Lilly, I am a stay-at-home mom, in a town where I have no friends or family. I also do not drive. My fiance recently got accepted into a program that will take him away from my son and I for two whole months. Even as I type this, my chest feels tight, and I dread the empty, lonely feelings that are to come. You are so loved, girl. This too shall pass.
Stay strong, hun. I believe you can pass this state of loneliness. Even if I don't know you personally, the fact that you'll have to deal with this makes you a brave and an amazing person! (:
You are loved too, girl! Finding new people to talk to or activities will help both you and your son so you can feel better during the upcoming two months. And also remember - he will be back soon. I truly wish you all the best!
I seriously love you and I hope your feelings of loneliness go away. It is a constant battle but remember that down the line when it is all done, you won't be saying "Hey, look at all the deadlines I made". You'll say to yourself or Chase or Anoshnie" Wow, remember your wedding day? or the time we laughed so hard we cried" Success is important Lilly but it won't give you the most joy or the best memories. Try very hard to make a balance. I will always support and wish you the best.
I honestly feel like everyone who lives in LA or leaves their homeplace, end up feeling lonely. For example, Yousef left his old home and he's been feeling lonely, going through depression etc. And now Lilly, leaving Toronto to come to LA, has been making her feel lonely...
I've watched you for years and you have changed but guess what you've changed into this beautiful hardworking woman that shows a different view of life that not many people know. You've changed into this woman that many people look up to and I think that's amazing. Keep up your great work but make sure that you have you time and have so much fun too😊
just remember Lilly, every time someone plays your videos, you are included in their life. and I get that's not tangible and it's not what you're talking about. but, you make such an impact on so many people's daily lives. it really is precious. I know in the few months I've watched you daily, you've made me change. I know make a conscious effort to be positive and stay laughing. you're loved by so many in a world that genuinely lacks so much love. ❤💙💚💛💜👍
I so identify with you here; Doing so much work (editing, for me) for so many people, while not having the opportunity to chill with anyone ever, It's really, really sad. Keep shining though, please. You are doing wonderful work. The times will come as they should❤️
Such a good point about personal growth and how people tell you you've changed! Sometimes I feel like "how in the world are you pinning me down when I don't even know everything about myself?!" It's a tad frustrating.
I just wanted to say that your positive attitude is something i've been trying to channel lately, and it is really working. If something bad happens, I accept it and think of ways to move forward, which is something my mental health has always stopped me achieving. I'm just one small 19 year old in a corner of England, but your positivity and drive has really helped me. Thank you so much, and sending you all the good vibes. X
People whose days are brightened by Lilly..Raise your hands xo xo i was just having the worst day ever..but ur vlogs just brighten my mood up.. Rather just hearing ur voice, watching u smile, brings a smile on my face. U are my medicine.. Everytime when i feel sad i start watching your videos all over again. I just love u, Lilly. U are my inspiration.
I JUST HAD AN IDEA, whenever she finishes those inspirational cards, she could sort out the ones she liked more, put them on a frame and hang it on a wall, so whenever she needed something to lift her spirit up or some motivation to get some work done she could read it easily. Also I guess it would look really cute. What do you think? Love you Lilly
I am the most proud Canadian ever. I wouldn't move away from here for a million dollars. I was really disappointed when I went on youtube on Canada day and saw a 4th of July DIY on my recomendations but then I saw your video and laughed and showed it to my family and told my friends and it honestly made my day. Luv u!
Lily, that's so awesome to see you know how much you've changed and grown and like want to continue to do that. It's so not easy to change when you want to change either (all that about wanting to learn to chill and everything) and I admire you for recognizing that and continuing to want to pursue that for you and for your emotional health. You got this girl, you know you so you do you!
Hey Lilly I don't want to sound stalkery or anything but I saw your house in LA and I was. So happy to know that I was on the same street as you I am such a huge fan 💕
I understand what you're saying about feeling lonely. I feel like I've been falling into depression & your story has helped me so much. Lilly. Thank you for being who you are and doing what you do❤️
I love that you are so determined with your work. I understand that it's not easy for you to 'chill' and that's OK because you are so hard working. Never stop because some youtubers don't work and they just chill. I love that you care about your career. It would be nice if you just relaxed once in a while so you wouldn't feel this way sometimes.
Lilly don't worry about the lonely thing. Let me grow here on UA-cam and then when I'm on tour, I'll come visit and remove the word Lonely from your vocabulary
Lilly plz dont feel left out. or sad.. You know you have millions of people that love you and will support you no matter what~!! If you feel lonely you can keep connected with your supporters!!! We love you lilly! You are our fave and we'll support you for ever!!!
You deserve being the productive person that you are. You deserve being able to relax and you deserve being able to work and then hang out with your peeps. You are the person who inspires me to be the person I am. Once I started watching you, I got out of my depression. So I would just like to say Thank you and You deserve being happy and being able to chill and have fun and party.
Braiding hair is one of the best calming things ever! I always play and braid my hair whenever I'm bored or stressed. Somehow I find it fun. Lol. Hope you feel better.
I'm glad Yousef came over. He knows how it feels to live alone and he's gone been through worse than you did Lils. Please don't go that far. Take care Lils❤
It's quite fitting today's card being personal growth considering the topics you discussed in this video. It's refreshing to see someone so reflective on themselves as a person, it's a great example to set your audience that it's ok to admit you're going on a path that isn't right for you, not necessarily a bad path but a path in the wrong direction.
Dear Lilly, You are legit so amazing! I don't know how you are always so positive :) When I watch your videos it just makes me sooo happy!!! Like I could be crying my eyes out and *ting* get a notification watch your video to "Wow I just turned into a unicorn!" Please keep doing what you do!!!!!!!
Hey, I totally feel you on the being bad at the work/play. I was feeling similar yesterday and I was seconds from breaking down. Thanks for sharing that. It is so ridiculously not easy.
Lily omg I swear feel like everyday you're going through the same thing as me. I feel lonely in my hometown because I've been back from my university and I have maybe 2 friends here but I am in a research program and that's all I do is go to work at the hospital, working towards my goal of being an anesthesiologist but I feel like I am having no fun and I'm already awkward so making new friends is merely impossible with my anxiety and bleh. You're such an inspiration, keep going I know you can do it. Everything gets better
I think this one sentence of yours cHANGED ME positively. I choose to be happy. I really do I just couldn't accept it and let myself suffer on a daily basis. From tomorrow (as it's night here) I'm going to choose my path and not think I'm on the right one already. Thank you.
Glad to see Lilly spend some more quality time with friends in L.A. It really is about recognizing when you can and cannot afford to work and/or play! You hope that fam & friends understand and not get offended during the peak times so that the leisure moments can be well spent together!! Sometimes a lack of balance can cause r'ships to crumble but that's recognizable and can be fixed if it is an r'ship that is worth fixing aka an r'ship that is not intoxicating and encourages or appreciates growth!!
I understand how it feel. When I was working through my GCSEs I just wanted to focus on my work and studying and kind of was feeling lonely . But I found even just face timing or sky ping one of my friends and talking was good enough to keep me going and keep me socially sane. One love xx
So just to clarify, here are all the Superwoman ships: Superwoman and Fouseytube Superwoman and Nigahiga Superwoman and Humble Superwoman and D-Trix Superwoman and Pueblo Ok. Did I miss anyone?
That process of loneliness to meditation and bob Marley is literally me 😂 good to know someone can relate. Also the first step to changing your work/social balance is recognizing it so good for you !!
Man, totally know how you feel about wanting to feel included, but also knowing that sacrifice gets you to where you want to be. Internal struggle for dayzzz., but we gonna bawse thru life anywayz. Sending you love and positivity cupcakes
congrats on 4million instagram followers! your vlogs literally make my day and you're so inspiring! i don't understand what makes people say that change is a bad thing though? everybody changes and most of the time people change for the better. we grow every day and we learn a lot of new things, we learn from our mistakes and that's what changes us. i do think you've changed, but not as a bad thing. anyways love you lots, great vlog and lots of love from finland
When you're sad, I feel like it's because your working and when your friends were all having a fun time, you had to deal with that in your head while you were sitting alone... Love you 💚💚💚
Man, superwoman i so wish i could meet you. you are like a reflection of me, the exact same thoughts and feelings go through my mind. the only way i keep going is through work. i don't know how to put myself out there socially. i'm horrible at the balance. your videos do help me quite a bit though especially when i get down thinking i'm not good at balance or handling myself well. you give me a lot of strength. thank you
I feel that Lilly has changed but in a good way. I love to binge watch her videos and I watch them from the beginning. With each video, she looks happier which makes me feel happy because I know that if she can make it then so can I
Have you tried planned hangouts? Like, pick a day in a week from now when you know you are free and make sure its a weekend and just plan to casually chill with some people. Even if something come up or some opportunity arises, prioritize this chill time over it. The idea is, that like you have rejuvenation Sunday (which looks like you do household chores for most of it) have a Chill-Time-Saturday where every maybe 2 weeks or whatever suits you, you watch a movie, go to a fancy restaurant, go on a hike, have a heart to heart or something similar :) Best of luck!!!
I know how you feel about being lonely and all because I recently moved countries and I really want to be included in all the activities my friends to back home. But I have so much work to do that I don't even have time to talk to my friends there properly so they tell me I've changed when I've only gotten busy and have priorities. I made new friends here too but I am always caught up. I just stay home all the time now and it does get depressing. Stay calm and stay positive. That's all we can do :)
I am terrible with the work life balance too. I love my work so I often become overly involved in moving it forward. This may sound bad but because I have to schedule everything for work I do the same for my personal life so I am able to see people and live a little because, like you I tend to get lonely. Everything doesn't fall into a schedule since life is change, sometimes someone asks to hang out that you haven't seen in a while or something pops up for work that really needs your attention. Whenever things pop up I always try to take a second and think 'Does this fit into my life at the moment/Is this something I need/ Is this something critical that needs to be done/etc.?' It's hard to do and sometimes I get carried away and don't even think to reflect but most of the time it helps. :)
Lilly, Thank you for that speech about personal growth because I was looking back at old photo's of me and I saw how amazing I looked (no acne and not as fat (I'm not saying that I am fat but you know what I mean.)) and I remembered how pure I was back then, how I didn't get involved in drama and I didn't see all kinds of impure things. And with the speech that you made really made me feel happier thinking that it's ok for me to change and that everyone changes. So thank you for saying that. :)
About the whole changing thing, I would agree that in the 3 years I've been watching you, you have changed but like you said, that isn't a bad thing. To me those 3 years seem like a few months and I've always considered you wise, motivational, down to earth, and just in general amazing. I look up to you just as much as I ever did, maybe even more. you make me laugh through my tears with your crazy personality and inspire me to be a better person everyday. You talk about things you're passionate about a lot more than you did before, but NEVER say anything negative about another human or say that someone with the opposite point of view is wrong. I know you don't actually care if people think you've changed in a negative way and that you were just clarifying but that makes me sort of upset that anyone could think of you as anything less than great. I also know though, that I shouldn't get upset by others' opinions so I figured I'd approach this like you would've and not say anything to anyone or respond to a negative comment, but simply state my own opinion. Thank you for teaching me that, and for everything else you've done for me. You've always been amazing but I'm also glad you've changed because it makes me so happy to see your growth and watch you accomplish so much. You truly deserve everything you've gotten, and so much more. 💕
I went on a mini rant once about the whole "change" thing as being an insult. And it reminds me of the break down one of my friends gave me of the crow scene from The Wiz. They represent the people of the community who want you to stay the same, they don't want you to grow cause they can't, or won't. The 30 yr olds who stay at home and don't try to move out. They tell you that you can't do whatever it is because they wouldn't chase their dreams. Change is necessary, you can't not change or you're stagnant. So people with that need to chill. Don't hold people down like you're a rock. Push people up like a breeze. Cheesy but true.
Lilly I totally understand...it's hard to fine that balance...not everyone gets this...it's a hustler mine set...But you are so right...you have too work extra hard to give urself that break! I Heart you girl :)...(Mom of 4 here)
Lilly!!!❤ Sometimes it is absolutely fine to be alone and feel lonely because that is the time when u realize how much u love your friends and also how much you need them throughout. Sometimes it is not possible to make it up with them but imagine how happy they would be after they figure out your achievements so just stay concentrated and stay happy coz everyday is a new day as you know😘😘. Hoping to welcome you in Toronto again soon.
yes, literally, yes! change can be so good. i think the ability to always grow and change and discover new perspectives and deepen your understanding of something or gaining knowledge, and letting that change you for the better, is one of the best gifts of the human mind. to be able to absorb information and grow and making new revelations and letting that inspire character growth... that's so, so important. always. you can't always have the same thoughts, same ideologies, or life your entire life being ignorant, or let your pride get in the way of gaining a fresh, broader perspective on your existence or on an issue you never thought you'd think about, because that change humbles you. i'm a mess of words because it's 6am and i haven't slept all night because i'm trying to fix my sleeping schedule and i have a long day ahead of me and i'm tired but... yes. love you lilly
I don't know if you'll read this comment but I just wanna say that out of most of the UA-camrs I watch on UA-cam, you are the one that is most passionate and persistent in the work place. Your efforts are more than appreciated. I think that at the end of the day, you should allow yourself to have more leisure time and let your mind off of things; thus not having to feel lonely so often. At the end of the day, it all comes down to having good memories. Why have memories of just working and working and working and not have (more) memories of fun times with your friends and family?
It's good that you can acknowledge the fact that you are feeling lonely. Sometimes that's the hardest part. Once you know what's up its easier to do something about it, even if it is hard acknowledging it will make it easier. Schedule yourself some you time. If you put it on your to-do list it will make it a task but remember it's just as important as everything else on your list. xo
After a long hard day at work I used to come home and watch your vlogs and think "why am I stressing so much when lilly gets so much done in her day and is still happy and energetic" your vlogs made me feel better, even if it costed your freedom lol sorry wehh, but you a hustlerrrr
Stay positive and strong, Lilly. It's probably incredibly hard trying to balance what you do and your leisure time which is why NONE of us could possibly be able to relate and so words would be empty- what we can give you is lots of love and send you positive vibes and pixie dust and unicorn glitter
1) Swimming alone is really good for meditation/mental focus. coming up with ideas. 2) Maybe more collabs so you can see people and work at the same time 3) The problem with the books is that you need way bigger bookshelves. That shelf is tiny!
How does she bend like that! Have you seen Lindsey's video!?
hahaha
Lily!!!!!😘😘😘😘💋
omg ikr !!!
That's pretty cool , looking forward to your video Lilly :)!
YES!! Its so amazing!!! I dont know how she does it!!
Lilly, I am a stay-at-home mom, in a town where I have no friends or family. I also do not drive. My fiance recently got accepted into a program that will take him away from my son and I for two whole months. Even as I type this, my chest feels tight, and I dread the empty, lonely feelings that are to come. You are so loved, girl. This too shall pass.
Stay strong, hun. I believe you can pass this state of loneliness. Even if I don't know you personally, the fact that you'll have to deal with this makes you a brave and an amazing person! (:
You are loved too, girl! Finding new people to talk to or activities will help both you and your son so you can feel better during the upcoming two months. And also remember - he will be back soon.
I truly wish you all the best!
You are not alone hun!! I am going through same phase
Remember just to stay strong! :)
Take this opportunity to work on yourself! Find a hobby and do something you love. Reward yourself :)
I seriously love you and I hope your feelings of loneliness go away. It is a constant battle but remember that down the line when it is all done, you won't be saying "Hey, look at all the deadlines I made". You'll say to yourself or Chase or Anoshnie" Wow, remember your wedding day? or the time we laughed so hard we cried" Success is important Lilly but it won't give you the most joy or the best memories. Try very hard to make a balance. I will always support and wish you the best.
I am so glad I helped. I wish the best for you also! #GirlLove *****
I honestly feel like everyone who lives in LA or leaves their homeplace, end up feeling lonely. For example, Yousef left his old home and he's been feeling lonely, going through depression etc. And now Lilly, leaving Toronto to come to LA, has been making her feel lonely...
preach it
Two days no handshake, she's changed
hahahah😂😂😂
SHIT THAT WAS A GOOD ONE😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol 😂
NO SHE HASN
I saw Lilly and yousef and I clicked so fast😂😂
Ikr😂
same!I just saw yousefs vlog
Me 2 faster than I ever have
hopefully they give it a try I shipppppp themmmm❤❤ and they both need someone
Meeeeee toooooo!
I've watched you for years and you have changed but guess what you've changed into this beautiful hardworking woman that shows a different view of life that not many people know. You've changed into this woman that many people look up to and I think that's amazing. Keep up your great work but make sure that you have you time and have so much fun too😊
I love that you've changed bc now you talk more about serious things and I appreciate that a lot!
just remember Lilly, every time someone plays your videos, you are included in their life. and I get that's not tangible and it's not what you're talking about. but, you make such an impact on so many people's daily lives. it really is precious. I know in the few months I've watched you daily, you've made me change. I know make a conscious effort to be positive and stay laughing. you're loved by so many in a world that genuinely lacks so much love. ❤💙💚💛💜👍
I so identify with you here; Doing so much work (editing, for me) for so many people, while not having the opportunity to chill with anyone ever, It's really, really sad. Keep shining though, please. You are doing wonderful work. The times will come as they should❤️
Such a good point about personal growth and how people tell you you've changed! Sometimes I feel like "how in the world are you pinning me down when I don't even know everything about myself?!" It's a tad frustrating.
YOUSEF WAS SUPPOSED TO GIVE HER A LAP DANCE!!! WHERE WAS IT?? I DIDN'T SEE IT. DID YOU SEE IT? DID YOU? HUH?
He did a teaser lap dance in his vlog!
it's on dose of fousey
hahahaha it was so cringy
They still didn't do it. They just did a teaser on yousefs vlog channel.
CHECK HIS VLOG CHANNEL
Can I just say that I absolutely LOVED the rant about personal growth in the beginning of this video?!?!? I definitely agree. Thanks for sharing. 👏🏼👏🏼
Hey you, reading this: you're beautiful and awesome!! ❤️
You're awesome and beautiful too, hope u have a good day ❤️
Thank you!❤️ Same to you 😄
Then we're twins!
Thank You. You 2
u too
I just wanted to say that your positive attitude is something i've been trying to channel lately, and it is really working. If something bad happens, I accept it and think of ways to move forward, which is something my mental health has always stopped me achieving. I'm just one small 19 year old in a corner of England, but your positivity and drive has really helped me. Thank you so much, and sending you all the good vibes. X
I SHIP LILLY AND FOUSEY SO HARD
Sameeee!!!!
omg same fousey has that gentle man and full heart for lily u could tell he likes her but idk about lily 💖💖💖 I ship them so baddddddddd
Same!! 😭😭
why u deleting comments bitch,ur weak ass can't handle stuff so u resort to censor
Cutie Zalbu who are you talking to?
People whose days are brightened by Lilly..Raise your hands xo xo
i was just having the worst day ever..but ur vlogs just brighten my mood up..
Rather just hearing ur voice, watching u smile, brings a smile on my face.
U are my medicine..
Everytime when i feel sad i start watching your videos all over again.
I just love u, Lilly. U are my inspiration.
I JUST HAD AN IDEA, whenever she finishes those inspirational cards, she could sort out the ones she liked more, put them on a frame and hang it on a wall, so whenever she needed something to lift her spirit up or some motivation to get some work done she could read it easily. Also I guess it would look really cute. What do you think? Love you Lilly
I am the most proud Canadian ever. I wouldn't move away from here for a million dollars. I was really disappointed when I went on youtube on Canada day and saw a 4th of July DIY on my recomendations but then I saw your video and laughed and showed it to my family and told my friends and it honestly made my day.
Luv u!
Lilly u and fousey are goals why not give it a try...
Lily, that's so awesome to see you know how much you've changed and grown and like want to continue to do that.
It's so not easy to change when you want to change either (all that about wanting to learn to chill and everything) and I admire you for recognizing that and continuing to want to pursue that for you and for your emotional health.
You got this girl, you know you so you do you!
Hey Lilly I don't want to sound stalkery or anything but I saw your house in LA and I was. So happy to know that I was on the same street as you I am such a huge fan 💕
WHTA VLOG IT PLEASE
+mylifeasstef if she did people will go and stalk her
+mylifeasstef noooo Lilly wouldn't want people to know where she lives lol
+mylifeasstef r u serious?! respect her privacy smh
+mylifeasstef no idiot
I understand what you're saying about feeling lonely. I feel like I've been falling into depression & your story has helped me so much. Lilly. Thank you for being who you are and doing what you do❤️
Yousef when he said "Ghess who her cuddling partner isss " I got chills!😍😭
I love that you are so determined with your work. I understand that it's not easy for you to 'chill' and that's OK because you are so hard working. Never stop because some youtubers don't work and they just chill. I love that you care about your career. It would be nice if you just relaxed once in a while so you wouldn't feel this way sometimes.
Lilly don't worry about the lonely thing. Let me grow here on UA-cam and then when I'm on tour, I'll come visit and remove the word Lonely from your vocabulary
Ohhhh yesss
Haha, good luck man
I respect the goals lol
Tariq! You deserve so many more subs
Your dope for just starting out and stuff
Lilly plz dont feel left out. or sad.. You know you have millions of people that love you and will support you no matter what~!! If you feel lonely you can keep connected with your supporters!!! We love you lilly! You are our fave and we'll support you for ever!!!
I WATCHED FOUSEY'S VIDEO BEFORE BED AND I DREAMED ABOUT LILY AND HIM DATING
Sameeeeee they need to date
You deserve being the productive person that you are. You deserve being able to relax and you deserve being able to work and then hang out with your peeps. You are the person who inspires me to be the person I am. Once I started watching you, I got out of my depression. So I would just like to say Thank you and You deserve being happy and being able to chill and have fun and party.
You remind me of chapstick because you're the balm
Omg that was amazing
I subed
Omg😂😂😂
YASSS
OMIGODDD LMAOOO😂😂👏🏽
Braiding hair is one of the best calming things ever! I always play and braid my hair whenever I'm bored or stressed. Somehow I find it fun. Lol. Hope you feel better.
"I will cuddle with you because you have muscles and I enjoy that"😂👌🏼
I'm glad Yousef came over. He knows how it feels to live alone and he's gone been through worse than you did Lils. Please don't go that far. Take care Lils❤
Just found your channels and I'm binge watching right now 😂
Welcome to the fam ❤️
welcome
welcome to teamsuper
+Sarah Swati 🦄
Thanks everyone 🦄
It's quite fitting today's card being personal growth considering the topics you discussed in this video. It's refreshing to see someone so reflective on themselves as a person, it's a great example to set your audience that it's ok to admit you're going on a path that isn't right for you, not necessarily a bad path but a path in the wrong direction.
i looked at yosefs vlog earlier today and lilly finally got her lap dance from him
xD
No he said it was a warm up. He said the real one is coming real soon. I think this week
**Teaser
Thanks for telling! Imma check that out right now!!!
It was a teaser lol!..but he said there will be another one 😂🙊
Dear Lilly,
You are legit so amazing! I don't know how you are always so positive :) When I watch your videos it just makes me sooo happy!!! Like I could be crying my eyes out and *ting* get a notification watch your video to "Wow I just turned into a unicorn!" Please keep doing what you do!!!!!!!
this is the 50th blog in a row i have watched
*vlog
Dano A. lol i hate autocorrect thanks
Hey, I totally feel you on the being bad at the work/play. I was feeling similar yesterday and I was seconds from breaking down. Thanks for sharing that. It is so ridiculously not easy.
lilly and yousef are so otp. i cant even
Lily omg I swear feel like everyday you're going through the same thing as me. I feel lonely in my hometown because I've been back from my university and I have maybe 2 friends here but I am in a research program and that's all I do is go to work at the hospital, working towards my goal of being an anesthesiologist but I feel like I am having no fun and I'm already awkward so making new friends is merely impossible with my anxiety and bleh. You're such an inspiration, keep going I know you can do it. Everything gets better
I'm on my period but your video made mefeel so much better!!!
Same
same
i feel for you 😘
Yup same
same
I think this one sentence of yours cHANGED ME positively. I choose to be happy. I really do I just couldn't accept it and let myself suffer on a daily basis. From tomorrow (as it's night here) I'm going to choose my path and not think I'm on the right one already. Thank you.
I love Lindsey !!!
happy fourth of july , lily!!!!
Glad to see Lilly spend some more quality time with friends in L.A. It really is about recognizing when you can and cannot afford to work and/or play! You hope that fam & friends understand and not get offended during the peak times so that the leisure moments can be well spent together!!
Sometimes a lack of balance can cause r'ships to crumble but that's recognizable and can be fixed if it is an r'ship that is worth fixing aka an r'ship that is not intoxicating and encourages or appreciates growth!!
I do ZERO work everyday....i feel so bad. i'm waaaay too good at hanging out and having fun
I understand how it feel. When I was working through my GCSEs I just wanted to focus on my work and studying and kind of was feeling lonely . But I found even just face timing or sky ping one of my friends and talking was good enough to keep me going and keep me socially sane. One love xx
lilly you need to go on vacation!! take some free time just to relax that's what you need👌🏻
so happy that you're finally hanging out with your friends, it's so good to see you happy ❤️
NOTIFICATION SQUAD WHERE U AT???
RIGHT HERE!!!
we is right here teamsuper!#one love
for the first time damn so early.
right here🤑
ayee
Thanks for talking to us everyday and making us a part of your family, Lilly. I truly feel special 😊 sending lots of love and hugs from Canada 💕
So just to clarify, here are all the Superwoman ships:
Superwoman and Fouseytube
Superwoman and Nigahiga
Superwoman and Humble
Superwoman and D-Trix
Superwoman and Pueblo
Ok. Did I miss anyone?
+Lara C Oh yeah!
humble?!!? humble is like a brother and you forgot Aman
Don't forget superwoman and Swoozie
Hmmm you must be new. There's also inkquisitive #Amilly Aman+Lilly
#TeamFousey tho
That process of loneliness to meditation and bob Marley is literally me 😂 good to know someone can relate. Also the first step to changing your work/social balance is recognizing it so good for you !!
WE WANT THE LAP DANCE
It's on his vlog channel
itg"s just a tease.
+Damaris Alberto no it's not
+Athena Sloan yes. The teaser is
Man, totally know how you feel about wanting to feel included, but also knowing that sacrifice gets you to where you want to be. Internal struggle for dayzzz., but we gonna bawse thru life anywayz. Sending you love and positivity cupcakes
So this is what Lilly did on my birthday...... 😂
Happy birthday wonderful =)
+Kiauna it was yesterday but thank you❤
it was my birthday too!! heeeeeey birthdaaaaay twin #july3
+Leisha-gaye Usher ayyyy xD
+Hanan Mansoor HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
Lindsey was the first UA-cam I ever subscribed too. One of absolute favorites!!
This type of camera doesn't flatter Fousey's nose lmao
Aye Jimin I see you
Ayyyyy Jimin
BAHHAHAHAH OMG
congrats on 4million instagram followers! your vlogs literally make my day and you're so inspiring! i don't understand what makes people say that change is a bad thing though? everybody changes and most of the time people change for the better. we grow every day and we learn a lot of new things, we learn from our mistakes and that's what changes us. i do think you've changed, but not as a bad thing. anyways love you lots, great vlog and lots of love from finland
12:39 you look like Envy from a show called Fullmetal Alchemist
Yass! That's what she looked like!
Uh oh.
yeah the way she did her hair and the headband
No.
i can see it. but envy look isn't what most people would like to go for
When you're sad, I feel like it's because your working and when your friends were all having a fun time, you had to deal with that in your head while you were sitting alone... Love you 💚💚💚
swoozie or fousey?
Lmao I hear both 😂
Fousey👌
+Nika D he seems to like swoozie more
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+Lhora Denise Aquino well she hasn't kissed Swoozie or Fousey but she has kissed D-trix so D-trix
I hope it gets easier for you Lilly. I'm going to support you through it all.
Did Yousef ever give Lilly the lap dance or did I miss that vlog?!
Not yet but he gave her teaser of what the lap dance is going to be like on dose of fousey
Man, superwoman i so wish i could meet you. you are like a reflection of me, the exact same thoughts and feelings go through my mind. the only way i keep going is through work. i don't know how to put myself out there socially. i'm horrible at the balance. your videos do help me quite a bit though especially when i get down thinking i'm not good at balance or handling myself well. you give me a lot of strength. thank you
I SHIP YOU AND FOUSEY
I was kinda having a bad night, but then I watched this vlog and seeing Lilly decide to be happy made me do the same. So thank you Lilly ❤️❤️
Who saw the mini lap dance Yousef gave Lili on his vlog?
Which vlog?!?!?!
+shaterrica spearman his new one today
I feel that Lilly has changed but in a good way. I love to binge watch her videos and I watch them from the beginning. With each video, she looks happier which makes me feel happy because I know that if she can make it then so can I
people that whine "you changed" are only upset because their lives are going no where, while yours is.
Have you tried planned hangouts? Like, pick a day in a week from now when you know you are free and make sure its a weekend and just plan to casually chill with some people. Even if something come up or some opportunity arises, prioritize this chill time over it. The idea is, that like you have rejuvenation Sunday (which looks like you do household chores for most of it) have a Chill-Time-Saturday where every maybe 2 weeks or whatever suits you, you watch a movie, go to a fancy restaurant, go on a hike, have a heart to heart or something similar :) Best of luck!!!
Maybe try working in public places? That's what I'm doing. I take my Laptop to the library and just work there. So much better :)
That is a really really good idea!
Starbucks is a great place to work
deleting comments and censoring well done sir hahah sensitive ass
Cutie Zalbu what now?
*it's crazy to me that someone as beautiful as u have sacrifices to make* .ILY LILLY! ur a such a great inspiration... WHO AGREES?
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I know how you feel about being lonely and all because I recently moved countries and I really want to be included in all the activities my friends to back home. But I have so much work to do that I don't even have time to talk to my friends there properly so they tell me I've changed when I've only gotten busy and have priorities. I made new friends here too but I am always caught up. I just stay home all the time now and it does get depressing. Stay calm and stay positive. That's all we can do :)
Fousey and Lily ❤❤👌
I'm sorry that you're going through a hard time. I hope you're able to figure out how to balance work and friendships. I wish you lots of happiness !
i cant be the only one that ships lily and fousey
I am terrible with the work life balance too. I love my work so I often become overly involved in moving it forward. This may sound bad but because I have to schedule everything for work I do the same for my personal life so I am able to see people and live a little because, like you I tend to get lonely. Everything doesn't fall into a schedule since life is change, sometimes someone asks to hang out that you haven't seen in a while or something pops up for work that really needs your attention. Whenever things pop up I always try to take a second and think 'Does this fit into my life at the moment/Is this something I need/ Is this something critical that needs to be done/etc.?' It's hard to do and sometimes I get carried away and don't even think to reflect but most of the time it helps. :)
hey Lilly
No woman is an island!!!
You need human contact, people energize you. Do you need a roommate. ..perhaps .....
Peace and Love
where did you get the island thing from. ive seen/ heared it somewhere. was it from one of lillys vlogs
+Sasha Peters It is an old saying...it is actually "no man is an island" Goggle it for the meaning.
+Sasha Peters No man is an island comes in POTC
Lilly, Thank you for that speech about personal growth because I was looking back at old photo's of me and I saw how amazing I looked (no acne and not as fat (I'm not saying that I am fat but you know what I mean.)) and I remembered how pure I was back then, how I didn't get involved in drama and I didn't see all kinds of impure things. And with the speech that you made really made me feel happier thinking that it's ok for me to change and that everyone changes. So thank you for saying that. :)
YOU ARE AMAZING, YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS TOUGH MOMENT, WE LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT!
About the whole changing thing, I would agree that in the 3 years I've been watching you, you have changed but like you said, that isn't a bad thing. To me those 3 years seem like a few months and I've always considered you wise, motivational, down to earth, and just in general amazing. I look up to you just as much as I ever did, maybe even more. you make me laugh through my tears with your crazy personality and inspire me to be a better person everyday. You talk about things you're passionate about a lot more than you did before, but NEVER say anything negative about another human or say that someone with the opposite point of view is wrong. I know you don't actually care if people think you've changed in a negative way and that you were just clarifying but that makes me sort of upset that anyone could think of you as anything less than great. I also know though, that I shouldn't get upset by others' opinions so I figured I'd approach this like you would've and not say anything to anyone or respond to a negative comment, but simply state my own opinion. Thank you for teaching me that, and for everything else you've done for me. You've always been amazing but I'm also glad you've changed because it makes me so happy to see your growth and watch you accomplish so much. You truly deserve everything you've gotten, and so much more. 💕
you should write a book about positivity and self love that would help so many people and you're so good at it!!
The arena is one of my favorite vids from her. I replayed that part like 20 times
I went on a mini rant once about the whole "change" thing as being an insult. And it reminds me of the break down one of my friends gave me of the crow scene from The Wiz. They represent the people of the community who want you to stay the same, they don't want you to grow cause they can't, or won't. The 30 yr olds who stay at home and don't try to move out. They tell you that you can't do whatever it is because they wouldn't chase their dreams. Change is necessary, you can't not change or you're stagnant. So people with that need to chill. Don't hold people down like you're a rock. Push people up like a breeze. Cheesy but true.
Lilly has been looking absolutely stunning lately!!!
I appreciate that you showing us some of your weak side and how you cope with it. It its an inspiration. Thank you, Lilly.
I feel lucky that I've got to meet lindsey in person. She's is one of the nicest/awesome/talented people I've ever met. You're lucky to be her friend.
Lilly I totally understand...it's hard to fine that balance...not everyone gets this...it's a hustler mine set...But you are so right...you have too work extra hard to give urself that break! I Heart you girl :)...(Mom of 4 here)
It's okay Lilly. You can do it! It might not be a good day today, but tomorrow will be a new day, and a better one!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lilly!!!❤ Sometimes it is absolutely fine to be alone and feel lonely because that is the time when u realize how much u love your friends and also how much you need them throughout. Sometimes it is not possible to make it up with them but imagine how happy they would be after they figure out your achievements so just stay concentrated and stay happy coz everyday is a new day as you know😘😘. Hoping to welcome you in Toronto again soon.
yes, literally, yes! change can be so good. i think the ability to always grow and change and discover new perspectives and deepen your understanding of something or gaining knowledge, and letting that change you for the better, is one of the best gifts of the human mind. to be able to absorb information and grow and making new revelations and letting that inspire character growth... that's so, so important. always. you can't always have the same thoughts, same ideologies, or life your entire life being ignorant, or let your pride get in the way of gaining a fresh, broader perspective on your existence or on an issue you never thought you'd think about, because that change humbles you. i'm a mess of words because it's 6am and i haven't slept all night because i'm trying to fix my sleeping schedule and i have a long day ahead of me and i'm tired but... yes. love you lilly
I don't know if you'll read this comment but I just wanna say that out of most of the UA-camrs I watch on UA-cam, you are the one that is most passionate and persistent in the work place. Your efforts are more than appreciated. I think that at the end of the day, you should allow yourself to have more leisure time and let your mind off of things; thus not having to feel lonely so often. At the end of the day, it all comes down to having good memories. Why have memories of just working and working and working and not have (more) memories of fun times with your friends and family?
I think Lilly is working on the biggest project ever because she's always working on secret projects which I feel are going to be amazing!🙌🏽
It's good that you can acknowledge the fact that you are feeling lonely. Sometimes that's the hardest part. Once you know what's up its easier to do something about it, even if it is hard acknowledging it will make it easier. Schedule yourself some you time. If you put it on your to-do list it will make it a task but remember it's just as important as everything else on your list. xo
After a long hard day at work I used to come home and watch your vlogs and think "why am I stressing so much when lilly gets so much done in her day and is still happy and energetic" your vlogs made me feel better, even if it costed your freedom lol sorry wehh, but you a hustlerrrr
Stay positive and strong, Lilly. It's probably incredibly hard trying to balance what you do and your leisure time which is why NONE of us could possibly be able to relate and so words would be empty- what we can give you is lots of love and send you positive vibes and pixie dust and unicorn glitter
People only say you've "changed" when you stop living life their way. Love you Lily. 😊
When shane and lilly are your facorite youtubers and lilly promotes shane. I feel all warm and happy and amazing. AHHHHHHHHHHH THE FANDOM IS REAL
1) Swimming alone is really good for meditation/mental focus. coming up with ideas.
2) Maybe more collabs so you can see people and work at the same time
3) The problem with the books is that you need way bigger bookshelves. That shelf is tiny!