If They Walk Away… | Steven Furtick

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  • People can’t define your value.
    In “If They Walk Away...,” Pastor Steven Furtick of Elevation Church reveals that our confidence doesn’t have to be dictated by our relationships with others, but can instead be determined by our relationship to Christ.
    This is an excerpt from “Borrowed Confidence.” To watch the full message, click here: • Borrowed Confidence | ...
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    Section Titles:
    0:00 - The Currency of Confidence
    1:01 - Sex Won't Give You Real Confidence
    3:04 - Get The Right People Around You
    6:14 - "You were supposed to believe in me!" (1 Samuel 17, verse 28)
    8:20 - If They Walk Away, God Won't (1 Samuel 17, verses 28-30)
    10:39 - Don't Let Their Limitation Become Your Insecurity
    12:04 - That Doesn't Disqualify You (1 Samuel 17, verse 33-36)
    14:06 - Even though you've never done this before... (1 Samuel 17, verse 36)
    If They Walk Away... | Steven Furtick

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  • @imanimartinez3787
    @imanimartinez3787 Рік тому +776

    Currently going through a heartbreak and it hurts so much. My heart feels so heavy and I pray everyday for help to get through this. I sometimes feel like I’m loosing myself. I keep praying that this will pass soon. In Jesus name Amen ❤️

    • @sjl7773
      @sjl7773 Рік тому +41

      This too shall pass.God loves you.

    • @christinekyarisiima2587
      @christinekyarisiima2587 Рік тому +43

      I have been there before and some times it felt like I couldn't breathe but God is saying to you right now that His enough for you, Jesus is for you.

    • @latreselatrese4179
      @latreselatrese4179 Рік тому +24

      How are you today? I'm feeling the same 🥺

    • @RevisRevis-vj2wf
      @RevisRevis-vj2wf Рік тому +13

      @@latreselatrese4179 God is with you pray tell em to remove the pain and lead you to where you have to be and feel and he will not let you down. I’m here for you if you need someone to talk too it’s always good 🙏🏻

    • @Unxpekted
      @Unxpekted Рік тому +11

      Same, 7 years and she ended it

  • @kekehaleeey1391
    @kekehaleeey1391 3 роки тому +2170

    Currently healing from a heartbreak.. unable to sleep most nights and breathe most days but with God's strength I'll some day find my strength.
    Update: I’d be lying if I said I’m no longer suffering but yes it has gotten easier. However, I’ve started to realize my judgment in character is poor. I ended up trying to buy my confidence in someone else and it ended up being the worst mistake of my life. Self love is all the love you truly need. Praying for everyone on here and thank you for all the kind words.. ❤️

    • @rainehaberle1988
      @rainehaberle1988 3 роки тому +30

      Amen. His grace and strength is made perfect in weakness..

    • @donaldwalton2694
      @donaldwalton2694 3 роки тому +22

      The joy of the LORD IS OUR STRENGTH 🙌🙌🙌

    • @deeannladowski4935
      @deeannladowski4935 3 роки тому +92

      Im going thru the same. Its been 8 months after 10 years. Dont think ill ever be the same but we have to remember that this too shall pass 💙

    • @katessaparker5783
      @katessaparker5783 3 роки тому +10

      Im so sorry

    • @ChestonUy
      @ChestonUy 3 роки тому +41

      I'm in the same situation right now.. God helped me endured all the pain.. we'll get through this

  • @Girl-vn8qj
    @Girl-vn8qj 3 роки тому +1641

    If someone walks away from
    You don’t chase them. Keep your head up, love God and keep living.

    • @odysseusstallings5535
      @odysseusstallings5535 2 роки тому +18

      I just got out of a long distance relationship of seven years, and it was good and bad. But I got ghosted the day after her birthday and i haven't heard from her since yet I'm still feeling alone and I saw a girl who I called out because she only talked to me when she was bored yet I even asked her out and i saw her today with my cousin who doesn't talk to me. I'm tired of reaching out to people and get pain in return but everyone else gets happiness, friends, everything. I'm alone

    • @dgi15upo76
      @dgi15upo76 2 роки тому +11

      @@odysseusstallings5535 yeah I man understand what that feels like. It’s gonna take some time because it would hurt even when someone would respond an hour later. My long distance relationship did that to me. It wasn’t always long distance btw because she was here in Chicago but moved over to Texas for two months with her mom but came back to stay with her dad. I was talking to her for a total of 10 months but 2 and half of those months we were dating. Our breakup for me wasn’t too painful because I know I did the best I could even though I was the one broken up with. Long story short if someone continually disrespects you (like not responding) leave em you deserve someone better for you. I gave all I could for this girl I helped them move out for like 2 weeks, I gave her my sweater and bought her a teddy bear, I sent flowers over to her while she was Texas and even offered to fly over and stay because she got dehydrated and probably could have died with scarred me badly. Then after I sent her flowers there was one hole day and a half where she didn’t respond to me💀. Dude I get it. And she broke up me like the 23rd of august for a different reason. Apparently I wasn’t calling her and trying to talk to her even though she doesn’t text me first or call me at all when she was over here and through text I was encouraging her with her at her new school because she was scarred. And I asking how she was doing and telling her about my day. It was a lot bro this girl really sucked to talk to sometimes like conversations over text would hours with only like 6-7 messages sent I hated it. Regret is I shouldn’t have called called her but Also I had to talk to her dad and get on good terms because we got caught because she gave me a hicky on our first date! I never even met her dad you know how much guts and confidence it takes to do that. I was prepared for like 2 months waiting to talk to him. But dude ik I feel alone too I have friends or I guess acquaintances but I don’t feel connected to anyone really. Now I’m praying I get accepted into a college or university man it’s a lil stressful but I have faith that God will get me somewhere I need to be in my life. He is my provider. Dude just try and heal the best way you can and whatever’s is best for you. God bless!

    • @odysseusstallings5535
      @odysseusstallings5535 2 роки тому +4

      @@dgi15upo76 Thanks for that man, I really appreciate hearing your story. God bless you

    • @loralilmsitaly6664
      @loralilmsitaly6664 2 роки тому +1

      I needed this , thank you! 😊

    • @numis1095
      @numis1095 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you sister. He walked away n i don't want him back. 😞😏😒😔

  • @bradley5973
    @bradley5973 9 місяців тому +33

    When someone walks away from You , it's God saving you from what he saw in that person and what that person could do harm for you in your future .

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 роки тому +1616

    If they walked away, God Won't. God promised that He will never leave nor forsake us. It's a promise, Please believe it and walk in it.

  • @Ryanjoned163
    @Ryanjoned163 3 роки тому +1096

    God bless you who's reading this comment praying for you and your situations and needs amen to that

  • @berlyngrey9242
    @berlyngrey9242 2 роки тому +409

    God I pray that you heal the hearts of all those who are or have been heart broken. That they know they are loved no matter what! They are beautiful and worthy and special! In Jesus name Amen!

  • @Steven_Costanza
    @Steven_Costanza 4 місяці тому +3

    In my broken heart, I will trust in God. In my regrets, I will come to Him. In my imperfections, I will stay in His presence. Whoever reading this, whenever it is, I hope that you found peace in your struggle.

  • @emilyklever
    @emilyklever 3 роки тому +679

    This is the third time this has happened- I’m in a dark place, crying out, scroll through UA-cam, come across one of Steven’s messages and it’s like God himself speaking right into my heart 🔥🙏🏼

    • @deevirella3394
      @deevirella3394 3 роки тому +9

      Me too! 3rd time.

    • @LizaLavolta
      @LizaLavolta 3 роки тому +10

      Jesus I pray that you would reveal to Emily the common threads so she can close this door for good and walk in the fulness of what you have for her. AMEN!

    • @boundsgarneff5157
      @boundsgarneff5157 3 роки тому +7

      Hi Emily!
      I was reading some of the comments.
      I hope u are in a better place! Remember that nothing is permanent. Nothing is perfect. Nothing is personal.
      If you need somebody to talk with .... Let me know.
      Sending u good vibes from NYC. 😊

    • @Danny-mg4vm
      @Danny-mg4vm 3 роки тому +5

      Am there to I don't know what to do right now. am devastated completely

    • @Danny-mg4vm
      @Danny-mg4vm 2 роки тому +2

      @@tokoviastarot be strong you wil overcome

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 роки тому +726

    "Don't let their limitation become your insecurity"

    • @JULALAINE
      @JULALAINE 3 роки тому +4

      Love this sister. No more offenses sharing and spreading from others and us.

    • @rosalitamarshall1107
      @rosalitamarshall1107 3 роки тому +2

      Amen Amen sister..💫🔥😇

    • @kimberlytate2623
      @kimberlytate2623 3 роки тому +1

      ONE TIME🙏🏻🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @brandihill4705
      @brandihill4705 2 роки тому

      I did that

  • @javon8082
    @javon8082 3 роки тому +514

    Quit looking for confidence from people who have their own insecurities. Quit compromising your values to get your needs met. Start looking for validation from God!🙏❤

  • @NaeK188
    @NaeK188 9 місяців тому +9

    I wasn’t made for the modern dating world. My heart is broken again and God is the only one who has ever been gentle with my heart, he is so loving. I want to grow with someone who is willing to grow too, towards God, towards becoming better people. I want a relationship focused around growth towards Him…

  • @DebBaginski
    @DebBaginski 3 роки тому +467

    When anyone walks away, spouse, kid, best friend, put your trust in God. He will sustain you. It might take a minute to get your footing. Keep praying and keep walking. God has confidence in you even when you dont think your enough.

  • @thehannahlp
    @thehannahlp 3 роки тому +149

    "But when you borrow confidence from the wrong places, the interest rate is ridiculous" I'm sitting and I stumbled too, sir.

    • @ivyveronique3142
      @ivyveronique3142 3 роки тому +3

      I broke down and cried when I heard that..cried for all the times I sought confidence in wrong people and each time I was left hurt, depressed and worse off than before.

  • @kevinishalockhart4046
    @kevinishalockhart4046 3 місяці тому +3

    God is giving me strength literally have had my heart ripped out, my ex left me, ghosted me. So many questions. No answers. God please keep me. God please fix me.

  • @Dreamer4ever777
    @Dreamer4ever777 4 місяці тому +4

    Currently going through a 6 year break-up with my ex fiancé. It feels like he gave up when it got too hard. It feels like those 6 years meant nothing. Currently moving out, getting my own place & completely starting over. Some days are better than others. Some days I feel like I’m drowning. The craziest part about it is I almost feel scarred. Like I’m not sure how to be in a relationship again. Like I’m not sure if I could ever even live with my future husband or trust a man again. I never ever want to feel this pain again. I’m traumatized.

    • @diariesbycyn
      @diariesbycyn Місяць тому

      I’m currently going through the same thing… feels like to them it was nothing and they’re okay while we’re struggling day to day. How are you coping?

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 роки тому +755

    Get the right people around you. There's power in association; As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another (Proverbs 27:17).

  • @Ryanjoned163
    @Ryanjoned163 3 роки тому +309

    6 years clean and sober by the grace of God amen to that TO God be the glory completely clean amen

    • @ronniehart4906
      @ronniehart4906 3 роки тому +15

      Amen I’ve been clean a full month & don’t plan on going back with the strength of GOD

    • @KW-hh3qc
      @KW-hh3qc 3 роки тому +2

      Congrats

    • @mainone8776
      @mainone8776 3 роки тому +2

      Congrats n bless you!!!

    • @debraomotoy1840
      @debraomotoy1840 3 роки тому +5

      1,6 months clean and sober. Amen

    • @debraomotoy1840
      @debraomotoy1840 3 роки тому +5

      I mean 1.5 years!!!!! Thank you. Prayed

  • @trenaedavis5221
    @trenaedavis5221 9 місяців тому +6

    I don't know how UA-cam knows my first real relationship just ended yesterday after he walked away without any closure. I don't know who this man is, but I'm going to listen.

    • @elizabethhunt6149
      @elizabethhunt6149 6 місяців тому

      Same boat at the moment. Literally yesterday.

  • @crystalcici9467
    @crystalcici9467 2 роки тому +237

    Trying to heal my broken heart, Feeling worthless, useless, Embarrassed and so deeply hurt😣 Praying God will help me thru this and Make me a stronger person. 🙏

    • @jennyshepperson3916
      @jennyshepperson3916 2 роки тому +11

      Hi Crystal, sorry to hear. But I promise you, it will get better. Cry and talk about it to God, your best friend. It really helps. I'm 5 months into my heartbreak journey. My daughter and I went on our first vacation alone, our 1st Christmas without him. This morning I woke up thanking God for another day and to help me to ease the pain in my heart. From 5 months ago to now, I promise you, you will reach the summit, so that you can reflect and see what lies ahead. It's wonderful to discover you again, to give time to you again, to enjoy what you love and like. Make yourself pretty, go to gym, meet new people, have fun with you. Because you are special and worth it. Stay blessed and please don't give up

    • @hallederbis2771
      @hallederbis2771 2 роки тому +1

      You got this :)

    • @jordaniamarwein2048
      @jordaniamarwein2048 2 роки тому

      How are you now?

    • @LianaLastique
      @LianaLastique 2 роки тому +8

      Going through the same thing and it feels better to know that I am not alone.
      I Pray we get through this.

    • @jordaniamarwein2048
      @jordaniamarwein2048 2 роки тому

      @@LianaLastique You are not alone. I feel you.

  • @sarahmitchell4010
    @sarahmitchell4010 3 роки тому +693

    I needed this. I’m trying to leave a man, because he doesn’t respect me. I borrowed confidence from the wrong place, that is for sure! This message is right on time. In Jesus name. My higher power!

    • @samsondsouza5108
      @samsondsouza5108 3 роки тому +7

      So we'll said Sarah....god bless you and your family with lots of love happiness joy peace patience prosperity good health and lots of success in your life and your family...god bless you

    • @Kim-bt2vh
      @Kim-bt2vh 3 роки тому +4

      Ditto Sarah....

    • @lisannechavarria320
      @lisannechavarria320 3 роки тому +16

      Hi Im in the same situation, can we talk and help each other in fellowship

    • @sarahmitchell4010
      @sarahmitchell4010 3 роки тому +9

      Hi, yeah, that’d be great. And I hope your situation gets better! I felt this message really made it clear we need to count on God, and find our confidence in him. This kind of confidence no man can give us.

    • @waheebahleonard4800
      @waheebahleonard4800 3 роки тому +14

      @@lisannechavarria320 I'm on the same journey, would be great if we could create a wattsapp group where we can encourage each other through God's word

  • @onyeomachinyeremaka6809
    @onyeomachinyeremaka6809 3 роки тому +359

    Life Is Short
    Storm are Temporary
    Love Is Life
    Health Is Wealth
    Tomorrow Is Never Promised
    GOD Is Never Late
    Jesus Is All You Need
    Amen & Amen & Amen 💞

    • @jesusisreal2604
      @jesusisreal2604 3 роки тому +3

      Amen

    • @user-vc9or5uc4x
      @user-vc9or5uc4x 3 роки тому +3

      Amen

    • @jacobbartlett5232
      @jacobbartlett5232 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @happybirthday3115
      @happybirthday3115 3 роки тому +2

      Matthew 11:5 The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them🙏 Guide, correct and bless us,JESUS

    • @jacobbartlett5232
      @jacobbartlett5232 3 роки тому +1

      @@happybirthday3115 true words

  • @melmarasigan6337
    @melmarasigan6337 9 місяців тому +8

    My fiancée has decided to leave me and is now moving across the country. She is my best friend and we have been close friends for half of our lives. She was the one I was going to spend the rest of my life with. The first person I ever asked to marry me. I am so heartbroken. The pain has been unbearable. Accepting that what we had and the future we planned is gone is killing me inside. I cry every day. I can’t find rest. I am struggling so bad and can’t find peace in the midst of this pain. I have never felt hurt like this before. I am struggling with why I wasn’t worth it 💔

  • @carolyngillihan5085
    @carolyngillihan5085 2 роки тому +130

    Yes, I went through a shattered heart. God never left me. He used it to grow me up. He taught me to trust Him. I slept little, but He gave me peace every morning. He is your strength daily. Yes! You’re going to come out stronger because what the enemy meant for evil, God will use for your good and His glory.

  • @Just_The_Facts393
    @Just_The_Facts393 2 роки тому +84

    I did THAT. I left an abusive relationship. I entered school again. I bought my own house. Now I'm alone, in another heartbreak relationship, my mother is sick, my daughter is struggling with mental health, my other daughter is experiencing trauma from an ex-boyfriend and I feel like I can't take anymore. But this is my THIS. God is going to use THIS to let me look back someday to say "I did THAT". Thank you Pastor Furtick

    • @evelynw2935
      @evelynw2935 2 роки тому +4

      Praying for you and your loved ones. God sees you and has not forgotten about you ❤

    • @BrandonClapp
      @BrandonClapp 2 роки тому +2

      You got this Holly!

    • @chelseav8311
      @chelseav8311 9 місяців тому +1

      I'm sorry for your pain and hope you are doing better now. Heartbreak and life in general is hard. God is our rock and high tower. He will never leave us and forsake us. We just need more faith to believe that more. 🙏🏻

  • @onyeomachinyeremaka6809
    @onyeomachinyeremaka6809 3 роки тому +227

    Who's reads this Lord, pliz touch those who are in a battle for their health, finances, faith, marriage, Peace or something else. Fight their fights, win their wars & give them victory. In Jesus Mighty Name.Amen 💞💖💞

  • @alabamagaboy
    @alabamagaboy 10 місяців тому +3

    The bad news is there is a Heartbroken everyday..The Good News is God Heals everyday too

  • @rickyalger8569
    @rickyalger8569 2 роки тому +16

    I lost my wife to cancer. God pulled me up and carried me to become a stronger more confident man.. It feels amazing to be in The lords grace!

  • @CarolinaRed67
    @CarolinaRed67 3 роки тому +65

    I used to look for love in all the wrong places and faces. Love used to be a physical thing and it took me awhile but I finally got it, love is not physical....love is so much more. Don’t waste your time on the physical. God will bring the right one to you when He thinks you’re ready. Love is a precious gift, don’t waste it.

  • @TheWomanAthlete
    @TheWomanAthlete 3 роки тому +275

    Crazy!! Literally yesterday someone said to me I am “unlovable” and that’s why “everyone walks away from my life”. My replied to that was “then you can walk right out with them” and they did lol but god is with me!! Amen!!

    • @serena_lovesjesus441
      @serena_lovesjesus441 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah that's so mean! But God will never walk away from us because He promised He would stay with us😊

    • @zuleimachavez7546
      @zuleimachavez7546 3 роки тому +3

      The same words I heard before, people is not your source God is and he knows you better than anyone else.

    • @jeniferfuhrman1525
      @jeniferfuhrman1525 3 роки тому +6

      The "unlovable" part is a lie from the enemy. God has a way of purging the toxic from our lives so we can grow in Him! God is crazy about you and always will be!

    • @jazzy9282
      @jazzy9282 3 роки тому +1

      And you should have rebuked the tongue of the serpent in Jesus name and corrected them I am not unlovable I have standards

    • @melissareynolds56
      @melissareynolds56 3 роки тому

      Good for you ❤😁

  • @annatherizamolina159
    @annatherizamolina159 10 днів тому

    Sometimes these past weeks i feel like I'm losing hope because of the trials I've been through but God never stops reminding me of His loving kindness through HIS word and ways.. that's where i borrow confidence and strength to continue believing and keep going

  • @Natalia-xo1yj
    @Natalia-xo1yj 17 днів тому

    Thank you, Pastor Steven Furtick. If they walk away it's because they were the the One and God has someone better. It's a difficult process but people know what they want. And they'll stay where they want. Simple.

  • @Birdboxranch
    @Birdboxranch Рік тому +17

    If your reading this I pray that God blesses you and leads you to your forever person. God makes all thing work together for our grater good Amen 🙏

  • @WeThePeopleNC
    @WeThePeopleNC Рік тому +3

    People need to focus on God and heal. It takes years to heal and be ready for a relationship. Broken people make broken relationships. Its selfish to enter a relationship before you are healed and put God first. We are battling satan and his demons not flesh and blood.

  • @brooker.9305
    @brooker.9305 2 роки тому +100

    After double digit years the man i called my best friend walked away from me in the weirdest oddest most random way when i needed him the most.Im still in shock and don’t understand why.I have to keep asking God to put forgiveness in my heart so that it doesn’t plant roots and sprout bitterness etc. It’s not easy but the more time i spend with God, the more peace i have about it.

  • @user-wi3ox2pt4o
    @user-wi3ox2pt4o 3 місяці тому

    Breaking Generational curses
    Amen
    That's ME
    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @kizztotiebevny3792
    @kizztotiebevny3792 3 роки тому +90

    Im walking away right now from a man that never valued me he never even value himself i started valuing myself and stop looking for it in ppl

    • @gabrielletaylor5499
      @gabrielletaylor5499 3 роки тому +7

      Everh branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit -John 15:2 god bless🤍

    • @jessi9015
      @jessi9015 3 роки тому +3

      you are not the only one sister..the pain is real but God is with us. God bless you

    • @loriwoodson2710
      @loriwoodson2710 2 роки тому

      @@gabrielletaylor5499 second time reading this verse... Thanks for sharing.

    • @NwolcehttrA
      @NwolcehttrA 2 роки тому

      Same

  • @christenlkingsley540
    @christenlkingsley540 3 роки тому +205

    I love the thing he said about getting confidence from people with insufficient funds

    • @jorgebanos7942
      @jorgebanos7942 3 роки тому +1

      I believe it

    • @jorgebanos7942
      @jorgebanos7942 3 роки тому +1

      I think we all are

    • @jorgebanos7942
      @jorgebanos7942 3 роки тому +1

      I don't know the word all too good but I understand what need to speak to someone that needs to hear this message because of the same thing I'm going through the riches so to be blessed

    • @jorgebanos7942
      @jorgebanos7942 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @76helpingdogs
      @76helpingdogs 3 роки тому

      I was laughing

  • @rachaelchiamaka
    @rachaelchiamaka 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Jesus for leading me here

  • @jberg2332
    @jberg2332 2 роки тому +65

    My heart is broken my husband of 31yrs told me he met someone else. I can barely get through the day right now. I'm praying for my marriage to restore....and doing my best to trust God. Please any prayers would help 🙏 😢

    • @lewistaylor3267
      @lewistaylor3267 Рік тому +1

      How are you doing

    • @myaamrath550
      @myaamrath550 Рік тому +18

      Wow 31 yrs that’s so sad… I’m going tru separation and divorce after 9 yrs.. if they can walk away they never valued what they had… leave them.. the grass isn’t always greener.. the fun and lust will die.. hold onto to Jesus cast your cares on him❤ only he can truly heal and love us.. stay strong 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @24pixiegirl
      @24pixiegirl Рік тому +3

      So sorry about that 🙏🏽May God help you with what you’re going through and may he do his will in your life. May he heal your heart.

    • @KVille65
      @KVille65 Рік тому +1

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @daniellethames9752
      @daniellethames9752 Рік тому +2

      I'm so sorry your going through this my heart pours out to you and your in my prayers 🙏

  • @elizabethhhh382
    @elizabethhhh382 Рік тому +5

    I’m currently going through a breakup and I really some prayer 😔 my heart is so broken and I am just trying to keep my faith up.

  • @amandakate1247
    @amandakate1247 3 роки тому +80

    “If you borrow confidence in the wrong places, the interest rate is ridiculous.”👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏🏿

    • @md-mx5zb
      @md-mx5zb 3 роки тому +2

      Loved that 💝

  • @nadkellyful
    @nadkellyful 2 роки тому +6

    My husband left 14 mons ago, he is a bivocational preacher & wants a divorce but wants to stay friends. He says he doesnt love me anymore. I told him he would have to file for divorce bc God is not giving me peace to file, but he doesn't want to file & look like the bad guy standing in the pulpit. I love him so much, we have been married 20 yrs & he just suddenly walked out with no discussion at all. Ive gotten closer to God during this time alone but im 57 i don't want to continue to live alone. I want somebody to love me, i want my husband back but God doesn't seem to be intervening for some reason. For those that will, plz pray God brings him back home to me. Thank you!

  • @reginawilliams6593
    @reginawilliams6593 3 роки тому +2

    Abandoned after 27 years healing is happening but not quick enough tired of feeling lonely and rejected I’m 66 and starting over

  • @sharehappiness4667
    @sharehappiness4667 3 роки тому +38

    My confidence comes from God not people. My helps come from the Lord. If God is for me who can be against me.

  • @brianajohnson6370
    @brianajohnson6370 3 роки тому +71

    "Stop saying I can't do this, I don't know enough" Amen!!

  • @paulcopeland9291
    @paulcopeland9291 Рік тому +20

    I missed my message yesterday and the devil was strong in my dreams, and that's when you know your getting closer to Jesus!!! Thank you pastor

  • @arsenal2621
    @arsenal2621 3 роки тому +92

    Dealing with rejection by a girl I adore and this shows up on my feed, very timely as always

  • @Ginajenki
    @Ginajenki Рік тому +16

    I know He's not through with me yet cause He allows me to wake up every morning & I'm forever grateful!

    • @oscarikenna
      @oscarikenna Рік тому

      Diane Griffith,Yes!!,You must be a good soul

  • @lukeroponthaweathermann3329
    @lukeroponthaweathermann3329 3 роки тому +4

    If your watching this your a beautiful person ❣️

  • @gordonlaser9485
    @gordonlaser9485 2 роки тому +1

    Maybe its God pushing them away so you can have something greater. Keep the faith Brothers and Sisters.

  • @2psycho888
    @2psycho888 9 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes u gotta walk away tho to protect yourself n your spirit n sanity. That's what i always had to do.

  • @melissareynolds56
    @melissareynolds56 3 роки тому +105

    I'm learning that some people are brought into your life as lessons some as blessings weither it be a friendship or a romantic relationship

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 роки тому +1

      Melissa Reynolds,You look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌺,hope you are with a good man!!

    • @arieswoman824
      @arieswoman824 3 роки тому +13

      I'm weary of the lessons. Every one walks away from me when I show them love and dedication. When I will get a break and just have a good, stable relationship where somebody appreciates and loves me back?

    • @BBlongstroke1
      @BBlongstroke1 3 роки тому +6

      @@arieswoman824 That's what I'm saying to..it's exhausting

  • @XanderLife
    @XanderLife 3 роки тому +26

    To who all that reads this God has a plan for you. Stay positive and strong....🙏

  • @carlaramirez8669
    @carlaramirez8669 Рік тому

    I HELD ONTO GOD I HELD ONTO GOD I HELD ONTO GOD!!!!!!

  • @dorleenlastra3337
    @dorleenlastra3337 2 роки тому

    shouting>>>>>AHHHH! The power of THIS is over ME.

  • @peggyself4012
    @peggyself4012 3 роки тому +82

    When you love them you don't run you stick through it

    • @karenrogers6224
      @karenrogers6224 3 роки тому +21

      Not always. God doesn't want us in abusive marriages.

    • @akhamp1943
      @akhamp1943 2 роки тому +5

      Not so!
      You can not control what others do....only what you do.
      You are responsible for you not what others do.....and they are responsible what they do...so don't take on another's guilt or wrong doing.
      All you can do is forgive as God commands we do , so then you free yourself of that pain and hurt .
      Yes it can be a hard process especially when you are hurting, but in time you can, and it is for yourself not them, cause it frees you and you shouldn't live with a hardened heart. That only hurts you...making you bitter and angry.
      Of course we want to do every thing we can to reconcile but if they have made up their mind and you see that ... you need to accept that cause you can't make someone love you if they don't.....bottom line .
      I speak from experience not my personal feelings or opinion.
      Sometimes in this life, we have to pick up the pieces of our heart and move on in this life.
      I will say, being in a close relationship with the Lord is everything .....for He is who gives us the strength and helps us through these difficulties in this life. And I'm so very thankful I have him in my life.
      With God all things are possible!
      "Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him . " (Psm. 34: 8).

    • @akhamp1943
      @akhamp1943 2 роки тому +2

      @@karenrogers6224 You are so right ....God has a plan for each and everyone of us.
      They are plans for good and to give you a future + hope. 😊

    • @night3angel
      @night3angel 2 роки тому +5

      You can love someone and still realise that being with them does more harm than good.

  • @bryanjustus4235
    @bryanjustus4235 2 роки тому +67

    Dealing with rejection from a wife of 20 years that I'm head over heals about. Tring to stand in the gap for her tring to love without expectations tring to be strong for our 15yr daughter and also our 18yr old son that just got married and going to have a daughter in a couple weeks. God comfort me.

    • @tanj9682
      @tanj9682 2 роки тому +4

      Bryan, sometimes God allows you to go through things to shape you and be more like Him. We reject God all the time and He still loves us. It doesn't mean it won't hurt, it just means God is working on us. Stay focused on God, it's bigger than all of us. God loves you and k ows what He is doing.

    • @bryanjustus4235
      @bryanjustus4235 2 роки тому

      @@tanj9682 thank you for that. I think the words you just said is exactly what God is doing with me. Tring to make me more like Jesus , Psalms 55.22 God is close to the broken hearted and saves those that are crushed in spirit, he will never let the righteous fall. Thank you God for being close. My wife and kids have left me. They are being selfish. You are all I have, You take me life and guide me into Your will.

    • @changteisailo2060
      @changteisailo2060 2 роки тому

      Our story is quite similar. I know how you feel. God be with you always as He is in me

    • @tobysmom6362
      @tobysmom6362 Рік тому

      How are you doing now? I’m in the same situation currently. Husband left after a decade together. We had an amazing relationship up until he started having an affair. I’m so broken but pushing through. I hope you are doing good.

  • @cmt5922
    @cmt5922 Рік тому +15

    Currently going through a heartbreak , I feel so hurt ... I feel numb , I feel despair I feel unlovable if I'm being honest.
    I am doin my best to get through this heartbreaking time by finding comfort through prayer & seeking God's discernment to get through this , praying eases the pain a bit but , honestly my heart still aches weighted day with the memories & thoughts we shared together & at the fact that how can someone tell you they love so much one day, then the next don't. 💔 😔😪

    • @doubleIndemnity58
      @doubleIndemnity58 Рік тому +2

      Going through heartache myself but I know that I know that I know Jesus loves me! I pray for strength, peace and understanding of Our Lord's plan for us. In Jesus Name I pray Amen.

    • @cuppiechoklate1152
      @cuppiechoklate1152 Рік тому

      I know right 😭😢

    • @LoveReeses
      @LoveReeses Рік тому

      I feel the same 😢 But God 🙏🏾

    • @RB82684
      @RB82684 9 місяців тому

      Please this is me

  • @Msty1985
    @Msty1985 28 днів тому

    My husband told me today he wants a divorce. I’m devastated. I’ve been fighting. Hearing those words today made me realize I need to let him walk away. I’m going to hold Gods hand with my head up high. I need him more than ever right now.

  • @emmalotu2266
    @emmalotu2266 2 роки тому +21

    Still haven't found my future partner since the last 6years of a relationship that I've been, I loved him but keep lying till I had the courage to leave him completely. I believe that one day I'll find an honest man to love me for who I am. Thank you for this wonderful sermon.

  • @beforetherainbow355
    @beforetherainbow355 3 роки тому +65

    Please pray for my marriage. I think it’s over and I’m defeated. If it weren’t for my youngest daughter I would consider ending my life. This burden is too heavy and my soul is exhausted.

    • @timgreen4137
      @timgreen4137 3 роки тому +10

      I've been in your shoes. My children saved my life, through the grace of God. The marriage was toxic, and thankfully didn't survive. With God's help, I got through it. I'm much healthier and happy now.

    • @timgreen4137
      @timgreen4137 3 роки тому +4

      I've been in your shoes. My children saved my life, through the grace of God. The marriage was toxic, and thankfully didn't survive. With God's help, I got through it. I'm much healthier and happy now.

    • @dejanirathompson7502
      @dejanirathompson7502 3 роки тому +9

      You are valuable
      You are worth more than you think
      God did not create a failure, He created you! And you are a blessing ♥️ Rest your burdens in Him.

    • @LILKIM2236
      @LILKIM2236 3 роки тому +5

      Proverbs 3:5‐6
      Phillipians 4:13
      2 Corinthians 4:5‐7 &16‐18
      Psalm 18:2
      Psalm 18:28
      Joshua 1:9
      My favorite Galatians 6:9💜
      Never give up!
      These scriptures have gotten me thru the most difficult times of my life. Many can relate to your pain, you're not alone...NEVER GIVE UP!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Me_210
      @Me_210 3 роки тому +10

      Open the Bible. Pray and seek him. You will find rest. Give it to the Lord give it all to him what ever you feel. He is one that will never abandon you. He has you in the palm of his hands. He has a plan for you just wait!!!!
      Jeremiah 29:11

  • @sunnyseason6543
    @sunnyseason6543 Рік тому +1

    "You keep trying to borrow confidence from people who have insufficient funds." Deep.

  • @kellyhurley5969
    @kellyhurley5969 2 роки тому +1

    Forgive me for saying this Lord but did anyone else read the caption and move some letters around in Furtick yesss lawwwwdddd let them go 🙌😆Amen I feel better ❤️‍🩹

  • @dopestuff4sale762
    @dopestuff4sale762 3 роки тому +65

    " Don't let your their limitations become your insecurities " wow great line !!!

  • @LoganCharlesbb
    @LoganCharlesbb 3 роки тому +52

    May all who read this receive divine revelation and deliverance for their life situation and may today be the day that the glory of the Lord shine upon you and through you for all of your days forever and ever. In Jesus Name. Amen!! With Peace and Love. May you have a blessed day ❤️

  • @eileenjones9345
    @eileenjones9345 Рік тому +1

    I need prayer, I am in a dark place.. I recently moved past grieving over my late husband. I found a great job and I should be on cloud nine

  • @tamimariefleming3759
    @tamimariefleming3759 3 роки тому +3

    Someone I was SURE sent by God, has been suddenly removed, no explanation, no words.. I’m confused, abs sad, but realize this is when God gets our attention. I’m praying and spending time with Him to truly know Him, and have God search me for any unclean thing abs heal me broken heart.

  • @Ra1ph
    @Ra1ph Рік тому +12

    I asked God today to comfort me and this video has helped me realize so many things on how I should cope
    Your videos has always helped me learn more and more about God it has gotten me so much closer to Him. Thank you Steve much love

  • @wandag7032
    @wandag7032 2 роки тому

    I had to sit, watch and observe. Not eye wide shut. Eyes wide open.

  • @lesli32160
    @lesli32160 3 роки тому +98

    Every morning while I’m getting ready for work I listen to you preaching. Thank you for words. I’ve cried I’ve laughed but without realizing you are helping with my mental instability!! ❤️❤️

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 роки тому +80

    God will work in the midst of these circumstances to bring His glory into the situation and to assure that we end up in precisely the ministry/calling He ordained for us. The enemy may give it his best shot, but He is not able to disqualify us because God is for us and He will work His glory into each situation! (Romans 8:28).

  • @jessirai7772
    @jessirai7772 3 роки тому +12

    So leave them alone and get it from God 🌸🌼💫Amen 🙏

  • @theunexpected1762
    @theunexpected1762 2 роки тому +7

    I pray anyone watching this Abundance of love and happiness is coming to you all you have to do is say i can i will i must. Peace and love to your beautiful sweet soul♥️.

  • @leoandsagg4life725
    @leoandsagg4life725 2 роки тому

    I have a child. And one on the way. Nd. I need prayer for my family. So if someone reads this plz pray for. God to open. My wife's heart nd her eyes open

  • @silentcry4647
    @silentcry4647 3 роки тому +18

    My man walk out of me 7 months back...still healing thank you for this.I really needed this

  • @peggyself4012
    @peggyself4012 3 роки тому +21

    Me and Jesus got our own thing going tell them Pastor when we have Christ we can be confident in him even if we're alone

  • @debrahansen8043
    @debrahansen8043 2 роки тому

    They dont walk away!! They know they have it too good wit me.

  • @leanorasolano6024
    @leanorasolano6024 3 роки тому +13

    🙌I held on to God when I had NOBODY!!! AND I DID THAT🙌🏻👑🙌🏻👑

  • @keishatulai2865
    @keishatulai2865 2 роки тому +12

    Currently going through a storm. There’s so much power in letting all of you go and offering your full self up to God and trusting in his word. I’ve been watching Steven furtick, Sarah jakes and Michael Todd sermons for the past 3 weeks and it’s been such a revelation in my heart. The pain of the heartbreak is still there, though knowing the God will sustain me through it gives me so much reassurance. Healing has to be uncomfortable, it will be painful but with it comes so much wisdom and hope. It’s a process. And it will come to pass 😭

  • @wia379
    @wia379 3 роки тому +23

    “Don’t let their limitation become your insecurity.” Short message but yet so powerful! To God be the glory🙏🏽💪🏾👑

  • @brightronald8643
    @brightronald8643 9 днів тому

    My girl friend whom we have strived together since our college graduation left me coz of my low earnings I'm really ❤️ broken... Thanks for this message Glory be to God

  • @nicolewilliams1268
    @nicolewilliams1268 2 роки тому

    I’m becoming confident. Be still an know…..

  • @JEREMY-su3ir
    @JEREMY-su3ir 2 роки тому +6

    The girl who i loved with all my heart and helped through tough times cheated on me with her ex and i did not find out until i said to the lord to open my eyes and i finally found the truth after 3 months....thank you lord!

  • @katiadominguez854
    @katiadominguez854 2 роки тому +13

    Just recently got out of a long relationship and I'm struggling with healing. This was exactly what I need to hear. Amazing Sermon!!

  • @Ro_dini
    @Ro_dini 6 місяців тому

    Lord hear my prayers. Heal my heart. Amen.

  • @garycupit6035
    @garycupit6035 2 роки тому

    A Partnership with the God of the universe that’s what I’m talking about

  • @walkinNpurpose
    @walkinNpurpose 3 роки тому +51

    Thank you for this message. Im grateful for this message. I’m currently going through a break up and I’m 4 months pregnant. I have been struggling with my faith. I have been struggling mentally with all of this and preparing myself to raise my child alone. The father doesn’t want to communicate. I’m not sure what he is struggling with or facing. I’m praying for confidence to be able to break the cycle that I experienced while growing up. I pray I will have the strength to love support and provide for my child. Please keep me in your prayers I walk this journey.

    • @valerieshinia8526
      @valerieshinia8526 2 роки тому +1

      Awww hugs 😭😭

    • @MikoMuffin
      @MikoMuffin 2 роки тому

      Maegan!! I can't imagine how you must be feeling, but you are so beautiful and so brave! It can be terrifying and so distressing when people disappoint us in the most crucial moments... But you are being forged in the fire and will be the light on a hill for many women (as well as your child) for your strength and incredibly inspiring courage. ☺️❤️🙌🏽

    • @dereciaalexander5747
      @dereciaalexander5747 2 роки тому +3

      I went through that 6 years ago and God has been sustained my girls and I... Trust God and you will never lack... Your going to be a great mom... I am raising 2 kids alone, working full-time, a business owner, working in ministry and working on my 2nd degree. Trust me focus on God and your healing you will come through it all.... Just know someone on the other side of the world in praying for you and the blessing you are carrying.

  • @catb8661
    @catb8661 3 роки тому +21

    My "Christian" husband walked out after 41 years, 3 daughters, and 9 grandchildren. He was a church elder and we helped plant a church many years ago. He found someone 17 years younger than me and they moved in together months later. Now they're married,, but not legally by state law because she's waiting on last husband's (passed away) pension. It would be hard to trust again. I struggle with why God didn't intervene when he hates divorce, but I guess maybe God didn't think I should stay with him. So confusing and heartbreaking.

    • @darlenemichele7195
      @darlenemichele7195 3 роки тому +3

      I'm so very sorry sister that you going through this right now....know your not alone! Thank you for sharing this , as difficult as it is. I'm going through something similar. And the whole time of the last 4 half years thinking what am I missing? How can this be justified in the eyes of our Lord? My thoughts and feelings, for you is to continue to be you, do you and stay connected to to God our Father and Jesus or Lord and savior and holy spirit or guide and comforter. May you use what's happened to build you and strengthen you. My heartbis breaking for you and your family, remember you are not alone and others, hard to belive, are going through same things...For what the devil has proposed for evil and destruction, the Lord uses it for His glory and to build you stronger and mightier then you could ever imagine.

    • @daisylinda2642
      @daisylinda2642 3 роки тому +1

      Take it easy my dear trust mi the marriage won't last n he will eventually come back have faith

    • @rlgrlg1672
      @rlgrlg1672 3 роки тому +1

      My husband has been having a parallel relationship, we been married 8 years. Hes been with the other woman 7 years. Found out last year. We've been trying for a child, they have a 7year old together because he believed a lie. I'm am hear today standing on Gods word that He has restored our marriage. It got so bad that some days he wouldn't sleep at home but God is doing His work. He now comes home every night and I will praise God till our final victory. It's not easy but the Holy Spirit is also doing a work in me, healing me, ministering to me as I pray and worship....I just felt I needed to share this with you. Hold on and trust God to bring him back and ask Him as you wait to minister to you... i have cried and questioned God but I'm hear today healed of depression and believing God for total restoration of our marriage and our baby...

  • @rosepetty8531
    @rosepetty8531 Рік тому

    lord wrong place end today right Now breathe over my future husband and life’s hallelujah hallelujah thank you

  • @jo-annenordin7032
    @jo-annenordin7032 8 місяців тому +1

    God please help me my heart can't take it I love him so much please restore and work in edwin heart please Lord

  • @fxwizrd
    @fxwizrd 2 роки тому +4

    I met a girl whe dated for a few months, then she told me it wont work. She dated someone else at the same time and is in a realasionship with him now. After God healed me I met someone else, we really got a long very good and we really liked eachother there was just a instant connection ….. Last week I saw here, she has a boyfriend too now.
    I dont know why it always end like that but it hurts.💔
    Lord give me strengh🙏

  • @Riame123
    @Riame123 3 роки тому +16

    'David was dumb enough to defeat the enemy that they were running from' just boosted my confidence that I can defeat every battles placed before me, through God.
    Thank you Pastor, God bless you.
    Love from India

  • @relladpw4904
    @relladpw4904 2 роки тому

    To all you whom are passing thru , pass thru its difficult times and it's doesn't always remain difficult ✨️ this to SHALL PASS,
    I made 75k last year working 4days a week spending time at home able to fast study , yeah 👍 🙃 didn't even know til it was time to file taxes lol I was to busy enjoying my Lord ... they laughed at me disregarded me but God ..

  • @Jylng
    @Jylng 2 місяці тому

    can i be prayed for, i’ve been in a relationship for 2 and half years that started long distance, and we moved together thats lived together for a year or so, and she moved away from her family and it was her decision, and she moved back home yesterday and doesn’t want a relationship, she is dealing with her mental health, we was on good terms when she left, but i am so broken and confused.. if yall can just pray for me it would mean a lot, im trying everything i can to hold on to myself, she said she needs time alone, but it’s so hard for me because of how close we was for 2 and a half years i was with her / talked to her everyday and i love that girl to death, i just pray God brings us back to better our relationship and make us stronger.

  • @sonjapetrovic2809
    @sonjapetrovic2809 3 роки тому +9

    GOD... PLEASE HEAL & RESTORE MY BROKEN BODY, 💜, 🧠, SPIRIT & SOUL. PLEASE & THANK YOU! 🙇‍♀️

  • @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933
    @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 2 роки тому

    I want the right people around me

  • @wandabannon7966
    @wandabannon7966 3 роки тому

    Please my prayer warriors pray for my daughter Mia.

    • @stevenfurtick
      @stevenfurtick  3 роки тому

      Hi Wanda, thank you for reaching out to us. We would love to pray for your daughter, Mia. Please let us know how we can pray for her by sending us a message: elevationchurch.org/contact/
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      ^SF Team

  • @TwiztedTProductions
    @TwiztedTProductions 3 роки тому +41

    It's funny that you put this up, my fiance walked away and I need to hear it.

    • @happybirthday3115
      @happybirthday3115 3 роки тому +2

      Matthew 11:5 The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them🙏 Guide, correct and bless us,JESUS

    • @SpeakEzy
      @SpeakEzy 3 роки тому +4

      Their rejection is also Gods protection keep your head up God loves yoi

    • @TheIKrushalot
      @TheIKrushalot 3 роки тому +2

      Hope you are doing better, my fiancé did the same 2 months ago. Kept the ring and broke up over the phone after 9.5 years together. Realizing you are so much more than whoever your spouse is, is insanely important. I realize my happiness was tied through theirs and that cannot be the case. Love yourself and they will love you.

  • @manjusam7884
    @manjusam7884 3 роки тому +4

    Don't let their limitations be your insecurity....amen