MAGA wants YOU to be a trad wife!
Вставка
- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- It's time to create true security for women by securing our futures in case of divorce or death.
Tghe trad wife to poverty pipeline is ugly.
My article about getting stuck in the trad wife trap:
open.substack....
Business Insider article:
www.businessin...
Manproof Your Life calendar:
manproofyourli...
#marriage #financialplanning #divorce #sexism #domesticviolenceawareness #home #famiily #wife #mom #tradwife #mormon #MAGA #Trump #feminist
I'll stay home and make babies if the government wants to pay me the over $100k salary that that work is valued at! With healthcare and retirement! If not, no way I'd take that risk.
I’d have babies for that too! ❤
It's misogyny:
●man has talents and passion for football should not suppress them, but rather develop it and become a sports player, whether is married or not but woman has talents and a passion for football, acting, science and invention, art, and medicine..to not become an athlete, an artist, or a scientist, to suppress them and throw them in the trash, sit at home cooking and cleaning and obeying, watching it innovate and flourish in what she was deprived of, suppressed, and excluded from !!!!!
●man has passion and talents in fashion design not suppress them, but rather develops and nourishes them and becomes a fashion designer but woman has talents, passions and capabilities in fashion design, colors and fashion to not develop and nourished tem and become a fashion designer but to suppresses them and throws them in the trash can and stay at home cleaning and cooking watching him innovate and flourish in what he was deprived of, suppressed and excluded from !!!!!
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their nature, their right, their duty and their natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics do not suppress, undermine or eliminate them because of their gender or for any other reason. There is no reason for suppression and exclusion.
Home is not a woman's place home is the burying of women, their oppression, enslavement and exclusion on the margins of reason, civilization and the world. Women belong to the world in all its scientific, literary and artistic fields, not to the home.
Housechorse and cooking are simple and trivial life skills that every adult should do, should cook, organize and clean his house, men should not avoid them or evade them and women should not do them all.
Raising children is basically the responsibility of both the mother and father, not one without or more than the other, but they blame it on the woman so that she does not have time for scientific progress, advancement and prosperity with her intelligence and capabilities in science, invention, sports and politics...so she is buried in the house on the margins of civilization and the world.
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their right, duty and natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics... do not suppress, undermine and cancel them and sit at home watching them innovate and flourish in what they were deprived of, suppressed and excluded from because of gender !!!! This is injustice, oppression, exclusion and exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It is misogyny.
It is misogyny. Staying at home is oppression, exclusion and systematic exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It obliterates their intelligence and potential in all scientific, literary and artistic fields, in contrast to the opposite for men. This is misogyny, it is a systematic exclusion of women that we must reject. As if science is only for men.
●man has talents and passion for football should not suppress them, but rather develop it and become a sports player, whether is married or not but woman has talents and a passion for football, acting, science and invention, art, and medicine..to not become an athlete, an artist, or a scientist, to suppress them and throw them in the trash, sit at home cooking and cleaning and obeying, watching it innovate and flourish in what she was deprived of, suppressed, and excluded from !!!!!
● man has passion and talents in fashion design not suppress them, but rather develops and nourishes them and becomes a fashion designer but woman has talents, passions and capabilities in fashion design, colors and fashion to not develop and nourished tem and become a fashion designer but to suppresses them and throws them in the trash can and stay at home cleaning and cooking watching him innovate and flourish in what he was deprived of, suppressed and excluded from !!!!!
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their nature, their right, their duty and their natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics do not suppress, undermine or eliminate them because of their gender or for any other reason. There is no reason for suppression and exclusion.
Home is not a woman's place home is the burying of women, their oppression, enslavement and exclusion on the margins of reason, civilization and the world. Women belong to the world in all its scientific, literary and artistic fields, not to the home.
In 1940, my grandfather suddenly died. In the blink of an eye, my grandmother was a single mom with 3 daughters. No skills. No work experience. Very tough period of time. My parents insisted that we get some sort of training - uni or trade school - so that we would be able to take care of ourselves.
Love how she just slid past owning a whole business ‘on the side’ (allegedly) so fast? Like, it’s the sneakiness that irritates me so much.
There are families in the middle east that let their wives work in a family business so it is traditional for women to work jobs and volunteer to clean up after men for free..
My grandma was a trad wife in the 1940s and she had a degree in library science women were still working in history too and going to school men just ignore these parts in history that prove men wrong because volunteering to clean up after your husband, bare his kids, cook, clean and do all that for free? Then yeah that's still traditional.
Trad wives did have jobs in the 1940s if you were a white woman that's what some people don't comprehend..it was traditional for women to work, and acquire a degree we just couldnt out earn our husbands in order for the relationship to be balanced.
She runs a business....on the side of course! So yes, she still makes money and is employed outside the home. Not a trad wife, not a SAHM lol
It is misogyny. Staying at home is oppression, exclusion and systematic exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It obliterates their intelligence and potential in all scientific, literary and artistic fields, in contrast to the opposite for men. This is misogyny, it is a systematic exclusion of women that we must reject. As if science is only for men.
●man has talents and passion for football should not suppress them, but rather develop it and become a sports player, whether is married or not but woman has talents and a passion for football, acting, science and invention, art, and medicine..to not become an athlete, an artist, or a scientist, to suppress them and throw them in the trash, sit at home cooking and cleaning and obeying, watching it innovate and flourish in what she was deprived of, suppressed, and excluded from !!!!!
● man has passion and talents in fashion design not suppress them, but rather develops and nourishes them and becomes a fashion designer but woman has talents, passions and capabilities in fashion design, colors and fashion to not develop and nourished tem and become a fashion designer but to suppresses them and throws them in the trash can and stay at home cleaning and cooking watching him innovate and flourish in what he was deprived of, suppressed and excluded from !!!!!
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their nature, their right, their duty and their natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics do not suppress, undermine or eliminate them because of their gender or for any other reason. There is no reason for suppression and exclusion.
Home is not a woman's place home is the burying of women, their oppression, enslavement and exclusion on the margins of reason, civilization and the world. Women belong to the world in all its scientific, literary and artistic fields, not to the home.
I think most people watch her because of the aesthetic, we all like to recognize patterns and see how things line up in colour or size.
If you want to watch that same thing from a different culture without western propaganda, watch Li zi qi. I feel like we have found that there is demand and appreciation for doing things from scratch, and that makes sense in a time where with the internet, real life feels a bit disconnected alltogether. There is nothing wrong in watching this stuff, but I wish it would come without this undertone of "this is how it is done right".
I had my son while I was in school. I had the baby with me 24/7, I went to school full time, and I worked part-time. I had a great boss who let me bring my son to work with me. He was a quiet, easy baby, so he was able to sit through class and in an office without causing a fuss. Then I became a scientist and worked full time in my career while my partner stayed home with our kid. My job was not enough to support us, but my partner refused to work. We were desperately poor the entire time. I also had more free time at work than I ever did at home. It was relaxing to be at work. It was my respite. Later, after I left my abusive boyfriend, I got daycare, eventually got married to someone who was supportive in a healthy way, and became a stay at home mom. I have to say, of ALL the things I've done, of all the things I've been through, being a mom has been the **absolute** hardest, even with an easy baby. Especially at the infant/toddler stage. I can handle a lot, but one baby was a LOT. Especially when my partner was acting like a second child. She cannot stand there in her cute little apron and tell us with a straight face that having 2 babies and a job and doing housework by herself is super easy. It is absolutely not! Someone needs to tell her that lying through her teeth doesn't count as flossing. Dollars to donuts she has a housekeeper, a nanny, and a personal assistant for her businesses. I guarantee it. I absolutely guarantee it.
😂😂😂 Lying through your teeth doesn't count as flossing! Love that!
You hit the nail on the head. Traditionally, we had mom and pop businesses, not corporations.
Yup. They forget that part.
The government worked hard to destroy mom and pops abd replace it with corporations. Covid dealt the final blow as most of those businesses were forced to close while Walmart and Costco were allowed to stay open.
I know a lady who dropped her education and had a child, she was working but she did a simple job, at some point she was laid off, and some time afterwards her husband decided to leave her and the kid and move on, marry another woman and have 3 further children. This lady never recovered mentally after this, she never worked again and lived at the mercy of her family(her elderly mom, and her brother and sister in law). This was an example that opened my eyes to pursue education agressively so that I'll never be in same situation.
@@elenam1626 oh my heart breaks for her. I’m six years out and haven’t recovered financially.
Her cortisol levels are normal? Every SAHM I’ve ever witnessed, including my own mother. Was stressed 24/7. It’s a 24/7 job you CANNOT clock out of. You can come home from a 9-5, and decompress and have your time. Being a trad wife/SAHM is not a luxury. It’s free labor and no breaks.
She also runs a business on the side. So therefore, she is a working mom. 😂
I bet that naive not-so-trad-wife is also selling something that ‘helped normalize her super high cortisol’ levels… that were never actually clinically tested.
Exactly what I was going to say. I am one of them, I know for a fact about cortisol levels.
Her cortisol and stress hormones will really go through the roof when he leaves her for the younger model 😂😂😂
It is misogyny. Staying at home is oppression, exclusion and systematic exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It obliterates their intelligence and potential in all scientific, literary and artistic fields, in contrast to the opposite for men. This is misogyny, it is a systematic exclusion of women that we must reject. As if science is only for men.
●man has talents and passion for football should not suppress them, but rather develop it and become a sports player, whether is married or not but woman has talents and a passion for football, acting, science and invention, art, and medicine..to not become an athlete, an artist, or a scientist, to suppress them and throw them in the trash, sit at home cooking and cleaning and obeying, watching it innovate and flourish in what she was deprived of, suppressed, and excluded from !!!!!
● man has passion and talents in fashion design not suppress them, but rather develops and nourishes them and becomes a fashion designer but woman has talents, passions and capabilities in fashion design, colors and fashion to not develop and nourished tem and become a fashion designer but to suppresses them and throws them in the trash can and stay at home cleaning and cooking watching him innovate and flourish in what he was deprived of, suppressed and excluded from !!!!!
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their nature, their right, their duty and their natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics do not suppress, undermine or eliminate them because of their gender or for any other reason. There is no reason for suppression and exclusion.
Home is not a woman's place home is the burying of women, their oppression, enslavement and exclusion on the margins of reason, civilization and the world. Women belong to the world in all its scientific, literary and artistic fields, not to the home.
She can go to the beach, the cafe... yada yada yada. As long as her husband approves and provides her with whatever is necessary for her to do so (i.e., gas money, starbucks $ , etc.) And if he doesn't feel like paying for a babysitter, the kids are coming along because I highly doubt he'll watch them. Cuz after all, that's womens work🙄 That's probably why these women start recording. Because these men are very controlling with the money and they're bored at home in need of spending money without having to ask for permission and being denied. The facade is more about them fooling themselves than anyone else.
P.s:Good advice. Any man who doesn't agree should be given a serious side eye.
Yeah right she can go tk a coffee if she wants? Yeah with 4 crying babies? Sounds like anything but relaxing.
Most men who want a tradwife will not pay her money to afford a babysitter once in a while.
They want to live the king lifestyle and make her live servant lifestyle instead of queen style because a queen actually did had nannies and everything she needed.
My Mom told me to NEVER rely solely on a man for money. That I should always be able to provide for myself and any children I have. That's the best advice anyone has ever given me. BTW, she and my Dad stayed together until death and she was a devout catholic and a working woman. And, she is my hero.
Amen!
I always remember Barbara Billingsley (the actress June Cleaver from Leave It To Beaver) pointed out something that people didn’t pay attention to. Women like June Cleaver and Donna Reed were held up as the standard of Stay at home Moms. They cooked kept a clean house and cared for the children. No one paid attention to the fact that the women portraying these characters were WORKING WOMEN. They were actresses portraying fictional characters. Donna Reed was a business woman. She produced shows including her own. People allow themselves to be played when they let themselves be spoon fed this PR nonsense.
Whoa! That slaps you on the face when you think about that.
That's a great point. These online tradwife influencers are trying to be the Donna Reeds of the present day. Some of their viewers might not understand that.
My 23 year old daughter wants to get married. She’s still getting married, but now she’s not taking his last name, she’s waiting to get pregnant, and her and her boyfriend are looking to leave America. What they push gets the opposite results
Book her one session of my Manproof coaching I’ll set up a whole plan for her. I wish her life and happiness.
It is misogyny. Staying at home is oppression, exclusion and systematic exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It obliterates their intelligence and potential in all scientific, literary and artistic fields, in contrast to the opposite for men. This is misogyny, it is a systematic exclusion of women that we must reject. As if science is only for men.
●man has talents and passion for football should not suppress them, but rather develop it and become a sports player, whether is married or not but woman has talents and a passion for football, acting, science and invention, art, and medicine..to not become an athlete, an artist, or a scientist, to suppress them and throw them in the trash, sit at home cooking and cleaning and obeying, watching it innovate and flourish in what she was deprived of, suppressed, and excluded from !!!!!
● man has passion and talents in fashion design not suppress them, but rather develops and nourishes them and becomes a fashion designer but woman has talents, passions and capabilities in fashion design, colors and fashion to not develop and nourished tem and become a fashion designer but to suppresses them and throws them in the trash can and stay at home cleaning and cooking watching him innovate and flourish in what he was deprived of, suppressed and excluded from !!!!!
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their nature, their right, their duty and their natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics do not suppress, undermine or eliminate them because of their gender or for any other reason. There is no reason for suppression and exclusion.
Home is not a woman's place home is the burying of women, their oppression, enslavement and exclusion on the margins of reason, civilization and the world. Women belong to the world in all its scientific, literary and artistic fields, not to the home.
Housechorse and cooking are simple and trivial life skills that every adult should do, should cook, organize and clean his house, men should not avoid them or evade them and women should not do them all.
Raising children is basically the responsibility of both the mother and father, not one without or more than the other, but they blame it on the woman so that she does not have time for scientific progress, advancement and prosperity with her intelligence and capabilities in science, invention, sports and politics...so she is buried in the house on the margins of civilization and the world.
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their right, duty and natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics... do not suppress, undermine and cancel them and sit at home watching them innovate and flourish in what they were deprived of, suppressed and excluded from because of gender !!!! This is injustice, oppression, exclusion and exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It is misogyny.
Personally I love my 9-5, I love making money, I love collaborating with my colleagues, I love being somewhere and making a difference to society. People are lost and listen to dumb narratives
So true and men should agree to let women be financially safe. I have a friend who‘s father had a car accident and it impacted his brain. Apparently it made him psychopathic (his personality changed a lot and he became more aggressive and reckless etc).
If a man really cares about you he wants you to be saved if anything happens to him even if he cannot imagine he would ever leave you.
Get your education and your 401K.
Lately there has been a lot of talk about 401(k) and people have to be careful because Sam 4 one case wanted to transfer over to private equity. Has anyone heard about this?
I'm an adult human being completely dependent on another adult human being. My mom won't let me work because she's on housing assistance. She keeps saying we'll be homeless and she's right. There are so many homeless around here. My friend is homeless too, but at least he has a car to sleep in. I don't even have that if I go homeless. I'm too scared to do anything. I have no idea what to do.
Do you have friends or family in another state?
@lifetaketwo7662 I don't. My only friend is the homeless one I told you about. The only family I know is my mom.
Sounds like you will live there forever. It is sad that your mother has such a dark view of a world in which you support yourself. Get a job and rent a bedroom or get roommates. Can your mother work or is she disabled?
Start babysitting dog walking dog sitting perhaps even cleaning cash payments under the table, or an at home job/business tax write offs can include rent but you'd still have to have a way to pay it until tax returns come around.
What happens if your mother can't live there, or can't get the assistance? They are cutting back on support. Better find some income source and start building skills. Are there any free online schools you can go to?
So I’m married and have 3 neurodivergent kiddos, so here’s my thought. My kids do need very large amounts of my time. But for my own sanity, I work part time. Routine matters, yes. But what this routine looks like, cannot be the same for every family! I was raised Mormon; and the SAHM is certainly injected in the brains of very young girls. However, being miserable as a mom, is NEVER healthy. I don’t freakin care what any religion tells you. Make your own decisions. You do you. If my husband either dies or leaves, I’m good. I’ve got my own job and bank account. My husband appreciates the safety of plan B. If someone is calling you unfaithful, for simply thinking of plan B, somethings wrong.
You're amazing! Wishing you well, that’s not an easy life❤❤❤
Back in my day...we didn't label...you just got married and had children...
I didn't really have a bad experience with daycare. I had less than desirable experiences, but most of those were actually with friends who were SAHM's, and I would pay them to watch my kid. They had abysmal mental health, which is why the experience wasn't great. Once I moved my kid to an actual licensed daycare, it was awesome. Unfortunately, not everyone can afford that, and the waitlists to get into some of them can be quite long.
Financial dependence = trap
Even as a teenager all those decades ago, I honestly never even considered not having my own bank account.
Even though I didn’t know how I was going to manage it, I was determined to get a University education. Which I did, and it was solely that education which saved my life the first time I became near fatally ill.
I think the irony with my life is that I had an abusive father, & from watching him my whole upbringing, I learnt what to avoid in men, and NOT to rely on men, so when I started dating seriously, I used those lessons in choosing a partner (or rather knowing which men to avoid even considering as future partners). I couldn’t be with a man that wanted & believed in a woman giving her self up to just be there to do what the man wants.
Trad Wives 1) have young children so they're not in the thick of parenting yet, 2) have bankrolled/high-earning/trust fund spouses. Are people coming for the fact that they stay at home with children? NO! They are coming for the fact that these "influencers" are making it seem attainable and like a good idea to give up your financial autonomy to your husband. Psst... That's literally why most women in abusive relationships can't leave. They think we can't see this.
Housechorse and cooking are simple and trivial life skills that every adult should do, should cook, organize and clean his house, men should not avoid them or evade them and women should not do them all.
Raising children is basically the responsibility of both the mother and father, not one without or more than the other, but they blame it on the woman so that she does not have time for scientific progress, advancement and prosperity with her intelligence and capabilities in science, invention, sports and politics...so she is buried in the house on the margins of civilization and the world.
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their right, duty and natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics... do not suppress, undermine and cancel them and sit at home watching them innovate and flourish in what they were deprived of, suppressed and excluded from because of gender !!!! This is injustice, oppression, exclusion and exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It is misogyny.
It is misogyny. Staying at home is oppression, exclusion and systematic exclusion of women from civilization and the world. It obliterates their intelligence and potential in all scientific, literary and artistic fields, in contrast to the opposite for men. This is misogyny, it is a systematic exclusion of women that we must reject. As if science is only for men.
●man has talents and passion for football should not suppress them, but rather develop it and become a sports player, whether is married or not but woman has talents and a passion for football, acting, science and invention, art, and medicine..to not become an athlete, an artist, or a scientist, to suppress them and throw them in the trash, sit at home cooking and cleaning and obeying, watching it innovate and flourish in what she was deprived of, suppressed, and excluded from !!!!!
● man has passion and talents in fashion design not suppress them, but rather develops and nourishes them and becomes a fashion designer but woman has talents, passions and capabilities in fashion design, colors and fashion to not develop and nourished tem and become a fashion designer but to suppresses them and throws them in the trash can and stay at home cleaning and cooking watching him innovate and flourish in what he was deprived of, suppressed and excluded from !!!!!
Women are human beings with a mind, intelligence, passion, talents and great potential. It is their nature, their right, their duty and their natural need to develop and grow them so that they can advance scientifically and flourish with their talents, potential and intelligence continuously in science, arts, sports and politics do not suppress, undermine or eliminate them because of their gender or for any other reason. There is no reason for suppression and exclusion.
Home is not a woman's place home is the burying of women, their oppression, enslavement and exclusion on the margins of reason, civilization and the world. Women belong to the world in all its scientific, literary and artistic fields, not to the home.
Gen z behaving like the internet didn’t give them a huge opportunity to run a business while they sit at home and change diapers, is funny. Who wouldn’t want to sit at home in 2025 with information at your finger tips. Maybe not so much in the early 00s.
If corporate life is so horrible, why do we accept and require it for men?
@@elizabethfrootloop7814 exactly! No wonder they’re burnt out and emotionally checked out. We force them into this awful hell hole.
A few thoughts:
1. My LDS wife chose to be a stay-at-home mother. But it only works because I am very fortunate enough to make enough to support our family of six. We don't live in a high cost-of-living area, but according to statistics, a "living wage" for a family our size (minus childcare) in our area is $80,000 a year. That's a LOT of money. I am very lucky to have crossed that threshold, but most people aren't. Being a "trad wife" just isn't an option for many.
2. Working a career sucks. And the more you invest in a career, the less you have to invest in your family. A lot of very successful businessmen have poor family lives.
3. Utah is the MLM capital of the world. There's a reason for this, and it doesn't shine kindly on the Church.
4. You've gotta have backup plans, and backups to those backups. Life's a mess, and sometimes things don't work out. What will you do then?
5. The worst and most dangerous, yet most central doctrine to the LDS Church is "If you feel good about something, that means it's right or true." F- that!
We are actually hominids, part of the primate family. We are exceptionally advanced hominids, but we are still Just hominids. Coming back from an inoxic brain injury Is boss. Bish, you are the definition of badassery.
Excellent points!
What happens when her husband cheats on her?
What happens if he turns abusive? What happens if he gets sick? What happens if he becomes disabled? What happens if he DIES?
Wanna talk about stress levels? When my mid thirties ex cheated with a 22 year old, I had heart palpitations for the first time in my life. I had never used an eyebrow pencil before but I had visible thin spots I had to fill in. I had to begin a job after not working for awhile and act professional and cheerful around these new people while hiding in the bathroom at work to cry. Days before the breakup I was staining the deck at our house and starting to get a ton of veggies from the garden since it was August. Your whole life gets ripped away in an instant. She's standing there with a baby one day smiling and the next day it's over. It's not like you have an apartment but lost your job. It's not like you just gotta move and that's it. It's literally everything gone at once. No place to go, no job, no plan, but figure it all out during a mental breakdown and be strong at your lowest. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. And all it takes is for a fickle guy to like the new girl at work and feel bored with you. Your life destroyed by a guy's mood.
The best advice my mom gave me. Women,listen up! When you go to the store, pull out $10, $20 every single time! Then hide it. Have I done this? Yes! Could I hire an attorney if needed? Yes! Could I get an apartment if needed? Yes!!!
Be prepared! The stuff being taught here is fantastic and I wish I would have had something in place just in case. But if you need somewhere to start now..please try starting with just getting some cash back at the store and hiding it where you know the kids or partner will not find it. Best advice I never expected to get from my mom. 💕
@@racheld7528 I love it!!!
It’s nothing new. The old expression was to call it “Mad Money.”
They about to have ya'll in a Handmaid's Tale. Gonna have to learn the hard way I guess.
I like history and one thing I have learned is that women from all eras: ancient Greece, ancient Rome, the Middle Ages... always worked creating crafts to sell in the markets and contribute to the domestic economy, that women were only dedicated to 'domestic chores' and men were the only provider is a lie, only the richest women could afford it
*Even in prehistory, the entire clan worked making 'crafts' for domestic consumption
Yes to all of this, thanks for taking the time to write up this informative comment. ❤
Yes! Women have always worked!
This. And I hate when ppl try to insist that prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. It’s crazy how so many women and men truly believe women’s first genuine job was being sexually exploited, when women turned to prostitution either out of last resort or being coerced/forced. It’s insulting and undermining of women’s labor throughout human history and to this day.
Absolutely, women worked throughout history, especially minority women. Black and brown women have worked hard for this country and for this orange person to downgrade it to nothing is absolutely abhorrent.
Wow. You are brilliant.
MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN wants you to be a Trad wife? Makes no sense!
I’m going to add a little story here. It does include some math. This is not a judgment. Take from it what you will.
I grew up very similarly, also very close in age to this beautiful young lady here on life take two. There was a group of us young ladies. For ease we will say 8. Of the 8 girls 4 graduated from college right after high school. 3 of those 4 girls did it with the intention so they could put their future husbands through college. That is what all of us were taught our education was worth.
Only 1 of us didn’t buy that at the time and was ok being single for the rest of her life (🙋🏼♀️). So 4 girls graduated college, 2 of those girls got their teaching degree.
Yep. I am one of the 2 who did not pick teaching.
Fast forward almost 30 years. Of those 8 girls 2 have been divorced, 1 is remarried. One has never married. Of those 8 girls…6/8 have now left the Mormon church. 7/8 girls work full time jobs. At this point 7/8 girls have gotten their degrees.
We were all told the same thing. Our education was to support our husbands. I happened to have a neighbor whose husband died. She said to get something that you can easily support yourself, and teaching may not be enough financially to support yourself and kids if the spouse died like hers.
I went into the medical field. My parents were so upset. They were upset because I would have to work on Sundays. They thought I would never get married because of it. I dated a man for 2.5 years and our biggest fight was me quitting my job to move 30 mins closer to him and then becoming a stay at home wife. He is not my spouse (thank goodness).
My parents have told me multiple times I’m “just a nurse”. I am “just a nurse” but I’m also a damn good one. I’ve been “just a nurse” for 20+ years. I still love it. My husband loves it. I’m also a massage therapist and get to run my own business with that.
2 of my friends own a business when they were told it wasn’t a place for them. Like I said, a lot of math.
Here is what I have learned in the last 30 years. Don’t get an education to support your partner/spouse, or because the internet or a religion told you so.
Get an education so that you can support you because you never know what life will throw at you and you have no one else to catch you. You need to learn how to catch yourself and any kids that may also be along for this journey of life with you.
Again, no judgment. Just my story, my situation. Much love to all! ❤
@@racheld7528 thanks so much for sharing. The problem is, you defied the commands of prophets and most women within the Mormon church aren’t able to do that. The majority of Mormon women become stay at home moms.
I wouldnt in a million years be a work from home mom while raising small children. I tried to have a business with a small child at home. Exhausting
@@sunflowergardensfrommydad billions of women across the world do just that. I raised 5 kids, ran my husband’s businesses, and served in the Mormon church as well as school PTO and a blog.
Don’t be afraid of a little work.
Idk why women have to work full time outside the home and then come home and do everything there. It was exhausting. My husband had it much easier compared but because he made more money he believed he was more successful and therefore not responsible for the household chores etc. Most of us women are screwed no matter what we do.
It seems that under this cuteness there is a lot of anger
Don't call me cute, Thanks.
I ate sourdough bread for the first time last weekend. Very tasty. Do you have a recipe?
There are good & bad child care centres- you have to be very observant, choose well & change centres if you see or feel anything wrong.
All the people in child care centres my child attended knew more about child development than i did.
My daughter is still friends decades later with someone she met when they were two.
My child was noticeably more stimulated being around others from 10 months than at home, so part time care was great for her. She stayed in after school care until she aged out at 12 - there was someone at home the last few years, but she asked to stay to be around other children.
Some children have different personalities and this wouldn't suit them, or at such an early age.
It's annoying that people assume one way is best for all.
The same applies to work. My ex would prefer to work part time & stay in a lower level job, thinking more intellectual demands at work would stress him. Whereas i preferred to work at a much higher level & got stressed at the boredom & lack of challenge at lower levels.
I loved being at home with my 6 kids - my very much "christian" now gay husband was a great provider nothing like your life but a provider after 30 years he came out and ya know what i got nothing but i feel deeply being home was the best choice for them was amazing because they are amazing kids !!!!
Oh wow that’s hard, thx for sharing. You could have stayed home and protected your future, but we don’t do that! Wishing u well.
Six kids? Wow he was really trying to prove to himself and everyone around him that he wasn’t gay. I feel like your experience is far too common than we realize. I hope you and your family are doing well regardless.
@@Raven.Madnessdon't extend this pickme any sympathy. She is tearing down other women on this very comment section. I see she hit her head against the wall at full spend but still did not learn.
Not all men because of your bad experience makes it bad to stay at home !!!! I loved staying home and lost eveeryrhing and am not mormon just christian - he turned out gay - i wouldnt have given up anything to stay at home - money didnt buy me precious time with my kids and yes it feel better !!!
I don’t base an international platform and business on MY life. I base it on data.
Not all men, but it's so many men I can't tell the difference. I'll stay unmarried, thank you.
Not all men, but enough men to know that being a stay at home mum isn’t ideal for majority of women.
You know who taught women it's All Men? Other men and especially Dads of daughters, they even say All Men
So just because you wasted your life creating a family with a h*mosexu@l that probably shared some disease with you and your kids it doesn't mean all women should subject themselves to that 😂😂😂😂
That’s not true! Don’t blame maga! Are you serious?
Are you delulu? Read project 2025...they even want to take women's votung rights away 💀 yes, MAGA is to blame.
Trump's wives worked. Vance's wife is very accomplished.
Obviously, you haven't read Project 2025!
@@annacoats2988 read project 2025 and listen to Vance. He said out his mouth that he wants only men to vote...wake up
Running a business and claiming to be a “tradwife” is an oxymoron. Both of my greta grandmothers were trad wives by the actual definition, and they suffered and went through so much bullshit to be mothers. I would never encourage any girl, especially my own daughter, to obtain this type of lifestyle. There’s truly no benefit to it as a woman/mother.
I understand your husband betrayed you. BUT the fool hath said in his heart, there is no God. I’m praying for you!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Keep your religious discrimination to yourself it’s not okay.
“I understand your husband cheated on you, neglected his duties as a father and husband and undermined your nonstop labor, but God is great and will heal you.” That’s how I read your comment, you need to gain empathy and not spread your religious nonsense lmao.
@@Raven.Madness right? So tonedeaf
I have been through some things witnessed some things, with religion, and seen what the most admired "godly" men are capable of behind closed doors...Its honestly hard some days for me to hold onto a belief in God especially the one in the bible with the atrocious things I have seen others justify in His name and support and it's not just a few individuals it's across the board...If Jenny ever does adopt a belief in a higher power I doubt its going to be from people shaming guilting and condemning her...If you dont understand that you dont have the slightest idea of the amount of torture, insanity making, suffering this woman has had to bear in her body...The fact she can stand here today and speak as clearly and confidently as she does is a testament to the human spirit.
I'd rather be a trad life than a leftist any day. At least wives and mothers who actually care to foster their relationships have something to live for and aren't miserable sods, like every single leftist I've ever met. Voting republican again in 2028, Trump has already delivered on so much I don't even know what he's going to have left to do come 2026.
What is a leftist and what has that 🍊🤡 done? We're any of his wives stay at home moms? Two of them were from...?
My first comment is hidden for some reason? I will try again. What is a leftist and what has he done that helps average people? Where is the healthcare plan from 10 years ago?