Post 66 - Working with grief

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  • Опубліковано 17 січ 2025

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  • @yvettewilliamselliott8851
    @yvettewilliamselliott8851 13 днів тому

    I am so glad to hear this critique of the ‘5 stages of grief’ model - so damaging, and useless in helping to recognise and acknowledge what my actual feelings and emotions are. Thank so much for this vlog.

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  12 днів тому

      Yvette, it was amazing going back to the research. And clocking the separation between the data collection - and the data analysis!!!!!! The stages of grief were a strategy to codify the emotional movement of a human just informed of a terminal illness. Nothing to do with grief beyond that. And for the human just informed of the terminal illness - they codified the date set incorrectly (!!!). Thank you so much for sharing this time with me. A tough trilogy - that one... txxx

  • @mehtapcaglar
    @mehtapcaglar 2 місяці тому

    when you mentioned a living person becoming a body, it reminded me one of the best tv episodes in history related to death: buffy the vampire slayer’s “the body” 16x5. I highly recommend it everyone, even if you haven’t a clue about the show. thank you tara for this amazing series, much love ❤

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  2 місяці тому

      So well said, superstar. The amazing Dr Leanne McRae wrote a chapter of her thesis on the legendary Buffy. Amazing series. Amazing times ;) Biggest hug. txxx

  • @mingpang5171
    @mingpang5171 2 місяці тому

    I have watched each and everyone of your vlogs. They are so inspirational. Thank you so much, Tara. you are so inspirational and so competent.

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  2 місяці тому

      Ming you are so precious. Thank you so much for your time and friendship through all these years!!! txxx

  • @dougboothey4896
    @dougboothey4896 2 місяці тому

    Hi Tara. I found the ten tips in this Post quite revelationary, even though I studied loss and grief many years ago. When I did study this topic, Kubler-Ross was still being discussed even though it was apparent to anyone who gave it some thought it was a flawed concept. Cannot wait for next week's finale. cheers, doug

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks mate - it was a big research session for these three. That's why I thought - wow I'd better make it a trilogy. But I was fascinated reading the Kubler-Ross arc in the present literature. There is an acknowledgement of their profound data set. Amazing data sets. But the interpretations on those data sets? A problem. So it is a great way to teaching the importance of data analysis ... (!!!!). All my hopes to you :) txxx

  • @BB-pn2qv
    @BB-pn2qv 2 місяці тому

    This is a tough one. Thanks for approaching the topic.

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  2 місяці тому +1

      Good on you BB. It takes an entire workforce with care and compassion and respect to help these wonderful humans. Thank you for walking through it with me. txxx

  • @elizabethmagomba8157
    @elizabethmagomba8157 2 місяці тому

    Much love to you Tara❤

  • @jamndunk
    @jamndunk 2 місяці тому

    Thank you 😢

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  2 місяці тому +1

      Jamndunk - we've got you. You are so precious. Know that. Today and tomorrow. Biggest hug in the universe. txxx

    • @aditigupta3199
      @aditigupta3199 2 місяці тому

      Thank you Tara. Only recently I’ve come to realise that you were right when you said so many things can go wrong in three years.
      A lot of things have! I will power through this last year. Your vlogs are a gold mine! ❤

  • @pb11118
    @pb11118 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this. My grief is about a pet. So this helps

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  Місяць тому

      Hi PB - all my love and support to you. Keep walking with us - we've got you :) txxx

  • @liza-dp4zn
    @liza-dp4zn 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ l love you Tara 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @TaraBrabazonChannel
      @TaraBrabazonChannel  2 місяці тому +1

      Love you right back, Liza. Biggest hug :) txxx

    • @liza-dp4zn
      @liza-dp4zn 2 місяці тому

      @@TaraBrabazonChannel 🪷❤️🦋🙏