Who Should You Marry ? Thai Girls VS Philippines Girls Thailand 🇹🇭 🇵🇭
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Who Should You Marry? Thai Girls VS Philippines Girls. The question i get asked by far the most on this channel is where to find a good girl and which country is better to find a genuine girl Philippines or Thailand so today on coffee talk we briefly discuss this topic
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Thank's for the Shotout Tom, Don. California. U.S.A.. 1-13-2024.
I landed in Bangkok on Monday and I have been here for six days now. I have gone on a date with one Thai girl. I also went to the Philippines in the past year ago and I have found that your comparisons between the Thai and Filipina women is 100% accurate. I will be hopping on a plane tomorrow to the Philippines. I have seen enough of Thailand.
Someone lose their money with that thai
LOL after 6 days you've seen enough of Thailand? Sure Gary
@@giannilyanicks1718 No. Lol! I am not into bar girls. I was just too difficult to communicate since most of the people I met did not speak English and I did not speak Thai.
@@lolnoyou666 I felt alone and isolated because of the language barrier. I was surrounded by people but we couldn't carry on a conversation.
@@gary4451 only now you reply? what is that? leave me alone, the toxic pro-Filipino of bad faith!
Find wife educated Filipina, God Fearing, Family oriented, responsible and serious. Most Filipina girl is more really serious and good in relationship.
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Both countries for me very easy to meet attract young women. I never go to where expats are. Women are lovely in both. Filipinas are easier to meet and be all in for relationships, in general. Thai relationships are clearly more transactional. It’s always spoken what they want in terms of materialism. The Filipinas that I met it was never discussed. Cambodian women are more like Filipinas. Filipinas are better mates. They fight for relationships.
Very good observation and helpful tips Tom. Like you say there are good/bad people in both PI and Thailand, but in PI the language/communication is easier as they speak English just about every. That is a big plus in starting a relationship. Thank you for sharing and safe travels till the next video!
I would never speak bad about girls from either country, but I have a great deal more experience with Filipinas having been married to one18 years this year. We have a daughter 14 years old, and our relationship is still going on strong. A Filipina girl will not just walk away when things get tough, (like if you have a cultural difference of opinion on a subject). So since the subject is who should you "marry" I can only say that if you choose a Filipina you will be happy with your choice.
I brought my girl back to the US, we were married here. @johnfoley4023
I am in relationship with Filipino lady I have no complaints very lucky too have her
Great vid mate
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Tom.
# i agreed that we invest a lot on relationship or our marriage because we don't have divorce here in Philippines.
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@makingthemovebydarren9255 yes, but too expensive for us ordinary Filipinos, and we're not sure if it is granted at the end.
This is from the Philippines. If you want to marry a Filipina, you must also know her family. There is no ideal girl. Marriage means that a couple must journey to live together and grow together to become what God intends them to be. A successful marriage is when you allow God to be in your journey too. Allow Him to be part of your venture in life. He will guide you and provide for what you need as you try to struggle your way together...Mutual acceptance, respect, understanding, sacrifice,,,, when done with love, is the best that can happen in your life....
They won t live in together before married if they fear God.
BEAUTIFUL MSG, LET GOD TAKE CHARGE N SEE THE BEAUTY , IT WILL BE BALANCE N HARMONY THRU N THRU
This Sir is the best response yet. I 100 percent agree. As a side note, there is a website that is supposed to cater to that kind of lifestyle. In my experience, CF is full of scammers. I am starting my journey IRL as soon as I can. I will land in a city and tell the driver to take me to an island that no foreigner asks to go 🤣... in the north of course
That's why it's not a so good idea.
I think Thai and Filipino women have similar traits. Both can have those who are independent, likes to go out with friends and party and drink or just a homebody. So in that case you can actually pick any woman with the personality that you prefer. But the biggest difference I can aay is the communication line. If it's okay with you to have a hard time communicating with your partner then you can go with a Thai. Also, Filipina women are more loyal (mostly) because we are family oriented. So if you want a life-long realtionship without any language barrier, then a Filipina would be better. 👍
you are absolutely right!!
What do you get in a foreign guy that doesn’t have a goal in life .
Try meeting decent educated and financially independent women and see if you’ve got a chance for a relationship.
not really possible for 95 percent of westerners
Great video😊
When I'm in the mood for a carefree and enjoyable time without any serious commitments, I choose Thailand. On the other hand, when I'm ready to settle down and commit to a meaningful relationship with one woman, I find myself drawn back to the Philippines.
if i had a filipina gf, i'd take her to thailand to live with me there.
*many* filipina women prefer thailand too.
word, phillipines is really 3rd world, more comfortable in thailand. @@sillystuff6247
thailand the land of money while philippines is more chiller. but its people are creepy and disturbing too.
People of the same quality will be attracted to each other. No matter what nationality
Like if it became harder to have that meaningful relationship with a Thai , but nothing tell you it could be the same thing with a Filipino (i hate when others say Filipina i don't know it just make me want to become violent) , when they also seek money rather than love. Those generalizations gets old.
great video mate
You are 100% right,had relationships with both,if you want just fun take the Thai girl if you want someone to settle down with the Philippines girl she will love you so much” province girl”
Good stuff, Tom. Many thanks. That coffee place looks so good that I'm going out for some right now, lol. I gotta tell you, from where I'm sitting, the ladies from both countries look divinely beautiful.
Great video, I got the information I needed and will subscribe. Job well done!
Obviously depending who you meet the cultures are vastly different but i know that if you find the right filipina you have a better chance because of their culture and language makes it so much better.
Great video ❤
Thanks
Agree with you 😊
The best option is to find a Filipina in Thailand: you get the advantage of a Filipina without the hurdles of in-laws bothering you!
I’m biased since I’m a Filipino. I would prefer a Filipina when I retire I will move from Southern California to Makati since I have lots of relatives that live in Manila.
That's a nice hat mate!!! ❤
Thanks when you getting me another 😙
Its nice that you like to come in Philippines ♥️🙏
I visited the Philippines over the Christmas break I was shopping just gone through the till and I was waiting for my girlfriend to come through the till. As I was waiting this Filipino lady walked up to me saying hi sir how are you going. Are you with anyone I said yes I'm waiting for my girlfriend who is right over there she got very embarrassed and put her head down and walked away. My girlfriend seen it all happen there friendly in the Philippines 😊😊
She wanted your money
@@libatalklieb5793 Stop generalizing. Maybe she find him attractive and just want to have a sweet talk with him.
@@mamagne800 Stop being a dopey gullible fool.
I wanna see you..from start to finish.. Flirt with a girl you've never meant..ask her to go out for a date then get to know her ,like her past. things she likes..kinda like a low key interview style
I met my filipina here in the UK...we're both in our 50,s....its a great culture and filipinas take the relationship seriously.....filipinas are far nicer than English girls too.
Please don’t insult English girls sire all the women the same
I have children born and raised in San Francisco California USA she very nice . The reason Philippino women very to you beautiful they come from poor country poverty they want to leaves their to country, when met British man she want marry live in UK .
@@vannymills5148exactly true
@@vannymills5148 yes 50-50
people are arrogant when they speak of their filippinos family
Married to Cebuana (Filipina from Cebu) 25 years now. Visited Philippines at least once a year for four or more weeks but never lived in Philippines full time. I find what Tom shared to be spot on.
Tampo can be an issue in some cases and worth being aware of.
Thai girls are for short fun, Pinays are for long term. Simple is that. I have been with many from both countries.
Hi Tom ,, Ive never been to Thailand but Ive lived in Mindanao for 5 years and think you have summed up the girls in PH pretty accurate ,
Whatever one chooses and works for them is the best. :)
Marry A woman who love God and God Fearing. Not Materialistic. Family oriented. Stay away Carrier woman. 😍❤️😍🇵🇭🇺🇸🇵🇭🇺🇸🙏
I miss your videos with locals in the Philippines its lively
chinese and japanese girls i think are best their educated , hard working and respect you with true love rather than because of money
Yes i agree,
@@philmcleod111 Chinese girls love to gossip. And they are unhygienic. Covid develops in their home country because of these instances.
My thoughts exactly Koreans also. There's alot of them who are single and interested in dating foriegners.
😎 TOMMY THERE IS A LOT OF THiNGS TO DO IN CEBU 💯 AND I'M GLAD THAT YOU ARE BACK !!! I'VE HAD EXPERiENCE WiTH THAi WOMEN IN HAWAII FROM A GO~GO GiRL TO A DOCTOR AND I AM MARRiED TO A FiLiPiNA FROM SANTA CATALiNA NEGROS ORiENTAL PHiLiPPiNES 🇵🇭 I JUST SPENT 2 YEARS IN MACTAN NEWTOWN LAPU-LAPU CiTY, CEBU AND LOVED IT💛 ✨️FiLiPiNA'S FOR THE WiN ✨️🏆💎🙌🏻💪😉💯...
Nobody should ever look for a wife or girlfriend, just let it happen naturally. When the right person comes along you wont want to look for anyone else.
You know though he likes to joke alot too right 😂 ✌️👍
Couple of each
The best advice, the most reasonable comment here instead of always "flipinas da best"
Philippines win , simply none can compare
I dated a guy from usa for 4 years wasting my life... The cost of visa's and travel expences we agreed to not go ahead anymore., (I have got in-touch with a freind from 15 years ago and now we are doing the 💓xxxxxxx Hes from uk)
Maybe he is married 😅
@@glendacastillo6504 100% not as we've been to each others house 😋
James Abroad (Married to a Thai for a long time) has a YT channel. pretty good.
They live apart. He shares hotel bedrooms with his 20yo daughter.
@@trevorsmith7753 Not exactly true. It's a Duplex room in a hotel with a enclosed bedroom downstairs and two single beds above the lounge. Spatial awareness dude. Please go back and watch the video again.
It’s purely subjective ..it’s the language and religion that biggest factor for the Filipina. Looks are just a preference ..I think Toms experience would be different if he gave the vibe he’s serious..if that’s what he’s looking for. Most women want a good man period and if ya give the vibe off. ..that you are serious, they will invest in your relationship. I’ve had a little more experience lol ..and it’s just down to the individual..the one thing is that Asian women are family orientated.
I was set on Thailand before I discovered the Philippines on UA-cam. I'm now over a year in my relationship with a beautiful Filipina. I spent 10 weeks there over the summer and I am currently in the process of going back to live there. 😊
Nice 😊
It's a boring country compared to Thailand
@@myplace848Omg dont generalize...u maybe is not perfect!!!!
@@myplace848 it takes 2 to Tango!
@@myplace848 Uh-uh smell something fishy here. Maybe you're a mess, and someone dumped you in the Philippines. That's why. 😏😂
foolish to marry a foreigner in a foreign country, especially when you don't speak the native language.
you put yourself at a huge disadvantage in every way. better to just a have live-in girl friend.
you get a relationship with benefits while giving up nothing. your foreign partner (and their family & friends)
will treat you with more respect, knowing you can leave any time you want.
Choose thai if you dont want to spend your retirement money supporting your filipominas family. The average salary is double in thailand yet cost of living is almost equal. Also better livelihood in thailand overall and cleaner in bkk over manila. Filipinas are sweet though if u can find them under age 23 and not a single mom or obsessed with marriage.
Spot on
It depends which one meet your criteria, same in commons, similar interests, chemistry meets..etc
Spot on about Bangkokians having lots of options. It's like a revolving door and not just for them girls 😉Even from a platonic point of view - if you live in Bangkok and have lots of international friends, never a month will go by before you're invited to a catch-up dinner with someone who's passing through.
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Marry who ever fit’s your liking!
People of the same quality will be attracted to each other. No matter what nationality
I don't know that I believe you that a Thai woman will easily give up her man. I've seen some extremely possessive Thai women.
... and very dangerous with knives ...
I don't think you should marry anyone, I have lived in Bangkok for a decade and refuse to date one for more than 6 weeks tops... it is Thailand you don't need to bring sand to the beach
Most Pinay want love,mostThai girls are in business.....😊
My experiences.
What are age gap, Tom? Is that more of a filipina thing? What about in Thailand? Also, province vs. City in both places?
Everyone says the Philippines is family oriented, but where are all the Filipino dads in these families?? They take off. And there are lots of Filipino siblings and each has a different biological dad, or an unknown dad. Yeah the family is strong there in PH. But it’s the woman family members in survival mode taking care of each other after being abandoned by Filipino men.
Like saying that the Philippines is a dangerous country. Some haven’t been to PH but are exposed to foreign media biased news. These expats hear tales only of Filipina girls who are usually very liberated school dropouts bar girls and blame boyfriends for their failed relationships. Typical desperate moves a way to convince for expats’ empathy and attention. Unless an expat dig himself to the culture, that perception for him will be real.
Oy don't generalize. It's as if other race don't do that too.
Because when philippina gets pregnant they discard the man as he is not needed any more.
@@edisonuy7707most Phill.girls
Extended family!
The thing is, you just do what works for you. I'm glad I met a man who has the same values and thinking as me, and I am a filipino. My husband and I are both family oriented, love movies, board games, and tv series, walks, and stay at home with our kid who's fortunately like us as well. At the end of the day, no matter what country your partner is from, it is important that you have the same values and outlook in life.
good study. I agree and have similar experience.
YOUR CHOICES❤ YOUR EXPERIENCES HOW YOU PICK UP DONT COMPAIR LIFE IS NOT COMPARISON ITS HARD WORK PAY OFF WOMAN HAS DIAGNOSE BEHAVIOR PROBLEM SO BE AWARE OF IT ❤❤
Well i have babies with thai and pinay. The Philippines culture is more compatible with us then the thai culture besides that pinay are for me better looking in general. 😂 Then the fluency in English is another important factor. Btw Tom u had a good cebuana already so u should know hahaha
true already live and sleep with her😮
I think It's hard to find true love in Thailand than in the Philippines. If you're just for fun thai ladies is much great to hangout. But if your looking for love filipinas is better to recommended just don't find them in bars. But just still be mindful not all are genuine girls..
Low-quality men are also suitable for low-quality women. The world will attract them to find each other until they meet.😂
It is easy to find d true love in thailand but depend what are u looking for.Thai girl are not for fun for white guy.Not all the thai lady drink alcohol.This guy living in the city and date the city thai lady that why he can said that.
I have had a Thai girlfriend and a Filipina girlfriend. Both for more than 2 years at different times of my life. The Thai girl was very work oriented. She was trying to grow a business. Beautiful girl but I didn't fit into her lifestyle.
The Filipina was too laid back. I thought lazy was a better word. She was definitely clingy. Family was very important to her.
I pretty much agree with your characterization of each one.
The girl in the area that I fell in love with is from Cambodia. She would cook, clean, manage the home while I traveled. She took over which was great for me. She was a Buddhist which was a good experience.
Thanks for your vlogs. I really enjoy them.
Lazy and clingy
How are you Tom, from Philippines 🇵🇭
Maybe it will be hard to find a girl like MJ. Hoping that in the long run of your roaming ....you will find a girl like MJ.
Agree 💯
It's hard to find a decent woman nowadays...
@@rubymaealido7573decent,??live in and already sleep with a men /her bf before married.
Personal preference is what it comes down to..
100% filipino, much better
No!
they start to be overrated with thais
The one I married doesn’t drink alcohol or smoke likes tell me off over my health lol
Tom is on the money here ,I ve been to phillipines but not Thailand, one difference is the religious background .. ive dated both and pinay are most Catholic & Christian and thai girls are Buddhist. Both are great in their way 🎉
Why catholics AND Christians? Catholics are Christians mate.
None of them. Be single and enjoy life😊
😂
😂😊🎉
This is the way.
nice joke
Your still young let God works for that..
Watching from canada
I'll admit that I am a grumpy old man. Some guys enjoy children but I have no patience for them. I had two serious relationships with two Thai women. Both had kids and I was too selfish to put up with put up with their children. Both relationships failed. I also had no luck with the young beauties that I was greatly attracted to. I finally found an attractive woman who called her self an old maid at age 35. She had never been married and had no children. She told me that no Thai man would ever marry her because she had a mind of her own. Since I would never marry a jealous immature young woman that suited me. I finally talked her into going out with me and after 23 years of marriage we are still together.
I had very limited experience with Philopena women. I had to make a choice between the Philippines and Thailand where to retire. That was fairly easy for me because the Thailand infrastructure is generations ahead, that and I wasn't comfortable with natural disasters in the Philippines. While I lived in Southern California, a good place to go for Philopena women was San Diego when the fleet was out. The Philopena women were beautiful and liked to have a good time when their navy husbands were out to sea. That left me with a bad opinion of the women.
i agree with your generalizations, and I think you did a good job of pointing out that this is a generalization, at least for a white guy, lol.
I dated a Filipina on line for almost 2years ldr but it turned out it wasn’t ment to be 😢I’m date a Thai girl now for almost 18 months and she is beautiful 😍 and I’m coming to Thailand in march to meet her if it gos well I’ll marry her I love how kind and funny she is u till we meet I just hope she’s the same in person 🙏😀 great vid Tom 👌👌
what brain are thinking with?
I hope so for you but they do tend to change when you meet in person but good luck
Keep in mind dowry is still common in Thailand before your wedding day, it is a traditional practice that the groom have to pay or give money to the brides parents and it's like you're buying thier child to marry.. Good luck
@@grasiefaith1446yes, i've heard a few months ago that a Japanese man paid 3 million baht to marry his Thai girlfriend, and a European guy backed off after being asked by the Girlfriend's family for a 1 million baht dowry. 😢
Sounds crazy to me, bro. Not a relationship at all if only online. 2 years before and now 18 months...Never could do this. It sounds wrong to me. Learn how to speak to women in real life. Buy a plane ticket and approach women in those countries. Good luck with the Thai girl anywasy
After watching many videos. Id probably pick Cambodian lady but of course id have to actually be there. Take care buddy 😊✌️✌️
Speaking the same language is a huge difference and the culture comfort with Catholicism is a distinct difference as well. Hard to not have more in common with the western culture of the Philippines. > But each relationship is a unique situation and deserves space for it to be judged on their own separate merits ?
I always have girls on the Soi over here in BKK saying hello....but they always seem to want to give me a massage (and they speak some English: "Hello Massage")...LOL
😅
International language of love
@@RoamingHoganin philippines they. were more polite "Hello Sir" ... LOL
@@thekoshertourist pinoy will sleep with you for McDonalds and yet you sleep on their mothers graves
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Marry who you love lol😂
I’m a Filipina married to Australian.
Yes you are right Filipina are more clingy coz we care the one we love .we look after the guy the best that we can.
Have some western guy married Thai woman it seems Thai woman doesn’t care if their husband was cheating to them as long the guy’s responsibility is still given to them .
100% right on the money
I have a Thai wife
For last 3 years and we have a kid
And yes you are right
With thais
My wife is from the northern Thailand
And yes it’s true all thais love too party and drink
Filipino woman do as well but they love family life as well
Has a Filipino guy myself
I rather a Thailand girl
Not cause my wife is Thai
But Thai are not has hard work than Filipino
Like clingy etc
But Thailand woman have a bad attitude than Filipinos 😂
Definitely love a party
Why would any man want an alcoholic wife?
Stay single…..there’s always drama.
Different cultures and ways of thinking and having to deal with family …..it never ends.
It's going to come down to your personality and preference. Most Western men, especially from the USA, will do better with a filipina. Especially if they are older and stuck in their own ways. Someone mentioned Laos. That can be difficult as their dating culture is different from what most people are used to in the West. Seems to be way more traditional. I personally would prefer Cambodia for a variety of reasons. They seem to be very feminine in a ladylike way. Where as the Philippines the women will have more of a childish demeanor.
You have some point for bringing the word "childish". I agree to that, we acted like childish because of our "TAMPO" feelings..and we are shy also to express our emotions.
@JeanAriesM Since Filipinos tend to live together in large groups, it makes sense to some degree to use Tampo. It would be too much if multiple ppl are arguing/fighting in one confined space. I was more referring to the fact that they tend to have a simpler nature and can be naive to many things due to lack of exposure. which, in many ways, can be endearing. Filipinas will get excited for things that Western women take for granted. It makes them seem happier and more appreciative. Simplicity contains more beauty than complexity. However, I have seen quite a few western vloggers get annoyed at filipinas simplicity. They said they feel like they have to be their teacher, and that becomes frustrating to them. Those vloggers are usually older men. I was pointing it out so those older men can have an idea of what they are getting into. Personally, I like filipinas' happy and simple demeanor. They often times are funny as well. Many times, they can make you laugh, and they aren't even aware that they said or did something humorous.
Tom....with all due respect I'm thinking ur probably the last person to ask....🙈😅
😂 thanks
that was sarcasm
The answer is easy
Stay single :)
Why should it matter if she can speak English fluently? You should know Thai. After all, it is their country.
English is the official universal language, big difference everyone in this world should speak and understand some English, The English Language Runs the world Not French or German or Spanish. All traffic controllers and pilots all over the world communicate in English , When 2 Expats from different countries meet in Thailand what language do they use to communicate with each other???? That's correct ENGLISH !!!!!
Except you everybody does know that-
Good communication is a key to happy, long-lasting relationship.
@@MrORANGEMAN1966 but in Asia Chinese rule the world, Thai prefer east asian men, more. Thai are proud not to be a colony we prefer our language.
Roaming -how about ☘️ girls versus pinays or Thais?
Haha! No comparison. Ireland hasn't been Catholic since it went woke. And most young Irish girls are now from the middle east or Africa.
Are you.looking for a wife?
MJ was such a nice , beautiful girl.
Do you regret leaving her?
No regrets in life my friend
Correct clingy!!!
hehe korek the relationship and specially marriage last very long coz divorce is banned, but many marriages were saved bcoz of that .
I say don't get married
I don’t drink, I don’t smoke,
Why are soooo many single mums in the Philippines? Somehow not really family-oriented?Where is the father? Why is she alone with the child?? Don´t wanna judge but its quite irritating for me.
And in general, girls over there should care more abt not to get pregnat and protection. Had sex with different Pinays over there and every second one did not ask for a condom. I was the person in charge who wanted to use a condom....
Regarding Pinays are clingy: dated a young Pinay for some weeks and she was not clingy at all. She did partying and drinking a lot before we met. I had feelings for her. But she missed to give me clear signals to go further with her in a relationship. So I sadly stopped dating her. Just my experience. So I thinks she does not belong to the majority of Pinays.
To get a 8-10 in Thai you need coin -Pinays are much easier w limited funds!
I second this .
From my observations from what I seen in
Thailand and Philippines ..
cheap Charlie's can get an older woman or a bar girl .
"Higher milage older model"
But a beautiful, educated, respectable girl won't be impressed by a cheap Charlie on a toursit visa .
Where in the Philippines
A cheap charlie can get a better quality of woman on his torusit visa with his penny's in his pocket .
Neither. Why marry when the odds also heavily skewed against you
Yes this applies to all worldwide 🤣
Need to treat North East Thailand same as Laos ,, Isaan is essentially Laos
Issan are separate people remains of a very ancient culture which was there long before Thais-Lao came down from the north. Issan people live in that area between Laos-Thailand-Cambodia.
Lao people and pure Thai are light skin and look different than darker skin Issan.
why should we get married???????
Why asked? You should know which one to marry especially you already have experience with both cultures???
It was a question from a viewer. Diba?
Yes.
Many foreign men date both thai and filipina gfs.Whos the best?It depends on a mans preference.
In the thumbnail, he's looking at the Filipina... 🤔
I’m a thai woman, just get it 😅 Let me sharing my opinions ….Though Thai women ignored that don’t mean have much options but they mean valuable things 😊
And that
doesn’t mean not cared men but Thai women are not sure what you want in relationship …just my opinions 😅
To be honest
No matter who you select in terms of marriage wise Filipina or Thai they will both treat you with love & respect traditional style but if i were you I stay far from the modern women that you get from the US. They act more masculine trust me. Btw, Filipinas tend to speak better English and they’re better communicators. Just to throw that out there because you dont have a language barrier in the Philippines 🇵🇭
Haha ! you need to meet right lady ,married whit thai 7 y Married whit Philippinas 21 year ,still philippines .you need to find the red line between you .Philippines girls i think take care of the husband more also more like western .even if you poor or rice old or young .