I really hope her child doesn’t grow up being embarrassed by his mother. She’s very mature and sweet and I can tell she loves her family, but kids can be pretty cruel.
My mom is just like her. She is so short compared to me. People call me her older sister. I acted as bitter in front of people, but i am actually proud to have a beautiful youthful mother and that people compliment her. I am sure they will feel proud.
liz b. He’s probably gonna be very protective of her when he gets older seeing that she’s already so attentive to him and worried for how he might feel. I think they will have a good relationship
She seems confortable with herself judging by her cute walk the guy pointed out, also she has bangs which is the "cute" style for koreans, if she really wanted to look mature she could change her hairstyle but she seems to like looking young (its a korea thing), she just doesnt want people to doubt her age, child or give her weird looks.
It's easy to look mature But it's bard to look young Anyone should be grateful if they look young cuz everyone in this world wants to look young, otherwise anti aging skincare wouldnt be cost min $200
Pheee Cheekie I didn’t like too😖 the way they were laughing ,you can feel the pain when she was talking 😔🥺,, I hope she takes her son self defend classes so he can defend himself and teaches him to love him self no matter what people say about her and him self and be proud her and confidence.
Pheee Cheekie then you don’t even know the content of the show, this show is not something were they will cry nope it’s a humorous show they try their best to make the worst to the best and she should have known before coming how the show is
This is why i don't understand people nowadays People wants to look young and not want to age But then people bullied them because they look young and small
@@pinkcherry6747 I'm saying this bcos I'm asian myself 😂 and i live in an asian nation.. there are European expatriates working here too, so ever since i was a teenager i observed the differences.. westerners tend to have thicker skin texture, I don't how to exactly explain this.. but westerners with their skin texture tend to get wrinkles earlier than most asian. So somehow they need extra treatment and protection for it.. as for asians, they somehow have delicate skin texture
I'm turning 24 this year but I look like I'm 16 or 17 so I kinda get how she feels. I also understand that people might be concerned of seeing a girl who looks so young doing 'adult' stuff (I would probably feel the urge to say something if i saw a little girl drinking in a bar) but there's no need to be harsh and insensitive. But I'm happy she has a great friend and a loving husband beside her.
even without her having a child it's still a really big concern!!! people shouldn't be judging her from what she looks like! I'm completely the opposite, I am 15 and a half and I look 17!!!\(￣< ￣)>
yeah but who cares? it's almost as if we are finding things to blame her with. So what if she has bangs that make her look younger? or walks in a childish way? we shouldn't blame her for her situation,because she can act however she wants and she doesn't deserve the bullying
This is so sad, I hope this exposure makes life easier and people recognise her and treat her better. Good she has a good friend and husband (they are so cute together!) that both support her..I think she is still pretty young to have a baby but at least she is in a great, supportive and loving marriage with a cute baby!
Jessica Qn Maybe but I am really tall for my age I starting going through puberty really young and I wasn’t taught about those kind of things when I was younger
I love how this show never fails to demonstrate how judgmental, disrespectful and overall lacking empathy altogether that some people in South Korea can be. The host and audience can be quite reflective Of the society as a whole. And I’ve honestly have yet to see the guest that go on the show not look completely uncomfortable.
NoMusic People everywhere are judgmental, disrespectful, and overall lack empathy. The show tries to bring humor to lighten the mood of some bad situations, it’s just how these TV shows are. Plus, if you can laugh at your own insecurities it brings self confidence. If you don’t like the show and the hosts go watch some American reality TV show.
She honestly doesn’t look like an elementary schooler, she looks at the very least a middle schooler. Elementary schoolers look WAY younger than her. It’s her high pitched voice, and height when she’s standing next to her husband that makes her look super young.
I also think an important fact is clothes. I have a anorak from an older sister which she had in primary school. It still fits me but it makes me look much younger than people already think I am. A girl 1-2 years younger than me thought I'm 10-12.
Why was it so surprising to them that she's married with a kid when they know that she has an adult? They were just as bad as the people that she's already struggling with
This is honestly my favorite case that was covered in hello counselor. It gives you an insight on how hard it is for people who suffer the same problems as her. Kudos to this show, really.
I think you need to watch the video again, life isn't so difficult when you look like your age, you only need a youthful attitude, but when you look very very young it's then when there are more disadvantages that advantages. Trust me, I live that situation, well, something like that
My mom is a small lady, she's like 4'9 (149 cm) and I'm 5'4 (163 cm) and I'm on the heavier side. Whenever we go out, people always assume that I'm the mom and that she's my daughter. My mom always say 'no, she's MY baby. I have 2 more babies at home.' Their facial expressions are always comical. They never believe her when she tells them her age and her kids' ages.
And when she is 40+ people will start to ask her how she looks so young, did she do botox, how they want to look younger than their age, and blablabla. She'll surely lead a happy life at that time.
@Solitude So true! Kim Seokjin, you look like you are still in High school! After all these 7 years, You just have gotten more handsome, but age doesn't apply to *Worldwide Handsome*
Like how its 'Hello Counselor" but they just brought her on stage and made fun of her and asked her alienating questions while she continued to look more uncomfortable.
Nah, once the show broadcasts and people know the situation, they will be less annoying. You know, like one of those ‘expose your weakness, then it’s not weakness anymore’ Also, another perk is this show offers prize money to winner with most voted story by audiences
@@guswns125 Yet this isn't the right way. Imagine going to the show for getting your problems solved but end up getting embarrassed and uncomfortable. I'd feel more low
@@mirroruniverse9331 everyone knows how that show is gonna be no one is forcing them to be there they are simply there to bring attention to the problems that they have
@@marypoppins7776 She absolutely does. Baby face features, skinny with a child like frame. I'd be surprised if she's over 5 feet. I'm just pointing out that looking underage isn't the "Korean beauty standard".
why are people so nosy smh.. at the very least, keep those thoughts in your head and don't actively harass strangers or question them... they don't owe these ppl any answers
tbh those ppl are right to question her i mean to just turn the other cheek while a "minor" is drinking or just give whatever to anyone is wrong.....i mean if you look that flipping young expect that much and weird looks
Team KimPapi And to add on. some of them don't question her but just gossip amongst themselves. I doubt they have her well fare in mind when doing this.
She really does look like a teenager even though she's actually a young woman. She seems very down to earth and she's also pretty great at taking care of kids.
Lmoaa when I was 13 some lady asked me how many kids I had and a restaurant once offered me alcohol im the youngest in my friend group but every one thinks I'm the oldest this would be a blessing for me
I can relate to her so much. I’ve been looked down a lot for looking like a kid. I always dressed maturely so that I look more mature. Recalling all those experience makes me feel like crying again. I’m glad now I can cover my face with mask.
When her husband came and stood next to her 0-0 the height difference! Ah but still I think they're a gorgeous couple and a really nice family and I really wish them the best, her and her husband are both so good looking and that baby is adorable omg
I know how she feels quite well. I'm 32, but I seemed to have stopped aging around 18. I still look like a teenager, and people don't take me seriously. I've had coworkers assume they were older than me and were surprised to find out they were younger than me. I get asked for ID constantly. It's frustrating because you want to be taken seriously as an adult but it's hard when you look much younger. I already have a fair amount of gray hair but it hasn't made me look any older, since gray/silver hair has been trendy recently, so I just look like a teen following a trend. It's frustrating.
Short hair makes most people look younger which is why lots of older women cut it as they age 🤣 also she said people think she looks like a delinquent in heels so imagine western makeup? That wouldnt be good for her. I think its great she just wears her hair how she wants
Koreans /Asians love looking “pure” and sometimes western makeup doesn’t really work for them bc they have a different face features etc 😂 but if she tries there is 50-50 🤷🏽♀️
Sales assistant at clothing store: aren’t you supposed to be in school at this hour? Or is it holiday today? Me: .... i’ve graduated college and are self-employed for a year now......
When you're here in the Philippines and you have that look a lot of people adore you whenever they see you. I mean look like you're not aging, soo cute😇❤a lot of people wants to stay and look young, but she just slay it effortless bigtime.
I have the same problem. I'm 19 and a university student. I am 153cm in height and very thin and this has been a problem since people don't believe that I am not underage. People at university always think that I'm some sort of 13 year old mastermind that got into university very early 😂😂😂
same here but im139 in height and going to graduate uni soon XD most people will usually gave me :o expression whenever i told them my age and im a uni students lol
some women look like they can be my mom and they address me as someone older than them and i was like what? When i go to make my id card they was shock to see that im 18 T_T poor us
omg! the baby is like the cutest thing ever!!! he such a good boy!!!! hope he will protect his mom when he grow up and make those ahjummas shut their mouth up! lol
there's a difference between looking young and looking like a child. there she literally like a 12 yr old but she was 23, married and had a kid at an early age compared to normal. so its pretty normal they're shocked, its not really complaining.
I feel like there's definitely something she could do with her hair to make herself look less like a schoolgirl. Those bangs? And that one length no layers look? Makes her look even younger.
The replies sounds very mean though, like "she doesnt act her age" she acts normal for a 23 year old, she just looks young and her style makes her look younger
Salouma Skincare If you watched some btw I ain’t hating she’s saying she’s trying to make herself look more mature and older but whatever she tries it doesn’t work, so I don’t think she’s tryna look younger I think she’s trying her best to be more mature.
Salouma Skincare I know... i honestly though the girls with orange hair was the one who was the guest on the show. Not the bangs girl... she looks pretty old and the way she talks... honestly sound unreal... but not hating in any way.
I can't help but to find her so adorableeee omg!! She's like this tint mom and it's just so cute. And her bestfriend is the mvp seriously. 👏👏 But that's the thing about people, they can get so nosy and disrespectful like mind your own damn business. When there are other real issues in the world, yall don't say a thing but when you see a happy family that look not "normal" to you.. they get so judgemental it's ridiculous and disgusting. leave them alone they're happy.
I’m 31 and still gets mistaken for a child and a teenager. I’m 4’8 and has a baby face. I can 100% understand what she is going through. It really is very hard to get through it all. People will judge you. My partner would often reassure me to just accept who I am but he does not understand that it is not that easy to get over with. Especially if people around treat you like a child anywhere you go and if you do correct them, they either get offended, or mad at you for lying when you’re not even lying.
girl , it doesn't matter what other thinks , its important what you think , you are beautiful , you have a husband that loves you , and a lovely cute baby , be happy , and ignore the hate , live as if the world was yours
I'm 14 and once i went to get my make up done for my aunt's wedding, the makeup artist asked a woman about how old she thing i was and the woman answered with 30, that day was like as if my life was over
People: omg you look old for your age go get plastic surgery Her : **looks naturally young** Also people: what the heck you look so young you should look older Me: -_-
The hospital staff should have checked the baby first, seeing as his fever was so high. I understand that a legal guardian being present is important, but they could have looked up the mother's identity later; the baby's health was more important.
Because she looks so young they probably thought she was a minor and the sister. Idk the legal age or consent laws in korea tho. In new york the parents(gaurdian, in loco parentis etc) have to give consent to treatment. Even if the baby is clearly dying the parents can say no. I hate legal issues. :(
Waa... she sure looks young. and her voice. and her height too. it makes me wonder about Jihoon and if he's all grown up later, would he have this kind of problem?
Whenever I see clips of this show, I always feel weird about it... They make jokes that I think would be offensive/hurtful....especially since the audience laughs at it!! They definitely could hold back on some of the jokes....
Same.. I don't understand why would they make this kind of show, like what's the purpose. From what I watched it's always idols or actor/actress who got invited and the MCs is not a professional counselor. So why?? You just expose the problems without a solving it?? They deserve help not this exposure I'm sorry, I'm a social worker so this kind of show truly trigger me.
Western tv used to be just like this, making fun of people because of their differences isn’t cultural comedy, it’s not like they’re being sarcastic. She literally said she hates when people say her and her husband are like siblings and then they went on to say they look like siblings, that just shows this isn’t just them making comedy it’s them being inconsiderate and mocking.
Awwwe I feel her. I'm 21 and people think I'm 12. To the point before work I went to the gas station and got stopped by a cop and asked for my id cus he thought I was skipping school
einah srb yeah I don't see more people talking about this, it was so rude, like she doesn't already get criticized for looking young then he goes and does this, it was disappointing.
No it's not? Like, he didn't say anything wrong. This way of walking made her look much younger, she looked like a child. I'm insulting her too, it's just her gestures.
True. Worse part though was when Baek Jiyooung asked if she really gave birth to the baby. She used the form of “you” that is spoken only to children and talked in slang. Very condescending. She’s a good singer but she seems very low class.
I totally relate with the girl cause I come from a very short family of "small" asians. *sigh* it's very frustrating because I'm so short compared to others and already fully grown. I still look like a child with a height of 147 cm. Sometimes it's just so sad cause everyone mistakes me for a 10 year old when I'm actually 20.
people thought i'm my dad's wife because he's white and i'm mixed (asian but look kinda latina). i'm not even tall and i look 20-25yo and he is bald and looks about 55yo at least. they basically thought he's got me through a catalogue or he's like my sugar daddy -_- like dafuq you be insulting me (&my dad) a lot!
oh no that's not good :( i just always make sure to like say "DAD" aloud in a store etc. don't let other people drag you down, you deserve to go outside and enjoy life just as much! 😊 like i just get annoyed at such people and i kinda have the attitude of: how superficial must these people be to think like that but especially how dumb and rude are they to actually act on it. you may have your own opinion but please treat others with respect. so to me they are -inferior people- people with inferior manners that should be pitied for their unreflected behaviour. 😉
OMG I FEEL YOU. I lived in korea for a while and i felt like i looked so old. Whenever I called my older friends 언니 I got so self conscious because I knew I looked older...
HAHA ehm similar thing happened me too. i was Walking with my dad and some older man was like congrating my dad for having such a ''Young and Beautiful Life partner'' .. he said that to my dad and said i was so pretty and Young and so fresh (by fresh he reffered to me being Young and dad to be alot older. ) this man thought i was one of those younger girls at their 20's marrying some older rich man at his 50's or 60's. fucking shiet. i am 19 but i ain't nobody's wife. my dad got angry too. such an uncomfortable situation.
Annie Morin Um is 46 young? Lol anyway... He's Asian so its hard to tell. He looks like he's in his early thirties... My dad actually found the situation funny coz he was like " hahaha you look old"
My grandma was just like that shes never gotten passed 4'11" and looked like a teen until she was almost 40. Couple that with the fact that she was young when she married my grandpa and had kids, and the fact he aged quickly and got to 6'4" meant they had the cops called on them several times about middle aged man with a pregnant preteen. The spent a good chunk of their marriage not even being able to hold hands in public or call eachother by anything other than their first names.
These Korean aunties need to mind their own business, omg😐 so annoying, I swear 🙄 & her friend is such a good friend, I would love a friend like her. DAEBAK👍❤
I have the opposite problem, I'm only 17 but people often think I'm in my mid-twenties :( It seems I won't be able to cling onto my youthful looks for long .-.
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I really hope her child doesn’t grow up being embarrassed by his mother. She’s very mature and sweet and I can tell she loves her family, but kids can be pretty cruel.
liz b. It’s depends how she raised her child
My mom is just like her. She is so short compared to me. People call me her older sister. I acted as bitter in front of people, but i am actually proud to have a beautiful youthful mother and that people compliment her.
I am sure they will feel proud.
@@livainyangnyang6294 I'm happy when some ppl say that my daughter and I look like sisters. It gives me confidence.
liz b. He’s probably gonna be very protective of her when he gets older seeing that she’s already so attentive to him and worried for how he might feel. I think they will have a good relationship
liz b. She is a good mom like our moms
Her and her husband look so cute standing next to each other and they’re baby is just ADORABLE
박수영 ikr?! The height difference is adorable !! 😭💕
The words ADORABLE coming from someone who has that kind of profile pic make it feels so wrong 😂. Plus that profile pic looks like the girl oof
Link -kun yes it feels wrong but I’m really sweet irl so it’s not weird it’s just idk I like this pfp
@@nou7338 What was your pfp? 🤔
Ctrl V it was a anime hentai ahegao face
aww she even sounds like a young child. i hope she doesn’t feel too bad about herself. she seems very sweet!
She seems confortable with herself judging by her cute walk the guy pointed out, also she has bangs which is the "cute" style for koreans, if she really wanted to look mature she could change her hairstyle but she seems to like looking young (its a korea thing), she just doesnt want people to doubt her age, child or give her weird looks.
@@lemortedbrian6070 exactly!
It's easy to look mature
But it's bard to look young
Anyone should be grateful if they look young cuz everyone in this world wants to look young, otherwise anti aging skincare wouldnt be cost min $200
@@lemortedbrian6070 because if she try to look mature, she get judged too
What a great society we live right?
Easier said than done. I can you it is not that easy. It is actually very hard having a baby face. I just like her who look very young.
Everyone needs a friend like the one she has.
I love how she defends her no problem at 1:30
Yes
They laugh at some things she says but she’s totally serious. They’re kinda treating her like a child.
Pheee Cheekie I didn’t like too😖 the way they were laughing ,you can feel the pain when she was talking 😔🥺,, I hope she takes her son self defend classes so he can defend himself and teaches him to love him self no matter what people say about her and him self and be proud her and confidence.
I think they’re told to do that, to keep the show light and humorous. You can tell by the edits that they’re going towards that image too
Do you think they will cry or wut
Kiim_Sunny shut uppp no they’re not supposed to cry duh but they’re not supposed to laugh
Pheee Cheekie then you don’t even know the content of the show, this show is not something were they will cry nope it’s a humorous show they try their best to make the worst to the best and she should have known before coming how the show is
When everyone gasped, and laughed when she said she had a baby, and she got married, I was really mad, cause it was kind of rude..
slujino I think it’s because we don’t see many married couples who are in their 20s
slujino they were rude and laughing except one ,, she could not smile because of the pain she feels every single day😔
They were rude. I feel bad for her because I know how she feels.
Ikr? they couldn't just kept their mouth shut.
In Korea it's common to be married and to have children in early twenties. I don't think 23 is too young for that. It was rude indeed.
This is why i don't understand people nowadays
People wants to look young and not want to age
But then people bullied them because they look young and small
You're an idiot if you think that's remotely comparable. Im positive you didnt watch the video. 99% sure you didnt even see the thumbnail.
I'm 11 and I'm 5,2 I get bullied for that..
@@DoggyP00 stfu
@@lazypotstokim5571 pfff same but i'm
17 those people who bullied you probobly were just dumb kids
5'2 for a shitty 11 yrs old girl is tall lol
@@lazypotstokim5571 congrats for successfully growing up. I'm 23 and only 4'10 😂😂
at least when she’s 50, she’ll look like she’s barely turning 25
Asians usually looks younger, and tends to have less wrinkles.. probably above 60 years above then people can notice the age
@@NurulSyifa67 wtf your not okay bro
@@NurulSyifa67 YES! FINALLY SOMEBODY EXPLAINS! im a asian and this is so true, when i was 9 i just looked like a korean 5 yr old
@@pinkcherry6747 I'm saying this bcos I'm asian myself 😂 and i live in an asian nation.. there are European expatriates working here too, so ever since i was a teenager i observed the differences.. westerners tend to have thicker skin texture, I don't how to exactly explain this.. but westerners with their skin texture tend to get wrinkles earlier than most asian. So somehow they need extra treatment and protection for it.. as for asians, they somehow have delicate skin texture
@@missaosupa same goes to me 😂😂 im turning 27 this july, but people always mistake me as high school student 😂
I'm turning 24 this year but I look like I'm 16 or 17 so I kinda get how she feels. I also understand that people might be concerned of seeing a girl who looks so young doing 'adult' stuff (I would probably feel the urge to say something if i saw a little girl drinking in a bar) but there's no need to be harsh and insensitive. But I'm happy she has a great friend and a loving husband beside her.
Aline-Bluebonnett me too i'm 24 but i look 16~17 girl we never grow up even when we get old 😉
Same here. I'm 23 looks like 16. But I like it.
Aline-Bluebonnett i'm 18 years old but i look like a 13/14 years old.
Im 10 but i look like 13 l0l
I'm 20 and I look Iike I'm 14/15
i dont find this was a concern until she revealed she had a baby! omgggg i was so shocked
yes, same
yes, same
for me it was when the husband and baby were next to her and she seriously looks like her husbands 10 years younger sister and the babys older sister
even without her having a child it's still a really big concern!!! people shouldn't be judging her from what she looks like! I'm completely the opposite, I am 15 and a half and I look 17!!!\(￣< ￣)>
That's pretty common tho.
i think her bangs also make her look a lot younger then she actually is
ikr! Bangs actually can make you look younger.
Her face is round, so bangs look better on her... but yea she would look slightly more mature without them
tenzinkay: I got same problem like her n i get many tell me show my forehead more which i did many times yet i get mistaken for being 12-14...im 21...
yeah but who cares? it's almost as if we are finding things to blame her with. So what if she has bangs that make her look younger? or walks in a childish way? we shouldn't blame her for her situation,because she can act however she wants and she doesn't deserve the bullying
tenzinkay i have got the same problem. wearing adult clothes or hairstyle or even having heavy makeup wont change anything
Can't we appreciate how well behaved the baby is considering new people are holding him. My godson cried when I held him at 2 months old. 😅
😆😆😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is so sad, I hope this exposure makes life easier and people recognise her and treat her better. Good she has a good friend and husband (they are so cute together!) that both support her..I think she is still pretty young to have a baby but at least she is in a great, supportive and loving marriage with a cute baby!
Here ppl are completely the opposite they looks 30 but they actually 13 smh😂
Where do you live? Lol
Samee im from Brazil and people think I'm 18 since I'm 12 lmao
I look 18 but I’m 12 😔
@@hazahae maybe that's a lie people told you to make you feel bad about yourself. Don't worry. Or you're just really tall.
Jessica Qn Maybe but I am really tall for my age I starting going through puberty really young and I wasn’t taught about those kind of things when I was younger
awwww they look so cute walking together
yesss they do , the height difference is adorable
dulcetbangtan yasss
She's 23 years old look like 15-16 years old girl
Me 16 years old look like 23+ years old girl
Why is this so realateble 😭
Me to lol😂😂
I'm 21 but look like 17
Im a 16 y.o lookin like I’m 12 🤦♀️
I can understand dear 😭
I love how this show never fails to demonstrate how judgmental, disrespectful and overall lacking empathy altogether that some people in South Korea can be. The host and audience can be quite reflective Of the society as a whole. And I’ve honestly have yet to see the guest that go on the show not look completely uncomfortable.
I’m starting to feel bad for those k-pop fans now.
NoMusic People everywhere are judgmental, disrespectful, and overall lack empathy. The show tries to bring humor to lighten the mood of some bad situations, it’s just how these TV shows are. Plus, if you can laugh at your own insecurities it brings self confidence. If you don’t like the show and the hosts go watch some American reality TV show.
True
it’s like asian dr phil
So what u sugguest?? Bomb south korea??
She honestly doesn’t look like an elementary schooler, she looks at the very least a middle schooler. Elementary schoolers look WAY younger than her. It’s her high pitched voice, and height when she’s standing next to her husband that makes her look super young.
I also think an important fact is clothes. I have a anorak from an older sister which she had in primary school. It still fits me but it makes me look much younger than people already think I am. A girl 1-2 years younger than me thought I'm 10-12.
actually kids nowadays look very mature
I know she even looks younger than many elementary pupils
The thing is, she tries to change the way she looked with makeup and clothes but they said she looked like a deliquent.
they’re lowkey just making fun of her...
More like highkey
sa brina more like high high high key
IKR !!!!! I really thought no one was going to talk about it !
i know right.Its annoying'
Higher than Ariana Grande's ponytail
Why was it so surprising to them that she's married with a kid when they know that she has an adult? They were just as bad as the people that she's already struggling with
Now she has two kids! They’re so cute together 😭💕
you're name reminded me to go study...I cant-
I wanna listen to you but I'm too lazy to go
Lmao your name tho, I really do need to study, I have a f in art class 😔😂
@@keirashen wait really how did u know👀
This is honestly my favorite case that was covered in hello counselor. It gives you an insight on how hard it is for people who suffer the same problems as her. Kudos to this show, really.
I think she looks cute I mean looking young is better than looking old
True, true.
Monica Nguyen Can I take a moment to appreciate ur profile
It is until your sick baby doesn't get immediate care because the hospital is making sure you're actually his mom :(
I think you need to watch the video again, life isn't so difficult when you look like your age, you only need a youthful attitude, but when you look very very young it's then when there are more disadvantages that advantages. Trust me, I live that situation, well, something like that
people don't respect you and don't take you seriously when you look like a teenager
I'm 4 years late. I wonder how she and her husband look now.
Same here
Me too
Same
i also wonder wat the baby's height is, the baby is about 3-4 now
Me too. I hope they're alright
Everybody gangsta until they hear her say “I have a 10 months old son”
My mom is a small lady, she's like 4'9 (149 cm) and I'm 5'4 (163 cm) and I'm on the heavier side. Whenever we go out, people always assume that I'm the mom and that she's my daughter. My mom always say 'no, she's MY baby. I have 2 more babies at home.' Their facial expressions are always comical. They never believe her when she tells them her age and her kids' ages.
I FEEL u
My mother is 151 cm and i m 169. i stand out a lot when we walk together.
Me too Im even almost taller than my father!!!
My mom is 4'9", my older sister is 4'7", and I'm 4'8" lol (my sister and I are both in our 20s)
Same story
"I tried heels but they made me look like a delinquent" 😂
Snowvanova
And I was like "same girl, same"
Snowvanova whats a delinquent?
@@malimusimu5641 a kid who goes looking for trouble :under ages smokes, drinks alcohol and bullies others, skips school ..
@@HosCreates thx
And when she is 40+ people will start to ask her how she looks so young, did she do botox, how they want to look younger than their age, and blablabla. She'll surely lead a happy life at that time.
ChimChim Savage well said
She is married, has a kid and looks younger then an elementary student
Me: is 13 , acts 40 , looks 100 👁️👄👁️
Edit: just turned 14 (21 September 2021)
Treut hertse
Sem
Oh c’mon Jin you haven’t aged one bit
@Solitude So true! Kim Seokjin, you look like you are still in High school! After all these 7 years, You just have gotten more handsome, but age doesn't apply to *Worldwide Handsome*
Please done be sad u look good
Don't think to much💜💜💜💜💜
This is the Asian Dr.Phil show😂😂
Dr. Phil is actually a doctor though
DR Phil may be a doctor but that gives him no credentials when his shitty advice and exploitation of vulnerable people exist
@@honeyyscandyshop5927 i really think you're really born in 2009 base on what you just said.
@@afearfuljeffrey9478 and is this show better...?
not really because these people aren't professionals
I'm just laughing at how shook everyone looked when she revealed that she has a baby 😂😂
YasMinYoongi be more shook if went to America lol
Like how its 'Hello Counselor" but they just brought her on stage and made fun of her and asked her alienating questions while she continued to look more uncomfortable.
Nah, once the show broadcasts and people know the situation, they will be less annoying.
You know, like one of those ‘expose your weakness, then it’s not weakness anymore’
Also, another perk is this show offers prize money to winner with most voted story by audiences
THANK U, I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO SAW THAT
@@guswns125
Yet this isn't the right way. Imagine going to the show for getting your problems solved but end up getting embarrassed and uncomfortable. I'd feel more low
@@mirroruniverse9331 everyone knows how that show is gonna be no one is forcing them to be there they are simply there to bring attention to the problems that they have
The korean beauty standard is about looking young and yet this happens.
Ohh people they out of their mind
I want this grul have skin white
Another girl show up
To white what are you a eraser
perhaps young as in young for the age, like baby skin, less wrinkles and young body. Not elementary
Yeah exactly, but looking young as in 18-25. Not looking like a literal child.
@@andrew_li she doesn't look like a child
@@marypoppins7776 She absolutely does. Baby face features, skinny with a child like frame. I'd be surprised if she's over 5 feet.
I'm just pointing out that looking underage isn't the "Korean beauty standard".
their height difference is adorable. sadly I’m too tall for most men.
me too😢
Give me your height please 😀
@@zakiafahmida7472 me?
I like tall guys 😂
Same :'
why are people so nosy smh.. at the very least, keep those thoughts in your head and don't actively harass strangers or question them... they don't owe these ppl any answers
Preach
preach
tbh those ppl are right to question her i mean to just turn the other cheek while a "minor" is drinking or just give whatever to anyone is wrong.....i mean if you look that flipping young expect that much and weird looks
Team KimPapi But then she tells them that she is not a minor. And yet they dont even care and just keep giving her weird looks.
Team KimPapi And to add on. some of them don't question her but just gossip amongst themselves. I doubt they have her well fare in mind when doing this.
She'll thank her genes when she reaches 40 haha
I try to tell myself that everyday.
You're right 😁
BTS BLINKing at GOT7 nope because wrinkles still come is just the baby face
I tell this to myself everyday
BTS BLINKing at GOT7 she is thankfull for what she has, it is only the people that critizes her so much that make their family hurt.
She really does look like a teenager even though she's actually a young woman. She seems very down to earth and she's also pretty great at taking care of kids.
I love her friend. I wish I had a friend like her.
Lmoaa when I was 13 some lady asked me how many kids I had and a restaurant once offered me alcohol im the youngest in my friend group but every one thinks I'm the oldest this would be a blessing for me
XD HAPPEND TO MEE WHEN I WAS 13 LOL
People think I was 23-25 when I was 17, but now when I am 28 some people taught I am in high school. Aging is weird man.
Same
i just to have to problem also but now (I'm 22) I often people think I'm underage
You won't age.
her friends be 75 and she'll still be looking young so
I can relate to her so much. I’ve been looked down a lot for looking like a kid. I always dressed maturely so that I look more mature. Recalling all those experience makes me feel like crying again. I’m glad now I can cover my face with mask.
Jheeze....why can't people mind their own business! Poor girl! You're fine just the way you are!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
When her husband came and stood next to her 0-0 the height difference!
Ah but still I think they're a gorgeous couple and a really nice family and I really wish them the best, her and her husband are both so good looking and that baby is adorable omg
Yo, she seriously does look like a middle school student omg, I can't believe it
They’re literally such a cute couple with an adorable baby, I hope they’re happy and people could stop being so cruel!
I know how she feels quite well. I'm 32, but I seemed to have stopped aging around 18. I still look like a teenager, and people don't take me seriously. I've had coworkers assume they were older than me and were surprised to find out they were younger than me. I get asked for ID constantly. It's frustrating because you want to be taken seriously as an adult but it's hard when you look much younger. I already have a fair amount of gray hair but it hasn't made me look any older, since gray/silver hair has been trendy recently, so I just look like a teen following a trend. It's frustrating.
same lol
It's better to look young afar from your age. I know this is quite a hassle showing your ID all the time but looking young is better than looking old.
Same for me here. It's so frustrating right? I don't like how people take me lightly.
Yeah thw worse thing is when people do not take you seriously
Indou
she should try removing her bangs and cutting her hair a little shorter so she would not look younger and wester make up would do!♥
Short hair makes most people look younger which is why lots of older women cut it as they age 🤣 also she said people think she looks like a delinquent in heels so imagine western makeup? That wouldnt be good for her. I think its great she just wears her hair how she wants
@@melissamariee710 that's true but i mean cut her hair a little shorter like trim :))))
Western makeup will make her look 50 :)
She would definitely look older without the bangs.
Koreans /Asians love looking “pure” and sometimes western makeup doesn’t really work for them bc they have a different face features etc 😂 but if she tries there is 50-50 🤷🏽♀️
Sales assistant at clothing store: aren’t you supposed to be in school at this hour? Or is it holiday today?
Me: .... i’ve graduated college and are self-employed for a year now......
vapers are beyond stupid yeah she doesn’t look that young
vapers and smokers are beyond stupid she looks 18 at the least 🙃
yeah, you don't look that young judging by your picture
@@rop888 got em
When you're here in the Philippines and you have that look a lot of people adore you whenever they see you. I mean look like you're not aging, soo cute😇❤a lot of people wants to stay and look young, but she just slay it effortless bigtime.
I have the same problem. I'm 19 and a university student. I am 153cm in height and very thin and this has been a problem since people don't believe that I am not underage. People at university always think that I'm some sort of 13 year old mastermind that got into university very early 😂😂😂
LOL same for me too
I was just 16 when I tested for University (youngest in my year now), but people thought I was older than them. :(
Michelle Lee oh 😅 I guess we have opposite problems
same here but im139 in height and going to graduate uni soon XD most people will usually gave me :o expression whenever i told them my age and im a uni students lol
sasha kitayama 😂 I guess we're all going to get that expression from everyone.
The baby is so cute when hes confused hqhahah😂
Her friend is a queen I'm so glad she has people who will stand up for her
Can we talk how cute and pretty she is?
And here i am, i'm 18 people think that im 25 T_T
I'm 15 and every time I go to a restaurant, they ask do we want separate checks.😔😔
same with me..i'm 21 but people think i'm 27 😭
some women look like they can be my mom and they address me as someone older than them and i was like what? When i go to make my id card they was shock to see that im 18 T_T poor us
Lol
I have the opposite issue. I'm 18 but people think I'm 10 or 11 ._.
omg! the baby is like the cutest thing ever!!!
he such a good boy!!!! hope he will protect his mom when he grow up and
make those ahjummas shut their mouth up! lol
they kept pushing the "baby face" trend to the women & then complain about it when they got it... smh 🤦🏻♀️
It doesn't mean literally "baby". She really looks like a kid rather than she looks young.
I KNOW ITS SO FUCKING STUPID
Yup, jealousy XD
It’s a different meaning you dumb fucks
there's a difference between looking young and looking like a child. there she literally like a 12 yr old but she was 23, married and had a kid at an early age compared to normal. so its pretty normal they're shocked, its not really complaining.
His son will growing up and he will be very proud to have a mom like her. He will protect his mom as a gentleman.
im 21 and people think im 14
Bella Moraes we were in the wrong years 😂
tuskernene01 I'm 13 but they tell me I look like 18
im 13 and people think im an adult
im 18 and people think im 14
Im 11 and people think im 14
The couple is so pure in heart and seeing that they get treated so badly is so sad😢
I feel like there's definitely something she could do with her hair to make herself look less like a schoolgirl. Those bangs? And that one length no layers look? Makes her look even younger.
Yeah i agree
MemesThx _ I told you not to *REPLY*
no _no yikes- people these days dont know how to act like their age smh. this world is gonna end if there’s more people like them stg
I was thinking the same. Maybe curtain bangs will look good on her
The replies sounds very mean though, like "she doesnt act her age" she acts normal for a 23 year old, she just looks young and her style makes her look younger
6:00 “Who is this man??” 😂👍
the longer I watched, the less she looked like a kid
Salouma Skincare
If you watched some btw I ain’t hating she’s saying she’s trying to make herself look more mature and older but whatever she tries it doesn’t work, so I don’t think she’s tryna look younger I think she’s trying her best to be more mature.
@@saloumaskincare2988 you just jealous
Salouma Skincare
I know... i honestly though the girls with orange hair was the one who was the guest on the show. Not the bangs girl... she looks pretty old and the way she talks... honestly sound unreal... but not hating in any way.
I don't know why though but me too
"Who's the guest's husband?"
"He looks young too!" that killed me LOOLL @4:18
I can't help but to find her so adorableeee omg!! She's like this tint mom and it's just so cute. And her bestfriend is the mvp seriously. 👏👏
But that's the thing about people, they can get so nosy and disrespectful like mind your own damn business. When there are other real issues in the world, yall don't say a thing but when you see a happy family that look not "normal" to you.. they get so judgemental it's ridiculous and disgusting. leave them alone they're happy.
Also, there's a huge difference as to being concern and just being plain nosy+disrespectful
I’m 31 and still gets mistaken for a child and a teenager. I’m 4’8 and has a baby face. I can 100% understand what she is going through. It really is very hard to get through it all. People will judge you. My partner would often reassure me to just accept who I am but he does not understand that it is not that easy to get over with. Especially if people around treat you like a child anywhere you go and if you do correct them, they either get offended, or mad at you for lying when you’re not even lying.
I relate to this and it still hurts because I am an adult but still gets mistaken as a high school kid 👧 🤣🤣😔😔
girl , it doesn't matter what other thinks , its important what you think , you are beautiful , you have a husband that loves you , and a lovely cute baby , be happy , and ignore the hate , live as if the world was yours
For some reason I just keep staring at her bloody lip...
Keovorleak Vichet
Sameeeeee
yes yes
Me too fml
Keovorleak Vichet is that you fetish?
Right
I'm 14 and once i went to get my make up done for my aunt's wedding, the makeup artist asked a woman about how old she thing i was and the woman answered with 30, that day was like as if my life was over
same here . i 'm 21 yo. but people think i'm 30....
Hahahahahahaaha
+wayan novi 😅😅😅
People: omg you look old for your age go get plastic surgery
Her : **looks naturally young**
Also people: what the heck you look so young you should look older
Me: -_-
hypocrisy at its finest
I think what they want though is someone who looks like as if they're 20
Me in a nutshell, I’m 30 and I still get told I look 19
@@SapphireJann omg you are gorgeous, you lowkey look so young
People are just so judgemental. The public envy "baby face" feature but they judge this poor lady. Tsk tsk smh
It doesn't mean literally "baby". She really looks like a kid rather than she looks young.
The hospital staff should have checked the baby first, seeing as his fever was so high. I understand that a legal guardian being present is important, but they could have looked up the mother's identity later; the baby's health was more important.
true 👏
Because she looks so young they probably thought she was a minor and the sister. Idk the legal age or consent laws in korea tho. In new york the parents(gaurdian, in loco parentis etc) have to give consent to treatment. Even if the baby is clearly dying the parents can say no. I hate legal issues. :(
Waa... she sure looks young. and her voice. and her height too. it makes me wonder about Jihoon and if he's all grown up later, would he have this kind of problem?
yeahh :(
at least he have a mature voice...
Lol carat ? Omg
I knew I would see such comments 😂😂😂
Jihoon's very manly tho despite his height
It's a good thing she came in this show. It made people realize there is actually someone like this in this world
The baby was just so comfortable and adorable with Yeongja. 👶💕
omg!! Shes so much prettier than elementary school children and her baby is so cute!!
her friend and husband were really brave
thumbs up for them
If someone makes fun of her just now when your out here looking 50 she is going to look 20 then who's laughing😬
I can’t believe that she’ll be 30 rn 🤣💗 I really hope she had a better life after this show x
Whenever I see clips of this show, I always feel weird about it... They make jokes that I think would be offensive/hurtful....especially since the audience laughs at it!! They definitely could hold back on some of the jokes....
Same.. I don't understand why would they make this kind of show, like what's the purpose. From what I watched it's always idols or actor/actress who got invited and the MCs is not a professional counselor. So why?? You just expose the problems without a solving it?? They deserve help not this exposure
I'm sorry, I'm a social worker so this kind of show truly trigger me.
You can clearly see that the woman on the show was trying really hard to not look ungrateful or offended when the guy "imitated" her
Ikr
Feels like they bring on guests to put on a freak show not open peoples eyes to the difficulties others face
Western tv used to be just like this, making fun of people because of their differences isn’t cultural comedy, it’s not like they’re being sarcastic. She literally said she hates when people say her and her husband are like siblings and then they went on to say they look like siblings, that just shows this isn’t just them making comedy it’s them being inconsiderate and mocking.
Awwwe I feel her. I'm 21 and people think I'm 12. To the point before work I went to the gas station and got stopped by a cop and asked for my id cus he thought I was skipping school
Kayla Pratley girl same!!! im so tired of it
poor girl.😟😔. skipping school😂😂😂
Cops stop you when they suspect you're missing school !? Whaaat ahaha
2:35 i felt uncomfortable for her, it was some sort of an insult too
einah srb yeah I don't see more people talking about this, it was so rude, like she doesn't already get criticized for looking young then he goes and does this, it was disappointing.
No it's not? Like, he didn't say anything wrong. This way of walking made her look much younger, she looked like a child. I'm insulting her too, it's just her gestures.
True. Worse part though was when Baek Jiyooung asked if she really gave birth to the baby. She used the form of “you” that is spoken only to children and talked in slang. Very condescending. She’s a good singer but she seems very low class.
My thoughts.. see her head down..
They didn't know they are shocked..
We live in such a judgmental society. oof.
I mean people doesn't know her age tho.. anyone can be mistaken by how she look, even you unless you got to know about her.
totally the opposite, people thought my sister is my wife, when i was just 18 and my sister is 28....
김준우 omg, people thought my family as all siblings, my mom and dad look 16, and my brother and I look 14/15, so I can only imagine how bad that feels.
I totally relate with the girl cause I come from a very short family of "small" asians. *sigh* it's very frustrating because I'm so short compared to others and already fully grown. I still look like a child with a height of 147 cm. Sometimes it's just so sad cause everyone mistakes me for a 10 year old when I'm actually 20.
People thought my brother was our mom’s boyfriend
Anri Sonohara sameeee
**choked on my own spit**
ohmygod while me here 16 and looks like 46yrs old -_-
Crystal meth will do that to you.
Same girl same
LOL
Han Kim oof, i do know if i should laugh or cry 😭💀
same :(
people also mistook me as my dad's wife. ITS HURTING ME LIKE HELL :'((( because im too tall and big 😑
people thought i'm my dad's wife because he's white and i'm mixed (asian but look kinda latina). i'm not even tall and i look 20-25yo and he is bald and looks about 55yo at least.
they basically thought he's got me through a catalogue or he's like my sugar daddy -_-
like dafuq you be insulting me (&my dad) a lot!
Creedence CR exactly like me babe. we had same concerned its hurting me :'((( i dont have confident to go out from house.
minyoongigeniusjjangjjangmanbbongbbong v some people mistook me as my brother's gf tho i am short with baby face and he is tall and mature
oh no that's not good :(
i just always make sure to like say "DAD" aloud in a store etc. don't let other people drag you down, you deserve to go outside and enjoy life just as much! 😊
like i just get annoyed at such people and i kinda have the attitude of: how superficial must these people be to think like that but especially how dumb and rude are they to actually act on it. you may have your own opinion but please treat others with respect. so to me they are -inferior people- people with inferior manners that should be pitied for their unreflected behaviour. 😉
minyoongigeniusjjangjjangmanbbongbbong v i feel you :''(( but in my case people mistook me as my mother's sister :(( it really upset me
이 분 무물보살에도 나왔던 분인데 다시 봐도 동안이다..
그땐 풀메로 나왔는데 여기엔 화장 안했네 그리고 초면에 반말하는 인간들이 문제
@@ซอกฮิยอนนํา ㅇㅈ........
She literally just looks like Woozi from Seventeen took his makeup off. 😂
BreClark1998 I was thinking the same.😂
YAAAAAAASSS !!!
GIRL SAME I CAN SEE WOOZI IN HER 😂😂🤟🏻
BreClark1998 had to see if anyone mentions Woozi
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*i am complete*
BreClark1998 I was thinking the same thing
such a cute baby,whoa his husban is so tall omg
*her husband
Whenever my mom and I are in public, people think we're cousins or siblings. I look really old and she looks young. I'm 16 and she's 40....
same here :>
same
I am 14 and she is 41
OMG I FEEL YOU. I lived in korea for a while and i felt like i looked so old. Whenever I called my older friends 언니 I got so self conscious because I knew I looked older...
I'm 15 and my mom is 35.My teachers didn't believe that she is my mom and she had to show her ID card -.- Most awkward day in my life
Youngja must be so happy caring for the baby she’s so motherly
Many korean people are rude they never apologised when they doing wrong to other poeple.. 😑
Putri Aqilah Moslimin Asians in general
Not only korean i think i met many people like that also in my place, ew.
Caelem Vaellerek in general? When people bump into me they look at ME rudely and expect an apology
*cough* sas asmr, ne lets eat, veronica wang *cough*
That's true. Some koreans are so rude and cold
Was anyone gonna tell her her lip was bleeding????
Ikr it bother me so much
Nah it’s not bleeding it’s because of the herpes virus
@@binniyee is this virus also a reason of her short height?
mehek laskar it has nothing to do with the height. The height may be generical and in Korea most of the girls are short.
mehek laskar if everyone with a cold sore was short, 98% of the adult population would be dwarfs
when I was 12 a lady thought I was in college hahahaha ._.
lmao me too
I relate
it happens to me all the time at the airport 😂
Omg, same! I was in the park and an elderly man asked me which college I was going into, eventhough I was only 12 at the time.
Sameeee
well she is going to age gracefully when she gets older. i'd say looking young is better than the opposite :)
I have the opposite problem... When I walk with my dad, people often think I'm his wife.. So frustrating at times to have to explain, I'm his daughter
is your dad young
HAHA ehm similar thing happened me too. i was Walking with my dad and some older man was like congrating my dad for having such a ''Young and Beautiful Life partner'' .. he said that to my dad and said i was so pretty and Young and so fresh (by fresh he reffered to me being Young and dad to be alot older. ) this man thought i was one of those younger girls at their 20's marrying some older rich man at his 50's or 60's. fucking shiet. i am 19 but i ain't nobody's wife. my dad got angry too. such an uncomfortable situation.
Annie Morin Um is 46 young? Lol anyway... He's Asian so its hard to tell. He looks like he's in his early thirties... My dad actually found the situation funny coz he was like " hahaha you look old"
No One Lol that must be weird.…. My dad usually takes everything lightly so he would have just laughed
Lily Miura haha
My grandma was just like that shes never gotten passed 4'11" and looked like a teen until she was almost 40. Couple that with the fact that she was young when she married my grandpa and had kids, and the fact he aged quickly and got to 6'4" meant they had the cops called on them several times about middle aged man with a pregnant preteen. The spent a good chunk of their marriage not even being able to hold hands in public or call eachother by anything other than their first names.
These Korean aunties need to mind their own business, omg😐 so annoying, I swear 🙄 & her friend is such a good friend, I would love a friend like her. DAEBAK👍❤
She's sooo cute and mature even with that tone. Wishing she had a good life ahead ✨
I have the opposite problem, I'm only 17 but people often think I'm in my mid-twenties :( It seems I won't be able to cling onto my youthful looks for long .-.
I'm only 15 yet those salespeople outside thinks I'm old enough to sign up for their credit card
Same. They don’t even check my ID and let me purchase alcohol. 🤷🏻♀️
Same
How tragic
lol update I'm now 21 and I look much younger than I used to 😂 not sure what happened there but everyone thinks i'm 16 now
She looks 16. She's lucky to have such a good friend. :-)
I hope that she gets the peace she so deserves
❤
4:20 “He looks young too!!”
That was hilarious 😂