Finding Happiness in Relationships | Pastor Steven Furtick

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  • Are you single or married? Is it complicated? Learn one way to find happiness no matter your relationship status.
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  • @makingourmark6987
    @makingourmark6987 4 роки тому +945

    I asked my mother how can I find the right woman for me. Her response was concentrate on becoming the right man. Amen to that.. 🙏

  • @Temmysdiary
    @Temmysdiary 6 років тому +897

    Happiness is not finding the right person, Its be the right person 🙌

  • @msali7134
    @msali7134 6 років тому +354

    Happiness isn't about finding the right person.It's being the right person.

    • @josiahali1030
      @josiahali1030 6 років тому

      Amen!

    • @justink.3576
      @justink.3576 5 років тому

      Amen Ms Ali even you are right person you lord might put a person in your path to help them by praying together, pray for eachother for everything

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 роки тому +1

      Right! Because if you can't be happy by yourself, you will be putting too much pressure on him.

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 3 роки тому

      Exactly!

    • @dawnbell4854
      @dawnbell4854 Рік тому

      @@justink.3576 ⁵ppppppppppppppp

  • @corrinnem.3730
    @corrinnem.3730 6 років тому +221

    "Is your focus on finding, or becoming?" Wow! Got stuck with this on my mind! ❤

  • @ellamaehayes217
    @ellamaehayes217 5 років тому +342

    My Marriage definitey needs some Prayer.I want to one day be able to say this man and I have been married for 20 years and so on.However the past few momths Satan keeps ripping us apart.Please Pray for Us,Rodney and Anna,Thank you so much God Bless

    • @brianafisher3021
      @brianafisher3021 5 років тому +4

      Ella Mae Hayes I’m praying!!!

    • @tayclemons
      @tayclemons 5 років тому +3

      Just said a prayer for you guys! 🙏🏾

    • @luzish080
      @luzish080 5 років тому +2

      Ella Mae Hayes need this prayer too..the battle is fierce

    • @curtis8457
      @curtis8457 5 років тому +15

      Satan isn't doing anything. YOU ARE. Become a great marriage. You and your husband just need to sit down and ask WHAT IS A GREAT MARRIAGE? DO WE WANT THAT? HOW DO WE HAVE THAT? THEN BECOME THAT. It's NEVER TOO LATE TO BECOME GREAT! MAKE IT HAPPEN TODAY!

    • @lindelwab3051
      @lindelwab3051 5 років тому +1

      Praying for you

  • @MusicIsJoyyy
    @MusicIsJoyyy 6 років тому +133

    It’s amazing how this preaching came as a notification as I was typing to my husband about the exact same thing. Thank you God for your guidance in the middle of my lack when you are so much worthy

  • @lisaherrera23
    @lisaherrera23 6 років тому +184

    PASTOR Steve Furtick is a absolute amazing pastor. I thank GOD for using pastor Steve to spread the news of the greatest LOVE Story ever written. HE always speaks with so much Love and passion. Sincerely Lisa Herrera

  • @Crystal-lx7pv
    @Crystal-lx7pv 4 роки тому +11

    Don't expect someone to make you happy. You have to be happy within yourself first. Your happiness comes from God. Don't pray that God changes your partner he already knows that but pray that he changes your heart towards bitterness and resentment.

  • @symphannie7282
    @symphannie7282 6 років тому +89

    The Lord has allowed me to hear this 3+ times, I believe just within one week. He is definitely telling me to focus; Yes, my Lord, you have my attention!👑✝️🕊️🙌💟

    • @victorortiz76
      @victorortiz76 5 років тому +1

      Symphannie ' Amen.

    • @reecebartlett8565
      @reecebartlett8565 4 роки тому

      You definitely need to focus being that beautiful you need laser focus.

  • @monty_luvsthelord5793
    @monty_luvsthelord5793 3 роки тому +10

    It’s very true, if you are not the right person you can destroy the relationship with the right one. Thanks to the Grace of God the right person has been patient and still hasn’t ran away yet, but seeking to become a better person and my relationship with Father is first and I know then all my other relationships on this earth will be solidified since it’s built from the Lord.

  • @uniquelife7225
    @uniquelife7225 5 років тому +67

    This guy is annointed.
    Love your preaching mate.
    God bless you more

  • @dawnsisson
    @dawnsisson 6 років тому +65

    The TWO will "BECOME" ONE!

  • @joyferguson7492
    @joyferguson7492 5 років тому +97

    Please keep my marriage in prayer we are giving it one more shot praying that god can soften my husbands heart and pray that he changes for me and the kids

    • @Crystal-lx7pv
      @Crystal-lx7pv 4 роки тому +14

      Sometimes the change is within us not our partners. I was separated and for 8 months I'm back with my husband now because God answers prayers I begged God to change my husband he told me clear as day in my heart you change your heart and I will change your husband! Praying sister in christ.

    • @lifhasiakamagasannkuna9156
      @lifhasiakamagasannkuna9156 4 роки тому +5

      Focus on doing what God told u to do as a wife and leave the rest to Him

    • @Crystal-lx7pv
      @Crystal-lx7pv 4 роки тому +1

      @@lifhasiakamagasannkuna9156 amen

    • @punkfunk212
      @punkfunk212 4 роки тому +1

      so.. you single now? ;)

    • @carmenvannoord1592
      @carmenvannoord1592 4 роки тому +5

      May Jesus help you both in this time of trial. It's hard on kids to see parents at war with each other. Keep fighting the good fight Joy but fight it with love not just anger or hurt.

  • @nadiarich5263
    @nadiarich5263 4 роки тому +30

    Please pray for our marriage as well, Nadia and Mike 🙏🏻
    Somehow feels like it's falling apart. Keeps getting to this point. Know God can save us. Thank you

  • @thatolekitla5488
    @thatolekitla5488 5 років тому +22

    Your videos have changed my life, I see God use you to deliver messages that have purpose. Thank you

  • @corrislinden8689
    @corrislinden8689 4 роки тому +9

    Happiness isn’t about finding the right person it’s about finding happiness within yourself before you love and be happy with somebody else the main focus is “The two will become one .”

  • @HopefulCompass
    @HopefulCompass 5 років тому +22

    "What can you do for that poor right person?" 😆😆😆😆Touche.

  • @angelawoods4443
    @angelawoods4443 3 роки тому +6

    For all us single people thank you!

  • @stevepadilla858
    @stevepadilla858 6 років тому +55

    Always learn from Stevens messages. But I am also disapointed as well.
    The disapointed, is in my self for not writing down the message to study what Gods word is tot through Steven. He brings the Bible to life and I need to keep it in file. For me and others when needed.
    FINDING HAPPINESS IN RELATIONSHIPS.
    I wrote it down, and listen once again and take my Wife on a date, just to hold her hand and talk.
    I want her in my life, she wants me in her life, We Both Need JESUS in our lives. It starts with him. And We Both will Need Each Other To Pray Together.
    Thank you Steven Furtick for helping us see this.

    • @torrihoward9729
      @torrihoward9729 6 років тому +3

      Steve Padilla I will keep you and your wife in prayer.
      The enemy wants division and we as Married Couples can't have it!
      Continuing holding your wife hand and her heart.
      GOD Bless 🙏

    • @stevepadilla858
      @stevepadilla858 6 років тому +1

      Torri Howard Thank you so very Much for your Prayers. Marrage I feel should always be Prayed for.
      Stevens message about being Focused in my self to be the person she needs me to be through God, I want to always focus on Gods needs for Life.
      Thank you again for your Prayers. Elevation should have a marriage forum for men to help men and women to help women.
      Share notes on passages and what to maybe try.
      I am just tired of seeing my Wife on one end of the house with her cell phone and me on the other side, each of us comment on a program we really are not watching. I sat next to her and she was perplexed, I said I sit here in peace and want to watch Elevation Church message. She went shhhess, okay it thought you wanted something else. I said NO YES NO NO, I rather focus on bringing God to the Center of our Marriage again and we never take control again.

    • @torrihoward9729
      @torrihoward9729 6 років тому +2

      Steve Padilla AMEN
      BROTHER 🙏 Put GOD first in All that you do.
      And Study His Word with your wife, place all phones and computers Off and as the head of the house hold teach her The WORD in a Loving way, in God's way.
      Mediate on Jeremiah 33:2&3; GOD Bless you BOTH 🙏

    • @DBE008
      @DBE008 6 років тому

      As you had said you’re at two different points. As long as you both focus on the Lord Jesus. He will draw you both closer to Him and keep Him at the center of it all including your relationships. As you draw near and nearer you will find that He has brought you and your wife closer together. Amen. Paraphrasing what pastor Joseph Prince preached.

  • @joshbartlett3130
    @joshbartlett3130 3 роки тому +5

    This is amazing, “calling you back to focus” once you seek first his kingdom, the other stuff will come in position. If you seek first you will have nothing else... everything else comes...

  • @karolliberto5401
    @karolliberto5401 3 роки тому +10

    I love your sermons! It lifts my spirits and gets me motivated to start my day! Thank you for being real! God bless you!

  • @moneyhoney9538
    @moneyhoney9538 5 років тому +15

    Happiness isn’t about finding the right person. It’s about being the right person!

    • @luzzycrucis4320
      @luzzycrucis4320 2 роки тому

      I'm luzzy from Philippines hello to everyone I'm. Christan for 24 years sometimes I'm struggle for being, a singleness and I asked God why I'm still singles but I don't have right to ask God I know God has, a, reason. I'm still singles .Jesus is a, single. Single. Is nor a worse I think it's a blessing because we can do a lot a things to served God. If God give me an awesome man thanks if not it's ok..relationship is not our happiness. Only God can full our happiness someday we can have eternal in heaven

  • @mcnielentertainment
    @mcnielentertainment 4 роки тому +4

    Pastor Steve, what an inspirational sermon you have given. We cannot love one another without remembering the love of God that is present in us and our lives.

  • @carleenemcgovern1514
    @carleenemcgovern1514 Місяць тому +1

    I pray every day GOD will Bless me with A Good Christian Man I Believe with all My Heart ♥️ 🙏

  • @mommy4two19
    @mommy4two19 4 роки тому +7

    I absolutely LOVE listening to him preach! He often adds humor in his sermons and is straight to the point!

  • @purposedriventv
    @purposedriventv 3 роки тому +2

    I needed this tonight. Seek out “BECOMING” who God intended you to be.

  • @ChampionsCentre
    @ChampionsCentre 6 років тому +7

    Preach it Pastor Steven! Relationships are so important but focus on them proves that you realize they are important!

  • @eveck5398
    @eveck5398 6 років тому +9

    Your charisma is through the roof pastor, preach 👏

  • @JoseRamirez-yc8hj
    @JoseRamirez-yc8hj 5 років тому +13

    I wish I would’ve done these things early in my relationship. My partner and I have three kids and we are now going thru some difficult times I have hope that we will get to be one again and recover each other back.

  • @happyemmanuel2171
    @happyemmanuel2171 6 років тому +9

    Your so blessed pastor , may God bless you always

  • @armecinarcelyn5321
    @armecinarcelyn5321 6 років тому +3

    Amen 😊😊😊
    I Already see this Preaching in TBN but i love watching it again and again and i save it to my You Tube Offline ....Thank You Pastor Steven GOD BLESS YOU MORE AND MORE...

  • @nokukhanyanomfundo8850
    @nokukhanyanomfundo8850 6 років тому +12

    Thank you for reminding me to be focused and that God still love's me

  • @olubusolaabiodun8889
    @olubusolaabiodun8889 6 років тому +2

    Wow! Stumbled on these messages by Pastor Steven Furtick. I'm overwhelmed, I'm amazed, I'm blessed, I'm understanding God more. Indeed " The greatest gifts that God gives are wrapped in doubt" and "Only YOU can talk yourself into your destiny "

  • @shannonwooters3443
    @shannonwooters3443 6 років тому +7

    Steven I love you so much. I love your teaching your knowledge.. I am new to digging into the word, the LORD.. truly and fully.. I've always believed in God and wanted to read the Bible I just never have I've tried when younger and didn't understand it, I had no support system for guidance. I am trying a Bible art journal and I am loving your direction.. it's helping me alot and I smile more and I look forward to watching and listening and soaking in your words of the Lord. Thank you for all that you do. Have a blessed day.

  • @AmberDennis001
    @AmberDennis001 3 роки тому +2

    I need to work on not getting jealous when I see engagement posts on social media. I’m 26, never been engaged, only had 1 real boyfriend, and feel so behind in life.

  • @CdntTnkOfAUsrName
    @CdntTnkOfAUsrName 6 років тому +3

    Oh my God, I shouldn't be laughing. But I have tears right now! "We worship a guy who stayed single till They KILLED HIM!!"

  • @shantelzenda7974
    @shantelzenda7974 6 років тому +11

    THANK YOU PASTOR STEVE FURTICK FOR ALLOWING GOD TO USE YOU,"WONDERFUL TEACHING" INDEED

  • @mukeshimanalouise4897
    @mukeshimanalouise4897 6 років тому +4

    pastor thank you so much for your word. You make me happy and to be honest actually God bless you so much. I love you

  • @mypreciouspetsfamily1867
    @mypreciouspetsfamily1867 2 роки тому +1

    Sometimes there are people that even you gave everything and it seems who give your whole life to that person but still he/she will never appreciate you. EVEN they are the one who did a mistakes and never say sorry, but still I forgive. Sadly cause it kinda rare to find a person that who will fight for the love. That no matter what even your doing a right thing or how being nice to that person still he/she never think the same thing... Instead it will lead up to separation, divorce, grudges etc. And after that happen the only thing you can do is to pray and ask courage to God that everything will be fine.

  • @edaliavega1
    @edaliavega1 6 років тому +22

    Beautiful message 🙏! One has to be happy with loving God and oneself in order to build a firm foundation in a relationship...

  • @AnjeyoAnanda
    @AnjeyoAnanda 6 років тому +13

    God leads me here today...

  • @kiahernandez2194
    @kiahernandez2194 Рік тому +2

    Wishing I can find a whole sermon

  • @osowers6755
    @osowers6755 4 роки тому +4

    "When you stop caring about what God cares about he will no longer back your endeavors." (That is because your actions and endeavors will be out of his will).

  • @brendajones8073
    @brendajones8073 6 років тому +2

    Beautiful Sermon,So So True!

  • @joshuasfootychannel
    @joshuasfootychannel 6 років тому

    Pastor Steven you are amazing at bringing the word of the lord can listen to you for ages feel like God speaks to me through you

  • @debralebarron7816
    @debralebarron7816 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the great advice too.

  • @dhartman309
    @dhartman309 6 років тому +10

    Pastor, you have taught me so much and you are truly amazing and down to earth. You seem to talk straight to my issues

    • @stevenfurtick1259
      @stevenfurtick1259 Рік тому

      In my few prayers with you, I saw a spiritual alter in your lineage fighting against your progress you need to do something to break this yoke.

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone 5 років тому +5

    Ur doing a great job, It's not for them but it's for Us who believe in you.. All the way from South Africa.🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲

  • @jonathanrodriguez6806
    @jonathanrodriguez6806 6 років тому

    Wow pastor what and amazing eye opener. Thank you. God bless you

  • @adonistapleton1461
    @adonistapleton1461 3 роки тому +2

    Please pray for healing in my marriage.

  • @lucysep1853
    @lucysep1853 6 років тому +3

    Pastor thank you for letting God use you to safe my life. pray for us as we try to open a rehab in Darling,Western Cape,South Africa..... Our youth needs the blessing of God to break the chain of addiction....

  • @honeybunny9505
    @honeybunny9505 4 роки тому +1

    Never been married before but this one gives me knowledge not to look for the right person that will complete me but be that right person in my heart! Awesome! 💘🙂

  • @melindmccluske8109
    @melindmccluske8109 5 років тому +2

    Powerful insight.pure freedom.highly appreciated.

  • @raullangajunior216
    @raullangajunior216 6 років тому +4

    Blessed message

  • @jollinajavato4255
    @jollinajavato4255 6 років тому +1

    I need this. amen🙏

  • @muthembafei
    @muthembafei 6 років тому +6

    Ameen ....this is powerful

  • @joyferguson7492
    @joyferguson7492 5 років тому +9

    Just want to thank steven for his word i listen to him everyday at work for 8 hrs and it has changed my life and has given me hope and a new look on life

    • @amber2947
      @amber2947 5 років тому

      Joy Ferguson we should talk! I'm in MN.. you? I have similar situation. Its not easy

    • @gregabert7
      @gregabert7 4 роки тому

      Hello

  • @lorinmadrid8790
    @lorinmadrid8790 4 роки тому +1

    Love this. Really made me realize things in a different perspective

  • @steffisuzanah
    @steffisuzanah 6 років тому +12

    Good message!

  • @mattmckeehan3574
    @mattmckeehan3574 5 років тому

    @StevenFurtick My brother in Christ I prayed for the guidance and God brought me here, what an anointing you must have my brother, thank you for your pure words and guidance of God written in a penmanship called love

  • @cherrystem2693
    @cherrystem2693 2 роки тому +1

    This is good
    Thank u Pastor Steve 🙏

  • @cathleenwohllebe8815
    @cathleenwohllebe8815 6 років тому +31

    Amen, I am so thankful for finding this website.

    • @torrihoward9729
      @torrihoward9729 6 років тому

      Cathleen Wohllebe AMEN 🙏 THANK YOU JESUS 💞

  • @lovelylabuayan3123
    @lovelylabuayan3123 4 роки тому +1

    waiting is preparing, I believe on You God

  • @asiodaisy
    @asiodaisy 5 років тому +5

    there is alot of finding....yet our focus ought to be becoming

  • @mandy2hug
    @mandy2hug 5 місяців тому

    Watching from the UK, and goodness me!!! I needed reminding of this truth tonight!!

  • @sanchrist6849
    @sanchrist6849 5 років тому +1

    I verily love this man... always telling the truth

  • @luzish080
    @luzish080 5 років тому +1

    Willingness and Obedience is the forerunner to finding purpose

  • @BiolaJinadu
    @BiolaJinadu 6 років тому +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @mehemojie5024
    @mehemojie5024 6 років тому +6

    Happiness is being the right person.

  • @xquizitfaith2911
    @xquizitfaith2911 4 роки тому

    Thank you Steven.

  • @princezzknows1657
    @princezzknows1657 4 роки тому +1

    Finding the right person , is being that right person 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Juangco
    @Juangco 6 років тому +2

    Glad I found this website

  • @allicapronouncedallakuh3291
    @allicapronouncedallakuh3291 3 роки тому

    I loved all of this!!!!

  • @ginaloiseau6005
    @ginaloiseau6005 6 років тому +6

    Powerful message 👏👏👏

  • @frankdaviella3241
    @frankdaviella3241 4 роки тому

    Woow happines is not finding the right person but being that right person..wow am blessed

  • @sesulawrance258
    @sesulawrance258 6 років тому +4

    SHALOM. I AM BLESSED BY THE WORD OF GOD. FROM MALAYSIA.

  • @SantoshKarjee
    @SantoshKarjee 5 років тому +1

    Praise the Lord.... Inspiring message...

  • @marthaurquilla9999
    @marthaurquilla9999 6 років тому

    Very revealing message, l love it! Thank you Jesus! Bless ptr.Furtick for passing this messages, that bring light into darkness. 💝

  • @AnitaSingh-cx3dz
    @AnitaSingh-cx3dz 5 років тому +45

    Pray for my family and husband for get a good job

    • @aaronespinoza8729
      @aaronespinoza8729 5 років тому +1

      Anita Singh praying! God works every single thing for our good. He is good and He does good. He’s faithful and He’ll show it to be true to you.

    • @challenge2357
      @challenge2357 5 років тому

      God doesn't work from the outside in, but the inside out. The tools are in us use the gifts that you have and take responsibility for your actions.

    • @Donnah1979
      @Donnah1979 5 років тому +1

      @@challenge2357 God works in any and all ways that he chooses!
      And don't tell someone unemployed that it's their own fault. You don't know what they've been through!

    • @challenge2357
      @challenge2357 5 років тому

      @@Donnah1979 Our actions matter. There is no intervention from God . People can help through their own actions. If we are responsible for destroying the earth we must take responsibility and make it better ourselves. Nobody is going to save it or us but us, and even then, there is no guarantee.

    • @louisecarlatorres2367
      @louisecarlatorres2367 5 років тому

      Amen.

  • @kellygilligan1856
    @kellygilligan1856 Рік тому

    Now doing the right way!

  • @annetkinyua5118
    @annetkinyua5118 6 років тому

    I love this
    Thanks

  • @sarasundgren9011
    @sarasundgren9011 6 років тому +6

    So good! Thank you Furtick

  • @Richard-ib3kp
    @Richard-ib3kp 2 роки тому

    Success in relationships is about resentment management. Focus on that and your relationships will succeed. Figure out what could be done to cause resentment and work hard to not do it.

  • @dustinyazhe8937
    @dustinyazhe8937 2 роки тому

    Amen thank you God bless you all ✝️🙏🏻

  • @thebackyardguru3785
    @thebackyardguru3785 6 років тому +4

    So so so so so good......

  • @dpapavicente
    @dpapavicente Рік тому +3

    This is really good I like this ❤

  • @sassyloks
    @sassyloks 3 роки тому +2

    Pray for my relationship of 14yrs. God help!!!

    • @bobvincent2251
      @bobvincent2251 3 роки тому +1

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  • @mehemojie5024
    @mehemojie5024 6 років тому

    Best message yet.

  • @themalachilife6752
    @themalachilife6752 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Pastor Steven. Care what God cares about! 🍞🍷 be the right person, find then become!!! Amen.

  • @lexilovesyou5825
    @lexilovesyou5825 5 років тому +3

    Thank you... I needed this. I feel like in all relationships of all kinds, you pretty much have to have your priorities pretty straight. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself creating unhealthy relationships or friendships.

  • @jokes646
    @jokes646 6 років тому +16

    Love this vato thank you JESUS for how you seek HIM 😎

    • @dianedavids2002
      @dianedavids2002 6 років тому +1

      Thank you God for my daily bread and inspiration by pastor Furtik.

  • @mommybree1783
    @mommybree1783 3 роки тому +1

    I will patiently waiting 🙌🏻♥️

  • @johnreed4123
    @johnreed4123 6 років тому +6

    This was for me

  • @kadeshkogoya4563
    @kadeshkogoya4563 6 років тому +1

    Best message.

  • @chinxdrugz9025
    @chinxdrugz9025 6 років тому +33

    JESUS is KING..

  • @joashmars9585
    @joashmars9585 5 років тому +1

    Amazing word

  • @stevecastruita9239
    @stevecastruita9239 6 років тому +1

    Amen, Be the right Person in jesus name

  • @jkithaguru5179
    @jkithaguru5179 6 років тому +1

    comment number 1, I feel awesome about this message. thank you so much

  • @maritessariola132
    @maritessariola132 4 роки тому +3

    Precisely. I keep on finding the right person but I end up being unhappy.

  • @JayJay-sm8zy
    @JayJay-sm8zy Рік тому

    Commitment to control your focus. Amen