.."If you childern don't read the lines right during the interview I will beat you with the Christmas tree"! LOL..What a classic, I hae hunted for this for years, thanks sooo much for adding it too UA-cam!
Christopher said his favorite Christmas Carol is Away in a Manger. I'm sure that's no accident. A lot of the nativity scenes make it look like baby Jesus is swaddled down in the crib.
"Christmas cant really be enjoyed without children...to take gifts away from. Then, when the tree is all lit, I force them to give up things they really love. Then I teach them that they're not truly worthy of gifts or love, but rather, they must earn love and said gifts. Because if this doesn't teach the true spirit of Christmas, nothing will."
When she takes away things that were meant to belong to her children, it is nothing less than stealing from them. That doesn't teach children anything other than how to be cruel and sinful.
That is cruel didn't she think viewers are going to think you cruel mother children seem rehearsed in what they are saying you imbocile Joan if I took away my daughters Barbie dream house she would cry for forever she is so proud of what she got plays with it everyday mommie dearest comments at full swing here so horrid for those children
Very true. There's no question Joan Crawford was abusive to Christina and Christopher. As the boy, Christopher wasn't as resilient as Christina and suffered many years of psychiatric issues as a result of his adoptive mother's cruelty to him. Christina always looked out for him as an adult, and supported him financially with the proceeds of 'Mommie Dearest' since he couldn't work - and of course Crawford had spitefully cut both elder adoptive children out of her will. As Kirk Douglas (among other visitors to the house) testified, Crawford would strap Christopher to his bed at nights, supposedly to stop him sleepwalking, but many suspect it was actually to stop him masturbating - she was utterly crazy.
Christina's gift was a can of Bon Ami and an ax. Christopher's gift was a new rope. The twins each got a cheap hanky from Woolworth's. And Joan gave herself a carton of Lucky Strikes and a bottle of Smirnoff Vodka.
Good or Bad she gets the attention. Always on people's minds. They will watch/ listen & comment from a little radio xmas segment from the 1940s . DAMN that woman is still the BOSS .
Truly loved? What a total bitch. Shame that they couldn't throw her away. Shame though, as they didn't truly love her anyway. My kids call me Mother Dearest. They probably couldn't if they saw the film about this. However, I love it as it's for fun and I love them. They are all grown up now
MYNDZ IYE Not so ! REAL giving is giving up something you love the most for the good of the other better that than giving something you dont care about or can afford JUST so you feel better about yourself for ..."giving " She was strict but in this case she was right She was teaching her kids if you're gonna give something to the other ? ..give it your ALL and THAT is the true meaning of giving !!
I find that a form of emotional abuse , too . To the child , how can they ever feel happy about getting a gift if they know they will probably have to give it up eventually ? That doesn't teach giving , it teaches there is no such thing as a. present given out of love.You can't force what she was trying to instill in her kids .It has to come from the heart .
@Linda Heasley you are so right. By forcing them to do this it can have the opposite effect. They could become hoarders. They will want to hang onto their stuff later in life.
@@ZEITGEISTism Then I suppose you yourself gave away the presents YOU really loved when you were young. What a superior person you are, a model for all sociopaths to emulate.
And "They don't give away the received Christmas gifts because it wouldn't be fair to the fans that sent them." What?? What about it being unfair to the children? Narcissistic mother without a doubt. The fans were her primary supply and her children were secondary. Listening to this audio has proven to me that Christina Crawford was telling the truth.
Joan: From tomorrow on, they earn their gifts. George: How do you mean they "earn them"? Joan: Well, if they stay on their good behavior, they're given the choice of what present they want next. Christopher had his birthday in October, and he still hasn't received all of his presents. George: Miss Crawford, why is Christopher displaying his middle finger in that manner? Joan: Beats me.
I'll be damned if I wake up by 6:30 am "the latest"!!!! just to eat breakfast before opening a bunch of gifts that I don't get to keep! Get the hell out of here! If that is not child cruelty...I don't know what is!
+jamarietwetty78 Duh! I never said Christmas is about getting presents!!! I said I'll be damned if someone wakes me up at 6:30 am for some bull💩I had nothing to do with setting up! Get your facts straight!
@@moralesk35 Child cruelty is it??? To donate the gazillions of expensive gifts they were fortunate to receive. Some kids don't have clean water to drink love. Others are starving and physically abused. Joan's Poor little rich kids having to donate gifts!!
Joan: I don’t see how any Christmas can be without children so I can take out all my Frustrations on them because, I’m Hollywood poison don’t you know George.
@@geminijohnson4019 He was prone to sleepwalking (supposedly). Christina had to SECRETLY unstrap him, so that he could use the bathroom. But she was forbidden to do so, in a big way. And Heaven forbid he should have an accident.
1949...a radio interview would be a challenge. The kids did a great job. The whole feeling of the interview reflects the awareness of the times...58 years ago...
Amazing,I just finished reading Mommie Dearest which contains a direct transcript of this recording.Christina wrote that all the responses were rehearsed and after the interview they were sent back to their rooms,had to change clothes and write "thank you" notes for days,for presents they were not allowed to keep.The best ones they had to take rewrapped to birthday parties of other children.
It's an outrage that abusive alcoholic Joan Crawford was allowed to adopt other people's innocent babies as a single parent. It meant those poor children were 100% at her mercy when she turned violent/abusive, without even a second parent to turn to. Appalling she was able to 'buy motherhood' like that - while claiming sainthood for having taken the children on! She was a vile hypocrite. Many witnesses attested Crawford was a cruel, sadistic control freak, and her first two adopted children suffered terribly at her hands. The twin girls she was later - outrageously - able to adopt had a better time of it because by then she had married Pepsi magnate Arnold Steele, who gave her financial and therefore emotional stability. Those two girls spent most of their childhoods in boarding school too, so they didn't get the brunt of JC's madness as poor Christina and Christopher did. Horrible how they claimed their older adopted siblings were lying about Crawford's abuse, just because they didn't experience it - psychologists are well aware children can be treated very differently in the same household, by abusive parental figures who have favourites, singling out other children for abuse. The twins should not have accused Christina of lying - her book 'Mommie Dearest' was clearly truthful, and it's only a shame she protected evil Joan Crawford and didn't release it till after her death. Crawford fully deserved to be exposed as a child abuser!
Christina & Christopher are both answering shakingly. Christopher's "Hello, everybody." Sounds like he was scared & nervous, his voice was cracking & sounded off.
Well, he was just a kid, there were sound people around and Radio microphones aimed at him, he probably WAS a little nervous and frightened and yes, this certainly sounds very scripted but I don't buy EVERY little tidbit of "how cruel" Joan was. Any of us could write a book about our own childhood and exaggerate certain facts. My dad could smack us as easily as joke around with us but I wouldn't write a book about it - (who would care, we weren't celebrities) - I think people are very quick to judge Joan Crawford, when none of us were actually on the scene.
Christopher was very traumatized by what took place in his childhood. The book mommie dearest details what Joan put him through, shipped him off to a foreign country after he got into minor trouble & tried to prevent him from re-entering the USA but Christina got him home again. Joan slso burned Christopher's hand as a punishment, so they got the full brunt of her bipolar, drunken rages. The twins were treated much better by Joan. They were 8 years younger than Christina & Christopher
@@irisheyes4935 The twins were 7 years younger than Christina and 4 years younger than Christopher. If you believe every part of this exaggerated book then I would ask if you have heard Christina's interviews over the decades and how her tale has been dramatically changed.
Amparo Valdivia Fernandez The one thing Joan Crawford was, she was a major movie star. And, one of the BEST actors, leading lady, in Holywood. Obviously, you're not old enough, to understand, or know that. No, she wasnt a good mother. But, when it came to her acting, she was the best, at what she did. Faye Dunaway, protrayed Joan Crawford, in Mommie Dearest, Surely, you do KNOW that, right?
She was one of the best!! Maybe they are lying because they thought she was gonna leave them her money but she didnt then all of that conveniently came out, she made up for it with the book money then she was so upset that she didnt get money from the movie that was based on her book. Really all I see is a gold digger, Joan can never tell her side ......
If my son Christopher still hadn't received all of his presents I don' think I'd be announcing it over the radio or TV for everyone to hear. Her snickering at this creeped me out.
Those kids seem scared during this and Joan is all serious I can tell the difference we will never what happened behind closed doors maybe she hurt Christina maybe she didn't
I'm not totally accepting everything Christina claimed . Half truths for sure . Maybe she made up the physical abuse stories because Joan's stringent ways of raising kids made the relationship very strained later on . This interview and Joan's answers didn't sit right with me .Think she tried too hard to micro manage her idea of how a family should act and was lacking on the emotional aspect of the family unit
I agree. I mean, she grew up knowing nothing of parental acceptance and love. Her father left when she was young and her mother favored her brother and showed her no love or affection. I blame parents on messed up kids/adults. Also, I can't say I believe Christinas book 100%. Even SHE said they embellished and over exaggerated/dramatized much that was portrayed in the movie.
I can only imagine the fear behind the children's scripted monologues, having full knowledge that if they screw up in the slightest, there is an axe or a wire hanger or a "simple slap across the face" waiting to happen once the radio crew leaves. Not to mention scrubbing the floors of the entire mansion by hand... spooky Christmas indeed.
Just listening to her...... They EARN their presents. (The old bag). My kids could be right gits but they had all their presents. She sounds horrid!! Even the kids sound like they are reading petrified from a script. Xxx
“Do you ever sneak downstairs to get a peek at Santa Claus?” No sir. That’s impossible since mother straps me into bed every night before I go to sleep.
The children were not allowed to keep any of the gifts except for only one. The rest were given away. The children were also expected to be completely silent until Joan woke up. Her standards for 'good behavior" was unattainable- perfection was expected.
They weren't allowed to go to the tree until after they finished breakfast...."They earn their Christmas gifts? " Christopher's birthday was in October and he still hasn't earned all his gifts? I never believed Christina's story, but listening to this, now i don't know how much she exaggerated and how much was spot on.
@Jarred Knox Exactly. No reason for her to exaggerate. She wasn't trying to become a career novelist, AFAIK. She just told the world who Joan really was. And Joan knew she was writing the book, as I recall. It wasn't published before her death but I seem to recall Joan finding out that she was writing it, which means it wasn't revenge like the movie implied. www.bustle.com/p/did-joan-crawford-know-about-mommie-dearest-her-daughters-book-is-forever-linked-with-her-legacy-53122
It think it might be because he turned 7 in October and they´re doing the interview in December - it´s a way of saying that to the person asking.....however it´s not a way of phrasing it we would use today which is why it sounds strange to us now :-)
The 'Davenport', the 'stately Colonial fireplace', the white carpet.....'excellent training for the children'....'earning' the rest of their gifts'. It's all so 'perfect'. Obviously, Mommie Dearest was a fairly accurate portrait of life with Saint Joan. She gets a LOT of digs in, against Christopher. And the organ in tremolo!!!! Thanks for posting this Gem!
just watched this scene in mommie dearest. i was abused all my life. the WHOLE movie i was stoic, then wire hanger scene i couldnt take. too close to home. i got beat with a wire hanger. but it was on the soul of my foot and on my tigh bc he knew that's where it hurt the most. :P my butt got so numb after the years
"And Christopher, what's your favorite Christmas carol "Ding, Dong, the Witch is DEAD!" "Uh, Christopher, that's not a Christmas Carol". "Yes, I know...wishful thinking. Considering I didn't get all of my birthday presents two months ago!"
The 'crinkle' sound you hear isn't wrapping paper- it's the children passing "Help Me" notes under the coffee table! 😮 Joan: "They wake early, I insist on feeding them, beating them...then it's present time! Hooray!" Merry Christmas Kids😕😬😣😢
hollywoodream30 because the twins wouldn't allow their names or likeness in the film, it would never get past legal. Notice other stars like Bette Davis, Douglas Fairbanks Jr and Myrna Loy weren't mentioned either for the very same reasons as they were all still living at the time.
That will forever kill me the fact that a child has to endure that till 12 years old. Not even to get up to go to the bathroom. Imagine the pain in sleeping like that
It was a harness that Christopher could slip in and out of at will. He walked in his sleep and one night was found in the middle of the road. Joan did this under the advice of a child psychologist. What, you expect her to do nothing and let him get run over. Such dumb ass comments.
JC said the kids dawdled over breakfast everyday of the year but at Xmas, breakfast was the quickest meal on record. To JC, I guess that meant Xmas was the day Christina ate her raw-to-blood rare steak without complaining.
Odd how she's the only one smiling in that photo...The two oldest ones are in fear of making mistakes and the two younger ones have seen them getting beaten,look how their looking at them.That picture speaks louder than the movie
Joan worked and she worked, and she heard people say, "she's getting old" and what did she get? A daughter who cared as much about her beautiful dresses as she cared about her. Joan gave her daughter $200 -$300 dollar dresses and she treated them like they were some dishrag.
@@socialdistancejusticewarri8533 I wonder if these various UA-cam families are as happy as they appear to be when they show their Vlogs! The above person mentioned that he sensed something suspicious going on in this interview! Hmm!
Had Joan had a normal childhood, I wonder what kind of mother she could have been? Most horrible childhood. She was too strict. She didn't have a normal childhood. I think she wanted everyone to think she had a happy home. I'm beginning to see things I didn't want to. Her childhood played a big role in how she parented her children. Now, I see she adopted them to be seen, mostly. It was all a show, I suppose. But, she was a darn good actress!! Seems like she was cruel, like her mother. She wanted a picture perfect family. Hurting people hurts others. I suppose Joan took her anger out on her children. I really didn't want to think, she was as bad as she obviously was. Live & learn!
This is so sad. The kids are clearly unhappy and sound very rehearsed. Joan was putting up her front as the big-hearted movie star who adopted four children - she used them as part of her public image to an appalling degree. Joan was clearly disturbed herself and never healed from her own childhood mistreatment, and she inflicted her childhood injustices on her adopted kids (especially Christina and Christopher). It's all just overwhelmingly sad to me.
Imagine if one of those kids flubbed a line or accidentally said the wrong word during this recording, when they were rehearsing. I expect Joan would have created a good punishment afterwards, to build character. There is so much subtext here behind the phony sentiments and Joan's haughty posturing. SNL should have done a parody of this in the 1990's; it's such a rich load of manure. Now, I doubt that life for her children was as ghastly as "Mommie Dearest" would indicate-- but I am sure those kids had a very hard time living in this crazy Hollywood bubble.
Very sad to listen to. The one part Joan couldn't play was loving parent. Its not a part you take on for six weeks at a time. Its a lifetime commitment. Adoption is tough on all parties. If you can't handle it, don't take the role. Crawford's answers are bizarre at best. Having heard this, I know the rumors were true. Sorry I played it.
Those kids lived in one of the most beautiful homes in Brentwood. Went to the best schools. Wore the finest clothes. I'm sure it wasn't THAT bad. They got through it and probably came out better than if Joan had never adopted them at all.
Why dont the other children speak on their life with the mother? I mean I find it odd that there are 3 other children who remain suspiciously silent one way or the other.
@@metalmonkey6262 I dont know. Is Tommy North whose family was featured in Yours, Mine, and Ours lying because the other 18 wont corroborate his claims of physical and sexual abuse?
@Vydio I agree! People with extreme Narcissistic Personality Disorder love to belittle those whom they consider "theirs". I noticed two particularly disturbing digs at Christopher during this short clip. And this while she's playing the part of "Loving Mother". One can only imagine the self-esteem destroying things she said and did when there was no audience.
I actually loved the "mad-at-the dirt" part. The wires thing I thought it was a bit overboard, I cant help but laugh at that specific line everytime I see it. But I was amazed at her job, even the pitch in her voice, the tone and the way of talking, the expressions, she was incredible. I think she was stolen, really!.
Joan's excess aversion to "wire coat hangers" was from her childhood of living above a dry cleaners that used them, her mother its employee and child Joan a sometime assistant.
BetterThanEmril Lol, it was a fluke. Friends took me out for dinner & a movie for my birthday. We were late & Mommie Dearest was about to begin... so in we went. My friends hated it, but this film made a lasting impression on me. I could probably recite the script, beginning to end. 😊
when this scene was acted in the movie, Christina said that they send most of the gifts to orphans. In this interview JC says they never give away presents because it's not fair to those who sent them.
This family could have been a really enjoyable experience. Too bad for Christina and Christopher it was a nightmare. As for the two younger children, they were much younger and Joan had mellowed out and learned from her mistakes.
Same here! Went through abuse as a child and no one cared, nor believed either. I believe Christina. She displays all signs of trauma endured, even the way her book goes, chaotically, just like the flashbacks of PTSD victims usually do.
The twins were under 2 yrs old and not one interruption from them? When was the last time you tried to keep one toddler quiet,let alone two?They weren't in that room
"Mommie LOVES giving to those less fortunate than us. Sometimes, she gives money to handsome twenty-something gentlemen. They come up to Mommie's room for Acting Lessons. I hear Mommie teaching them how to act frightened. My uncles always make lots of noise when studying with Mommie"
A lot of ppl discount Christina & Christopher’s stories of abuse. However, we must remember that every child has a different version of their childhood. Abusive households have the Golden child/children, the scapegoat and the target/targets. Just because the twins have nothing bad to say doesn’t mean that the others weren’t abused and mistreated. Plus the twins were a bit younger than the oldest 2. By the time they were school age the oldest 2 were off in boarding school.
This is downright terrifying! It's so obvious those kids were rehearsed and u can HEAR the tension in their voices. I believe "Mommie Dearest" was all too accurate.
In those days, children DID sound like that. Even the books made for children had this serious-polite tone. I have some that I often read my child and it always cought my attention about how much they talked about manners and such, but in an adult way, not like books today for children. Those were other days.
True,..plus they needed a template in order to keep it within it's time restraints. I wouldn't want to return to the 1940's, but the respect level that we had for people back then would be a nice breath of fresh air in today's society...
I actually AM aware of the circumstances surrounding "Mommie Dearest" and the controversy surrounding Christina Crawford's allegations. Even so, I still think this is hypocrisy, lying and child abuse. So DON'T FUCK WITH ME, YOU POMPOUS GASBAG!!!
"Have you ever tried to sneak downstairs and catch Saint Nick at work?" "Oh, no! Mommy would beat me if I tried to do that! Besides, she keeps me strapped to the bed so I can't get out of bed at all..." Merry Christmas Everybody!
Can you imagine how the radio audience in '49 was eating this nonsense up (especially at Xmas)? People were dabbing their tear-filled eyes with tissues and handkerchiefs , thinking "oh, what a marvelous actress she is. How kind and generous of her to take four adopted children and making them her own. What a tremendous mother she must be". Yeah, Joan was a good actress, but I'd certainly question how her mothering skills were after what Christina said about her.
Oh, I love it, juanitoelchico! I can just SEE Joan counting corn chips, and punishing Christopher because he'd poured too many into his bowl! "Waaahlll....there'll be no more presents this year for Christopher! He's gone and poured out five more chips than his daily ration. (as she pours the whole bowlful into the disposal). We don't want the children to grow up greedy and wasteful, now do we?" "No, Mommy Dearest", they chime in unison. "A wasteful child is an evil child."
Oh, agreed completely. I am getting a kick out of hearing the actual one though. I read Mommie Dearest, and some of it has to be true. I know she must have just exaggerated some of it, but it makes for good reading.
Christina’s wish for a Collie dog broke my heart. Sure, kids want dogs…. but you know damn well it was more than that, she just wanted to love something without restrictions that would love her back (not counting her poor POW brother)
Wow that’s a fascinating analysis of why she wanted that dog. Damn, it makes so much sense why she and any kid might want a dog, they want a being to unconditionally love them and whom they can enjoy giving love to. (7/25/24)
"...Now Miss Crawford, here's a question for you, at what time will the children awaken?" - "I'm afraid they'll be awakened at six-thirty at the latest. Christina needs to scrub the bathroom floor until it shines, fold all the clothes, and get started on those thank you notes right away. She also needs to separate her dresses hanging in her closet, I want them each to hang one inch apart from every other dress. Now, that is in addition to her other usual morning chores. Then if there's still time before the fake photo ops and evening chores, she may get to open one gift, and one gift only. The rest I will keep for repackaging and send them to the birthday parties of the children of my big celebrity friends." - "Will they awaken you?" - "Well George, I should hope not...but uf they do I have my hair brush handy just in case..."
"They have to earn their gifts" Because that is what Christmas is all about!
I kept waiting for one of the kids to whisper "send help"
.."If you childern don't read the lines right during the interview I will beat you with the Christmas tree"! LOL..What a classic, I hae hunted for this for years, thanks sooo much for adding it too UA-cam!
Christopher can't sneak downstairs when he's tied down, Mr. Fisher.
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Lol terrible
Right? Lol
😀😀😀😀😀 yep he was strapped in
Christopher said his favorite Christmas Carol is Away in a Manger. I'm sure that's no accident. A lot of the nativity scenes make it look like baby Jesus is swaddled down in the crib.
Damn Christopher still hasnt received all of his gifts since his birthday in October. She held the gifts hostage.
"Christmas cant really be enjoyed without children...to take gifts away from. Then, when the tree is all lit, I force them to give up things they really love. Then I teach them that they're not truly worthy of gifts or love, but rather, they must earn love and said gifts. Because if this doesn't teach the true spirit of Christmas, nothing will."
Christmas, birth anniversary of Jesus, who gave up His life for his love of humanity, for free.
"give up something they really love". that isn't giving. that is taking something away from them. giving is supposed to be genuine, forced unfairly.
They should have said, "We really love you Mommie Dearest."
Which is very typical of a pathological maternal narcissist.
When she takes away things that were meant to belong to her children, it is nothing less than stealing from them. That doesn't teach children anything other than how to be cruel and sinful.
That is cruel didn't she think viewers are going to think you cruel mother children seem rehearsed in what they are saying you imbocile Joan if I took away my daughters Barbie dream house she would cry for forever she is so proud of what she got plays with it everyday mommie dearest comments at full swing here so horrid for those children
@@e.erin. to give things away?
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mergirl2000 Dunne lol
hahahahahahaha thats great Mergirl
Just saying from personal experience, those two do not mix, you will end up in jail like how I did lol
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Is that the present you like best?
.....then that’s the one you can keep!
This time we'll make an exception
@@jkvelasquez84 After that l wud have asked to be sent the hell back.
Kids can definitely grow up different in the exact same household, from experience, my siblings and I had different upbringings in the same home
Well some are the “favorites”
Very true. There's no question Joan Crawford was abusive to Christina and Christopher. As the boy, Christopher wasn't as resilient as Christina and suffered many years of psychiatric issues as a result of his adoptive mother's cruelty to him. Christina always looked out for him as an adult, and supported him financially with the proceeds of 'Mommie Dearest' since he couldn't work - and of course Crawford had spitefully cut both elder adoptive children out of her will.
As Kirk Douglas (among other visitors to the house) testified, Crawford would strap Christopher to his bed at nights, supposedly to stop him sleepwalking, but many suspect it was actually to stop him masturbating - she was utterly crazy.
@@glamdolly30 She was evil incarnate monster.
Christina's gift was a can of Bon Ami and an ax.
Christopher's gift was a new rope.
The twins each got a cheap hanky from Woolworth's.
And Joan gave herself a carton of Lucky Strikes and a bottle of Smirnoff Vodka.
Lmfaoooo
I’m sure Joan got herself much more than her daily necessities…,”but I thought we were broke?…”
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I time from Hollywood gone by....never see the likes of it again...love this!!!
Good or Bad she gets the attention. Always on people's minds. They will watch/ listen & comment from a little radio xmas segment from the 1940s . DAMN that woman is still the BOSS .
Keep telling yourself that. We’re here for Christina and Christopher, the real ones.
"I make sure the children give away something they truly love." Time to start lying kids! This bright race car is just ok.
Truly loved? What a total bitch. Shame that they couldn't throw her away. Shame though, as they didn't truly love her anyway. My kids call me Mother Dearest. They probably couldn't if they saw the film about this. However, I love it as it's for fun and I love them. They are all grown up now
@Robert A. Lofgren Jr. she was awesome !
@@christinebrett4825 hurt me with a hanger ,,,gee wiz
"I always (see to it) that they GIVE UP something they REALLY LOVE " (sadistic much)
MYNDZ IYE Not so ! REAL giving is giving up something you love the most for the good of the other better that than giving something you dont care about or can afford JUST so you feel better about yourself for ..."giving " She was strict but in this case she was right She was teaching her kids if you're gonna give something to the other ? ..give it your ALL and THAT is the true meaning of giving !!
I find that a form of emotional abuse , too .
To the child , how can they ever feel happy about getting a gift if they know they will probably have to give it up eventually ?
That doesn't teach giving , it teaches there is no such thing as a. present given out of love.You can't force what she was trying to instill in her kids .It has to come from the heart .
@Linda Heasley you are so right. By forcing them to do this it can have the opposite effect. They could become hoarders. They will want to hang onto their stuff later in life.
@@ZEITGEISTism Then I suppose you yourself gave away the presents YOU really loved when you were young. What a superior person you are, a model for all sociopaths to emulate.
And "They don't give away the received Christmas gifts because it wouldn't be fair to the fans that sent them." What?? What about it being unfair to the children? Narcissistic mother without a doubt. The fans were her primary supply and her children were secondary. Listening to this audio has proven to me that Christina Crawford was telling the truth.
Came here to listen to my darling Joan on Christmas night. Merry Christmas everyone :)
+BabyJane Hudson Hush up, sweet Charlotte ... .
Joan: From tomorrow on, they earn their gifts.
George: How do you mean they "earn them"?
Joan: Well, if they stay on their good behavior, they're given the choice of what present they want next. Christopher had his birthday in October, and he still hasn't received all of his presents.
George: Miss Crawford, why is Christopher displaying his middle finger in that manner?
Joan: Beats me.
Lol
George sounded concerned
lol
More like "beats him"...
thats great
I'll be damned if I wake up by 6:30 am "the latest"!!!! just to eat breakfast before opening a bunch of gifts that I don't get to keep! Get the hell out of here! If that is not child cruelty...I don't know what is!
thats not child cruelty Christmas is not always about getting presents
+jamarietwetty78
Duh! I never said Christmas is about getting presents!!! I said I'll be damned if someone wakes me up at 6:30 am for some bull💩I had nothing to do with setting up! Get your facts straight!
@@moralesk35 Child cruelty is it??? To donate the gazillions of expensive gifts they were fortunate to receive. Some kids don't have clean water to drink love. Others are starving and physically abused. Joan's Poor little rich kids having to donate gifts!!
Joan: I don’t see how any Christmas can be without children so I can take out all my Frustrations on them because, I’m Hollywood poison don’t you know George.
"Christopher, do you ever try to sneak downstairs to catch Old St. Nick?"
"Oh, NO sir! I couldn't. You see, I'm strapped into my bed at night."
I wish he would have said that
I wonder why she stepped him down like that?
@@geminijohnson4019 That would've been GREAT!
@@geminijohnson4019 He was prone to sleepwalking (supposedly). Christina had to SECRETLY unstrap him, so that he could use the bathroom. But she was forbidden to do so, in a big way. And Heaven forbid he should have an accident.
@Anna Marfa Yes! Strapped, in accordance with BOTH meanings of the word.
Of course Joan’s favorite song was Silent Night. You know how important Mommie’s sleep was!
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1949...a radio interview would be a challenge. The kids did a great job. The whole feeling of the interview reflects the awareness of the times...58 years ago...
Now 75 years ago... time flies!
Christina Crawford sounds like a prisoner of war who is getting interviewed by a swiss representative of the Geneva convention.
lololololololo
She does
Yes, totally. Seems like it was a golden cage for her for sure
@@sibr4111 yes, im sure she had a lovely childhood for sure.
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"They couldn't possibly go to sleep. They've got cleaning to do"
Amazing,I just finished reading Mommie Dearest which contains a direct transcript of this recording.Christina wrote that all the responses were rehearsed and after the interview they were sent back to their rooms,had to change clothes and write "thank you" notes for days,for presents they were not allowed to keep.The best ones they had to take rewrapped to birthday parties of other children.
How horrible
It's an outrage that abusive alcoholic Joan Crawford was allowed to adopt other people's innocent babies as a single parent. It meant those poor children were 100% at her mercy when she turned violent/abusive, without even a second parent to turn to.
Appalling she was able to 'buy motherhood' like that - while claiming sainthood for having taken the children on! She was a vile hypocrite.
Many witnesses attested Crawford was a cruel, sadistic control freak, and her first two adopted children suffered terribly at her hands. The twin girls she was later - outrageously - able to adopt had a better time of it because by then she had married Pepsi magnate Arnold Steele, who gave her financial and therefore emotional stability.
Those two girls spent most of their childhoods in boarding school too, so they didn't get the brunt of JC's madness as poor Christina and Christopher did. Horrible how they claimed their older adopted siblings were lying about Crawford's abuse, just because they didn't experience it - psychologists are well aware children can be treated very differently in the same household, by abusive parental figures who have favourites, singling out other children for abuse.
The twins should not have accused Christina of lying - her book 'Mommie Dearest' was clearly truthful, and it's only a shame she protected evil Joan Crawford and didn't release it till after her death. Crawford fully deserved to be exposed as a child abuser!
@@savageandrews4050 Omg! Couldn't believe my ears listening to Crawford in her own words abuse proved.
Christina & Christopher are both answering shakingly. Christopher's "Hello, everybody." Sounds like he was scared & nervous, his voice was cracking & sounded off.
Well, he was just a kid, there were sound people around and Radio microphones aimed at him, he probably WAS a little nervous and frightened and yes, this certainly sounds very scripted but I don't buy EVERY little tidbit of "how cruel" Joan was. Any of us could write a book about our own childhood and exaggerate certain facts. My dad could smack us as easily as joke around with us but I wouldn't write a book about it - (who would care, we weren't celebrities) - I think people are very quick to judge Joan Crawford, when none of us were actually on the scene.
Christopher was very traumatized by what took place in his childhood. The book mommie dearest details what Joan put him through, shipped him off to a foreign country after he got into minor trouble & tried to prevent him from re-entering the USA but Christina got him home again. Joan slso burned Christopher's hand as a punishment, so they got the full brunt of her bipolar, drunken rages. The twins were treated much better by Joan. They were 8 years younger than Christina & Christopher
@@irisheyes4935 The twins were 7 years younger than Christina and 4 years younger than Christopher. If you believe every part of this exaggerated book then I would ask if you have heard Christina's interviews over the decades and how her tale has been dramatically changed.
Gettagrip... this was a fine sounding interview. You can not know enough to self-righteously condemn others.
@@glassonion5474 I think Christina story hasn't changed a bit over the years.
After all of Mommie Dearest I think Christina and Christopher are much better actors that Joan Crawford was.
Amparo Valdivia Fernandez The one thing Joan Crawford was, she was a major movie star. And, one of the BEST actors, leading lady, in Holywood. Obviously, you're not old enough, to understand, or know that. No, she wasnt a good mother. But, when it came to her acting, she was the best, at what she did. Faye Dunaway, protrayed Joan Crawford, in Mommie Dearest, Surely, you do KNOW that, right?
Maybe because they are liars. Joan cannot defend herself. There’s always two sides to every story.
She was one of the best!! Maybe they are lying because they thought she was gonna leave them her money but she didnt then all of that conveniently came out, she made up for it with the book money then she was so upset that she didnt get money from the movie that was based on her book. Really all I see is a gold digger, Joan can never tell her side ......
@@jamiegrennell3159 It was just her not them as far as I'm aware. Christopher received no royalties from her exaggerated tales.
If my son Christopher still hadn't received all of his presents I don' think I'd be announcing it over the radio or TV for everyone to hear. Her snickering at this creeped me out.
Those kids seem scared during this and Joan is all serious I can tell the difference we will never what happened behind closed doors maybe she hurt Christina maybe she didn't
I'm not totally accepting everything Christina claimed . Half truths for sure . Maybe she made up the physical abuse stories because Joan's stringent ways of raising kids made the relationship very strained later on .
This interview and Joan's answers didn't sit right with me .Think she tried too hard to micro manage her idea of how a family should act and was lacking on the emotional aspect of the family unit
I agree. I mean, she grew up knowing nothing of parental acceptance and love. Her father left when she was young and her mother favored her brother and showed her no love or affection. I blame parents on messed up kids/adults.
Also, I can't say I believe Christinas book 100%. Even SHE said they embellished and over exaggerated/dramatized much that was portrayed in the movie.
Nice script they followed.
"Christopher, did you ever try to sneak down and see Santa Claus?" - "Golly! If Mommie didn't strap me into my bed, I'd sure try!"
Ahaha...oh my...oh sh*t...that's terrible. That's pretty much how his childhood rolled out.
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He used to sleepwalk from what christina mentioned in her interviews
As John Waters says; Dunaway would've got an Oscar if it hadn't been for the mad-at-the dirt and no-wire-hangers scenes.
What happen to Betty raves
I can only imagine the fear behind the children's scripted monologues, having full knowledge that if they screw up in the slightest, there is an axe or a wire hanger or a "simple slap across the face" waiting to happen once the radio crew leaves. Not to mention scrubbing the floors of the entire mansion by hand... spooky Christmas indeed.
The two children seated don't look very happy.
They look quite miserable this actress was a truly cruel mean and abusive woman
She was the Queen of Hollywood.
Just listening to her...... They EARN their presents. (The old bag). My kids could be right gits but they had all their presents. She sounds horrid!! Even the kids sound like they are reading petrified from a script. Xxx
Greg R hellywood
Like they've got guns pointed at the back of their heads (which they practically did!)
“Do you ever sneak downstairs to get a peek at Santa Claus?”
No sir. That’s impossible since mother straps me into bed every night before I go to sleep.
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Yes until he was 12 sickening
The children were not allowed to keep any of the gifts except for only one. The rest were given away. The children were also expected to be completely silent until Joan woke up. Her standards for 'good behavior" was unattainable- perfection was expected.
They weren't allowed to go to the tree until after they finished breakfast...."They earn their Christmas gifts? " Christopher's birthday was in October and he still hasn't earned all his gifts? I never believed Christina's story, but listening to this, now i don't know how much she exaggerated and how much was spot on.
@Jarred Knox Exactly. No reason for her to exaggerate. She wasn't trying to become a career novelist, AFAIK. She just told the world who Joan really was. And Joan knew she was writing the book, as I recall. It wasn't published before her death but I seem to recall Joan finding out that she was writing it, which means it wasn't revenge like the movie implied.
www.bustle.com/p/did-joan-crawford-know-about-mommie-dearest-her-daughters-book-is-forever-linked-with-her-legacy-53122
"I was just 7"
That's such a weird way to say 8. I've never heard it said like that before
It think it might be because he turned 7 in October and they´re doing the interview in December - it´s a way of saying that to the person asking.....however it´s not a way of phrasing it we would use today which is why it sounds strange to us now :-)
The 'Davenport', the 'stately Colonial fireplace', the white carpet.....'excellent training for the children'....'earning' the rest of their gifts'. It's all so 'perfect'. Obviously, Mommie Dearest was a fairly accurate portrait of life with Saint Joan.
She gets a LOT of digs in, against Christopher.
And the organ in tremolo!!!! Thanks for posting this Gem!
Good lord, such rote responses from these kids...its like radio astroturf!
just watched this scene in mommie dearest. i was abused all my life. the WHOLE movie i was stoic, then wire hanger scene i couldnt take. too close to home. i got beat with a wire hanger. but it was on the soul of my foot and on my tigh bc he knew that's where it hurt the most. :P my butt got so numb after the years
"And Christopher, what's your favorite Christmas carol
"Ding, Dong, the Witch is DEAD!"
"Uh, Christopher, that's not a Christmas Carol".
"Yes, I know...wishful thinking. Considering I didn't get all of my birthday presents two months ago!"
The 'crinkle' sound you hear isn't wrapping paper- it's the children passing "Help Me" notes under the coffee table! 😮
Joan: "They wake early, I insist on feeding them, beating them...then it's present time! Hooray!"
Merry Christmas Kids😕😬😣😢
Hilarious.
* force feeding, a la Nancy Reagan, her daughter Patti
This is portrayed in the movie "Mommie Dearest"
Greg R yes but the twins are not in it.
I know. I saw the movie.
Delana phelps Why? do you know?
hollywoodream30 because the twins wouldn't allow their names or likeness in the film, it would never get past legal. Notice other stars like Bette Davis, Douglas Fairbanks Jr and Myrna Loy weren't mentioned either for the very same reasons as they were all still living at the time.
Greg R the movie was fiction.
I looove this !! Merry Christmas Hollywood and Joan!
Christopher: Oh no sir, I don’t sneak out of my bed to see Santa because I’m always tied down to my bed
StandStrong WWG1WGA 😩😩
That will forever kill me the fact that a child has to endure that till 12 years old. Not even to get up to go to the bathroom. Imagine the pain in sleeping like that
Shut up MAGAt
It was a harness that Christopher could slip in and out of at will. He walked in his sleep and one night was found in the middle of the road. Joan did this under the advice of a child psychologist. What, you expect her to do nothing and let him get run over. Such dumb ass comments.
JC said the kids dawdled over breakfast everyday of the year but at Xmas, breakfast was the quickest meal on record. To JC, I guess that meant Xmas was the day Christina ate her raw-to-blood rare steak without complaining.
Christina and Christopher did a good job reciting their lines. They sound just like the trained child actors of the time period.
They had better or there would have been hell to pay that night.
still cant get the hangers out of my mind...
Thank you very much Message127 for that information, I greatly appreciate it!!
Odd how she's the only one smiling in that photo...The two oldest ones are in fear of making mistakes and the two younger ones have seen them getting beaten,look how their looking at them.That picture speaks louder than the movie
How can anyone disbelieve Christina Crawford's account of her abusive childhood after seeing this?!
glamdolly20 I know.
glamdolly20 Josep
Joan worked and she worked, and she heard people say, "she's getting old" and what did she get? A daughter who cared as much about her beautiful dresses as she cared about her. Joan gave her daughter $200 -$300 dollar dresses and she treated them like they were some dishrag.
Greg R i was about to reply to you with an angry response, but then i scrolled down and realized you were trolling with movie quotes O_O
Yes.
A wonderful, lovely, lovely family!!
Hmm, on the surface anyways.
@@socialdistancejusticewarri8533 I wonder if these various UA-cam families are as happy as they appear to be when they show their Vlogs! The above person mentioned that he sensed something suspicious going on in this interview! Hmm!
Love her voice
So do I.
In Christina's book, no one could raise their voices above a whisper in the mornings until Miss Crawford was up. If they did, there was hell to pay.
Had Joan had a normal childhood, I wonder what kind of mother she could have been? Most horrible childhood. She was too strict. She didn't have a normal childhood. I think she wanted everyone to think she had a happy home. I'm beginning to see things I didn't want to. Her childhood played a big role in how she parented her children. Now, I see she adopted them to be seen, mostly. It was all a show, I suppose. But, she was a darn good actress!! Seems like she was cruel, like her mother. She wanted a picture perfect family. Hurting people hurts others. I suppose Joan took her anger out on her children. I really didn't want to think, she was as bad as she obviously was. Live & learn!
This is so sad. The kids are clearly unhappy and sound very rehearsed. Joan was putting up her front as the big-hearted movie star who adopted four children - she used them as part of her public image to an appalling degree. Joan was clearly disturbed herself and never healed from her own childhood mistreatment, and she inflicted her childhood injustices on her adopted kids (especially Christina and Christopher). It's all just overwhelmingly sad to me.
Imagine if one of those kids flubbed a line or accidentally said the wrong word during this recording, when they were rehearsing. I expect Joan would have created a good punishment afterwards, to build character. There is so much subtext here behind the phony sentiments and Joan's haughty posturing. SNL should have done a parody of this in the 1990's; it's such a rich load of manure. Now, I doubt that life for her children was as ghastly as "Mommie Dearest" would indicate-- but I am sure those kids had a very hard time living in this crazy Hollywood bubble.
It all sounds so nice, so lovely and so, so FAKE!!!! And I'd think that even if I didn't know about Mommie Dearest!!
I am sure it was not easy living with a temperamental star
Those kids must have been living in abject terror throughout the entire interview, at least Christina and Christopher.
Very sad to listen to. The one part Joan couldn't play was loving parent. Its not a part you take on for six weeks at a time. Its a lifetime commitment. Adoption is tough on all parties. If you can't handle it, don't take the role. Crawford's answers are bizarre at best. Having heard this, I know the rumors were true. Sorry I played it.
Those kids lived in one of the most beautiful homes in Brentwood. Went to the best schools. Wore the finest clothes. I'm sure it wasn't THAT bad. They got through it and probably came out better than if Joan had never adopted them at all.
Why dont the other children speak on their life with the mother? I mean I find it odd that there are 3 other children who remain suspiciously silent one way or the other.
@@metalmonkey6262 I dont know. Is Tommy North whose family was featured in Yours, Mine, and Ours lying because the other 18 wont corroborate his claims of physical and sexual abuse?
@@gregr3720 So physical abuse and mental torture are okay if the kid lives in a nice home.
@@timriggins70 Sure, why not? I was being facetious. My comment was based on the movie "Mommie Dearest".
@Vydio I agree! People with extreme Narcissistic Personality Disorder love to belittle those whom they consider "theirs". I noticed two particularly disturbing digs at Christopher during this short clip. And this while she's playing the part of "Loving Mother". One can only imagine the self-esteem destroying things she said and did when there was no audience.
Yes, it was rehearsed. I read somewhere that Joan insisted on being in on the scripted questions and responses.
I actually loved the "mad-at-the dirt" part. The wires thing I thought it was a bit overboard, I cant help but laugh at that specific line everytime I see it. But I was amazed at her job, even the pitch in her voice, the tone and the way of talking, the expressions, she was incredible. I think she was stolen, really!.
Joan's excess aversion to "wire coat hangers" was from her childhood of living above a dry cleaners that used them, her mother its employee and child Joan a sometime assistant.
Who came to listen to this after watching mommie dearest? Lol
Not me, I saw Mommie Dearest in the theater in 1981
Richard C cool lol I got me that was impossible considering I had many years to be conceived
BetterThanEmril Lol, it was a fluke. Friends took me out for dinner & a movie for my birthday. We were late & Mommie Dearest was about to begin... so in we went. My friends hated it, but this film made a lasting impression on me. I could probably recite the script, beginning to end. 😊
I listened to this after viewing mommie dearest so many times.
when this scene was acted in the movie, Christina said that they send most of the gifts to orphans. In this interview JC says they never give away presents because it's not fair to those who sent them.
"and to all a good night......" .......Did you scrub the bathroom floor today??????
Does that look clean to you? Does it? Miss Jenkins said it's clean? Do you think it's clean? DO YOU think it's clean?
Greg R if you can't do something right don't do it at all
I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at the dirt.
Sure, what an impromptu interview.
What appears to be is not
necessarily so...abusers are
great conners....
This family could have been a really enjoyable experience. Too bad for Christina and Christopher it was a nightmare. As for the two younger children, they were much younger and Joan had mellowed out and learned from her mistakes.
Merry Christmas Joan.
Wow joan really does sound cold and heartless.
I try to tell people that
I think her tone of voice was kind of the way high society people talked back then.
After hearing this, how can you not believe Cristina’s account of things.
It's a good thing I wound up losing my coffee on the carpet instead of spitting it on my monitor. That was good! :)
Christina insists on mother putting up her Christmas stocking with theirs. Then she was promptly slapped around for insisting.
I'm sure that DISCIPLINE mixed with a little love is responsible for
the robotic answers of the childrens.
Those kids sound robotic, not happy at all..I have read the book "Mommy Dearest" and I believe every bit of it!
Me too.
Same here! Went through abuse as a child and no one cared, nor believed either. I believe Christina. She displays all signs of trauma endured, even the way her book goes, chaotically, just like the flashbacks of PTSD victims usually do.
hurt me with a wire hanger mommie dearest ...lol! big deal
@@geminijohnson4019 good for you ! hurt me mommie with your wire hanger ...lol
@@sibr4111 poor thing
The twins were under 2 yrs old and not one interruption from them? When was the last time you tried to keep one toddler quiet,let alone two?They weren't in that room
Underrated comment
"Mommie LOVES giving to those less fortunate than us. Sometimes, she gives money to handsome twenty-something gentlemen. They come up to Mommie's room for Acting Lessons. I hear Mommie teaching them how to act frightened. My uncles always make lots of noise when studying with Mommie"
A lot of ppl discount Christina & Christopher’s stories of abuse. However, we must remember that every child has a different version of their childhood. Abusive households have the Golden child/children, the scapegoat and the target/targets.
Just because the twins have nothing bad to say doesn’t mean that the others weren’t abused and mistreated.
Plus the twins were a bit younger than the oldest 2. By the time they were school age the oldest 2 were off in boarding school.
It's "The Cinderella Phenomenon".
This is downright terrifying! It's so obvious those kids were rehearsed and u can HEAR the tension in their voices. I believe "Mommie Dearest" was all too accurate.
In those days, children DID sound like that. Even the books made for children had this serious-polite tone. I have some that I often read my child and it always cought my attention about how much they talked about manners and such, but in an adult way, not like books today for children. Those were other days.
Look into the eyes of the two older children in the photo above. That says it all! This is suppose to be Christmas!
This is so obviously scripted!!
...as was everything during these times.
True,..plus they needed a template in order to keep it within it's time restraints. I wouldn't want to return to the 1940's, but the respect level that we had for people back then would be a nice breath of fresh air in today's society...
Are "lying" and "hypocrisy" morals and values. Not to mention "child abuse"?
I actually AM aware of the circumstances surrounding "Mommie Dearest" and the controversy surrounding Christina Crawford's allegations. Even so, I still think this is hypocrisy, lying and child abuse. So DON'T FUCK WITH ME, YOU POMPOUS GASBAG!!!
It sounds rehearsed.
They had to earn their Christmas gifts! OMG!! What a sadistic psychopath she was to these kids. 🤬
poor little dears ! lol
Joan crawford was disturbed.scandalous and disgusting and disturbing she had kids.
"Have you ever tried to sneak downstairs and catch Saint Nick at work?"
"Oh, no! Mommy would beat me if I tried to do that! Besides, she keeps me strapped to the bed so I can't get out of bed at all..."
Merry Christmas Everybody!
"...I always see that they give up something they really love..." I'm wondering if Christina got her Collie dog and then it was taken away. LOL!
When for so long you have known someone else as your "twin" it gets really hard to change it later.
Oh wow the kids at the piano look terribly sad.Knowing what they have experienced it makes since.So sad.
Can you imagine how the radio audience in '49 was eating this nonsense up (especially at Xmas)? People were dabbing their tear-filled eyes with tissues and handkerchiefs , thinking "oh, what a marvelous actress she is. How kind and generous of her to take four adopted children and making them her own. What a tremendous mother she must be".
Yeah, Joan was a good actress, but I'd certainly question how her mothering skills were after what Christina said about her.
Yes joan crawford was a talented actress I feel.but in my opinion she abused christina and christopher.
WOW! Interesting and thanks for sharing.
Poor kids.
:-(
This sounds so rehearsed.
It's not uncommon for these things to be scripted lol Even a simply appearance for any celeb on the radio at that time was scripted
They are still scripted to this day...
The phoniness is so creepy..
Agreed.
Oh, I love it, juanitoelchico! I can just SEE Joan counting corn chips, and punishing Christopher because he'd poured too many into his bowl!
"Waaahlll....there'll be no more presents this year for Christopher! He's gone and poured out five more chips than his daily ration. (as she pours the whole bowlful into the disposal). We don't want the children to grow up greedy and wasteful, now do we?"
"No, Mommy Dearest", they chime in unison. "A wasteful child is an evil child."
Oh wow first i heard this ,it did sound scripted and erry for some reason too,im watching mommie dearest now lol
Oh, agreed completely. I am getting a kick out of hearing the actual one though. I read Mommie Dearest, and some of it has to be true. I know she must have just exaggerated some of it, but it makes for good reading.
Wow!!! This is Completely new to me. I didn't know she had four kids, I thought she only adopted two.
Christina’s wish for a Collie dog broke my heart.
Sure, kids want dogs…. but you know damn well it was more than that, she just wanted to love something without restrictions that would love her back (not counting her poor POW brother)
Iris Greene I wonder if she ever got her collie dog she wanted ???
They had dogs. Joan loved them and she has 4 at one point.
Wow that’s a fascinating analysis of why she wanted that dog. Damn, it makes so much sense why she and any kid might want a dog, they want a being to unconditionally love them and whom they can enjoy giving love to. (7/25/24)
"...Now Miss Crawford, here's a question for you, at what time will the children awaken?"
- "I'm afraid they'll be awakened at six-thirty at the latest. Christina needs to scrub the bathroom floor until it shines, fold all the clothes, and get started on those thank you notes right away. She also needs to separate her dresses hanging in her closet, I want them each to hang one inch apart from every other dress. Now, that is in addition to her other usual morning chores. Then if there's still time before the fake photo ops and evening chores, she may get to open one gift, and one gift only. The rest I will keep for repackaging and send them to the birthday parties of the children of my big celebrity friends."
- "Will they awaken you?"
- "Well George, I should hope not...but uf they do I have my hair brush handy just in case..."
Yes, Faye sounded nearly identical to JC!