I quit dying my hair in 2020. $125.00 every 6 weeks was just ridiculous. I just let it go natural silver and curly and super long. So much of a $ saver and I get compliments on it all the time.
@@raisingwildflowers it’s better to live a frugal life rather than stay in debt. You have done a very wise thing as you anticipated that you will not be able to keep up with the increasing cost of living
Girl, living debt free in a camper is nothing to be ashamed of. For real. I’m listening to Dave a Ramsey calls where people are so over extended and broke they are returning their groceries to Costco. I think your family is doing great.
Finally a young smart American, that hasn't been brain washed, you go girl!!! And you don't need all of those beauty products, you have a natural beauty!!
A lot of us aren’t brainwashed and live simple lives but still struggle keeping a roof over our heads and food on the table. It really depends on which state you live in honestly and how expensive it is.
The older I get the more I wish I had done this when I was your age. Stuff is just stuff and we spend our lives attaining it. You are rich for learning this at a younger age. Live for you and not for others❤
@@raisingwildflowersI didn't have running water growing up and our food was always Day old now that I am grown I love taking a long hot shower and just flushing A toilet And eating good food
Debt free here. We go out to eat one time per year (zero takeout), meal plan and cook at home, cut our own hair, have 20 year old cars, and “vacation” off grid. We lack nothing. You are 💯 correct that it’s a mindset.
My parents and grandparents lived what people call off grid these days, for them it was a way of life. They didn't own any modern convinces like tv's, microwaves, etc and drove old beat up trucks that was held together by baling wire . My mom was one of 12 children and I'm one of 11. Our gardens were huge, and worked by mules and a hoe. They even dug their own wells, shallow wells around 60 ft deep,but they provided water for everything. Mom washed our clothes in a #2 wash tub and rinsed them in another #2 tub., we also bathed in those same tubs and drew the water from the well with a rope and bucket. Mom had a peddle operated sewing machine and made all our clothes except the boys jeans. She was up at 4 am seven days a week and everyone went to bed when the chickens went to roost. We had a wood burning stove that was used year round for cooking meals. When daddy bought seed potatoes, he bought them in 50 lb bags because they were to carry a large family for a yr. Just our potatoes took a 1/2 acre, plus we grew corn, cow peas , butter beans, turnips, collards, mustard, sweet potatoes, okra , squash and I'm sure I've left something out. We had lots of nut and fruit trees. Momma never used a pressure canner, but she canned so many things. Our shopping list was flour, corn meal(unless daddy took corn to the grismill) coffee, tea, salt, sugar, washing powder, Clorox, and talcum powder for the baby. We raised our own meat and our grease came from pig fat. We had the cutest dresses to wear to school, but because they didn't have a tag we were looked down on by kids whose parents bought their clothes in town. Our clothes were prettier than anything they bought from the store. When my dad passed away he didn't leave a mountain of debt for my mom to worry about. It was a much more simple life and we had a lot of fun playing in the woods, creeks and fields, hardly ever had anyone sick in the family, but a few broken arms from falling out of trees or something silly we did to ourselves. A cast on for about 6 weeks and we were out doing the same silly things again.
Actually surviving on less than $200 per month and growing own vegetables and only purchase meat 6 times per year. I drink water and use wild berries for flavor also marked down fruit and vegetables is so much easier than keeping up with trends
I work for the government. My director is incredibly toxic. I’m going to sell my house and move to 1000-1200 sq ft home in Mississippi. Back to my roots. I always felt like I needed to retire from the government but I’m so unhappy. I’ll find me a remote job making less money with no debt and I know I’ll be happier. I want to be free.
I had to walk away from a toxic very abusive situation similar to what you stated in your post. I could not continue to be mistreated. I too am much better because I decided to leave despite reprisal. God did not put us on earth to be mistreated for promotions and or a pay check. I pray for you and wish you well.
@@Vil-qp6xl amen. He did not put us here for that. I praise God I received a remote job offer today doing my same job as a contractor. If it’s His will, I will return to the government as a federal employee at some point. I’m so happy to be moving. My closing is Monday! Thank you for those encouraging words.
There is no benefit to conforming to a sick, unhappy society. We are very similar to your family. We are in a single wide on 18 acres. No debt, no limitations. 100% happy. Good for you!
I've never been into things like fancy clothes, cars, etc. Having a bunch of stuff around me makes me unhappy. Always liked the idea of being able to throw everything I own in the back of my car and taking off whenever I feel like it. No burning desire to be rich, just able to meet our needs, help others when I can and enjoy life with firends and family.
That Henry David Thoreau quote is one of my favorites. Heres another for you... The only way to deal with an unfree world is to get so free that your very existence is an act of rebellion. ---Albert Camus. Good Luck!!
Vanlife taught me so much about the value of "stuff" and "things" and extreme limited space. This has carried over easily to an off-grid micro-tiny 10x12 well insulated and professionally custom-built home with no frills. It gives me a 360 view of the beauty of the forest in which I live. It's easy to heat and to keep cool, and using a compost toilet and hauling water has become second nature through the years. I dont feel the struggle like most do without the stress and worry over rising out-of-control rents, utilities, taxes, insurances, and essentials like gas & and groceries. I've never been happier at 65 years old! People who feel "stuck" right now need to educate themselves about alternative lifestyles because the old paradigm IS NOT SUSTAINABLE!
Agreed. No facials, no expensive hair products, no expensive makeup. (No makeup because i am allergic to it.) I'm to cheap to spend my money of any of that stuff. Im tooo cheap!!! And proud of it.
I am very impressed by everything you and your family do for the best of your family. Being debt free is an awesome thing and unfortunately, I didn't learn that until my late 40s. I'm now 52 and am still new to budgeting, savings, long term investing and being frugal (as well as debt free). Great video!
Wise beyond your years!! Living a very fulfilling life by not falling into the consumerism instilled life that so many do and teaching your children valuable life lessons!! The family time spent together are what children really need and what they will hold most dear as they grow. Love your channel 🤩🌟💫
Our monthly expenses are ridiculous and it causes me stress all the time. Thank you for speaking up about caring for animals. They are more important than just providing a product.
Nice video. That's close to my budget. I'm 77 on Social Security. I save around $1,100 a month (out of $1,744 income). Love my 25 year old minivan and 100 year old house. Sold my really nice house for more than I expected and bought this one 20 years ago, that was built by a Bootlegger during the Great Depression in 1/3 acre. The money I save usually goes to upgrades to the house and a separte cottage (former horseless carriage, dance hall, gambling casino), now a very pretty cottage/art studio. Eat well and have all I need. When I was working I wasted too much money.
Wow! If you weren't married, I weren't married, and I wasn't 66 years old I'd be in love !!! Congratulations to you and, your hubby! Keep those priorities straight. Y'all are doing great!
You are a beautiful, insightful and loving person, and it is refreshing to see someone who so young that has not been brainwashed by our society. I feel the same way about nature and the intrinsic worth of animals independent of their worth as it applies to how they can be used by humans. Thank you for sharing with us.
Love seeing Falcon and the furbabies. Y’all are being smart , not like a lot of folks these days, in this consumer world. Love your being intentional with your spending.
From an early age I planned to and eventually lived this life style, but I could not find a woman that also wanted to live that way. You are a rare Jem that are few and far between, world wide. And congratulations on your results.
I wanted to do that after graduating school in '84. I was told I would be disowned, not accepted, and never able to come home!!! I wish i would have done it. I would be so much more happier!!!
Wow sorry to hear that. Carpe dime even now if you still want there. There are those who don't like to stretch and try. Doesn't have to be put on you (presumably the son). Sigh
You have to understand, most people aren't ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they'll fight to protect it.😛
I love what you mentioned about nature being a part of us and that we lost our connection not only to something outside of us, but to ourselves. So true, I love that. I also love that you don't let other people/ society determine how you live your life. Thank you for sharing! 💗
When I was born went home from hosp to a tent..lived in a couple of tin sheds and caravans till my father built our beautiful home out of home made bricks.and what a wonderful childhood we had..
Love seeing your precious baby boy, man he is growing!! It’s crazy seeing how much he is growing since he was born and so smart! Love that you rescue animals, never change ❤ you all have big hearts and the world needs more of that ❤and I love your lifestyle!
Impressive! I'm a single senior with a paid off house and paid off cars and I live fairly simple on ~ $1,400 a month. I'm conservative and definitely not extravagant, but I guess I could use some lessons on being more frugal! I cut my own hair, do all my own car service, no cable or streaming, basic cell and Internet service, low utilities (no a/c in Texas!), low homestead property tax ($530 yearly), no alcohol, smaller 864 sq. ft. prairie ranch house with an attached 624 sq. ft. garage/shop, no pets or animals.
@@LisaGray1000 Frugal doesn't mean living poorly, next week I'll be starting a three state sight seeing and visiting friends and family road trip. I just don't like to spend wastefully or mindlessly. I'll spend money on some things during the road trip that I normally don't buy - but I won't be buying souvenirs or trinkets. Those things I'm not spending money on are just not that important to me, or not the way I want to spend my time. Cutting my own hair saves time - I'm not driving to a barbershop or solon and waiting for my turn - plus I can do quick trims when needed and always look my best. I like to do my own car service because I think I do a better job than most quick lane shops and it gives me a chance to inspect everything and do preventative work - it also saves me a lot of down time because my car doesn't have to wait for days for repairs like in most shops. I don't watch much T.V. anymore, and most movies are geared towards teenagers and I have no interest in multi players online games. I do have a window A/C that I will use if I'm not feeling well, I do enjoy A/C when I go out for dinner, I like to use dinner time to get out of my house; I usually spend ~ $180 to $270 a month on eating out , I do look for the specials and senior discounts. I also enjoy A/C when I go shopping. Most of the time I just open windows for a breeze, I feel that it is important to acclimate yourself to warm weather so that you can still enjoy outdoor activities even when it gets Texas hot. I like to putter in my yard, I usually wait to do that later in the day when there is less direct sunlight. I don't buy any beer or alcohol because I prefer different flavored drinks or water - which is interesting because I once owned a bar even though I'm not really a drinker. I'm out of my house all the time, so until that changes I don't want to have animals that would need attention while I'm not home. I think I like modestly and decently. If I had more money it wouldn't much change what I do - but I would just be more deluxe, like staying in nicer hotels when traveling and driving a newer car.
A thoroughly enjoyable and common sense based video. Sounds like you are doing all the right things for the right reasons. And enjoying and learning whilst doing so! Thanks for sharing. More please!
The FIRE plan is ideal. As a woman, I share the responsibilities I have toward my family and how that is what God has for me, and that makes men run away. If I didn't have to work, I'd just be tending to my older and disabled family members. I still do but I'd be able to give them more time. I pray that working is for a season, and one day I don't have to work a traditional job.
I LOVE it when you share your budget. Thank you! Your cell phone bill is great! I am paying $260.00 ish for 5 lines a month! And it’s with AT&T. It’s killing me! I do enjoy hearing about your perspective on life. So beautiful! Wish I was your neighbor. 😃
Don’t sweat what people think if they don’t approve cut them loose they will only steal y’all’s dreams it’s because there jealous of your beautiful life y’all are working on never let anyone get in y’all’s way girl btw you don’t need makeup you are beautiful inside and outside I’m just a simple country boy I’m going to retire in a few years I’ve got a home that we live in and an off grid cabin at which I’m going to live when I retire I’m 59 this year and I don’t let people’s negativity get in my way it’s my dream not there’s just like y’all’s I’m debt free and have been for 5 years or more yall just stay the course !! Thanks ERIC 👍
I love everything you said about animals and pretty much everything else. Thank you so much for being the positive example this world needs especially with other life around us. Many people suck sooooo bad but seeing someone who has compassion and empathy is refreshing ❤
Nothing to be ashamed living in a camper. When I retired 9 years ago, I bought and paid cash for a used 5th wheel trailer that I live in today. I'm debt free and live on my $900 a month Social Security. I'm happy and totally content. I too cook all my meals from scratch and I don't waste money eating out or having food delivered. I do my dishes by hand and hang my laundry outside to dry. I only shop the outer aisles at the grocery. I don't by junk food or processed food. I make my dogs food as well. He has never eaten commercial dog food. He'10 years old and super healthy. So, I think you are doing a great job and super smart in all you've accomplished. Keep up the good work!!!!
Where do you park your 5th wheel do you have land and are off grid or are you connected to water and electric? I am considering this a 5th wheel but wondering where to put it
@@TraceyBergum I live full-time in an RV park. I have full hookups. I love this park I'm in. I'm in the mountains in Colorado at about 9,000 ft. Surrounding me is National Forest where my dog and I go hiking a lot in the spring, summer, and fall. The closest city to me is about 30 minutes away but I seldom go there. All I need, I can get in the small town about 3 miles from me. Park rent is a lot higher in big towns so I suggest you look for full-time parks more rural. I paid $7,000 for my unit. It's a 2001 model. I have 3 slides. It's 8x35 when slides are in. Some parks want newer units, but there are ones, like mine, that will take some older ones as long as they are in good shape and look good. Just make sure the roof is in good shape and never leaked, the water heater has been maintained, and the furnace is in good working condition. When living full-time, you will want to skirt your unit, not only for looks, but helps keep it warmer in the winter. Hope this helps.
@@kenyonbissett3512because my income is below the poverty level, I qualified for food stamps, medicade, and the State covers my Medicare. Check with your local social services to see if you qualify for anything. Best wishes.
I’m going into Fall of 2024 on a 1000$ a month budget. Not easy, it was my choice so I could homeschool my kids and make it happen. I’m grateful I am debt free and can do it. Love your channel. Happy to find my “tribe” even if only virtually!
Right there with ya. Moved out of Portland Oregon and built a school bus conversion while working at a KOA campground. We spend the winter living on BLM desert in Az and work in town. Summer allows us to slow travel and work seasonal jobs. We have 3 kids homeschooling. Solar on our bus roof. Propane to cook all our meals is 50$ a year. Rv insurance is 500 a year. Living simple and boring is the best. Most of all our kids are complimented by so many people and that is what we are proudest of. Good on you.
I really admire you and your family for your values and your commitment to live by them. You are a wise woman and you are giving your children the greatest gift there is, knowing what is really important in life.❤
As a single homeschooling momma, who lives in a camper, babysits and works in a nursery. So i can spend as much time withy kids and help others grow while keeping everyone safe. I really find your vixeo refreshing. I am simliar! I live off about $800 a month! We are simple i love it
Bravo!! This is certainly one of the best things you can do for yourself, your family and the world. Keep making videos. Your message is an important one. I’m so happy I found you.
Thanks for sharing your personal lifestyle tips on finances. I'm always looking for free and fun things to do with my kids and I forgot about library and they have activities and story times at mine so thank you for the reminder 💜
LOVE your channel which I just discovered. You are giving your kids the most valuable kind of education there is. What an amazing way to live one's life. Good for you and thank you for sharing your experience and inspiring information :)
I love this! We are right now fixing up a very old 800sq ft house without any plumbing or electricity, it will only cost about $10k to fix up and we’re selling my husband’s motorcycle to fund a lot of that. And then we’ll move there and sell our current house, which is a fixer upper. It’s a fun idea to go live off grid, but it’s mostly so we can pay off all our debt and build our forever home (which will also be small by today’s standards) debt free (which will honestly take a few years to finish). We’re very motivated to live a debt free life. Our plan is to pay off about $300k in debt within 4 years.
I am the same. So many people around me say that going into debt for school is an investment etc. Not to me. Not to me…I want to avoid debt like the plague.
You just gained a follower. I love your whole lifestyle and that’s exactly what i’m planning on doing. I have been saving to get out of debt, buy a land and live off grid. I have been toying with this idea for many years now, and i’m getting closer to my goals. Good luck to you and your family. Love and light❤❤❤
So, I am probably old enough to be your mom and let me tell you something......You are living the lifestyle I have taught and preached to my kids. Living debt free is not as hard as people make it out to be. If you understand money and know how and were you want to spend it anything is possible. I am turning 59 this year and we are starting out world tour because retiring before 60 and travel was our goal and what we saved for. (oh I have always used the same soap as you and castor oil as a moisturizer)
The only ones frowning at you are those who want your money! No worries! You are on the right track. Kudos to you for pushing forward in spite of the pushback.👍💪
I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 25 we have 3 kids. Preach!!!!! You are teaching more than yourselves. We here you talk about how you were stressed at first and figuring out what to do. WE ARE THERE! Just know we are watching and hoping to make the sacrifices and live a free life together. Something either one of us had in our families. Thank you for doing this really. Your getting the wheels turning!
Magnificient! Getting out of debt should everyones goal. It is strange how we as Americans have been duped into believing we need charge up debt. We buy alot of things we don't need with that plastic. We agree whole heartedly about you managing your budget and lifestyle. You must be doing your laundry for free. With just my husband and doing laundry twice a month it is around $30. Building your own home will be fun. It looks like you have a wooded lot. If so, may I suggest getting a saw mill. You can save alot of money milling your own lumber. Not knowing how many children you have may I suggest you not build under 500 sq. Ft.. We live in a little than 600 sq. ft. and it is doable, but tight. Good video!
Thank you for the video. When I am thinking about buying something, I always weigh the cost of the thing against how much time I have to work to get it. I usually decide that the object is not worth the time I have to spend working to get it. Thank you for the Thoreau quotes. He is my guru. Like you, I keep track of how much money I spend. Groceries are getting more expensive & I expect it will get worse in 2025. I know exactly how much money I spend on food & am surprised that none of my friends or family keeps track of food costs. I never eat out or buy fast food. I am 81 years old & still work part time.
What social norm do you not follow in order to save money? 💰
Beautiful skin
I quit dying my hair in 2020. $125.00 every 6 weeks was just ridiculous. I just let it go natural silver and curly and super long. So much of a $ saver and I get compliments on it all the time.
@@raisingwildflowers it’s better to live a frugal life rather than stay in debt. You have done a very wise thing as you anticipated that you will not be able to keep up with the increasing cost of living
@@Angie-bl5bxI dye my own. More convenient too. My husband or sister help me.
We live on less than 40% of our income. At one time we lived on 20%. We are high income but live modestly.
Girl, living debt free in a camper is nothing to be ashamed of. For real. I’m listening to Dave a Ramsey calls where people are so over extended and broke they are returning their groceries to Costco. I think your family is doing great.
I can't believe people do that
@@ashleybosvik3031 I know right?! I would die of embarrassment
@loveandjoy810 living debt free, actually having educated childern and being happy?
Ya that's so embarrassing!
@@sorciere...Well said! 👏👏
@@sorciere...I think loveandjoy meant it was embarrassing to have to return groceries to costco.
Finally a young smart American, that hasn't been brain washed, you go girl!!! And you don't need all of those beauty products, you have a natural beauty!!
EXACTLY what I was thinking! A Natural beauty
A lot of us aren’t brainwashed and live simple lives but still struggle keeping a roof over our heads and food on the table. It really depends on which state you live in honestly and how expensive it is.
Debt free is wealth!🎉❤
The older I get the more I wish I had done this when I was your age. Stuff is just stuff and we spend our lives attaining it. You are rich for learning this at a younger age. Live for you and not for others❤
Everybody can get closer to nature no matter age..
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I just watched the video and you said exactly what I was thinking.
FINALLY A YOUNG PERSON THAT MAKES SENSE
@@Feribrat99 I highly disagree with you! We do not have to cover "everyone” to say the majority of females are twits.
I was raised off the grid. I like the grid, just not its expense. Every time I turn on a faucet, I am so grateful for the easy access to water.
Life is a little better when you can be grateful for the little things ❤️
@@raisingwildflowersI didn't have running water growing up and our food was always Day old now that I am grown I love taking a long hot shower and just flushing A toilet And eating good food
Debt free here. We go out to eat one time per year (zero takeout), meal plan and cook at home, cut our own hair, have 20 year old cars, and “vacation” off grid. We lack nothing. You are 💯 correct that it’s a mindset.
My parents and grandparents lived what people call off grid these days, for them it was a way of life. They didn't own any modern convinces like tv's, microwaves, etc and drove old beat up trucks that was held together by baling wire . My mom was one of 12 children and I'm one of 11. Our gardens were huge, and worked by mules and a hoe. They even dug their own wells, shallow wells around 60 ft deep,but they provided water for everything. Mom washed our clothes in a #2 wash tub and rinsed them in another #2 tub., we also bathed in those same tubs and drew the water from the well with a rope and bucket. Mom had a peddle operated sewing machine and made all our clothes except the boys jeans. She was up at 4 am seven days a week and everyone went to bed when the chickens went to roost. We had a wood burning stove that was used year round for cooking meals. When daddy bought seed potatoes, he bought them in 50 lb bags because they were to carry a large family for a yr. Just our potatoes took a 1/2 acre, plus we grew corn, cow peas , butter beans, turnips, collards, mustard, sweet potatoes, okra , squash and I'm sure I've left something out. We had lots of nut and fruit trees. Momma never used a pressure canner, but she canned so many things. Our shopping list was flour, corn meal(unless daddy took corn to the grismill) coffee, tea, salt, sugar, washing powder, Clorox, and talcum powder for the baby. We raised our own meat and our grease came from pig fat. We had the cutest dresses to wear to school, but because they didn't have a tag we were looked down on by kids whose parents bought their clothes in town. Our clothes were prettier than anything they bought from the store. When my dad passed away he didn't leave a mountain of debt for my mom to worry about. It was a much more simple life and we had a lot of fun playing in the woods, creeks and fields, hardly ever had anyone sick in the family, but a few broken arms from falling out of trees or something silly we did to ourselves. A cast on for about 6 weeks and we were out doing the same silly things again.
I very much enjoyed reading your comment! I’m sure if we were neighbors I would come visit just to listen to all your stories on growing up!
Me too!
May I ask how old you are?
I don't know, I don't think you have to go to those extremes. It's okay to have running water, and a washing machine.
@@alicerafferty9595 I'm 73
Actually surviving on less than $200 per month and growing own vegetables and only purchase meat 6 times per year. I drink water and use wild berries for flavor also marked down fruit and vegetables is so much easier than keeping up with trends
thats good! Meat causes diabetes
@@avasantics8594it most certainly does not.
When you purchase meat 6 times a year do you purchase enough to last threw the year or you just do without the other times?
Carbs or sugar are the cause
Ie: too much
@@avasantics8594OK skippy!😊
I work for the government. My director is incredibly toxic. I’m going to sell my house and move to 1000-1200 sq ft home in Mississippi. Back to my roots. I always felt like I needed to retire from the government but I’m so unhappy. I’ll find me a remote job making less money with no debt and I know I’ll be happier. I want to be free.
I had to walk away from a toxic very abusive situation similar to what you stated in your post. I could not continue to be mistreated. I too am much better because I decided to leave despite reprisal. God did not put us on earth to be mistreated for promotions and or a pay check. I pray for you and wish you well.
@@Vil-qp6xl amen. He did not put us here for that. I praise God I received a remote job offer today doing my same job as a contractor. If it’s His will, I will return to the government as a federal employee at some point. I’m so happy to be moving. My closing is Monday! Thank you for those encouraging words.
I hope you're prepping for this still! Life is so short. It's worth enjoying the moments you have!
Good for you…. It appears the Government is the worst employer in America
I'm excited for you. Hope all goes well.
I would not say you are depriving of anything. You are living life the way we were intended to. What an awesome way to raise your child.
I really admire that you figured out as a young mom that time with your kids was most valuable.
There is no benefit to conforming to a sick, unhappy society. We are very similar to your family. We are in a single wide on 18 acres. No debt, no limitations. 100% happy. Good for you!
Outstanding! ❤
How about your connections to the community?
Not all people in society are not sick and miserable…we all need to live the way we want
@robinbrown7953 how do you know what you really want when we're indoctrinated and brainwashed from birth?
I've never been into things like fancy clothes, cars, etc. Having a bunch of stuff around me makes me unhappy. Always liked the idea of being able to throw everything I own in the back of my car and taking off whenever I feel like it. No burning desire to be rich, just able to meet our needs, help others when I can and enjoy life with firends and family.
That Henry David Thoreau quote is one of my favorites. Heres another for you... The only way to deal with an unfree world is to get so free that your very existence is an act of rebellion. ---Albert Camus. Good Luck!!
Your quote points to the fact that we are all slaves to their system.🫢
That’s MY favorite quote! The HDT quote is my second
I’d love to see you do more a week in the life of meals - for ideas of what that looks like now in the trailer.
Younger generation is so much smarter by realizing you need to be debt free to be free! Great job and great vid!
I see just tge opposite new cars , cellphones, watches, fast fashion, overpriced footwear. The list goes on and on
Vanlife taught me so much about the value of "stuff" and "things" and extreme limited space. This has carried over easily to an off-grid micro-tiny 10x12 well insulated and professionally custom-built home with no frills. It gives me a 360 view of the beauty of the forest in which I live. It's easy to heat and to keep cool, and using a compost toilet and hauling water has become second nature through the years. I dont feel the struggle like most do without the stress and worry over rising out-of-control rents, utilities, taxes, insurances, and essentials like gas & and groceries. I've never been happier at 65 years old! People who feel "stuck" right now need to educate themselves about alternative lifestyles because the old paradigm IS NOT SUSTAINABLE!
I’d like to learn more about your living situation
Agreed. No facials, no expensive hair products, no expensive makeup. (No makeup because i am allergic to it.) I'm to cheap to spend my money of any of that stuff. Im tooo cheap!!! And proud of it.
😂😂😂 omg it ruins people faces I believe
@@chaoticallysay2625no it doesn’t
I am very impressed by everything you and your family do for the best of your family. Being debt free is an awesome thing and unfortunately, I didn't learn that until my late 40s. I'm now 52 and am still new to budgeting, savings, long term investing and being frugal (as well as debt free). Great video!
Wise beyond your years!! Living a very fulfilling life by not falling into the consumerism instilled life that so many do and teaching your children valuable life lessons!! The family time spent together are what children really need and what they will hold most dear as they grow. Love your channel 🤩🌟💫
Our monthly expenses are ridiculous and it causes me stress all the time.
Thank you for speaking up about caring for animals. They are more important than just providing a product.
Nice video. That's close to my budget. I'm 77 on Social Security. I save around $1,100 a month (out of $1,744 income). Love my 25 year old minivan and 100 year old house. Sold my really nice house for more than I expected and bought this one 20 years ago, that was built by a Bootlegger during the Great Depression in 1/3 acre. The money I save usually goes to upgrades to the house and a separte cottage (former horseless carriage, dance hall, gambling casino), now a very pretty cottage/art studio. Eat well and have all I need. When I was working I wasted too much money.
Your man is very lucky to have you!!! ❤
100%
And I'm sure shes lucky to have him... team work ❤
For the seeds: a lot of libraries now have seed libraries and they let you take seeds/share seeds. Worth a check
I will definitely check that out! Thanks for the idea 😊
I actually got a few seeds from a local library this year❤
I can second this
You have a beautiful mindset, family and moving in the right direction! Bravo 👏
I love you for the simple fact that you love animals just because they’re wonderful! I am the same! Love my rescues!
Wow! If you weren't married, I weren't married, and I wasn't 66 years old I'd be in love !!! Congratulations to you and, your hubby! Keep those priorities straight. Y'all are doing great!
That's a weird thing to say knowing that you're already married to your wife that would probably be disappointed if she heard you say this.
Finally! Someone with some good ole common sense! ❤ Thank you
You are a kind soul caring for animals in the way you do 🩷 teaching children how precious all lives and nature are sets them up very well for life ❤
You are living my dream! God bless ya'll! Much love!
I’m so glad I’ve came across you channel! I’m 48 and in a situation where I’ve now got rid of everything but the basics, you are inspiring ❤
This is amazing !!! Don't worry about what people think you're creating an amazing life for your family ❤❤❤
You are a beautiful, insightful and loving person, and it is refreshing to see someone who so young that has not been brainwashed by our society. I feel the same way about nature and the intrinsic worth of animals independent of their worth as it applies to how they can be used by humans. Thank you for sharing with us.
So much wisdom in this video! I also love all the pictures of your little girl, animals and beautiful scenery.
Love seeing Falcon and the furbabies. Y’all are being smart , not like a lot of folks these days, in this consumer world. Love your being intentional with your spending.
From an early age I planned to and eventually lived this life style, but I could not find a woman that also wanted to live that way. You are a rare Jem that are few and far between, world wide. And congratulations on your results.
For me, you're winning at life.
Finally a video that's making lots of sense.
I wanted to do that after graduating school in '84. I was told I would be disowned, not accepted, and never able to come home!!! I wish i would have done it. I would be so much more happier!!!
Wow sorry to hear that. Carpe dime even now if you still want there. There are those who don't like to stretch and try. Doesn't have to be put on you (presumably the son). Sigh
You can still do it, it absolutely does not matter what other people think ❤
I won’t live like you but I live a much more frugal life than most these days for sure!
You have to understand, most people aren't ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they'll fight to protect it.😛
I love what you mentioned about nature being a part of us and that we lost our connection not only to something outside of us, but to ourselves. So true, I love that. I also love that you don't let other people/ society determine how you live your life. Thank you for sharing! 💗
When I was born went home from hosp to a tent..lived in a couple of tin sheds and caravans till my father built our beautiful home out of home made bricks.and what a wonderful childhood we had..
Love seeing your precious baby boy, man he is growing!! It’s crazy seeing how much he is growing since he was born and so smart! Love that you rescue animals, never change ❤ you all have big hearts and the world needs more of that ❤and I love your lifestyle!
Impressive! I'm a single senior with a paid off house and paid off cars and I live fairly simple on ~ $1,400 a month. I'm conservative and definitely not extravagant, but I guess I could use some lessons on being more frugal! I cut my own hair, do all my own car service, no cable or streaming, basic cell and Internet service, low utilities (no a/c in Texas!), low homestead property tax ($530 yearly), no alcohol, smaller 864 sq. ft. prairie ranch house with an attached 624 sq. ft. garage/shop, no pets or animals.
Do you need to be more frugal or can you afford to enjoy yourself a bit more at your stage of life?
@@LisaGray1000 Frugal doesn't mean living poorly, next week I'll be starting a three state sight seeing and visiting friends and family road trip. I just don't like to spend wastefully or mindlessly. I'll spend money on some things during the road trip that I normally don't buy - but I won't be buying souvenirs or trinkets. Those things I'm not spending money on are just not that important to me, or not the way I want to spend my time. Cutting my own hair saves time - I'm not driving to a barbershop or solon and waiting for my turn - plus I can do quick trims when needed and always look my best. I like to do my own car service because I think I do a better job than most quick lane shops and it gives me a chance to inspect everything and do preventative work - it also saves me a lot of down time because my car doesn't have to wait for days for repairs like in most shops. I don't watch much T.V. anymore, and most movies are geared towards teenagers and I have no interest in multi players online games. I do have a window A/C that I will use if I'm not feeling well, I do enjoy A/C when I go out for dinner, I like to use dinner time to get out of my house; I usually spend ~ $180 to $270 a month on eating out , I do look for the specials and senior discounts. I also enjoy A/C when I go shopping. Most of the time I just open windows for a breeze, I feel that it is important to acclimate yourself to warm weather so that you can still enjoy outdoor activities even when it gets Texas hot. I like to putter in my yard, I usually wait to do that later in the day when there is less direct sunlight. I don't buy any beer or alcohol because I prefer different flavored drinks or water - which is interesting because I once owned a bar even though I'm not really a drinker. I'm out of my house all the time, so until that changes I don't want to have animals that would need attention while I'm not home. I think I like modestly and decently. If I had more money it wouldn't much change what I do - but I would just be more deluxe, like staying in nicer hotels when traveling and driving a newer car.
You are pretty rich if you can afford to spend that much money every month. Good for you.
@Thomas63r2 have you considered what your legacy will be?🤔
@@os-qt1hc Spending ~ $16,800 a year is not most people's version of rich, I don't know how to respond to being called rich.
A thoroughly enjoyable and common sense based video. Sounds like you are doing all the right things for the right reasons. And enjoying and learning whilst doing so! Thanks for sharing. More please!
Thank you for sharing with us. Living beneath our means is so peaceful and calming.
It’s hard to find a woman to think this way! Congratulations!
I'm sure it's not easy but we're out there 😄
Very difficult to find these type of women. As soon as i share my FIRE plans, girl runs in the other direction. Most want that American dream.
The FIRE plan is ideal. As a woman, I share the responsibilities I have toward my family and how that is what God has for me, and that makes men run away. If I didn't have to work, I'd just be tending to my older and disabled family members. I still do but I'd be able to give them more time. I pray that working is for a season, and one day I don't have to work a traditional job.
I LOVE it when you share your budget. Thank you!
Your cell phone bill is great! I am paying $260.00 ish for 5 lines a month! And it’s with AT&T. It’s killing me!
I do enjoy hearing about your perspective on life. So beautiful!
Wish I was your neighbor. 😃
I have plenty money since I quit drinking alcohol. Dr. Said I can drink or live. I quit drinking .
Bravo!🎉
Congrats!!
Don’t sweat what people think if they don’t approve cut them loose they will only steal y’all’s dreams it’s because there jealous of your beautiful life y’all are working on never let anyone get in y’all’s way girl btw you don’t need makeup you are beautiful inside and outside I’m just a simple country boy I’m going to retire in a few years I’ve got a home that we live in and an off grid cabin at which I’m going to live when I retire I’m 59 this year and I don’t let people’s negativity get in my way it’s my dream not there’s just like y’all’s I’m debt free and have been for 5 years or more yall just stay the course !! Thanks ERIC 👍
I love everything you said about animals and pretty much everything else. Thank you so much for being the positive example this world needs especially with other life around us. Many people suck sooooo bad but seeing someone who has compassion and empathy is refreshing ❤
Nothing to be ashamed living in a camper. When I retired 9 years ago, I bought and paid cash for a used 5th wheel trailer that I live in today. I'm debt free and live on my $900 a month Social Security. I'm happy and totally content. I too cook all my meals from scratch and I don't waste money eating out or having food delivered. I do my dishes by hand and hang my laundry outside to dry. I only shop the outer aisles at the grocery. I don't by junk food or processed food. I make my dogs food as well. He has never eaten commercial dog food. He'10 years old and super healthy. So, I think you are doing a great job and super smart in all you've accomplished. Keep up the good work!!!!
Where do you park your 5th wheel do you have land and are off grid or are you connected to water and electric? I am considering this a 5th wheel but wondering where to put it
@@TraceyBergum I live full-time in an RV park. I have full hookups. I love this park I'm in. I'm in the mountains in Colorado at about 9,000 ft. Surrounding me is National Forest where my dog and I go hiking a lot in the spring, summer, and fall. The closest city to me is about 30 minutes away but I seldom go there. All I need, I can get in the small town about 3 miles from me. Park rent is a lot higher in big towns so I suggest you look for full-time parks more rural. I paid $7,000 for my unit. It's a 2001 model. I have 3 slides. It's 8x35 when slides are in. Some parks want newer units, but there are ones, like mine, that will take some older ones as long as they are in good shape and look good. Just make sure the roof is in good shape and never leaked, the water heater has been maintained, and the furnace is in good working condition. When living full-time, you will want to skirt your unit, not only for looks, but helps keep it warmer in the winter. Hope this helps.
I’m 15 mos from Medicare. Do you pay a lot out of your $900mo for Medicare?
Do you own your own land?
@@kenyonbissett3512because my income is below the poverty level, I qualified for food stamps, medicade, and the State covers my Medicare. Check with your local social services to see if you qualify for anything. Best wishes.
Samuel Clemens said that too
The cost of something is the amount of time you spent earning that money.
[Or the joy it took to make it.]
I’m going into Fall of 2024 on a 1000$ a month budget. Not easy, it was my choice so I could homeschool my kids and make it happen. I’m grateful I am debt free and can do it. Love your channel. Happy to find my “tribe” even if only virtually!
You are living my dream!
Right there with ya. Moved out of Portland Oregon and built a school bus conversion while working at a KOA campground. We spend the winter living on BLM desert in Az and work in town. Summer allows us to slow travel and work seasonal jobs. We have 3 kids homeschooling. Solar on our bus roof. Propane to cook all our meals is 50$ a year. Rv insurance is 500 a year. Living simple and boring is the best. Most of all our kids are complimented by so many people and that is what we are proudest of. Good on you.
I really admire you and your family for your values and your commitment to live by them. You are a wise woman and you are giving your children the greatest gift there is, knowing what is really important in life.❤
Que inteligentes son, el tiempo es oro, el mejor make up es la salud, y el bebé es un tesoro.Felicitaciones !!
You are heroic and an inspiration to me to live well below my income. I’m retired now and am almost at the point of being debt free.
As a single homeschooling momma, who lives in a camper, babysits and works in a nursery. So i can spend as much time withy kids and help others grow while keeping everyone safe. I really find your vixeo refreshing. I am simliar! I live off about $800 a month! We are simple i love it
Your baby girl, and those little pigtails on her head oh my gosh, she is adorable!
Bravo!! This is certainly one of the best things you can do for yourself, your family and the world. Keep making videos. Your message is an important one. I’m so happy I found you.
Loved the video! Sounds like a lovely way to live! I'm very frugal as well and enjoy the little things in life. Blessings...
This is wonderful I need to start to be become frugal again.
Dr Bronners is an all natural product!!! Very good stuff!!!!
Thank you for your respect for our fellow animals. ❤
Great humans; keep doing the things. Appreciate you for the perspn(s) you are for animals/others you care for. Godspeed.
As a single mom this has always been my dream. Thank you for sharing
Thanks for sharing your personal lifestyle tips on finances. I'm always looking for free and fun things to do with my kids and I forgot about library and they have activities and story times at mine so thank you for the reminder 💜
LOVE your channel which I just discovered. You are giving your kids the most valuable kind of education there is. What an amazing way to live one's life. Good for you and thank you for sharing your experience and inspiring information :)
I love this! We are right now fixing up a very old 800sq ft house without any plumbing or electricity, it will only cost about $10k to fix up and we’re selling my husband’s motorcycle to fund a lot of that. And then we’ll move there and sell our current house, which is a fixer upper.
It’s a fun idea to go live off grid, but it’s mostly so we can pay off all our debt and build our forever home (which will also be small by today’s standards) debt free (which will honestly take a few years to finish).
We’re very motivated to live a debt free life. Our plan is to pay off about $300k in debt within 4 years.
One of my greatest fears is debt. Once we got out (it took several years) I’ll do just about anything to STAY out.
I am the same. So many people around me say that going into debt for school is an investment etc.
Not to me. Not to me…I want to avoid debt like the plague.
Precious Falcon!! Love that precious soul❤❤❤❤❤
You just gained a follower. I love your whole lifestyle and that’s exactly what i’m planning on doing. I have been saving to get out of debt, buy a land and live off grid. I have been toying with this idea for many years now, and i’m getting closer to my goals. Good luck to you and your family. Love and light❤❤❤
So, I am probably old enough to be your mom and let me tell you something......You are living the lifestyle I have taught and preached to my kids. Living debt free is not as hard as people make it out to be. If you understand money and know how and were you want to spend it anything is possible. I am turning 59 this year and we are starting out world tour because retiring before 60 and travel was our goal and what we saved for. (oh I have always used the same soap as you and castor oil as a moisturizer)
Beautiful little family. Very wise words. 👏
Thanks for sharing! I would love to see a video on how you feed your animals for a lower amount.
Me too. I just have chickens, but I too am looking at ways to cut costs
Very smart. I am impressed, especially from one so young.
Omy gosh me too bronners peppermint soap. Im looking at moving into my van. You guys are awesome.
The only ones frowning at you are those who want your money! No worries! You are on the right track. Kudos to you for pushing forward in spite of the pushback.👍💪
First video I've seen from you......new sub......thought I was alone in trying to get my life this simple
I lived in a rv for several years, I saved a lot of money doing so.
This is one of your very best videos. I love your values.
Thank you!!! 😊
I like the style of your videos. As it is helpful to know what to expect on the homesteading journey.
Good for you . Your smart do your own thing whats right for you🎉❤
We live extremely simple as well. Virgin coconut oil is the best night cream.
I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 25 we have 3 kids. Preach!!!!! You are teaching more than yourselves. We here you talk about how you were stressed at first and figuring out what to do. WE ARE THERE! Just know we are watching and hoping to make the sacrifices and live a free life together. Something either one of us had in our families. Thank you for doing this really. Your getting the wheels turning!
Magnificient! Getting out of debt should everyones goal. It is strange how we as Americans have been duped into believing we need charge up debt. We buy alot of things we don't need with that plastic. We agree whole heartedly about you managing your budget and lifestyle. You must be doing your laundry for free. With just my husband and doing laundry twice a month it is around $30. Building your own home will be fun. It looks like you have a wooded lot. If so, may I suggest getting a saw mill. You can save alot of money milling your own lumber. Not knowing how many children you have may I suggest you not build under 500 sq. Ft.. We live in a little than 600 sq. ft. and it is doable, but tight. Good video!
Great advice. You baby is so sweet at the end. God has blessed you.
If you want to save money on seeds. I buy the produce at the store and use the seeds from them. I've found they seem to do better in my area.
It’s a lifestyle choice for me as well. I love living in an rv. I’m always outside and connected to nature . I love my freedom!
Amazing 👏🏻 I lived in many countries across the world. It's very nice to see people who are connected to nature in the U.S. need more people like you
I live near Walden Pond. Walden is a book that is relevant even today. 💜💜💜
Thank you for the video. When I am thinking about buying something, I always weigh the cost of the thing against how much time I have to work to get it. I usually decide that the object is not worth the time I have to spend working to get it. Thank you for the Thoreau quotes. He is my guru. Like you, I keep track of how much money I spend. Groceries are getting more expensive & I expect it will get worse in 2025. I know exactly how much money I spend on food & am surprised that none of my friends or family keeps track of food costs. I never eat out or buy fast food. I am 81 years old & still work part time.
I bought the planner because of you and love it!!!! Great video and my dream to live like you do.
aww! The ending is so cute
Thank you for choosing to rescue animals, rather than using and abusing them. ❤
Your daughter is adorable!