21
    @JTDyer21 7 місяців тому +12

    Trying to please a woman is similar to chasing your shadow. The harder you try the faster they run. However when you turn around and don't care your shadow follows you.

    • @meh252
      @meh252 6 місяців тому

      Good analogy, ty.

    • @Sean-nl5ge
      @Sean-nl5ge 3 місяці тому +2

      Yep, they’re like cats

  • @Northman1963
    @Northman1963 7 місяців тому +17

    There was no info like this for men when I was a young guy. I had no father, no role model, no one to show me the ropes and give me advice. But somehow I managed to navigate thru the nonsense of dating, sex and relationships to a healthy 60 yrs never having been married or being a father. My money was always my own. My time was always my own. No divorce court, no alimony. I'm with a woman now but I have boundaries and if she violates them I let her know. Don't ever let a woman emasculate you. Keep your own bank account. Don't be manipulated. The podcast host is correct. I can tell you from experience most women cannot be satisfied. Don't ever be a simp for a woman, it will end badly.

  • @matthewh8573
    @matthewh8573 6 місяців тому +8

    I used to think this was bs, but it’s true. I absolutely adored two of my past loves, did everything I could to show to them. They were two different types of women, yet same results. They both cheated because they had no respect for me. I’m married now with a different mindset for women. I perform my husband obligations, but I’m not basically worshipping my wife and she absolutely loves me. I don’t do anywhere near the things for her as I did the other two and we’re 10 years strong. It sucks that we have to fight the urge to love our women the way we really want to. That’s what feminism did to the dating world.

  • @kaalidasacharya7543
    @kaalidasacharya7543 7 місяців тому +30

    Casey you are a true motivator. As you rightly mentioned 99% of men today have lost their masculinity. Your guidance is helping us to gain what we are supposed to have. Hats off to you Bro!

    • @theghostface2022
      @theghostface2022 7 місяців тому +1

      I'm 20 years old and I personally never had much interactions with girls whatsoever because I caught onto divorce rates skyrocketing, false accusations being thrown, and I seen no relationship besides my grandparents relationship ever work so I kind of don't think it is worth it personally but for others if they can get a wife and kids and their loyal I'll be happy for them as much as I am for my grandparents relationship of 53 years

  • @gregpettis1113
    @gregpettis1113 7 місяців тому +18

    You have to put her on a emotional roller coaster

  • @wheatcandle
    @wheatcandle 7 місяців тому +6

    This conversation literally changed my year.

  • @pratikpatil6342
    @pratikpatil6342 7 місяців тому +8

    Women focus on what they don't have and then they fantasize about it. If you give yourself completely to her, it's over.

  • @KK-sg5gl
    @KK-sg5gl 7 місяців тому +6

    If I want to please a woman and she disrespects me or leaves me for that, then she’ll never get a second chance with me.
    I’ll do exactly what I want to do. I won’t walk on eggshells of what any “expert” has to say about manipulating women.

    • @TigerPaint92
      @TigerPaint92 2 місяці тому

      Another way to go about it. I don't blame you.

  • @HisPerfectpeace
    @HisPerfectpeace 7 місяців тому +9

    Wowwww your 27 yrs old!? Your a genius bro! I’m 43 and now getting this gheezzzz

    • @briandam8126
      @briandam8126 7 місяців тому +3

      I’m 58. There was no internet back in the day with content like this. All we had was TV and movies (bs propaganda).
      It’s never too late

    • @mrtannguyen1122
      @mrtannguyen1122 7 місяців тому

      You guys are simps. It is never too late😊

  • @michaelz1757
    @michaelz1757 7 місяців тому +30

    You had sub 30k subscribers when I first came across you a few years back. I’m not surprised in the least you’re now over 400k. You earned it, Casey. You have a gift of observation and to teach. Wise well beyond your years. Keep up the good work. Respect ✊

  • @katadromeasgr
    @katadromeasgr 18 днів тому +1

    Painfully correct. The more we grow up, the clearer it gets.

  • @techiegz
    @techiegz 7 місяців тому +8

    Facts! You can't make them happy and once you listen to them and give them what they think they want is doomed. Treat them all like the one you don't want to be with.

  • @JayBoogie137
    @JayBoogie137 7 місяців тому +20

    Learned this a long time ago. Some of the best advice ever.

  • @chunknorris6299
    @chunknorris6299 7 місяців тому +15

    Hey man I really respect you and your videos. This was probably one of the best because it gets to the root of the problem. Having game only does so much but how you actually are as a person will dictate almost everything in your life.

  • @seattleman9297
    @seattleman9297 6 місяців тому

    Thank you! All of us men needed to hear this!

  • @gotime7627
    @gotime7627 7 місяців тому +7

    Casey I picked up your MBT course for $20 well worth the 20 thanks big dawg! Already seeing better results after 3 weeks or so!

  • @apshappysobriety5414
    @apshappysobriety5414 7 місяців тому +42

    You are a Star🌟I‘ve been dumped recently! And i think it was for the behavior you‘re been talking about! You live,you learn….or listen to your videos and know about what might be going to happen without fear! Thank you,Casey for the intense work and clarityof your advices🙏🏼

  • @GBU61
    @GBU61 7 місяців тому +6

    This is why a man should maintain an attitude of indifference with any woman he sees as worthy. If she thinks she has any leverage, she will use it. Best move is to maintain your own home and see her when convenient. Any man who gets married is playing a losing game.

  • @AsiabakaIzuchukwu
    @AsiabakaIzuchukwu 7 місяців тому +5

    The fact that u use biblical stories is fantastic love u man 💯

  • @rogerclemens4872
    @rogerclemens4872 7 місяців тому +7

    Just the video that I needed … tomorrow is her birthday and I was gonna send her a song which I recorded … not anymore …

  • @andrewcrossman2165
    @andrewcrossman2165 7 місяців тому +13

    This is truth, this exact thing happened to me with two girls i was seeing at the same time

    • @LWT1449
      @LWT1449 7 місяців тому

      Lol😂

    • @debsaye3360
      @debsaye3360 6 місяців тому

      Goodjob brother, they do the same

  • @SeleccioneUnNombre
    @SeleccioneUnNombre 7 місяців тому +6

    CASEY, THIS IS absolutely your BEST VIDEO BY FAR.

  • @pitapita3559
    @pitapita3559 7 місяців тому +2

    Best video I have ever seen on UA-cam. Thank you Casey!

  • @Luis-ik8vu
    @Luis-ik8vu 7 місяців тому +7

    Dude that Adam and Eve analogy was on point. We need to take back control boys. We can make it together.

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 7 місяців тому +5

    Be stoic and practice indifference when dealing with these chicks the more you try to please them the more they despise you and play foolish games

  • @johnkariuki6413
    @johnkariuki6413 7 місяців тому +4

    Very true and straight to the point 👌

  • @OMINOUS_HAVOC
    @OMINOUS_HAVOC 6 місяців тому +1

    Glad somebody FINALLY put this out there!! Needs to be said wayyy more often 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @stephensams709
    @stephensams709 7 місяців тому +5

    I'm "68" and I wish that I had known this stuff 50 years ago : }

  • @xdv06
    @xdv06 7 місяців тому +3

    casey dropping some gems of life

  • @rvoykin
    @rvoykin 7 місяців тому +6

    This is the most true video I’ve ever seen the harder I try in a relationship the worse it gets the relationships where I’m very aloof and not super into it. I get treated the best every time.
    Once I finally decide, I’m actually into a chick and step my game up. She treats me worse directly correlated to how much better I treat her.

  • @mikemike4697
    @mikemike4697 7 місяців тому +5

    However big your platform is, it needs to be one million times bigger. This message is 100% accurate and the delivery is much more palatable for the sensitive ear than other influencers who push this scientifically factual message. Keep preaching, all young men need to hear this.

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 7 місяців тому +11

    Absolute truth. Ita not in mans nature to please a woman. But we learn through them. It's their job to please us because they are made to help us and they are beneficiaries of us.

  • @The_Man-JIO
    @The_Man-JIO 7 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for all your great videos, they have helped me a lot

  • @SB-wj6dw
    @SB-wj6dw 7 місяців тому +9

    This is some distilled good shit. Thankyou bro, it feels like im shaking out of a haze of societal and parental emasculation and shame, and i literally feel like im "allowed" to be a male. I can feel suppressed energy being allowed to surface and be acceptable to utilise, which i can feel is masculine energy. I can't believe how shunned my masculinity has been since i was a boy. This is new. It's freeing, and i feel strong

  • @chrisgiron5171
    @chrisgiron5171 7 місяців тому +1

    I have been watching your videos for awhile. I needed to hear this one particular message. Thank you so much!

  • @educ8te
    @educ8te 7 місяців тому +19

    Thanks for all the material Casey.hope younger guys get this info in time.

  • @ffirmezza9010
    @ffirmezza9010 7 місяців тому +25

    Keep spreading the message Zander! It’s never too much to hear you… people think your content is repetitive but they are so naive! Reaching the essence of God it’s never a finish work and I really feel the path you are forging about seeking the primordial essence of life

    • @DiggingDeepVlog
      @DiggingDeepVlog 7 місяців тому

      There’s only so many videos one can make before getting repetitive. Truth is his content says most of the same things. One should take his advice but you must also apply it in real life.

    • @zKaRiisMa
      @zKaRiisMa 7 місяців тому

      I agree

  • @chocodiledundee1
    @chocodiledundee1 6 місяців тому

    I could not be any more grateful that some have the Balls and courage to make a video like this !! THANK YOU

  • @derricklizana4065
    @derricklizana4065 7 місяців тому +2

    This is the best video you have ever made. I watched it several times so it would really sink in

  • @truestory2006
    @truestory2006 7 місяців тому +17

    He just gave us the key to masculinity

    • @ricklong3218
      @ricklong3218 7 місяців тому

      No, he gave you inside info of a woman 😉

  • @ridedoapps5200
    @ridedoapps5200 7 місяців тому +6

    Nice. I like it. This is so so true. Thank you.

  • @everettwells3812
    @everettwells3812 7 місяців тому +1

    Thnx broskie! Just started incorporating this into my daily life and within 48hrs, the change is massive. Luv from canada 🇨🇦...just jumped aboard the subscribe train.

  • @Jeremie.Estrada.
    @Jeremie.Estrada. 7 місяців тому +7

    This video was indeed impactful and wise & true asf! you basically setting yourself up for failure if you try to please women

  • @blaydepenza1531
    @blaydepenza1531 7 місяців тому +4

    Never dawned on me to say it this way, but soooo true!

  • @tripleprotectionservices8156
    @tripleprotectionservices8156 4 місяці тому +3

    If you've watched this video but still comes back to rewatch, like this comment...

  • @AndrewGrinchak
    @AndrewGrinchak 7 місяців тому +2

    Boy, did i need to hear this sermon on the mount... you got some gift, bro. Keep it shining.

  • @krisley5178
    @krisley5178 7 місяців тому

    Well said Sir. Thanks for stating this in a new fresh way that actually makes good sense.

  • @supersonicslashx4741
    @supersonicslashx4741 7 місяців тому +9

    Facts 💯 The rising divorce rate only proves this

  • @SomeGuy-xf9bc
    @SomeGuy-xf9bc 7 місяців тому +14

    And how exactly is pursuing them worth the effort? If the male sex drive weren't hard-wired, we wouldn't have anything to do with them.

    • @albertguldbrandsen969
      @albertguldbrandsen969 7 місяців тому +3

      Hahaha so fucking true

    • @theghostface2022
      @theghostface2022 7 місяців тому +3

      I been thinking the exact same thing tbh and always wondered if there was a way to remove the sex drive for myself sometimes because I am so disoriented on how many things you gotta do nowadays and now it doesn't feel like their real relationships and I don't want fake and if thats the only option then I'm out

    • @mrreckless8223
      @mrreckless8223 7 місяців тому

      @@theghostface2022 facts!!

    • @ElFrak
      @ElFrak 7 місяців тому

      @@theghostface2022semen retention, ive been trying it for 2+weeks and dont feel the urge to wanna nut as much. Other men have said that they get mental clarity/less brain fog and the ability to detach sexual desire for women. And in turn more testosterone and confidence in everything so that naturally attracts women ironically after you show no desire for then

    • @ElFrak
      @ElFrak 7 місяців тому

      @@theghostface2022dont watch porn, unfollow IG hoes and remove anything sexual from your day to day use. Get rid of dating apps also if you use them

  • @peterharvey4151
    @peterharvey4151 6 місяців тому

    Great talk Casey, on point..Focus on yourself, Level Up, hold Frame, get on with your own life..done

  • @thomass6809
    @thomass6809 7 місяців тому

    Casey bringing the heat 🔥

  • @brentc78
    @brentc78 7 місяців тому +3

    Great video Casey! I’ve come to the conclusion that if you give her everything. She won’t have a role or fulfillment for you. You need to create a void for her to emotionally fill or else she will find somebody else to fill it for.
    Give her a role to fulfill and serve just as you are there to serve as a protector and a provider. If you don't, it will be somebody else turn. You truly never have “her”. You cannot possess her.

  • @Keviekev115
    @Keviekev115 7 місяців тому +3

    “ they will lead you to the gates of hell” never heard truer words

  • @mil-specmotorworks7805
    @mil-specmotorworks7805 7 місяців тому

    Absolutely the best Casey video yet

  • @Amando_1017
    @Amando_1017 7 місяців тому +2

    Boss man, this video just really cleared the smoke and made things with women a whole lot clearer. Thank you. It’s going to be in my mind for the whole week as an attractive young man who earns good money, takes care of himself and his family, smart etc. I appreciate men like you in this world spread this message too hundreds of thousands.

  • @gnarlytothemax
    @gnarlytothemax 7 місяців тому +6

    you're a legend

  • @JohnnyBg2905
    @JohnnyBg2905 7 місяців тому +16

    I'm 37 y.o., slept with around 100 women (by looks and personality, not cause of material possetions) and this is one of the wisest thing I've heard in years and never figured out myself. This is completely perspective changing. Thank you.

    • @Light_Ao11
      @Light_Ao11 7 місяців тому +1

      Male pro$titute/$lut spotted , shame !!

    • @deathmetalmachine
      @deathmetalmachine 6 місяців тому +2

      it's the dam truth bro that how it is and dudes don't get it 👌🏻

    • @jkm1059
      @jkm1059 6 місяців тому +1

      I bet you have 😂

  • @jayservices9692
    @jayservices9692 7 місяців тому +2

    Man this video is a god send. This is probably the most realest thing I’ve ever heard in my life I swear. I always had this thought in the back in my mind but never said it because people would call me misogynistic or whatever. But I always knew deep down pleasing should be both ways if not more towards the man. Thank you so much for making this.

  • @bowlingdj300
    @bowlingdj300 7 місяців тому +1

    probably one of the best videos you have ever done and well explained, thx for sharing : )

  • @danielwilson3313
    @danielwilson3313 7 місяців тому +19

    Our society breeds narcissistic women. I care and she still wants to leave. Leading the family everything but still not enough. And she definitely did not care about pleasing me.

  • @justinsugay1149
    @justinsugay1149 7 місяців тому +8

    When I was younger all I cared about was getting the girl. But I never stopped to think about how I would obtain her and now that I'm older I realize it's far more important how you get her vs just getting her by any means because the price you pay if you do not set things up right is way too much and what I mean by that is if she doesn't respect you with the way you go get her, you don't really have her. And that defeats the whole thing, but if she respects you, you'll be a lot happier, which is the whole point, so be careful. Make good choices best.

    • @mikeoms
      @mikeoms 7 місяців тому +1

      That is 100% spot on. I can vouch for that experience in my life. Women judge and put a label on you the moment they meet you. If you meet her in some club, Tinder or even walking up to her on the street simping, she will never respect you in her heart from that moment. She has to show interest in you from the beginning and earn your attention.

  • @fareedingram4626
    @fareedingram4626 7 місяців тому +1

    @ C.Zander !! You are already ahead of the game 🎯!! I Wish, I was put on game instead of a trial and error ⚠️ @ My younger times in Life !! .. We was put here to LEAD!! They are the help & we follow!!! ..

  • @nikhil8892
    @nikhil8892 7 місяців тому

    Extraordinary video man thank you