yesssss people like that have surpassed the standard of humans they are demon and in order to protect others from such incident is our duty and to stand for ourselves
yess do it ..give his name and identity out after all it will be his duty to defend him self you are right i don't know that for sure but you are a women and you can't lie about such a hennious and horrible abuse towards you...
The day we stop using the phrases like “uski izzat lut gyi”, or “she was raped”, and instead using “usne rape kia”, “he is a rapist”...most of the things will be changed.
In my life so far which is 20 odd years I have seen major change. From suicide to now women reporting the crimes. There's long way to go but the onus is on us now to bring the desired change.
In cases of sexual harassment at workplaces and rapes, we do catch these rapists red-handed. The problem is these rapists have support from fellow rapists. It's when they try to malign your name and make you pay for the good deeds done you'll realize society is so biased. Hats off to the girl. It's so common that near and dear ones end as rapists. Child abuse is so much present. Be aware and raise your voice
@@annielouise1141 I don't know what I can say to make you feel better but I can say that please don't lose hope on humanity and the ample amount of kindness present in the world
@@s.p.3859 you are right but then there are times when they asked me to go to their home when they are alone I simply have to take it as a joke and have to drag my girl bestie in it.. You know In India People always think that A girl and A boy can never be friends and this is what happens...
I went through molestation, rape, emotional and physical abuse. Molested from 4-15 by different men and raped at 12. Those that had to endure that, know it's not your fault but yet, something wrong with them. Your worth and value doesn't decrease as a person! For the woman telling this story, big hugs to you! I love you!
Am so sorry sweetheart you had to go through all of those horrible things. Life goes on n eventually you'll make it to that stage when your achievements n happiness will surpass your pain, fear n all the bad memories. More power to you
The worst part was her feeling thar her parents wouldn't take it seriously and that she couldn't talk to anyone. As a father of a little girl myself, my heart goes out to you. You are brave for speaking up and sharing this. God bless you and take care!
Sometimes parents actually don't understand or even try to justify the guy's act or tell her tht may be its just in ur head, having parents who actually understand nd take such things seriously no matter if it's just molestation or rape, I can bet their kids are blessed, just like ur kids!!!
Father in a girl's life is the most precious thing uh know.. A girl without a father is lifeless.. Parents actually need to give time to their kids and need to know what they r gng through.. If a child's parents are open up to them, then they'll never look for a third person to share things to.. So do talk to your girl and be with her always.. give her time..
@@Damien773 just keep yourself in her place. Think about being trapped with a person stronger than you holding a gun at you head. You may not be hurt but that scene will never leave you alone
@@Damien773 hello mr ,rape has got nothing to do with how you look...it is about just getting physical amd having sex ...so just keep your gutter mouth shut...if this would have happened to your own sister would you say the same thing?
I would never be able to speak out so bravely if this happened to me. Her story and the fact that she is talking about the abuse, will give a lot of people courage. Thank you for telling us your story.
Why not? This is what give these asshole courage. I guess deep down they know that girl may keep her mouth shut.. You shldnt be ashamed if this the guy shld be.. This mentality if not confronting need to be changed.
Just recently, I also experienced some kind of sexual abuse by my brother in law who is cousin sister's husband.. bt I can't able to say this to my sister but my mom understood me why I stopped talking to him.. I'm so glad that my mom is there for me to understand me..
Being in class 12 I can confirm that there are some guys who have such thoughts and being a boy I have encountered such guys many times and it makes me sick because I too have a sister and boys with such mentality are among us
The fact that she feared no one would take her seriously indicates one of the most serious problems in our society...Especially when it comes down to rape victims
I am not a rape survivor , but when I told my mom about what happened to me at the age of 6 I was afraid she would not take it seriously or thought that I was lying .
Even if society believes us.... They blame it on girl not on the boy And it doesn't even matter whom they believe cuz in the end they don't even get justice
I faced this when I was 4-5 years old. He was staying as a renter in our house. That day he asked my mother to send me to his room. We shared good relationship with all our renters and I have been to their room many times. As I entered, he locked the room and undressed my frock. He made me lie on the bed and did what he wanted for a long time. I was numb and couldn't understand what just happened. I didn't have words to explain this to anyone at that time. Till now I haven't shared this to anyone. Reading the comments I felt the need to comment to tell that never leave your child alone with any stranger howsoever nice they seem to you.
You should have tell your mom about it . If you did that he will be in jail for life time .. I don't understand how a human being can force himself on someone he was such a beast 😢
She is a victim who survived which makes her a survivor lmao. She shouldn't be treated above anyone else. Everyone should be treated the same other than the shits like him who do this shit
@sakshi🌹 yeah but that doesn’t change the fact that she is a survivor , the original comment said “she is not a survivor, she’s a queen” she can be both at the same time lmao
The worst thing about inappropriate touching and raping is that so many people don't tell anyone because they are ashamed of themselves even though they did nothing wrong. The world is cruel.
@@youtubebannedme3466 no I wasn't exactly saying that ... I was talking about nonconsensual inappropriate touching, and that's something different, GiRl
My partner did that to me 4 years ago and I'm still suffering with endless operations. I nearly died as the object perforated my bowel and the surgeon was honest and said he didn't know if I could be saved, I was dying and the lifestyle I have now no human being would want to live like this. I have to wear a bag 24/7 to poo into as my bottom was so damaged it had to be sewn up xx
@@KhushiYadav-qh2gc I'm 46 and have 3 children but every day I wish I wasn't here, I wish I had died because I live through that every day. He would be in prison and on the sex offenders list but I couldn't do that for his children sake. I'm sorry I've written all of this xx
@@meerahyfashaik442 why do we have prisons then? If we're just going to take up the law in our hands,then what is the point of the govt? What you're saying is purely emotion based,not logic based
@Ankit Krishnankutty show some real concrete proofs for that! I will link here all statistical data on how much under reportage of rape happens all over world and specially in India. And boys(kids) get raped too be older men not women most of the time.
@Ankit Krishnankutty jusy because there are, doesnt mean the real ones should blur their faces. She experienced it, went through it, reflected and decided why she must hide her face when the shameless rapist wasnt concerned about his identity. Now, even if this is acting, let this be an example for women who are afraid to come out. So, just watch and give strength to those who are in need in this comment section
@@kikisounds it's post traumatic stress disorder, a mental health problem that occurrs after any past experience, and person is not able to recover from that
I wish I was your brother and you told me about the entire incident, the next thing that would have happened is me getting jailed for killing a bastard!
@SHIRSHO DASGUPTA nope it's r*pe culture. R*pe Culture is an environment in which r*pe is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. R*pe culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women’s rights and safety. R*pe Culture affects every woman. The r*pe of one woman is a degradation, terror, and limitation to all women. Most women and girls limit their behavior because of the existence of r*pe. Most women and girls live in fear of r*pe. Men, in general, do not. That’s how r*pe functions as a powerful means by which the whole female population is held in a subordinate position to the whole male population, even though many men don’t r*pe, and many women are never victims of rape. This cycle of fear is the legacy of R*pe Culture.
The ppl who disliked are the ppl who say “she invited him to rape her” “it’s the girls fault” “the teeny tiny clothes she wears that’s y it happened to her” Like ppl we need to stop blaming the victim, we need to blame the rapist.
IKR! I don’t understand how it’s the victims fault it’s like saying during 9/11 America was asking for it. (I’m not comparing the two events just trying to give an example)
People may not belive you people may say that its your fault but you dont listen. Just keep this in your mind, you are not a victim not a survivor you are a warrior. I am very proud of you.
Her courage to speak up Is really the boldest decision which I will not acquire in my life time ,instead I can only weep on the incident which happened to me when I was a eight old kid...
Hey dear. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. But just remember that the shame is not yours. The whole world is on your side. I would say do share this with someone( I’d say avoid friends.. at least one parent or a relative who you think would deal with it properly) sorrow lessens with sharing. And trust me when you would do it, it would feel like a wieght just went off from your shoulders. You must do it for your own betterment my dear. Lots of love💖. Stay strong dear you are excellent!
After watching this I will take care of my female friends even more ....😔I read the comments here and hope that my female friends trust on me still stays intact.
@@archa3264 for sure, I just love my female friends a lot☺️I don't have real sisters so they always made me feel like a brother❤️ even after 1 year of completing school.
I dont hope such things..on the contrary I pray that her wounds get healed..both physical and emotional..if in that path..she gets true love and support..then I am more than happy for her..😇
Not only she... Every girl one or two times get exploit by man.... Even I'm exploited by a man who was my neighbor and that time my age was 6-7 I think.... But I never opened up this with anyone.... Today I have married to good man who is caring me like his daughter ....and I have 2 years old son now ... I'm teaching all the good manners to him ..... Everyone says to open up but its not possible for everyone to do so...
When i was like 4 or 5, my friend and i went outside to play and walk over to random places, we started talking to a rickshaw driver (no idea why) anyway he showed me his penis, i didn't understand anything, i didn't even know what it was that he was showing me, up until i grew up and started listening to stories like these, i remembered this memory and realised how inappropriate and wrong his behaviour was..
@@ishansharma3138 I'm so sorry to hear that, It's so heartbreaking that stuff like this happens to children who are innocently walking around or playing in the streets 😔💔
I do regret not telling my mom that 15 years ago I was molested by my relative, back then I was just 4 or 5 so I didn't knew much about good touch or bad touch, I just knew that he's my relative and he couldn't do anything bad to me. I was molested multiple times in front of my parents (they're in the same room) but they couldn't realise that anything is wrong. Indian parents needs to wake up coz we aren't safe with anyone, not even in our own family. Gladly I wasn't raped coz my mom used to follow me wherever I go, so he never got a chance. Now he doesn't live in India anymore and I can never punish him for what he did.
😟😟😞😞 Even worse than a friend. 😩😩 meditation should be brought in life from a. Very early stage like primary school. Evey week a period must be kept for yoga and meditation. Meditation calms your mind and helps you control your emotion better.
This was very difficult to watch. My heart breaks for you. Now that I think of... I had a male best friend "Z" of 7 years, from school. We been there for each other through good & bad days. 4 years back he called me out to meet him.. to catch up after a long time. We have met multiple times before as teens, but this time I somehow got an odd feeling. I met him in the evening after my dance class, on the way to home. He took me to a lil shady restaurant, when he knew I'm uncomfortable about such things. Then, for the first time in our friendship, he started lightly brushing his hands around my shoulder and arms. My 6th sense started blasting like a siren. I ended the meet-up fast and went home. I reached home so traumatized that I couldn't shake it off for many days. And that was the last day I met him. It's been more than 4 years. Even yesterday he called and persisted me to meet him and I said no. Reflection: I'm uncomfortable with physical touch, irrespective of the gender. I have hugged people only if they're very closely to me. This included 1 male friend. "Z" & I were close but never the hugging types. So when he made a move like that, my mind warned me that his motives weren't ordinary and innocent. Coming to the video... I'm glad you shared this painful story. Now that I think of, if I would've met "Z" that evening at his home or a private place, he would've definitely tried to push himself over me. And mind you, this guy had been my solid friend for years. Wtf. Girls and guys, always trust your instincts. And be conservative when it comes to your safety.
To all innocent girls who have been a rape victims: Don’t be afraid of those culprits . You bravely need to say things and come out with out any hesitation because it’s not your fault and you deserve all love and support.If you won’t come out other innocent girls like you will also be a victim of those culprits.I love you guys !Take care I know it will be the toughest thing but you need to and love yourself girl + please don’t hesitate to complain against those sinners !Thankyou
@@billiemeow9299 ikr the guilt in us just don't let us speak .. it's been 7 years but I my parents don't know the whole truth, I tried telling them and giving them hints but they just didn't took it seriously.. and also the fear I saw in my mom's eyes just saying that I was touched made me stop telling the whole truth
Did you guys knew that men don't have an Image or more specifically "Izzat"? Why, cuz whenever anything like a rape attack happens and everyone gets to know about it, everyone says that "SHE has a stain on her image" or "Us BICHARI ki izzat lut gayi". Why does no one says these kind of phrases to culprit who is a man? (not dignity wise). Why don't they say that "He has lost his dignity" or "Us aadmi ne us bichaari ki izzat par haath dala"? Guys, If you think about it... its all the guy's fault right? Then why put the burden on the girl. Abd this is the main reason why girls don't talk about the incident at all. The y know that if they said anything, the blame and bad phrases will go all one her.But This girl here, she is an ideal for all those rape survivors who can't say anything or tell anyone not eben their own parents about the incident. If this lady of such a courageous personality can tell it on UA-cam (As it's such a wide platform of socialism) then every survivor can too. This girl has showerd that girs are very courageous. GOD BLESS THIS BRAVE LADY.
We probably won't be able to teach our elders to change now. So it's up to us to start doing everything you mentioned here. Hopefully we can move things around in this toxic country and be better parents, friends and relatives.
@@shreyanair2804 Yes its time for us to educate the little ones because one day the elders will be gone and the little ones will become the elders. So if everyone educate children and teens, the world can improve.
This happened to me multiple times with my ex. It was 2 years ago. I went through depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and none of the therapy sessions helped. However, only 2-3 of my friends know about this and my family doesn’t. I can never tell them what happened. :(
I understand you, it's hard to speak up when something like this happen its easier to pretend like nothing happened but unfortunately our minds don't let us forget
Isme aapki koi galti nii hh past ke bare me Mt socho I know it is very difficult to remove this type of trauma but don't thought about sucide my dear just forget and move forward karma deal with them trust me dear just hope on god
Girl I went numb just listening to your experience. Shubha you're a warrior and I'm so proud of YOU! Power to you girl and i hope you seek therapy to heal from this trauma soon xx
Something similar happened with me and I was devastated. I also didn't tell my parents at that time and I feel it's of really no use of telling anyway. Nobody does anything about him even if we all know that he did it. Not even me. My childhood got ruined and now I have Borderline personality disorder. It's really tough you know.
Plz don't reply to this comment, I hate every comment which comes in response saying you are brave and what not. It's really really disgusting and I just feel like I can't do anything in this two faced world.
I had a coworker in college take me to a storage room in the attic and rape me.... He went around work telling everyone I just layed there like I was dead calling me a dead fish. I had a nice apartment at the time, and a full kitchen of cooking knives. I remember trying to talk to the woman I called my mom... And thinking its not helping at all..... And I remember thinking shit I got this.... I was an artist. Because I wasnt backed by family, I chose not to call police. I handled it a bit diffrently. It wasnt 100 successful, but I felt better doing something about it.
Before this video I was actually planning on visiting a very close friend I have known for years that has been pestering me to visit him,just changed my mind am never gonna go
I know not all men are the same but it's not worth the risk. Better to miss out on this than, god forbid, have something horrible happen to you. If you do go take people with you make sure you are not alone.
U r the most courageous..I just hope that every girl should have been courageous like u such that after any of such incident, their words will be enough to slam that wild creature
After watching this now I get to realise why my parents were always so overprotective about me ! Back then I was really annoyed at my parents for intruding my privacy but now I realise what made them so anxious about my safety!
Yea same.. I am still a student and now I know why parents are so worried about me. Clearly it's never their fault, it's all because of these hooligans roaming around.
The fact you were friends with him and both were in class 12 makes me feel unsafe. I always felt that my guy friends wouldn't do it. Infact anybody's guy friends wouldn't do it but listen to you 💔
The whole video I couldn't stop my tears and my feelings about being scared and thinking myself in your place. How painful it was physically, emotionally and mentally. You are here standing and sharing I would be in a very very dark depression. I'm so sorry you had to go through with this. No one deserves to be harassed like that. But harsh reality many women/girls had to. More love, blessings and lower to you. May God make you more stronger. ❤️❤️❤️😭
I started watching this because I wanted to know your story and then when you said he was a friend, I got goosebumps. The situation where you were was so innocent to begin that noone would imagine something like that would be done by someone who I consider a friend. There could have been so many times and honestly it could have been any of us there and honestly dear you are so brave. I would not have had the courage to face my fears like that. Cheers to you girl ❤️
This video has changed my perception of the world. I'm disgusted by the fact that there can be boys of my age with such disgusting mentality..😔😔 Stay strong all my sisters in this world.. We can make this world a better place only if we change our mindset!!
I hope you're all ok, sending huge hugs and lots of love xx Ive got 5 more operations booked in for 12 May. May your guardian Angel's never leave your side xx
My trust on my guy friends has shaken after this 😔. Even I know that none of them are going to do this. But my heart broked after knowing he was your friend. I am having major Trust issues 😒.
I remember my mother cautioning me in being alone with a guy (friend or cousin or any male). Even if she doesn't say anything, she would just hover around & keep an eye on me. Since I grew up in a safe environment, I used to brush off her worries as the worries of a conservative mind. After I grew up, I realised that coz of evolutionary mating instincts, men are aroused very easily. And once they do, they do not control it (as they are seeking pleasure). I was shocked to know all this. It explained so many things.. like how my own close friend in 9th std went to meet a guy innocently for 15 min and came back molested. And that asshole groped her on the road, infront of our 3rd friend! Next day when I heard the incident, I was and still am furious but also so glad that I couldn't join them as my mom was so painfully strict that she wouldn't let me go anywhere out easily. She knew better. So you are right in doubting. Remember, always trust your instincts and the vibe you get off a person. Take care ❤️
@@cynthiajose7787 even my mom is so strict. I understand her concern and as a 17 year old my friends think that why don't I hangout more often as am I a very friendly person. But I don't for my safety. I know that you can't trust anybody in this case. But thank God I have a great family and friends ❤️
@@cynthiajose7787 what evolutionary mating instincts? Please don't make excuses for these things by using biology and evolution. If that were the case then every man would be a rapist. The very fact that some men can control their urges means that it's possible to do that. The ones that don't do that are just fricking culprits. That's it
@@gemini1404 go and check on Google I can't explain you here about evolutionary mating patterns but yes with time it has changed. And it's not at all justifying rape or any kind of harassment
Girls, we are alone. We need to survive this by ourselves. Please learn how to fight. Please be healthy, eat healthy and keep yourselves strong and prepared. Be vigilant. Carry safety devices and hidden weapons. Learn kalari or join kickboxing classes. I wish you all the happiness.
@Ankit Krishnankutty Yk what? My dressing style is pretty good, but unfortunately your parent's upbringing wasn't good as we see by your toxic comment! And, as I've "learnt to dress" and I'm "open-minded" I wish to show you my self defense techniques too and kick your a$$ out whenever we meet by any chance. I pity the women in your life if there are any by chance cuz you don't deserve. Better watch what you're sayin' and don't teach girls how to dress and what to do if you're sucha small-minded freak with internet connection and have the right to blabber shit. Fuck off! Keep barking.
@Ankit Krishnankutty so kids diapers attracted a man??talking about dressing u talk like women who wear saree chudhidhar are not raped teach urself how to be respectful
@krishna op ur story seems so made up ive never seen a family that treats their girl child better than the guy not a single family i agree that ur sister gets to buy more clothes but u not having permission to wear shorts but ur sister does is an utter lie
@UCaJwekM1qDZXtY9TxsDis-w there are families who restrict their children be it male or female but ur statement was that ur sister is allowed but u arent and i commented on that read ur comment before replying
The way she say s that she is still afraid when someone touches her tells us how much she is traumatized by that incident but she truly have shown immense courage to speak out .. why girls should hide as victims while it should b guy who should feel the shame and burden for the heinous act he has done. Seriously these guys are mentally sick !!! We can't wait until there is a massive change in our societies attitude towards women ..till then what can actually bring a change is strict laws and immediate punishments given , that can make atleast some of them think twice before doing something of this sort . Much love to you girl 🥰proud of u .
I have been quiet since 2016, I was in a sexually, mentally, and emotional abusive relationship for five years, i was only 12 and didn’t know better. If any of you have gone through anything like this, please know that you are not at fault, i know it’s hard to understand but you deserve so much more. I hope we all get the closure we hope for and deserve
I jasmine vekariya from Mumbai, India. Personally being a Rape Survivor I know exactly how it feels. The scars will remain even after death. Especially when society bottles up us. And people actually do not accept us. Irrespective of whatever it be
Wish so called advanced and educated could for real accept us just like normal human being the problem is our law supports and motivate such crimes by not taking any serious action
@@liveliferecreate exactly, no serious action against the accused, they roam freely, also, not a single thought about the mental state of the victim, they don't even bother to provide a counselor.
Most of the victims breakdown and never open up. They get traumatized. But this disgusting species lives his life shamelessly like nothing happened. Shouldn't they get traumatized and be in pain?
I can't imagine how you are narrating this story that happened with you because while listening the story it is very painful it's like that everything is stopped at that time and it's very sad that somewhere at a time in your life he was your friend that gave you such a horrible moment .....it really needs a lot of courage to narrate the incident because every single second that come to your mind and you again start thinking. It really needs strength to live a life after that and hope you have a wonderful life 👍❤️
Every bad person is among us , so be aware n stay alert .I would like to tell about me , I've been sexually assaulted 3/4 times till now. I've never told this anyone expect my fiance . I feel very bad and for what happened with me. I wish I could have some courage to take those guys behind the bars . But eventually I wasn't so matured . And you already know about our society , they'll treat us like we've done something wrong not treat us like a victim
I’m so sorry. It fills me with anger towards them. I hope your fiance supports and protects you a lot. I dont know if they were all very close to you (like in this video), but i hope that, through karma, the external world as well as their internal world makes them pay.
It's so disturbing that we don't even have legal laws to give punishment to those bastards... And even if we have they're not even run property and instead blame the girl or women that this happened to her 😢
This happened when i was ten years old. It was a priest whom my grandmother knows, he came to our house and i was left alone with my small cousin brothers. This so called priest asked me to come near to pray for me while chanting something he was continuously massaging middle of my chest. Although i was unaware of sexual assaults, i felt extreme discomfort. I started to cry and tried to takeaway his hands off but he was telling this is the way to make prayers. I ran inside to the bathroom and cried, And didn't come out until he left. Years after i understood what i have gone through. I opened up with my parents but they just told that iam just over thinking. But deep inside i know iam a victim. Once ever i happened to see this man again, i'll juz beat him until my anger goes off. And make his dignity lose infront of the society.
my boyfriend forced himself on me when I was 15, I couldn't say anything because I was ashamed as I knew my family would blame me, and I was stupid enough to think that he'll leave me!
I'm an introvert I don't express even simple things to anyone because I lack courage but as I hear her story I need to say hatsoff to her and try to get some courage . Who ever feels it
I wish I was able to tell the world my story like this, but I'm so happy she got to. I'm so sorry to anyone who has become a victim of sexual assault, and I hope that if you have you spoke up and are working on healing yourself. Sending love to everyone reading this.
I once had a dream I was raped I remember my mental state for few days. I was not coming out of that depression. I can't even imagine how these bravos took this scare and still fighting with it. I can't stop my tears after listening to this fighter. But you should speak out his name. It will fear other guys too to get exposed who are going to try suck demonic activities with somebody. I salute you girl. You're a fighter!!
@Ankit Krishnankutty just opened the link. I heard that from other women too. But I'm still not sure what makes women enjoy this domination. May be they never came across the roughness and emotional pain. Or they just want to feel they were so attractive that men couldn't resist them and attacked them. But being actually "abused" is something else. I think that's the most scary thing on this planet. And you know there is no shortage of stories when people go in depression for the rest of their life and take their life or attempt to take their life after being assaulted. That's something which can never be enjoyed.
Wait- You think every single man is dangerous, or did I misunderstand your comment? Because a lot of dudes were raised by good parents and are great genuine people.
@@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 ofcourse they do... But we do not know which men those are... Her good friend did this to her... So how do we know which man is actually good... I agree there are a lot of a good men but the probability of getting assaulted is so high that it makes us question every man...
@@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 She is not saying all men are dangerous.. she is saying about those people who after hearing one word 'men' in a video starts typing "not all men do this".. Those people don't understand the main issue raised and they just get triggered by the world 'men'
I will say as a person who's been a situation like this there's absolutely nothing worse than having your own parents blame you for it. The situation in itself is already terrible but to have the only people that are to support you and love you tell you it was your fault is when you feel crushed and broken.
U r strong man....u r the strongest.....u r out here.....u r the hero.....ur courage ur motivation for urself and ur power defines u.....stay blessed stay happy
I see people shocked about a rapist being friends with his targets, but that is how most rapes are. Most are done by someone the victim knows and trusts. This is why "just getting a gun" doesn't prevent rape.
@@shubhashrivastava326 God bless you lots and lots dearest sister 💕 Iam so happy that u recovered 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘u will have bright future ahead for sure🥰u r stronger inside now ❤❤❤❤❤❤
These evil men need to be punished. They will perish in hell for eternity. Eventually they will get their punishment. God bless this strong powerful beautiful woman for sharing her story, I'm sure this video will help a lot of young girls who have been though the same thing.
@sanjay amarnani Feminism only believes on Women Superiority.. There is nothing known as real Feminism... That's the reason me being a Women doesn't support at all....
@sanjay amarnani Go and read about Feminism moron... It's much more worst than Marxism... Sala Maar dalte hai agar inke saath Ideology se agree nah karo toh...
55 dislikes who the hell these guys are? look how she bravely told her past which most people would hide and here are some stupid people enjoying and disliking video its not about how many views, likes or dislike but actually shows their personality and mindset
I wouldn't worry about dislikes much, sometimes people accidentally tap on it. I have done the same thing in past. When I came back to see the video again, I realized the mistakes. It happens. Few hundred dislikes for 16k likes is negligible.
@krishna op But it's India buddy. What kind of girl would do this kind of things in a society where a victim is blamed everyday? It's too much to lose for few thousand likes. Just saying, your logic is flawed.
You are a queen girl!! So many people suffer from rape, not only women but also men and it makes me disgusted that how cruel and sick minded can a person be to do that to someone and the fact that they are still people like that in our society is just disgusting. Stay safe everyone and if you feel like someone is doing something with you that is not normal or inappropriate then pls don't hesitate to tell it to your loved ones like your parents or your siblings or your friends etc❤
Shubha, first of all, I am(a random girl who JUST knows you) PROUD of you! More more more power to you.Can't imagine someone did that, but thank you for bringing it up, thank you you for being so daring. Very Sad and horrified to hear that this happened.
Honestly, this is amazing that she said all this. Especially in India. I am sending all the love bc this girl is amazing. Thank you. I hope no one ever has to go through this ever.
The most terrifying line "He was a very good friend of mine".
@@thevoid375 ...
Yaaaa.....😣
That player still her best friend. Wow, she's too moderm
She is a strong woman. Period!
It's always the good friends somehow.
That's why I don't want friends anymore.
Name him and shame him. He doesn't need the dignity of privacy. You are very brave. God bless you.
Well said!!
yesssss people like that have surpassed the standard of humans they are demon and in order to protect others from such incident is our duty and to stand for ourselves
Yes absolutely
Exactly!
yess do it ..give his name and identity out after all it will be his duty to defend him self you are right i don't know that for sure but you are a women and you can't lie about such a hennious and horrible abuse towards you...
The day we stop using the phrases like “uski izzat lut gyi”, or “she was raped”, and instead using “usne rape kia”, “he is a rapist”...most of the things will be changed.
Yeah......I agree...100%...👍
Exactly
In my life so far which is 20 odd years I have seen major change. From suicide to now women reporting the crimes. There's long way to go but the onus is on us now to bring the desired change.
In cases of sexual harassment at workplaces and rapes, we do catch these rapists red-handed. The problem is these rapists have support from fellow rapists. It's when they try to malign your name and make you pay for the good deeds done you'll realize society is so biased. Hats off to the girl. It's so common that near and dear ones end as rapists. Child abuse is so much present. Be aware and raise your voice
Best remark
Being a boy of class 12th, I feel so disgusted that there are these kind of boys of same age like me, living here...
Don't feel disgusted, u are not them. Neither those hastards are anywhere near us
bro see this is why girls are afraid of men they are afraid that they will get raped i have one request pls don't be like him
@@kakashi6407 yeah I understand but not all boys are like these bastards
The die and reincarnate as a girl you simp. Don't judge an entire gender based on actions of a single person. Your thoughts are as dangerous as his
@@ramrakesh9029 bro I think you have problems while reading.... Why tf u told me I'm a simp? Did I said all males are rapists?
Go study
When she said," He was my friend", my heart kind of broke
And now I won't trust any of my guy friend.. You know sometimes even I have trust issues with my guy friends..
@@annielouise1141 I don't know what I can say to make you feel better but I can say that please don't lose hope on humanity and the ample amount of kindness present in the world
@@s.p.3859 you are right but then there are times when they asked me to go to their home when they are alone I simply have to take it as a joke and have to drag my girl bestie in it.. You know In India People always think that A girl and A boy can never be friends and this is what happens...
@@annielouise1141 yeah I guess everything a girl does is considered as a taboo in India hope it changes by time
Oh my god, it tear me apart...
My heart skipped a beat when she said, "He was a very good friend of mine."
Now I'm actually terrified😶
That's trust issues on another level. I have plenty of male friends myself now I don't even know how I have to put my guard on when I'm around them.
Hehehe that's why I never had male friends...
Is everything okay are you facing some kind of same problem
@@kanaksoni7937 Thanks for the concern, I'm fine. It's just the trust that's playing hide and seek..
@@sakthipriyar2483 thank god hare Krishna
“””he is among us!! , beware that he is not always a stranger 😔”””
Yes 🙃💔💯
Unfortunately that's 100% true..well said
This makes me scared
@@thepink3798 same
@@thepink3798 your son can be one
I went through molestation, rape, emotional and physical abuse. Molested from 4-15 by different men and raped at 12. Those that had to endure that, know it's not your fault but yet, something wrong with them. Your worth and value doesn't decrease as a person! For the woman telling this story, big hugs to you! I love you!
@Alt Cont felt that way
Damn u been around the block
I'm so sorry for what u went through...
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Am so sorry sweetheart you had to go through all of those horrible things. Life goes on n eventually you'll make it to that stage when your achievements n happiness will surpass your pain, fear n all the bad memories. More power to you
The worst part was her feeling thar her parents wouldn't take it seriously and that she couldn't talk to anyone. As a father of a little girl myself, my heart goes out to you. You are brave for speaking up and sharing this. God bless you and take care!
Sometimes parents actually don't understand or even try to justify the guy's act or tell her tht may be its just in ur head, having parents who actually understand nd take such things seriously no matter if it's just molestation or rape, I can bet their kids are blessed, just like ur kids!!!
I don't believe her parents don't believe her she was rape. Rape is a serious problem case how can they don't believe her??
Same for most men and boys too.
Hope society accepts.
Father in a girl's life is the most precious thing uh know.. A girl without a father is lifeless..
Parents actually need to give time to their kids and need to know what they r gng through..
If a child's parents are open up to them, then they'll never look for a third person to share things to..
So do talk to your girl and be with her always.. give her time..
Beat him now and upload a video of that shitty guy....
The dislikes are probably from people who themselves are like that guy
@@Damien773 not all damage heals with time. The mental trauma one has to go through cannot be forgotten
@@Damien773 just keep yourself in her place. Think about being trapped with a person stronger than you holding a gun at you head. You may not be hurt but that scene will never leave you alone
@@Damien773 hello mr ,rape has got nothing to do with how you look...it is about just getting physical amd having sex ...so just keep your gutter mouth shut...if this would have happened to your own sister would you say the same thing?
@Mcvvggdc Hgfces What is the logic?
@@himani3818 you know 75 percent rape cases are false made for just money and property so u keep yourself and that innocent mans place
I would never be able to speak out so bravely if this happened to me. Her story and the fact that she is talking about the abuse, will give a lot of people courage. Thank you for telling us your story.
Seriously what kind of boy he’s what his parent taught him.
U have to be brave in this zaalim duniya........
@@ravivishwakarma5564 yah man ur right
Why not? This is what give these asshole courage. I guess deep down they know that girl may keep her mouth shut.. You shldnt be ashamed if this the guy shld be.. This mentality if not confronting need to be changed.
Just recently, I also experienced some kind of sexual abuse by my brother in law who is cousin sister's husband.. bt I can't able to say this to my sister but my mom understood me why I stopped talking to him..
I'm so glad that my mom is there for me to understand me..
Being in class 12 I can confirm that there are some guys who have such thoughts and being a boy I have encountered such guys many times and it makes me sick because I too have a sister and boys with such mentality are among us
Thank you for not being like them.Thank you for realizing that’s wrong.Thank you.I know it’s the bare minimum,but thank you.
It's disgusting how someone ppl want to do that
👍🏻
Thank you for for not being like them.
A real Indian
The fact that she feared no one would take her seriously indicates one of the most serious problems in our society...Especially when it comes down to rape victims
In india maybe but here this would get taken seriously
I am not a rape survivor , but when I told my mom about what happened to me at the age of 6 I was afraid she would not take it seriously or thought that I was lying .
@@Prettyera.3 the biggest problem we have is that we believe anyone without any evidence
Even if society believes us....
They blame it on girl not on the boy
And it doesn't even matter whom they believe cuz in the end they don't even get justice
@@Roodsteam in India, it is ignored we have so many other weird problems
Before treating a women as a goddess treat her as a human 🌼🌼
@Tushar Wallah what
@Tushar Wallah you high?
Why would one ever treat a woman like a goddess?? Are you stupid?
@Anita Mulchandani your comment makes even less sense
@@dunloplego do you know anything about Indian culture !?
I totally broke when you said "parents wont take it seriously"
"He was a good friend"
Take care!
I don't know what kind of parents they r
Those parents are fucking dumb
@High on Acids Why would anyone even not believe this or thinking they're lying? And why would the victim be blamed?
I faced this when I was 4-5 years old. He was staying as a renter in our house. That day he asked my mother to send me to his room. We shared good relationship with all our renters and I have been to their room many times. As I entered, he locked the room and undressed my frock. He made me lie on the bed and did what he wanted for a long time. I was numb and couldn't understand what just happened. I didn't have words to explain this to anyone at that time. Till now I haven't shared this to anyone. Reading the comments I felt the need to comment to tell that never leave your child alone with any stranger howsoever nice they seem to you.
Iam sorry for whatever happened to you...hope this society would change for better
You should have tell your mom about it . If you did that he will be in jail for life time .. I don't understand how a human being can force himself on someone he was such a beast 😢
No leave your girls.. And stop your boys now...
I am really sorry for what happened to you but even more than that, I am proud of you for being able to share this. You are really really strong
Sorry for what... Don't lose hope... May God bless you... And you live a happy life after such a horrible incident 🙂
U ARE BRAVE AND WE are. Proud of you .. much love and courage to u ...
She is absolutely brave
@@deepakbhattacharjee3787 b
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She's not a 'survivor' she's a "QUEEN!!"
She is a victim who survived which makes her a survivor lmao. She shouldn't be treated above anyone else. Everyone should be treated the same other than the shits like him who do this shit
She is a brave girl She should have told the name of the guy . He doesn't deserve any privacy and respect in society
@@s.j.s3619 if she told the name of the guy she would have gotten sued
@person that hates gays yeah they aren't they are treated like trash anyway
@sakshi🌹 yeah but that doesn’t change the fact that she is a survivor , the original comment said “she is not a survivor, she’s a queen” she can be both at the same time lmao
The worst thing about inappropriate touching and raping is that so many people don't tell anyone because they are ashamed of themselves even though they did nothing wrong. The world is cruel.
Exactly
I'm not ashamed, I'm just scared no one will believe me, because most adults I know are low-key rape supporters.
@@xenathornburg2416 rape supporters?!?! Girl get tf away from those people please and tell someone, I'm sorry & I'm sending sm love to you ❤
Me and my friend touched each other in 5th grade. We liked it. Now u say thats wrong?
Get a life girl
@@youtubebannedme3466 no I wasn't exactly saying that ... I was talking about nonconsensual inappropriate touching, and that's something different, GiRl
My partner did that to me 4 years ago and I'm still suffering with endless operations. I nearly died as the object perforated my bowel and the surgeon was honest and said he didn't know if I could be saved, I was dying and the lifestyle I have now no human being would want to live like this. I have to wear a bag 24/7 to poo into as my bottom was so damaged it had to be sewn up xx
I hope god gives u enough strength to go through this...god bless u brave woman
@@KhushiYadav-qh2gc I'm 46 and have 3 children but every day I wish I wasn't here, I wish I had died because I live through that every day. He would be in prison and on the sex offenders list but I couldn't do that for his children sake. I'm sorry I've written all of this xx
@@sammieknowles2857 u have to live for ur children mam ..to give them the best life they need u..and god would heal u keep fighting ❤️
You should have reported him. His children are not your concern.
Its so sad to read what you have to live with (the bag). Its worse than death. I pray that God has mercy and you get well.
may be he is someone's husband or boyfriend now. i feel really sorry for that girl.
Oh God.
Nd in future if he hs daughter. .nd she gets to know that my father was rapist. .just think how would she feel.
@@MissBeautypie222 😭
Exactly....and may be,he is father of a girl
@@MissBeautypie222 you are overthinking. The guy probably doesn't even care.
Just name him dear. He's a devil. U should make many other women beware of people like him in this society.
@Life is Divine they hate us will never punish men
@@TruthTeller89 what?
@Life is Divine I think Indian law should also make such people register as sex offenders like they do in USA.
Yes exactly..he should be shamed and slapped..he doesn't deserve respect of privacy anymore
@@meerahyfashaik442 why do we have prisons then? If we're just going to take up the law in our hands,then what is the point of the govt? What you're saying is purely emotion based,not logic based
I wish she had mentioned that man's details. He is a criminal who should be punished
True...☹
WE CAN'T SAY SHE IS 100% TRUE , SHE MIGHT BE LYING , WE CAN'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THE CASE IF WE WEREN'T THERE
@Ankit Krishnankutty no there aren't. On the contrary, there are many unreported cases.
@Ankit Krishnankutty show some real concrete proofs for that! I will link here all statistical data on how much under reportage of rape happens all over world and specially in India. And boys(kids) get raped too be older men not women most of the time.
@Ankit Krishnankutty jusy because there are, doesnt mean the real ones should blur their faces.
She experienced it, went through it, reflected and decided why she must hide her face when the shameless rapist wasnt concerned about his identity.
Now, even if this is acting, let this be an example for women who are afraid to come out.
So, just watch and give strength to those who are in need in this comment section
Being a girl and growing up is very difficult
It’s kinda scary 😔
Yaa
In this environment its hard for men too
Aeeee chup kar
Ladki ke sath esa nahi hona chahiye
Par dikkat ladke ladki ya fir middle gender ki bhi zindagi me hai apne aap ko special mat samjho
Try being a male lol
@@ovo405 that is by far the most ignorant thing I've ever heard perks are to good and some may like being feminine.
This girl has serious PTSD due to that trauma, I hope she joins therapy. Stay strong girl❤️
What is PTSD and how do you know that she has that? Just curious
@@kikisounds it's post traumatic stress disorder, a mental health problem that occurrs after any past experience, and person is not able to recover from that
I wish I was your brother and you told me about the entire incident, the next thing that would have happened is me getting jailed for killing a bastard!
Don't do that. Just call out other men on their sexism please. That will do something.
@lilac bruh
@lilac it's a product of sexism.
@SHIRSHO DASGUPTA nope it's r*pe culture. R*pe Culture is an environment in which r*pe is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. R*pe culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women’s rights and safety.
R*pe Culture affects every woman. The r*pe of one woman is a degradation, terror, and limitation to all women. Most women and girls limit their behavior because of the existence of r*pe. Most women and girls live in fear of r*pe. Men, in general, do not. That’s how r*pe functions as a powerful means by which the whole female population is held in a subordinate position to the whole male population, even though many men don’t r*pe, and many women are never victims of rape. This cycle of fear is the legacy of R*pe Culture.
@lilac yes they do.
The ppl who disliked are the ppl who say “she invited him to rape her” “it’s the girls fault” “the teeny tiny clothes she wears that’s y it happened to her”
Like ppl we need to stop blaming the victim, we need to blame the rapist.
IKR! I don’t understand how it’s the victims fault it’s like saying during 9/11 America was asking for it. (I’m not comparing the two events just trying to give an example)
i wanna give her a hug. can't even imagine how it must feel to live with this pain mentally and physically
People may not belive you people may say that its your fault but you dont listen. Just keep this in your mind, you are not a victim not a survivor you are a warrior. I am very proud of you.
❤
It means a lot
Her courage to speak up Is really the boldest decision which I will not acquire in my life time ,instead I can only weep on the incident which happened to me when I was a eight old kid...
Hey dear. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. But just remember that the shame is not yours. The whole world is on your side. I would say do share this with someone( I’d say avoid friends.. at least one parent or a relative who you think would deal with it properly) sorrow lessens with sharing. And trust me when you would do it, it would feel like a wieght just went off from your shoulders. You must do it for your own betterment my dear. Lots of love💖. Stay strong dear you are excellent!
After watching this I will take care of my female friends even more ....😔I read the comments here and hope that my female friends trust on me still stays intact.
Are u for real?🙂🥺
@@archa3264 for sure, I just love my female friends a lot☺️I don't have real sisters so they always made me feel like a brother❤️ even after 1 year of completing school.
@@Prateekreactions Plz be like this always
@@kikisounds will be always ☺️
U are a school student aren't u?
I hope she finds someone who makes her happy.
Nakkich milel🙏🏻
I have to say you are Really Positive and caring person
It doesn't matter she will live through it still
@@nikitawaghmare4490 with love and care I hope her pain will be little Less or someday with love and Efforts She will Heal from inside.
I dont hope such things..on the contrary I pray that her wounds get healed..both physical and emotional..if in that path..she gets true love and support..then I am more than happy for her..😇
"He was my friend"
How can do friend something like this!?
That's why "was"
Friend Hey to larka hi naa .aaur jab Pehlay Din say hi issee Nazray Rakhi hoon To Yahi Hona hota hay .Wohi Baat hogi Bahr say kuuch Aur Andr Say kuch
Real friend's don't do that. He was obviously pretending to be a friend so he could do that one day.
@@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 yeah. Obviously.
Yes now that's the reason making me kill my bestfrnd before he do something just kiding😅
Not only she... Every girl one or two times get exploit by man.... Even I'm exploited by a man who was my neighbor and that time my age was 6-7 I think.... But I never opened up this with anyone.... Today I have married to good man who is caring me like his daughter ....and I have 2 years old son now ... I'm teaching all the good manners to him ..... Everyone says to open up but its not possible for everyone to do so...
😊 I'm happy that you are teaching your son such good values ❤
When i was like 4 or 5, my friend and i went outside to play and walk over to random places, we started talking to a rickshaw driver (no idea why) anyway he showed me his penis, i didn't understand anything, i didn't even know what it was that he was showing me, up until i grew up and started listening to stories like these, i remembered this memory and realised how inappropriate and wrong his behaviour was..
@@cottoncandace7704 😣😔 I also faced this kind of situation
@@ishansharma3138 I'm so sorry to hear that,
It's so heartbreaking that stuff like this happens to children who are innocently walking around or playing in the streets 😔💔
@@cottoncandace7704 😔💔 yes and when we grow up then we realize this nasty world 😣
🤗 merry christmas
❤❤
You had the courage to speak my girl... Not everyone has that... Not e everyone will understand what u went through.... Brave
I do regret not telling my mom that 15 years ago I was molested by my relative, back then I was just 4 or 5 so I didn't knew much about good touch or bad touch, I just knew that he's my relative and he couldn't do anything bad to me. I was molested multiple times in front of my parents (they're in the same room) but they couldn't realise that anything is wrong. Indian parents needs to wake up coz we aren't safe with anyone, not even in our own family. Gladly I wasn't raped coz my mom used to follow me wherever I go, so he never got a chance. Now he doesn't live in India anymore and I can never punish him for what he did.
You are really brave. May you always be happy, fulfill all your dreams and keep smiling always ❤️😊
Can you tell her now? I think you will be relieved more.
Some of the biggest dangers are still some relatives and friends😔
😟😟😞😞 Even worse than a friend. 😩😩 meditation should be brought in life from a. Very early stage like primary school. Evey week a period must be kept for yoga and meditation. Meditation calms your mind and helps you control your emotion better.
Don't be , leave some things for God that they can take revenge
This was very difficult to watch. My heart breaks for you. Now that I think of... I had a male best friend "Z" of 7 years, from school. We been there for each other through good & bad days. 4 years back he called me out to meet him.. to catch up after a long time. We have met multiple times before as teens, but this time I somehow got an odd feeling. I met him in the evening after my dance class, on the way to home. He took me to a lil shady restaurant, when he knew I'm uncomfortable about such things. Then, for the first time in our friendship, he started lightly brushing his hands around my shoulder and arms. My 6th sense started blasting like a siren. I ended the meet-up fast and went home. I reached home so traumatized that I couldn't shake it off for many days. And that was the last day I met him. It's been more than 4 years. Even yesterday he called and persisted me to meet him and I said no. Reflection: I'm uncomfortable with physical touch, irrespective of the gender. I have hugged people only if they're very closely to me. This included 1 male friend. "Z" & I were close but never the hugging types. So when he made a move like that, my mind warned me that his motives weren't ordinary and innocent.
Coming to the video... I'm glad you shared this painful story. Now that I think of, if I would've met "Z" that evening at his home or a private place, he would've definitely tried to push himself over me. And mind you, this guy had been my solid friend for years. Wtf. Girls and guys, always trust your instincts. And be conservative when it comes to your safety.
Name him gurl
"Trust your instincts and be conservative when it comes to your safety" 👍🏽
@@alexchinta1542 Let us stand here for each other. Every person's trauma is valid. I am sorry that it happened to you.
@@alexchinta1542 let's just respect each others trauma vro, I'm really sorry what happened to you but how your comment is worded is just ain't cool
Thankyou for sharing your story. You are a clever girl
To all innocent girls who have been a rape victims: Don’t be afraid of those culprits . You bravely need to say things and come out with out any hesitation because it’s not your fault and you deserve all love and support.If you won’t come out other innocent girls like you will also be a victim of those culprits.I love you guys !Take care I know it will be the toughest thing but you need to and love yourself girl + please don’t hesitate to complain against those sinners !Thankyou
Kindly correct yourself. They are not rape victims they are rape survivors. They r warriors ❤️
parents dont understand not easy to.do at that particular time. and once the time is over to say something we get trapped in our guilt
M so shattered
Literally tears in my eyes after listening what she has gone through
Is that guy really a human!!
@@billiemeow9299 ikr the guilt in us just don't let us speak .. it's been 7 years but I my parents don't know the whole truth, I tried telling them and giving them hints but they just didn't took it seriously.. and also the fear I saw in my mom's eyes just saying that I was touched made me stop telling the whole truth
Did you guys knew that men don't have an Image or more specifically "Izzat"?
Why, cuz whenever anything like a rape attack happens and everyone gets to know about it, everyone says that "SHE has a stain on her image" or "Us BICHARI ki izzat lut gayi". Why does no one says these kind of phrases to culprit who is a man? (not dignity wise). Why don't they say that "He has lost his dignity" or "Us aadmi ne us bichaari ki izzat par haath dala"?
Guys, If you think about it... its all the guy's fault right? Then why put the burden on the girl. Abd this is the main reason why girls don't talk about the incident at all. The y know that if they said anything, the blame and bad phrases will go all one her.But This girl here, she is an ideal for all those rape survivors who can't say anything or tell anyone not eben their own parents about the incident. If this lady of such a courageous personality can tell it on UA-cam (As it's such a wide platform of socialism) then every survivor can too. This girl has showerd that girs are very courageous. GOD BLESS THIS BRAVE LADY.
We probably won't be able to teach our elders to change now. So it's up to us to start doing everything you mentioned here. Hopefully we can move things around in this toxic country and be better parents, friends and relatives.
Perfectly said
Respect and support your opinions girl!!
wow well said
@@shreyanair2804 Yes its time for us to educate the little ones because one day the elders will be gone and the little ones will become the elders. So if everyone educate children and teens, the world can improve.
This happened to me multiple times with my ex. It was 2 years ago. I went through depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and none of the therapy sessions helped. However, only 2-3 of my friends know about this and my family doesn’t. I can never tell them what happened. :(
I understand you, it's hard to speak up when something like this happen its easier to pretend like nothing happened but unfortunately our minds don't let us forget
Why can't you tell them?
Isme aapki koi galti nii hh past ke bare me Mt socho I know it is very difficult to remove this type of trauma but don't thought about sucide my dear just forget and move forward karma deal with them trust me dear just hope on god
@@sakshamsinghal5418 because I don’t have any proof! And that person would turn it on me saying I am crazy and stuff
Girl I went numb just listening to your experience. Shubha you're a warrior and I'm so proud of YOU! Power to you girl and i hope you seek therapy to heal from this trauma soon xx
That shiver in her voice.
Give me chills
Hats off to you!❤️
'He was my friend '🥺
My trust is gona play hide and seek forever now
You're such a strong person. Thanks for sharing this. It's gonna help a lot of people out there
Yes true
Something similar happened with me and I was devastated. I also didn't tell my parents at that time and I feel it's of really no use of telling anyway. Nobody does anything about him even if we all know that he did it. Not even me. My childhood got ruined and now I have Borderline personality disorder. It's really tough you know.
Plz don't reply to this comment, I hate every comment which comes in response saying you are brave and what not. It's really really disgusting and I just feel like I can't do anything in this two faced world.
I had a coworker in college take me to a storage room in the attic and rape me.... He went around work telling everyone I just layed there like I was dead calling me a dead fish. I had a nice apartment at the time, and a full kitchen of cooking knives. I remember trying to talk to the woman I called my mom... And thinking its not helping at all..... And I remember thinking shit I got this.... I was an artist. Because I wasnt backed by family, I chose not to call police. I handled it a bit diffrently. It wasnt 100 successful, but I felt better doing something about it.
Too many of us can relate to your story, thank you for sharing, we are going to make a change
Before this video I was actually planning on visiting a very close friend I have known for years that has been pestering me to visit him,just changed my mind am never gonna go
I know not all men are the same but it's not worth the risk. Better to miss out on this than, god forbid, have something horrible happen to you. If you do go take people with you make sure you are not alone.
when she say he is my good friend!
"MY HEART SHATTERED '
U r the most courageous..I just hope that every girl should have been courageous like u such that after any of such incident, their words will be enough to slam that wild creature
After watching this now I get to realise why my parents were always so overprotective about me ! Back then I was really annoyed at my parents for intruding my privacy but now I realise what made them so anxious about my safety!
Yea same.. I am still a student and now I know why parents are so worried about me. Clearly it's never their fault, it's all because of these hooligans roaming around.
Nowadays, I don't even know who to trust and who to believe!
Lesson to be learnt is never step into a stranger's house even when someone of his age is there in the house
He was her friend, not stranger
@@ahemahem7056 in this case the friend was worse than a stranger
@@aarnachopdekar9490 true
Even if it's a friend, my family doesn't allow. I have good friends
No ,no, no. U r giving the wrong lesson.
The fact you were friends with him and both were in class 12 makes me feel unsafe. I always felt that my guy friends wouldn't do it. Infact anybody's guy friends wouldn't do it but listen to you 💔
You always have to be careful :(
Even I am having trust issues rn
Guys become friends to girls because they find them attractive
Be careful always, can't even trust closed ones these days. We don't know what is going on in someone's mind.
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The whole video I couldn't stop my tears and my feelings about being scared and thinking myself in your place. How painful it was physically, emotionally and mentally. You are here standing and sharing I would be in a very very dark depression. I'm so sorry you had to go through with this. No one deserves to be harassed like that. But harsh reality many women/girls had to. More love, blessings and lower to you. May God make you more stronger. ❤️❤️❤️😭
I started watching this because I wanted to know your story and then when you said he was a friend, I got goosebumps. The situation where you were was so innocent to begin that noone would imagine something like that would be done by someone who I consider a friend. There could have been so many times and honestly it could have been any of us there and honestly dear you are so brave. I would not have had the courage to face my fears like that. Cheers to you girl ❤️
When she said he was good friend of mine ......
Now it makes a picture that keep distance with ur male friend too
Same😓
The most sad thing about this is the people in reply’s defending that guy and saying she’s lying.
Yassss. Fuc* them and that boy too.
This video has changed my perception of the world. I'm disgusted by the fact that there can be boys of my age with such disgusting mentality..😔😔
Stay strong all my sisters in this world..
We can make this world a better place only if we change our mindset!!
So proud. It is so difficult to even speak this. Remembering those dark moments. 🥺
I hope you're all ok, sending huge hugs and lots of love xx
Ive got 5 more operations booked in for 12 May. May your guardian Angel's never leave your side xx
Hello mam how are you now your comment and your love is really heartwarming lots of love and blessings from us too😊😊❤️❤️❤️
My trust on my guy friends has shaken after this 😔. Even I know that none of them are going to do this. But my heart broked after knowing he was your friend. I am having major Trust issues 😒.
I remember my mother cautioning me in being alone with a guy (friend or cousin or any male). Even if she doesn't say anything, she would just hover around & keep an eye on me. Since I grew up in a safe environment, I used to brush off her worries as the worries of a conservative mind. After I grew up, I realised that coz of evolutionary mating instincts, men are aroused very easily. And once they do, they do not control it (as they are seeking pleasure). I was shocked to know all this. It explained so many things.. like how my own close friend in 9th std went to meet a guy innocently for 15 min and came back molested. And that asshole groped her on the road, infront of our 3rd friend! Next day when I heard the incident, I was and still am furious but also so glad that I couldn't join them as my mom was so painfully strict that she wouldn't let me go anywhere out easily. She knew better. So you are right in doubting. Remember, always trust your instincts and the vibe you get off a person. Take care ❤️
@@cynthiajose7787 even my mom is so strict. I understand her concern and as a 17 year old my friends think that why don't I hangout more often as am I a very friendly person. But I don't for my safety. I know that you can't trust anybody in this case. But thank God I have a great family and friends ❤️
@@cynthiajose7787 what evolutionary mating instincts? Please don't make excuses for these things by using biology and evolution. If that were the case then every man would be a rapist. The very fact that some men can control their urges means that it's possible to do that. The ones that don't do that are just fricking culprits. That's it
@@gemini1404 she didn't meant that . And yes they are freaking culprits. Controlling urges is in one's own hand and yes not all are same
@@gemini1404 go and check on Google I can't explain you here about evolutionary mating patterns but yes with time it has changed. And it's not at all justifying rape or any kind of harassment
Girls, we are alone. We need to survive this by ourselves. Please learn how to fight. Please be healthy, eat healthy and keep yourselves strong and prepared. Be vigilant. Carry safety devices and hidden weapons. Learn kalari or join kickboxing classes. I wish you all the happiness.
@Ankit Krishnankutty Yk what? My dressing style is pretty good, but unfortunately your parent's upbringing wasn't good as we see by your toxic comment! And, as I've "learnt to dress" and I'm "open-minded" I wish to show you my self defense techniques too and kick your a$$ out whenever we meet by any chance. I pity the women in your life if there are any by chance cuz you don't deserve. Better watch what you're sayin' and don't teach girls how to dress and what to do if you're sucha small-minded freak with internet connection and have the right to blabber shit. Fuck off! Keep barking.
@Ankit Krishnankutty so kids diapers attracted a man??talking about dressing u talk like women who wear saree chudhidhar are not raped teach urself how to be respectful
@krishna op ur story seems so made up ive never seen a family that treats their girl child better than the guy not a single family i agree that ur sister gets to buy more clothes but u not having permission to wear shorts but ur sister does is an utter lie
@UCaJwekM1qDZXtY9TxsDis-w there are families who restrict their children be it male or female but ur statement was that ur sister is allowed but u arent and i commented on that read ur comment before replying
@UCaJwekM1qDZXtY9TxsDis-w i didnt say the kid diaper thing to you😺ur plainly attacking me cause u dont have anything to say
Don’t trust anyone, seriously. Always be cautious for your own sake
So brave of you to speak out this thing ... A salute to your bravery..
U should have enclosed his name, let him be Slade shamed,
Seriously, who are these monsters??
They don't even deserve to be called humans.
The way she say s that she is still afraid when someone touches her tells us how much she is traumatized by that incident but she truly have shown immense courage to speak out .. why girls should hide as victims while it should b guy who should feel the shame and burden for the heinous act he has done. Seriously these guys are mentally sick !!! We can't wait until there is a massive change in our societies attitude towards women ..till then what can actually bring a change is strict laws and immediate punishments given , that can make atleast some of them think twice before doing something of this sort . Much love to you girl 🥰proud of u .
I have been quiet since 2016, I was in a sexually, mentally, and emotional abusive relationship for five years, i was only 12 and didn’t know better.
If any of you have gone through anything like this, please know that you are not at fault, i know it’s hard to understand but you deserve so much more. I hope we all get the closure we hope for and deserve
I jasmine vekariya from Mumbai, India.
Personally being a Rape Survivor I know exactly how it feels. The scars will remain even after death. Especially when society bottles up us. And people actually do not accept us. Irrespective of whatever it be
Be strong, and shine 🌹prove them all wrong
Wish so called advanced and educated could for real accept us just like normal human being the problem is our law supports and motivate such crimes by not taking any serious action
@@liveliferecreate exactly, no serious action against the accused, they roam freely, also, not a single thought about the mental state of the victim, they don't even bother to provide a counselor.
Its been 6 years now I have been through hell 2years of depression and lost all my moral confidence and courage
I hope you are ok❤
Most of the victims breakdown and never open up. They get traumatized. But this disgusting species lives his life shamelessly like nothing happened. Shouldn't they get traumatized and be in pain?
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Though being a boy.. I can literally feel the pain when she is saying every word..
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I can't imagine how you are narrating this story that happened with you because while listening the story it is very painful it's like that everything is stopped at that time and it's very sad that somewhere at a time in your life he was your friend that gave you such a horrible moment .....it really needs a lot of courage to narrate the incident because every single second that come to your mind and you again start thinking. It really needs strength to live a life after that and hope you have a wonderful life 👍❤️
Every bad person is among us , so be aware n stay alert .I would like to tell about me , I've been sexually assaulted 3/4 times till now. I've never told this anyone expect my fiance . I feel very bad and for what happened with me. I wish I could have some courage to take those guys behind the bars . But eventually I wasn't so matured . And you already know about our society , they'll treat us like we've done something wrong not treat us like a victim
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I’m so sorry. It fills me with anger towards them. I hope your fiance supports and protects you a lot. I dont know if they were all very close to you (like in this video), but i hope that, through karma, the external world as well as their internal world makes them pay.
Mail me back on madcow0070@gmail.com..and I assure u justice anonymously exactly the way u want
It's so disturbing that we don't even have legal laws to give punishment to those bastards... And even if we have they're not even run property and instead blame the girl or women that this happened to her 😢
she's so brave to talk about that, I find it so hard to tell people my experiences because they always think I'm attention seeking or faking
"Don't tell your daughter to be careful outside, tell your sons to behave properly. "
This happened when i was ten years old. It was a priest whom my grandmother knows, he came to our house and i was left alone with my small cousin brothers. This so called priest asked me to come near to pray for me while chanting something he was continuously massaging middle of my chest. Although i was unaware of sexual assaults, i felt extreme discomfort. I started to cry and tried to takeaway his hands off but he was telling this is the way to make prayers. I ran inside to the bathroom and cried, And didn't come out until he left. Years after i understood what i have gone through. I opened up with my parents but they just told that iam just over thinking. But deep inside i know iam a victim. Once ever i happened to see this man again, i'll juz beat him until my anger goes off. And make his dignity lose infront of the society.
my boyfriend forced himself on me when I was 15, I couldn't say anything because I was ashamed as I knew my family would blame me, and I was stupid enough to think that he'll leave me!
Its alright
It was not your fault
More power and courage to you
It's absolutely fine honey🙂it's not your fault
Wish you more strength, happiness and courage to defy monsters like that shitty bf
I have an advice know the person really well b4 being in a relationship with them as this world is cruel
@@amritaarihansaha3216 it's really hard to know the hidden reality of some people
I'm an introvert I don't express even simple things to anyone because I lack courage but as I hear her story I need to say hatsoff to her and try to get some courage . Who ever feels it
You are so strong, girl! Keep taking care of yourself and your mental health
Really brave of you to share this. God heal and bless you. Never leave little girls alone. I learnt this in my childhood. Also, never abuse a woman.
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@@joyemmyi1414 Iam not from the US. My wounds are so deep only God can heal them. That's why Jesus Christ died on the Cross.
I wish I was able to tell the world my story like this, but I'm so happy she got to. I'm so sorry to anyone who has become a victim of sexual assault, and I hope that if you have you spoke up and are working on healing yourself. Sending love to everyone reading this.
I'm sorry that happened to you
I once had a dream I was raped I remember my mental state for few days. I was not coming out of that depression. I can't even imagine how these bravos took this scare and still fighting with it. I can't stop my tears after listening to this fighter.
But you should speak out his name. It will fear other guys too to get exposed who are going to try suck demonic activities with somebody. I salute you girl. You're a fighter!!
@Ankit Krishnankutty just opened the link. I heard that from other women too. But I'm still not sure what makes women enjoy this domination. May be they never came across the roughness and emotional pain. Or they just want to feel they were so attractive that men couldn't resist them and attacked them. But being actually "abused" is something else. I think that's the most scary thing on this planet. And you know there is no shortage of stories when people go in depression for the rest of their life and take their life or attempt to take their life after being assaulted. That's something which can never be enjoyed.
How to know who could be that "good friend" ? Thats why women are afraid of every men around them. And then men say, "Not All Men!" 😑
Wait- You think every single man is dangerous, or did I misunderstand your comment? Because a lot of dudes were raised by good parents and are great genuine people.
@@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 right
@@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 ofcourse they do... But we do not know which men those are... Her good friend did this to her... So how do we know which man is actually good... I agree there are a lot of a good men but the probability of getting assaulted is so high that it makes us question every man...
@@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 She is not saying all men are dangerous.. she is saying about those people who after hearing one word 'men' in a video starts typing "not all men do this".. Those people don't understand the main issue raised and they just get triggered by the world 'men'
My rapist was also a friend of mine. Its not always the man in the shadows. I'm proud of this young woman for speaking her truth.
I will say as a person who's been a situation like this there's absolutely nothing worse than having your own parents blame you for it.
The situation in itself is already terrible but to have the only people that are to support you and love you tell you it was your fault is when you feel crushed and broken.
No one is as strong as ur andU have Really inspired lots of girls No words for u girl That person Will pay
U r strong man....u r the strongest.....u r out here.....u r the hero.....ur courage ur motivation for urself and ur power defines u.....stay blessed stay happy
I see people shocked about a rapist being friends with his targets, but that is how most rapes are. Most are done by someone the victim knows and trusts. This is why "just getting a gun" doesn't prevent rape.
This was very hard for me to watch. Thank you very much for sharing your story with the world.
Thank you so much! *hugs back*
@@shubhashrivastava326 God bless you lots and lots dearest sister 💕 Iam so happy that u recovered 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘u will have bright future ahead for sure🥰u r stronger inside now ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@shubhashrivastava326 dii I am speechless, you are a mentor to me. May god bless you. 😭 You are a holy woman.
I am not sorry i feel guilty of being man its a curse that i have to lift so am gonna train yo become a hero
CAN you buy me some instead cause im a sad rn 😳
U R a Brave Heart Girl. Hats off to you. The culprit needs to be Named and Shamed. We r all with you. Stay strong .Bless you
U r a fighter... U r a survivor...
Respect to u mam...!
Why are the dislikes man?...are u those people she is talking about.
These evil men need to be punished. They will perish in hell for eternity. Eventually they will get their punishment. God bless this strong powerful beautiful woman for sharing her story, I'm sure this video will help a lot of young girls who have been though the same thing.
Yes... I agree 🥺
He was not a man. Real men RESPECT women.
Yess bro
@sanjay amarnani so you call everyone "idiot" Hugh?
@mansi respecting women/= treating them like humans. This is just chivalry bullshit
@sanjay amarnani Feminism only believes on Women Superiority..
There is nothing known as real Feminism...
That's the reason me being a Women doesn't support at all....
@sanjay amarnani Go and read about Feminism moron...
It's much more worst than Marxism...
Sala Maar dalte hai agar inke saath Ideology se agree nah karo toh...
55 dislikes who the hell these guys are? look how she bravely told her past which most people would hide and here are some stupid people enjoying and disliking video its not about how many views, likes or dislike but actually shows their personality and mindset
ONE FOLLOW ITS KIND...the one who sometimes or the other did something like this must have disliked it....and then now is...tge result who followed
Fake story deserve dislikes 😴
@krishna op humanity is a joke
I wouldn't worry about dislikes much, sometimes people accidentally tap on it. I have done the same thing in past. When I came back to see the video again, I realized the mistakes. It happens. Few hundred dislikes for 16k likes is negligible.
@krishna op But it's India buddy. What kind of girl would do this kind of things in a society where a victim is blamed everyday? It's too much to lose for few thousand likes. Just saying, your logic is flawed.
You are a queen girl!! So many people suffer from rape, not only women but also men and it makes me disgusted that how cruel and sick minded can a person be to do that to someone and the fact that they are still people like that in our society is just disgusting. Stay safe everyone and if you feel like someone is doing something with you that is not normal or inappropriate then pls don't hesitate to tell it to your loved ones like your parents or your siblings or your friends etc❤
This whole thing, and talking about it is very BRAVE of you.
I wonder who are those two hundred people who disliked?
Always stay strong girl
Monsters :)
They are those mean and hateful people who believe that a girl should rather die than discussing such ordeal. 🙄
There were such people also when nirbhaya's mother was standing for her for so many years...they were calling her shameless and all😔
they must be one perpetrate such crimes!
Maybe even they might have done wrong with some one.
Shubha, first of all, I am(a random girl who JUST knows you) PROUD of you!
More more more power to you.Can't imagine someone did that, but thank you for bringing it up, thank you you for being so daring. Very Sad and horrified to hear that this happened.
Honestly, this is amazing that she said all this. Especially in India. I am sending all the love bc this girl is amazing. Thank you. I hope no one ever has to go through this ever.